super vulnerable + emotional chit chat | weight gain, toddler speech delays, having a pre-teen etc.

a bit of a different video for us on a sunday.. cried the entire first half editing lol. I love yall!
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[@yourfashionhomegirl]

Once he gets around kids daily he will talk, I promise

[@Ammaa.llx_]

💯💯💯💯💯 but speech therapy is essential in my opinion

[@bubblez0920]

Yep, put him in pre school Aja…my son was like that but he’s not 2 yet and he’s already making a huge progress and it hasn’t even been a month of schooling. Hold your head up, he is going to talk so much you’ll tell him to be quiet lol

[@marianaecheverry298]

I agree. My son was 2 only saying one word. Started speech therapy for a few months. At the same time I put him in day care. Within a month or so he started speaking drastically. I think him being in day care helped more than the therapy.

[@MaryMac04]

I know you mean well by this statement, but that isn't the case for all kids. My daughter is almost 3 and is speech delayed and she is around kids. Whicu hasnt impacted or caused improvement of her speech. Speech therapy has helped some, but it truly does take time for some kids and isn't always solved by just putting them around others kids. Not being rude just sharing a personal experience

[@yourfashionhomegirl]

I understand Mary. Thank you for that perspective.

[@sytaylor6422]

Girl…..god is using you, because you and Enzo is going to come out on the other side! He’s going to begin to speak, just be patient, and pray….(I know that’s annoying to hear lol) you’re going to help so many mothers who are going through the same thing. 💕

[@KathrynBedell]

Happy Sunday Aja! I have a 16 month old and I've been getting worried about him not saying more words and sounds other than "dada" when I see babies so much younger saying so much more. I appreciate you sharing about Enzo because it's helping me become informed on possibly trying speech therapy. I'm also being pressured to start daycare, but since I'm home 24/7, I don't feel the need. We are all doing the best we can & your emotion shows how awesome of a mom you are. Sending you a big hug!

[@emmh5499]

Early childhood social worker here! I support early childhood programs in NY and there has been an uptick of Speech Delays,so you are not alone in your experience and I’m sure your video was comforting to another parent faced with a similar challenge. WE NEED more parents like you!!!! Continue to advocate for Enzo in your quest for answers that makes all the difference! In your work with speech therapist, you may have already explored Picture Exchange Communication System(PECS) but if not it is a helpful means to communicate for children who are speech delayed or non verbal.I pray for your continued strength through whatever comes next❤

[@teeerhodes]

not me sitting here at 12pm with my drink balling my eyes out because I understand everyyyy word. as a sahm/wfh mom with a speech delayed 2 year old, we are so hard on ourselves but it is hard and no one understands

[@breexy1]

Hang in there Aja. You are doing an amazing job. Claiming with certainty that Enzo will speak when he’s ready ❤ sending you both all the love

[@theeprepa9719]

Hey Aja, thank you for sharing this about Enzo. I have tons of experience with this with my kids. If there are no other delays then he just needs to be around more peers his age. Place him in daycare and continue speech therapy. I have a younger cousin who didn’t speak until she was 4yrs old, one day she just started talking ! his speech will come when he’s ready , don’t stress too much.

[@IAMKELLIECAMILLE]

Love the sofa chats!! Bring a friend for the next one!! I was eating crabs and crying😫😭 Next video we all need a good laugh!💗💗

[@ajanarie]

I got you girl!!!!

[@kyleshalindemere]

Hi Aja, when my daughter was 3 she wasn’t speaking and I blamed myself into a deep depression, she started speech school, I know exactly how you’re feeling and we are here for you ❤. My daughter is now almost 14 and is pissy as hell and always has something to say 🤣. We love you girl❤❤❤

[@ajajohnson6947]

As a first time mommy of a 3 y/o enrolling your baby into school is an essential part of their growth as a little person. Him being with you all day everyday isn’t stimulating him enough. He needs to be around his peers. Them speaking and being active will activate him.

[@reinepoaty6747]

Aww Aja 😢 hate to see you cry.

[@sarahjayne8640]

Its so hard not to compare you kids to others and so hard not to beat yourself up and blame yourself but you must know the fact you have gotten help for him you are doing everything you can. That shows in itself what an amazing mum you are ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@fullof_fancy5617]

Hi aja! I was a stay at home mom with a son with a speech delay as well. I know it’s scary but I put him in daycare full time at the age of 3 and it’s been up since lbs! He’s 6 now and you would never know it was a issue 💙

[@natashamcrumpler]

Aja I hate to see you cry because then I cry. I know what its like wanting an answer and no one has one. As a former daycare teacher I understand your concerns about putting Enzo in daycare. I taught a few kids with speech delays that absolutely flourished being around other kids and just a different environment. I'm sure you will do what is best for Enzo and I appreciate you sharing his journey. My son was a late talker as well and he just graduated from high school top 20%, AP and honors scholar and off to college in January. Enzo will be just fine I pray for your peace because I know it isn't easy. Harper is growing into such a beautiful young lady. You are such a good mom Aja give yourself grace. Love you, Enzo and Harper!

[@CedCareCo.]

Thank you for sharing this 🤍 my daughter was diagnosed with autism and she doesn’t talk much so I can absolutely understand how you’re feeling to a certain capacity. It really is so hard a lot of times in ways you'd have to experience it to know. you're doing everything you can to help him until he is ready to speak. 💕

[@mielbella1061]

Hi Aja I am a mother of two as well. I have a 1 year old son and my daughter is turning 3 at the end of this month. She is also having speech delays. I felt so guilty like it was my fault but it isn’t our fault. Our babies were sent here for us to guide them protect them and help them on this journey ❤ You are doing a great job. Shout out to you Aja. Keep it up!

[@aaliyvhali]

Being able to create his own sign language is so smart! Just off that along I think it would be really cool to teach him real sign so even once he starts talking (and he will) that’s a skill that he has under his bag so young!

[@soleiharb601]

I listened to this on my way back home from work and I will say this, please give yourself grace. You have done everything you could for your son and sometimes those things are out of our control but definitely consider putting him into a great school, even if he starts part time he will be exposed to so many great things! Try not to compare your child to other peoples kids, I know It’s easier said than done, but you’re doing an amazing job and your kids are so lucky to have you!

[@fullof_fancy5617]

I just think kids learn from other kids and there’s levels to daycares, don’t be afraid to explore them! There’s private daycares there’s ones with cameras and apps where you can watch your child, you can pop in whenever, they update you throughout the day with videos and pictures etc.

[@kristinagerth4203]

Hang in there my son didn’t start talking until he was 4 keep doing the speech therapy ❤ hugs mama

[@keepingupwithcam_]

You are not alone with the speech delay. TRULY as a parent still dealing with some “delays” I feel like my big boy (and all kids) are meant to go at God’s speed, not ours, nor society’s milestone expectations!!! No diagnosis, no spectrum placement. So harder to “say the issue”. But the more I sit with God on the topic, I just need to focus on HIM not comparing or expecting. He’s happy, healthy, thriving and just at a different speech than his age! Your vulnerability is soooo refreshing. My Mom Mom used to say “that boy has so much to say, and when he’s ready he’s gonna talk yalls ears off, just you wait”. And now, he absolutely does! Less words and sentences than another 5 year old but he’s made soooo much improvement. Your baby will too! ❤

[@brittanypichon]

I went through the same thing at 28 and had to relearn my body! Women hormones and bodies change so much its a never ending learning process. Your beautiful both ways!! Have followed you for years! Just continue to pour into yourself and you will always come out on top. 💕

[@Ada_B_]

My niece’s son also had a speech delay, we always thought something was wrong but after 3 he started speaking and is extremely smart, And that was with no therapy. As long as you keep your faith everything will work itself out ♥️ you’re a very strong and great mommy

[@TobyTV]

My son is 2 now and the more time goes by and the more appointments is the more I get nervous so I get it. I’m praying they wake up one day and just start chatting away 🙏🏾

[@shannonepaige]

Aja! You're doing an amazing job, you advocating and doing all the things really shows how great of a mother you are! I truly thank you for being vulnerable with us

[@fairleynify]

HEAVY on the “I just want a flat stomach” 🎊

[@lad9277]

First of all, thank you for your vulnerability. Soooooo many kids born within the last 6 years are experiencing speech delays. You’re a great mom! You did nothing wrong! And he will be okay. Praying for your strength! 🖤

[@JashaydeeAaliyah]

this kept popping up on my feed on yt and I finally got to watching. thanks so much for sharing and being vulnerable 🫶🏽🤍 we love you for it!

[@ajanarie]

Thank you! Love you! 🤍

[@Stepha443]

Ajaaaaa!!!! Babygirl you don’t owe us a THING in regard to your kids!! You are doing a great job and just continue to advocate for your son! He will come around!!! As a mom dealing with the same … it’s hard but you don’t need these internet trolls feeding any negativity towards you or your kids! Praying for you guys!!

[@kymmieg6110]

When Enzo starts talking he is going to be speaking some profound information. This is a part of his journey and Enzo is going to be great as he gets older. Harper is great, she is just blooming into a beauty queen and YOU Aja are doing great as well. I have a preteen too and to see him grow is amazing but his attitude is changing so much. It's unique to watch. Sending you much love from one mommy to another. Those tears needed to be released! 💗💗🫂🫂

[@kenzoffgrid]

As someone who has a 2 1/2 year old son in speech for mild speech delay i feel you girl. But speech therapy 3x a week has helped tremendously plus school! Enzo will be just fine babe! 🩵🩵

[@nea415]

We never know how much something affects us until we actually sit down and talk in depth about it. All I know is trouble don’t last always. Let’s give ourselves and each other grace. Love you boo 😘💕

[@XoCourtneyXo]

First, let me say this before anything…YOURE A GREAT MOM!!!! It’s clear as day. You coming on here to be so vulnerable to open up and share, we thank you. 🙏🏽 Being a mom is hard, but when something is wrong with our kids- we want to help as much as possible and do anything to help. Your tears are a testament of how great of a mom you are!!!! I may not have experience in this but I have a 19 year old son and a 16 year old daughter and they are sooooooo different. Different in many ways; looks, character, and even how they learn. So give it time and know if your son could talk- he would say “mommy, I love you and you’re doing a great job”. 👏🏽 ❤

[@michelesoares6016]

Hey Aja!! You're an amazing mother. Your kids are a reflection of that. No matter your weight, you're simply gorgeous. Thank you for sharing your life with us.

[@CARELIA16]

Girl I just had to take a pause cus you feelings about the speech delay are hitting 😫 as we get closer to him turning 3 I’m constantly living in fear of the unknown but I will say your videos has helped me so much in having faith that my son will not only talk but understand me. I see enzo in your videos and I’m blown away with how much he knows and how interactive he is with everyone around him

[@nikkieesmalls]

my son is 3 also and has a bit of speech delay ,and YES! I totally understand you because I used to feel the same way ,but the doctor also told me that each kid is unique in their own way so it's ok mama !! you'll see that when the time is right he will start talking and you will be like "hushhh for a bit" hehe stay positive ♥

[@SincerelyTijahnaeJ]

Aja you’re extremely strong for sharing your journey with the world and just being vulnerable. I’m sure this video has helped someone who also may be going through the same thing with their kids.. so thank you 🤍

[@ajanarie]

Thank you so much for the sweet words 🥰

[@michaelathompson9533]

Your vulnerability is so admirable. I have a 3 year-old son with a mild speech delay & I get it. You are a great mother & Enzo will be talking your ear off soon, don’t be so hard on yourself 🤍 God is in control always.

[@tiarraashley4568]

Believe us fellow moms …once he interacts with other kids daily he will start talking. Therapist are professionals yes ,but sometimes kids thrive with their peers. You will see the difference. Give yourself grace 🤍

[@BraveModesty]

I watched and cried with you - I also prayed for you and baby E! Thank you for trusting us and for letting out your feelings. Have peace- trust the Lord.

[@3bonyhehe]

I don’t even have kids and I’m balling my eyes out 😢you’re doing amazing ❤ sending you love !

[@curlscurls5439]

Wow such a tough video to watch 😭 we love you Aja! Watching you for so long we see Enzo’s progress. And you are so right! He understands absolutely everything you say. We see the interaction between you guys. You’re such a great mom. I know he will talk soon. You got this Zo ❤❤❤❤❤

[@shardaeswoope4192]

I love how REAL and how vulnerable you are. Thank you for sharing this part of your life.

[@Breezyanaaa_]

Daycare is worth a try. Be around other little people help them more than we know. Even if it’s part time 4hrs a day a few days a week. It may help your peace of mind knowing you’re exhausting all options. Thanks for being so vulnerable.

[@tnfleming88]

Aja, you are killing it as a mom and God's timing is everything. Thank you for your vulnerability. You got this!

[@val_0520]

Heyyyy girl I usually don't write buttttt daycare is the best thing for him. Maybe half day he will be talking I no time

[@val_0520]

My son did speech therapy but actually having him that setting will help.him. I cried all day and when I picked him up he would be playing .

[@IrisleidysM]

This is not true!

[@fullof_fancy5617]

@@IrisleidysM it was true for my son! He EXCELLED immediately. All kids are different 💙

[@CourtneyLaBree]

Man, nobody can ever prepare you for how hard motherhood truly is. Give yourself grace girl, you’re doing amazing! My experience with daycare was very much trial and error but once I found a facility I was comfortable with, I could tell the difference in my little one hitting his milestones.

[@kimllluna]

You’re an amazing mama! We can all see it and SO CAN GOD. Thank you for being so open you’re strength is admirable ❤

[@Kamkyn2]

Aja, we applaud your vulnerability. I’m certain your story is helping someone in the process. Enzo will have a testimony and I can’t wait to hear it. His online village will continue praying for him and your little family as long as it takes.

[@sharifahmonet3638]

Y’all will be just fine EVERY human is different. When it’s time for him to speak he will

[@aadex215]

Praying for you all as you go through this rough time. I pray that things will get better and that you remember you’re doing everything you can and that’s more than enough ❤

[@denisedonshay9309]

It's ok to cry mama! I'm happy that you feel comfortable enough to vent to us. My son took a long time to speak as well, he was born at 7 months & passed every test there was, he eventually started speaking when he was ready. I'm praying for your sanity and your beautiful baby boy as well.

[@ashleycarr8190]

Awww Aja! I really love you girl. I’m a little older than you (33) and you know you are very beautiful and special. Your baby will be just fine. My best friends baby is the same age and my little cousin too snd having snd had the same things and it takes time. You are such an amazing mother and you will look back on this and be like I was worried for nothing! ❤ love you ❤❤❤

[@MissyLenaee]

Your a great MOTHER! Like literally I watch you & I’m like yooo she’s amazing. Enzo is super smart and he’s gonna be okay I promise.

[@trindingtopic]

It’s me pausing the video to run to target & the liquor store to make that drink 😭

[@NiJaMonae]

Oh love I’m praying for you and Enzo! I know how hard it is. My daughter is 8 and was diagnosed with autism at 6 when every doctor/ school administrator told us she wasn’t neurodivergent. We kept on it and got answers so I know how defeating it can be. That may not be his story but I trust and believe that he will talk and thrive in life! God bless!

[@Ariana-yv2cg]

Mama, I wish I could hug you! No words can take away your heartache but you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers ❤

[@bossselini]

I've watched a good amount of your vlogs and I can tell that you're genuinely a great mom. I know seeing someone we love face challenges is hard, but try not to beat yourself up or think you're falling short. This is Enzo's journey and you're doing amazing supporting it and loving him thru!

[@LeaKianaXO]

You are a Great Mom!! I use to question what I was doing wrong because my son was not talking at the age of three. He would say words but not really forming sentences. . I was a first time mom comparing my kid to the other kids (something you should never do). Enzo will eventually start talking and you won’t be able to make him be quiet. Keep being strong and continue working with him.

[@vanessaruiz5052]

We love you girl! May God continue to guide you with His glory, unconditional love, and healing. This will all pass! Praying for you and the babies

[@cydneycydney]

Aww Aja I hate to see you cry! You and Zo got this! He’s so smart and it is shows don’t beat yourself up! ❤ we’re rooting for our internet nephew

[@spiritualjawn]

I’m over here crying with you. God got you boo, It will happen soon. Sending you love & prayers ❤️❤️🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@ldixon492]

We luv you for this friend. So honest, so real, so transparent and we luv the real Aja we get. Praying for all is well for you and kiddos. ❤

[@ceezthemua]

Love when you tell us your business lol but seriously it’s definitely comforting & inspirational. You’re my fav YT girly because you’re the most down to earth

[@heyniq]

I love the way you talk about your kids 🫶🏽

[@sabrittaditumona4523]

My son started speaking a little at the age of 3 when he started private pre-school. Him going to a small school helped because he wanted to interact with other kids. He was comfortable with not speaking because i could understand and stand him. He still is behind on his speech and muble, but his vocabulary has improved. Its Hard but you will get through this.

[@MisssTaylorrr]

Your vulnerability is your super power Aja! Thank you for sharing personal things with your audience. It’s definitely easy to always show the “good” things! ✨

[@IAMKELLIECAMILLE]

Aja!! 🤍✨ You have no idea how relatable this conversation is!😪 I could type “talk” your head off about everything you are saying. We love you, Enzo and Harper!! I always say this is our first time at life, we had no idea how to do this! We are learning as we go and we can only do the best we can!💗🩵✨✨

[@ambur.cashmere]

You are not alone, my daughter had a speech delay and passed all test with flying colors and finally she was diagnosed with mild level 1 autism and it’s been so up and down emotionally for me but I prayed about it and now I feel a sense of relief.

[@ajanarie]

I'm happy you have answers and relief! Praying for you Guys and sending my love 🥰

[@MadisonSkyeTv]

aja is literally my inspiration and i love you girl praying for you and your family and everything gonna work its way out ✨

[@nickimalae]

really enjoyed this vulnerable chitchat Aja ✨ so sorry to hear about baby Enzo, but know that things take time. Sometimes longer than we would like but you’re doing a great job mama, never question that ❤️

[@ashleymcmillian1551]

I admire your honesty. As a mom of a child who had a speech delay and then issues with pronouncing once she did speak, it's hard to see other children the same age flourishing. My daughter actually ended up needing a surgery to help her, but I will say be encouraged. In God's timing.

[@EricaSymone]

Aja!!!! seeing you cry really broke my heartttttt omg!!!!! you are such an amazing mom and honestly I think once Enzo gets in school you'll start seeing a difference but as a mom of 4 and a autism mom, I would recommend making an appointment with a developmental pediatrician ... when our regular doctor and speech therapist just weren't giving me the answers I needed, that's who did! you have so much love and support around you and you're doing the best you can💕

[@nylafienac]

*virtual hug* we love you and you are a phenomenal woman and as always you will overcome every obstacle that life throws at you 🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@MaryMac04]

Aja youre amazing, Enzo is amazing and Harper is amazing 🙏🏻i empathize as a momma with a child who is speech delayed as well. Its hard to watch other kids communicate verbally and not see your child do the same. But just continue to honor his form of communication until hes able to do it verbally. You are doing EVERYTHING right and I cant wait for you to be able to hear him tell you all about his day and how he's feeling etc. Hold your head up momma, his day is coming 🙏🏻❤️

[@MaryMac04]

Not sure if you've heard of heavy metal detoxing, but it may be something worth researching and trying

[@tonyafoster3770]

Missing you and the kiddos Aja. Praying for you and your beautiful children. You’re doing a great job raising your babies, keep up the great work.😘🤗🧡

[@summerlewis6416]

Hi Aja, You are one of my favorite KZbinrs because your content is so relatable. My son is 4, and although we aren't having trouble with speech, he's having a super hard time with regulating his emotions. I think that all kids have something that is super overwhelming for us as moms to deal with. All we can do is our best and it sounds like you are doing all the things. I know it's hard, but give yourself grace... you are doing amazing and so many of us admire you!

[@Jah238]

Loved this couch talk sooo much 🥹🥹🥹

[@cassandratorres1393]

Going through something similar with my nephew, age 1-5 he was walking fine but would trip a lot age 6 he’s now not able to walk at all and no one is able to tell us anything, so I get where you are coming from , we just continue to pray daily he’s able to gain strength in his legs again ❤

[@ajanarie]

I will pray for him as well. I hope your family gets answers soon 🤍🫶🏽

[@Rachellawren]

Sending you a big hug🤍🤍🤍 thank you for being so open and transparent.

[@lailahwilson7525]

Aja, you’re an amazing mom! Your love for your kids is so evident, and it’s truly heartwarming. This is just a part of the journey, and everything will fall into place. Keep pushing forward and continue being the wonderful mother you are! *Sending big hugs* love you tons! 💋 XOXO!

[@gwenny92]

Sending you lots of love and hugs. I’ve worked with kids for years and I’ve seen other kids and parents dealing with the same thing. You are a great mommy i think we can all vouch for that. You’re definitely doing all the things to give zo the help and support he needs. It’s hard but i know when he is ready he will start talking. Some kids take a little longer but he will be ok🤍

[@ajanarie]

Thank you so much for these sweet words 🥺

[@chicsocialitee]

Sending you so much love and peace. My son didn’t speak until 4.5. Girl it was so hard for me. I did everything but one day he fell and came in side crying “mama.” And it just grew from there now at 7 I can’t keep him quiet. I did NOT put him in school. So much so that I homeschooled him for kindergarten. It’s going to happen. Do it in your time. Your maternal instincts will tell you when. Stay encouraged. ❤

[@Dominique.Danielle]

You are such an amazing mom! I can just feel the love through the video.

[@ajanarie]

Thank you so much!

[@J.Rod.__]

Take it a day at a time and keep talking to him. You're doing everything you need to do already. My son turned 3 in Aug. He also understands about 90% of the things I'm talking about, says a few words here and there but still not talking not even close to as much as he should be. I try not to let it bother me but it really hits me when we're out in public and people stop to talk to him/ask him questions and they get no response. I just smile nervously and answer for him. Breaks my heart. They'll get there.

[@lovelylady3862]

Sending you so much love Mama! 💕 It can be so isolating when you’re dealing with something with your children because it feels like it’s all on you. If you’re open to it, finding a community of moms or other parents dealing with something similar may help! Whatever you’re comfortable with.

[@JulisaNicole]

Awww, girl! Thank you for sharing and being open and transparent ! You’re doing great, we love you Harp and Zo!

[@JulisaNicole]

Also, have you tried any of those detox baths possibly or even making sure his diet and products are clean no dyes, parabens, phthalates, etc. worth a shot. I was struggling with infertility/ miscarriages, I stopped using certain products in the house, food, and around my body and I’m expecting my first.

[@lolamaven3971]

You got this ❤ your kids are happy and healthy and that’s the most important thing

[@carlyjohnson894]

We love you Aja 🫶🏽 More home content, vlogs and real talk/girl talk! We love you girl 🩷

[@TheStilinski24]

Aja you got this ❤ also I’m not a mom but I was in daycare since I was 6 months because both my parents had to work. Vet them out and trust your instincts. I really loved my time going to daycare because I always was around kids my age. I’m sure this will help in some way. Sending love and blessings

[@sunnimalbrough2998]

Things that are out of our control are the hardest to come to terms with… I definitely understand how you feel.

[@sunnimalbrough2998]

Also Enzo seems like such a happy child, I think you are doing amazing!

[@Everythingkimmy]

You’re doing an amazing job as a parent. I work with students who are nonverbal and use an AAC device and students who prefer to sign. I have a few students who use the exact same sign that Enzo uses…basically they are using the hand as the iPad and the finger as them scrolling or pressing buttons on the iPad. There are tons of videos for signing on KZbin that we show our students daily and help us to communicate with them. Thank God there are ways our kiddos can communicate with us even if they are nonverbal. Praying for your peace knowing that no matter what verbal or nonverbal….Enzo has a voice! 💕

[@trinitamcnutt5822]

Giiirrrrllll…you are a wonderful mom and just like all the ladies on here have said God got y’all and it will work out better than you imagined. Keep praying God has got you covered!

[@Tara_Ashlee]

I understand how you feel! My son didn’t start to speak until he hit 4, it seemed like everything was a delay. I know exactly what you are going through. I have been there. Cry it out if need be, be patient and keep doing what you are doing for him! My son now is a thriving almost 7 year old and does not stop talking! You got this! ❤

[@aminah761]

Better days are coming 😊 ur doing a great job mom . I stop weighing myself just go by my clothes how they fit

[@eliannyjoaquin7612]

You’re doing amazing ❤️ only advice I would have since I work with two-year-olds, three-year-olds and four-year-olds and I witnessed several different delays, but I’ve witnessed a lot of them overcome it and I do believe it’s because they’re around so many kids their age and having therapy at hand it really encouraged them by the kids around them, maybe try for a little bit only for a couple hours a day.❤️

[@lifewithlova]

I was 187 a few months ago. I started intermittent fasting and working out and it changed my life. Down to 165 now!

[@AnikaC5245]

As it pertains to your struggle with Enzo’s speech, both my niece and nephew went through this, my nephew didn’t speak until 5 years old after my sister enrolled him in school. I know every kid is different but I think he’ll be alright. Oh and on the pre teen part , girl I’m the mom of two pre teen BOYS and oh it’s different. Ones so sweet he warms my heart and the other ( older), my word it’s a whole new world for me. He ain’t rude though just forever testing the waters.

[@TheNikka9091]

Enzo will come around! All the odds double after having kids so if one kid has it it’s more likely to happen to the next. You’ve done all you can as a mother and that speaks well on your parenting skills. Keep going sis☺️

[@kabrinaparrish7480]

You’ve got this and its ok to cry, Enzo will be ok!