Little boy uses homophobic slurs to attack his brother! | The Benton Family | FULL EPISODE

[@pianobendcg]

Wow the way the mother conducted herself at the dinner table was amazing. Shame on the father.

[@michelehemlokhexwhite4310]

Yeah, she stood up. Good for her.

[@misterwacky3186]

He was so childish.

[@shaniquawells4445]

​@@michelehemlokhexwhite4310A round of applause to the mother.❤❤❤❤👏👏👏👏

[@alcibabe68]

You can tell the dad wants them to be MEN strong and tough yep they have heard the homophobic slurs at home

[@hannahscott6604]

Toxic masculinity is strong. 😂 😢

[@futon2345]

He has serious issues

[@StrawvelJed]

from the START I knew it was the dads influence

[@noshm1092]

We can see on his face from start even though he tried to hide or mask it but face and expression showed he is toxic!

[@jacquelinehunt7794]

From dad .

[@claireturnbull7719]

My god,that man gets on my nerves, he's childish with the constant "I don't wanna talk to you",doesn't stop talking when his wife is talking and won't accept criticism 😡

[@hannahscott6604]

@@claireturnbull7719 rivers is the same way. Spitting image I spoke to him.

[@patsydelatiebudair5218]

Rude

[@Blazeplayzzzzzzzzzzzz]

@@hannahscott6604you didn’t talk to him

[@mysticseraph2213]

The mother is absolutely awesome. The father is an abusive homophobic brute. His attitude towards Jo at the table was childish, boorish, and so disrespectful; clearly he has little respect for women, either.

[@sammyjo6651]

Yeh but respect for being able to reign in his ego and back down.

[@Arete37]

He made good changes.

[@renewenn463]

Mom yelling and not teaching is Not an awesome mom. Terrible parenting. Both of them.

[@vincentciola5695]

@@renewenn463 but the mom was more willing

[@KaySpradley]

@@vincentciola5695 100%

[@Genevieve-ni5el]

That’s an abusive father/husband, and it radiates from him

[@StrawvelJed]

Exactly, noticed that from the start

[@whoohooles123]

Well you can certainly imagine why those poor little boys act up and get totally frustrated because both their parents are rude and nasty and almost scary

[@whoohooles123]

The mother is abusive too

[@Genevieve-ni5el]

@@whoohooles123 definitely enables and allows it in her home if she doesn’t take part.

[@SomeRandomFeline]

@@whoohooles123 she clearly is too, she's just less physical, it seems more like it's mental

[@miraaranel]

I always love that it's the "manly" men who throw temper tantrums like an infant.

[@D-M-J]

Right

[@absatwell8163]

That dad is so immature when things don’t go his way.

[@dannysstart2218]

because he's clearly been brought up the way his kids are now... his kids will end up like him with out jo

[@pheart2381]

He sounds Exactly like my Dad,who I have gone no contact with.

[@kellym4747]

Was. Didn’t you see some change?

[@maggiexizabel]

It broke my heart when Hunter was talking about divorce. Poor kid.

[@jasondozier5262]

Agreed 👍👍👍

[@becky1992]

Let’s hope he’s not going through the same thing now he’s a grown man!

[@hannahscott6604]

@@becky1992 rivers sure isn’t doing good…

[@redwolftrash]

@@hannahscott6604 oop...what happened?

[@adventureoflinkmk2]

Six months later i wanna know too ​@@redwolftrash

[@KaleighLance-lb6cz]

The thing I love about super nanny is the way she identifies the problem objectively and gives the parents simple yet useful instructions to better the family. So many families could benefit from super nanny’s advice!

[@rlowethewitch8417]

What I like too is that she actually talks to the kids. If I were an unruly child, my first thought would be "oh shitfuck, Supernanny! She's gonna make my parents strict and I won't be able to have fun, cause of rules, etc", and she completely subverts that; there's so many times where she talks to the kids and asks them what's wrong, you don't like how your parents treat you, it's unfair isn't it, that kind of thing. She wants the families to just get along like they're supposed to.

[@kon1402]

I actually find her methods outdated and harmful. Her naughty spot idea is an isolation/separation technique which usually makes things worse. I am not sure she understood the difference between punishment and discipline. And her judgmental preaching and lecturers are considered major roadblocks to self-change. She also liked to create unnecessary drama (drama sells well) by making unprofessional critical comments or gestures.

[@EllaMBV]

​@@kon1402 how is the naughty spot harmful? Are you saying it's a punishment instead of discipline?

[@kon1402]

@EllaMBV Yes, labelling, isolating, taking away privileges are all punishments, esp, when done with anger or other negative emotions. This way we're conditioning children to do things out of fear, gilt, or shame at the expense of trust and respect. Some kids quickly learn how to not get caught, whilst some become even more aggressive.

[@JJPrizeDistributionComittee]

Sometimes divorce is for the best.

[@Shahzaintessori]

No it’s not

[@hannahscott6604]

I think they’re still together

[@Gianna-12g-g12]

@@Shahzaintessoriyes it is

[@Stranger_things_girl764]

??????

[@Stranger_things_girl764]

​@Gianno its not na-cm9bi

[@cjheadbanger]

"It's offensive; it's morally not right!" You rock nanny!

[@pablosingman4304]

Wow, the mother is amazing. When she stood up against him in the table I screamed.

[@KaySpradley]

I really thought she was going to back down. But she stood her grown without personal attacks or taking Jo's side. She stuck to the facts, and admitted the things she's said in front of the children. He was obviously trying to deny that.

[@ingridakerblom7577]

When i was around 6 my parents would fight CONSTANTLY. Like screming, cutting the others clothes up, that bad.. I told in school that i was scared that they would divorce. So the nurse asked me if i wanted to speak with the therapist & i said yes.. so i was told she would come get me from class the next day. So i sat and waited the whole day but no one came. My mom had found out bout it, called the school & told them that they weren't going to divorce, so there was no need for me to talk to anyone. She decided that herself & she never talked to me about it in ny way & i really felt abandoned. The fighting & constant screaming just continued. Esp my dad & sister.. As soon as i was 18 left. Parents are insane if they think their fighting dosen't harm or affect their kids..

[@rosalindmacooh6910]

I understand completely

[@tinkerzero6pf]

I'm so sorry. God bless you!

[@Arete37]

I'm sorry you experienced that! How hurtful.

[@Kiara_Wrestler]

Disgusting. The school should have followed up on that and looked after you better. I'm so sorry ❤

[@cherylschantz9893]

The school has no right to send the child to a psychologist without parental consent.

[@faithcrisis2138]

This father obviously peaked in high school and now he's living his worst attributes through his poor children

[@samdivett]

The way the dad looked at the mom at the table after refusing to talk to Jo was downright TERRIFYING

[@EllaMBV]

He's acting like a 5 year old with the "i don't wanna talk" stuff, but man! That look! I can't imagine how that would've gone if Jo was not there

[@mattgerrish908]

Exactly what point did it happen in the video?

[@KathrynMcFarlane-hu5hy]

Children can be damaged by extreme weights. Their bones are still growing.

[@doloresryan3731]

At their ages that kind of exorcize is completely unnecessary and harmful.

[@kyleschwedt1341]

Not to mention it looks as though the dad isn't exactly prioritizing proper form when he has them lift weights

[@meliastockdale3059]

@@doloresryan3731you would say that

[@Outback69]

Its abusive

[@jdhh1801]

And making them do pull-ups on the thin doorframe, I can say from experience gripping that way is not good for finger/hand joints

[@MellissaNorman]

Kids hear everything lol

[@jeffreytipton6137]

Yea

[@hannahscott6604]

Oh goodness yes

[@AmyBratchford]

The husband is awful.

[@indrahx5905]

I'd call that toxic masculinity and much more. Awful.

[@sea4849]

Makes me wonder how the husband was raised.

[@pheart2381]

​@@sea4849thats precisely what I thought.

[@Mrsamaj14]

He is you can see that, however I will give it to him how he did try better

[@Shoujin1]

It’s obvious the dad is abusive and the slurs he probably calls them that because “They should be strong real MEN” those boys are definitely cutting him out of their lives the first opportunity they get

[@triciastewart5529]

Respect Jo. You are taking on the big issues and not backing down. You have really grown since the first series in the UK. Hats off to you girl!

[@desiderata7704]

I don't understand how it gets to this point. How are so many parents completely clueless about basic discipline and getting their kids to view them as authority figures as well as loving parents? The only attention the dad seems to be doing is literally training them to fight. They get awarded attention for fighting, so, they fight. 100% chance that the homophobic slur was learned from their father who is obsessed with them "being men."

[@dannysstart2218]

sometimes it takes someone outside to see whats inside the house

[@sr2291]

They think it's cute when they are babies.

[@mjducrow-yy2pd]

Shame on greg. I really respect the fact that the mother took in what joe had to say and then trying to get greg on board, and then you can really tell she really wanted her situation to change and that is priceless Well done Joe ❤

[@Romeo69796]

Dad is 100% abusive, misogynistic, homophobic etc. They definitly heard the slurs from home

[@zasha649]

It was nice to see how the boys were so much happier when they were actually connecting with their dad instead of rough housing all the time

[@Yxndev]

The title alone has already got me worried about what they hear at home 😢 Edit 3 weeks later: Ty I've never seen my own comment blow up over 1k ^^

[@stgrsa]

South Carolina...says it all

[@skontheroad]

LOL! They are SO South Carolina, lol! ​@@stgrsa

[@Happyland1971]

@stgrsa Me living in South Carolina: 👁👄👁

[@dianahussain5066]

With names like "Rivers" and "Hunter" you can tell what dad thinks of any sort of diversity

[@wmdkitty]

@@dianahussain5066 What, they got deer AND wolves in those woods, that's diverse!

[@wittevasseline4727]

The father had more worried about the word divorce being used then the literal slurs😂😭

[@dtschuor459]

I think it hit his shame reflex. He was afraid other people would see that and decide that he and wife might divorce…he was afraid of this being recorded and other people hearing it and believing it was true.

[@BlondiNativeAme3]

I notice they are polite to Jo and downright vicious to each other and their parents.

[@WARHAWKCOS]

Crazy That all these aired almost 20 years ago.. and the children we see in this video probably have children of there own.

[@matthewwelsh294]

More like 14 years ago for this episode

[@redwolftrash]

for the earlier episodes yes, but for later episodes it's only been around 10-14 years.

[@TheMrRingleader]

I really miss seeing Jo on tv. We need Supernanny now more than ever!

[@eggarts9562]

Jo always reminds me of nanny McPhee. When you need her but don’t want her she must stay, but when you want her but no longer need her then she has to go

[@adammilette3076]

Nanny McPhee. The Batman to Mary Poppins' Superman

[@bammer8447]

The father obviously is projecting his insecurities onto his boys. His narcissism is so apparent

[@shrimpybraincell8805]

No wonder rivers cant get his homework done, I wouldn't have either

[@yuu_yii]

I really wish I had super nanny growing up. I'm 15 now, and looking back I'd really like to be closer with my parents like I was when I was little. It sucks not having then know what they've done wrong and being unable to talk to them about it. Good on Joe for the work she has done helping all these family's. She is an incredible person and I wish her the best.

[@gloriabaumstimler2729]

yuu_yii, I am so grateful to super nanny, watching has absolutely helped me talk to my adult children and yes apologize for what I see now as things I could have done better. It has been the most healing actions I have experienced in our family. Thank goodness for Jo and my prayers of discernment being answered

[@victoriadelaney1123]

You’re only 15. There’s time to ‘fix’ it… Good luck. My mother was terrible. I’m 54 now & our relationship is pretty solid…❤

[@methanide8257]

Same 🙁

[@kaedin7617]

Hella respect for the mother in this situation.

[@gangstamum]

Im sorry, but i dont believe that this man has the emotional intelligence or the desire to drop his ego for any lasting length of time. Good luck with your family xx

[@curehead9877]

Divorce babe divorce

[@Emskieeeee]

I feel bad for the boys, they hear the arguments, the insults, the words, and 8yo should NOT know what divorce is😢

[@elihahahahah]

Ikr☹️

[@cherylschantz9893]

Over half of all 8 year olds live in a divorced household. Of course they know about it.

[@patricialee7919]

That father has been called out on his aggressive stinking attitude & behaviour HENCE why these boys are the way they are 😮

[@14kchang]

According to supernanny wikia, the parents are still legally married.

[@Vikingchad3317]

How?

[@14kchang]

@@Vikingchad3317 I don't have an answer for that.

[@wittevasseline4727]

@@14kchangwho does😭

[@Picachki]

They could be separated. My Aunt who’s an extreme Catholic doesn’t believe in divorce but is clearly hiding her separation from her husband from the family. It’s so obvious. They live in separate towns and split their things. Since this man has serious pride issues it wouldn’t shock me to hear it’s a similar situation.

[@sarahsam3603]

@@Vikingchad3317 🤣🤣🤣

[@jhciaane]

The dad is an horrible person you can see just by his eyes during their "talk" that if there was no cameras he would have jumped on her.

[@hunterprowsemrereviews9141]

That car the super nanny drives has to be the most British thing since tea and crumpets! 😅

[@natasastanojevic]

London taxi, newer model, not as iconic as classic Austin FX4 Fairway, but interesting car, nevertheless.

[@Lilibee_15]

The dad is the definition of toxic masculinity

[@snailofkale]

that kid saying he needs abs makes me sick

[@Sh12pen]

Yeah, kids younger than teenage lifting weights actually causes developmental issues for their bodies because their bones and whatnot are not supposed to be under such stress, and can cause stunted height growth

[@isnaininurwahyuni8272]

Seems like Jo needs to discipline the parents rather than the children

[@marie-andreec5164]

That man behaves like a 5 year old. It's no surprise his family is falling apart.

[@Tw1x_C4ndi3]

The fact he said “chicks loves six packs 😘”

[@akirrro]

i got so weirded out by that

[@LolaThewlis]

​@akirrro probably got told that by his 'dad' toxic masculinity 😡

[@Palestinian_Weeb_Punchout]

Lmao 😭

[@Palestinian_Weeb_Punchout]

Timestamp 💀

[@Palestinian_Weeb_Punchout]

4:15

[@raychelmcbride8965]

I wish we could see where these kids are today

[@155chipmunkz]

Some kids on Supernanny are married parents and two of them came out as transgender.

[@janettefrederick3324]

At the table the look of the husband looks as if he could be abusive and like the wife is in for it.

[@random1974]

That dad is fragile, he can't handle hearing that his wife is unhappy. he wants his boys to be "MEN" he refuses to listen unless it benefits him. He is selfish and his wife deserves better, she is so beautiful and gorgeous and perfect and amazing and beautiful and pretty and he doesn't value her. I could treat her so much better ☹️

[@ccm971]

Huh? Yes, I agree she has physical beauty but she does nothing but scream at her boys. I didn’t see any affection. Heartbreaking, really. Not perfect or even close.

[@Failary]

Maybe divorce isn’t a bad idea

[@tarashlynka5837]

I was called the G word myself since high school. And I quite agree that the G word name calling really needs to stop right now everywhere too.

[@beccacullison2273]

Yupp😅

[@daleboyd695]

@@beccacullison2273hi 😅😅😅

[@EllaMBV]

Uh what is the "G word"? I can't think of any derogatory terms that start with G...

[@gabinathan5499]

HUNTER TOLD JO WHAT HE FELT.GREG IS MAD THAT HUNTER TOLDLJO WHAT HE FELT NOT HIM/ HIS WIFE.

[@wmdkitty]

And Greg probably wondered why Hunter never told him anything. (Gee, I wonder why? Would you want to talk to him?)

[@TheBasedCanadian]

Stop yelling

[@yizerd]

Stop yelling\

[@caleb1855]

bro does not want to talk unless he is talking over her.

[@ChiknNugy]

I feel bad when people put the blame on the kids and seriously villainize them. The kids learned it from their parents! And those two boys definitely learned the slurs and aggression from their dad.

[@L0CAL_MUTT]

I don’t think some parents understand that children are VERY observant. No wonder Hunter heard so much from his parents those are the two people he looks up to.

[@Eddeboi_Max]

I love how calm supernanny is when the parents talk to each other😅

[@ReignyCleary1]

ALLOW your children to make mistakes THAT is how they learn!!!!

[@Do_you_have_tea_tospill]

Supernanny I love you, been watching you for several years and cannot get tired of these everyday episodes.

[@miaautumnsworld2760]

Same❤

[@BabyAxolotl20]

fr!

[@NUMBERONERUIFAN]

So reallllllllllllll

[@anitastodolak9882]

She ROCKS SERIOUSLY! I LOVE JO! (SUPERNANNY)

[@glynisrobinson4927]

this mom heard about discipline and that’s all she gives like what happened to loving your children and teaching them correctly

[@evelynpadilla7321]

99% of the time, it's the parents

[@katywild4777]

What’s the next child’s name, Elk? Moose? deer?

[@katywild4777]

Right, Fisher. What’s after that???

[@TiffanyAllen1784]

It’s amazing Mister Manly Man agreed to use names that are used for girls and boys.

[@totallynotanalternate]

@@TiffanyAllen1784 PLEASE someone rename me River

[@FireFox0012]

1:47 that kid is not lifting that weight right and could hurt himself. the father pushes them, "i'm giving them that little extra edge" HUH??? that little boy probably heard the slur from his dad.

[@Ennis85]

"that little boy probably heard the slur from his dad." Why does that matter?

[@hannahroberson3014]

It’s never the kids lol😂😂, never. Kids always learn from somewhere

[@briarelyse5136]

I wonder what the parents upbringings were like 😬

[@elenajewel3]

It’s so unfortunate when people can’t/don’t deal with their own trauma before giving it to their kids.

[@Ccamero123]

This was one of the episodes where the kids weren’t that bad. The parents on the other hand were the tough ones to crack.

[@5142Katie]

Mum meeds therapy to deal with her own emotions. Dad needs therapy to deal with his vontrol issues. Those poor kids. I hope they grew up to be well rounded men

[@robertsimmons7556]

I feel like greg is not on the top of things acting like he wants everything done his way and his way only. 🤦‍♂

[@Razorcat1904]

Bro that husband has the weakest masculinity ive seen lol

[@AbbASongs1]

What got me was when the kid at the end said I'm really gonna miss Jo, but when she's gone she's gone, she's not meant to be here forever. I hope the dad followed through with the steps, people can change when they choose too.

[@cherylschantz9893]

I doubt it.

[@kateealer7]

What the parents NEED to do is take an Interpersonal Communication class. You learn about how you never win an argument by being louder than the other person. You sit calmly, listen, and take in what the other person is saying rather than raising your voice and egging the other person on to be more aggressive.

[@RYAN-rq9ns]

Husband is so deep in the closet

[@ReviveAndDrive-mk1]

Lol ,

[@Ennis85]

How so?

[@JEUndisputed]

Its disgusting that they're letting their kids lift weight and have 6 packs, kids shouldn't bebbodybuilding at that age

[@kimberlymartinez166]

The dad is too sensitive. The wife really wants to fix things and he doesn’t want to hear any of it. That’s how my last relationship ended. 17:31

[@sr2291]

Sensitive? More like bull-headed.

[@ccm971]

Not sensitive. Defensive and belligerent

[@kimberlymartinez166]

@@ccm971 yes thank you.

[@aemmre]

love it when people who say “don’t make me look bad” are the ones making themselves look bad all by themselves. no wonder the boys are causing chaos… the dad in particular is such an awful role model.

[@tyronestock379]

Good job Supernanny get the Family back to together again👏👏👏👏👏

[@rosalindmacooh6910]

I think we can see who the real problem is. No one is allowed to talk except him.

[@bkzone8]

Total marriage counselor... So many times I have seen it

[@parnianfatideh]

I feel so bad for the mom...

[@MarySmith-ym2ib]

She chose the man. She's not any better than he is.

[@Friction17]

Their still married I think. She clearly wants to be with him

[@alexsmith6347]

"Getting weight in here and running around the house helps us run faster." Really? No it doesn't. Your father is ignorant for making you believe that.

[@trenamccloud3213]

Hunter has no respect for women. His Dad has some work to do there.

[@LegoSnakeproductions]

Greg: I'm not talking to you😖🤐🫢😤

[@sssniperboofygoofy]

0:20 Lil bro said "gyatt" 😂😂💀

[@yizerd]

what the sigma! that guy really skibidi'd all over that level 10 gyatt!

[@sssniperboofygoofy]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@sssniperboofygoofy]

@@yizerd 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Orocole]

@@yizerdchildren alert🚨 immature content 🚨 kids that have fallen into the system 🚨 Yes im talking about you😜

[@daniviner1846]

this generation is finished

[@jlessien3826]

17:32 must be difficult for mom to deal with 3 children.

[@KkHearts_official_channel]

7:11 omg this is exactly what my parents did to teach me English and let me tell you I don’t know how to spell anything 💀😭

[@kellyd3712]

I never really learned how to spell either.

[@briellehuskey3530]

I have bad speech problems.........

[@LolaThewlis]

A-N-Y-T-H-I-N-G Anything

[@sr2291]

My mom taught me to read before I started school. Phonics.

[@Emilia-ki8hp]

these kids would have turned into "alpha males" if she wasn't here

[@iheartbillie]

honestly andrew r4p1st tate is probably Greg's role model now as an old man 💀

[@totallynotanalternate]

please go to school and get off the iPad.

[@SnowWhite-gr3mj]

I am 48 years now. My entire school years, from first to last grade, I came home from school, had lunch and had to do my homework right after. And no matter how long it took, playtime ALWAYSand without one single exeption startet, after all the homework was done. And that's the ONLY way, how to do it right. Kids are tired and exhausted after playing , fighting and running around all afternoon. And then aparents expect them to be concentrated on homework late in the afternoon or evening ??? And Supernanny never mentions that as an issue ??? COME ON !!!

[@yizerd]

who cares mate

[@jessi333xp]

the “neow” is taking me out 😭😭

[@marjetka01]

Poor kids. Those parents are toxic.

[@Chanelleblogs]

No the dad is toxic

[@ohhhh.lacyyy]

9:49 her necklace and earrings got me laughing

[@kevinvan516]

I love their southern accents 😅

[@julia.c.mcclure92]

The way the mom says the word “now” 😂

[@kygal]

They’re from the south. Everyone around here sounds that way. 😊

[@julia.c.mcclure92]

@@kygal I know, I’m from the south too lol I just think her accent is especially strong

[@zenphire]

Right I love her strong southern accent😂

[@SarahGracie]

Nahhyow

[@mykalaroselle6023]

18:30 straight up listening to respond instead of listening to UNDERSTAND. Crazy to think people this old don’t understand that at all.

[@amandarobbins2530]

These accents 😂 'ree-vers an honner'

[@beccacullison2273]

Yeh true😂

[@makenzierandolph2525]

I'm from the north georgia mtns and they accent compared to mine is unmatched

[@amandarobbins2530]

@@makenzierandolph2525 I'm Australian so their accents are just stereotypical and funny to me

[@z0333y]

I’m southern and even I don’t sound like that 😭

[@SarahGracie]

​@@z0333ythis is how deep Mississippi accents sound lmao my extended family sound like this

[@doritoslocostacosss]

That dad was absolutely horrible..

[@samthegr8official]

the age gap is crazy💀

[@truly_gaby]

Thats what I was thinking but I thought i was the problem for bringing that up bc no one else was talking about it LOL and I cant even said if they love each other then it fine 😅

[@coleengaynor4108]

I see how parents can cause their children to grow mentally unstable.

[@OliverKitkat]

Greg is childish

[@carriechristian9635]

That crap would never fly in my home. You don't have to be cruel to discipline.

[@ccm971]

If anyone isn’t sure what toxic masculinity is…

[@VeronicaAfton8]

1:14 NAHH WHAT HE DOIN WIH THAT BEAR🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨

[@whitneyunique2418]

😫😪

[@Charli-fk9dq]

💀💀💀

[@Charli-fk9dq]

you tell me😭😭

[@Charli-fk9dq]

you tell me😭😭

[@VeronicaAfton8]

😭😭😭😭😭