I think you've nailed part of it - the top has to take his time, ease into it, play with it with his fingers, massage it, but, the thing that made me embrace my bottoming is when a top used his tongue to loosen me up. That just sent me through the roof and I couldn't get him into me fast enough. Again, he took his time and didn't rush, even when I started begging him. By the time he entered me I was so mellow and so ready, it was truly amazing.
@wolfguardian83123 ай бұрын
yep, let yer boy have'ya 'n work his magic...Good sex isn't done in 10 minutes...
@matthowland17706 ай бұрын
I hope you get better with it. I think it's awesome that you care so much for your partner that you would give yourself to him in that way because you know he wants it and that he didn't just take it but instead showed his devotion to you and his gratefulness for your gift to him. It means so much that you, not having had good experiences with it in the past, chose to give that part of yourself to him. Now, myself, I'm a verse I have always been. I love to bottom and top. I would want someone who would freely give themselves to me in the same way. It upsets me to hear a guy scared or refusing his husband/partner any part of himself, expecting to be given what he is not willing to give. It bothers me so much more when it is because of A-holes who hurt them because they were too selfish to take the time to take proper care of their partner. My 1st time to bottom was mind-blowing. I was hooked, but I also loved the amazing feeling of top. All of my earliest experiences were early youth, and flip-flopping was amazing, and edging each other that way can't be beat.
@georgH6 ай бұрын
I'm vers and love it both ways, it's such a turn on for me either way, the intimacy, ahhhhh so good
@mrexcet6 ай бұрын
Don't know all the details on how the action was done, but a good advice is to sit on top of your partner. That way you have control of how deep and fast things are done. Practise it myself when bottoming for the first entering. That makes me having control of how fast things are going so I got time to adjust what's going in without pain.
@kurtski15216 ай бұрын
Verse is great...best of both worlds🥰😘...IT TAKES TIME...don't rush it.
@strafrag15 ай бұрын
Yep, my partner and I are both verse. We've been doing that 46 years. Cheers.
@petrusrossouw60184 ай бұрын
This was very cute and I like the idea that you guys were so open about the idea of role swapping. I am mostly a bottom, and find the ideal of topping not as exciting. Maybe just the wrong person. For me, I have no desire to stick things in places or to dominate another person. So unless I use something like viagra say, I can't stay hard to even perform as a top. As a bot, well the 1 few times even with a toy was slightly painful. You have to learn to relax and just let go. Since the guy you with you know and like, that is much easier to relax than with say a stranger. I am introverted, so I need to be with a person 1st for a little while to get to be used to him. Anyways, Just use your finger for starters, then 2, and press against the sides. Mentally it will feel like you need to poo. If you cleaned out properly, you will know, there is no such thing. And even cleaning out is a major routine to getting used to. Most tops dont get that whole idea. While cleaning out aka that 2 hrs for constantly sticking the douche up there, I use average dick size dildo, mainly to check if it is really clean down there, if I think I am ready. And you play a little with that. So really by the time he comes around to play, you are as open as it will get and he can just slide right in, if he even wanted, unless he is above average, for that require going slow, and it would be best for the bot to control that speed and pressure applied. Once in. leave it there for about a min without moving, just wait and get used to that feeling and mentally try to relax and then slowly start moving. As for anything above 8, well I don't have really much knowledge about that. I think that is a class of it's own. Just have run. It is amazing feeling.
@MarioLopez-ob5rv6 ай бұрын
Your the best story teller ❤😮😊
@philiphoffman47406 ай бұрын
Love the way you tell a story, keep it up
@georgH6 ай бұрын
Wait, is this a repost of last week's video?
@wolfguardian83126 ай бұрын
I considered myself as top until I met my now HB Cody....Our first time he took me down 'n made me his BF....shot me dead with his Cupids Arrow....From that time till now, 11 years later, I've always wanted to be his.....I like be'n bottom fer him, I love hav'n him love me the way he does, like the first time...I do get my time as top though
@michaelm56016 ай бұрын
Great blog, nice looking guy for sure but even more kind and a classy dude
@danielbrian49456 ай бұрын
Every guy can bottom.
@maxchodos72566 ай бұрын
Just close your eyes and think of the Queen.
@jackieraulerson20053 ай бұрын
😂
@franklinmarkram82846 ай бұрын
Aaw,.. our Tommy is getting older.😜😈🍑🍑 That’s is. That’s the advice. 😘 Keep at it, Tommy.
@MarioLopez-ob5rv6 ай бұрын
I always admire the way you dress up its tight ❤😂😮
@jmtz40546 ай бұрын
You need to try poppers
@scottholmes70696 ай бұрын
Glad to hear he is a lot to handle. Try Cowboy
@ts.elliot58706 ай бұрын
Too many labels Sir. Just do what feels right forget the labels.
@michaelm56016 ай бұрын
This only happened because you are a very good lover.. kind, considerate and generous… good for you. I haven’t been able to relax enough to get to the point of pleasure. One day
@johnpcomposer6 ай бұрын
. There are some people who mentally can't get past it because they don't have the desire....still I remember that even though I had the desire...it wasn't easy until I learned to relax and once my body developed muscle memory the desire and the sensations matched my expectations. Your tolerance level may have everything due to your desire and motivation...there also is for everybody a different threshold for what constitutes pain and what is pleasure and i think your line may be rather a sharp one....that being said, usually the longer you take it the easier it gets because you relax, if it's feeling more uncomfortable after time, it's because you haven't learned to relax those muscles and the insertion is just causing more resistance, which would get more painful over time. Let your abdominal muscles out so your stomach sticks out (don't try to suck your gut in; you're not making a porno) and concentrate on the feeling of pushing your sphincter out. This naturally relaxes the muscle. Try that and you may open up. Also, it doesn't take full insertion to stimulate the prostate (depending of course on the size of your partner), but a rapid, light, motion avoids cramping feelings and stimulates the prostate and then once that pleasure starts...fuhget about it.
@michaelm56016 ай бұрын
Just subscribed want to see you prosper for your contribution
@MarioLopez-ob5rv6 ай бұрын
I have a secret. Mine is so tight and my boyfriend said I'm a virgin...
@ericfreshcorn35906 ай бұрын
I,m a Single Strict Bottom from Ohio
@Warum_Nicht6 ай бұрын
You are verse??
@Dimi3746 ай бұрын
I want to move back home!!😢
@openminds87656 ай бұрын
Lighten up Mary and enjoy life - try new things and stop holding back.🍆🕳 Your brain and hange ups are in the way 🧠
@dubon99996 ай бұрын
A Gay man always supports another Gay man 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️
@dixiechatty9586 ай бұрын
We wanna know, we wanna know!!!
@FarwanAhmed-g9z3 ай бұрын
I think homosexuality will be in heaven 😲
@pipedreams16854 ай бұрын
Good for you!
@Alanik066 ай бұрын
I think this is the second time you have posted this video! kzbin.info/www/bejne/aYiadIKBaNF-qas&lc=UgynfidHOX-dtEHN-LR4AaABAg.A4t8Lty10_jA4t8ZSdCDNz
@johnbruce-el8ld6 ай бұрын
Get serious with the story and stop being so girly
@yossarian67996 ай бұрын
In 57 years, I've never quite figured out how much of the "girl" routine is real... and how much is contrived. I have the good taste to keep my "Inner June Cleaver" repressed...
@ViolentRainbow6 ай бұрын
Thank you! He says he's a top while sounding like the most bottom bottom.
@michaelz98926 ай бұрын
TMI
@FarwanAhmed-g9z3 ай бұрын
I'm a bottom gay. So I established myself as a girl among people. If there is a girlish attitude in the homosexuality of boys, absolute happiness is met. In the same way, if there is a boyish attitude in the homosexuality of girls, absolute happiness is met. As in the case of boys, so in the case of girls. I think homosexuality will be in heaven.🏞
@BiserbalkanskiАй бұрын
😂 I just got topped not to long ago and it was the most pleasurable experience ever. I'm a little guy 5'10 150-160 ish. but not a female thing about me. only during being topped 😂 6'6" black and really nice and soft spoken. he massaged my feet for the first hour . it took hours of him getting me ready but it ended with me wrapped around him and him just standing. he started by sitting at the foot of my bed with me in control of the entry and first 20 minutes. he then slowly rocked and as soon as the first " ohhhh yesss!" came out of me he calmly said " hold on buddy" and stood up and took total control 😂! he was a power top but so skilled that he knew when to really do it. I don't have girly hands with nails because I train hard and also do professional arm wrestling in the little guy weight classes . if I did his back would have been scratched up. he got what he wanted by being really nice and the foot massage was awesome. Lil rough butch boi or not i was screaming like a prom queen 😂! I wanna do it again