Your stress effecting your child: | Urdu | | Prof Dr Javed Iqbal |

Mothers emotionality effects on the training and grooming
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Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers panal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, short story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.
Govt of Punjab has recently assigned him the role of member, Punjab Health Policy Board.

[@SaraKhan-pm9pg]

I am a bad mother I will try to change my self for my daughter's best life thank you so much sir

[@UmerShahzad-i4o]

Mere sath b yehi problem h 😢

[@ammarashafiq3913]

Same 😢

[@nosheennawaz5244]

Apko smjh agei yehi brhi bat h dear wrna Kuch parents smjhty b nhi yrr 😢

[@adnanbasra1443]

Same problem is here 😢😢

[@akhtarinsha6898]

Same here😢

[@Parentingtips007]

Mery dil dymagh MN Jo BHI stress ho Jo bhi preshni ho MN Bhool kr blkl Khush ho k apny buchy k sth interact krti

[@quran786hadees]

میں آپ سب لوگوں کو قرآن پاک سننے کی دعوت دیتا ہوں۔ قبول کریں۔

[@ZohaibShabbir-f3l]

I accepted

[@hinarana8208]

I m also emotional ....just bcz of my law's behaviour.... now I try my best for my kids

[@cookandbake6710]

U should need to strong ur self

[@RomaAbdulvlogs]

Same case😢

[@naziachoudhary9832]

M sth bi same h

[@AnnoyedCalicoCat-nk5jo]

Same problem

[@hinafatima2298]

The more I watch these videos the more I feel regretful for being stressed thus passing on my anger and frustration on my kids but I believe there are certain external elements that affect a person's mental health, the only difference being that some can cope with them while others can't. I wish people stop suppressing others so this cycle of stress and anger comes to a halt.

[@khansab3220]

Next topic must be " Effect of angry Father on children"

[@sewpakewl3257]

👍

[@doctorinthemakinggg]

I believe mother has more power to distract a child brain. Psychologically. If mother is showing same anger then itan effect child. If she is cool then effect is cancelled to some extent

[@doctorinthemakinggg]

It's a psychological game. Child always gets assurity from mom. Even if dad has slapped him just say respect ful words instead of talking about topic. N if serious discussion n fault of kid then convey message in heated situation in a normal but fiem tone. Not shouting. Shouting is never a solution. It's a path to show do like me..follow me when u get anger

[@miniredhuggy4691]

@@doctorinthemakinggg ypur right

[@miniredhuggy4691]

@@doctorinthemakinggg ypur right

[@nads5499]

If a woman is performing her all duties household and bringing up her children and along all she suffers with her husband's stressful attitude... And this continues all the day... How she can help herself..do you think she is a human or an ironman

[@qurratulainkaleem7713]

Main samajh sakhti hun ye sab.

[@ayeshashujaat9101]

I understand

[@muskantabassum3705]

True,I can feel your emotions

[@htalha1]

Bachon per kisi sorat b chekhna sahi nahi simple

[@nads5499]

@@htalha1 bilkul theek bat hay... Bachay hi to hum se sab se ziada piar kertay hain. Indeed a woman should be strong because she is a mother a man can't bear a single pain how can hi deliver a baby... He can only criticize and disrespect his wife even when she is going in labor or going to deliver a baby and come back to house. When she needs love and care but she receives nothing but painful attitudes from most wise and strong creature of world..... Is he really owns this status? And when she is managing her household and children and her husband always gives her bad remarks and she faces every negative thing bravely.. Who owns the status of strong person?

[@sanafatima2300]

Such bilkul thak hai Allah pak maa bap ko saber da or bhot acha say ulad ko tarbiyat karay ameen sub bolo ameen

[@laiba8625]

This is so true Sir!! Thats the story of my house where everybody is in extreme anger always. My mom do job as a teacher. She always has stress that makes her angry. My grandfather was a very strict & serious person... So my Father turned out to be a very angry man. So stressing so disrupting. & now i got the point why I'm suffering from stress I'm Living in my own made pathetic story. I wish every parent of this nation know how they're inculcating frustrations, depression, Anger & sorrow in their children whom they love the most.

[@shahlamudassar2876]

Bachy your comment is indeed an eye opener for me and other parents may Allah guide us , parenthood is not easy. May Allah protect and guide every child of this ummah

[@arjumanshareeqa2888]

So true same here 😭

[@anu-lk1oc]

And the sad part is bachon py hm foran nafrmaan olaad ka label lga dety hain yh to dozagh main jaey ga maa baap ka nafrmaan hy....without knowing the fact that what they are going through bcz of our toxic behaviour....

[@husna7876]

I can understand you

[@somihaseeb890]

@@anu-lk1oc very true, i wish parents could realise all this 😓

[@sheikhali3999]

Dr sahb aap ki tareef or shukria k alfaz NAHI mery pas. Aap bohat Azeem insan Hain. Thanks

[@Anayat-ullah]

His brain is the most valuable brain in todays world !❤❤❤❤

[@arshadsyed6628]

Seriously?

[@mantobibi4852]

Yes also pretty male chauvinist brain

[@Anayat-ullah]

@@arshadsyed6628 surely.

[@pinkstar4501]

Aapka andaz e bayan.. Bht hi umda h.. Ma Sha ALLAH

[@qaserrauf83]

Thats me now i l try to set my life with my kids in Sha Allah

[@summergreen3591]

It is always wrong to blame a mother she is also a human being what if she get negativity from all corners how can she be postive? Father role is also equally important in raising children and giving postive vibes to his wife

[@mantobibi4852]

Correct , mostly desi house holds keep giving anxiety and stress to the mother by uselessly taunting her and putting all responsibility of parenting on woman’s shoulder , so stress and anger always travel from stronger to the weaker being , mother then def has to take her anger out on children so before u blame a mother or ask her to control herself check for if she has an un supportive husband or family

[@parveenmuqtadir249]

Yes I agree with you, I believe that husband's should respect and treat good to their wife then automatically children will learn how to be good to everyone. What children see than they learn

[@salwabatool1312]

V true

[@Fari106]

Yes. The mothers should not be blamed. The father plays an equal role in how he behaves in the house.

[@bushrazainulabdeenansari1613]

@@mantobibi4852 oioijj

[@CharactelyAmazing]

Prof Javed Iqbal.. A down to earth man with real wisdom in his lectures and we Pakistanis are proud of him...and are lucky to have him.. We must work with him to build a beautiful society. 😍 May Allah bless you and your family Aameen ya Rabalaalameen JazakAllah.

[@Thank-u-so-much-for-everything]

you also are amazing person...........

[@secrettoglow]

I feel so stressful, not always but sometimes I show anger on my kid that ‘s totally wrong. And I think every mother faces this situation. Your videos helped me alot, I’m a new mother & learning alot from your videos. Thanks sir 🙏🏻

[@pakistanimomvlogs.babydiar5083]

Same here .... I don't know how to control anger on time .... I feel really bad after shouting on my kids ...

[@ErumAsif-wu4qb]

Same here being a mother is not a easiest job...dosro ki waja se stress bacho par niklta hai sara

[@zahraabidi8525]

Same as koe hal bataya?

[@readandlearn897]

That's just me .... I feel so sorry that I treat my kids badly when in stress ... But I m most of the time screaming on them ... Your lectures help a lot

[@SERVETHEMORTAL]

And you are doctor by yourself

[@readandlearn897]

@@SERVETHEMORTAL may be that is also the reason I am always stressed 😫 ... No body wants to be this way ... I am consulting a psychologist as well

[@ratikakhurana4383]

@@SERVETHEMORTAL even doctors are human atleast she is brave to acknowledge and wants to improve....please don't be so judgemental be appreciative

[@drvictorious1387]

Yes we too are humans and handle so many things in professional life and then kidss irritate us so much.

[@afikhan4446]

Me also.....feeling v bad. So regret

[@syedataqvi8989]

Dr, please I request you to make some videos on mother’s who compare their own kids. Comparing their kids to friends, family,cousins in fact to their other siblings. And what is the role of not listening to ur child and prioritize other extended family. This topic is really imp and we the mothers should understand and learn about it. I would really appreciate and I am thankful someone is working on mother’s and parenting.. thank u so much Sir.

[@sulmanafzal5215]

Yes really need....

[@ashifakhan3018]

Really need this

[@Gulalaizain922]

Excatly ...this is vry comn prblm ....

[@qudsiafarhana5524]

Please give advice on the mothers like these...

[@eng.hussainali6974]

Perfect Analysis Sir and these r common nowadays ALLAH Hamy Asani Farma day Aameen Agree with U Sir 🙏

[@naheedtahir7600]

درست نشاندہی کی گئی. اس وقت بچوں کو محبت پیار عزت و اعتبار کی ضرورت ہے. شکریہ

[@abufarhan7394]

Belkol ghalat bath he ye Bach Cho ko control me rakna bwo khad za roory khe Islam me

[@LearnwithMariyam]

دعا ہے کہ اللہ ہمیں برداشت دے۔۔۔ وقت کے ساتھ میں نے اپنے آپ کو بہت کنڑول کیا ہے۔۔۔

[@nadiatauseef6716]

M ny bhi sister

[@Indian_BOYS-24K]

Mere khayal me ek ourat ko stress m pahuchane ka sabse bda zimmedar uska husband hota h ek ourat bhi chahti h k use bhi koi zehni tor par himmat de sab zimmedari uthane ki lekin nhi wo to khud biwi ko ek na thakne wali mulazima samaghta h

[@KhurramShahzad-nc6ln]

Right

[@mhummadalmeergamingmaster2607]

Bilkul asa hi ha jb husband nhi tawaja nhi data to bacho pe hum gusa niklate hain hum chahte hain ke humhain bhi attention ki zarurat hoti ha

[@Hineyyy123]

What a motivational speaker you’re uncle♥️

[@mahjabeensohail6170]

Sir kiya app se baat hóo sakti hai personally on one to one basics I need your help

[@afzalpasha875]

Sir guide us how to control our angry please let me know because I am suffering with the same problem

[@afzalpasha875]

Sir kya aap se baat hosakti hai

[@abanahmed9855]

jazakAllah for the beautiful guidance .. ALLAH PAK apki umer o sehet may brkt ata farmayn ameeenn

[@farahchoudhry9421]

Thank you sir . I am very impressed . God bless you. !

[@achibatain8]

قول ہے کہ " اگر والدین کی روک ٹھوک بھی ایک نعمت ہے اگر یہ نہ ہوتی تو اولاد جگہ،جگہ رسوا ہوتی نظر آتی"۔

[@WaqarKhan-el1qb]

Wo rok tok ko nahi manaa kr rahe, balki ghussa ho kar rok tok nahi karna chahiye.

[@mariamtee]

Rok Tok ghalat harkat par honi chahiye na kay apni nakaamiyon ka ghussa masoom bachon par nikalnay par

[@sabrinarani9955]

Really appreciate your video is fantastic and people should listen and act upon it. The only thing I didn’t understand why are you only giving examples of mother(she is very angry many times) Can not be a father. Mother and father are both play the equal parts in life of a child. Nowadays mother and father both work and try their best to give equal time to their children.

[@TheDrnabeela]

I was slso thinking same thing throughout this vedio. Sir only mother not doing all bad. You should also understand n think about it. If u want that we should listen you then lecture should be covering all aspects.

[@meenakamal7383]

Actually most of the time child is with mother thats why.

[@kamranaziz1741]

kkķ

[@Synoymous16]

Mother gets upset when they have to do everything alone and husband doesn't help

[@asmatnabi4126]

Agree

[@misbahhaseeb9240]

I think maa baap ka jo apas mi taluq hota ha or jo bounding hoti ha strong and peaceful relation hota ha wo sb se zyda bacho py positive effect krta ha .....

[@mariamtee]

Bilkul theek

[@zahid37_pk]

Your talk always leaves effects on our brains. I would request you to talk on cleanliness. Cleanliness of ourselves, our places where we exist or stay. where are we lacking and what are remedies, etc etc.

[@usamabutt59]

These topics are really really important sir particularly parenting

[@ayeshajabeen561]

U r such a great man In our houses This is routine work That we all does to our kids

[@ian-yaatdeol9294]

Father’s Anger is also Bone of Contention 😐

[@fauziakhan692]

Very true

[@khansab3220]

Sir you are right, in this video your main focus is on mother's behavior, but I know some fathers who have very bad behavior with his children and specially with his wife. They abuse their wives Infront of children, consequenceslly children adopt the Same behavior, even they started abusing their mother, because they think it's normal to abuse her, baba b to aese hi krty hain. Kindly please high light the father's behavior towards children and wife. Jazakallah

[@muhammadasif4719]

Ryt

[@nuzycom]

True

[@sabikanaqwi1622]

I m very agressive n angry person n i get this trait from my father..yes i admit tht its wrong n want to fix it but at the same time i m.helpless...so pls focus on both parents rathr thn ony maa

[@yusrah50274]

Both parents' behaviour is responsible .. abba ka ghussa or aggressive adamant nature amaa ko effect karti hai wohi phir amaa woh agy transfer kar deti hy bachon py qk amaa ka zda time bachon k sath gzrta hy . Bachon pr kher dono ka behaviour effect krta hy pr amma ka zda qk amma most of thetimes being housewives n caretakers of children zda time spend kri hti hain bachon ke sath. So both the parents need to work n control their behaviours n temperaments once they hv children of growing age so they raise mentally healthy n normal kids n not the other way around.

[@kanwalbutt2486]

Maa bap dono ka behave asar karta ha..

[@sameenayasir9093]

So motivational thank you sir i am newly mother this is so helpful for me

[@marihanoor3452]

Sir you are my motivation!

[@ajmalkhan8424]

Thank u Dr apny bht acha samjhaya INSHA ALLAH mai bhi apna ghussa ab control karogi or bachon ko nahi marungi jo ghussay k waqt ho jata hai,,

[@zemali18]

Sir I am expecting and it's my 9 month but after watching your videos it helped me a lot in finding a way to how to raise my upcoming baby but on the contrary my husband is not willing at all to give up his bad habits like he is always in tough moods and behaves so rude what should I do please help me in this regard. And I know there are so many other mothers also who are going through like me

[@AsaanZindagiwithBiyaKhan]

Same boat !!

[@usmanburki883]

Same case with me

[@usmanburki883]

My baby is 3 year old now n I can see that she is behaving like father

[@zemali18]

@@usmanburki883 that's what I am worrying about that I can change my behaving patterns for my baby for her upbringing but how can I change her father's attitude.

[@mantobibi4852]

One solution , just LEAVE , men wont change their behavior and would affect a child’s brain badly , this is why we have a bad society as everyone is busy sabotaging women’s emotions and needs and no body lectures men

[@zeeshani8026]

Despite all issues ...Dr sab ur aspect regarding handling of a mother is remarkable..

[@javeriazohaib9986]

Excellent. I’m trying to remove the bad habit of being in stressful state most of the times

[@AlviSultan]

Dr Sahib's videos are available to help and guide you on almost every topic.

[@faizaarsalan2197]

Esa lg rha hai jesy mery Dil ki awaz ap tk pohanch gaey or apny mery leye yh video bna d...... 1 week sy bs esy hi chal rha hai . Ajeb trhan ka stress hai Jo beti py nikal Jata hai . 3 salon may meny 1 bar b usko hath nhi lgaya hmesha Pyar sy smjhaya magar parso bs pta Nhi Kya ho gya bad mein bht Rona Aya k bchy to krty hi Hain esy meny qn mara usko . Apki yh video dkh k bhtttt hosla Mila mjhy. Shukria apka bht bht

[@asifaazmi3957]

Jazakallah khair dr sahab

[@SarimArslan-qe4do]

U r a great motivational speaker... i havebeen so agressive from past fewdays but i was feeling so helpless then i started watching ur videos.... thanku so much for these type of couselling for the mothers who are fighting with thousands of issues and burdens.... thought provoking words sir.

[@nazneensalman3712]

کاش کہ سسرال والوں کو یہ بات کوئی سمجا سکے. کہ بہو کو انسان سمجھیں. تاکہ وہ پرگننسی کے دوران غصہ نا کریں کیونکہ اس کے غصے کا بچے پر بہت برا اثر پڑتا ہے. ا

[@user-alfiyaaafreen]

Ruttt yrrrr😢

[@meeral13]

Agree

[@muskanrana6941]

Right

[@Guggo_Tara526]

Behn sahi kaha he ap ny... 😢

[@zainabafrin6248]

I agree wid u sir, as now I understand I'm very possessive about cleanliness that's y masha allah my 5 yr old son is alhamdulillah.

[@arshadsyed6628]

What is a ' possessiveness about cleanliness ' ?

[@afrasiab9819]

" agr suraj m daag ho ga tu roshni m b daag ho ga " O Allah ! Pls help me to become a stain free Sun for my kids specially .Ameen !

[@afikhan4446]

Ameen

[@waytoguidance]

Aameen !

[@AyatHomevilogs]

Ameen

[@ijazakhtar9100]

سر آپ کے کام سے بہت فائدہ ھو رھا ھے

[@ruhananoor9525]

I m Shahnawaz Mattoo from jammu and Kashmir...by profession a government teacher. My wife ( PG english;B.Ed.) s a house maker (housewife). When I watched this video I thought it worthwhile to share it with my wife. While sharing with her I told her that this clip is quite important for both of us for the healthy up bringing of our children (Huzaifa 9yr old son and Hurrain 5yr old daughter). While watching this clip she was sarcastically smiling at me then at the end she said; "Ye khud mard hain aur sirf auratoon ki hi ziyadah tanqeed kr rahe hain " Nahin achi tarh sun to loo donu ki baat kr rahe hain... Meri bhi aur ap ki bhi.... Mein ne jawaab diya.

[@naushadali4926]

Allah Aap Ke Umar Me Barqat De. Aur Aap Ki Batai Achi Baton Ko Rozana Ki Zindagi Me Amal Karna Aasan Kare.

[@GhaziAbdullahKhanIlmiMarkaz]

We, the school staff are implementing Doctor's sab suggestions to groom our students, May Allah bless his with more wisdom to benefit others

[@rafiyakhan3802]

Just saw your vedio and my heart felt happy and did my follow-up

[@QuranAWayToJannah51]

JazakAllah 😊 Its difficult but not impossible . Will try to implement in sha Allah

[@taheraanjum8477]

What if a parent doesn't want to change any of his sleeping,eating and talking patterns but expects wife to raise children properly. How to handle this?

[@ahmedmoiz983]

Yes please answer it

[@easycookingwithzara8068]

same question

[@Hk-ns8sr]

Yes plz make a video on this

[@MKhan-jv1hj]

P L

[@goldenwings5587]

Same question from me

[@muhammadatif7240]

کافی ساری ماؤں کو یہ سن کر غصہ آرہا ہے کہ آخر صرف ماؤں کے غصے کا ذکر کیوں؟ : ))

[@zainabshahzad7702]

Q k maa aur bachy ka sath 24 hour ka hai

[@SERVETHEMORTAL]

Kahin na kahin baap ka b ziker h zyada maa ka ziker h qk maa bachy se zyada time sepend krty h

[@abufarhan7394]

Dr sab pechle video me kikhte h ke nemaaz me b bach chu ko zoor na dallu ye Dat Islam ke khe law h

[@abufarhan7394]

Sorry Dr sab moje to ap hindo late h os bacha baaz

[@abufarhan7394]

And wala na Sal 😢 ko kha Raf karte h

[@sidrahalishan1342]

i wish k sir k is video py unlimited likes dy sakti very impresive video ...

[@Sirsaeedrajput]

Ya ALLAH har insan kamyab ho har insan ko Izat Sehat or Dolat barkatatain Ata farma Ameen

[@QadirBashir-ww6zq]

Ya you said right. Jazak Allah

[@sarfarozbano5669]

مری لله سے دعا ہے کی وہ ہر والدین کو سمجھ عطا کرے اور وہ اپنےبچوں سـے حسن سلوک کرے اور وہ بیٹا اور بیٹی میں فرق نہ کریں اس سے بچوں پر برا اثر پڑتاہے۔

[@onlinequranreading3391]

Love you sir if today, s teachers and parents get just like you we will keep our eyes down even if our teachers and parents kill us

[@fancyclothes...1994]

Next topic father pe bi karye sir please... Shayed Apki topic se kuch father apne bacchun se acche se pyeash aye... Inshallah...

[@theenlightenedone1283]

This is the best *Molvi* of Pakistan everrrr

[@hinasheraz]

Assalamalikum stay blessed and healthy 💐

[@worldrecipemomhyd1134]

Greatt lecture Yes sleeping pattern discipline routine nutrition All counts we are so fortunate blessed with Ramadan every year to remind us fast on time breakfast at time Every day pray on assigned times But But But We are still defiant Not paying Attention to get disciple Even now Allah SWT Guidence for our routine discipline so we can control on Nafs But But Hazrat Insaan us Humans is got A problem Allah make easy for us and family to become Disciplined organized and it will bless us our families with Afiyaa and happiness strong faith JazakAllah khair wasalams In sha Allah

[@simranfatima276]

Ameen summa Ameen

[@SAQification]

is there a lecture on how to beat our stresses so we can be calmer for our kids!?

[@javaidbaloch1442]

Sabr

[@fun_and_learn_the_positivity]

@@javaidbaloch1442 Hahaha

[@seemabarif6285]

Same question M. Very worried for it

[@anjumparvar2621]

Assalamu alaykum sir.. Aap ne bachcho ki tarbiyat ke maamle me jo guidence di hai.. Us se behtar guidence mujhe kisi se bhi nahi mili.. Aur is ke alawa shayad hi life ki koi problem hogi jiska solution aap ne nahi bataya ho.. Thank you so much.. I am your big fan sir...

[@AlviSultan]

Bilkul theek kaha aap ne, JazakAllah!

[@misbahhaseeb9240]

Mi sb parents se yhi kahn gi k ap apny bachy ko time dain quality time....bachy ko khana dy dia or nehla dia change krwa dis sula dia chup krwa dia ..homework krwa dia....and thats it......no its not....unko is se zyda apka unk sath relation chaiye hota ha .....sb kch side py rakh dain kch waqt bs bacho k lye ...na koi kaam na koi mobile....bs ap bacho se baten kren jo unki pasnd hain unk sath khailen jo unhn pasnd ha...unk sath laaadd kren....unki sunen.......positive response dain....unko apni tawajah or muhbat k lye mat tarsaen bs......

[@ErumAsif-wu4qb]

Kash k joint family system me yeh krna itna asan hota.. bht mushkil hai Zindagi chote bache k sath joint family system me reh kr

[@zainabsarfraz5442]

Ma Sirf ap sy itna hi kahoun gi JazakAllahu khaira . ALLAH swt ap ko ap ki khair khahi ka badla apni Shan k mutabq dy Ameen.

[@shamarayees1537]

Allah app ko acche sehat de.

[@ayeshanwaaz9518]

Ap bilkul sahi keh rahy hn dr sahb ,i agree with you ...mn bht achi trah smjhti hn is bat ko 😔😔😔

[@HappyMomentsHM]

دعا ہے کہ اللّہ ہر صحافی کو سچ بولنے ،سمجھنے اور کہنے کی توفیق دے (آمین) حضرت علی علیہ السّلام کا قول ہے۔۔۔۔۔ جھوٹ بول کر جیتنے سے بہتر ہے کہ بندہ سچ بول کر ہار جائے۔۔۔

[@sabanadeem4794]

Seriously we need to change ourselves and must make our life easy for our children . And ignore the bad things.

[@SeekArt7777]

I m mother of 4 n most of the time i burst out on my children .. i had some psychological problems before marriage but i try to control bus Allah paak help kren aameen

[@pathakakuri9003]

Aameen sumaameen

[@Manahilkiduniya98971]

Same here I m mother of 3 kids

[@deemamalik5138]

Same I shout at my son a lot and regret later 😭

[@worldrecipemomhyd1134]

We need to be TOLERANT towards our kids parents relatives even they are many times not at their good behavior But But Keep our anger in control forgive forget movd forward Not easy But But It will help eventually Trust in God Almighty Also Make pray 2 nafl to God Almighty to bless peace sukoon in our life it is v effective to pray It keeps harmony in relationships No one is perfect We all have faults more or less Best be Thankful for every breath new day All blessing SAYING I FOUND ON ONE CHURCH WHILE TRAVELING "COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS NOT YOUR PROBLEMS" BE THANKFUL TO ALMIGHTY GOD FOR EVERYTHING ALHUMDULILAH

[@samkubla5745]

Sometimes the stress is caused by the head of the family . Which has an adverse effect on the mother and the children . What does one do then ?

[@ahsanzamir340]

i agree

[@ramshazeeshan7276]

I do agree.. in our cilture baron ka bht pressure huta hy.. h7m ny esa kia tha wysa kia tha..

[@malikrizwan7201]

Ri8

[@sabasuleman165]

Before sleep make it a habit to think to be kind to your children. Everyday take your tongue under teeth and smile when you look at them.

[@samkubla5745]

@@sabasuleman165 this is not about the children . It’s about how the wife is treated by the husband .

[@AishaAhmed-dj5xv]

Men bta nahi sakti how much i appreciate this post

[@usmanburki883]

Whenever I told my husband about ur videos n conversation, that u must watch them bt he got angry n annoyed n refuse to watch... Then Dr. Saab kese un tk apki baatein ponchayen jayen wo to sunne KO e tiar nhi hotay Aur chahtay k bachi well groomed ho...

[@zunaraali702]

Exactly true

[@SERVETHEMORTAL]

It's extreme! Allah tala unhy shaoor Ata kray

[@yusrah50274]

5:26 to 5:59 👌👌👌 especially the instance to explain the point at 5:46 👌 💯

[@thehomestovebymimi2684]

💯 true. . Please make a video on the next phase. If parent shows extreme behaviour specifically (father to mother) how children alter their behaviour as young adults? As we are in a stages in which we have to move to matrimonial relationships. But now we face extreme stress that how we moved to that phase of life. We have trust issues. My question is now as a young adults how we can get over this stress and trust issues. We want our next life to be happy! And as girl i feel very much disheartened as I never watched a single male person in my family that show affection to his wife and now a days news in our surroundings also strengthening my negative image of men. Please help!

[@asiashafi2850]

Very fruitfull topics great sir..

[@user-xe8dc5nt9j]

Ya allah Hume bardas karne ki aadt bana aamin

[@mairamehmood648]

Big fan of you Sir !

[@Faisalwakeel]

Sir Please Guide me about symtoms of Anxiety and why its happen

[@sidrasaeed1447]

Sir ap life saver hain, please continue your work

[@Faisalwakeel]

Dopamine is best known for its role in the brain's reward system, which responds to everything from sex and food to addictive drugs. But dopamine also helps regulate emotional responses, memory and movement. And abnormal dopamine levels have been linked to disorders including Parkinson's, schizophrenia and autism.

[@asmanasar3653]

Which medicin should be given to cure it...?

[@burhanawan2738]

Great Baat thank you Sir 👍👍👍

[@learnmoretoearn24]

ہمیں صرف 9 سبسکرایئبر کی ضرورت ہے اس ویڈیو سے قرآن مجید کی تعلیم کے فروغ کے لیے

[@ayyatfatima3721]

Absolutely jazak ALLAH for your guideness

[@omamaomer3710]

اور اگر یہ سب ہو ہی چکا ہے تو پھر اب؟

[@MrTHKhan]

پھر دین کی طرف لے آئیں۔ اللہ کا خوف تقوا پیدا کر ے گا۔ اللہ کے دین میں طاقت اور برکت ھے۔

[@familyfuntv512]

Assalam o Alaikum ab ager aisa ho chuka hay to improve kese karen.

[@munnazaaisha1397]

Create good environment...slowly good effect will come

[@CanadaSpicesFoodAndVlog]

Thanks a lot! Your videos are always helpful 👏👏

[@samriniqbal8513]

Sir if a person is already effected due to extreme negative behavior of parents ,how he can be normal. How to deal with extreme negative parents,?????

[@MunazzaMudasser-iv2tu]

I'll try my best to change myself inshaAllah

[@omamaomer3710]

سر علاج بتائیے یہ ناسور بچے میں پل چکا ہو تو؟

[@germanyfamilytv]

Apni islah karny sy Bachy dykh k kud sikh jay gy inshaAllah

[@Shayankazmishayanali]

Agr yh sab bachy ma ho jy or bacha 9 year ka ho to

[@mohammadimran2721]

Bilkul sahi kaha hai ap nay chid mein confident khatam ho jata hai

[@aamnatabish134]

Absolutely 💯. But why are you forgetting that those "parents" that you are judging were once, also children themselves. They also "recorded" some normal patterns, chaahay woh matrimonial relations hon, ya siblings hon etc etc. This is a chain. Parents are part of the chain. They too, were once kids. It is very easy to ask them to just change. It is way more difficult for a person who is completely made, to change their behavior, their nature, their whole selves. Your words are correct, your advice isn't practical. Not entirely.

[@yusrah50274]

Once you become or planning to become parents, change urself for the betterment of ur children. Heal ur past traumas of any kind that u suffered. So that u dont pass them on to ur children n let the chain continue. Is se acha parents na bnnen bachy peda na kren unko b apny jesa abnormal psychology wala na bnayen. Pr is mulk me aesi soch hony m b 100 200 sal lgny hn.

[@aamnatabish134]

Iss soch ka talluq mulk say nahin, insaan say hai. Iss reality ka saamna unfortunately ussi waqt hota hai, jab parent bantay hain. Aur agar issi basis par parent banna hota, tou insaani nasl centuries pehlay hi khatam ho chuki hoti.

[@KSMKAF]

@@aamnatabish134 agreed 👍🏼

[@redmigo1283]

Thank you so much doctor sahab I am from Kashmir ham aapki baton per jarur Gaur karenge inshallah aur Sabra to hamen Allah ne pahle hi sikhaya hai inshallah jarur karenge thank u so Mach once again thank

[@gulvishsaleem8424]

Dear Professor What can be done with an adult who had an adverse affect of his mother in childhood? That person is not emotionally stable what should we do now? How can we guide him to overcome it? It will be kind enough of you if you could tell what to do now. Thank you

[@ayesha7766]

Can you please explain more , if I could answer

[@homegardenfarmandme7333]

Thanks alot

[@pseudoplastic84]

Sir this is indeed true, but families also must realize the erratic behavior of a mother around the days of her menstrual cycle, it's called PMS, or PMDD in severe form, where she feels triggered by the smallest issue and lashes out at her closed ones, there's anger, misery, depression, fatigue, tiredness, and she hardly has any control over these emotions .... I am a doctor and a mother, and have gone through this, and I urge all mothers to observe their behavior around the month, and consult a doctor if they notice conflicting behaviors

[@creativemind982]

apki baton se har maa ko pagta hai k wo bht buri or zalim maa hai 😢 kindly ek din aa k humare bachon ko sambhal k dekhein

[@AmirKhan-ki3kt]

If mother not be negative then a child not be negative

[@Sairamazhar-o5s]

Ek maa start sy hi bchon ko develop kry

[@sabr677]

If that has already affected someone....then how to deal with that and overcome from those thoughts ....how to control the emotion

[@MunazzaMudasser-iv2tu]

Bohat Shukria dr sb ...jazaakAllha kher