Strictness with kids: How much? |Parenting tip| |urdu|: |Prof Dr Javed Iqbal|

What is role of strictness in training our children. Some parenting principles:
#parenting #strictnesswithkids #raisingchildren
Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers penal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, shot story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.

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سلام جی اللہ پاک اپکو اپکی فیملی کو اچھی صحت کے ساتھ ہمیشہ سلامت رکھے آمین

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uffffff He speaks my heart❤ lovu sir solute... v logical

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This man is legend Allah mujy b achy parent bnay

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This man is a legend! God bless you

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No doubt a man of legendary traits

[@mansoorahmed205]

Inshallah

[@dr.maryumkhalid6206]

All ttue

[@umairzaman2737]

Sir i had strikness by my parents in my young age, sometime it was over strickness but i leart from it that it was done to mind my ways and fix my attituded. Though, comparision from others in acadamic was not good infront of others that should not have happened and we should not persue with our new generation. In a nut shell, i respect of my parents more.

[@afrasiab9819]

Jizakillah khair Dr. Sb. Ur video is much more important especially 4 new parents.

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It's an honor to be a Quaidian, and your student. A great human and a great mentor. 👍

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I can’t thank you enough sir for this valuable content... may Allah reward you more ...

[@Tausifatul]

Bhot umda sir...

[@almirazhar2639]

zabrdust mashallah zehn khul gya hai

[@ultra_instinct7655]

My parents treated me like an enemy, now thanks to them I'm full of self doubt, stress, get panic over every little thing, can't express myself properly, become victim in every situation, zero self esteem, zero motivation, struggle to socialize, a failure in every aspect of life.

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same

[@truthprevails2212]

Thanks a lot sir for the beautiful talks every time, society needs more mentors like you. Loads of Love from India.

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Jazak Allah

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[@gr8maratha]

True words and an eye opener. Respect from India Dr Sahab

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Thanks a lot for praising our legend.

[@zohaibbadini389]

Fabolus sir, We are getting you easy .You are understandig easily keep it up and bring such a good topic for us from your this video I understand my way my goal which is my profession thank you Sir.

[@HajosWorlds]

very valuable information Love you sir ❤️

[@user-rm1wx9cn7e]

i has faced strictness from my parents nd now i realize that eveyone admires my parents how they trained us, i respect them nd m thankful to them for their strictness, with due respect i dont blv in being frnds with ur kids, then u will b treated like frnds

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[@muhammadowais2004]

I am from Multan I follow prof Dr javed iqbal from last one year Allah pak inki zindagi my barkat dyy Ameen

[@learnwithraza4727]

ameen

[@wasiraj5149]

Must watch to all parents

[@faisalkhantv7210]

Sir u r a true man

[@Naziabanu786]

Thanks a lot , great person, speachless

[@walidalam1238]

Sir, you are 100 percent right.

[@khaleejnewsurdu4974]

Dr sahib zindabad

[@saraqudsiyaa4]

rona aa gaya sir jab aap ne kaha k jitni jitni sahti bary ghi otna aapka bachy se relation harab ho gha sir i m so strict with my 6 years old girl and we already started to have love and hate relation. aapka shkriya aap ne apni beti ki help ki .🙂

[@SanaKhanuae]

Behen aisa na kare, bacchi ka dil bohot nazuk hota hai, mai bhi apne 6 saal ke bete se sakht ho jaati hu kabhi kabhi. But afsos hota hai. Phir usko paas bula kar samjhati hu. Poochti hu ki mama aapko maarti hain, aapko mama buri lagti hongi. To kehta hai ki mama se pyar karta hai. Tab afsos hota hai.

[@Awais_789]

Respect ✊ you Sir 😊😊

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Great suggestions

[@malikmuhammadusama9527]

I strongly agree with you

[@muhammadtahataha7063]

zbardast sir...

[@TheKallu82]

Legend..I want to meet prof sahb

[@SanaKhanuae]

He is right, hamare parents ne kabhi sakhti ni ki, hum apne parents se har baat share karte hain, izzat aur mohabbat dil se hoti hai,dar se to koi bhi karega.

[@perfectperfect1186]

Farmanay Mustafa sallallahualaihiwasallam hai k apni aulad ko 2 cheezon ki taleem zaroor den 1) -Allah ka qalam. 2) meri ehle bait, (razi Allah hu ta ala anha. AzzawajAllah Sallallahualaihiwasallam.

[@kidzbrightfuture5494]

Bilkul theek Kaha

[@N.awa.b]

Sir please do more videos on medical topics like history taking, case presentations etc

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Great Sir

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Love from india

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Duas Sir

[@salehamuhammad1384]

Learning sooo much from your videos. Thank you!

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so nice

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Great

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Masha Allah bilkul sahi Kaha Aapne❤️🇮🇳

[@aminanoor643]

ASALAMUALIKUM. Sir Ap say Mrii request h k Ap 1 video bnaya k jis m bty k agr kisi ki Maah (Mother) ulaad ko Bura khti o hr wqt gusa or Galiyaa dyti o Tu wo ulaad KyA kry Humble request h 1 video bna day

[@Hamdan_Official_YouTube]

Such a nice video! Keep it up Sir 👏❤️

[@Zarakhan-du2kw]

Strickness in daliy routine for kids is not good coz if we says to kids don't do that kids are exicte to do that and then they become rude

[@riddlequesthere]

❤❤❤

[@jamal1844]

Well said professor 👍

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Contact number mil sakta hy.plz reply me

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Good

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[@aqibchaudharymotivation]

Agar parents ko is baat ki awareness hi na ho ke wo glat kar rhe hain , aur hum unhe smjhana chahe ke we need to adopt the change but they deny and their claim is ke wo hmare bade hain ,unhe.mat smjhao tb kya kiya jaye ??

[@perfectperfect1186]

Waledain ko chahiye k wo rozana apne saray din ko yaad karkay apni islah Karen yani din bhar main jo galti gunah hue hain unko yad karkay Allah se tauba Karen phir amal ki koshish karen insha Allah sab sahi hoga.

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[@learnwithraza4727]

good

[@harisrehan2182]

Sir plz mjhy btyn mra baita 3 saalka hy mobile dkhy bina kch khata nhi ar zidi hy actually sb ghar waly bht uss krty mein ksy uski aadat khtm krun

[@bushrafazal7249]

sir mari jamzi ma galtiy ha aor pane be hoti ha plaze ans da

[@SaadiZafar]

meri 3 years ki beti hai joint family hai hmri ... baki bachon ki mothers bht rough words uz krti han or bchy b .... meri beti b dekh k ya sun k esa krti bht ajeeb c hrkaat ya rough language uz krti mj se b btmizi krti or phir kbi to mjy bht gussa a jata to mai bohatttt zyada pitaiii kr deti ... bad mmjy dukh hota k esa q kia wo to bchi hai... pr mai kya krun koi duggestions dein k uski trbiyat achi ho wese Allah ka shukr hai k baki 3families k bchon se better hai

[@syedghouse3652]

Same here

[@hamidaslam6846]

sir kbhi paper main kaisay no lain is kay baray main btain.... please......

[@syedmustafaahmed1071]

Assalamualaikum Dr sahab my bhi apne bachon ke saath strict thi ab my sakhti nahi karna chahti please aap mujhe bataen ke my apni ghalti kaese sudharoo

[@Fatimawrites502]

Sir mera beta 9 years ka hai or ussy stuttering ki problem hai jo last 3 years sy start hoi hai or abb to baat karty hoye ussy kafi mushkil hoti hai jis ki waja sy ussny baat karna kam kar dia hai. plz guide me k iss ka koi illaj hai ? kiyun k buhat sy logon sy pocha hai jo kehty hain isska koi illaj nahi koi medicine nahi bas bachy ko koi preshani hai depression hai. Main apny bety ki iss mushkil ko khatam karna chahti hon plz guide Waiting for ur reply

[@perfectperfect1186]

Sabsay pehle parents ko chahiye k wo ek time table banen. Phir uspar amal Karen bacchay dekhkar kuch sokhengay. Phir kuch din baat aap bacchon ko Amal k baad bolengayto baat asar karegi.

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Belive me i am example of this.

[@khaleejnewsurdu4974]

مجھے ایکسپیرنس ہے ۔ میرا باپ بہت سخت تھا ۔ اب ٹیک ہے ۔ میں حیران ہوں ڈاکٹر صاحب یہ سب کیسے جانتا ہے جو پریکٹیکلی بلکل صحیح آتے ہیں

[@rajayasir5347]

Sir mera beta 8sal ka ha boht zidi ha plz btay kia kru k wo bt many akila beta ha

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Please English subtitles

[@perfectperfect1186]

Is topic par amal karnay se pehle waledain ka taur tarika ghar main sahi hona chahiye. Waledain laparwah hai apni prsnol life ko lekar phir bacchon ko bolte hain k ye mat karo wo mat karo tophier aap is topic se kuch hasil nahi karsakte jo dr sab nay kahi hai.

[@AsifIbnAltaf]

Plz make veido about pubg mostly children r addicted?

[@islamiccontent7531]

Aoa sir ap sy puchna tha k 2sall ka bacha ha mara both sharartti ha and zidi ha kasy control karo

[@SanaKhanuae]

Meri beti bhi 2 saal ki age per bohot ziddi thi, maine apne aap ko cool kiya, zid karte wakt uska dhyan divert karti thi. Alhamdolillah ab wo 4 saal ki hai, bohot hi discipline, loving and caring ho gayi hai.

[@Khizra_Atif]

Sir meri 2 saal ki beti hy wo achanak se zid karna shuru hogai hy. Main usko dant deti hy. Wo chahti hy k wo jo jo keh ri hy wo sb kro. Agr main mna kru to chekhyn marti hy.

[@SanaKhanuae]

Same like my daughter when she was 2 year old. Abhi wo 4 years ki hai. Bohot sudhar gayi hai, discipline aa gaya hai. Loving aur caring ho gayi hai.Maine uski baat suni, zid bhi maani. Per achhe way me. Usool set kiye,uska dhyan divert kiya.

[@saweraraja4506]

Aoa sir, Allah apko khush rkhy. Sir meri beti 2 sal or 7 mah ki hy, aik joint family main rhty huwe main usy kysy theek kru, wo meri bat ni sunti, zid krti hy, roti hy, room main jb ati hy toa main usy achi batyn btany ki koshish krti hu lykn jb wo room sy bhair hoti hy toa usy aik Acha mahol ni milta, kyu k us k cousins kafi Hadd tk biggray huwe hyn, main bht preshan hu, byti ko marti b hu usy room sy bhair na jana ki dhamki b dyti hu per wo bht ajeeb c herktyn krti hy, kindly mujhy koi solution btain

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Join fmly m ye zaror hota h

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Mery sath b esa he tha

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Sir mera bacha 4 years ka h bhut jiddi h maa ko Marta bhi h uske bare m khuch btaye k wh shi kise ho

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9th comment

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6:01

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Kia yehi sab rules ham 2years k bachon par apply Kar sakte Hain?

[@SanaKhanuae]

Itne chhote bacche ko siwaay mohabbat ke koi zuban samajh ni aati. To bas use wakt aur tawajjo de.

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English subtitles plz

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Doctor sahab ak or bhi qol ha hzrat Ali ka pehly 7 sal bacha badsha dosry 7 sal bacha ghulam tesry 7 sal bacha ap ka wazeer ha yani maswery mn shamil karo ab us ko sekhna ha apny bachy ko zaheen banao

[@hamzaiftikhar1229]

4:14

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sir g saudi mein sirr kaatny ki saza hy to wahan. jurm bht kmm hy, even corona mein jo bahir aega 5000 riyal fine hoga to koi nae aey log bahr jis trh pakistan ka hal hua, sakhti ache hy lkn insaf k liey ho to zruri hy, pakistan mein qatal ka mujrim zamanat py free hota hy to bahr ja k 9 qatal kr deta hy aik e family k, kia waja hy?

[@rasberryshomecooking]

Some parents who r strict when their sons get successful in life and their status rises above parents start getting tricky and if married get jealous of their wives that they are enjoying in our sons homes at his expense.lets be tricky so that he does not pay attention to their kids and wives especially some crook old ladies do this!what do you say about such families!such ladies are always source of threat and insult for their daughter in laws for the whole lives!please address this situation!whereas daughter in law is sincere and mother in law always talking like enemies and attacking her family just to hurt her.her son not listening about her and blaming just wife your are not good my mother is innocent!

[@SanaKhanuae]

Shayed aap apni aap beeti bata rahi hain. Allah aapki pareshani ko dur kare. Aapke shauhar aapko samajhne lage. Sabr rakhe Allah sabka insaf karta hai.bas pyar se samjhaya kare shauhar ko. Inshaallah samjhenge aapko.

[@shiningstar5634]

Sir plz muje bi apsy kuch pochna hai meri beti 2 year nd 6 month ki hai baat ni manti jab bht choti thi mein issy khny ki dry chezy dal k dy deti thi ab ussy yeh adat hogi hai k yeh khna mery hath sy bilkul ni kahti jab k mery ghr waly muje insult krty hai im not good mother plz muje kuch soultion batye itni c bachi ko mera dil ni krta marny ko

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[@worldzone3878]

Sir please I need ur help mujhe apse is barey sawal ha k mera 11 saal ka bhai h or ma usey roz bar bar namaz ka kehti hu or bht mushkil se jakr prh ta ha phle aram se bolti phr dubra phr dant kr phr cheekti hu toh manta ha or Sara din srf laptop pr bacho k dramas dekhta h please guide k ese bacho ko kese handle kia jy

[@zib6707]

دس سال کے بعد بھی کوئ بچہ نماز نہ پڑھے تو اسے سزا دیں اور کھا نے کے برتن علیحدہ کر دیں۔

[@worldzone3878]

zahida imran butt jee ma bht pareshan hu ma khud 19 ki hu or bht cheekh kr danti hu toh phr jakr prhta ha. Allah sub bacho ko naik bnay or hidyat dey ameen

[@zib6707]

تم میں سے ہر کوئ رائ ہے اور اس سے اس کی رئیت کے بارے میں سوال ہو گا۔ اس لیے بچے کو نماز کا کہتے رہنا نا صرف آپ کی زمہ داری ہے بلکہ گھر میں موجود تما م بڑوں کی بھی ۔۔ بہتر ہے کہ آپ اپنے والدین سے بھی کہیں کہ بیٹے کو نماز کا کہا کریں۔ دعا ہے کہ اللہ پاک تمام کی اولاد کو نیکی کی رہ پر لگائے۔

[@aneeshamshuanee6037]

Hi my brother aged 16 years wont listn to my parents alwys argue wid tem..id mom wont give mobile to play game den he beats her...my parents alwys cries bcz of him..and alwys plys pub g game...and brotherbis very rude....10 exm strts if we sys to read he says lt exam go to hell..pls pls any one suggest me wt to do

[@zib6707]

@@aneeshamshuanee6037 sorry to say this happens when you dont take children character building seriously ar the age between 8 to 13.. now this stage is very crucial.. any how i can only suggest to check for his friends.. what kind of company he is having..age 16 is very sensitive age.. psychological , harmonal changes keep on happening at this stage.. try to make him realise that he is doing wrong.. finnally you can take him to some councling sessions / may be a psychologist aswell.. May Allah grant him hadayah..or ap ko or ap k parents ko sbr ata krt. Ameen

[@hamzaiftikhar1229]

9:36

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Kia main ap sa aik mashwra la sakti hn, bachun k muamlay main?

[@amjadarshad1611]

G zror

[@tinkerbellsdream1869]

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[@muhammadwaqaskashi812]

Good sir

[@shumyla.azhar.2960]

Only discipline in sleep n wake up N namaz k liye start se hi mahool b h pir b bachy m adat q ni pr rhi .sirf in discipline ko follow krny Ka khny se b meri daughter ko adat ni pri r chichari rhti h

[@feministgaming9698]

Jin ko inki bat achi lagi like me ⬇️⬇️⬇️❤

[@learnwithraza4727]

inki bat smajhne wali hoti hy

[@malikmuhammadusama9527]

Unfortunately parents can't understand

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My name is Tanvir Mahmood

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Aap kehna kya chahatey hain, Tanvir Mahmood x3?

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What if kid abuses parenta thrahes parents

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[@AsifIbnAltaf]

Plz tell me qualification of javaid iqbal