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@TreeMan3 жыл бұрын
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I am a mother and my father that they are treated with a harsh and destroyed, and I will always be sick.
@naveedac.29913 жыл бұрын
Asian Kids: “I love you!” Asian Parents: “Are you high?”
@shahnaz183 жыл бұрын
😂 It be like that
@ohmystress56673 жыл бұрын
Oi deadass HAHAHAHA
@danahmmm2893 жыл бұрын
All parents
@rushilg56793 жыл бұрын
I can relate xD
@lenlyindoso68743 жыл бұрын
are you H.I.G.H?!
@wholesomegiraffe76063 жыл бұрын
Kids: "I love you" Parents: "What happened?" "Did you do something wrong?" "Do you need something?" HAHHAHAHAHA
@taketwo96233 жыл бұрын
🤧🤣pls , My parent either think this or i want money
@taekookie36313 жыл бұрын
That would be my parents as if I did something wrong or I needed something from them LMAO 😂
@diansimbolon52773 жыл бұрын
Damn its true
@eunicemunagdzi40573 жыл бұрын
I agree with everyone
@elesarsalman62783 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂dont forget Do u need money? Are u short on money?😂
@copypaste73082 жыл бұрын
As an Asian, I know the difficulty of saying, "I love you,” to my parents. As you can see, the parents also don't know how to react to such a statement. They downplay it or say thank you. It's not that there's no love, but it's quite hard!
@LY-of9sj2 жыл бұрын
It's awkward because they were never into this lovey dovey parents stuff lol
@rand-_- Жыл бұрын
Arab parents too
@Arnl_godjujubas Жыл бұрын
In Brazil, where I'm from, it's different. Parents here (most) are loving. If you tell them you love them, chances are they'll make an even sweeter statement. If I mentioned this to my mother or father, they would shower me with loving words. This is just one of many cultural differences.
@hazel1779 Жыл бұрын
Is very interesting for me to see this perspective. As a Mexican, I can say that most of us are very warm and affectionate. I’ve never said a “goodbye” to my parents without an “I love you”. I call them every now and then to just see how are they doing and tell them that I love them. There’s not a day that goes by without my father sending me a text and telling me that he loves me. This makes me feel so grateful for all the love I have received from my parents and the confidence I have to go and give them a big hug anytime ❤
@MeinHerz.Brennt Жыл бұрын
Keep trying to reach to your parents dont let their reaction be a break to your relationship because life is too short to be wishy washy in showering your parents with love even if its embarrassing lol
@nicoleonyx9186 Жыл бұрын
I’m American so saying “I love you” to my parents and my kids is an everyday thing, but my ex husband is Asian and always had a hard time saying it, but showed love in other ways. I can see how it makes the phrase “I love you” feel that much more special and touching when it is finally said ❤
@okay.1336 Жыл бұрын
I don’t know. Despite it being said all the time, I still feel that it’s very touching and special to say “I love you” to my loved ones. I don’t share that bond with anyone else but them.
@noneya.RAHGHHGGHH.AMEIRCAAAA3 ай бұрын
I think since it's like the norm in America it doesn't hold as much meaning most of the time, in my family it's just how we say good bye lol
@shina45513 жыл бұрын
Their childrens: "I love you" The parents: "want my money?"
@minby4453 жыл бұрын
:(
@daisymemes21682 жыл бұрын
I’m lucky it’s not like that they’d just say i love u too 💗
@dak39912 жыл бұрын
@@daisymemes2168 lucky you.. and not me;)
@philclub44172 жыл бұрын
Im related 😑
@lemoncakes86872 жыл бұрын
It's Asian parents way to say I love you too 😂
@kiaa12293 жыл бұрын
"dad, i love you" "Ah, u short of money again" THAT'S MY DAD
@princenayak25073 жыл бұрын
Same 😂😂
@MiyokoJEE3 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@crystalthecatc3 жыл бұрын
Sameee 😂😂😂😂
@aliensince953 жыл бұрын
same 😭😭😭
@papadeasukal7813 жыл бұрын
Except i dont have a father
@kjooni Жыл бұрын
3:43 when she laughs but it's to conceal that strong emotion and urge to cry, you can see it in her eyes~
@JesseColton10 ай бұрын
As an American I do find it very sweet how the parents respond by SHOWING their love in some way. It seems to me that a lot of Asian cultures value acts that demonstrate love more than verbally saying it. Several of the parents made sure their kid had food to eat, asked if they were okay, or offered money, said "Make sure you come home early to be safe," or some other way to show their affection. They were saying "I love you" back, in their way.
@charithadissanayake33048 ай бұрын
Very accurate! ❤
@Kahloruluz4 ай бұрын
You got it
@wholesomegiraffe76063 жыл бұрын
How Asians say I love you: "Did you eat yet?" "Make sure you eat." "Wanna eat?"
@niloofarnavaei37523 жыл бұрын
Yeah. We don't usually say "I love you" to show our love. We show it with our actions and how we care and treasure each other. I can't say I LOVE YOU when I really love someone (parent, friend, partner) not because I'm shy, in fact it's not my love language. I show them with my actions.
@asfiijeon35003 жыл бұрын
@@niloofarnavaei3752 same here
@hongfeizhang19163 жыл бұрын
Don't why tears are welling up……
@wholesomegiraffe76063 жыл бұрын
Same. Words are good but actions are better. Of course saying "I love you" to the people we care for is also good. Since it makes people happy to hear those words from the one they love as well. By the way, did you guys eat yet? Make sure to eat and don't skip meals, take care of yourselves especially these times of pandemic :>
@jasonnguyen99943 жыл бұрын
@@niloofarnavaei3752 I always said it as a kid to my Asian parents
@saradavidsen15023 жыл бұрын
if I suddenly call my parents out of nowhere and tell them "I love you" they will think I'm close to committing suicide...
@amazon42883 жыл бұрын
Exactly 😅😅😅
@69raisinswhy3 жыл бұрын
I’m not even suicidal or anything like that but I just took the train alone after a disagreement with my dad and he thought I had jumped (he had literally talked to police in the area), so I wonder what this would do to him
@lσяєиα it's just that most of Asians are not use to it.. The love language are most of the time, are you okay? How is everything? Eat healthy. Need money? It's just an Asian thing
@loststar2375 Жыл бұрын
(In Spanish we have "te quiero" and "te amo", the second it's much stronger than the first). When I was a kid, one day I started to say "te quiero" to my family members but I never learned to say "te amo". It doesn't mean that I love them less, it's just than I'm used to say the other thing. I hope when I'm an adult I can say it
@scylpture Жыл бұрын
coe idai você e gringo
@StinsonSwarley Жыл бұрын
Which is exactly why you should say it, there's growth in the uncomfortable, but do it at your own pace, friend. The most important thing is that we love ourselves first and foremost. Remember: emotional vulnerability is a strenght :)
@Love_Bangchan874 Жыл бұрын
I'm in a country between both Asia and Europe and the phrase "I love you" is always used
A child: "I love you" Parents: "Ohh you need money"
@astarleah43672 жыл бұрын
But for me... Me:.... I love you.... Mom: WHY WHAT HAPPENED DID A CAR HIT YOU OVER ARE YOU BLEEDING OUT SOMEWHERE OMG
@mrdairygaming65952 жыл бұрын
@@astarleah4367 Hahahaa my filipino mom be like: do you have fever?
@devu62652 жыл бұрын
@@astarleah4367 my Indian mom - "are you sure you slept well last night??"
@SS0_n2 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha u right 😭😂😂
@Mary-es2gh2 жыл бұрын
en mi caso ella diría: que paso, todo bien???, si estas en casa, no??. djaskdjaskdkas
@BunnyQueen97 Жыл бұрын
I love that so many of the parents respond with, “thank you my child”, or, “make sure you eat/rest,” that’s just how they know how to say, “I love you too.”
@FOE-LEKA Жыл бұрын
3:45 The nervous laugh after “I love you” tells you it’s not expressed often how much she loves her.. sad but also happy moment. Gotta Cherish our loved ones❤️
@user-pi2mp5kb7w2 жыл бұрын
If I said "I love you" to my parents, they would think I was leaving this world
@user-mi6yf6sd8m2 жыл бұрын
You made me wheeze while crying 😂😂😂😭
@nenerilveria24262 жыл бұрын
True👍
@kerydam21602 жыл бұрын
Hahaha really
@hasrulaliff31292 жыл бұрын
if i said "i love you" to my parents, they would think i was leaving this world
@user-rs7bk6ze1s2 жыл бұрын
Now I'm crying while laughing silly you
@Kurt-cp7yk3 жыл бұрын
Every asian parent ever “Do u need money?” “Do you need something?” “What happened?”
@ellysya61243 жыл бұрын
Yeah 🙂😌
@rickandjandizwy78553 жыл бұрын
Not really, I’m Asian. 🙄
@shirleyni1053 жыл бұрын
Not for me... I tell my mom I love her everyday and Hug her mostly everyday and not she’s soo annoyed of it and sometimes she just yell at me for hugging or saying I love you 🤦🏻♀️
@kashmyrfayemangiliman69203 жыл бұрын
For my asian mom i think she wont say that cus she dont say those words and i dont said the word ily to them
@supersubliminals40233 жыл бұрын
Low-Key sad
@THE_CRYPT0_C0LLECT0R Жыл бұрын
Meanwhile, I tell my parents and siblings that I love them every time I see or speak to them. What a different world we live in.
@marim886 Жыл бұрын
People have different relationships with their parents, some are distant.
@THE_CRYPT0_C0LLECT0R Жыл бұрын
@MariM I'm referring to this video. From the looks of it, this is the whole country of Japan that doesn't say "I love you" very often or at all.
@HiIeric117 Жыл бұрын
2nd gen Chinese American here. No problem saying "I love you" in English and my folks will say it back. Would never consider saying it in Chinese haha. It just feels weird.
@THE_CRYPT0_C0LLECT0R Жыл бұрын
@HiIeric117 that's very interesting! I wonder what makes it so different when saying it in English than Chinese. These differences fascinate me!
@HiIeric117 Жыл бұрын
@@THE_CRYPT0_C0LLECT0R I suppose its just rarely hearing those words in Chinese that makes it sound so strange haha.
@nomoresleepx39302 жыл бұрын
That girl from 3:55 wauted to hear"I love you too" thats the moment my heart 💔 brake and then next girl when her mom said "thats so touching" I statred crying so bad
@ankitmitrayt3 жыл бұрын
Dear parents, just because your child is smiling at their phone, doesn't mean they have boyfriend or girlfriend, they are just watching this masterpiece
@marymarryy3 жыл бұрын
What smile do you talk about... It's a broken tears😭😭😭😂
@uvu59223 жыл бұрын
i feel the sentence so much! haha that is what my mom would think of me
@liya25043 жыл бұрын
I'm actually crying my parents would thought i broke up or got my heart broken 😭
@waniakhan63773 жыл бұрын
I was crying but smiling tooo
@mouna53363 жыл бұрын
But i'm crying😭😭💕
@kellyann40733 жыл бұрын
“It’s cold outside” “what have you eaten” “do you need money?” I think it all translates to “I love you.”
@parksi-na15323 жыл бұрын
Literally the best comment ever.😍😘
@tahreemfatimaj23443 жыл бұрын
Thiss
@CARTIST_YU3 жыл бұрын
underrated comment ;-;
@guidancetoself24423 жыл бұрын
Exactlyyyy
@selin73803 жыл бұрын
they are barely to say i love you to their own child it's so sad
@Letsdraw176 Жыл бұрын
As an American, I say, "I love you" to my parents all the time, and seeing how much courage it takes to say the same thing in another country, it makes me sad
@beepbeep670 Жыл бұрын
maybe because ily is a big word for us and we prefer to express love in many ways instead of saying those three words verbally,,, and we do have the thought that if 'i love you' is normalized it would lack the meaning of it over time, its a very sacred word for us
@RioGrandedoSuleiro7 ай бұрын
its expressed differently worldwide. Not everyone is obviously going to follow American cultural norms.
@EnriqueVivancoH7 ай бұрын
Why
@Lyhee_12 жыл бұрын
"The wind makes my eyes hurt" Actually she was thrilled ❤️
@bahashtq.f.48513 жыл бұрын
The kids: i love you. The parent's response: come back early. it's cold outside. buy some food. they showed their love with full of their heart.
@borderlinenocturnal61953 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget: do you need money?
@bahashtq.f.48513 жыл бұрын
@@borderlinenocturnal6195 I think that’s also because they are worried about them.
@mywholelife15443 жыл бұрын
lisa beautiful 🥰🥰😘😘
@kayla74953 жыл бұрын
nah u just love my money.
@rin-mi_1013 жыл бұрын
I have not said i love you to anyone but they know I love them.
@lulunana15193 жыл бұрын
Me : "I love you" My parent : "Do you need money?" "Did you do a mistake?" "You're not sick, are you?" "Wait, do you lose my Tupperware?"
@lunaanime48653 жыл бұрын
+"Are you dying?"
@ohyouarenana52283 жыл бұрын
the tupperware thingy made me laugh😂 Mother loves tupperware more then me😂
@adindaputrieuodia32683 жыл бұрын
Not the tupperware 😭
@lenlyindoso68743 жыл бұрын
parents: are you H.I.G.H.?!
@cosplay.revolution3 жыл бұрын
+ "Are you pregnant?"
@bunniebun3 Жыл бұрын
Me sorprende que no sea común que entre familiares se digan “Te amo” en Asia, yo cada vez que veo a mis padres y familiares no paro de repetirles que los amo, hay que aprovechar a las personas cuando las tenemos, no sabemos cuándo será la última vez que les diremos “Te amo” que hermoso video, lo admito derrame un par de lagrimas :’)
@nanamiita3576 Жыл бұрын
X2 aunque casi no me se expresar siempre le digo a mi familia que los amo
@rubisafiro6641 Жыл бұрын
Si no es común escucharlo al igual que no hay mucho afecto por eso es que hay muchos suicidios, pero claro si hay personas que son afectuosos y dicen lo que sienten..
@bdilp7064 Жыл бұрын
Мне кажется это у всех так. Кто-то может легко сказать своим близким людям, а кто-то просто стесняется. Я вот тоже стесняюсь говорить маме и папе, что люблю их. Я это ни кому не говорю. Кроме своим домашним питомцам и своим племянникам. А так я стесняюсь говорить : я люблю тебя. Но среди моих знакомых, есть те кто не стесняется говорить. Их большинство. Когда я говорю, что люблю своим родителям. Они думают, что мне что нибудь нужно. Деньги примеру. (хотя я каждую неделю их получаю и не нуждаюсь в них).
@valeriadelarosaramirez8244 Жыл бұрын
Creo que depende mas de la persona, yo solo le he dicho a mi mamá y a mi hermana que las quiero y se me hizo muy difícil hacerlo
@loststar2375 Жыл бұрын
Desde chiquita me acostumbré a solo decir "te quiero" ahora que soy adolescente aún no se me quita esa mala costumbre, no es que no los ame es solo que si digo "te amo" van a pensar que estoy híper dramática :(
@RirixName9 ай бұрын
驚人的!多年來從未對父母說過“我愛你”,真是令人印象深刻!
@NoName-rm8wo3 жыл бұрын
"The wind hurt my eyes" Its okay, the wind also reach my room. My eyes is hurt now
@1HUFFMAN3 жыл бұрын
Me too !
@remirenthlei56193 жыл бұрын
@@1HUFFMAN same here😭
@leslyerodriguez57283 жыл бұрын
ª Xiao Zhan it's in your profile ?
@NoName-rm8wo3 жыл бұрын
@@leslyerodriguez5728 yes
@syedaaleenaaizaz88353 жыл бұрын
Omg same
@marengemilia3753 жыл бұрын
Maybe some people aren't comfortable in saying "I love you" to their parents is because their parents don't say that often to them.
@reyvioliii3 жыл бұрын
yeah and sometimes they have a hard time expressing love and affection to someone
@jetrandom75693 жыл бұрын
Sometimes in other languages the expression “I love you” can only be used in a romantic sense so there’s no way to say it to a parent
@salonipatro_3 жыл бұрын
yes true
@yeyosilver70673 жыл бұрын
No matter what, you guys always blame the parents, incredible
@starlitexo3 жыл бұрын
@@yeyosilver7067 thats who their kids learn this shit from. Nice try tho
@peachesbunny Жыл бұрын
For Asian cultures, I think it's sad that we can't even say I Love You casually. But that, in its way, is also why when it is said between parents and their children, it means so much more
@owihinape Жыл бұрын
Yesss! Though i am east asian, me and my parents do say “i love you” lots so i cant relate to lots of this. However i do know that we express love through different things! for example; food this may just be me i dunno
@CarbineKiller Жыл бұрын
i get irritated when people throw ILY all over the place though. almost devaluing the phrase.
@user-pg2qq1jq9u11 ай бұрын
Same in Russian culture
@yohen678210 ай бұрын
I disagree. On the opposite, I don't like those: "I love you, mom" "love you, too. Bye" kinda talks. "I love you" to me is supposed to be a very very very strong and serious expression because of the meanings and responsibilities behind it. I don't like people just use it like "hello" types of expression. Similar to, in a relationship, I would use "I like you" instead of "I love you" in most cases, unless I really think the girl in front of me is "the one".
@kopxpert8 ай бұрын
As an Asian I think it's sad that parents in the west don't smack their kids when the kids do something wrong. Just saying.... the cultural difference doesn't mean it's good or bad. So when it comes to these kind of things, there's nothing to be "sad" about really :)
@TN-mi8bc Жыл бұрын
みんな誰かの大切な子なんだなとおもった
@catlvrzz3 жыл бұрын
if I said I love you randomly over a call my parents would probably think im disappearing forever sksjsjd
@aestaetic11083 жыл бұрын
Yea true, they would just start asking me "are you okay?".
@catlvrzz3 жыл бұрын
@@aestaetic1108 yupppp
@banlatbastijohn30673 жыл бұрын
Yeah hahahhaah related
@harshyadav98963 жыл бұрын
Usually the movies people say this before they die😐
@saikaaaaaaa3 жыл бұрын
Sameeee
@naimaferdous47023 жыл бұрын
Being an Asian, I can feel that how hard to say "I love you" to your parents.
@rnyy86013 жыл бұрын
Not just asia all the world 😩
@fluterry3 жыл бұрын
Actually we don't show by saying, we show by showing.
@jksbottommole84633 жыл бұрын
yesss i can agree with you, i never actually got to say it directly
@evrryythingoes3 жыл бұрын
I never say it face to face....it's so weird...and after all my parents don't say it to my too lol😂 but i want know whats we feel when we say 'ily' Sry for my English broken *~*
@user-hg1qk6zu1d3 жыл бұрын
As an asian i used to only say it till i was 5 years old :")
@tiegatries Жыл бұрын
Made me cry - so touching. All the parents saying get home early or make sure to get dinner is their way of saying they love them back.
@fredwigham1391 Жыл бұрын
This made me so sad. I tell my kids I love them every day. I cannot imagine not letting the people you love know that.
@andrianshah85505 ай бұрын
we express "i love you" in a different ways. like asking "have you eaten?", "do you want me to buy you something?" , "you want money?". it just weird to say directly "i love you" in mostly asian country as it means i love you as sexually. so yeah we express our love with action not by words that speak louder than action.
@Hunlover1236012 жыл бұрын
the father went like " are you out of money?" and then when she insisted she loves him, he changed his tone and said " are you sure you have enough?"
@heaven51542 жыл бұрын
Its was cute but sad tho😔
@niuffka79622 жыл бұрын
Sending money is another way to care for us and that means to show love, isn't it?
@onthevergeoftearsagain2 жыл бұрын
ikr :(
@funnyclipsOfficial922 жыл бұрын
Thats how fatherly love too.huhu
@Sarah-rv4pv2 жыл бұрын
@@heaven5154 I feel like he just wanted to send her money - maybe it's his way of showing care
@thenellecornejo37242 жыл бұрын
Asian parents’ way of saying “I love you” to their children: Food ☺️
@keixia88832 жыл бұрын
Yass
@swordpegasus40322 жыл бұрын
Yes!😀🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭
@itswundei2 жыл бұрын
sampuchelsi 😳😳😳
@katlqvesyou2 жыл бұрын
😃
@NurinSyafirra2 жыл бұрын
Yaaa expecially after they scold you 😂 always like that
@cocobunitacobuni8738 Жыл бұрын
Aaaw this is so wholesome. The Japanese parents were much more taken aback than the Chinese parents, I loved it.
@Huhuhuh162 жыл бұрын
Fun fact- Most of the Asian kids never say I love you to their parents.Also parents never say ily to their kids. They show it using small gestures ❤
@thentantt2 жыл бұрын
Made me think. I've actually never said ily to my parents and vice versa lol.
@elizabethg24282 жыл бұрын
@@thentantt I love you.
@scarlettusagi2 жыл бұрын
True true
@thentantt2 жыл бұрын
@@elizabethg2428 🥺🖤
@elizabethg24282 жыл бұрын
@@thentantt it’s gonna be okay I promise I’m here for you. *hugs tightly*
@RicemanTV3 жыл бұрын
I tell my mom I love her almost everyday she got sick of hearing it 😂
@TreeMan3 жыл бұрын
Your mom must be very happy even though she doesn't show it.
@creativemindofdilpreet55773 жыл бұрын
@@TreeMan yeah to you are right
@urwifecodm.33283 жыл бұрын
Ye
@taketwo96233 жыл бұрын
same 😂😂 my mom would be like "who wouldnt love me? , anyway get lost" 😂😂
@hikarunoha20533 жыл бұрын
Omg same. She always get sick of it 😂
@user-ll4kw6ue3j Жыл бұрын
愛してるって伝えることができる両親いるのが幸せって気づいた(;_;)
@asianmaster1016 Жыл бұрын
This made me cry a lot. My dad passed away when I was 12 and my mom when I was 16. What I would give to just have 1 more conversation with them, to ask them questions adult to adult. I never was told “I’m proud of you” or was praised in anyway, I knew I was loved but then it went away. If I ever have kids I want them to get the childhood and love that I couldn’t get and be the full time parent that I didn’t have. But man the things I would do to just hear one time “I love you, and I’m proud of you son”.
@nikoflow_fm9541 Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you lost them so early. If you ever become one, you would be a great parent.
@ashilnaya2015 Жыл бұрын
Sorry for your lost, and you're tough guy.. amazing, I hope you're have long live and surrounded by happiness with your own family .. semangat, bang..ganbatte
@roseluca83523 жыл бұрын
Saying I love you to your parent as Asian kids is not easy, I even got nervous by watching this.
@pwills1223 жыл бұрын
just wondering, why is it hard? (genuinely asking)
@roseluca83523 жыл бұрын
@@pwills122 because of our culture, of course we love our parents and our parents know that very well so we don’t have say it. It’s like saying “sky is blue” to your parent, it’s sound very wired right?haha
@pwills1223 жыл бұрын
@@roseluca8352 thank you for explaining!
@handingyouahello5143 жыл бұрын
ikr
@nusratjahanesha63303 жыл бұрын
@@roseluca8352 true man 😕 Idk why but we asians fell really nervous
@veeceey10732 жыл бұрын
The parents asking if their children had eaten is definitely their way of saying “I love you” without actually saying the words lol
@sdu8105 Жыл бұрын
True!
@Lppt87 Жыл бұрын
Also when they ask if they need money.
@boramin7102 Жыл бұрын
True, there are many ways to show and say I love you.
@kentakahashi7650 Жыл бұрын
True sometimes actions can express your love more than words can
@palmtree8251 Жыл бұрын
Mostly everyone's parents said something about their health or their doing which means they really care about their children. You can tell they were all happy when their child said," I love you"
@rimthv30 Жыл бұрын
As an asian i know how difficult is saying your parents "i love you." that was truly wholesome.. This Made my day.. Don't know why i'm crying. .
@yesme42602 жыл бұрын
Saying "I love you" to your parents is harder than saying that to your crush. Edit: To be honest, I don't have a crush, but thanks for all the likes 🙂
@deadpigsquad98052 жыл бұрын
Lmfaooooo
@deeptimishra49232 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@saintclau_2 жыл бұрын
@@user-re9mf3ll6z not all
@nicearmy40672 жыл бұрын
Yes😣
@tf_4f2 жыл бұрын
🤣 yes bcz my parents be like u want money now
@emmanuel23333 жыл бұрын
Daughter: "Mama, I love you." Mother: " Did you see any special scenes?"🤣
@user-fu2qb8ub1f3 жыл бұрын
Yeah my mother will be also like this that's why I will not say 😁😁😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@rosaliabogado88483 жыл бұрын
In what minute?
@btsi-army1163 жыл бұрын
@@rosaliabogado8848 4:18
@user-np3bq1ub8e5 ай бұрын
Their phrases like eat more,come early,dont u need a money all of these are their love expression. They use it but,when we hear the in main words like "I love you" is so deep and heartouching
@user-vc4ni1lk1n Жыл бұрын
すてきです。お父さんお母さんが生きている間に〝大好き〟って何度も何度も言おうって思いました。
@Alexandra-wb2pf2 жыл бұрын
“The wind makes my eyes hurt.” T_T How to deny you’re crying, blame the wind XD
@asmaaslam32582 жыл бұрын
lolllllll
@cuud51342 жыл бұрын
Soft heart ❤️
@tytyghyhyh2 жыл бұрын
same energy as roy mustang's scene in FMA
@ashleythatsme69002 жыл бұрын
Shes being sarcastic lmaoo
@l.u.m.77592 жыл бұрын
It must've been the wind~
@tengri233 жыл бұрын
First girl: “I love you.” Dad: “Are you short of money?” Savage! Lmao! 🤣🤣
@okkk123kk3 жыл бұрын
LOL 🤣
@Any_Investigator_6663 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@donbarberoofficial Жыл бұрын
I tell my parents a lot that I love them but if I suddenly call them just to say that I love them they will think that I am kidnapped xD
@zxmoore12 жыл бұрын
Im 37 and have a 4 year old and a 1 year old. I realized that after seeing my kids for the first time, that you will never truly understand how much your parents love you until you have children on your own. Please, tell your parents that you love them. The sacrifices they made may not be apparent, but are being made daily. I'll do anything for my children, and I know that my parents did the same for me.
@taketwo96233 жыл бұрын
"Dad I love you" "How much money do u need?" 😂😂💀✊
@granola12103 жыл бұрын
That'll be my dad😂😂
@shush2853 жыл бұрын
I felt it deep😂😂
@mysterious_girl_olive64693 жыл бұрын
Yup😂😂😂
@_international_playgirl35723 жыл бұрын
My dad also be like that..many times when i just go and hug him, he asks it..😂😂
@niloofarnavaei37523 жыл бұрын
Typical Asian dad 😍😂
@solentojyimchunger60583 жыл бұрын
I've never say I Love You to my parents... Actually I feel shy to say it...
@TreeMan3 жыл бұрын
As long as you say it once, you won't feel shy anymore.
@user-bl7wy3nu9q3 жыл бұрын
@@TreeMan yes thank u☺
@moaarmyatiny83473 жыл бұрын
Same but i try to say it as much as posible
@nini72913 жыл бұрын
Me too 🥺🐥💔
@taheruzzaman21743 жыл бұрын
Today was my exam result
@finestroke2211 Жыл бұрын
I just love how both sides are awkward saying and receiving "i Love you" but they mean it so much, it's just sort of an asian thing ❤️❤️❤️
@coffeeandcream2 жыл бұрын
I know some people say "I love you" so easily to their parents, yet they so easily disrespect their parents, too. It's like there's no more value to the words. To me, it is not how often you say the words but how you treat your parents is what's more important. But it's good that the people in the video were able to say it to their parents and vice versa - very touching video.
@zuhanisthar76423 жыл бұрын
Why is it so difficult to say I love you to our parents Edit : why did I get so many likes? I don't deserve this :(
@celebrityfashionandlifestyle843 жыл бұрын
It's just awkward..Cause we don't say it enough i guess
@ellied.ananayo71163 жыл бұрын
Most of us asians don't usually say it. We just respect them as an act of our love to them.
@peachkawai69473 жыл бұрын
For me (a Mexican who live in Mexico) is totally normal say to my mom and dad “I love you” or give they hugs every day. I don’t know why for someone’s it’s really difficult say “I love you” to her parents
@Yasas_Madhushan3 жыл бұрын
@@peachkawai6947 in case of Asia it's the opposite I guess.. (Sri Lankan)
@tataedits3 жыл бұрын
i dont know but its awkward
@emikotagahushi9412 жыл бұрын
I know the “I love you” was sweet, but for me it was the “come home early today” that warmed my heart.
@februarycookiecoo2 жыл бұрын
yeah like she felt something could be wrong with her baby ❤
@m_313h2 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍👍
@katherineval92132 жыл бұрын
What minute ??
@kibriaornni_042 жыл бұрын
@@katherineval9213 2:14. 4:33
@_hikari_3 Жыл бұрын
I don't know why but it's so hard to say I love you to parents!!!🥲👍
@kanakprajapati2726 Жыл бұрын
This proves how much feeling this word "love "holds .
@Wenny_SW3 жыл бұрын
Western Parents: 👶🏻: I love you 👫: I love you too 🤗 Asian Parents: 👶🏻: I love you 👫: ........... (awkward moment)
@d0mingo4243 жыл бұрын
Not all some of us really say it and our parents response with "i love you too" With smile
@jemmary14013 жыл бұрын
no ... maybe some people feel akward to that ... but not all .. I Think those parents on the video was just worried for their child .. afraid that their child facing some problems that's why asking if their short in money .. pls .pardon my grammar 😅😅😅😅
@sugarapflowisoneofakind3 жыл бұрын
Maybe because they show more in action rather than words I guess
@idkme65083 жыл бұрын
Lol I live with my parents because I am less than 14 and when I tell my parents ily they never reply or even say a word.
@bublyang25213 жыл бұрын
well i don't say i love you back because it sounds wrong 👁👄👁😭
@tom_linsonx13 жыл бұрын
It’s so hard for me to tell my parents that i love them, which i really do. Feels like you’re stuck in between, to tell them and feel awkward or to shut up and feel sorry for not telling them. Worst feeling ever
@kthlovers94703 жыл бұрын
What can we do to prevent this 😭🤧😌
@Jaz-wb2qt3 жыл бұрын
That’s facts
@noam23153 жыл бұрын
With me it's because she never said it to me and I'm scared if I tell her she won't say it back. I'm 36 and still am scared to tell her.
@ruki45853 жыл бұрын
So true
@andye49723 жыл бұрын
Better to feel awkward and tell your parents you love them, than to never have the chance to say you love them when their gone 😭
@animehearts0909 Жыл бұрын
So emotional to see people say " i love you" to their parents💗💗
@spersaudot7 Жыл бұрын
After hearing the giggle after saying " I love you" made my heart melt ♥ ❤ 💓
@savannahngl3 жыл бұрын
I’m Asian, I called my mom to do this. It went like this. Me: “Hi mom.” Mom: “Yes?” Me: “am I disturbing you right now?” Mom: “No, I was making lunch. What do you want?” Me: “I wanted to say I love you” Mom: “Ok what’s wrong?” Me: “Nothing, I just wanted to tell you” Mom: “Don’t lie, what’s going on *switches languages*” Me: “Nothing- I just wanted to tell you 😭” Mom: ”If you say so, you better not be lying. Don’t forget to come home and do your chores and homework” Me: “Yes ma’am 😭😂”
@isismg41193 жыл бұрын
When saying I love you to your mom turns into a lecture 😂 My mom would say “if you love me you’d have the house always clean” lol
@TreeMan3 жыл бұрын
Hhhh a bit real~
@janhvideshmukh57863 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣
@sarbamon_hanse3 жыл бұрын
✨😃✨
@Godsuicide3 жыл бұрын
why do you have a cctv in my family lol
@freyjassi10213 жыл бұрын
Saying I love you to asian parents be like: "Are you drunk?" "You need money?" "What do you want this time?" "You did something wrong?" "Are you okay? You're not suicidal right?" "Are you sick?" "Is this a prank?" "It's a lie. You better talk gracefully to me, do your chores if you really love me, your room is a mess! *endless lecture*"
@user-fu2qb8ub1f3 жыл бұрын
Oh goddd 😂😂😂 if I will say to my Indian mom so she will also like this 😁😁😂😂
@sarakim68613 жыл бұрын
My Algerian Mom to 🤣
@user-fu2qb8ub1f3 жыл бұрын
@@sarakim6861 😂
@6maria943 жыл бұрын
I'm portuguese but my Mother would be like the last xD and my father would ask me what my intentions are lol
@sarakim68613 жыл бұрын
@@6maria94 it's okay mine to 🤣 , they will insul me like my Mom will be like : Oh you daughter of b*tch what did you do ? 🤣
@brandonso11 ай бұрын
Ironically "Do you need money?" is the parent's way of saying "I love you.". They want to give to show love.
@amberhadley1712 Жыл бұрын
If I called out of the blue and said I love you to my parents they would either think that I was being kidnapped or I was gonna commit suicide
@hannahpaul32563 жыл бұрын
It's sad that the children were hoping that their parents would say ' I love you' back yet only a very few actually did🥺 You could tell many of them were disappointed to not here that response.
@introvert_scribe34893 жыл бұрын
Parents were taken aback so they automatically functioned in a mode they would usually respond
@james57173 жыл бұрын
It’s not that they don’t love them back it just that they can’t express. But their love is more deep then we can ever think. Parents love are unconditional
@DuM4U3 жыл бұрын
@@james5717 I can confirm too. Having asian parents, it's very hard for them to express themselves
@Dm3tX7zn3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, same happened in the parents saying I love you to their children video. I think because they feel awkward since it never happened before and they dont know how to respond.
@Xenoglee3 жыл бұрын
Because it's like out of the blue
@01iuia3 жыл бұрын
The fact that not all of the parents said “I love you” back.
@ItsAKJ3 жыл бұрын
Asian parents might now say it back but that doesn’t mean they don’t love their kids
@anvithareddy37403 жыл бұрын
It's okay cuz we Asian kids know that they love us 💕
@jeb31803 жыл бұрын
they dont need to
@Halforange3 жыл бұрын
Having a hard time saying it probably
@shraddhapawar44173 жыл бұрын
THEY DON'T HAVE TO. Because they already did every single second for years and years and years.... when they gave you birth, when they fed you, when they admitted you to school, when they took you to the park, when they gave you safe shelter to live, when they bought you a toy, when they took you to the doctor when you were sick...... That's "Love" . Everyday. Every second.
@Eyale111 Жыл бұрын
I can't even describe how much i love this kind of videos! I'd like to more videos like this in the future!
@shqdae Жыл бұрын
it’s so interesting to see how hard it is not only for parents to say ‘i love you’ but most likely their kids as well due to growing up un-used to it. well i’m glad that if they have a good relationship with their loved ones they can express that through their actions at least!
@01iuia3 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for the kids.. most of the parents didn’t say “I love you” back, they just say “thank you.” like your supposed to say “I love you too” 😕
@TheKute0ne3 жыл бұрын
Instead of saying I love you back the parents also say come back home early or its cold outside.. Just because they dont say it doesn't mean they dont love them.. They obviously care and the love is within that
@anjalovesu3 жыл бұрын
I think some of the parents where confused or flustered half of them thought theur child did or wanted somethin
@livbedumb46033 жыл бұрын
but they say thank you from the bottom of their heart.... sometimes they are very toxic to us but remember they love you so much...
@shin-rq3vh3 жыл бұрын
Saying “I love you too” isn’t the only way to express your love for people you know?? I told my mom that I love her one time and I haven’t said it in a while to her before that. She just laughed cuz she felt embarrassed since it’s been a long time since I told her that lol. Maybe the other parents were feeling the same way. Idk 🤷♀️ just a hunch.
@keiram49163 жыл бұрын
Maybe because they're confused or flustered and not often the kids say that to then
@TheAriesprincess193 жыл бұрын
The girl crying after telling her mom she loves her made me emotional. It’s kind of heartbreaking that Asians rarely say that to their parents/kids. I know love is shown in other ways but sometimes it so refreshing to actually hear those words from the people you love and vice versa.
@bellaaaahhh3 жыл бұрын
“Asians” is a very broad term. This is Chinese culture. Many south East Asian countries tell their parents they love them just as much if not more than western countries.
@heehee70343 жыл бұрын
@@bellaaaahhh hate to break it to you but Asians parents don't say that they love their kids, but instead they show it
@akanshabhora65863 жыл бұрын
@@bellaaaahhh I am a Asian too and I kid you not I haven't nor my parents say that we love each other if I say them this they will think I am about to die or in danger something
@isabellewarren5353 жыл бұрын
@@bellaaaahhh your statement is kinda ironic cuz "Southeast Asia" is also a broad term. Cuz I'm from Southeast Asia and I know many families who don't say I love u to each other lol
@yuuqqq3 жыл бұрын
@@bellaaaahhh sorry to break it to u but as someone from south east Asia, I haven’t said the phrase “I love u” to my parents in a few years
@johnelreiguzvant9784 Жыл бұрын
Come home early - simple way to respond that you love the person and you care for them ❤️ touching.
@moment4868 Жыл бұрын
I often say to parents "I love you" ... just three words, but they warm the soul. Thank you for the touching video, I shed tears .🥲🫂❤
@runran99403 жыл бұрын
The way the parents suddenly goes silent for a moment after hearing the “I love you “ word means that they really not used to hear it more often and didn’t really expect it,but you can hear their cheerful voice after hearing it.
@tiraidapakpahan94763 жыл бұрын
Agree
@hahi45413 жыл бұрын
If it was my parents they just say it back😁 we are honestly used to it-
@Fernandaaa8323 жыл бұрын
"What are u out of money, u just love me for my money?" that made me think deep thoughts.
@Daniela-jn1gk3 жыл бұрын
He is worried for her daughter.
@suzy82543 жыл бұрын
That is literally how most asian parents cope with being shy and flustered hearing their child saying the L word...
@ishworshrestha35593 жыл бұрын
Ok
@eunice3573 жыл бұрын
that was a joke
@alextran21283 жыл бұрын
It’s just a joke. Asian parents tend to say something like that when they hear “i love you” from their children because they’re shy :))) My parents alse make the same joke. Lol I guess it’s just an Asian thing. 🥰
@user-tj1xl8dr8e Жыл бұрын
Parents and money are the only reason I don't tell them. It hurts me when I want to tell them I love them and they think I want to use them. I would never use such strong words for money. Mom, Dad I love you
@wiccanloverkris Жыл бұрын
A very different cultural feel 💚 brought me to tears. I tell my parents often how much I love and appreciate them. Both of them lost their parents as young adults and I want to make sure they know how loved they are.
@mekasa67212 жыл бұрын
I never said “I love you” to my parents, I feel embarrassed to say it and I don’t know how to over come this feeling💔
@aanuskayasasawi85792 жыл бұрын
It's alright, we all have same feelings
@tigerlily54162 жыл бұрын
You don't need a special occasion, you can just burst it out at anytime to them. They love it when they can hear that from their children
@MUZ-zg4nv2 жыл бұрын
Daaaamn you're toxic
@only_an_alien18782 жыл бұрын
I feel the same. I try to say it and some times it works and I say "Iloveuuu~~", so shy hahahaha
@emmmannn39602 жыл бұрын
I feel you
@mysty75202 жыл бұрын
I wish I could've said "I love you" to my mom before she left this world.
@J_I_E_N2 жыл бұрын
Condolences
@goodlife13022 жыл бұрын
How are you now? I can understand you as I am in the same situation
@ooogabooogaa2 жыл бұрын
@@goodlife1302 man..I hope you're doing good rn
@goodlife13022 жыл бұрын
@@ooogabooogaa I am fine. Life is going on. Let's see what happens. Thanks a lot for asking my friend. I hope you are fine too
@ooogabooogaa2 жыл бұрын
@@goodlife1302 yeah I'm fine too. I am glad you're okay. I lost my dad when I was 3, barely remember anything from that time. So idk how it is like to lose a parent. Though, I can see the pain in my elder brother's eyes cause he was around 10 so he knows it much better. Idk what I would do if i lose my mom. Since we are Christians, we get message From God while praying and He said that our family must pray cause mom's life is short. We are constantly praying that God prolongs her life . I am keeping my faith that God will not make me an orphan right now.
even though i grew up hearing and saying "i love you" to my mom, i still cried while watching this
@idowhatican15252 жыл бұрын
Me: *calls mom* Mom: “yeah hello?” Me: “I love you” Mom: “what do you mean what’s going on are you gonna hurt yourself please don’t do this it’s not the answer don’t you hang up on me keep me on call-“ Me: “I just wanted to say I love you I’m okay-“ Mom: “oh okay love you too”
@lovissa44102 жыл бұрын
same lmao
@DoryLoryi2 жыл бұрын
OMG LMAO
@melpomenethemuse2 жыл бұрын
It’s the same for me! She asked if she should call the police… I say it all the time, at the end of a phone call! Not the beginning.
@baoobuns2 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@erick_5232 жыл бұрын
I think so
@tozyulshif3 жыл бұрын
every asian kids to their parents: "I love you" also every asian parents after heard that: "how much money do you want?" . funny but this is so realistic lmao
@frstarz3 жыл бұрын
hi i have something to tell you that you have to do. just say i love you to your parents and hug them and the more you say it the more they will think about you and know how much you love them and its really touching to them. mostly for the people who arent loved a lot, if their child says it every single day. you dont know how happy they will be. and how awarding it will be for you at the end. its all worth it.
@sherry3987 Жыл бұрын
To say “I love you” to our family especially our parents is very important, because love is meant to be spoken.❤
@CatharticCreation Жыл бұрын
This was very needed. I hope “I love you” as a regular expression becomes more common in cultures where it is difficult to say. Heart opening energy.
@inorita19993 жыл бұрын
As an Asian American, “I love you” isn’t normally spoken in an average Asian American household unless they are extremely close or it’s directed to or from your grandparents. Since saying “I love you” isn’t a norm, Asian parents assume their child is in some sort of trouble or is in need of some cash when they receive this three lettered phrase. This doesn’t usually apply to younger ages. My mother and I used to have a thing where we just randomly say I love you and then respond I love you more and so forth. I was like 6 though. This is for anyone that doesn’t understand why these people are sort of cringing before saying it.
@shush2853 жыл бұрын
That is so true. In Asia we express our love by doing stuff for others n not saying stuff. Maybe that is why I felt so awkward while the entire video was going on
@catw3 жыл бұрын
@Emilio Franco no that's not how it is
@TreeMan3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the explanation
@angelicaalmuete35183 жыл бұрын
This is true.
@reikaogura70333 жыл бұрын
True, they show love by giving economic stability
@normaw56942 жыл бұрын
Indeed the words that are difficult to express are "I love you" to our parents, I cried seeing this because I never said those words to my parents too;
@candyz.2 жыл бұрын
It's good that I'm not alone crying 😂
@hilarywong38512 жыл бұрын
I’m crying too lol for that same reason ;; i feel like an idiot because it should be so easy to say, but i’ve never said it to my dad before
@hanamariamsyed2 жыл бұрын
If you’ve never said ily to your parents say it to them now and if you find it weird just text them no matter what they’re your parents and they are the reason you exist so even if they hate you they still are your parents. T-T
@lem09able2 жыл бұрын
@ARMY AN BLINK Don't worry, those words will be with you if you or should you ever have children. Raise them well and fill them with the love you missed, one day, you'll be on the receiving end of those words.
@sofiasofi49682 жыл бұрын
I never did to my dad T_T
@user-js2kc1ul2p Жыл бұрын
真正的愛不需要說出口就能了解
@L1ardr34m Жыл бұрын
I tell my parents all the time that I love them very much, it amazes me how some people don't... I guess it's because of the culture (I'm Mexican)
@15lenalee3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, if your parents don't teach you to say "I love you" since very young, it's so hard to do it when you grew up. It's not only Asians but people all around the world.
@kosmos7-73 жыл бұрын
That's a fact..😩💜💜
@dani_ellaaa3 жыл бұрын
FACTS!
@alejandrar1273 жыл бұрын
I mean it's not like they didn't teach me but it's just so hard like i would start tearing up and that is NOT what I want (I hate crying so i try to avoid it as much as I can lol)
@Polar-Bear_place3 жыл бұрын
@@alejandrar127 lol same
@aanyapandey713 жыл бұрын
Its not like a thing to teach . In asia we show our love through acts . Its like saying blood is red . You already know that they love you and they know that you love them . parents also say i love you rarely .
@brunaeduardaw2 жыл бұрын
3:50 She literally turned red and her eyes filled with tears.
@funreal_fog84662 жыл бұрын
Yep,i saw that 😔
@Artiseryy9 ай бұрын
I'm really touched. This made me cry..😭❤❤
@aeliria2 жыл бұрын
this is so wholesome 😭💕
@sab-and-kylie3 жыл бұрын
Me "I love you mom. " Mom "IS EVERYTHING ALRIGHT?!? WHY ARE YOU SAYING I LOVE YOU?!? WHAT'S HAPPENING?" Me *"Tf.."*