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Support Court with Judge Vonda B.

Support Court with Judge Vonda B.

Күн бұрын

Charles is bringing April to court for an increase in child support. April is currently paying minimum wage support and says she cannot afford an increase due to being in debt and paying for her bipolar medication.

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@kaichoukai
@kaichoukai 7 ай бұрын
Him getting anxious seeing her foot tapping is a huge trauma response if I've ever seen one... I hope this man is doing better and has found better in his life
@millicenthamilton-kakowski8275
@millicenthamilton-kakowski8275 6 ай бұрын
I noticed that, too. I always say, "you never know a person until you live w/them". He knows her!
@robotflannery54
@robotflannery54 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who is and has bipolar run in the family line, being bipolar does not justify physical or mentally abusing anyone ever. It was her choice to have a physical altercations not her bipolar, she alone is responsible for her mental upkeep and she should have been aware of her mental health in the moment and practiced coping skills to handle the situation safely. It offends me when people blame bad behavior on bipolar, it contributes to the stigma to the mental illness.
@tree6787
@tree6787 2 жыл бұрын
Facts!
@nellysmith6006
@nellysmith6006 2 жыл бұрын
They were probably both abusive. He was financially and emotionally abusive, you can tell that just from this clip, he used to not buy her medication, he used to leave her to do the majority of the childcare, and he has recently sold her a faulty car. She used to hit him. It's all abuse. It's good they are not together anymore, their relationship was obviously toxic.
@beautydiore3428
@beautydiore3428 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Let's of people use bipolar as an excuse to act a fool. That is the reason why they have to take their meds and gave coping mechanisms.
@jahawalgern8273
@jahawalgern8273 2 жыл бұрын
Okay well not everyone had healthy coping mechanism and sometimes the disease does get the better of you, and you don’t have HER bipolar… or her temperament- bipolar people aren’t a monolith, sighed someone with adhd, bpd, and anxiety. Not saying violence is ever okay, not saying she was justified, but u inserting yourself into the equation of her life and her emotional maturity is downright obnoxious and dogmatic.
@bobbierodriguez6452
@bobbierodriguez6452 2 жыл бұрын
As a war veteran, I struggle with PTSD. You are right that it is our responsibility to take care of ourselves. Self-care mentally is important. For a couple of years, I was in total denial that I can handle myself just fine. But if you don't take care of yourself mentally you will break down.
@mahandrews8074
@mahandrews8074 2 жыл бұрын
The judge should’ve thrown the book at her immediately when she confessed to domestic violence. Treat men victims the same way women victims are treated. 🤦🏽‍♀️
@tylermassaro4266
@tylermassaro4266 2 жыл бұрын
Where do you like to go on the weekends? I’m just trying to figure out where i can find myself a woman like you. PREACH IT
@KazekageMizuri
@KazekageMizuri 2 жыл бұрын
agreed 100%
@syyy444
@syyy444 2 жыл бұрын
🗣💯🅿️
@aquanettaspeight3819
@aquanettaspeight3819 2 жыл бұрын
OH NOW 😅
@pgpluss1076
@pgpluss1076 2 жыл бұрын
Yes please.
@jaimefio643
@jaimefio643 2 жыл бұрын
I’m amazed how many men have stepped up and are raising these children. It warms my heart to see it.
@taiwanisacountry
@taiwanisacountry 11 ай бұрын
I wished my dad had been one of those men.
@WeilongYou
@WeilongYou 6 ай бұрын
So a women would have stepped aside to raise kids
@simantha6189
@simantha6189 2 жыл бұрын
People who use their mental illness as an excuse for abuse and being an all around horrible human disgust me. I also have BPD and I don’t just go around physically abusing my partner on my bad days.
@teresaskillings-peterson2714
@teresaskillings-peterson2714 2 жыл бұрын
Right
@mrs1975brown
@mrs1975brown 2 жыл бұрын
Yup
@pamtoney8950
@pamtoney8950 2 жыл бұрын
I agree with you and I have bipolar and I don't do that
@sonyaweinreis6530
@sonyaweinreis6530 2 жыл бұрын
I to have bpc and I never have at any time hit or hurt my husband. I've had it for years,I take my meds every day
@florencedebear1576
@florencedebear1576 2 жыл бұрын
Same here. It's like "the devil made me do it".
@BonitaShinobi
@BonitaShinobi 2 жыл бұрын
“This lady did that? She looks so sweet” her face 😂
@freshbme2
@freshbme2 Жыл бұрын
Those are the ones that beat yo ass when nobody's looking!!
@chloelucas3580
@chloelucas3580 2 жыл бұрын
Why haven't they given Judge Vonda a TV channel yet???
@taeggukvlog
@taeggukvlog 2 жыл бұрын
Is that a real court?
@pattygtv4052
@pattygtv4052 2 жыл бұрын
@@taeggukvlog nah
@ChikiD
@ChikiD 2 жыл бұрын
Heard they working on one
@samimilly3405
@samimilly3405 2 жыл бұрын
I don't think they will give her a channel but maybe a TV program
@knightclassic1
@knightclassic1 2 жыл бұрын
They need to, I'm sick of Judge Mathis, always have Bitter Single Mothers, he always downgrade all Black Fathers down when it comes to Child Support, he never had any Single Dads Cases.
@chelaparker8119
@chelaparker8119 2 жыл бұрын
"I don't need your defense because I didn't need her story" that is so true. The lady blamed him for everything. Take responsibility
@anthonyruiz8519
@anthonyruiz8519 2 жыл бұрын
i kinda get it but i do believe her story should matter. i am all for parents needing to help support their children but not taking into account other things in their lives is wrong. if she has debt shes working to pay off fixing a car etc taking almost a thousand from her could result in her not having power or gas to work or money to pay rent etc. thats wrong imo
@tylergartner4069
@tylergartner4069 2 жыл бұрын
@@anthonyruiz8519 So we shouldn't hold people to their financial responsibility as parents because they have proven to be financially irresponsible by racking up large amounts of debt? She has no explanation as for why she quit her minimum wage job but left without anything else lined up, relyed on credit and built up debt and now she wants to be cut a break on her child support obligations so she can save up money to pay off her debt. See unfortunately considering someone's debt is irrelevant in child support cases, your support obligations are based on your income so even if she was allowed a grace period to take care of her debt she would just be accumulating more debt in the back payments on support from the date of the ruling
@WoodysOpinion101
@WoodysOpinion101 2 жыл бұрын
@@anthonyruiz8519 she needs to pay her debt yes but the kids come first so they should not miss out because the mother has debts... she needs to pay up...
@nellysmith6006
@nellysmith6006 2 жыл бұрын
@@tylergartner4069 She actually explained that her husband refused to buy her medication that she needs to manage her mental health condition. I believe it is relatively obvious with that information why she quit her job, and I believe that he should be considered an abuser in this scenario.
@tylergartner4069
@tylergartner4069 2 жыл бұрын
@@nellysmith6006 "he let my medication..... well I was off my meds and he said he couldn't afford to cover my medication" It's convenient that everything is his fault, notice how she claimed the reason she went upside his head was because the child was crying all day and he wasn't giving her enough help. Then when the judge asked if was an isolated incident and the husband clarified it wasn't suddenly the story changed to it being because she was off her medication. Seems to me she's just allergic to accountability, her debts are his fault, her violent outbursts are because she's bipolar and he's not helping her enough but then they're actually because she was off her meds and that also wasn't her fault because he couldn't afford to pay for them....
@userused3199
@userused3199 2 жыл бұрын
Judge Vonda is a class act. Treats everybody with dignity and tolerates no disrespect.
@oldpop788
@oldpop788 2 жыл бұрын
It’s called acting.
@lilig4396
@lilig4396 2 жыл бұрын
I scratch my head every time I hear ppl say "...umm about this much or around that much," they should know exactly what a cost they pay is...bring receipts should be mandatory 😤
@ilianamartinez3658
@ilianamartinez3658 2 жыл бұрын
i agree but these are just scenarios and actors so that’s why it’s not as official as it should be
@PiNkzThiNkz
@PiNkzThiNkz 2 жыл бұрын
@@ilianamartinez3658 I was about to ask is this real because should they have proof of all this
@tishsowards936
@tishsowards936 2 жыл бұрын
Yes agreed they should have to bring proof of the things not being mean but people can easily lie about something like that and the proof should have to be shown on paper of what they are paying
@772amanda237
@772amanda237 2 жыл бұрын
Oh man it's a pet peeve for me
@LOOKAMAHBODY
@LOOKAMAHBODY 2 жыл бұрын
I absolutely despise when people use Bipolar Disorder as a reason to act like a fool. That is such a cop out.
@nellysmith6006
@nellysmith6006 2 жыл бұрын
I think she mentioned it, because her partner was stealing/hiding/witholding her medication.
@Leo42.069
@Leo42.069 Жыл бұрын
@@nellysmith6006 neither he couldnt afford it
@nellysmith6006
@nellysmith6006 Жыл бұрын
@@Leo42.069 he was in charge of the finances and didn't give her the money to buy her the medication for her mental health condition, so that she would become unstable and he could use that instability as an excuse for having full custody, and then claiming child support. He was just manipulative.
@Leo42.069
@Leo42.069 Жыл бұрын
@@nellysmith6006 bro you cant give someone money you dont have plus she should be working to get money even if its just enough for her medicine as everyone in chat who says they have bpd it is no one's responsibility but hers that she stays medicated
@aniellofico2478
@aniellofico2478 Жыл бұрын
My mom does it all the time and will use as an excuse to belittle people and wanna fight people.
@linasinclair3576
@linasinclair3576 2 жыл бұрын
That look at her foot moving she on gave that man PTSD
@moniquejefferson5676
@moniquejefferson5676 2 жыл бұрын
He looks nervous the whole time.
@denisedunn5984
@denisedunn5984 2 жыл бұрын
😢
@shavonne4831
@shavonne4831 2 жыл бұрын
Right
@TheHonorableAngelinaNordstrom
@TheHonorableAngelinaNordstrom 2 жыл бұрын
Now, that father there is a very handsome man. But I hate how she tried to use those tears and that sad face to get some sympathy from Judge Vonda. It didn't work. She needs to pay that child support and get her life together.
@nikeyahenderson7285
@nikeyahenderson7285 2 жыл бұрын
She went up side my head for not heating my food in the microwave 😭😭😭😭
@mattroth6262
@mattroth6262 2 жыл бұрын
yeah we deal with that and get called pussies for being hit by a woman
@ronaldeason8616
@ronaldeason8616 2 жыл бұрын
She probably went upside his shit in the parking lot.
@amybynum8962
@amybynum8962 2 жыл бұрын
Probably
@flamez9669
@flamez9669 2 жыл бұрын
"I said put my food in the mf microwave it's cold"!🤣 (Throws plate upside dude head like color purple 😂)
@jeylenlevy857
@jeylenlevy857 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t mean to laugh at that part but it was the way he said it with the face expression 😂😂😂😂
@BuellXB12SDucati1198
@BuellXB12SDucati1198 2 жыл бұрын
My ex wife suffers from bipolar disorder and it caused extreme harm to our children and myself. It got to the point I had to divorce and take the kids. This was in a time before Bipolar was even a thing. Today it's much better for her so long as she is on her medication. She had brutal highs and suicidal lows. She came close to ending our children's lives a couple of times. That's when I got out of marriage and took the kids. It was so bad her own lawyer wanted me to get the kids. Don't worry as the kids are fully grown and doing excellent. I have three grand children. My ex wife is not allowed around the grand children ever. Thankfully the ex got the help she needed and is doing well and lives alone. She will never have a relationship by her choice. If you know anyone suffer from bipolar disorder please get help.
@yosoyroman875
@yosoyroman875 2 жыл бұрын
My god, thanks for sharing your story. I just learned a lot. I’m glad your children had you, and your ex eventually received the help she needed.
@mmokuso
@mmokuso 2 жыл бұрын
I would never hurt my baby and I'm bipolar but when I was unmedicated before I knew, I had bad hallucinations and paranoia so hopefully she got the help she needed. Sounds like more is going on as well but I'm happy for you and your kids. Does she talk to them at all?
@BuellXB12SDucati1198
@BuellXB12SDucati1198 2 жыл бұрын
@@mmokuso I get along with my ex very well. She called me yesterday for some advise. My son has a limited relationship with his mom. My daughter has three children and has no contact with the ex by her choice. The ex is ok with this arrangement and is doing well. I can hold decent conversations with the ex and I know when to either change the topic or end the exchange before she goes into her usual ranting. I can tell if she skips her meds but she rarely does that as she doesn't like herself from it. She can't keep frends or even get along with her own family. She is not a bad or evil person at all. She simply gets confused with her emotions like she is on overdrive. There is no middle ground once she gets an idea in her mind she has a difficult time understanding how to change or let it go. It wasn't all bad all of the time but when it went wrong it was definitely a struggle as she could see the harm but couldn't stop herself from her mission to make everyone see it her way. That's why many people have a hard time being around her as her behavior can be disturbing. The good news now that she is much older and understands how her thought process was off kilter she is aware and is on proper medication and is living her best life. I'm actually very proud of her for being able to defuse her own behavior. She has the ability to slow down and think about things and what's the best outcome where before she just bullied her way through. The best news for bipolar sufferers which has many different levels there is help if you find the right doctor and choose to listen and learn.
@mmokuso
@mmokuso 2 жыл бұрын
@@BuellXB12SDucati1198 good for her I'll keep all of you in my prayers. I hope my illness never gets that hard for me :/
@speedtuber1046
@speedtuber1046 2 жыл бұрын
So your perfect? Everyone deals with her when it's convenient for them. But if anything happens to her I can tell you now a lot of y'all have to check your own flaws? So are your children punishing her because of the disease and she has no choice other to agree not to go around people.
@tash4122
@tash4122 7 ай бұрын
That was such a civilised hearing !!! I mean yes there were disagreements, but no yelling!?!? Wow . All the best to this beautiful little girl in her ballet .
@heatherward5053
@heatherward5053 2 жыл бұрын
Even giving an excuse for physical abuse is disgusting… the only words she should be speaking is an apology. There’s never an excuse
@nellysmith6006
@nellysmith6006 2 жыл бұрын
They are both abusive to each other in different way. The relationship was a dumpster fire, but she's not the only one at fault. Witholding someone's medication is also abusive.
@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD
@Dr.JudeAEMasonMD Жыл бұрын
@@nellysmith6006 💯 and there is a VERY clear relationship between her condition being adequately treated, her symptoms, and what he alleges as abuse.
@brianawhittaker8152
@brianawhittaker8152 Жыл бұрын
I agree an apology and follow it up with permanently changed behavior. Bc unless they mean it an apology is just words.
@l.1692
@l.1692 9 ай бұрын
​@@brianawhittaker8152 Praying you never need medication to live and can't get access to it.
@Nancy-uc2tu
@Nancy-uc2tu 8 ай бұрын
I have bipolar. All I hear are excuses of pity poor me from her. She’s responsible for her actions. Nobody but her.
@mrandmrsanderson3396
@mrandmrsanderson3396 2 жыл бұрын
Omg I love Judge VondaB!!! She’s so funny and doesn’t play no games. I love it 🥰
@kyleewilliams369
@kyleewilliams369 2 жыл бұрын
What’s sad is that the first thing out of the judges mouth when he said she was abuse was basically “she looks to nice to hit you”…. Unfortunately women can abuse men just the same
@victoriamiller7738
@victoriamiller7738 2 жыл бұрын
I think she was being sarcastic. At least, I hope so. 😩😩
@nellysmith6006
@nellysmith6006 2 жыл бұрын
True. And financial abuse is still abuse. Witholding a mentally ill person medication is extremely abusive behaviour.
@Leo42.069
@Leo42.069 Жыл бұрын
@@nellysmith6006 it wasnt tho he just couldnt afford it
@dw4658
@dw4658 2 жыл бұрын
“Was it a isolated incident” “huh” 💀
@dalmeshasloss7765
@dalmeshasloss7765 3 ай бұрын
I came for this 😂😂
@emaniwallace5566
@emaniwallace5566 2 жыл бұрын
Waiting! These 10 minutes better hurry up. My lunch break is starting ha
@kenniapresident7666
@kenniapresident7666 2 жыл бұрын
😅glad I’m not the only one on my lunch break
@lxlPhishlxl
@lxlPhishlxl 2 жыл бұрын
🤣 oh man do I feel you on this… I’m a truck driver and I’m out here thinking hurry up I gotta get back on the road…
@w1nstonb1ack
@w1nstonb1ack 2 жыл бұрын
ive been watching for a week and now im hooked :)
@kayshawnsimmons6822
@kayshawnsimmons6822 2 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the Judge Vonda B. Family 👩🏾‍⚖️❤👀🍿☕
@stevenazilazian7248
@stevenazilazian7248 2 жыл бұрын
Just remember it's actually not a real courtroom. They are all actors and she isn't a judge, just making sure
@w1nstonb1ack
@w1nstonb1ack 2 жыл бұрын
@@stevenazilazian7248 yesh i know its still entertaining
@kirashaanisha-id4kv
@kirashaanisha-id4kv 2 ай бұрын
The man looked scared for his life
@Setebos
@Setebos 2 жыл бұрын
I'm starting a Judge Vonda B drinking game. Take a drink every time someone says their child is in ballet.
@corymehrhoff2412
@corymehrhoff2412 6 ай бұрын
Or, if every time the man says he's a rapper. 😂😂
@brookemusick5066
@brookemusick5066 2 жыл бұрын
Watching this the last few of my lunch break😂
@kianalyprod_
@kianalyprod_ 2 жыл бұрын
Same! I was walking back holding my phone trying to finish the video
@mimisilva785
@mimisilva785 Жыл бұрын
ME TOOO BRO
@tweety200183
@tweety200183 2 жыл бұрын
As a mother that has a child with the same issue doesn't really give her any reason to do what she has but she's deflecting using her issue as an excuse. Smh pathetic the length she is going to.
@nellysmith6006
@nellysmith6006 2 жыл бұрын
The difference is her loved one was not responsible and was witholding the medication. This is also abuse.
@richardaustin3403
@richardaustin3403 2 жыл бұрын
Having a partner with mental health issuses is emotionally draining and can get to a stage you just can't cope with them anymore for your and your children's health. Sad but true
@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris
@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris 2 жыл бұрын
Judge Vonda gives me Judge Mablean vibes 😉.
@wetsocks9952
@wetsocks9952 2 жыл бұрын
"He's a fine looking man." "He's a nice looking guy." The speed at which she said that had me dying!🤣
@joisaac89
@joisaac89 2 жыл бұрын
Eye of the beholder . But he's very ugly emotionally bc you can tell he drug her through the mud. Sickness and in health. Bipolar is Sickness. So he should have been there for her.
@Shade557
@Shade557 Жыл бұрын
Time stamp?
@Ash_Jay.
@Ash_Jay. Жыл бұрын
@@Shade557first one was 3:16
@Ash_Jay.
@Ash_Jay. Жыл бұрын
@@Shade557oh and the second quote comes from the judge right after maybe 3:19
@Nadia_just
@Nadia_just 7 ай бұрын
Well he is a handsome man fr
@electroblaze_
@electroblaze_ Жыл бұрын
"I have bipolar your honor" girl, I have bpd and so much other shit but I'm not abusing my friends or family. Just because you have bipolar doesn't give you a free pass to be abusive. I've also had to be on and off so many meds, where withdrawal would make me miserable. But again I wouldn't take it out on my friends or family. You chose to put your hands on him your bipolar didn't.
@janen1064
@janen1064 2 жыл бұрын
50k up from minimum wage and she’s complaining
@kayshawnsimmons6822
@kayshawnsimmons6822 2 жыл бұрын
She sounds absurd 🤡🤛🏾
@dionheart7382
@dionheart7382 Жыл бұрын
I’m so glad he didn’t hit her back… he would have been 💀 for self defense and she would have got off free
@nuavecmoi
@nuavecmoi Жыл бұрын
2:34 I can’t believe the judge just let her abusive behavior go. She was having a bad day and he didn’t want to help? So she has to right to hit him? The judge just moved to him and asked if it was an isolated incident. She did it multiple times. Then blames him for not paying for the medication. Everything is his fault. It’s classic narcissistic behavior. Imagine if it was a man who did that. That judge is sexist. Her silence says women can abuse men. Unsubscribe.
@jefferyespj
@jefferyespj 2 жыл бұрын
Judge I love your court show. I’ve always heard Family Court is very hard. You really make the law easy to understand
@sashanebrown9037
@sashanebrown9037 2 жыл бұрын
"She looks so sweet".... Lmao.🤣🤣😂..looks can be deceiving.
@Piya-cx9jp
@Piya-cx9jp Жыл бұрын
Bipolar is a disease. It is tough to deal with. People sympathize when people see physical illnesses. Mental illness can cause a lot of stress in one’s life. Based upon watching various previous videos, I feel child support law needs to be modified. It shouldn’t be based on income only and who is keeping the children. She won’t have anything left or even go in more debt to keep her expenses (food, rent, utility bills), retirement, car, insurance, gas money, federal tax, health insurance, cable, phone etc.
@caseyr7406
@caseyr7406 2 жыл бұрын
How much these people have to pay amazes me! I received maybe a quarter of that and sometimes nothing. He didn’t even start to pay child support until he was 4 or 5. I always told his dad it wasn’t enough. You have school supplies, field trips, lunch money, clothes, sports and whatever else. Nothing is cheap. My son is 21 now. Time flies and ur kid is a grown up before you know it ❤️
@lisatolliver2866
@lisatolliver2866 2 жыл бұрын
My ex husband didnt start paying child support until my daughter was 13 years old, he was court ordered to pay starting at 3 months. The amount was only $80 per month, and he always used his younger children as a reason not to pay. he also changed jobs to get out of paying. It was ridiculous.
@AtooZkids
@AtooZkids 11 ай бұрын
My stepdaughter’s mother just started paying child support that has been in arrears for years. My stepdaughter is 30.
@larsanapeters5560
@larsanapeters5560 2 жыл бұрын
Restaurant manager is a high stress job,and she’s Bipolar?!
@sharonmcguire4801
@sharonmcguire4801 2 ай бұрын
That’s what I thought !!!
@susanjeffay3851
@susanjeffay3851 2 жыл бұрын
She makes so much more than most people I know with two degrees...!
@shannonbrice8012
@shannonbrice8012 2 жыл бұрын
I know someone who takes their child one day a week and doesn't pay support. They balked at being asked for 50 dollars a month for clothing and will only give it if they get a receipt. I looked up how much he should be paying in child support and it is close to 700 dollars. I just shook my head and thought he needs to be dragged into court if he thinks 50 dollars a month is too much to pay.
@Francofit
@Francofit 2 жыл бұрын
Does the other parent ask for child suplort
@shannonbrice8012
@shannonbrice8012 2 жыл бұрын
@@Francofit When they first separated it was supposed to be 50/50 custody (3 days with the child and then the next week 4 days). Each would pay for what the child needed. Then it dropped to one day a week (usually it is about 3 days a month they see their child). I suspect looking after a toddler half of the week was too daunting.
@joytoyouandme4593
@joytoyouandme4593 2 жыл бұрын
@@shannonbrice8012 -This happened with my ex. As soon as I had our child 95% I went straight to court for full custody and support. What is stopping this mother from doing the same? If she isn’t going to take him to court then she can’t complain. Once he is ordered getting behind will have ramifications like jail time or losing his dr. License
@torreebryant540
@torreebryant540 2 жыл бұрын
I wish we could see more of her court cases. It's been a minute since a new episode posted. 😔
@marcuswilliams1540
@marcuswilliams1540 2 жыл бұрын
Bi-polar! She on the good side at court😇, but at home shes🤬
@kayshawnsimmons6822
@kayshawnsimmons6822 2 жыл бұрын
That how con artists do👹🤛🏾💯
@terrellbooker4019
@terrellbooker4019 2 жыл бұрын
Women hits man it's something mental guy hits girl he's so abusive and toxic, this double standard crap is getting old. How about this, every body keep there hands to there self! Is it really that hard?
@jevonchapman6802
@jevonchapman6802 2 жыл бұрын
I think she only took her meds that day in court to sweet talk the judge 🤣🤣🤣 why whenever women get judgements for child support you always want to ask if the man works or say that isnt fair. Now yall know how men feel huh 🤣🤣🤣
@spencer3175
@spencer3175 2 жыл бұрын
Little Darryl wanted some help 😔
@MsKayy100
@MsKayy100 2 жыл бұрын
Bye 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@carmel23
@carmel23 2 жыл бұрын
Man 🤣🤣🤣
@xdxdlmaoxdxd..2458
@xdxdlmaoxdxd..2458 2 жыл бұрын
I love how far they went to justify the domestic abuse 😂
@nellysmith6006
@nellysmith6006 2 жыл бұрын
I mean stealing a bipolar persons medication is kind of abusive.
@Leo42.069
@Leo42.069 Жыл бұрын
@@nellysmith6006 bro didnt steal it he couldnt afford it
@Sar-ahG
@Sar-ahG Жыл бұрын
She has to pay to have supervised visits but probably should’ve been included
@KittyGothXO
@KittyGothXO 2 жыл бұрын
He should have known straight off the bat what ballerina class cost. He took too long to answer, you know what your bills are. C'mon dude.
@mareaux28
@mareaux28 Жыл бұрын
EEEEWWWW, he deserved that for picking such a sloppy sample.
@mariahillenbrand8396
@mariahillenbrand8396 Жыл бұрын
And this is why she doesn't have custody and only gets supervised visitation!!! If she goes off on him when she is "having issues", who's to say she won't go off on the child when she's having the same issues???
@ohitsmimi096
@ohitsmimi096 2 жыл бұрын
Being bipolar is not an excuse to assault anyone..i am bipolar and it’s up to you to make sure you do what you need to do.. he’s not obligated to pay for her medication
@Nightowl_s
@Nightowl_s 8 ай бұрын
I feel like abusers should have to pay more like I feel like that should be a law
@CeltycSparrow
@CeltycSparrow 2 жыл бұрын
I notice the Mom didn't even TRY to deny it when he said she doesn't give anything more than what she ABSOLUTELY HAS TO for this 5 yr old daughter they have together. And since Dad is the one doing the asking, I assume the child is probably living with him as well. I can appreciate that the Mom is bipolar, and she was off her medicine and stressed out because the child was crying and she's in debt....but that DOES NOT justify he physically or emotionally abusing her ex...or ANYONE for that matter. What happens if she's off her meds and her daughter is having a bad day? Is she going to hit her daughter in frustration too?
@heskeyns
@heskeyns Жыл бұрын
I can honestly say, that she looks like she is trying to do better, If they talked about it and tried just a little bit to work together they would be a wealthy family. But the culture of being single father or mother is just enormously increased and its really stupid that the people want to be alone. I bet they would be much stronger together with combined income and one child they would have over 100k a month and would not have any problems. 2 incomes are better then 1 and we allow to be separated and sad, so its all our fault.
@Roni-Ron
@Roni-Ron 2 жыл бұрын
She needs to file bankruptcy or consolidate her debt and pay it off slowly and he need to return that car!
@L.andonnn101
@L.andonnn101 2 жыл бұрын
got me in here watching these episodes in class😄
@Firebol84
@Firebol84 2 жыл бұрын
I think both the parents should be responsible for half the insurance and uncovered costs . It's ridiculous that only one parent should have insurance. I think they both need Insurance
@ultimateevilz8937
@ultimateevilz8937 2 жыл бұрын
i dont understand that either, when the judge said that with the insurance it was going up to 900 i was like what bout the guy? isnt he going to pay half?
@Leo42.069
@Leo42.069 Жыл бұрын
@@ultimateevilz8937 in the state of texas apparently the person paying child support pays for insurance unless agreed with the other side
@kim8928
@kim8928 2 жыл бұрын
The car though me for a loop... 😂
@erik1836
@erik1836 6 ай бұрын
My late wife was suffered terminally from MS and was also afflicted with manic depression - for which there is nothing that works - at least did over 20 years ago. It is very sad to see someone who obviously isn't well but it is good that she is back to work and hopefully will get things together. I can easily understand why he divorced her - or left - that wasn't made clear - because frankly there is nothing to be done about mental illness and if you stick around someone who is mentally ill it drives you crazy because their reality is never solid.
@CompositesNG
@CompositesNG Жыл бұрын
If the roles were reversed, and the Man was abusing Her. And he had these excuses…. All Hell would break loose. Domestic Violence, even from Women is not tolerable.
@trekgirl65
@trekgirl65 2 жыл бұрын
And most of you here feel for her. I do not since she is not raising the child, she has to pay something for the child benefits in life. Men have to do the same when the shoe is on the other foot. Kids today gat more than I did when I was their age. My father was a deadbeat and hardly paid his child support. Back then, they did not enforce the father or mother who was not paying their child support to be sent to jail for non-payment. Kids have it a little easier these days. But the deadbeat parent still till change jobs to pay less in child support.
@benklotz6881
@benklotz6881 2 жыл бұрын
This couple seems really sweet. They both are honest and didn’t argue about anything despite mom being bi polar. She was honest about that and got a better job. I believe these two could end up back together and not be in this tough situation anymore
@me_nube_gaming
@me_nube_gaming 2 жыл бұрын
She was abusive...
@timmerner
@timmerner 2 жыл бұрын
God I hope he doesn't end up back with her psycho ass
@shannonbrice8012
@shannonbrice8012 2 жыл бұрын
She was so abusive she has to have supervised visits. If a spouse hits, smacks, throws things or is violent; the other partner should not get back together. If he gets back together with her the child should be removed from their custody.
@stevenazilazian7248
@stevenazilazian7248 2 жыл бұрын
They are both actors, all of the cases are actors and she isn't even a judge, look it up
@shannonbrice8012
@shannonbrice8012 2 жыл бұрын
@@stevenazilazian7248 yes we know. It is also taken from real court cases
@yeplolidk5056
@yeplolidk5056 2 жыл бұрын
As someone who has been with a bipolar person. It’s scary especially when they aren’t on medication. I think the medication doesn’t even do anything at times because they can really manipulate and destroy yourself. They are very manipulative and 2 faced. I still can’t get rid of them.
@mackenziek830
@mackenziek830 2 жыл бұрын
I also dated someone bipolar and had the complete opposite experience. You just dated a shitty person. People with mental health issues are more likely to be victims of abuse than abusers. That being said I’m still sorry for all of the pain and potential trauma that they may have caused you and I hope you’re able to heal.
@yeplolidk5056
@yeplolidk5056 2 жыл бұрын
@@mackenziek830 I’m glad it’s only my experience with them because now I’m actually afraid to even go near one to friend them. I don’t want to discriminate so I definitely need to work in it (:
@twist111784
@twist111784 2 жыл бұрын
It's not discrimination it's keeping yourself safe. Don't feel bad at all.
@ominouscherub
@ominouscherub Жыл бұрын
no no feel bad lol mental illness is a spectrum the people you dealt with were unstable and whatever qualities came with that but to slap that label on every bipolar individual is childish yes you went through something whatever that is you can go get that fixed though and learn to cope and move along
@BaffledBelief
@BaffledBelief Жыл бұрын
​@ominouscherub you sound the like type of person who would go piss a bear off and be upset it mauled you
@jelicianorwood24
@jelicianorwood24 2 жыл бұрын
Ladies never put your hands ✋️ on no man. She needs some counseling and guidance.
@dasinc
@dasinc 6 ай бұрын
I don't get why the person paying child support has to also fully pay for the medical insurance. We don't have that here. But even it we did, shouldn't the cost of that be split?
@michellecook7586
@michellecook7586 Жыл бұрын
Coming from someone who is Bipolar...her saying it was because of her bipolar that she hit is is a load of hog wash. I have never hit someone when I was mad. I am so tired of people using their Bipolar as an excuse to be jerks
@ncfitness1438
@ncfitness1438 Жыл бұрын
Judge, I have car troubles all the time and they are upwards of $1000 with each issue, I feel like the point she was trying to make is that if her car trouble was 700 that she wouldn’t have enough every month to give that. I understand that doesn’t matter and that she has to figure it out, but I don’t think she was trying to make it like a litigation
@SqueegeeKid.
@SqueegeeKid. 2 жыл бұрын
Ha! The minute he said she went upside his head I KNEW BPD was involved!! Dude, do ANYthing else to take care of your kid without her help, stay away from this lady and RUNNNN!!!!
@Peacehawk0911
@Peacehawk0911 Жыл бұрын
😮 700 jump to 900 for 1 kid. That's insane. Totally unfair to the mom.
@storme526
@storme526 2 жыл бұрын
Ever since I found out these aren't real, it just don't hit the same.😭 Still love your channel though Miss Vonda.💕
@shamekacollier1323
@shamekacollier1323 2 жыл бұрын
don't ruin it for the rest of us lol 😅😂😊
@storme526
@storme526 2 жыл бұрын
@@shamekacollier1323 lol I'm sorry😭it says it in her description on her channel tho lol
@shamekacollier1323
@shamekacollier1323 2 жыл бұрын
I'm totally joking 😆
@MrsEJV
@MrsEJV 2 жыл бұрын
Even though it’s scripted, it does hit very real life situations. I find it interesting that in Texas they require Medicaid for a child be repaid. I think that’s brilliant!
@katieohlms9342
@katieohlms9342 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for ruining it for me!
@karinaflores6781
@karinaflores6781 2 жыл бұрын
people do crazy things when they’re off the meds. my dads wife ran him over while off the meds 💀 but insurance doesn’t cover certain medications so 🤷🏽‍♀️
@geraldinebowers6833
@geraldinebowers6833 2 жыл бұрын
Mental health issues is real, I hope she is able to get her meds, if she don’t she’ll never be able to get her child again
@Vince-I-Am
@Vince-I-Am Жыл бұрын
What struck me about Karen is that she blamed him for subjecting him to domestic violence. Time and time again, physical abuse Black Men endure from their partners is always ignored. I'm surprised the judge didn't address that issue after it was revealed it wasn't an isolated incident. If it was the other way round, he would be in jail. How can you justify physically assaulting someone because they didn't have enough money to buy your medication? That is beyond lunacy using mental illness as an excuse which Karen's people like using to justify committing crime.
@brianlusignan4696
@brianlusignan4696 Жыл бұрын
55k as a fast food manager? Goddamn I'm a licensed pest professional in MA and I make 57k a year.
@gemmalindridge4232
@gemmalindridge4232 Жыл бұрын
Please could you do the lesson at the end. How does the mental health effect the child support? Does the suffer pay the same amount? What if the person is an out patient?
@allenfarm
@allenfarm 2 жыл бұрын
Why does mom have to pay back 100% of health care? Shouldn't it be 50/50 since its both of their child?
@stoleyourglory7118
@stoleyourglory7118 2 жыл бұрын
I have bipolar 1 as well as PTSD and sensory processing disorder and I NEVER put my hands on anyone regardless of my state of mind. too many people use mental health as an excuse to do things that’s are NOT okay to do
@pfeenxh
@pfeenxh Жыл бұрын
Please bipolar is not about violence. That's an excuse. She's just another trifling mother who wants to ride free in life
@NopeNo569
@NopeNo569 4 ай бұрын
almost 1k a month in child support is insane....
@victoriamiller7738
@victoriamiller7738 2 жыл бұрын
“Acted out”? Ma’am, how old are you? Smh. And she’s blaming him for not having her own meds? That’s your responsibility. This is sad.
@belindabradley3443
@belindabradley3443 2 жыл бұрын
That man better run. She's blaming everything besides herself. I'm bipolar to and I don't take my meds and that's an excuse to hit him.
@tiffannyhines7893
@tiffannyhines7893 2 жыл бұрын
What I don’t understand is why make the person reimbursed the whole amount for health insurance instead of splitting between both parents
@sarahpetersen6576
@sarahpetersen6576 11 ай бұрын
Why isn’t health insurance split evenly between the parents? I notice the payer of the support always has to reimburse the full amount if the custodial parent carries it for the child/ren. Just wondering what the reasoning is for not having it be child support + half the insurance cost.
@pdig2963
@pdig2963 2 жыл бұрын
You know I am bipolar also, but I stay on my medication and I definitely don't put my hands on people, I walk away, A mental illness is no excuse for putting your hands on anybody !!!!
@fredawalker1077
@fredawalker1077 Жыл бұрын
Good to see more and more women are being made to help! My husbands ex is 2000 behind in child support! His daughter is with us because the ex wife beat her till she bled!
@heatherclark3866
@heatherclark3866 2 жыл бұрын
This to me is ridiculous. $900 odd dollars a month…. So what exactly is dad paying for? She said she has dents and bipolar…. I don’t think her mental health is being taken into account either….. $200 to $900 is a massive jump…. She works full time, how is she supposed to find that extra cash? I don’t understand the child support system in the USA. The only thing I do like about it, is that they can take a driving licence and put in prison if they don’t pay.
@cherry-xq5mx
@cherry-xq5mx 5 ай бұрын
As a bipolar person I have never abused my partner
@trinahoffman8609
@trinahoffman8609 Жыл бұрын
She did and is taking responsibility for her mental illness. She's taking medication and when a person stops medication for a mental illness such as bipolar disorder it can cause extreme highs and lows beyond he or she's control.
@manofsteel6633
@manofsteel6633 8 ай бұрын
Judge: Can mom attend any.... Guy: No. 😂😂😂😂
@dantescott6113
@dantescott6113 2 жыл бұрын
Three weeks too long! I get so excited when I see judge post a video! Lol
@SerenityNikki
@SerenityNikki 2 жыл бұрын
Word ! And then the case is short as hell
@civic2980
@civic2980 2 жыл бұрын
None of what she said is an excuse for hitting people. Keep your hands to yourself......how hard is that. Smh
@theleftysjournal8781
@theleftysjournal8781 2 жыл бұрын
This shows man can be a victim of DV too. Gosh.
@aileencastaneda3724
@aileencastaneda3724 Жыл бұрын
I can feel his energy so drained and done. I don’t like how people assume by their looks. Judge said she looks sweet and I immediately feel bad for him. He looks defeated when she said that I bet the cops and case worker said that to him because she’s a woman. Woman can be abusers too.
@Aceofwolves
@Aceofwolves 10 ай бұрын
Not let a MAN try to make those excuses for abuse... He'd be in PRISON. There is ZERO excuse to put your hands on someone
@knightclassic1
@knightclassic1 2 жыл бұрын
I realize I like this Court Show better than Judge Mathis because this show has more Single Dad's Cases.
@nashhariparsad3347
@nashhariparsad3347 2 жыл бұрын
why is insurance not split between both parents i don't think its fare to pay full support and insurance
@danielsimpson6885
@danielsimpson6885 2 жыл бұрын
I've been married to my wife for 23 years had 3 children and they have all grown up and left home. My wife has mental illness, something I found out after we got married, during her many many lapses into psychosis, I've been attacked more times than I can count I tried my best to give my children the best upbringing but they are angry at me for staying. I stayed because I would have lost my children to her, I would have lost my house I paid for, I had zero support, you can imagine, no one wants to be associated with chronic illness The law is not on the man side.
@nicolebailey4426
@nicolebailey4426 2 жыл бұрын
I have as nurse has taken care of people inpatient psych hospitals. Alot of patients have reported to me that the meds side effects are the reason why they stopped taking their meds. I hope one day your children will understand you. I commend you for sticking to your vows because you could have gotten a divorce. People with mental illness need not just medication they need a support system along with therapy. Next time your children give you grief over staying with your wife. Tell them how would they like to be diagnosed with schizophrenia (I don't know your age) a mental disorder that usually affects young adults in their prime, should you have left them or kicked them out. Good luck
@piokasekende9214
@piokasekende9214 2 жыл бұрын
Sorry
@luciacontreras7103
@luciacontreras7103 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this show ♥️
@christiandilday7543
@christiandilday7543 2 жыл бұрын
Hey ms.vonda stay blessed 🙌 😇 🙏
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