"You hadn't said anything that moved me." ---with the straight face. 😂😂😂. Judge Vonda took me out.
@JudgeVondaB3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@paulbarry77602 жыл бұрын
@@JudgeVondaB sorry but you need to call out theses deadbeats more. U do a dent job, they are a bit slow to pick up on that.
@dreamsuave31362 жыл бұрын
@5:20 loved it. She's amazing & adorable. We love you, Judge. Keep it going. 💯
@chilinielsen2 жыл бұрын
And... she spottet, that he might have more than 3 kids! She see it all in a splitsec!
@aryewall79692 жыл бұрын
Its these types of comments and this type of energy that makes me love her.
@TruthSeeker04135 ай бұрын
Judge Vonda B is probably my favourite judge 🙂I love the way she deals with them in her own personal way.
@chanteusetaylor1508Ай бұрын
Love Judge Vonda . She is great❤
@aminabakir82053 жыл бұрын
500$ for 3 kids??! Groceries for a month cost more than this a month.
@richardbossman98753 жыл бұрын
No they don’t. Unless you are eating out every day and only cooking bougie meals it does not cost $500 a month for 3 CHILDREN to eat.
@LivingJust4Me3 жыл бұрын
I couldn’t get $50 for two (2) children
@aliciam.6833 жыл бұрын
Shoot…..I pay $300 a week on groceries and household items for a family of 4. We don’t eat out often, and I cook almost everything from scratch. Between, breakfast, lunch, snacks, and dinner….I easily spend $300 a week….and I coupon A LOT!
@tempeztad3 жыл бұрын
@@aliciam.683 then you need to manage better the money
@aliciam.6833 жыл бұрын
@@tempeztad “manage better the money”. Um…..nah…..I have no control over infatuation and issues associated with framers and such. Maybe you should “manage better” some education before you reply on something you know nothing about.
@Livingshadow20093 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who thinks 'tips' shouldn't be classed as a wage or increased wage? Because lets face it, your not guaranteed that money.
@Chris_RLM3 жыл бұрын
Welcome to the stupidity of the court system. What he does for the kids and planning ahead for his life does not matter.
@BlazeDurigraze3 жыл бұрын
i dont know about that state but i know quite a few dont consider tips into it because its not a set amount and not guaranteed, the reason behind it is that a person can claim you make thousands a week when it was a one off thing and only average maybe 100 a week. when my sister took her ex to court for it they wouldnt even calculate overtime into it for the same reason.
@mirandapatterson56242 жыл бұрын
Any money is income when it comes to child support
@strnglhld2 жыл бұрын
@@Chris_RLM Fun time is over for dad, kids need to eat. Time to sacrifice Romeo
@Mop222 Жыл бұрын
Maybe not classified as income, but this man made 3 kids, maybe if he volunteered money if he made more instead of holding it for his future only! He barely spends time with the kids because he is tired and parenting is hard? Come on! He should have suited up.
@reyon333 жыл бұрын
That is why you don't go on social media to brag about how much money you are making.
@joytoyouandme45933 жыл бұрын
Social media may be the reason he is getting some of these extra gigs. His best move is to be honest about how much he is earning. He certainly isn’t seeing his kids nor does he sound very interested in their future.
@joytoyouandme45933 жыл бұрын
@C&G/G&C - What’s sad is he doesn’t seem to care much about his kids in general. Spending a long weekend every couple months means you’re seeing your kids about 18 days a year.
@agentwade3 жыл бұрын
@@joytoyouandme4593 These are all actors, but damn they're good
@EmmaWatson5513 жыл бұрын
Or you can just support the kids you made
@joytoyouandme45933 жыл бұрын
@@agentwade - These are based on true scenarios.
@nancywallace81904 ай бұрын
This woman is amazing. She can calmly sit there and deal with these crazy people. God Bless you
@christiandilday75433 жыл бұрын
$500 for 3 kids Vonda: nope $1.6k a MONTH 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@joytoyouandme45933 жыл бұрын
She doesn’t get the $450, it goes to the government for Medicaid reimbursement. But she will be getting over double the $500.
@marilishr59782 жыл бұрын
Is really $1,150 but is still double 😅
@katersization2 жыл бұрын
Woot🎉 woot!
@broaction88872 жыл бұрын
Vonda: you have any questions about that lol 😆
@christiandilday75432 жыл бұрын
@Donald Lumpkin yup kids are expensive but it's worth it
@teresarydberg14503 жыл бұрын
Watching these makes me amazed at how many parents don't think they need to take care of their kids. In the future it's going to be interesting if the kids eventually see these videos of their parents trying to get out of helping support them
@rugbydazz22643 жыл бұрын
It won't be pretty if they do, they will really turn on him, especially since they had to watch their mother ask for money to take care of them, that is going to piss them off ROYAL!
@kaylahall12192 жыл бұрын
Painful
@TheLyonsDen12032 жыл бұрын
Thankfully for the kids. These people are actors reenacting scenarios.
@garvin61422 жыл бұрын
This has been happening for generations people have kids but have no paternal instict
@alisharichard89252 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@penseyfrancis4643 жыл бұрын
He was getting away with murder. To hear him talk about a savings account with 3-children and no health insurance. But, I must say, he was very respectful to the Judge.
@MrsEJV3 жыл бұрын
Oh, the kids had health coverage - thanks to the taxpayers! How can the fathers get away with not paying for the basic necessities for their children yet be building up their savings “for a rainy day”? A sick child is the ultimate downpour.
@mylifeinanutshell69313 жыл бұрын
This is not real....they are skits. The comments are way better 😅🤣😆😅🤣🤣
@penseyfrancis4643 жыл бұрын
@@mylifeinanutshell6931 Why am I not surprised?
@mylifeinanutshell69313 жыл бұрын
@@penseyfrancis464 read the description and watch the end....
@sturmbreakers78173 жыл бұрын
How can the mothers get away without taking care of their children? SMH 🤦♂️
@mariannebarker795 Жыл бұрын
I love this judge she gets right to the point, $500 a month for 3kids,and when he shrugs his shoulder l buy clothes she’s saying “parenting”. This dad comes across as not wanting his kids,sad
@jpaob Жыл бұрын
Maybe if he was able to spend more time with the kids on a residential basis, he would enjoy his kids, but possessive mother is too jealous. The blonde parasite. Can you imagine what would happen to her in Iran.
@jessicajimenez98610 ай бұрын
@@jpaobThe dad said he was tired from working a lot and he did not feel up to taking care of the children. So there you have it, the "blonde parasite" as you disrespectfully called her without even knowing that person, did not deny access or time to the father with his kids. The father is the one not wanting to spend time with the kids or properly help support them. That lady works full time and is the primary care provider of those kids, so pray tell us how is it that you consider her to be a parasite. Based on the evidence he seems to be like a deadbeat dad, and selfish too. All you heard him saying was "me, me, me, my future" but he was not thinking about his children's present or future. Either you did not watch the episode in its entirety or you have a very warped understanding between what is right or wrong.
@yvonnecalvin206110 күн бұрын
She said 2 but feels like 3
@abbieblanton58022 жыл бұрын
I love the look on her face when she says “PARENTING!” She lookin at him concerned.
@crystalpieper35332 жыл бұрын
My co-worker (male) and i were discussing this judge, and he told me how he just got awarded $300 a month child support because his ex makes more money. He was saying how it makes him uncomfortable; and I explained that it's not about his comfort its for his sons comfort and at minimum he can start a savings account with the support money. So some of the stigma is still men not feeling "comfortable" being paid to take care of their children.
@Ramonesaehs7 ай бұрын
I was comfortable getting support.
@becaye73803 жыл бұрын
Lol ok so his issue is “I don’t have time for these kids judge! They’re in the way of living my best life! 😩” 😐😐😐😐😐
@heatheraucoin58323 жыл бұрын
Ikr. Him-And he’s saving up money…. Judge: …for your kids Him: yeah them too ( but mostly him)
@rahuldutt27183 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@theloftons82973 жыл бұрын
He said "Parenting takes a lot of effort and sometimes I don't feel up to it". 🤣🤣🤣 Let me go tell my husband I'm not up for it today.
@jabriajones40753 жыл бұрын
What really pissed me off was the fact that he said what if i lose my job with a smirk 😠😠
@jasminecarr56273 жыл бұрын
Said every dead beat all over the world! But won’t hesitate to help the next female take care of her kids 🙄
@mygodisthemoon2 жыл бұрын
"parenting kids takes a lot of effort and I don't think I'm up for it" A thought that should have been brought up before baby #1 was even made let alone 3.
@denyshadials57022 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I wanted to say “so you think she’s up for it? 🤨”
@cliffordkelleher0142 Жыл бұрын
It came out pretty bad but it seemed he was saying he is tired after working all the time
@denyshadials5702 Жыл бұрын
@@cliffordkelleher0142 Imagine working AND raising 3 kids-that’s what she’s doing.
@patmccoy8758Күн бұрын
He wanted the accolades and praise but NONE of the responsibilities of PARENTING.
@jaysantana41863 жыл бұрын
want to say thank you. i would watch ur videos when i was going thur my custody. and i did learn a lot from it. from visiation, to child support and options for custody. it helped me during my progress to terminate permant custody with a guardian in 2008 to filing a motion 2020 for solo . i won solo 9/2020! ur video are verryyyyyyyyy education/helpful !!!!! i didnt even know i could re-open my case. and during 2008-2020 i was paying my child support but she only allowed me to see her for one hour weekly, 4hrs a month. sad ......but i proved that was not in the best interest of my child... :) ty ty ty ty ty ty ty ty ty ty like ty
@JudgeVondaB3 жыл бұрын
You’re very welcome!! This made me smile. I’m so happy the videos helped you!
@billshaffer96893 жыл бұрын
this is the 4th or 5th one of her videos ... i think she is awesome. i have never disagreed with her findings. but maybe im only seeing ones that are very clear cut like these have been. we need a lot more of her type in the world. Ms. Vonda ROCKS!
@PythonKnight Жыл бұрын
There is 1 case that had me disagree with her slightly considering the case. What she told the father/husband to do was within law the correct thing to do even if it was in our view a "unfair" deal.
@JGLy22086 Жыл бұрын
Love her! She’s awesome!
@gabs46923 жыл бұрын
He sounds like he doesn't want to be a dad no more. Like he's giving up on he's own children. That sucks because children feel that
@JSapphire9082 жыл бұрын
😂🤣 He was so serious about that 1 long weekend🤣🤣 Judge: "you haven't said anything that moved me"...... 💀
@charlesgibson83 жыл бұрын
Judge Vonda B. I live for these youtube clips... Thanks for keeping it real and authentic.. "It's the right thing to do" my FAVORITE quote from you....lol P.S my phone is set up to receive alerts every time a new episode comes out :-) Enjoy your day and stay Safe!
@JudgeVondaB3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the support Charles!😊
@gringa9782 жыл бұрын
😂😂 it’s not real tho… these are skits this isn’t a real court
@jpaob Жыл бұрын
@@gringa978. But they are based on real life cases.
@helgaschmidt96728 ай бұрын
Tips should not be considered income as it is not consistent. If she gets medicade it is free.
@lunerishauntingbeowulf3 жыл бұрын
Poor mom in this case looks aged beyond her years. I can't imagine how hard it was to raise those kids basically alone with barely enough support for food on the table.
@CLAYMOR9162 жыл бұрын
White people look like that though. They’ll be 30 but look 45.
@jacqui26512 жыл бұрын
@@CLAYMOR916 That's a very racist comment!
@CLAYMOR9162 жыл бұрын
@@jacqui2651 yes but facts though
@LisaMia552 жыл бұрын
These are actors and the cases are based on real cases.
@CLAYMOR9162 жыл бұрын
@@LisaMia55 don’t derive from my statement tho
@benmills43583 жыл бұрын
So when are you going to get this on Cable TV
@ashleymurch79863 жыл бұрын
Her response “ PARENTING “ 😭
@eileenvee62383 жыл бұрын
I got excited thinking the new episode was out, I clicked so fast just to be sad 😭 6 more hours 🙌🏼🥲 can’t wait! Love you Judge Vonda!
@Nurse_Things3 жыл бұрын
"It’s the right thing to do’. I love this judge❤️
@carolmccullough-kuchar4782 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Judge for your amazing understanding.
@theonehenneykid62262 жыл бұрын
I just found myself watching these videos all day I love ‘em 😂🤣😂🤦🏼♂️
@SomeOne-Avatar3 жыл бұрын
OMG!!! I really hate guys like this. He makes the rest of us look bad. For I was raised if you play you pay. Or am I like one of the few males on the planet that actually understands the concept of why one pays support. Hell even during that fun year if 2020 as bad as I was hit I still did everything I could to give support, to the point I actually physically lost 20lbs just so I could send something. Not to mention when the ex (during her bouts of sanity) if she ever asked for any help I had no problem helping out when/wherever possible. Like the judge said it's called parenting!
@HackerActivist2 жыл бұрын
My fiance offered 1k a month in support when we briefly broke up to raise our daughter. I thought it was pretty generous
@Mr.Rogers912 жыл бұрын
You were raised right. That's what it comes down to, my father always told me that we take responsibility for our actions good or bad. Sounds like someone told you the same thing.
@vin77862 жыл бұрын
I'm staying single forever
@SomeOne-Avatar2 жыл бұрын
@@vin7786 well that is an option, however my advice is just make sure if you decide to play that you properly vet the person your with. Granted you'll stay single longer, BUT the quality of the person gets better.
@vin77862 жыл бұрын
Great advice but for me I've cheated on pretty much every girl I had so that's why I stick too strip clubs and massages!
@teresaanna12152 жыл бұрын
I just now subscribed to this channel and it is so worth it I've been binge watching every single episode 🥰🥰
@TanyaRando Жыл бұрын
Same! 😂😂
@MrsEJV3 жыл бұрын
He’s too TIRED to take his kids? Really? And on the weekends he can’t be bothered with them, Mom still has to feed and entertain them. I know it’s a reality show but I still wanted to throttle him.
@mattstorey72563 жыл бұрын
Well, he IS working all that overtime to make that extra money she wants to attach. :)
@messiahmoon46012 жыл бұрын
@@mattstorey7256 she’s working too while taking care of the 3 kids…
@jpaob Жыл бұрын
@@messiahmoon4601yeah, working on keeping the kids to herself.
@bigjay1233 жыл бұрын
Awarded Support on money he MIGHT MAKE a month. Thats BS. He couldnt just give her a lil bit on the side, he was stupid. "Hey baby look, I made some extra cash this month, take half because idk how long its gonna last."
@ap30553 жыл бұрын
why would she be awarded $2500 extra on top of the $500 he had to give her because he made extra? that sounds stupid and really simpish
@niece5853 жыл бұрын
Right he could of slid her a few hundred a month extra cash that's what he gets posting on social media
@jackdaniels26573 жыл бұрын
If it Was me I wouldnt have told her how much I made I would've said i got lucky this time but I'm not sure if I'm gonna be able to afford to live on my own
@bigjay1233 жыл бұрын
@@ap3055 It's for the kids. Or he could've just kept his mouth shut. Cause thats not guaranteed money.
@MrzNew3 жыл бұрын
@@jackdaniels2657 and you would be a whack individual. Not disclosing how much you make so you don't have to take care of your kids?! Smh
@sweetsweet812 жыл бұрын
Moms have to go through that everyday, on top of working!!! Rain, sleet, or snow!!! We get no break unless someone takes them for the weekend.
@Mikeyprs218 ай бұрын
They choose to have kids more often then not so, no sympathy from me on that one.
@sweetsweet818 ай бұрын
@Mikeyprs21 Your sympathy wasn't requested. Good day.
@rachelhollar44193 жыл бұрын
Man, if parents didn't have go parent when they're "tired" wouldn't it just be so easy. 🤦🏼♀️
@terahenderson80893 жыл бұрын
That's called parenting. Priceless
@DavidSilva-pn6kx2 жыл бұрын
Judge Vonda always keepin it real! Gotta love it!
@Ashley.Brown.3 жыл бұрын
“You haven’t said anything that moved me” 😂😂😂
@floramercury3 жыл бұрын
He’s earning that much extra per month yet he never thought of doing more for his own family - selfish
@sturmbreakers78173 жыл бұрын
And what’s wrong with her producing more?
@nothumanff59003 жыл бұрын
He need house too
@HackerActivist2 жыл бұрын
@@sturmbreakers7817 he isn't even visiting them or anything what's wrong with a man stepping up
@sturmbreakers78172 жыл бұрын
@@HackerActivist it amazes me how so many women break up the home and then expect the guy to produce even. Maintaining two households is very expensive most people can’t do it. Then on top of that if he is such a bad guy why did she have 3 children with this guy. People need to stop creating their own hell and then don’t want to live in it.
@burgerking3678 Жыл бұрын
don't break up the home and you won't have to worry about this leeches like y'all the reason men don't want kids
@zslebrennan97893 жыл бұрын
It's unfortunate that when u separate from a partner the kids always pay the price. Some parents share to much information with the kids to try and turn them against the other parent. Some times non custodian parent doesn't want to give up any time for their kids or pay child support, or they are unfit to be around the kid. Yep kids paying the price for adults immature behaviour
@elderford9893 жыл бұрын
Vonda "you got any questions about that" Him "no" lol Love ya Vonda B!
@bigdawg46202 жыл бұрын
Gotta love this dude didn’t argue, he agreed and that was it, can’t say that for the other videos I’ve seen
@Godofhouse3 жыл бұрын
She said evidence but he just didn’t dispute it. He could’ve kept support the same but that’s wrong of him for treating the kids like that. It made me mad his support only went up $1100
@silentg8863 жыл бұрын
Who are you to decide how much he should pay?
@castelrose2 жыл бұрын
Well he is probably making more,thats why he didn't contest the number. So he came in to give the dog a bone.
@asnelcharles2 жыл бұрын
He didn't respond because he didn't know how to defend himself. English is not his first language. He was saying all the wrong things. She bullied him. But the kids could use the money for their everyday needs, it's a win for the kids
@dsstudio762 жыл бұрын
@@asnelcharles very true! 🇧🇷😳
@darcy57619 ай бұрын
It actually only went up about a hundred a month or so since he had to pay more than 400 a month back to medicaid.
@Joe.Brown21202 жыл бұрын
This video had me in tears laughing. His child support more than tripled 😂😂😂. That’s what he get.
@VocallyYours33 жыл бұрын
I just love these episodes, wishes it was a scheduled program on network Tv. 📺
@nancymesek2 жыл бұрын
Why? Do you enjoy commercials?
@arieowens39973 жыл бұрын
Hi beautiful Judge Vonda B! Your a inspiration!
3 жыл бұрын
"Parenting!" LMAO made me laugh so hard. "From time to time..." Oh Jeez, this guy is such a selfish jerk.
@__-nd5qi3 жыл бұрын
Honestly makes me laugh because it's based off true exchanges 🤣🤣
@proteusxl98143 жыл бұрын
I paid $500 a month for my daughter. She just turned 18 in May. So grateful 🙏 to be done no rears and it's feels like a great accomplishment 🙌. The 1st thing I'm gonna treat myself is a new car. I have always put my daughter 1st. I had her every other weekend and also had to buy things for her when she stayed with me. A long journey I'm proud of self. I never complain I just know I did my part 💯
@alexisvela13 жыл бұрын
Wow, you did the bare minimum for your child. You deserve that new car
@proteusxl98143 жыл бұрын
@@alexisvela1 I did more than bare minimum always a negative fool in the crowd🤡
@beckymedvetz2283 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Much respect you took care of your child and spent time with them🤗❤️
@yagoelsicario3 жыл бұрын
If you had to pay child support, that means you didn’t put your daughter first
@proteusxl98143 жыл бұрын
@@yagoelsicario you speak of things you don't know know it all, but know nothing of my life and how things came to be. You gave me a good laugh cause people like you are negative AF and think your smart.
@Camille-it8zo8 ай бұрын
I love how this judge explains the cases and some basic laws at the end of the episodes. It's good knowledge to have :)
@escapethematrix27882 жыл бұрын
This was my favorite case only because they were both civil and I believe outcome was justified you do a great job judge!
@stassajohnson30423 жыл бұрын
He thinks he is the babysitter... SMH...
@SPLINTERINTHEMINDSEYE3 жыл бұрын
Why didn’t she base the child support off his total income instead of just the extra income he made?
@NikkiPretorius7 ай бұрын
My thoughts exactly! No wonder he readily accepted because he knows he is only paying on a percentage!
@rfroat8 ай бұрын
He should give her a thousand without complains
@paulleckner82352 ай бұрын
$500.00 per child per month is $1,500.00 per month.
@elieenm43916 ай бұрын
A wonderful Judge she is all for the children and the parent who is raising the children. Bless her heart.
@kinsley77773 жыл бұрын
Ugh ! This guy ... " ... I'm not feeling up to parenting" Makes me wanna SCREAM !
@darcy57619 ай бұрын
If you don't want to be parent,don't have kids,simple. He's tired and doesn't want to care for them. What does he think she's doing every single day?
@GreenBlackFrog7 ай бұрын
So true, first one could have been an accident, but if you still don't feel up to ... just don't make more
@charlestapo16584 күн бұрын
Tips are not taxable income. Not part of his salary. He shouldn't be held accountable for extra income which not guaranteed each month
@malachiowens34233 жыл бұрын
“You should buy them backpacks, you should take them on long weekend “ then they should have shared custody. Also, if your husband make so much that he pays 1.5k a month in child support how are they on medicaid?
@JudgeVondaB3 жыл бұрын
Great question. If neither parent pays for or has access to private health insurance, this happens.
@brittanyschmalfeldt67613 жыл бұрын
In Texas, they don't take child support into consideration when it comes to state assistance.
@idafox24992 жыл бұрын
So glad I stumbled upon this channel. Instant subscriber.
@sylverwebsurfer7882 жыл бұрын
I don’t much care for this man but I will say he reacted with more respect than previous ones have.
@jpaob Жыл бұрын
Don't think many care for you either.
@kaitlinsmith19842 жыл бұрын
I wish I had seen your videos in high school when my parents were going through the family court for a custody case so I could learn to help my father get the 4 of us kids
@robinrymshaw66533 жыл бұрын
Mom never gets a break being a mom is 24/7 and apparently this guy doesn’t understand this mom doesn’t stop being a mom and you take your children not just once in awhile taking them
@jpaob Жыл бұрын
Maybe Mommie Dearest doesn't want Dad having the kids too often because she is too jealous.
@Belluser-we1uc5cb2l21 күн бұрын
Tips are not mandatory and inconsistent. It shouldn't count as part of your salary.
@jamescrock623 жыл бұрын
Waiting for justice is cruel and unusual punishment.
@aletachalker2037 Жыл бұрын
I cracked up Everytime she said "parenting, parenting, parenting..." 🤣🤣🤣
@shifathrahman2296 Жыл бұрын
This dude got his car repod by bounty hunter D. And now he got summoned to support court. 😂😂
@sharonv46338 ай бұрын
Wow
@soniarican62753 жыл бұрын
I have just ONE child and let me just say this $550 is NOT enough for the Month ! I Add $350 and sometimes more of “My Money” so my daughter is set for the month, it is my job as well to support my daughter of course but my point is that this woman is right $500 really is Not enough, especially for 3 KIDS !!
@VaLLaNaR3 жыл бұрын
Well this is ,a bad father ...How did she even have 1 kid with him and then agree to have 2 more ....holy...the bad choice ...
@joseflores37733 жыл бұрын
this is just recreating an actual case, but there’s actually a lot of men who don’t switch up until the second or third child. I think it could have something to do on gender, yk how many men only like to accept and spend time with their sons and don’t love their daughters as much.
@danieldavenport75023 жыл бұрын
@@joseflores3773 not a recreation, its all hypothetical
@VaLLaNaR3 жыл бұрын
@@joseflores3773 Well the gender of the kids really wasn't an issue or even mentioned here ... So yeah .. And also yes statistically both perents usually will spend different times with ,a child . Mothers and daughters have more in common just like dads and sons . And the bigger they get the less time they will spend together . Since a father accompanying his daughter to the female clothing section to buy here her first bra or other feminen things is usually not something the father or daughter would really like ,but if it was the mother no problem . Same could be said for ,a growing boy . But in the end it does depend on the family and on the people and their own mentality . So yeah I get what you are saying but from the lines that this father is using it looks like he only cares for his money .
@nadaomar63737 ай бұрын
The father’s attitude suggests there is more to his story, I wish judge Vonda asked him more about this circumstances, he is polite and he doesn’t give any evil parent vibe.
@joanberry21433 жыл бұрын
Judge, you are very fair!
@kaylawilliamson38832 жыл бұрын
the audacity of this man has me fuming. i feel so bad for the mom.
@dcg5902 жыл бұрын
I don’t. She’s greedy.
@evelinholmes64012 жыл бұрын
@@dcg590 are you serious?
@brianayala76132 жыл бұрын
@@dcg590 500 for 3 kids is nothing lol
@jpaob Жыл бұрын
Kayla, I don't feel bad for this Mommie Dearest. In Iran she would end up like Mahsa Amini.
@traveling_future9 ай бұрын
Her responsibility get of the internet sad he his money his choice simple
@robertrosen1013 жыл бұрын
The judge didn’t take into account the money from his actual job 🤦♂️ she based everything off of his extra 5k/month
@naegillespie52672 жыл бұрын
In was an increased of the $500 he was already paying from his regular job.
@gaylien2847 Жыл бұрын
I love hearing her going HAM on that calculator ❤😂
@Gloomfall3 жыл бұрын
Man... I'm fine with modification but from what he was saying he makes $5000 when he's lucky for a big party. Those aren't always consistent. Sometimes you're LUCKY to make that in a month. Now, if his circumstances changed through his employer and he was making a consistent $5000/month that's great for him. But I highly doubt that was the case. He communicated it very poorly to the judge.
@TammyOne-rd9ng2 жыл бұрын
I get $711.00 for 4 Children!!! It’s a crime. That’s what they eat in a month
@christiandilday75433 жыл бұрын
He paying 500 dollars for 3 kids and people say child support is unfair 😒😑
@DSNCB9193 жыл бұрын
Keep ur legs closed or stay with the man
@chaddlindsay99093 жыл бұрын
The system is unfair. The support is supposed to go for HALF the kids expenses, not all of it. 2.. there is no guarantee that money is being used for the kids. Most of the time the parent uses for themselves. 3.. support should not be solely based off what the person makes. If i was paying 300 a month for 1 child and then got a better job... that has absolutely no impact on half the cost of raising that child. If 300 was good enough last month, what makes this month 200 dollars more expensive? The answer is nothing. It's called greed by the other parent. I have never had to pay child support cause i had custody of the kids. I certainly did not ask for support. We talked about it and agreed to go in half on everything... as it should be. Oh and another thing. Just because one parent wants something for their child, doesn't mean said child has to have it or actually needs it. No kid needs $150 pair of shoes. or more than a couple of pairs of shoes for that matter. Make-up is a luxury. A computer/tablet/cell phone is a luxury, not a need. Utilities are barely impacted by kids, least if you have strict ground rules... no 30-45 minute showers. Turn off the unused lights. Close the damned door. Water out of the faucet is just fine, you don't need a water from a bottle.. etc etc. Air conditioning is not a need. We didn't have any of these thing as kids and we didn't die, or were negatively impacted as a kid. There is a BIG difference in a need vs a want. I am not saying that kids shouldn't be able to have these luxuries. What i am saying is any parent should not be forced to pay money in support for such things. Support if for Clothes, food and medical expenses. You can't calculate rent or a mortgage into it because that person would be paying one of them anyways, with or without a child. There is an argument for the cost differential for the extra bedroom... but each parent is responsible for half that expense like all the others. That should be based of the average cost. Not because the custodial parent decided to move into a house that costs 900k bucks rather than one at 400k that would be comparable. (some people just like to live in ritzy neighborhoods they can't afford as a status symbol). Like I mentioned from the onset. The system is deeply flawed. Very little money actually goes to support the kids. The parent usually spends it on themselves. Too many parents are being taken advantaged of by the other parent. Notice i never mentioned Mom or dad. The system screws both.
@DSNCB9193 жыл бұрын
@@chaddlindsay9909 my child's mother put me up for a modification under the income numbers she claims she makes $400 a month gross.. and they literally believed it without even verifying
@BambooBackbone6 ай бұрын
I find myself saying this everyday, WE HAVE A SERIOUS SELFISHNESS EPIDEMIC IN THIS COUNTRY.
@elyhenu84492 жыл бұрын
If some off the moms on this show were as respectful as this man they would get more child support
@kingreyna87142 жыл бұрын
Sis your such a gem 🥰😇 ok you can only be one person at one place, at one time but we need you everywhere! You are a pure soul 🤍 thank God I ran into your videos! Perfect example for a girls and women, even some men anyway keep your uniqueness alive love speaks volumes ✔️📌🤍🥰
@BigDaddy52525 Жыл бұрын
I really like how judge Vonda isnt bias. She finds the truth and acts accordingly. Im very happy that judges like you exist.
@Xochil19863 жыл бұрын
$5,000 in tips as a Bartender 😯
@Lucky_Logan2 жыл бұрын
I would be too, and not wanting to tell everyone if I’m making extra money. I hate even telling the IRS if I’m making extra money, but if I need to I will.
@cynb58653 жыл бұрын
Celebrity Parties..🤔$5K a month( appox.).. good thing they didn't discuss tips.. now JV no 🍵sip BUT, your other giveaway for the " don't play with me" ..perched lips..( like "yeah right").. he said he needs a break.. but I caught something which may be Y u asked, do u have any other children, there was a pause... again later same question , like is there something u want to tell us,, again a pause.... love love love the show..
@938quilt3 жыл бұрын
I wondered if he needed help counting LOL! that pause twice
@dubaibroker.realestate4 ай бұрын
Fantastic this Judge Vonda kkkkk. I loved her. I live in Brazil and see the videos this Judge Vonda.
@lottiesimons56413 жыл бұрын
The judge said it was based on $60,000 a year. My question is does he get the salary every month and how long has he been getting the extra work? The judge made assumptions that he works extra all the time.
@JudgeVondaB3 жыл бұрын
He didn’t say otherwise.
@avholland3 жыл бұрын
AND if it changes he can always go back and get it changed again 🙄 you act like it’s permanent
@kilandrayeuxdoux28042 жыл бұрын
Not a bad scenario Vonda B. Have we seen these actors before? Thanks for a great episode.
@kathrynleveque20462 жыл бұрын
Judge Vonda B. has my deep respect. She's never bias and she's so brutally honest. I love that.
@GenuinelyCuriousXXVI2 жыл бұрын
I did not like this one. I am a server and during busy season we make around $3000 biweekly (and heavily taxed) which brings the amount to about $1800 biweekly, but during slow season you're lucky to make $1800 biweekly and then that gets taxed down to around $1200 biweekly. It fluctuates so ruling on a server income, especially if that $5000/mo was taxed as well, is simply imbalanced. I hope he gets it lowered when slow season hits.
@shawndaguiar25313 жыл бұрын
i got confused by the title and thought she was going to order the guy to pay 5k a month i was like shit is that even legal
@bd93282 жыл бұрын
I'm channeling that "you didn't say anything that moved me" energy
@aureateseigneur53173 жыл бұрын
Sounds to me like Dad should have the kids, hes making way more money and is way more financialy stable and viable. He can buy them insurence when they live with him.
@hisdivinegraceimperialmaje41783 жыл бұрын
I agree
@janiquarandall3 жыл бұрын
Question, can a lawyer request a father to produce an award letter for income for a child support case in VA?
@JudgeVondaB3 жыл бұрын
Yes ma’am!
@janiquarandall3 жыл бұрын
@@JudgeVondaB ok good bc i will be getting one for my son in sept court appointed, and ill ask her about that bc last time we went to court the judge and child support Rep asked him about his award letter and je aaod je forgot it but brought other documents about out of state support cases that had nothing to do with our son
@billsimons66583 жыл бұрын
Always use a lawyer and save receipts of additional support, if you give the wife cash make sure there is a receipt and a written understanding about repayment.
@SeeInCarmine7 ай бұрын
I have 3 kids. Our grocery bill is well over $800 a month and we shop at Walmart…
@christiandilday75433 жыл бұрын
Hi judge Vonda 🥰
@JudgeVondaB3 жыл бұрын
Hi there Christian!! Thank you for supporting the show.❤️
@christiandilday75433 жыл бұрын
@@JudgeVondaB your welcome
@windykirtlink Жыл бұрын
I don't think child support should be issued unless BOTH parents work not on welfare and foodstamps unless there's a real medical reason. I also think that anyone who gets child support should have to provide receipts on where the money is spent.
@yougotthisdj59316 ай бұрын
Lol
@Jakeski873 жыл бұрын
I can't agree with the increase based on tips; tips aren't stable income. Where's the tax return with gross and net income? Are we really just going off what she said? Why would he agree to that? Either this is fake or he subconsciously believes he's not doing enough for the kids.
@chiefzackery66513 жыл бұрын
He admitted it, if he would've denied it (if they were cash tips), he would've been fine.
@nancyaguirre23073 жыл бұрын
In certain industries tips ARE the income. If someone is regularly earning a certain amount, even if it is tips, that can be included in child support just like a one time payout of life insurance, some inheritances, etc. it’s called INCOME. Children need food, clothes, medicine, etc. it takes 2 to make them. If he wants to pay less he can take them more and then he would have to spend more supporting them. Instead he is leaving them with mom and wants all his money to himself. It doesn’t work that way.
@mylifeinanutshell69313 жыл бұрын
Read the description and watch the end....it says not real 🤣🤣😅😅🤣😂😂😂🤣😅😅
@Jakeski873 жыл бұрын
@@mylifeinanutshell6931 You paused that half-second clip and then gonna come in here with 20 emojis like you doin something. It also says "based solely on the laws of Texas". My point stands.
@mylifeinanutshell69313 жыл бұрын
@@Jakeski87 I live in Texas....I know the Texas family laws a lot longer than you!
@shanesullivan59182 жыл бұрын
I’m 22 me and my mom went to the courts my whole life and I would receive on occasion one dollar a month. He got away with owing us 40,000$. It’s fu**ing ridiculous. He would get away with it by putting his ones in his family’s accounts. The courts never helps us.
@shimahtw3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately my BD thinks he doesn’t have to pay since he wants credit for the little bit of “parenting” he may do a couple times a month for a few hours…
@amberrose74953 жыл бұрын
I feel this. Lol my baby daddy gets supervised visits once a week for 2 hours through a court supervisor he must pay for I didn’t file child support he don’t pay every week so he misses a lot of visits and is complaining to court that he paid 5 k worth of visits in 2 years and can’t afford it so wants more time (he lost time. Abuse he is a pedophile thag made the news) he complaining over 5K in 2 years which would be 5 k if he paid and attended every week which he did not and he don’t pay child support because I never filed cause I want nothing to do with that man. The fact they entertained giving him 2 hours supervised visits was ridiculous on its own for his charges. And he missed a whole month because his new gfs father had a heart attack and had to fly out to Florida but the same day the program called him and he said thag was the same day he posted pictures of him and his new gf in Florida on vacation at the beach and at sea world. If it was last minute u know damn well that trip was worth a few grand. He should be lucky I don’t file child support. He totaled 2 of my cars both brand new at the time and done some nasty shit. Luckily I got an attorney now cause he trying to get 50/50 the dude don’t even know my kids cloths size or have cloths or a place for him to sleep plus had those charges against him because he a pedophile like he only asking for that to avoid paying to see the child and I don’t want him to see my child or be near my child at all. Period California system is fucked up
@joytoyouandme45933 жыл бұрын
@@amberrose7495 - Based on his inconsistency of visitation and not giving anything to support the child, California courts will recognize his inability to parent. Also if he is a registered sex offender he will have an extremely difficult time going beyond supervised visits. Be certain you make copies of all those pictures from social media. Not sure why you haven’t filed for support, your not doing your child any favors. It is his responsibility to support his child. Also if your new girlfriends Dad has a heart attack, you stay home and work. Odds are pretty good you haven’t even meant him. If he was gone for a month, he most likely doesn’t even have a job. Where did he get $$$’s for a vacation? Have your attorney file for child support while your in court.
@shimahtw3 жыл бұрын
@@amberrose7495 so sorry to hear that Amanda, I pray you get some relief and much better outcome soon. Just this week, I’ve finally got some movement on my case and I’m grateful for that b/c our children deserve better
@TheThemisskitty492 жыл бұрын
Wow those looks from the judge are awesome 😁🤣 I love her❤️💖👍🙌🏾
@razmoore46443 жыл бұрын
I need Judge Vonda B on PRIME TIME TELEVISION! I LOVE THIS SHOW!
@suklinkner86848 ай бұрын
He was really good about the situation.
@murraywestenskow28963 жыл бұрын
Is Judge Vonda going to lower the support when next year he's out of favor and not making the money he is right now?
@amandah36192 жыл бұрын
I think that’s exactly what happens. People go back to court to adjust support ongoing