Sweet Bartender Helps You Destress 💙 (ASMR)

[@FrivolousFoxASMR]

AHHH I DID IT D: Though I'm trying not to pick myself apart with what I could've done differently/better. Honestly, it's been a rough few weeks and impostor syndrome has been really overwhelming me so I'm just happy I was able to push through and get it done. Thank you for your patience and support as I try new things and learn along the way! I really hope you guys enjoy

[@_jxim__252]

Love the new sponsor friv

[@Stephen_Lincoln]

Don't pick yourself apart, Friv. These kinds a roll-plays are always right up your alley.

[@whisperer0564]

Great to see that you have done a new viddie. Hope you are doing well

[@noaheaston2147]

THIS IS AN AMAZING VID LAUREN... YOUR SOFT SPOKEN IS THE PERFECT CADENCE

[@andremack1580]

Sorry to hear about the past few weeks being rough. I’m sure the majority of your community will appreciate this RP’s for sure. I mean, if they don’t… they’re completely missing out. I’m very proud of you tho. Keep it up. You got this 💖

[@FrivolousFoxASMR]

I'm still trying to figure out my acoustics in this room... I swear I was speaking SO softly. Sigh. I'll get better I promise!!!!

[@iamvedaa]

It sounds so good!!

[@whisperer0564]

The soft spoken is excellent. Works great with the roleplay

[@Stephen_Lincoln]

KEEPING IN MIND THAT YOU ARE ALREADY IMPROVING ON PRETTY DANGED GOOD.

[@WeirdoShrub]

It sounds awesome! Very relaxing

[@supersas1236]

thats ok, take ur time

[@lindseyyy.w]

I can’t explain how bad I need a part two. The drink making. The glass noise as you do soft spoken. The genuine personality and parts of you that shine through. Everything is perfect. I love this. ❤️

[@retlaw83]

As someone who gets ASMR randomly in real life situations, I like this wider angle because it makes it feel more like an actual interaction.

[@jakesmith1069]

Same, when someone makes a certain sound I don't want them to stop

[@kennfowler4649]

One of the first times I made mojitos I put the club soda inside before I shook it. It was so funny, but I felt so dumb when the top of the shaker blew off.

[@FrivolousFoxASMR]

OH NO LMAOOO

[@leahduff9717]

IVE DONE THE SAME THING LOL

[@gladfan1989]

Oops

[@jbernie101]

Friv you are literally the best at what you do! I appreciate you so much. My mom passed away last month from stage IV cancer that we just found out about in January. You have been a shining light in a very dark time in my life. Thank you ❤

[@FrivolousFoxASMR]

I’m so so sorry to hear this… I have a couple close people to me now with a cancer diagnosis and it’s terrifying and gut wrenching. I hope you’re able to stay strong, heal and find many reasons to smile ❤️ Sending my love. Thank you for the support ❤️❤️❤️

[@RonaldMcreepy]

I'm so sorry for your loss my friend. keep your head up and live on strongly

[@sudea7]

So sorry for you loss! May her beautiful soul rest in peace 🤍

[@amatto-y1w]

Sorry for your loss stay strong!

[@seanmamos]

I just lost my stepmother to breast cancer last month… this comment helps in an healing way. Stay strong ❤

[@Ilikecats927]

As a recovering alcoholic this is a really comforting video.

[@smokeypuppy417]

My last relapse, I had 15-20 Bacardi superior drinks 6 days in a row, ended up in the hospital with the usual stomach/ bowel excruciating pain, and I was beginning to withdrawl even with a .3 BAC at the hospital. The minimal benzodiazpines they gave me did little to stop the pain/ shakes, and of course I talked to much to the mental health providers and 12 hours later after I sobered up, I was sent to a psychiatric hospital for 5 days, where I spent the entire time withdrawling and they wouldn't give you librium/ vallium but instead phenobarbital, which all it did was prevent potential seizures and not stop the shakes/ dread/ ussual withdrawl symptoms. Never again, 8 hospitzations/ dozens of withdrawls/ script after script of benzos to get through the worst withdrawls in last 3 years. Being sent to a psych ward due to my drinking was the final warning. Back to going to AA and taking naltrexone. 31 days sober, one day at a time, its a marathon not a sprint. My very first drink 13 years ago was Bacardi, my last drink will be bacardi. Never again

[@concretephill8509]

Love the multi-camera setup with different views / scenes. I reaallly love how doing a entire process can be more relaxing than just listening to a singular object.

[@frogskills8477]

The part at the end of the video where you were humming and doing random stuff was soooo relaxing! Would love an extended version!!

[@kylewebb8779]

That's crazy how you got the drink sounds so clear. It sounds like the mic is in the glass. So good

[@ashleyasetzer]

Can you do a longer version of this with multiple types of drinks? It’s soooo relaxing

[@JulesM_]

hand down one of the best roleplays you've made in years

[@SSP50505]

I really appreciate the last scene of "you" alone, going on with your night. I think it adds a lot to the scene. This was lovely =)

[@nikitarenken]

i have not stopped thinking about this video since it came out, i need 4 hours of you just making drinks and calmly talking

[@cristal.146]

Has Bartender Lauren already won my heart in under a minute? A thousand times, yes. I love how heartwarming and welcoming she is within the first seconds we interact with her! Also don't worry Frivvi, you did so well, the roleplay and the mixing were on point

[@beomadans]

I can tell this is a newer side to Frivvi and I absolutely love it already, you really remind me of an actress in an actual movie I love how your tone of voice changes and the things you say are so clever I didn't expect such a detailed barista roleplay for sleep but i'm not complaining at all >

[@angelkim.9549]

I loved everything about this video, Frivvy! I loved feeling like I was actually there with you, having a drink and a vent with you and falling in love with this imaginary bar 💕💕 I wish it actually existed. I would love nothing more than to go to a bar that is really chill and made for you to relax and destress from a busy day at work 🥰 I especially loved the after end-credits/behind the scenes footage! With you humming, tapping and doing a whole assortment of triggers without talking to us. It created such a “you’re sitting and drinking while I’m busy working” pov moment 😍😍

[@kayajones9070]

I love this so much!! 😍 3:40 - 3:48 Tapping & scratching on the chopping board. Such a simple sound yet so tingly! 4:03 - peeling the sticker off 🥴 5:36 - 6:10 Plucking the leaves off & the SMACK SMACK 😍😂💜 8:06 - CRUSH! CRUSH! CRUSH! 😍🥴 9:04 - 9:14 Dunking in & out

[@josh3c657]

Took me a couple of minutes to get over the overwhelming sense of waiting to hear a customer yell with impatience for the drink, but after that it was a really good ASMR experience.

[@fairlyjamie644]

As a bartender I thought this would set me off and remind me of work but the soft crunch crunch of the ice as your stirred the drink was SO relaxing 🤭🙏🏻

[@Anddrew914]

I don't often get ASMR anymore but the shot of you making the drink gave me strong tingles. I think the super hot mic has something to do with it. Do more of these!

[@rexis7108]

Friv, you are one of a group of people to show that I deserve love. You've become my friend over the last 6 years. Every holiday, birthday and heartbreak.. felt a little less alone because of you. Your content provides stability and growth. You're amazing as your job. I love you!

[@abigailmeyers5069]

thank you so much. I watch almost every video you post, because this channel has genuinely become my only safe place right now. I don't really comment much, but I just needed to say thank you for all you do. This video was perfect, and even the ending where there wasn't much interaction made me feel so safe.

[@IanTaylor-r4o]

Every time I watch your videos I not only feel relaxed but I feel very safe with you and know that you truly care for me when I’m feeling depressed/down I love you and I’ll always be your #1 fan.

[@ShowToddSomeLove]

Roleplay starts at 2:24

[@II_Holocene_II]

absolutely loved the humming at the end, one of my all time favorite songs and you have an very soothing voice/hum lol. idk what to call it but you sounded awesome. great video!

[@dragomiradrian8194]

Hi, what is the song called ? It’s really nice.

[@lesbiansforakechi]

@@dragomiradrian8194 when the party's over by billie eilish

[@dragomiradrian8194]

@@lesbiansforakechi thank you

[@andromeda9357]

Thank you for this Frivvi! You’ve gotten me through very tough times like when my Mom had cancer, but she beat it and is a little over a year cancer free!! :)

[@FrivolousFoxASMR]

So happy she beat it!!!! 😭 and I’m happy I could help you get through such difficult times. I hope you have many many more lovely years and smiles left with your mom 🥹❤️❤️❤️

[@andromeda9357]

@@FrivolousFoxASMR thank you so so much!! that means a lot!! 💛💛

[@danika9411]

I just bumped into a person who bullied me as a teenager today and had an unplesant talk. Basically trying to gaslight me into thinking I deserved it and made them do it and it wasn't actually that bad. This helps me a lot! Thank you so much! 💞

[@FrivolousFoxASMR]

Wow what a terrible human being. I’m sorry you had to deal with that. ❤️ Glad this video helped though 🥹

[@GustyBroadcast]

I find it absolutely comical that from this video I imagine some alternative universe where everyone can experience ASMR and instead of drinking in a bar specifically for the drinks, they listen to the bartender slowly make their drink in ASMR. ASMR bar!!

[@clandestine605]

ASMbar let's go!

[@otkiff]

I desperately need this to evolve into a love story

[@Cl0wn8aby666]

I love this more cinematic approach! It's amazing how much a couple extra angles can do to improve a video. Keep this up! And thank you for all the great content and great sleepy vibes!

[@Michelle-lo3yo]

I feel like this video is so genuine. The metaphor of the bar for your YT channel! I always feel safe and relaxed when I'm watching your videos n I appreciate you so much!

[@Karuazo]

haven’t commented before cause i watch youtube with no account but for the past 2.5 years you’ve helped me get to sleep every night and i thank you a lot for that.. love your vids frivvi. the soft speaking is perfect and hope you’re doing well. excited to watch this vid lol

[@taylorbloedorn]

This video is so good and I wasn’t expecting such great camera work too. I love the different angles ❤️

[@syncopatedglory]

i'm barely into the video and this energy is incredible?? wow. this is on the level of power of sound re: companionable roleplays that feel just right. friv, i hope one day you can look back on this and love it as much as we do, because i am so happy with this that even though i often prefer asmr videos without talking, i am already missing bartender!lauren during the quiet drink mixing portion, LOL. keep it up sis 👑

[@legoinsomniac]

This is such a great video. I know you get self conscious about RPs and that this is outside your usual wheelhouse but trust me Friv you absolutely nailed it. The sounds of the mixing and then dubbing over the ones that are too harsh is brilliant, I love the character and the vibes, just all around great job, you should be proud of it.

[@tomhepburn1984]

Every time you make a roleplay like this, I always really wish that the business existed. So whenever you open your ear massage hairdressing bar, you have a customer in me! Another great viddi, thanks Frivs.

[@kirkusmantis]

I am impressed by this video. The time and effort she put into it. The creativity. The acting. The idea behind blending in a casual bar scene with ASMR. The pause while creating the drink to bring out the crisp sounds of relaxing bliss. This beautiful piece of art deserves an award. Great job. I truly enjoyed the content and impatiently wait for more!!

[@Rex.Actually.411]

Just subbed, this is such an enjoyable roleplay, I think you could legit be a successful Hollywood actress! 🥰 I've been dealing with an extended period of depression and anxiety, and the past month or so has been very difficult. The "imposter syndrome" you mention is very relatable to me because it's my nature to reassure ppl that I feel better than I actually do, and I just internalize all the negative energy. THANK YOU for making such helpful content!! 🙏💗

[@FrivolousFoxASMR]

Thank you so much for that!!! I’m sorry you’ve been struggling with impostor syndrome as well… it’s very draining. Hopefully I’ll get better at roleplays and not feel so out of my league every time I try to do one 😂❤️

[@danishmorgan22]

This is so cute and cozy, very authentic setting and lighting 💖 you're so talented, Lauren

[@kshuttup]

My dyslexia read “undress” instead of “destress” and I was slightly concerned😂 this is much better lol

[@Baeuhh]

SAME TBH😭😭

[@MusicLover-bh5kx]

I’ve been here for about 4 years and you never cease to amaze me with all of your videos. I love you channel, I love everything you do for everyone. Thank you Lauren 🤍

[@goldensundeer1139]

I LOVE THIS!!! Something about this video just felt so real and so personable. It really did feel like I was hanging out with a friend in a way. Then the gentle signing in the ending, all so nice! I love this one! I hope we eventually get a follow up on this. X3

[@booberry7515]

WOW! That ending!! I LOVE Frivvi’s videos but I think this one takes the cake by a long shot. Everything about it was just so…… beautiful. I don’t think I have ever felt so calm in my life and I deal with depression and anxiety and LOTS of stress on a daily basis. Thank you Frivvi for everything that you do. You are what keeps every person here going. We love and appreciate you so very much! Don’t ever stop being amazing! And I would LOVE to come to your bar!!!! Never had a mojito but I do love margaritas!

[@ryanmedina4477]

Friv this is so stunning. The production value is amazing and the role play is some of the most comforting content ever. I'm a fan of everything you make, but this is really next level.

[@raebort]

Friv, i haven't watched you in a while, but this video was amazing. It just feels so nice and natural. You are amazing. Thank you for such a relaxing video

[@shelbyhicks7147]

There should be an awards show for asmrtists bc rollplays are legit acting and you’re killing it out here Lauren 🤎

[@kjschannel683]

i’ve been really struggling with mental health and your videos always put a smile on my face . so thankful for you and your channel🫶🏻

[@thatonedankboi]

As a bartender myself, this made my brain quite happy. I now know what it's like to be on the other side of my bar because i speak the way you did in the vid lol. Much Love! Cheers

[@jessicaboyd8371]

I just can't explain how much I love the vibe of this video. Why is there not more bartender asmr??

[@Megalodon64]

I don't drink at all and Friv is now making me want to go to a bar.

[@FrivolousFoxASMR]

Nah it’s overrated, just rewatch this video 😂❤️

[@kellynemecek5894]

Unfortunately it won’t be nearly as quiet and calm an environment haha

[@acid1910]

Bars are so bad, just loud, uncomfortable and overpriced (sorry Frivvi, smiley!) - having some nice people over with a good drink is so much better. Or if you are introverted, drinking alone isn't half as bad as everyone says it is (I like it; and no, I do not do this regularly).

[@dobber43]

@@acid1910 I don't do it alot but I do like just drinking and playing games with friends on discord if I get uncomfortable or nauseous I can just leave instead of being the friend to crash early.

[@seekersudarshan2078]

Drink lemon juice and imagine it's alcohol

[@MALLGOTHZ]

This one literally was my favorite video of yours so far! Would love a longer one in the future. One of the only ASMR videos to ever give me "tingles" when you were softly humming and tapping the coaster!

[@momo_san9695]

That interaction was effortless, my anxiety could never😭

[@madhatter7328]

Came home from school (senior year), hella stressed and I have so much work piled up that needs immediate attention, but I needed some rest: this, this was perfect. Gave my little social bar a gentle nudge and not only relaxed me, but just...felt so comfy. Thank you. I hope you make more videos like this, maybe jumble in some ambiance sounds (like, not bar music but gentle cafe-like sounds?) The "making your drink" process is so fun! I love it. Perhaps you could even do somewhat of a "potion making" roleplay? A lot more mixing of random ingredients :> You could play around with sounds all you want! Also, your voice was genuinely amazing. Perhaps you can even do humming while making drinks? All these ideas aside, watching this brought me joy

[@SkittleDave]

I’m a bartender, and the way this was made, not counting for speed, this gotta be like a $15 mojito. Very well made.

[@tbmin3d]

Still wanna use a real muddler and the rum added before the ice, but yeah, for the purpose of ASMR, agreed, is amazing.

[@nwdfd]

I was thinking the same thing! Love the idea, just got somewhat anxious at the pacing at the beginning. Customers will have your head in a real life situation like this. Still loved to watch it tho.

[@irascib1e]

I never really comment on ASMR videos but just want to say your acting skills are excellent. you look comfortable and confident in front of the camera. good job

[@eiIlenn]

You're getting prettier and prettier with each new upload Frivvi

[@FrivolousFoxASMR]

I do not feel this at ALL but thank you Aylin 😭😭😭 you’re so kind to me I don’t deserve it 😩❤️❤️❤️

[@c7isos]

@@FrivolousFoxASMR YOU DO DESERVE IT ! 😡❗💖

[@amatto-y1w]

@@FrivolousFoxASMR it's absolutely true!

[@OscarLadino]

I don't think I can stress enough how A-MA-ZING are each and every of your roleplays. Always tingly, always wholesome, and above all, a beautiful person, just like yourself

[@polishcodex9441]

It's obvious you put a ton of work into this. It's super unique and very tingly!

[@michaelhohe2168]

hey Frivvi. You're never gonna see this but this is one of my personal recent favorites of yours. The candid conversation with a caring, intriguing bartender, the realistic environment and genuine love given to your idea is more than likely why i like it so much (along with the gentle humming at the end) (absolute chef's kiss on that). You did a fantastic job on this. Thank you for being a creator. The world is richer for your contributions!

[@KM-jb3vg]

Its videos like this (most frivvi videos tbh) that make me so overwhelmed with emotion that my brain just doesnt know how to react I want to cry, I want to forever be in this comfort, Thank you frivvi

[@Jeremy7hinkley]

wow i loved this video Frivvi! it really helped me relax and take the edge off a migraine at the end of a work day. Also really enjoyed the "after credit scene" a little glimpse at Lauren on her own, very wholesome and relaxing!

[@camofrogs-gf]

Frivvi I work overnights at a mental health facility and this is a rough time of year for our guests and staff too. Last night was especially challenging and this ASMR bar is exactly where I want to be! Thank you for all that you do.

[@zaboolovescodex]

This was so extremely well done. The atmosphere, the acting just so well done. 10/10 would drink at this bar.

[@aaronspeck1644]

Had no idea my former job would be this soothing. So many goosebumps for this one.

[@sarah-vj2nj]

the visuals in this video are SICK! Literally is a cinematic experience

[@sorg]

You may feel like your not doing enough but you’ve helped many people. Including me at my darkest times. Don’t beat yourself up your enough

[@futurervp3]

This ending was wonderful, but the whole video was fantastic. I lost my dad last year and can never really find peace at night nor someone to talk to. Somehow someway you filled this void and made me smile. Thank you.

[@a.lambert4907]

The ending especially with the book part 😳❤️ so tingly. This was a great video

[@BloobyTheFrenchy]

Usually not super fond of roleplays to go to sleep to, but you genuinely nailed it Frivvi! 💙 Everything is super clean and well thought out/put together, you're doing amazing! 😊

[@leo-x]

Frivvi is the strongest human being I have ever seen, she is also the most gentle. Her passion for her followers is remarkable. I deeply feel for her and ready to be by her side with anything she needs, because she is the one that reminds to stand up and concur fears! Frivvi you are deep in my heart and in my thoughts and know that you will rise stronger and stronger. You are touching more and more people with each step you take so keep going forward girl, you can do it, you are amazing ❤

[@ninasmr]

roleplays are usually not my thing but THIS is so good! i love the atmosphere, i love your personality in this, you have so much charm acting in front of the camera 😍 i felt so comfortable watching this. and your shirt is so pretty, too

[@Slash5977]

the humming at the end to "When the party's over" was amazing. I'd love to hear a full cover from you frivvi!

[@FrivolousFoxASMR]

Thank you!! And I actually did this a couple years ago ❤️❤️❤️

[@fraserking4747]

Always appreciate what you do, Friv, and being drunk definitely helps tonight. Hope you have a great day/night! Saw your post, and want you to know you’re the reason I got into ASMR, so I’ll always be thankful for your channel. Whatever you’re going through, I hope you make it through it! ❤

[@DYL3900]

I love when asmr comes with a post credit scene

[@StudioL7ASMR]

Frivvi, hello, I just wanted to say thanks for being a kind and calming presence in the internet community. Your take on ASMR is unique and wonderful, and I applaud you for creating it. You're to thank for some of the best and most relaxing ASMR videos out there. I've seen the work of other ASMRtists who were inspired by yours, and I can say with confidence that you're among the best of the best. I don't want to seem too complimentary, but your ASMR films are among the most relaxing I've ever experienced. Thank You!

[@holocoffin]

I don’t even drink and I love this vibe. If there was a place like this that offered some nice alcohol free drinks I’d become a regular.

[@sarah-vj2nj]

I loved this! I would love to see a series of this where a new person is greeted each time/ a new drink is made, I feel like that might be a cool concept!

[@francescotani5203]

i absolutely adore when you do roleplays!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@wrigleyisbasic]

I normally don't comment on ASMR videos but this one was fantastic! I loved how calm and relaxing the narrative was, and the little bonus section at the end was perfect too. Also you have such a beautiful singing voice, girl I am jealous of that vibrato skill 💜

[@jessicagomez3249]

😂😂😂 as a bartender it gives me anxiety… but also I work at a fast pace bar… but the mint slaps cracked me up!! As an asmr fan, i loved it.

[@the_quake]

I love bar roleplays, probably because I have no actual bar experience so this is what I’d love a bar to be like. Some of my favorite bar based videos have been from Sarah Lavender and Nara, but Frivvi you’ve jumped right up there as well! I’d love to see more.

[@kcsnipes]

I don’t know why but there is something about this frivvy girl that keeps me coming back to her videos occasionally

[@aaron_r6611]

I think personally this is the most relaxing and sleep inducing RP iver ever listened to/watched, i Honestly think this whole video is perfect

[@pixelinnie]

Frivvi, I’m not sure if you’ll ever see this but you absolutely killed this. I’m usually not that big of a fan of roleplays but yours are literally amazing (I think I’ve rewatched the cute killer clown rp of yours atleast 20 times now). This was so relaxing, thank you for everything you do !!

[@TheLeone3600]

I know you don't do role-plays super often, but I would love to see more of this series! It was just so perfect and the tingles were amazing!!!!

[@veguillar1]

Girls take notes! Men love this type of confidence!

[@TheFartanSpartan]

I've been a fan of your videos for quite a while now and this video was such a welcomed surprise. Awesome job with the roleplay and change of pace. Please keep it up, your an amazing content creator!

[@fugaku1343]

This makes me feel like listening to the confession of a person that has provided so much to others, has been a soul healer, a mind cleanser, a promoter of hope and of a healthy mind and soul. A confession about how even the ASMR "nurse", that heals us with every video, needs some healing of her own. I wish you find balance, I wish you find hope. Think of how many lives you've touch and how many you probably saved. You are our little angel Frivvi 💙

[@FrivolousFoxASMR]

🥺🥺😭😭😭❤️

[@Shaa-Gi]

KZbin keeps recommending me this video I’ve watched it soooo many time and I love it more each time, love you friv and thanks for the ASMR it helps a lot 😊

[@Lex_en_vrai]

That intro is really funny and comforting tho, you got this girl I couldn't do any better !

[@prakashg9036]

This needs a part 2 so badly!! 😭😭😭

[@cowmoos964]

I never comment on videos, I just wanted to say I LOVE YOU and ur my favorite asmrtist! You’re no impostor ur the QUEEN!! Ive watched ur videos for years and I will always support you no matter what! 😁

[@FrivolousFoxASMR]

Thank you wtf 😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️

[@FinniganASMR]

This is so comforting, like hanging with a good friend. I guess that's what a great bartender can do though. Thanks for keeping us company 💞

[@117alexis]

I used to go to a place like this here in Ciudad de México but now a days there’s lots of stand up comedy

[@kenlemarchand]

The bit of echo in this one was a nice touch for ambience. Not sure if that was the mic or the room attributing that, but it was atmospheric. I also thought the extras at the end were the cherry on top. Always enjoy a good tune. 🎶

[@ThisJac]

Your final hum is rly amazing :___ i'd love to watch more videos of you humming!

[@annika2838]

Low key I love it when Bespoke Post sponsors her cuz I love these role plays! Love u Friv!

[@madisonmoore7863]

Idk but 6:05 really made me smile, I had to replay it again haha

[@SaturnAT839]

This was a really awesome roleplay, especially since you don't do them so often. Super relaxing. Great job!