Swinging as a Threesome

[@aviancag8716]

The ability both have to openly discuss their experiences shows how strong their bond is .

[@litgirlablaze3432]

The chemistry between them is palpable! Love seeing couples really in love and having an amazing happy life!

[@itellwalker7923]

LtGirlablaZe absolutely! The chemistry between them is absolutely palpable! I do too! I love seeing couples really in love and having an amazing and happy life as well! It’s a beautiful sight to behold!

[@lawlessjff]

Everyone has their own thing. Some like bondage and spanking, interracial, same sex, multiple partners, or platonic. It’s what’s best for you. Don’t criticize another’s choice. Some of these style relationships work really well, where as platonic relationships fall apart. Give them credit for exploring and experiencing their feelings

[@chloeratchford4854]

Agree 💯

[@Sara-yz7nc]

You just described porn for men. Congrats, youre basic

[@sunny_dhende6289]

Exactly! Well written. I say to each their own. I'm starting to see what this swinging is all about through a friend n I'm excited to see where this goes!😉😁

[@itellwalker7923]

@@sunny_dhende6289… Absolutely! 👏🏽 I completely agree! 😁 Have fun exploring the (SWINGING UNIVERSE) my dear… 😏 You deserve to discover new and exciting galaxies as a result from the orgasmic cosmic high you’re going to experience each and every time you have fun to end up going beyond space and time darling…. 😉

[@scottmccaffery6069]

​@@sunny_dhende6289when In doubt give me a shout 😉

[@scottbrowning4553]

1. Live and let live 2. To each couple its own 3. Different strokes for different folks 4. Mind your own business If you truly believe that swinging is that abominable, demeaning, sickening, or whatever negative adjectives that you can think of, then don't participate in it, or even think about it. Read your Bill of Rights of our United States Constitution.

[@ThisIsJessPaul]

Thanks for sharing your lives, guys. This is such a practical guide to the lifestyle. I'm a baby poly-person who is just now realizing this as an option that fits my innate personality so perfectly, but practicing the lifestyle is still something I have less experience with, so I've been binging these episodes. Thank you for speaking so candidly.

[@geoffhayes905]

I am a single guy that love to swing. I've been to hedo twice and am planning on going back. Swinging is a mind set and your awake to being open from both sides. The female pleasure side and the male pleasure side. Jealously is a control emotion. Not a good trait to have in a swinging relationship

[@melody5739]

Hey sexy

[@geoffhayes905]

Thank you melody for the compliment

[@davidkanalos6710]

Ya I'm to jealous and would be fight the guy fucking my wife !

[@mitchsalawine5420]

John and Jackie, it takes A LOT of guts to share about your lifestyle and I congratulate you both. I'm sorry for alot of the judgement you have received here in the comments section. I don't know why people click on a video about something they obviously think badly about and then go on a rage against it.

[@openlove101]

Thank you so much for the kind words.

[@mitchsalawine5420]

@@openlove101 you are more than welcome. The level of transparency and commitment you have is beautiful in itself. If more couples had it, there would be far fewer divorces in this world. Much love, and it sounds like it was a great vacation!

[@chloeratchford4854]

Love how open minded they are, just adore that.

[@davidtaylor613]

Lovely couple 💞

[@chloeratchford4854]

@@davidtaylor613 ✔

[@davidtaylor613]

@@chloeratchford4854 hello be nice to chat x

[@davidtaylor613]

@@chloeratchford4854 be nice to chat

[@Joseph-w3z]

I like to meet swingers 😊

[@lettuceboy2382]

Jackie and John. I’m the original poster of the question. It was actually a comment on your page if I recall. I really appreciate and was surprised to see it addressed and I thank you for it. While I have no doubt you’ve had Mmf and men outside, the crux of the question was in the context of a romantic weekend. I was skeptical that John would enjoy a extended romantic weekend with Jackie and the company of another male. A hour or two romp vs a weekend romance and sex with another guy was the distinction I was hoping to draw out. Thank you

[@michaele.nicholson6671]

This is great, knowing such a strong bond and willingness.

[@nelsonnblottt5803]

It's amazing how he keeps his eyes on her. It's toxic love

[@Jetsetfastfood]

He’s insane

[@jamesmaness6308]

You two are awesome. Thanks so much for sharing both your experiences and your wisdom. Blessings to you both 🙏

[@openlove101]

Thank you!

[@antonettenjock1640]

My Hubby is very supportive of my fantasy for years. Just having the experienced is phenomenal. The energy is different.

[@itellwalker7923]

Bless your hubby Antonette! I’d love to thank him man to man for his support of you fulfilling your fantasy for many years now! I’m so happy you enjoyed your experience and was able to fulfil your fantasy by meeting the man of your dreams eventually who supported and supports your fantasy!! Congratulations! Yeah… I can imagine how the experience after not experiencing that particular fantasy within the lifestyle before most certainly must’ve been so different for you… Feel free to contact me if you ever want us to play together too… Take care.

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

If You Need A Bull Baby I Am Your Bull

[@Joseph-w3z]

Definitely 😁

[@moatazmohamed4420-v7e]

Where are you from plz

[@moatazmohamed4420-v7e]

​@@itellwalker7923ur comment is really appreciated

[@swagonwheels]

It seems to me, those who criticize others choice of living their lives as they please, are actually bitter because they didn't have the courage to do it themselves.

[@nightswatch9007]

swagonwheels absolutely

[@wildlife917]

Its not about courage as much It is a consensus choice, because they lack vital components in their marriage. So they seek out in opening up their relationship with other couples to explore intimacy again, and getting introduced to new things. But It never ends, there's always unsatiated needs.

[@AY-pw7hz]

A threesome isn’t courage wtf 😂

[@swagonwheels]

@@AY-pw7hz You mentioned the threesome, not me???

[@AY-pw7hz]

@@swagonwheels This video is discussing that topic along with many more. Stop acting oblivious.

[@andrewpowers7034]

People confuse judging something, ie having an opinion about something, with forcing their judgment/opinions on others. It’s fine to feel anyway you want about a topic without believing others have to conform to your pov.

[@sordidmayhem191]

Just wondering, where does this end after all? Pursuing lust constantly seems so shallow. Besides , sexual connection is that special thing that you share with your partner. They seem to be cool but the majority of couples trying this lifestyle, end up devastated.

[@supertrooper1631]

Sordid Mayhem agreed good point

[@kbanghart]

Because it's not all about just pursuing list. And remember, all kinds of supposedly monogamous relationships fail.

[@ryankelly8077]

You bring up a VERY common theme that occurs & ask a valid question

[@bjarias]

... monogamous, non-monogamous... neither immune to pitfalls

[@Ebbrush3]

swingers are people who are really really nice to each other...woohoo

[@kvisualtree]

To each his own. I think these two are truly happy in what they think is correct, when the world is full of hate and manipulation. 👍

[@recyclespinning9839]

Strange how he stares at her. I can't be the only one wondering ??

[@mierlancatalin3472]

He is constantly looking for her approval ;)

[@lewstone5430]

Maybe he thinks she's beautiful and he loves her.

[@vtwinwild1]

She is also staring at him. Maybe they like each other. Quit hating.

[@JonathanDLynch]

For those of you who say this will cause them problems in their relationship- is this just your gut feeling or are you basing this on some sort of research?

[@stevenwilliams1805]

Or experience, perhaps?

[@bodyer2120]

It contributed in ending my marriage. I wish I had never heard of swinging.

[@JonathanDLynch]

@@bodyer2120 That sounds so sad. I feel for you.

[@pablopeter3564]

This is great as long as everyone agrees and feels well.

[@scottbrowning4553]

As much as there are people out there like myself who going to approve the swinging or open relationship lifestyle, there will always be bigots out there. The people who are judgmental will have their right to express their attitudes when they post their comments on any episode that they see on this channel. Unfortunately, that is the price that open minded people like myself have to pay for living in such a free and democratic society. Take this comment for what it's worth.

[@buellfuel2001]

I am the boyfriend of a couple. I am partially moved in with them. We have many very open and painfully honest discussions about our lives together. Our relationship is accepted by almost all of our friends and the ones that don't are simply left to stew about it. It's a great deal for all of us.

[@jamesgore7860]

Are you all bi

[@buellfuel2001]

@@jamesgore7860 no, you are wrong, not bi at all. He is a great friend and we both love his wife.

[@larrykelly2010]

@@buellfuel2001 every one loved his wife

[@buellfuel2001]

@wingsandstrings why are you watching this video then????and then spending the time to read the comments?

[@buellfuel2001]

@@larrykelly2010 not really...lol almost all women are hard to get along with...lol

[@tomortale2333]

why does the guy just ''stare'' at his wife? is he afraid she's going to run away?

[@buddyflood6761]

I think he's getting hot for her just thinking about it

[@hectorheath]

See her eyes light up when he said Jamaica 🇯🇲

[@japsley6172]

duane colbert yes, she knows it, that’s what she is for!

[@marcishears3774]

Man you guys got it made!! A healthy relationship and you can explore your sexual side. I’m so jealous lol . I trying to muster up the courage to ask my spouse about this.

[@MrSonofagun45]

It requires lots of trust. My wife and I have been married 19 years and together for 23. Just started swinging a year ago and loving it. Never thought we'd have so much fun. Best of luck to you and yours.

[@lettuceboy2382]

You might want to ask what he thinks of the concept in general or bring up a fictional couple that’s doing it. For all you know he’s afraid to bring it up with you

[@joelmedeiros4176]

My wife and I are looking for a hot couple to have some good times Thanks

[@joelmedeiros4176]

Do you ever vacation in Hawaii?

[@itellwalker7923]

Marci Shears they sure have got it made!! A healthy relationship AND they can both explore their sexual side!! Wow!!.. I love them!! I can completely understand you being jealous! Lol! I wish you all the courage in the world to ask your spouse about this because when or if you ever do and when or if he ever agrees then it’d be an honour to play with you if you want me to and of course with the consent of your partner. Take care.

[@stevefischer9336]

Look at all the judgmental people- does it make them feel more secure to put down others ) Meanwhile most traditional marriages end in divorce , or the couple's exist unhappy. I know because I practice Family Law. This may not work for me but the "swingers" I've represented seem to have had longer relationships. There are millions of people doing this - on underground sites- its way more common than you might believe.

[@peterclark4128]

Jealousy a big killer, we don't have that and why it works for us

[@nixworld767]

Yep

[@latinaalma1947]

Im a clinical psychologist and agree with you. I am not a swinger, my husband was with a former wife. They were married 20.yrs and were swingers all except the fIrst three. Their marriage did not fail due to swinging but due to his bankruptcy... she could not bear the loss of wealth. I had my own professional career and investments and just did not care about HIS money. We did not marry but chose to live together 40 yrs and very happily. He brought up the lifestyle early on to inform me and I knew about it having studied human sexuality but did not want to try it. My mate is the most ethical honorable man I have ever l known. I really dont like the moralizing I see in comments here. Sybil Francis PhD

[@itellwalker7923]

@@peterclark4128 that’s so true. Jealousy is a big killer. Most definitely. It’s why I chose to kill that emotion within me. I’m so happy swinging has worked and is working for you both as a couple. (THIS IS WHY I LOVE IT.) You’ll continue to stay together because of the lifestyle you both willingly agree to take part in. Feel free to contact me if your partner would like another man to play with her one day. It’d be a pleasure. Take care. Stay strong.

[@jjmdavo]

great vid guys and I'm happy for you two doing what you want and both accepting each others sexual desires and supporting each other ...you only live once so why not enjoy life and your desires

[@whitneytaft5849]

I'm really starting to understand that it's ok to explore my sexual fantasies and try new things and I'm missing out on alot!!!

[@russellhaupt5043]

Yes Whitney you are,I'm here for you if you need anything lol

[@saintjohnno]

What you say is true... . Opening your mind to the possibilities is certainly a good place to start. We did' and had a experience we once never thought possible..

[@Babydoollchanda]

Mee to❤❤

[@itellwalker7923]

Whitney Taft that’s (EXACTLY) what I’ve realised and exactly what I thought so I said to myself recently after discovering this in recent times, “This is my kinda lifestyle!” I can’t believe Iike you I’ve been missing out on fulfilling my sexual fantasies with more than willing single and attached women! At least it’s not too late for me and I have many more years to play! Feel free to join me if you like… 😉 x Lol!

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

if your in or near Ohio i,m ready

[@randysavage4801]

As long as your comfortable with your relationship it’s all good

[@kbanghart]

@Best Tongkat Ali I do

[@kbanghart]

@Best Tongkat Ali Mmm I saw some of the content, not so sure about that lol

[@march3769]

Best advice ever!

[@DiamondServerGamingShorts]

I find it super sexy that my body is just for my husband and his for me. That just the two of us share each other’s secrets. I think I’m officially old. 😁 I love my husband.

[@thecatswillplay86]

Your husband is blessed to have you, it sounds like he found a hidden gem.

[@drnocka-rocksteady]

Ain't nothing wrong with that.

[@thomasbeaver1]

Yeah it is super sexy and that would be great if you actually had sex. When was the last time? There are only two acceptable answers: 1. Yesterday and 2. Today. What your husband will never tell you is that men need sex like oxygen. EVERY DAY! But women don't give a sh8T what their husbands need and the men are too polite to say anything.

[@kbanghart]

@@thomasbeaver1 lol that's very strange

[@mountainmasti5111]

Wow it's not easy to find a women like you..

[@roybond1251]

Not sure how true it is maybe you can elaborate but I did read in a popular magazine that swinging couples have a much lower divorce rate than standard couples

[@openlove101]

I have also read studies that show open relationships feeling more secure. Most studies associate a greater sense of trust, communication and honesty within the relationship as being success factors. Regardless of the relationship model chosen, the degree of "success" or "failure" depends on those involved.

[@ryankelly8077]

Openlove101 - there’s no real way of generating a study of this kind that is supported by empirical evidence... do not mistaken a “study” (based off scientific principles) for what is really a “survey” (which is not based on any science).

[@davidt5200]

I get it. it's all in how you look at it. Sex to me is a sacred thing that I share with the person I love. I've never cheated on my girlfriend I never will. I won't judge if that's what you want to do. More power to you. It's just not for me. When I commit, I commit. And when you love someone the sex is so good. It's not like kicking a ball in the backyard with a friend, that's not how I look at it.

[@bodyer2120]

Open relationships are based on lust not love no matter what way you present it.

[@hushanimation2855]

BINGO!

[@jamesfalci9372]

weird to me to share your wife/husband

[@jaymzgaetz2006]

done it a few times. great way to get a woman worked up into a frenzy. after the 1st time many friends started dropping in wanting to try. i liked the attention

[@kbanghart]

Did you ever join in? Or was she always alone with the other guy?

[@ronniebenoit4081]

@@kbanghart your so nawtee 😈

[@kbanghart]

@@ronniebenoit4081 I knowwwww 😁

[@ronniebenoit4081]

@@kbanghart have you had any adventures like these?

[@kbanghart]

@@ronniebenoit4081 not yet

[@cyrilriceball2294]

Sounds like she is happy. Keep Mama happy and you will be.

[@chrisboyd4433]

OK, I saw the Openlove101 newsletter post and come here to see. I had already watched the video (and most of the others on the channel). I don't normally read down to see what the comments say unless I am leaving on of my own., so these comments were new to me. WOW. I share many of the same viewpoints and beliefs about open relationships that Jackie and John have. Much like John, I grew up with a very open and natural attitude towards sex. As I read the comments on this video two things jump out at me. The first is the judgement and labeling that some users have engaged in towards two people that they know very little about. Yes, Jackie and John have chosen to share certain parts of their lives with us through their videos and blogs, but we don't really know WHO they are. Applying labels to others and making assumptions about their feelings and motivations based on the limited knowledge we have about these people is misguided at best and downright destructive at worst. Ask questions to try and understand others. Don't assume that you already do. The second is the repeated idea: "Why get married to this person if you want to have sex with others?" In my mind, getting married to another person (or persons) IS a commitment. It is a commitment to share your lives with each other. Read that again. Share your (individual,separate, varied, and full) lives with each other. Not limit your lives to each other. If your chosen path includes having relationships with others then you should do that whether or not you are married to another. Why would you want to be married to someone who does not support and accept you being whomever you want to be? My commitment to my marriage has much more depth to it than just who we have sex with. There are thirty years of shared experiences and life lessons that form the foundation of our love. For me, the commitment is about giving each other the encouragement, support, and acceptance to be the person we each dream of being. I think that is the biggest "takeaway" I have from the videos and blogs that Openlove101 have shared. I see two people who care deeply for one another. I see two people who want to help the other achieve happiness and joy. As long as all people in the relationship are both informed and consenting to what is happening, there should be no reason for someone outside the relationship to question that. Jackie and John, you two keep doing you. Keep the conversation going. That is how we will all learn.

[@openlove101]

Well it's my turn to say...WOW! Thank you so much for sharing your views. You bring to the forefront the importance of acceptance, especially when others views differ from our own. John & I know the content of our message will be controversial for some, way outside the lines for others, and intriguing to still more. Like you, we hope to reach those singles or couples who value their relationship and their individuality in such a way as to combine the two and come out the other side stronger in the love they have cultivated. We don't expect everyone to agree with us, heck that's what makes diversity so amazing! The coming together of different perceptions. I am reminded of the beauty found when peering through a kaleidoscope...all those reflecting surfaces coming together to create a thing of beauty. Thanks again for sharing.

[@chuco12341]

Chris Boyd I

[@jerrygross4625]

It’s their life. It’s a choice they make. Those that are into it must find something they enjoy about or it wouldn’t exist. So you can stand on the Bible and shout your opinion for e everyone to hear but what it really boils down to it’s really none of anyones business what swingers do as long as it does not interfere others daily life.

[@deejayyzukiryder9550]

Facts!!! If you are not interested in a Topic why click on it? Its just weird to me that you would listen to a video about something you are not interested in or agree with.

[@mitseraffej5812]

I have a great functional relationship with my wife. She is happy when I am happy and I am happy when I can do as I please. These days this involves lots of fishing, the sort you do from a boat that also feeds the family.

[@stevewilson397]

does ur wife bring her lover with you fishing?

[@mitseraffej5812]

Steve Wilson . No, my wife and her lover both think my boat stinks to much of fish. You would think it would be heaven for a couple of woman that like other woman.

[@claychandler3468]

One last thing I forgot to mention in my last comment this kind of thing is murder murder of a marriage

[@nixworld767]

Oh. Hey. Thanks for clearing that up. We were all wondering.

[@SWA2371]

It might be fun for a little bit but in the end it will only cause problems in the relationship.

[@oldgymrat71]

..and if you have a religious strict monogamous relationship there will be no problems?

[@SWA2371]

Michael McDaniel sorry I wasn’t clear with my comment. I was referring to the problem of fucking someone else while married.

[@kbanghart]

@Dwayne Neal oh you can tell us that? Cuz you're an expert? LOL

[@kbanghart]

@Dwayne Neal riiiiiight

[@Alex10daysago]

My husband told me he was gay and I allowed him to have a 3 some with me and another men. And now our relationship is stronger.

[@garyjohnson7626]

You should have started running away immediately fast as you could theres not going be a good ending to this at all you playing Russian roulette with your life now dealing with a Gay male period

[@Alex10daysago]

Gary Johnson I feel that nobody is 100% straight or gay. And also we have a preference for not just man or women but what kind of men and women. Some men like slimmer women. Others like curvier. Some women like tall men. Others like short men. Alot of people are of a certain body type and their partner is sexually attracted to another body type than their own. I allow my husband to have this. Its his absolute preference. That does not mean that we have a non existent sex life. Quite the contrary. It has really opened us up to all new great adventures together.

[@garyjohnson7626]

@@Alex10daysago your first statement is weird by itself but am not surprise I am a 100% straight Male I like women only sexually I dont know were you get that theory from that everybody not 100% straight person you first statement is not totally true at all your Husband you dealing with is bisexual like I said before you playing Russian roulette with your health and life theres nothing good going come from that kind of relationships

[@Alex10daysago]

Gary Johnson well he first opened up to me about 12 years ago. And we’ve been going strong since then. Even have an 5 and 3 year old.

[@felipecastro1496]

I have never heard that, so he wants to be with you, since you are a woman an all.

[@chrisclark5204]

Any couple who tries or is into swinging have broken the sanctity of marriage and the vows they made to each other.

[@sampleowner6677]

I think their vowes have evolved into something that works for them. Who are we to judge?

[@bxstar5276]

Those vows are bs. Half of married couples cheat

[@navyregrets]

Not judging here, but if you're not enough for each other, why bother getting married in the first place? If one of you decided that this is not what they want anymore, would the other stop? Would the other resent the loss of freedom to explore and experiment with others outside of the marriage? If (when?) a problem of any kind develops in the relationship, wouldn't an open relationship be a detriment to maintaining that relationship?

[@sampleowner6677]

What stops people from having an open relationship is jelousy, insecurity and the feeling it's immoral. If you can get past that swinging might just add some spice to your marriage. I've always from monogamy boring and unsatisfying.

[@navyregrets]

Then why marry? If you want to have multiple partners, why marry one person? Why not just stay single and co-habitate like Kurt & Goldie, or any number of other non-married couples?

[@kbanghart]

@@navyregrets well, I could ask you the question the other way around, why NOT marry, if they want? I mean, to me it seems similar to the issue of having a circle of friends whom you are very close with, but you pick one out of that group to marry because you enjoy being with them more or for other reasons. but you don't necessarily stop being good friends or close with the others as well.

[@ronniebenoit4081]

I've been with my fiancé and she's had multiple partners during our relationship and I enjoy taking my fiancé back and claiming her body after her lover has used her. She enjoys me watchingand her being taken and her lover not knowing about it. I enjoy watching her being pleasured more than anything.

[@smarakhindustani.8678]

U r just an option bro when u'll need her she might fucking some one else. U r being used as a security,nurse, a t m & servant

[@chloeratchford4854]

That sounds INCREDIBLE

[@ronniebenoit4081]

@@smarakhindustani.8678 nah...your just jealous and insecure

[@latinaalma1947]

You sound like my mate this is what he wants me to do...I am unsure. He was in swinging many years before me. I have never experimented. The only difference is he wants to be involved with me at the same time not just watching, but participating MMF that was his favorite part of swinging he says. He did do MFF too but found it isnt easy to satisfy two women at ONCE. He says its the most popular male fantasy but wasnt that terrific for him. He did separately have sex with an average of five women a night and that he enjoyed esp when most were women he knew ...he liked to include one or two new women but really enjoyed repeats with women he esp enjoyed and really liled as people.He said often the best sex was not with the best looking women. He says its the personality you enjoy as much as or MORE than the sex itself, just like regular dating. It's the WHOLE person. I have slept with men I liked instead of loved and enjoyed it so maybe it is like that. BUT I never had sex with a stranger...I always knew a man fairly well and at least liked the man, a couole I loved as friends and we stayed close friends after we slept together for years. I cannot imagine sex with a stranger. I am a psychologist and highly trained in theory but just completely a babe in the woods re experience. Sybi Francis PhD

[@itellwalker7923]

What I’ve read looks (ABSOLUTELY DIVINE) Ronnie… It would be a (COMPLETE HONOUR) for me to be an (INCREDIBLE PARTNER) to your fiancé while we exchange energy with one and other and take each other to heights we both have become addicted to only for you to claim your blessing and make love to her after she’s been pleasured by me Mr Benoit… I look forward to meeting her for a drink or perhaps dinner one day to manifest yet another fantasy into reality between us… Good day to you sir.

[@danmcn61]

They clearly love each other, and they are enjoying their lives. What is the harm?

[@matthewguzda4075]

Who knows man. Divorce is over 50%, hey if u can make it work good for you. I've had girls I've dated I've trusted some not, but I think trust is the big factor.

[@openlove101]

Trust is definitely a factor.

[@DeepScubaDiver]

More power to you, but I guess my question would be what is the point of getting married if living that lifestyle? I’m not married, so I get to be with a different lady every day if I wished. I thought marriage was supposed to be for those who want to be in a committed relationship.

[@openlove101]

What makes you think those in open relationships aren't committed? You bring up a great point though in your question. You talk about the fact that you aren't married and that is why you have the freedom to engage with others. What is it about marriage that should strip us of our freedom to interact with others? Shouldn't finding someone to share your life with be increasing your freedom instead of restricting it? The way you compare marriage to single life doesn't make marriage sound at all attractive? Do you see where I am going with this? Isn't this view of marriage pretty typical? That once you say, "I do" you end up with images of balls and chains? What makes us think that deciding to enter into a more permanent relationship with someone should equal restriction? You absolutely CAN be in a committed relationship AND still maintain freedom. My husband and I absolutely adore each other. We share a home, we jointly purchase items, we want to wake up next to each other, we have businesses together, but all of this togetherness shouldn't be trivialized simply because we both like spending time with others. In my opinion, we are in a much more committed relationship as a result of our freedom and openness. Instead of being together out of some fear or control of the other, we are current in our relationship out of a desire to be here. We are constantly reminded of how lucky and blessed we are to have each other. We do not take for granted the impact we both play in each others lives, nor do we try to restrict the impact we have on the lives of others.

[@DeepScubaDiver]

Openlove101 I’m not here to approve or disapprove of your lifestyle. It just sounds odd to me that someone would want to get in a committed relationship with another person with the intent to engage in sexual activity with a different person if this all makes any sense. The few ladies that I’ve been with all were expecting me to ONLY have sex with them(which is why I remained single) and I can see why they wanted commitment to only them since of course because of possible STDs(I use condoms) or finding someone else that does it better which all stems from insecurity issues in my opinion. In any case, I just now realized that I’ve probably been looking in all the wrong places for that special lady that would let me “run free” and still have love for one another. Thank you for opening my eyes a bit more.

[@meteor1237]

Agree with Jackie! We are so trapped into a paradigm that may no longer work, or was even realistic to begin with. We've been married 42 years, swinging for 20. Parents were miserable, finally divorcing after 32 years, in a marriage that made everyone miserable! We're still investigating whatever makes the other happy.

[@deaddropsd1972]

Openlove101 married a vanilla gal 6 years ago. I miss the lifestyle... sigh... twas a gamble...

[@Mordakar]

In attempting to answer your own question, have you ever tried to disconnect sexual pleasure from the sort of intimacy that actually makes a marriage work? I would contend that it's not only possible, but commonly done. It's almost cliche to see people getting married that never shared anything more than a sexual attraction. I would contend that sex is merely a constituent component of intimacy, and does not represent the full breadth of ones commitment to another. I would further argue that communication and trust sit above sex in the hierarchy of a healthy relationship, and rampant cheating and divorce rates appear to signify that these are violated with banal regularity. Indeed, trust is an enormous component of all this, and many of the comments shown here indicate that the most vitriolic against these two have probably had that trust obliterated by a partner. I would argue all of the above even while conceding that human sexual psychology is incredibly complex, and that this sort of lifestyle is fraught with potential peril. Still, being intimate with another person is not simply having sex with them. While marriage in common parlance might be the most visible symbolic act of two people's commitment to each other, it most certainly doesn't have the monopoly on said commitment. It is perfectly possible to remain in a positive, monogamous relationship without ever getting married, just as it's possible to get married for all of the wrong reasons to the wrong person, cheat on them and see the marriage fail. The only questions one need bother with in this context are as follows: 1.) Are both parties committed to this sort of lifestyle? 2.) Is everyone involved an adult capable of giving informed consent? 3.) Has the couple considered the possible pitfalls in this scenario? 4.) Are both parties prepared to accept any deleterious consequences arising from the act? So long as everyone involved has answered yes, then it really isn't the place of anyone else to question the arrangement. Nor are moral pronouncements terribly meaningful here, seeing as human beings are phenomenal agents of hypocrisy and compartmentalization.

[@felixniederhauser7799]

If this Guy would have some self respect, he would not let this happen. It seems that he is afraid to lose her if he would stop it. Sorry people, this is not my pair of Shoes. However,others can do what they want, I dont have to like it or even endorse it.

[@stevefischer9336]

Why judge? Are you a licensed analyst? Why not live whatever years you have left - and allow others to do the same?

[@felixniederhauser7799]

@@stevefischer9336 Having an opinion does not mean to be judgative.

[@felixniederhauser7799]

@R C :Vive la difference.

[@terryjenkins4198]

Sometimes the Bordon in the bedroom can lead to cheating. Its not cheating when you both envolved. I have seen it saves marriages

[@tpep55]

@Dwayne Neal you couldn't be more wrong

[@davidbergman9901]

Hearts never break in even pieces. I wish all of you the best.

[@dusanmilenovic8898]

Kako to da ovde stranci vladaju??? Zar u Srbiji nema svingeraj???? Zašto se hrabri neoglase, da čujemo njihovo mišljenje!!!?

[@enzerabowenzu5340]

I truly believe being able to have an open relationship takes very evolved people. If it can go on unhindered by jealously or negativity, it is because the people involved realized we are not shackled by society and the expectations they place upon us. It is liberating and I hope I can get to a place where I am so evolved and sexually (and romantically) confident. I love my partner and being monogamous... but I can also appreciate the possibility of this in the future. There are too many people on the planet who have parts of what you- as a human- need, to close off yourself to one person for the rest of your life. And to love someone so deeply before and after they fuck another person, is mind boggling and to me, probably real love. After all, jealously isn't love; Its manipulation, and is bred from your ultimate desire to control somebody under the guise of love. I'm am prevy to it as well though... so as I said, I understand. Jealousy is a human instinct and happens to all of us & THAT'S where the evolved part comes in! You must evolve or you will fall victim to never enjoying life as it should be-- Free.

[@openlove101]

Thanks so much for sharing such beautiful insight.

[@ryankelly8077]

eckhoff michael - Hey!! if you’re looking for a bull, or just have any concerns in general, plz do not hesitate to reach out via IG w/ any questions that either of you may have☺️ My instagram is: Ryankelly____

[@sunny_dhende6289]

So well said! I believe we weren't meant to be with one person that we are to share parts of ourself to fit our many different needs! I love myself first and I have an AGAPE love for others. I'm a free🐦😄

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

@@sunny_dhende6289 I Am Open On Swiiging

[@motorcitymanman7711]

Having sexual relations for most people is very intimate.....its naturally intimate.....the problem when you have sex with many or multiple people it's not intimate anymore. It's not something "special" shared by 2 people who love each other.

[@sharpshooter6030]

Fantacies are best kept that way

[@genohiggins2023]

By

[@genohiggins2023]

Call

[@genohiggins2023]

Yes

[@nofrackingzone2.057]

Does anyone else fell it’s weird the guy is staining directly at her the whole time?

[@andrewrobinson2565]

If you mean staring, no I don't. If she was naked, there wouldn't be any stains. 😊

[@wdotgreatest]

Yea, it’s a little awkward

[@Last_Chance.]

She's such an amazing woman

[@Timhisattva]

Some of the people commenting negatively must be very... and I do mean VERY, insecure about themselves. Best to you.

[@kbanghart]

Most of them are probably either single, or divorced. Go figure.

[@mikemjm748]

Ya it’s so fun! Maybe for pretty people that get what they want others may not be as lucky and end up shut down all the time and on pure judgment because of looks and that is all people are fucked up! I’m happy for everyone who is in the same shoes as you both thanks for sharing your content

[@herbertking8463]

love and trust....its hard work but being honest with the one you love the most makes your life work...its the only way it works.best wishes

[@mijemumijemu4466]

i like the even steven idea better. seems like more to talk about and more fun.

[@DavidWilliams-hv7so]

It's amazing how happy Jackie looks when the subject is something about a 3some

[@aceventura7977]

I was asked today by a husband if I’d get with his wife. Thanks for the info

[@waynemac9869]

It's great to see you do this, should be more partners open to this idea .

[@robertbell8496]

If it's not monogamy there is no way to tell where the parameters are

[@openlove101]

Oh come on...are you kidding me?! It doesn't matter if you are monogamous or practice consensual non monogamy you are going to have parameters. Monogamy isn't free from misunderstanding or differences in the definition of parameters. So often we labor under the delusion that monogamy means the same thing to the masses. While most of us would agree that monogamy is defined by only having intercourse with your partner for the duration of the relationship, monogamy can and does take on many different faces. You have some in monogamous relationships who would never ever contemplate going out to dinner with someone of the opposite sex, while there are plenty of monogamous couples who have no problem with this scenario. It's the same with consensual non monogamy. Some couples have boundaries that really rein in what is acceptable, while other couples embrace more freedom. Monogamy doesn't corner the market in parameters by any stretch of the imagination. Both relationship models offer those involved viable tools in which to grow the relationship to satisfy both parties.

[@robertbell8496]

@@openlove101 ok for them. Just not for me Glad they're happy. I didn't go to kindergarten. Don't like sharing everything

[@robertparous3103]

Hi I went to my first swingers event tonight as a single male I spent most of the night in tears I didn’t know what I was doing and I couldn’t meet anyone I don’t think this lifestyle is for me

[@gregXxo]

Start off with you and a buddy taking a girl and tag teaming her

[@bobwyman3743]

what a fortunate couple you are,, I wasted my life trying to hang on to someone who, I discovered later n, really did not love me, but I was desperate and very insecure,,dummy me!

[@kbanghart]

Don't beat yourself up over it. We all make mistakes, none of us are perfect, and the ones who try to say they are, almost always hiding something. Just be true to yourself and think that tomorrow is a new day with new possibilities.

[@johnwilmot390]

Great looking couple...she is gorgeous!

[@buellfuel2001]

I have been part of a Thrupple for almost two years, my girlfriend and her husband have taken me in and I live with them part time. We talk openly and honestly about everything and it is great. Her husband and I are like best friends and hang out like a couple of 14 year old buddies out for a good time! We are all really happy and are all semi monogamous only playing as a three some when we are at parties or resorts. All of our children are in on it and for the most part are really accepting of our arrangement. It's a new economy baby!

[@ryankelly8077]

I’m genuinely curious - What’s the difference between a thrupple and being the technical outsider though? Although there’s differences in dynamics, but what about day-to-day lifestyle and responsibilities with contributing to the relationship?

[@buellfuel2001]

@@ryankelly8077 I genuinely am confused myself. All the adult kids are ok and know we are all together. The dynamics are interesting, I pay my fair share.and contribute to day to day plus bring other resources into the relationship. Husband 1 says I prime the pump before he hits it...lmao. she says she has the best of both worlds.

[@itellwalker7923]

buelfuel2001 I ABSOLUTELY LOVED READING THIS!!!! To see you guys are a Thruppe and both of you men are the best of friends and act like two 14 year old boys has made my day brother!!! I wanna be friends with ALL three of you guys! (I’D COMPLETELY RELISH) having a friend’s wife as my girlfriend mate! Honestly! All the best to you all!

[@bonzogoTrump]

It takes special couples to do this.

[@jasonbrown4841]

Thanks for posting. My ex and I were into the lifestyle over 12 years, mostly with other women and a few couples. We wound up having one Bull by default -"just kind of happened". He was a part of a couple we had been seeing over a year. They broke up, she moved out of province but he asked to continue seeing us. My wife really liked him so I agreed. It actually worked out really well. He was always respectfully, a bit younger and full of energy. He wound up moving into the apartment building next to ours.

[@openlove101]

Thank you for sharing❤️

[@kenparnell4297]

I will say, while I have never done the swing thing, I do know people who have and only a couple times did it ever workout. And before hand, when your emotions aren't involved, it seems like it's just not a problem. Then they see the other person having sex with someone else and enjoying hell out of it and suddenly, it's not so clearly ok. Mind you, if it works for you, then cool, but if it doesn't then in strangely can lead to a divorce or breakup.Yes, even though all parties talked about it beforehand. Once seen it can't be unseen and if everytime you try to have sex together and all you can think about is them with someone else, then it could be a problem.

[@lettuceboy2382]

It’s possible that the only ones you hear about are the ones that end badly.

[@latinaalma1947]

My mate was in swinging before we met, he says seeing his wife enjoying sex was his greatest thrill. He had sex himself with 5 or so women in a night. He says the best sex he HAD with his wife was being the last after she had several men. I'm with you I dont get it, but I know he is sincere.I know its called compersion and other people do have that too, that great desire to see their mate have maximum enjoyment...theoretically I want him to have a great time but doubt I could share him. He really WANTS to share me....Im of mixed feelings so far. I just dont know HOW I would react! I have zero moral.issues about it. Just confusing.

[@simonconnell101]

My wife and I love it

[@stevewilson397]

long as there no secrets or jealousy , it works perfectly for us for a long period

[@ryankelly8077]

How does one become a bull? Are there certain sites or secret groups on FB?

[@ryankelly8077]

Steve Wilson - hi. How does one become a bull? Are there certain sites or secret fb groups?

[@michaele.nicholson6671]

That is awesome!!

[@gordonjones9918]

how do you share an open relationship with your wife in the beginning

[@FLUMER20]

Pretty sure you're threatening to kick her out of the house.

[@paulbrooks2024]

People are going to try this weather you agree or not, some people wonder were you get off at ,then I remember at the session.

[@BillyBob-jb3yy]

It comes down to after the same person u get bored so u have open relationships I would help these married couples if they need help I’ll jump in bed w them

[@rafiawan1941]

Explain experiences ???

[@drsardarmajidchohan2062]

ur married?

[@PranayDeepSure]

You guys are amazing ❤️

[@openlove101]

Thank you!

[@jayantibhaipatel1228]

Beautiful 💕

[@juandelacruz365]

Reset. This twisted and broken world is in a desperate need for a reset.

[@juandelacruz365]

@@cesarhvillalobos6578 Stfu sick perv

[@lesty6744]

Why get married?

[@paulrevere7420]

I bet they got married because they love each other. Not everyone sees their partner as property. Thus not everyone is threatened by their partner enjoying someone else in this way. Some people are secure and can love their partner so much they are happy when their partner is happy no matter what activity is providing that happiness. I totally get it. Not everyone does.

[@kreteman777]

@@paulrevere7420 I'll ask since you gave a nonsense answer. Why get married?

[@paulrevere7420]

@@kreteman777 Because they love each other. You may not see marriage as anything more than sexual ownership of another person but not everyone sees it that way. What if you love someone so much it excites you to see them cross new sexual boundaries and the idea of taking that erotic journey together is powerful?

[@kreteman777]

@@paulrevere7420 Then you are fucked up on the head and I would recommend a good psychologist. NOTHING about this is healthy or normal. It's been proven many times over. You're simply lying to yourself.

[@meharidesta2921]

L Esty thanks a lot yes why ??????? This is one of the America’s and Europe twisted mind now a days they are making it like getting divorced, cheating , threesome normal ITS NOT ok PEOPLE OF AMERICA, EUROPE OKKKKKKK!!!

[@RobtheSeabee]

Outstanding! Live life to the fullest.

[@vnglw]

Not for me but good on you for finding something that works for the both of you.

[@sampleowner6677]

Sexual norms are not universal. They are different all around the world. There are several cultures were small children as young as 5 years old are encouraged to play sex games and have sexual relations as soon as they hit puberty. In these cultures this is considered normal. In our culture you go to jail for encouraging your child to have sex.

[@casycasy5199]

does john do men also

[@jonburrows2684]

Yes casy! Go ahead and take a number

[@swill1020]

Yeah I buy into the trying things... most often it’s food.

[@chaviksenia8198]

geez....fucken judgemental people chiming in. Throw the first stones why don't you, well done (sarcasm, yeh?). To Jackie and John, keep it up with the vidz. Informative, great perspective, appreciate it.

[@kbanghart]

Yeah the judgments ones are almost always single, or divorced. No reason really for them to be commenting unless they're very bitter about their own relationship.

[@anilgupta7969]

i like the respect and trust for sure.

[@jerrynewman1380]

If y'all think that right then you crazy

[@gride5153]

Oh SO progressive... This will be all smiles, until it all goes wrong.

[@peterclark4128]

24 years doing, nothing going wrong as yet and doubt it ever will

[@kbanghart]

Probably not any more wrong than a supposedly monogamous couple

[@nightswatch9007]

g ride to each their own

[@AY-pw7hz]

@@kbanghart Monogamous is Safe and MORAL!!!

[@kbanghart]

@@AY-pw7hz lol safe and moral? Don't know what that means. No sex is safe, really, unless you absolutely trust your partner. Plenty of people in supposedly monogamous relationships have been cheated on.

[@easyeagle3730]

Most Men: I would never want my wife sleeping with another man! Me: Aren’t you cheating on your wife now?

[@deejayyzukiryder9550]

Facts @ Easy Eagle

[@ElverGalarga-mk9nv]

Yeaj

[@andydunn5673]

Easy Eagle for sure there are a lot of blokes out there like that, but the same amount like to share and have their wives and gf flash and flirt and see where it leads

[@dailylife6432]

Love your openness.!!!! My wife and I are swingers, we have trouble finding other females that are willing as well as clubs.

[@liten48]

so thats normal

[@ElverGalarga-mk9nv]

Yes

[@andydunn5673]

Roy Stacey don’t believe porn , they are very rare and often called unicorns for obvious reason

[@kbanghart]

Yeah it figures, normally I probably wouldn't even bother. I have a lover, beautiful woman, who I have discussed with having threesomes with other men. she enjoys flirting and kissing other men which is a big turn on for me.

[@andydunn5673]

Plen122 go for it , we played for 5 years. Single guys with us m-f-m They all nice guys and we had a ball It’s hard to find right venue and people, my wife hated clubs Some houses parties were fantastic Some dreadful We ended up with guys, in hotel rooms or their houses are occasionally our house. But you need to find a place where you’re lady is comfortable to let go Everybody is different

[@ivanround7888]

I like the way they explain things

[@openlove101]

Thank you

[@diegolizano3517]

I love this couple . She looks amazing. I hope you guys come to New York someday.

[@justsomelid4402]

Fuckin hell lad. What kind of comments that? As if theyre gonna look u up and come knockin at your door FFS

[@kbanghart]

@@justsomelid4402 relax

[@jennysteed1133]

Very interesting...!

[@jonburrows2684]

You interested?

[@jennysteed1133]

@@jonburrows2684 Yes I am...

[@jennysteed1133]

@@jonburrows2684 Yes....very...!

[@felipecastro1496]

I now it it’s

[@69rminer]

U are willing to give a chance for something that could be something new and incredibly amazing experience experience of your life time.

[@andydunn5673]

Great post Thanks for sharing My late wife and I were full on swingers for a while The best for us mmf 3 some with a men who turned out to be very close friends

[@cathyb7573]

Andy Dunn Yes .We became great friends with our bull too ..l loved being used ..so sexy

[@andydunn5673]

CATHY B it is the best.....

[@michaelevans4985]

@@cathyb7573 i love to watch my wife getting pleasured by another man. Even just her flirting makes me want to cum x

[@andydunn5673]

Michael Evans completely Agree It’s what I always wanted to us to do And it way exceeded expectations

[@michaelevans4985]

@@andydunn5673 its the best experience ever xx

[@chrisclark5204]

If one woman or man is not enough for you then don't take the vows and get married.

[@lawrenceohh6640]

Didn't notice anywhere if either one of you or both of you said if you were bi.

[@eddiedeluisa9467]

I constantly wonder what happened to America's moral compass... The clinical manor that they speak of, sharing there partners with strangers makes me give up..!

[@kbanghart]

Why? They're just people's personal decisions. They don't affect anybody else.

[@davidrogers4430]

I don't get it why did you marry in the first place ?

[@kbanghart]

Cuz they wanted to?

[@TheSeancassady]

You guys are a great looking couple but Jackie, you are beautiful.

[@openlove101]

Thank you so much!

[@mariarod9284]

This is a situation you have to talk about and progress with caution.My hubby and I have done a few tings with others and are both happy.

[@graham520]

Openlove101 Hi Jackie, If it’s not too rude of me may I ask how old you are ?.... Theres is no doubt you are a very attractive woman and your husband is an extremely lucky guy. I found your video really Interesting although I personally wouldn’t want to share you with another guy. I guess I’m just too vanilla 😂 I’m off to check out some of your other videos 👍

[@jonburrows2684]

@@mariarod9284 you havent ask me

[@mariarod9284]

Asked you about what?

[@jimmielong2748]

I don't mean to sound square but I understand all of this I get where you're coming from but at the end of the day you risk losing the person you claim to love if you do those things as simple as that

[@openlove101]

I don't "claim" to love John, I do love him. Look, relationships, no matter what model you decide upon, comes with an element of risk, as you are dealing with two (or more) people. What I love about the relationship John and I have is we've tailored the union to embrace honesty, trust, and compersion (happiness in our partners happiness).

[@ezeikielfreedom6384]

every man is curious, and there is always an animal instinct to cross the line, however, crossing this line is irreversable, and once it is crossed, you can never go back, was it worth the thrill? dont think so, I see people searching or the ultimate thrill, I do not believe we should be focusing on "thrills". we should get into the habit of helping others. there is a huge hole that will be ever so larger every day if people start to search for these kinds of thrills, and there is no limit, dont drink the coolaid, focus on helping someone who needs help, a wise man once said, "ask not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country" a wiser man said, "it is better to give than to receive". you can thwart all of this foolishness by making a goal to help someone each day, week or month. Simple.