I lost my virginity in grade 7 | I have lost count of the men I have slept with

[@SwitchTVKenya]

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[@iwokeupbeautiful4489]

The day we will sit men down and ask them about their virginity, I will gladly listen to such conversations. It's no longer pleasing to the ear. Sex has to happen between two people and in this regard I'm looking at the heterosexual kind of relationship

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

Do you think you are a target for being sexually active

[@dennismugo2873]

Uh...As men, we consider the sexual past of a woman or body count of a woman before we consider them for long term relationships, women on the other hand consider the financial future of a woman before entering into a long term relationship with them....that's why this conversation is had commonly towards women and not men....

[@NontumekeleloMagwa]

I dislike how Ashley is being scandalized and how sex and virginity is being weaponized against young women in this segment.

[@JudeMarchisio]

She's clearly going through something, you can see it her eyes and her responses.

[@joyawich8619]

I really hate it too sis.

[@vivianhinzano2967]

The guests on the bench were absolutely fantastic on their journeys.....the counseling was a NIGHTMARE. Show empathy...you cannot known the soul's pain in one sitting....

[@bearfinchy]

Why shouldn't male virginity be held to the same standard? Aren't women allowed to be disgusted with the idea of their husbands not being virgins?

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

Should people be disgusted in the first place.. men want sex and women want money, so men speak about money while women speak about sex

[@mukaminganga194]

The world is still dominated by chauvinists. Women are still subjected to disgusting standards of explaining their virginity to people. But men walk easy and mostly they are celebrated for the number of women they have been with😢

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

@@mukaminganga194 you don't bring up chauvinism when a guy pays your bill when on a date. Would that be reverse chauvinism.?🤔

[@mukaminganga194]

@@phillipsidhojapap1461 You are soo money minded. Not all women need men to pay their bills. Find something better to do.

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

@@mukaminganga194 you are too sex minded. Many men are not so-called-by-you chauvinist. Plus chauvinism and sex are different topics.. you are conflating these ideas possibly with twisted feminist ideas or just man-hate. Don't apply your half-bsked ideas selectively. If they can't be true in a general sense,it means you are deceiving yourself that you know yet you are as ignorant as your ilk

[@ennngama6499]

This generation needs healing, that's one thing is for sure😔.May the Lord help us.@Madam Patricia and Dayan, may the Lord continue using you in impacting this generation.

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

Tell us about your generation.. you guys didn't struggle with sex issues. Don't make it an issue that is new with this generation. It has been there and will continue

[@bencroacademy]

The struggle to stay pure is real. People like faith need a set of like minded peeps. The circle of friends around you determines a lot.

[@alicemuriithi6522]

After one year the story makes so much sense now that HIV status high among youth Switchtv do more of this

[@olivemugo7973]

How comes when we usually have this topic it's always women......it would awesome kama men wanaenda stage kuongelea their stories as well...

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

The women have not complained being on the screen and sharing their stories.. you are feeling threatened because you did not uphold your values, otherwise.. we should be free to share our stories like these women. A man on a show like this will be frank and not hide but a woman is likely to shy away because she wants to maintain her good girl image

[@olivemugo7973]

@@phillipsidhojapap1461 I didn't say so..I simply said it would be interesting to hear from a man's perspective and your not one of them so keep quite and excuse yourself..

[@EMoza]

Am asking too..why women alone being asked Abt virginity

[@djdupri6830]

Nimeskia tu “above 20” nikasema wueeh ebu i read the comments😂😂😂😂😂

[@josphattumusiano6934]

Wau I agree with Faith's points

[@patriciahsiyabu3472]

What sort of a counselor starts with ‘it’s sad’ ‘ you don’t love yourself’ , change your approach madam counselor

[@muthomidenis7346]

Always remember that the internet never forgets. Few years from now, they'll all regret whatever they shared here.

[@shirowkihara2654]

This year around August 😱 which carendar is she using 😱

[@doriskendi5537]

she is definately lying lol

[@dianairungu3308]

Seems like a recording

[@bettycherono1250]

It was last year 202

[@martinirungu9170]

Truly we are in a corrupt generation... haters of good and lovers of evil..

[@ashleypetertv5894]

Absolutely corrupt.

[@digitalcyber8170]

true

[@gnessefashions92]

Funny thing, There's no much difference being a virgin or not. All that matters is how you feel about yourself, are you okay with yourself deep within?

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

@Marish World tv she is consoling herself.🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@pelomk9022]

@Marish World tv Console your mom since she isn't one either

[@cherrycookie8028]

@@pelomk9022 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@elsbethtolu8757]

Do not trust your feelings my dear, there are consequences. Good thing is you can turn back and start afresh

[@paulomondi6147]

Wow, ignorance and denial at the same time

[@joyawich8619]

Patricia is extremely wrong it is terribly embarrassing that she is actually a professional. It is so awful

[@tabeemelineoka2540]

I love your program

[@primadonna8711]

Men waletwe pia..Mita zenu zisomwe pia!Double standards ain’t cuttin it for me no more unless men are sexless,.which we all know no one is!

[@ribcrackers8370]

On the positive side... Ashley is just being realistic.... Don't judge and say she doesn't love herself... She loves herself enough to not allow her heart crushed again...

[@zinthachima9783]

I liked the female councillor she got straight to the point without hesitation.

[@samuelgithua3839]

😂😂😂😂 waaah imagine truely am avirgin but when it comes to sex discussion with my friends am an expert saying things I don't know but convince them it's true 😂😂 😂 mjuaji mm.

[@shishipauls7005]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mikatekobaloyi9147]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mercymutoo2585]

Am the Female version of you 😂😂😂😂,, I give my friends very strong points abt sex

[@emmakioko174]

This generation broke the shelter of morals nikama wamerogwa hatuelewi.

[@kaytiewanjiku6564]

Well, this notion of keeping oneself pure for a man should be stopped. You keep yourself a virgin for your own self not for a man.

[@phelestusauma8910]

You have a right to choose....✅. However, the decision should be something that will build you, make you prosper and bring you long term happiness. Let's not forget our African values in the name of "we have a right to choose"

[@jacksonmichael5603]

..and that's how we lose a generation! Madam counselor we should listen to these young guys and drop to their level and understand why they applaud and celebrate a young girl who lost virginity at 7, had sex with countless men, and is blind to everything about her life.. instead of bashing her by saying "you don't love yourself"..Every person defines "Love" in their own way!.. Yes, she is wrong but we can only win a lost heart by listening to them NOT condemning them. Lastly, where are the men? For a woman to lose her virginity there is an act called intercourse. Why is virginity addressed on the female side alone and men walk Scott free like heroes yet they also contribute to this craziness!

[@daisygloria]

Faith is another version of me.

[@slippymass]

what I have learnt hapa ni manzi amechora tatoo ogopa.

[@The_Billionaires-v7b]

Always fear tattoos and piercings. Hawa madem, huwa wamepitia

[@phelestusauma8910]

🤣🤣🤣

[@charlesnjoroge9148]

Hio huwa ukweli

[@collinsopondo8325]

Wah...this world is rotten n full of bitterness...n heart breaks ...hence they need too much help ...only God can help them n heal them ..

[@mukaminganga194]

😂😂😂😂virginity is equated to self_love😂😂. Waaaah am shook. The show did nothing impactful. It's judgment from the begging to the end. If it's about sex bring both genders and stop painting a woman as lesser because she chooses to be sexually active.

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

It is self love.. if you lost yours don't ridicule those who have maintained theirs till marriage. It shows you have low self image. There is no difference between a sex worker and a woman who is carefree with their bodies

[@lennyrashfilms2102]

@@phillipsidhojapap1461 you told her the truth man big up

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

@@lennyrashfilms2102 we need reality talks not these ideas of bringing down other people coz you can't live up to their standards... this lady chose her path, no one forced her. Why would she feel attacked when others state their choice.? Beats all reasoning

[@ijay860]

@@phillipsidhojapap1461 So true as a woman I think we should do beter but not only d women tho,both gender should practice abstinence.

[@digitalcyber8170]

When it comes to that day of judgement, everyone will give an account to what they did. For the wise, they chose to do what pleases God. Period

[@paulinepetra946]

Remember God forgives and he can also punish you for judging others everyone sins differently

[@ruthjosphatnyangige7865]

Hello tamima would like to share a story too....about this staff....

[@mourinenathan5495]

Oooh God 😢💔

[@ribcrackers8370]

She said... "Kwensekwenses."😂😂😂

[@evalynemuthoni3510]

😂😂😂😂i thought i heard it solo

[@ribcrackers8370]

Weeeee!!!... And she was confident about it...😂😂😂

[@theshenanigans545]

Kwensikwensi😂😂😂

[@undugumedia]

There is alot of wrong in this show? Are this real guests or suppliments or actors and the audience? The Host lost it all in bringing change-to me its just not about watching-whats the gain at the end of the show? Tamima you should be at a higher platform and impact lives. Nothing to laugh about these girls and their lifestyles....

[@ennngama6499]

I've been searching for such a comment.Those stories are so sad 😢,and the fact that those young souls in the audience can afford to be excited and celebrate such perspectives is sickening.I am left wondering what really is the main purpose of the show in the first place.

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

@@ennngama6499I hope you'll take your sentiments with your daughter.. that she can choose to do anything she wants with her body. Then I can take your point seriously

[@ennngama6499]

@@phillipsidhojapap1461 Unless you didn't get my point well.There is no way I am going to tell my daughter that she can do whatever she wants with her body.I will teach her to respect herself,her body included,I will teach her that her body is not for every Tom and Harry.I will guide her on the right ways coz that's what I am supposed to do as a parent.

[@phillipsidhojapap1461]

@@ennngama6499 so you can have a choice with what your daughter does with her body yet you are advocating for my body my choice

[@undugumedia]

@@ennngama6499 Yes are to impact positivity and change not what we are shown on Kenyan TVs mostly-alot of negativity. We got to take care of our own

[@tumshangilielyrics6753]

Sex means a lot to a woman. It creates a certain bond with the man she gets involved with. Once a lady surpasses this bond there is a danger. I am not judging but they need advice. Sex is a need yes but you can’t have it with multiple men in the name of not strings attached. You still have a choice of having it with one man without strings attached i.e if worse comes to worse.

[@BandarEms]

I doubt that the definition of virginity has ever changed.

[@whydoesriverdalesucknow4675]

The contrast between the way Ashley and faith dress though. Did the show do that on purpose

[@patiencenimmoh3956]

24 and still a virgin...... can't wait to get the right man and get married

[@erickangode3250]

enyewe patience ako patient 😃😃

[@patiencenimmoh3956]

@@erickangode3250 haha wee kwenda😂😂

[@websitedesigner7158]

@@patiencenimmoh3956 Names can define you at times.Hold on to it girl till you r ready

[@patiencenimmoh3956]

@@websitedesigner7158 sure I will. Thank you.🙏

[@bencroacademy]

Don't ever let someone pressure you into sex. Good decision

[@ijay860]

Indeed why are they clapping 🤷‍♀️.Not being judgmental but is not Sth to be proud of. We can do beter ladies.

[@gowood2020]

With God every thing possible

[@freakturner6757]

Professor in psychology ako njaa

[@hillaryafandi5929]

Ashley needs help coz clearly by the look she is not ok

[@angelaashiono6345]

How is she not okay?Everyone chooses what to do with their body

[@antony6799]

Even a mad person ocassionally believes that their okay and that they don't need mental help, Ashley is such a person

[@myzgod]

Why are they applauding? If you give your life to Christ, you should have regret for the things you did in the past that were wrong. No matter the lessons you learnt.

[@collinskinyori2904]

From the streets they cometh to streets they shall return

[@modesta6743]

If you're not a virgin? that includes you too. Boy bye

[@Mrembo2024]

@@modesta6743 😂😂😂😂

[@modesta6743]

@@Mrembo2024 😂😂😂 The hypocrisy in the community, is beyond.....

[@Mrembo2024]

@@modesta6743 it's always the women...not the men. I want you to research and follow the story of Kris wu who is being falsely accused of assault just because he likes young girls

[@modesta6743]

@@Mrembo2024 I think you missed my point,

[@jacymwika3071]

Dunia imeisha

[@tuiyastudio4463]

The female counselor was judgmental!

[@reputeresearchcentre7755]

I will like to meet Faith

[@martinmbae4356]

This year August ???? We are yet there

[@dimpleorange5785]

Faith is very sensible. God help her. The lady counsellor, make your point but don't be forceful and judgmental. Male counsellor is much more professional

[@nikiwek.h6728]

What is this conversation about though?

[@rhodahj7121]

Why the Applause anyway these audience yawah

[@nanackymuremi]

I’m also wondering 😂

[@gracemkonga8114]

they are hiding the fact that they are judging them inside

[@irenemaelo5731]

Me too, that was weird

[@marynjengah2771]

The aplouds though 🤔 Bring men too

[@nanackymuremi]

This year August ? Is this video not new . I mean we haven’t reached August yet 😂ok..

[@nancydemajak9363]

That's my exact thoughts???

[@anneopili4968]

Ata Mimi nimeshangaa ama ako inchi ingine kiakili but mwili iko kenya

[@julesn627]

That means she was lying...plus I'm a mum and you take your kid to the clinic monthly, and getting tested again for HIV is your choice after that point cause it's already known you have it or not, so I don't think she's taking precautions as she claims

[@milkahwangui2353]

Kenyan women advocate in decent dressing code then from there we can try to

[@Shikomugambi]

I wish you had people (men and women) on that bench.or don't men also loose their virginity.This is so subjective and labeling for one gender if you ask me.

[@univeromoro4957]

Ashley your selfworth is not tied to your sex life. Go girl if you want to have sex often that's ok your body your choice and if you want to hold it that's ok your body your choice

[@adrian6972]

Huyo dame wa 13:55

[@puritynyaboke7462]

😹😹😹😹🤣🤣🤣

[@sheebakerubo5818]

First

[@bettywainaina8311]

Waaah, the three beautiful ladies with no self respects😭😭😭😭 Soo bad

[@faithmatege3705]

Cartoon

[@renegadex8870]

2nd

[@burundishallsmile1day109]

RIP to Old moral Women *Even Audience is Applauding! that's alarming 🥲 *Ladies nd Gentlemen,these are the Type of Wives our Sons ll choose from 🤔 Sometimes I weep for our Youth!!!