All the Questions I have been avoiding... (waiting till marriage, birth control, kids, ect)

[@kirstenhoobler5584]

You are seriously so strong in following your beliefs, and not caring what anyone else things about it! You’re doing absolutely amazing ❤️

[@trinitymarietalks]

"I don't believe in society, I believe in God." YES SYDNEY BIG FAX haha

[@kendalllowe_]

Trinity Jimenez she seriously needs to put that quote on merch! I’d 100 percent buy

[@cecilial.m2201]

I loved it

[@gissjohan8773]

I loved that quote too!

[@hamishduncan8758]

Yikes

[@annegracebr]

Yesssssss

[@tatyanatymchen4548]

THANK YOU FOR ACTUALLY SAYING WHAT YOY BELIEVE AND NOT FOLLOWING SOCIETY

[@lizzynestel9670]

Syd, your hair has never looked more beautiful! It looks sooooo extremely healthy!

[@meganloehr2823]

I know everyone’s situations are different, but my parents getting divorced was the best thing to ever happen to me. They didn’t get along at all and now I have four parents and siblings that I couldn’t have had without it. I’d rather have four happy parents then two who don’t get along and make everyone & themselves miserable to look good to other Christians/ society. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@newuser5773]

YES THIS☝️

[@kacey6631]

I agree! My parents got divorced and they’re both Christians. I don’t think it’s a bad thing when it’s the only option to feel happy/healthy again❤️

[@itzelmontes4359]

Yes! My parents got divorced and it was the best thing to ever happen to my family.

[@Anna-gi7my]

similar to my situation😂😂 YES!!!

[@gib.2190]

My parents got divorced and now I get extra holidays Bc my father is Mexican

[@imelody29Official]

I love how totally open and honest you are!! I know a lot of “religious” people can have a hard time talking about sex and waiting and all that. It’s so refreshing to see someone talk about it in a totally honest way.

[@mikaylaachey72]

“I can like barely take care of my cat” That had me dead 😂🚫🧢

[@makennahope98]

im still just 21 and im waiting until marriage! i totally agree with waiting until marriage and im so excited for you guys!♥️

[@makennahope98]

also small youtuber here!♥️♥️

[@kennedyrussell1642]

I feel like this is the first time you have been 100% completely real and talked about real stuff like sex and I feel closer to you. I look up to you so much & seeing you talk about it really helped coming from someone that’s an inspiration! I would love more real talks in the future!

[@sydfrances]

15 kenn 15 i was so nervous to post this so i’m glad it made you feel closer to me! Thank you for your support!!

[@zoieralyne6031]

12 minutes of why i love syd! she’s so wholesome, and truthful and not afraid to talk about anything 👏

[@LindseyBump]

I love how you shared your faith in this video it really makes us (christians) feel comfortable to open up:)

[@bekahjohn4762]

syd!! i've been watching you for a year and I'm a member too.. i am SO grateful you're so open and honest about us!!! you worded everything so perfectly and i literally felt the spirit as you were talking hahah... so glad you're representing us and so so glad you posted this

[@jessicat131]

This video was by far the realest and best one you’ve made and i’ve been following for years now and i really give props to you for being so real w us and opening up and being strong w the comments you get

[@haileyandhannah9143]

When she said divorce ruined her life I FELT THAT

[@mf6598]

Damn now they are divorcing tho

[@brennaaudrey7381]

I loved how honest you were when talking about sex, so many people avoid actually talking about it. Question: what day will you consider to be your wedding anniversary? The day you get sealed or the ceremony? Which day will be your wedding night?

[@ellaashcraft317]

BeautyBren28 i’m the same religion as her, and not everyone does the ring ceremony. so her wedding anniversary and wedding night will be the day they get sealed (which is what we call it) in the temple

[@idkbutitsmanley.3629]

BeautyBren28 I know, I literally love how open she was about, it was completely like a real teen-to-teen conversation 🤍

[@brennaaudrey7381]

@@ellaashcraft317 sorry I mixed up the word, I meant sealed

[@brennaaudrey7381]

@@idkbutitsmanley.3629 Exactly, that's a great way of putting it

[@macirenee2916]

Please do a video about the night of your wedding if y’all are comfortable I’m 20 and waiting and I love those types of videos because I’m so scared and I’m not even engaged or dating

[@sydfrances]

Maci Renee i’m totally going to! we will make it after our honeymoon or something (:

[@ForrestFam22]

Maci Renee I’m 23 and not engaged or dating I think rushing into finding a guy is a wast of time and more heart breaks

[@samanthag9450]

@@ForrestFam22 I'm 21 and I'm not getting married or anything because one of our college director think in our college class and she will always think we are but we're all different.

[@ForrestFam22]

Samantha G oh I don’t plan on dating or getting married watching my moms marriage has been bad I don’t wanna meet someone like my dad so I’m staying away from guys I friend zone everyone of the guys who said they liked me so far

[@samanthag9450]

@@ForrestFam22 My parents were divorced by some guy or woman they experienced long time ago so that's why I'm not wanting to get involved with it and me either, I don't like being into stuff as well.

[@bril9914]

I absolutely LOVED watching this vid. You opening up about your religion and views on certain things is so flipping dope!

[@account10558]

I'm obsessed with your hair it always looks perfect

[@annasoph8967]

Me toooo

[@katelynmcguire7218]

When she said “your religion’s a cult” I died

[@Carlzz_12]

I strongly agree with waiting til marriage and it really inspires me to see you express your opinions/beliefs like this!!! Never let anyone bring you down Syd!

[@ForrestFam22]

I’m proud of you Syd I am 23 and never had sex and I’m waiting until marriage as well and I haven’t had a real relationship.

[@jess9116]

woah i wasn’t expecting this much honesty hahaha but i love that you’re so open and honest. wishing u and dallin all the best ❤️ ps- i 100000% recommend the IUD!

[@NatB-ct1yv]

I’m so grateful to have an influencer that reminds me I’m not alone in waiting until marriage!💗

[@elizabettaa604]

I love how your waiting until Marriage . I strongly agree

[@allisonurban7544]

“You don’t know how maybe people they’ve slept with, and technically you’ve slept with all those people too.” Oh honey... no

[@Nancygracehearts]

Allison Urban such an ignorant statement 😂😂

[@CaliforniaGirl49]

Oop

[@STARSHIP10112]

Nancygracehearts i mean not really no

[@Nancygracehearts]

sarah cantrell lol okay child

[@ashleyyy1]

she's literally a child what do you expect

[@erinwarren6465]

ahh i loved this! im pretty religious too and knowing that somebody else my age is with me in my beliefs means a lot! So happy for you and dallin and the fact that you guys have stayed so strong. I've been watching you syd since we were both 15/16 and you've matured soo much! ahh im so excited for you!!!

[@tabitatabita6979]

Thank you for being an example for Christians and non Christians as well! Thank you for being pure in your relationship with Dallin! It encourages me a lot!

[@meadowmcdonald8558]

I love how you said that you decided to wait until marriage not because of your religion but because you want to ,recently I went to church camp and I’m not a Virgin and I felt very judged by one of my leaders because she made me think God was ashamed of me ,I’m a big believer in personal choice and I think that sex should be something you decide so I really like that you said that

[@morganschmoyer]

I love how you answered the question of "how did you know he was the one?" that was the best explanation of that that I think I've ever heard. Thank you for sharing it is very encouraging to me!

[@lauralott8133]

My parents agreed, in pre-marital counseling, that they would never even mention divorce. As long as you are truly in love, your marriage can be fixed. They’ve been married for over 20 years and are happier than ever:)

[@anyahlator]

I agree with everything you said for the simple matter that I believe in people having the right to feel how they feel and believe in whatever they believe in. 💕💕 Congrats!

[@emmanason14]

the way you talk about waiting for marriage makes me wish i didn’t do it. i loved my boyfriend and i thought he was the one and he just wasn’t, after 10 months i genuinely wanted him to be my husband but stuff happened and now i wish i could take it back even tho it was the person i wanted it to be with. i’m actually really proud that someone can say they waited for marriage because i used to think it was weird that people do that but the way you explain it all just makes me wish i waited. so happy for you!!

[@bcarroll6274]

I’m LDS too!! I already knew you were though because of how you talked about missions in one of your vids! So happy that your sticking to what we believe in! Love you both!❤️

[@daylemccain1649]

You explained everything so beautifully about the LDS church and especially why you're marrying him. I love when you said "I get to do it with my best friend." I hope I get to have that one day!

[@KC-hz3hx]

I love y’all so much! Can’t wait for the wedding! I’m so happy for you guys! I’ve been watching for years.

[@leah5923]

I need people like you in my life

[@kyleeerenae]

the way you explained everything was amazing! YOU GO SYDD!!! ☺️

[@kaylitoigo7173]

the best KZbinr hands down. Most realest person ever!

[@nicholesclan2969]

“Who’s not excited to have sex for the first time” me I am not excited I don’t want it

[@macymagdziarz819]

Sydney, every word you said in this video just goes to show how mature and truly ready for marriage you really are! I think age is just a number, not a definition of how mature someone is. You’re doing amazing and your words were so encouraging! It’s incredible to see such a popular influencer also being a woman of faith. You’re awesome.. keep it up!♥️

[@chloemae5935]

i’m lds too and seeing an influencer with the same beliefs as me is AWESOME!! especially because i want to break the stereotype that we are a cult and just show people we are normal and love everyone!!

[@shevonnereynolds3653]

I love how you have stuck to your beliefs ❤️❤️ you're an amazing and honest person ❤️

[@hannahlindback9173]

i’m not LDS but i get so aggravated when people try to equate it to a cult. peoples lives have been changed for the better and they’re are a lot of good people who are LDS. it’s a very misunderstood/ misconstrued religion (from what i’ve read) but i love how youre getting married in the temple!! sharing and binding your love before family, friends, each other, AND God

[@graceelisaa6759]

DONT PAY ATTENTION TO THE HATERS!!!! I am 19 years old and I met the love of my life as well. Sometimes when you know you know! You shouldn't have to wait until the "right time" because you get to chose when the right time is!!!

[@emilynourse6963]

I love how honest you are. We need more KZbinrs like you Syd. :)

[@JaliKat]

Please make a video about your birth control process

[@star-km7qq]

i’m so excited for you and dallin to spend the rest of your lives together

[@henrynguyen1052]

"wErE sO lIT rIgHt NoW" -Sydney McGee 2017

[@muniramuse7407]

Henry Nguyen ok ok ok 😂😂😂

[@nicola4926]

I'm not religious. Got married at 18. I waited until marriage, absolutely ZERO regrets, almost 8 years later. When you know, you know. Always remember it is you and him against the world, and not each other (:

[@gissjohan8773]

Waiting till marriage too 🙌🏼💖 And also getting married on March! 🎉 I'm happy to see other young people with strong values and not ashamed of what the society may say about it. God bless you so much! ❤️

[@tragically_disappearing9034]

I'm not religious at all. But I really enjoy learning about religion and peoples beliefs. I love how you talk about your religion and how happy you are to be apart of it. I also love how understanding and not judgement you are even though you are very religious. I feel like many religious people get stereotyped or grouped together as being specific way that's actually really horrible and I think it's so nice that you're willing to talk about your religion and break the stereotypes around it. I'm so proud of you 💕

[@sydfrances]

Tatianna Resnickoff Yes i hate when religious people are judgmental because that’s literally the opposite of what God taught us! I live everyone no matter what! I never wanna push my religion on someone or judge someone for not sharing faith!

[@tragically_disappearing9034]

@@sydfrances Right. Like I get that people follow their religious to a T do everything they should. But that doesn't mean they have to be judgmental or rude towards people who don't. Like I've always found religion cool and I've always wanted to learn more but some people think because I'm not religious or baptized that I have no right to. I don't know I just wish people where more open about their religion and beliefs without pushing it on people. I love the way you handled talking about your beliefs like how you said that you're waiting till marriage but that you don't care what other people do and that it was something you choose and you believe in. It's just really nice that you say that it's what you believe in not what you're told to do, because although you're told to do something it doesn't always mean it's right for you and your life. I would love you to do more videos that have bits and pieces of your religion in them because it is a part of who you are and shaped you to be you.

[@cultbyproxy]

“gotta wait till marriage and then it’s not dirty” “don’t know how many people they’ve slept with and then technically that means you’ve slept with all those people” i’m sorry but a lot of the things Syd said were actually quite ignorant

[@katyvaughan4520]

reabetswe no last name it’s her beliefs. Why does that concern you

[@cultbyproxy]

Katy Vaughan i’m not bashing her beliefs (i’m a devote christian and saving myself for marriage as well) but it’s just basic biology. the second statement was ignorant, it’s not the end of the world.😅 we’re all ignorant, just on different topics. but we keep each other accountable and encourage growth and education where we’ve fallen short. 😊 sorry if it seemed like i was attacking her beliefs in any way 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@chlorine3045]

How God wanted us to have sex is in marriage, He wants us to wait because how he sees sex in marriage is pure but when it’s outside of the person you married or outside of marriage it’s not pure. And when you have sex outside of marriage the person you had sex with you get emotionally attached, you create a soul tie to that person and that’s why God wants us to wait till marriage

[@bellabirch2386]

I’m her religion, and it says that it is okay when you are married,so, it is not very ignorant

[@cultbyproxy]

Olivia i understand if she means soul ties, but unless she’s referring to STDs then you haven’t “technically” had sex with your partners previous sexual partners. even if referring to STDs you haven’t had sex with their previous partners, just contracted whatever diseases were passed along

[@sadieolds2135]

I support your decision to wait for marriage. One thing I do not support is your word choice towards the men and women who decides not to do so. Stating “sleeping around... sounds disgusting.. or a mess” is not very accepting and highly disrespectful. Others won’t respect your decision until you respect theirs. Be more mature.

[@morganbradford737]

honestly me and sydney have the same believes. i love her so much

[@SkylinnJohnson]

I love how honest and positive you are!!

[@saltandlightcreations]

I love you girl! God has great plans for y’all! God bless❤️❤️ stand strong in your faith, God is the one who matters! :))💞

[@Janay.]

I can’t wait for Sydney’s wedding, I know it’s gonna be beautiful and I know they Sydney is gonna make a beautiful bride😍🤩❤️🥰

[@maiaeames]

your hair looks so healthy in this vid 🥺🥺🥺 pls share all your secrets

[@iHiseu]

This was adorable, and genuine. Ah she’s grown so much. 🥰

[@graceomalley663]

I loved this, I started watching a while back but never actually understood after watching a pretty intense documentary on your religion, you are just you and that’s so cool , you love yourself and that’s the best thing life could offer x

[@kayleeread3849]

you are so strong girl!! So proud that you’re not afraid to spread your beliefs. God is so dang good for putting this wisdom in ya :)❤️

[@priimly7550]

I honestly didn't know if I was going to wait for marriage... You're a remodel to all of us. Society makes sleeping around seem perfectly normal and sometimes I forget that what God asks of us is what is ultimately going to make us happy

[@kaitlynnbrooks4822]

Loved this video so much! If you would be comfortable posting a video about your IUD, I would love to watch it as I'm considering getting one but am unsure of the pain levels, etc. Congratulations on your engagement and I love you and your channel!

[@ohheytherelauren]

Kaiti Wetzel consider getting the arm implant- nexplanon. Much less invasive but the same thing in terms of birth control

[@carolinelee7622]

after watching this video i respect you so much omg i've been struggling with the whole "waiting till marriage" thing but listening to you inspires me

[@oliviagiuliani5633]

how do u “believe” or “not believe” in divorce? if you are married and it’s toxic get out of the marriage. if you are married and happy then stay in your marriage. divorce isn’t a theory it’s a personal decision.

[@victoriaann3392]

Shes saying that instead of divorcing she would rather work it out or go to couples therapy

[@devynsmith8838]

oh shoot girl, wait until after your wedding to get an IUD or get it asap! those can make you bleed for months

[@macaylahbowers3019]

kenzie hodges just wait

[@chloehaymond]

thank you so much for making this video. I am a member as well and it is so refreshing to be subscribed to someone who sticks to all of her standards and values.

[@nathalysimon831]

syd is actually really inspiring and now i’m thinking if i should wait till marriage because she has a lot of great points on why you should wait till marriage!

[@Michael-vm1uv]

I'm getting married in less than 2 weeks, and I 100% agree with everything in this video. Thanks for sharing your thoughts, we need more people like you in this world.

[@lovewildpeace]

Also I got an IUD and it's the best decision ever! I recommend you to get it AT LEAST 1 month before your wedding night so your body has time to adjust. PS it's not that painful! don't be scared

[@christatrezona5851]

I don’t usually comment on videos, but I just wanted to encourage you!! I love how you aren’t afraid to share your beliefs. Continue to walk boldly in your faith!

[@LauraRueb]

I miss this open and honest about her faith syd🥺♥️ I’m praying for you ♥️♥️

[@jaycievaline7826]

You spoke very well about everything. Don't be nervous to post these kinds of videos, they help a lot of people.

[@emmademarco7196]

i just got my second iud yesterday. i love it so much and so recommend! some doctors numb you before some don’t. it doesn’t hurt THAT bad if you’re not numb.

[@nicolcontreras4553]

Honestly believe that they're doing the right decision for the fact that I don't know them personally but if you compare them to older vlogs to now, they are both glowing. Dallin especially has been more open about his mental health you can see the difference he has made and the life and love and peace Sydney brings for him and Dallin does the same for Sydney and it would be crazy for someone to be against them getting married. I love you both xoxox

[@haileysavard]

I used to get the shot for birth control which made me gain weight, so my doctor recommended the arm implant. I am honestly so glad i switched. You don’t feel it whatsoever, it was so easy to put in and lasts 3 years! I haven’t gained any weight with the arm implant and I don’t have a period. Of course, this is just for me personally and it could react with peoples bodies differently. I would REALLY recommend the arm implant though.

[@sydfrances]

Hailey Savard i will def look more into it!

[@Madariah]

Just playing the devils advocate here, but I had the arm implant as well (nexplanon) and it was absolutely terrible. I can say I did not have a change in my weight, but I was spotting almost all the time, my periods were TERRIBLY painful compared to before the implant, & I also experienced a huge amount of mood swings and depression while on it. It was almost like I wasn’t myself. Once I got it out I returned to normal periods and normal emotions.

[@haileysavard]

Jane Doe like i said, its different for everyone. im sorry you had to experience that though, i love mine 😊

[@abbyn1418]

Sydney is so pretty and genuine, you rock girl!💗

[@Meekavintage]

New T SHIRT I don't believe in Society I believe in GOD.

[@DallinForsyth]

Oh no 😂😂 brace yourself guys

[@lovewildpeace]

Congrats Syd! I think getting married young is so amazing because you get to enjoy being a couple and build a strong relationship waaay before having children. People who get married at 30+ often have kids before their second anniversary

[@erikamalnasi8089]

I hate how she talks about sex as “dirty” and “disgusting” like she’s like I’m not judgemental but ...

[@jessicaborjon5160]

“doing the dirty” is a common phrase and isn’t meant to be taken serious in the sense of what dirty actually means lol. and when she talked about sleeping around being disgusting, in a lot of ways it truly can be! but it’s also her opinion and she can feel that way about it.

[@cokelover116]

“Divorce isn’t even on the table” well that leads to some toxic relationships and unhappy marriages

[@SLEEVEASMR]

Zoe Lewis agreed. It’s so easy to say that on the outside looking in.

[@SLEEVEASMR]

Most times people don't get married with the final intent on being divorced lol. Things happen, people fall out of love. Staying in a marriage where neither one is happy just because you don't want to get divorced is toxic and unhealthy

[@MarissaDintino]

AM M nobody goes into marriage wanting to get divorced. Abuse can happen, emotional and physical, people can stop supporting each other, one could cheat, and often, only one party is willing to compromise to try to fix it, and often both aren’t. Plenty can happen to ruin it. I’m not staying with a husband that beats me or degrades me or cheats on me.

[@gracietollefson4594]

My teacher said that for him, the only time divorce is available is when you cheat or are abuse for him and his wife. He said that with those rules, they are happy and have been together for 30+ years. You can’t just assume that all marriages that say they won’t get divorced will go wrong.

[@Cck_912]

Don’t be upset that people don’t believe in divorce. I also don’t think divorce is ever on the table and there’s nothing wrong with that. When I marry my fiancé I make a promise to God and I intend to keep that. And if we keep god at the center, why would we ever have to get divorced? Thinking it’s on the table before you get married is a bad way to go into marriage. Also, it has nothing to do with relationships outside of marriage.

[@isabellacsal]

I really admire you for your strong faith and beliefs!! I 100% agree with your perspective on marriage 💕

[@Essgee23]

Damn I was all ready just to find out it’s premiering

[@kellythompson8855]

divorce don't work like that lol almost no one goes into marriage thinking they will get a divorce

[@megansullivan132]

when i tell u i died when u said "shoutout to science"

[@lansmcgall1066]

so like i’m waiting till marriage as well. BUT if you aren’t spending the night with each other bc you don’t want to be tempted, then waiting till marriage just doesn’t mean enough to you. if i had a boyfriend i would 100% stay the night with him and sleep in the same bed with him bc i know exactly what i want to do with my life so yeah i might get tempted but i won’t act on them bc it means a lot more to me than a temptation

[@sydfrances]

Alannah McGall it’s does mean A LOT to us but when you are tempted and engaged it’s a whole new playing field! you know you’re getting married so it’s like hormones are hightened idk we just don’t wanna even put ourself in that position

[@joyclynhope1606]

Okay once you said I don’t believe in society I believe in God, like I love this girl why is this something so weird to hear. I feel like you’re really just not compromising so much, and I respect that. I loved this video! Like yes nobody is forced to follow anything in their religion. love you, and praying for y’all and your marriage 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

[@sophiearthur7875]

Yess make a video on your IUD experience!!

[@skyalmonds4046]

I love your hair 😍😍

[@ashlynburkeybile4548]

I love y’all so much, I’m so happy for you guys!!❤️

[@dreww2354]

I love you so much and I hope you enjoy being married when you get marred❤️

[@rsaulls7294]

You are so wonderful! I love how christ-like you are. When people say "amoung the elect" they meant people like you

[@tissymay]

Really love seeing all the positive, respectful comments! Love this video!! ❤️ congrats!

[@emilywhary8107]

“I don’t believe in society I believe in God” WOWOW AMEN

[@laurenyoung6092]

you say you don’t care what other do but say it’s disgusting to sleep with more than one person. ok sis

[@jessicajames2414]

The IUD is not comfortable. Try and take some pain meds beforehand and take the day to relax SIS! it hurts but it’s so worth it.

[@Born2BeSomebody03]

I love you and LOVE this candid side of you, watching you grow into an outspoken, wise, and loving woman has been amazing ! So so happy for you and Dallin, but just some advice, be sure when getting birth control situated you give yourself enough time before the wedding in case the IUD doesn’t work out and you have to go on the pill since depending on the pill you may be put on it it takes time for your hormones to adjust and the pills to be effective and you wanna be good to go for the wedding night!!!;)

[@michelledeakle422]

You are like my idol tbh I’m a little younger than you & I’ve been watching for years and I watch just about every video you post you’re so inspirational and so pretty❤️

[@michelledeakle422]

Can’t wait to see the wedding, I’ve been waiting on the proposal for so long I’m so excited to see y’all get married💕

[@sydfrances]

Michelle Deakle aw thank you so much!

[@isabellaconnery9365]

Proud of both you and I for waiting till marriage !! Couldn’t agree more on your stand point

[@latina545]

I always get looked down on for being barley in my 20s and waiting till marriage. just cause you’re in a rush shouldn’t mean to put it on others :c