Synastry Pluto in the 1st house

Powerful placement can lead to control issues, domination, and obsession. Positively can help one become more confident in pursuing their goals and taking action. Transformation for better or worse.

[@M3st1za]

My Pluto was in their 1st house and I became obsessed! Had to run away from the connection to regain my sense of self again. I felt like I was under a spell. Still having trouble shaking their memory off. The experience broke my heart

[@beautybaby4660]

I completely relate

[@closedaccount3510]

damn

[@priyankadey2620]

Obsessed with what?

[@mikuspalmis]

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[@gothgod10]

omfg can you spill more? I have this guy’s scorpio pluto in my 1st house and im a scorpio rising with pluto in first house

[@Natalie-rm5li]

My Pluto was in my exs ascendant. He was a double Scorpio and Aries moon. We were both sexually attracted to each other and I feel like I was more obsessed. He would have raging jealousy and was controlling. The sex was amazing though

[@jackmac6965]

Same

[@fancylyrics.]

Hey natalie do you mean your pluto in scorpio and his ascendant is also in scorpio..??..

[@groovytrice]

Straight to the point and well versed. Thank you.✨

[@Illumeastrology]

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[@icieberry]

I have this with my husband. We are both Plutonic. Besides, I have my Saturn conjunct his Pluto so I think this keeps his obsession under control. His Pluto is opposite his own sun and mercury but I know he is a good person and his love to me is true. I am just as obsessed over him. And, we have other very good relationship aspects too and things is working great for us :) Just to let you guys out there know, if you guys are compatible and mature, it can work.

[@mikuspalmis]

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[@themoonbleu627]

What does Saturn conjunct Pluto mean I thought it just meant your the same age .

[@kingcapricornio1193]

Very nice video I agree 🦂👤rising

[@kingcapricornio1193]

Reject love all you need is loyalty

[@Illumeastrology]

You need all that you need

[@Divine-vg7qg]

Thank you

[@Illumeastrology]

You're welcome beautiful!

[@williamj2494]

Wow.. you are so great in explaining. You made me realize sth. I broke up with my GF recently. My natal Pluto is square Sun and square north node. Everything you said is very true, especially the obsessed/sexual stuff. My Pluto was in her first house conjunct her moon and Saturn. We we're 7 months together but it felt like years. She did say I was mean to her, but only verbally (mostly disagreeing about her ways). We we're both so stressed out and having arguments non stop that eventually I had to quit it.. which I do feel like I lost an important part of me. We both said we learned a lot about ourselves.

[@Illumeastrology]

Hi! Thank you!. Pluto conjunct Moon is very powerful too and in her 1st house. it's also very obsessive and magnetic, but can also point to disagreeing, differences, stubbornness, willfulness, drama and eventually burn out. Pluto is willpower and stubbornness too when one or both is not willing to give in to even if it's to keep the peace. You do certainly grow and transform and learn a lot about yourself with Pluto often after the relationship,. Pluto is one powerful little guy :) Thank you for sharing your experience. I

[@williamj2494]

Thanks a lot for your answer too! I really felt like the magnetic pull between us was so strong it just busted us up.. her Pluto was in my 7th house.. I also heard when Saturn is in a fixed sign, ppl are more stubborn. My moon was in her 6th house.. so that didn't really help much. Her sun and moon square my Sun. I love that you're so personal in your channel. Great work again.

[@Illumeastrology]

your welcome! I agree with Saturn being stubborn and especially in a fixed sign too.

[@aerialnalani8545]

I have a similar situation. His Pluto, Uranus and Venus conjunct my 1st house (I also have virgo moon in 1st). We have Juno conjunct Juno (on the same degree!) and his Rahu conjunct my Venus or my Venus conjuncts his Rahu in 7th. His Pluto conjunct my Moon and my Pluto conjunct his Sun. His Part of Fortune in my 1st house and my Part of Fortune in his 1st house... His Chiron is in my 7th and my Chiron is in his 7th. crazy.... still, it feels like neither one of us knows what the other is thinking or feeling.

[@emjay3344]

I have moon conjunct pluto,Venus trine pluto, mars sextile pluto, pluto square lillith, pluto opp ascendant, pluto conjunct north node... my pluto ( and moon) is in their first house... this is a friend who needs a friend, not some power tripping/ manipulating person... what do I as the pluto person need to look out for? They have said to me in the past that they feel as though I have power over them.

[@angiezias-lasen2116]

My partner has their Pluto in my first house and we also both have our moons conjunct and our moons conjunct each other’s plutos as well so would that mean we both try to control one another?

[@silveeja]

His Pluto in my 1st (Conjunct my Ascendant in Scorpio), Venus/Mercury/Chiron in my 8th, Mars/Moon in my 5th. Venus Square Mars. 😬

[@themoonbleu627]

Yes the Pluto is changing who I am and I am fighting to keep a sense of self … I keep telling him I’m me I’m an individual the one thing I don’t like Pluto dominates me

[@Illumeastrology]

If you don’t like it don’t allow it. You have in your life what you allow. Pluto will test you and teach you a lesson about allowing someone to dominate you and losing yourself in a relationship. Be authentic real love isn’t about domination. That’s for tyrants and dictators not love. All my best.

[@iriswildflower]

His Libra Pluto, mars and Saturn are in my 1st house (vertex conjunct asc), my sag mars, Venus (conjunct by 1 orb) and Pluto (conjunct his Uranus in retrograde) lots of leaving usually on my end and coming back together.

[@Daydreamerr13]

He had a Virgo sun, Taurus rising, Scorpio stellium 7H, and moon/venus/pluto all were in Scorpio. As well as moon-conj pluto natal. I also have moon conj-pluto natal. sag moon/aqua sun/Scorpio rising, pluto in sag(1H) . It was intense and really worst heartbreak I experienced. My mars aqua4h, his cancer mars3H.

[@lionheart1232]

I have experienced the opposite, as a Pluto in Scorpio individual, my pluto being in someone’s first house, who has both their moon and ascendant in Scorpio. I was absolutely turned off by this person in every way. No romantic attraction whatsoever. Like you said Pluto is all or nothing.

[@Illumeastrology]

Yes Pluto doesn’t often do well with himself pluto likes to control or dominate and if it’s another trying to do the same it repulses.

[@jackpotwinner1260]

My Pluto Sun Moon and Rahu are all in my first house im Virgo. I cant say l have the negative effects is possible my aspects lesson the effects. I have only had two relationships married long time then divorced. My 2nd relationship is amazing he is Pisces 1st house Virgo 7th we are exact polar opposite s and its amazing. He is an amazing man very gifted very good baseball player. We are older me 50s him early 60s. Not sure if the effects of Pluto lessen with age. But in my younger years in a horrible marriage some of this was true.

[@Illumeastrology]

Absolutely things lesson with age, experience as we grow we indeed do learn and therefore things get better:) Thank you for sharing:) Many blessings to you, opposites do well together often later in life when they are ready:)

[@beautystarchic]

Every single person I fall for has pluto in my first, all my previous relationships have their pluto in my first house. But I also have it in my 1st house (scorpio sac) in my natal chart though so I love being in control? it's a bit confusing

[@Illumeastrology]

HI Thanks for listening! Pluto is about power or a formiddable force, it's magnetic too and very sexy usually. If you attract Pluto in the 1st house people or people whos Pluto lands in your 1st ( depending on how Pluto is aspected in their chart) then there can be conflict especially if you have Pluto in your 1st because you having Pluto in your 1st is a powerful presence and usually one that doesn't take well to being controlled. However, it can work both ways, meaning you're attracted to those that challenge you or take control in some way. It all depends on what aspects the person with the Pluto have in their natal chart to indicate whether or not they are using their Pluto in a more positive or negative way. :) Pluto is about transformation overall so one tries to transform the other for better or worse:)

[@beautystarchic]

wow I see, thank you for replying, this explanation has really helped me to understand myself better! I look forward to more videos soon :)

[@Illumeastrology]

Awww! Thank you, honey! I'm so glad you found it helpful! Yes, I will be uploading lots more in the coming week!

[@Illumeastrology]

Hi! If you have Pluto in your 1st house you project Pluto traits,! positively ! of personal power., setting boundaries with others, being a positive force for change of humanity ect. Negatively an overtly dominating personality, or needing control over others., willfulness, stubbornness ect... There is a lot to Pluto both positive and not so positive. Pluto can be a very powerful force for good or bad. Having Pluto in your 1st also points to the possibility of attracting Pluto types also. Pluto brings fated encounters and has lessons surrounding power or self-empowerment Pluto tends to be attracted to strong-willed, so perhaps that's why you're attracted to those with Pluto in the 1st. They come across powerful and you are attracted to that, however, you are powerful too so there can be war if not careful. Nonetheless, Pluto seeks to transform and there is usually a transformation that occurs after most Pluto type relationships.

[@sherry876]

Pluto is a generational planet anyone around the same age is going to have their pluto in that house.

[@isabellalora6533]

What about 12th house??

[@ash785lo]

What about my natal pluto is in the 10th & it falls in his 1st house? I feel like my pluto is not negative more positive. I feel like I can help mold my SO so that he can reach his highest potential. Is that pluto making me feel that way?

[@Illumeastrology]

Likely Pluto is about death rebirth and transformation Pluto likes to transform others which usually is for the better but if not the other person needs to develop the willpower to stand up for themselves. Also it depends perhaps the person is happy the way they are not that everyone can’t grow and learn but you can only help the willing.

[@themoonbleu627]

My fiancé his Pluto is in my first house and it conjuncts my ascendant and his sun mars and venus opposite my Pluto and ascendant he is also in the 7th house his sun mars and venus his moon is in my 8th house his Saturn sextile my venus his my venus conjunct his north node his Lilith conducts my moon but my moon is damaged hahah it’s pretty intense but I have insane self awareness and self discipline so I have to mentally detached and let whatever happens happens it’s a lot of power and control stuff going on and it would be exhausting if I didn’t know our synastry I imagine it would be very toxic every time I see him I feel nervous like we just met I am very annoyed that I still get nervous around him and we are engaged are connection is extremely intense

[@themoonbleu627]

I’m back wow I see my comment from a year ago and sheesh Pluto is so controlling but he’s being protective … very jealous but the love is so intense very obsessed with each other but it’s not in a good way it’s overwhelming because with being so into anything comes a fear of losing it but overall it’s good .

[@vanessaroper3028]

Coworker has Pluto in my 1stand he is very helpful

[@gothgod10]

I’m a Scorpio rising with Pluto 1st house he’s a Scorpio Pluto 8th house so his Pluto falls in my 1st and mine falls into his 8th 😅

[@kimjay425]

Can you make a pluto in the 2nd house video please

[@Illumeastrology]

Will do:)

[@kimjay425]

@@Illumeastrology thanks 😊

[@primetime_21_]

I’m male. Scorpio ascendant, Scorpio in Pluto, Pluto in the 1st & 2nd 🥴🥴

[@Illumeastrology]

You have some powerful powers. Rise as the phoenix and make the world a better place :) xo

[@Jayonceable]

His Pluto is in my first house,and mine Pluto is in his first house. We fu*ked :/

[@stellaofthelake3451]

Lol been there done that

[@plutostarr8605]

His Pluto is tightly conjunct my ascendant and his Lilith is in my first house as well as his Venus being in my 7th house 😩 I know the obsession is real I deleted him on Instagram and made my account private ... let’s see how he reacts 😂😂🤣🤣 the fact that he can’t stare at my pics is probably gonna throw him for a loop but he’s a cancer sun and moon so I’ll probably never know his feelings 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@fancylyrics.]

Hey Dear, same placements wid my partner,.. Ugh.. how did it played out to you..??.. I feel like being the house person we were both obsess wd each other thou.. how did he respond after you blocked him..??..

[@plutostarr8605]

@@fancylyrics. he didn’t say anything about being blocked I vanished for like 3 months and unblocked him messaged him an emoji (😝) and he requested to follow me but I didn’t follow him back 😏

[@plutostarr8605]

@@fancylyrics. I’m pretty sure he’s still obsessed with me 💅🏽😎

[@tayclark42]

That's doing to much

[@plutostarr8605]

@@tayclark42 😂😂

[@constantinosavraam6657]

What if the house person is even more Plutonian? lol

[@Illumeastrology]

Usually Pluto is combust when there is too much Pluto and he doesn’t always do well with his own kind due to ego, pride or stubbornness but everyone has free will to choose otherwise if there is love. Anything is possible with love.

[@constantinosavraam6657]

@@Illumeastrology lovely answer! Thank you

[@purplewolf8211]

I love how everyone comes on these comments and just talks about themselves, like any of us give a shit about each other's relationships.

[@jackmac6965]

True...

[@patpatmoomoo5524]

I usually read people’s experiences to see how aspects might have influenced their previous or current relationships

[@sandraosman]

I laughed so hard at this

[@rosalindalopez3536]

Speak for yourself. I love to hear about others experiences with this.

[@mikuspalmis]

😄

[@jomontanee]

With all due respect, we need to look at overall synastry chart before jumping to the conclusion that Pluto energy is only about domination, obsession and aggression. That Pluto may trine Sun or sextile Asc. ruler of the 1st house person. Pluto can even "fill the missing Grand trine" of the 1st house person's natal chart. If this is the case Pluto can work wonderfully in synastry. Such as helping the 1st house transform themselves, to feel more powerful. Or change 1st house person to the whole new potential as if they get the "rebirth" in a good way. Astrological chart can't be read reductively but holistically. For example I have Pluto conjunct my secretary's ASC in her 1st house. She told me that I changed her from a stoic, timid, repressed girl to be more open to life. She was physically and verbally abused by her mother and she was told by her mom that it was her fault and she deserved the punishment. So she was kind of shut off the world and kept quiet. She said that on the day I told her no mother should harm her child in any way, it was not her fault and it was her mother who was mentally and emotionally dysfunctional. . That day was like setting her free from the bondage. No control, no obsession, no aggression at all. Just like big sis and younger sis relationship, even though I was her boss.

[@Illumeastrology]

I agree, but these are general energies and the many ways they can be expressed. But we can't do general interpretations with exact specifications without writing or speaking them all out which no one really has the time to do not saying it can't be done.

[@jomontanee]

@@Illumeastrology Thank you for your kind reply.

[@stellaofthelake3451]

So amazing!! Transformative powers at its best!

@@Illumeastrology I completely understand what they’re saying even though it was suppose to be general you highlighted the negative side of Pluto more

[@Illumeastrology]

@ sorry you felt that way I love Pluto I’m Scorpio rising and Pluto is aspecting all my planets. I have a very close understanding of him coming from a very heavy Pluto family. I love him he makes you stronger absolutely regardless if the experience was positive or negative he brings out buried power. Sometimes his ways can be hard but I would never give him a bad wrap he’s deep powerful and transformative there are positive and negative uses of energy in and with all the planets. Pluto is about revealing buried power sometimes the hard way sometimes kindly it all depends on who’s holding the Pluto power and how they use it. I talk the most about Pluto because he’s my favorite. Sorry if it came off negatively focused.

[@geneoluminology]

essentially..if U r Virgo or Pisces ascendant, or someone mature..lol with th Pluto on lover s ASC, ..l d think you have less ego and. No want to domnimate..plus..n essence, What keeps 2 PPL together? Is that agenda..th life purpose...a higher purpose

[@Illumeastrology]

Very true the signs and maturity of the individuals affect the interpretation so generals are difficult. But it nonetheless adds intense attractions or the word intense or deep is usually involved with Pluto.

[@mikuspalmis]

I have natal Pluto in the 1st house conjunct Saturn in the same, with both opposing Venus in the 7th, and Pluto opposing Mars in the 7th. 😓 God, help me. 🙄 😄 Luckily, Pluto and Saturn are trine Moon. But transiting Pluto is going through my 4th. 😐

[@Illumeastrology]

Wow it would be in your benefit to instill lots of Venus energy into your life both Pluto and Saturn don’t know anything about Venus and are against her. The lessons do t need to be learned the hard way if you read all about Venus energies along with Taurus and libra since there both ruled by Venus to balance out the energy. When we find balance in all the planet energies we find balance within ourselves our inner world becomes our outer world. Balance within is the secret to all things. 💕✨⭐️ all my best!

[@arelymartinez9607]

Pluto conjunct Pluto °0

[@lisbethlind87]

I have my pluto in his 1st house. He has his pluto in my 1st house and in his 1st house natal 😮😊 We have a lot of good placement in 5th and 7th house , also 4th. So maby thats why we are so good togheter ❤

[@sodapop83]

his pluto opp venus on my asc/sn-dc/nn🥺