Have you ever thought your marriage was a mistake? | Fridays with Tab and Chance

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[@devincognito8932]

As a man I think the worst thing you can do is match a woman’s energy. There’s no good that will come from that😂😂😂

[@TriggaTreDay]

Facts 💯. Because my brother and his wife give me the blues. 😭😭😭😭. He just doesn’t get it. But he knew she would wild when he started dating her. 😂. My husband will not match anyone’s energy unless he has to lay paws on you and even then he will calmly lay you down 😂.

[@jaytibee]

I hate that shit. That's when alot of nonsensical starts getting spoken by the guy because he's just trying to match.

[@donovandouglas7587]

Amen 🙏🏾.

[@dsanders799]

Never match a man energy God made man The head for a reason nothing like a strong man

[@RadBunny2269]

Yup. If you keep up w their varied patterns you’ll not be the stable one.

[@Iamcherese]

“Y’all know how I’m built” got me CRINEEEEEEEEEE😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@ldkea05]

All I gots to say is what I have been saying .... getting together is effortless ... and STAYING together requires ALL the EFFORT! From each party involved!

[@tboykin13tb]

#Each Party r the 🔑 Words Here!!! 🤩💯

[@KwanitaAllen2468]

This is so goood

[@Nomdeplume4]

This! Well said

[@mrsmurphy6371]

After 40 years of marriage you have never lied !!

[@mrsmurphy6371]

After 40 years of marriage you have never lied !!

[@shawna-Your-RealEstate-Plug]

Marriage is a lot of work. But it's definitely what you make it. ❤

[@elleceleste7104]

Please please please we need more of this!!! Sometime we can’t rely on people in our lives to let us know how to do this!!!This was beautiful and so relatable! ❤️❤️❤️👏🏾👏🏾 Thank you

[@yodielonda]

Im crying😂 Me and my ex said the same thing! We wish we would have fought for it!

[@nunyabiz12345]

Which ex? I thought he stepped out and had a baby during the last year of marriage?

[@phyllistv9149]

@@nunyabiz12345😅😅😅😅

[@Chin715]

​@@nunyabiz12345Messy 😂

[@kaymitchell6143]

@@Chin715asf 😂😂

[@mommamia9948]

I was cracking up 😂 Everybody at this table is beautiful! Inside and out

[@khristalwoodall6679]

Hey auntie Tab and uncle Chance! I have always said that yal need a show called " open talk" or whatever and yal talk to anyone that wants to advice about relationships or marriage. Cuz yal arre sooo open❤😂 I am a single mother never been married but take notes of yal advice all the time. Helps me change and elevate whom I don't want or what I do want.❤❤❤❤

[@yodielonda]

Wait! I was jumping up and down on the bed!!!😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@browneyes-k8o]

This was so good. I'm having a tough time. Definitely communicating is so important. Pray for me you all. 🙏🏾

[@DJ_JMIZZEL]

The most honest thing I have seen online in a long time 👏👏👏

[@ladyindaroom]

Sometimes I don’t know if peoples know how blessed they are to have a spouse to go through life with, or maybe spouses take each other for granted sometimes. As a woman who has never been married, raised two kids mostly on my own with the Lord being my covering. I have a son 20, and daughter who’s 19. It was not an easy road raising them, but God. I do remember some good times along the way, I wasn’t always crying through the journey. In the end, God answered my prayer for both to graduate High School. They on their paths and I still ask God to lead them. 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 However, from my perspective I know marriage would have been better. Two are truly better than one. Some married women say, they feel like a single mom. My response to that is, they should get out their feelings and truly thank the Lord they are not a single mother, knowing that husband is a phone call away, and always there. 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@silvernblack21]

Two are better when it's ordained, but many married women are living suppressed, oppressed lives. Who told you husbands are always there when we call, willing and able to be supportive?? I've been demeaned and insulted for calling my husband when a pet had died AND when our newborn was in the hospital. Don't speak on what you have no clue about and are merely romanticizing.

[@yellej3314]

You don’t know until you have been in that situation, being married & still doing it on your own is worse. Having no partner is better than having a toxic partner. Then you have even bigger problems. But when it’s the right person it’s much easier & worth it of course. But people who never had nothing will accept anything & I promise that is no way to live.

[@ladyindaroom]

@@yellej3314Wow! You blessed my soul and opened up my eyes! ❤

[@ladyindaroom]

@@silvernblack21Thank you for this perspective. I never looked at it this way😊

[@naturalsouthernbelle4327]

I have seen the "potential" in him before, after, and during marriage. It wasnt until I had our first child that I realized he was never going to change. The way he treated our son as an annoyance. I would never want him to see that as his example or to treat anyone like that. I move everything and served him divorce papers. Been happy and less stressed ever since. ❤

[@Caesar__99]

“Say that again” “I don’t even know what I said” 😂😂

[@victoriawaugh5065]

Leaving with money is different got me LMBO ....

[@shannondavis4448]

I am regretting my 22 year old marriage right now!

[@reddyred5097]

Yes!

[@katrinaevans7588]

Pray for guidance! Good luck!

[@doseoflamide]

Im so sorry. Praying for you ❤

[@katrinaevans7588]

@@shannondavis4448 your comment was 3 weeks ago. I hope things are better. 🙏🏾

[@MorningSun7]

😂😢😅😂😢😅😂😢😅Kevin got me through a roller coaster of emotions. Can identify with them and it is so sad. Beefing makes you a child- we can be such children when arguing.

[@feliciawoods3514]

Yall know how I'm built 😂😂😂😂

[@thriftstorescoffeeshops]

Not she 8 lbs with a 50lb suitcase! lolol I'm so appreciative of Happy, faithful, strong marriages (not perfect) but I am so glad you all TRY! Thank you for this 10 minutes. Side bar: I remember being at Casey Treat's church a few backs and he and his wife had got into it. He was speaking about leaving in a marriage. And like Lis said, he mentioned when you do that, you are sewing a seed of leaving. So in hindsight don't leave.

[@FUNKYJ5]

This is fantastic, Thank You.

[@belleaesthetics9240]

This was great !

[@annagaddisnetwork]

Yes I was definitely curious what were they arguing about?! Lol

[@eveshalom3534]

Where is the Born Worthy shirt??

[@ginawright6232]

Married 40years~41 this year! We are STILL fighting through ageism and lots of emotional changes. However, we are fighting and loving through it.

[@ldkea05]

Love this.... and Kudos to yall for sticking it out

[@SpekkTrumn]

😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@h3artands0uLL]

Through ageism? Like you feel ageism toward each other for aging? I’m not understanding

[@lb1798]

7:29 "Im never so upset that your safety is not my concern"........if a person can say that about their mate...you can STILL WORK ON THE RELATIONSHIP. Thats love❤️💔❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@ScottyLane_]

Mannnnnn

[@reviewranger4202]

When you love anybody, that's the thought. I can argue with my sisters or a friend but never will I be mad enough to no worry about them being OK.

[@thriftstorescoffeeshops]

That PART!!!!!!!

[@diversetribe231]

No, that’s MEN. You see, without being misogynistic-most women think differently than most men, and when emotions are high, they tend to act only on those emotions. A man will usually be emotional, but still have his logical reasoning still working behind the scenes. The default for men is usually protect the family.

[@lb1798]

@diversetribe231 I disagree....because when men are mad,they are ÜBER PETTY. A woman will feel sorry first...and do what it takes for others even to the detriment of herself.

[@Victoria3Victoria]

I fought for my marriage while we was married my husband fought for our marriage after I left. 1 year separation and the result was independently healing and reconciliation. ❤

[@douse89]

“I’ve seen Taken an I don’t have those skills so if you’re taken, you’re took” is such a valid statement! 😂😂😂

[@TheProfessor1908]

Amen. So you better watch out for your people while you can!

[@jamalkarahartage4968]

That was it for me too.

[@marieyellow6923]

😅😂😂😂😂

[@kenyamcdonald711]

Married 24 years. There were many times that I thought my marriage was a mistake. I can relate to Kevin's story, but God! We are in a completely different space now. Marriage is not for the weak. You have be in it to win. Keep God first!❤

[@user-sd1wi1go1q]

I’m almost 7 months in and I’m asking myself this question. I’m praying for better days.

[@eb5351]

STAY. You get the most out of any investment when you hold, even when the stock dips. Your marriage is an investment. The pay off is long term

[@akiljones7660]

Hang in there... you are two people with two different backgrounds. It's gonna be tough sometimes, but you'll get through it. I'm 24 years in and we're still learning each other, but she is definitely my best friend! Life will not always be as it is today, you'll look back at your growth and be AMAZED!

[@shenbrown6288]

Same😢

[@roxnmo6624]

Yall hang in there...

[@KiaFlow]

It gets better with growth, change, reflection and calm communication

[@Makeupnista]

6:35 we make up stories in our minds and we believe them 🤯- it can be so messy sometimes

[@brooklynforever1990]

Indeed

[@CatherineFrye-n9e]

My Husband and I have been married for 53 years and it was a lot of work. Through the years we learned to lean on God's Word for help in all of our situations 🙏

[@ensabahnur3104]

"First of all I'm a G... ain't nothing going to happen." 😊

[@TDonni86]

😂😂

[@sonyablackmon1]

Can alllll 4 of yall have some WEEKLY COUPLES conversations on here please! Lawwwd we really need this! ASAP...EVERYYY WEEK...and maybe once per month add in a therapist to talk! Omg this is sooo needed because we all think that it's just in our situation only. Now we need yall.

[@maryearl9331]

Crazy this came on my feed. I'm laying down thinking of pros and cons of my relationship of 18 yrs. My husband and I been sleeping in separate rooms the past couple nights. This conversation came at the right time but idk if I wanna fight for us anymore. Either way Tysm for sharing your story.

[@denisecraig5102]

😮

[@BLACKSTONEPOET]

Wow

[@shaymayhello]

Praying 🙏🏾 for you

[@khiabridges2547]

Pray and give it to God. Listen for direction and lean on your inner circle of prayer. Let God point you in the right direction

[@Artemis-True]

God

[@tarawalker4086]

This is a level of maturity that we all need in marriage. We need to love the person enough to be vulnerable to share our feelings & to fight for one other. Glad they also realized therapy is key to longevity because sometimes we need help. This session was amazing. Thanks for sharing.

[@momoftheJohnson4]

Being married going on 21 years this is very refreshing to hear I’m not alone😂❤

[@sherrihastings2005]

I loved when he said no matter what her safety was my concern!❤

[@tjsyoutube-m7k]

Same❤❤

[@tw6361]

I peeped that too! ❤❤❤

[@trezndawg4240]

He was on point had he allowed his wife to leave. Both of their minds would have told them all kinds of stupid things to justify their positions. Very likely, they would not be sitting at the table telling their story. It's awesome to see them laughing about it now and encouraging others with their story 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Aftermyownheart]

It’s beautiful to see both people committed to the work.

[@latoyajohnson2276]

Thank you all for your transparency, and normalizing real relationship, 19 years strong and I believe it's not about what we go through but how we get through it. Took us time to communicate on a mature level but with time, patience, and maturity we got there❤

[@americanbeauty171]

I love it!!!❤

[@ChildofGod98765]

God give me strength to overcome every battle I face as a single mom struggling to provide for both of my sons that are special needs. God please help me. As I struggle to buy groceries and as I struggle to pay bills each and every month I know this struggle is only temporary. God I know you will help me overcome. In Jesus name amen! 💕

[@sotoon2219]

Amen

[@ladyindaroom]

Now that you asked God, thank Him for honoring your prayer. Pray in the Holy Spirit. God hears our human, but when we allow the Holy Spirit to intercede that’s music to God’s ears. I too prayed this same way when my two children who are now 19 and 20 were little. God always showed up and showed out. Also a single mother who never married. God is intentional in the way He does things.

[@Alexlittle9]

You got this and God got you❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@knottyandnicehair]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@LAmommy]

Amen. My prayer will be specific for you as a mother with a special needs son. I have one and the struggle is beyond real while being married. I know it takes a different kind of strength when doing it alone and having multiple children with special needs. Sending love and peace with a continuing fighting spirit. Praying you feel the Lord wrap you in His arms daily. You are not alone. Not alone.

[@candicane1]

This is real talk! Sometimes we aren’t on the same page, same chapter or even in the same book during marriage. I almost gave up bc my husband and I stopped liking each other. Just walking around the house would get on our nerves. I would be like, “ugh”, every time I saw him. Now, we are stronger than ever and almost 20 years married! Keep God first! When you know you are with your person, fight for them!

[@sixteen.candles.4644]

Damn this is wild.

[@jasminecarter8998]

Waiting until therapy to argue is wild! Lol my husband has done the same thing. So happy for them getting through it ❤

[@jellieloveee]

This was so needed, I just got married and don’t have any married couples as friends yet ! This was so real and I don’t feel alone !

[@whittscalmingwhispers]

We can be friends! ❤

[@cinderellanwo]

Congratulations!!! Welcome! It’s great! Remember to be friends with your man!! Love is great!! But always remember to be friends!! We sometimes are kinder to our friends than loved ones lol sucks but true.

[@C-Ann]

Same sis. We are beefing now, and I keep defaulting to my single girl era where I would leave QUICK.

[@JanelAlexis-yo6zc]

"First of all, im a G" is literally me😂😅😂😅😅😂😂 baby you better come get me!!

[@qc9329]

"I'm in my DRAAAAWS!!!"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@biggechief]

😂😂😂😂 I understand its funny now but back then....ooohhhh chile

[@ldkea05]

5:34 this is so true bcz everybody be wanting to be the victor of the argument, prove their point, and claim the spoils of being right 6:45 Kev literally said it as I'm typing !!!!!! It's so true

[@amremnant]

I'm so thankful my husband isn't like this, he gives me the floor real quick lol.

[@lugo_ayana]

We’ve been married almost 10 years and don’t have any of these kind of stories. Hearing all of them tell their stories about marriage makes me extremely grateful for the best partner I could have ever chosen in this life. We have disagreements, but they are resolved within hours, not days.

[@SwissMissss]

These people have been together since highschool. Both couples. I'm sorry, but your 10 years doesn't exactly share the the experience and time they've had. I'm glad you're as happy and content as you are, but just know that your chapter of marriage is still technically in the beginning stages compared to theirs. Shoot Tab and chance been together since 8th grade, and Kev and Liss since early highschool if I'm not mistaken.

[@Chin715]

​@@SwissMissssGlad you said it!

[@user-kp7bi1ug9e]

@@SwissMissss It's actually proven that couples who get together younger typically have more drama and a higher risk of divorce. So actually, waiting until after high school to meet your partner probably means you will have a more stable marriage. Some people just have more stable relationships than others and that's okay.

[@blackscreenrelaxation5824]

@@user-kp7bi1ug9e Thank you for pointing this out. It’s disappointing that someone expressing gratefulness at a peaceful marriage is met with ‘well, just you wait’, and indirectly told that their experience is less valid because they haven’t been together for as long. I pray that she experiences another 10 years of peaceful marriage.

[@Caesar__99]

I’m with you. Idk why people love to foreshadow negativity. If it’s gonna happen it’s gonna happen, why do we have to look for it. Sounds like you and yours have a great system, just gotta maintain that

[@kindredsurvivors8138]

I freaking LOVE YALL!! All of yall!! Mark my words, Imma meet and work with yall one day!! My husband and I are a new couple 4 years together, 3 years married!! And yall be preaching TO ME!!!!!!!!! Imma meet yall and talk with yall and learn and laugh and talk with yall one day!! 💯💯

[@BriaBarrows]

These convos are so needed for married couples

[@aelet17]

Thank you so much for sharing! I’m single and waiting for God to send me my mate but I’m looking forward to marriage. So, it’s good to know that these kind of disagreements do exist and doesn’t automatically condemn a marriage 🙏🏽

[@kellysmith6632]

Every other day, if not every day since we said 'I do' (actually questioned before that but counted it as "cold feet") It's beautiful how these couples communicate with one another, even in difficult times.

[@beautifulblessednolovelost7773]

I feel that way now 5 years 6 kid's have his family living with us after we've been homeless a year. They not contributing to anything they not young the sister is 49 and unstable her daughter is 30 with a child they living with us he claim he want to help everyone but she's too old to be living with us and kid's

[@BearingMySeoul]

Oh no! Use the internet to look up local resources for homlessness, give it to the family and let them know they have 90 days to use those or find somewhere else. It might sound harsh but you and your husband's first priority should be one another then your kids.

[@kathrynmarrero5263]

Leaving with money vs broke Lol😂 that’s real Love y’all candidness beautiful I feel you ❤

[@Jacorolynstans06]

God knew I needed to see this!!!!! Me and my husband are on year two of marriage and just had a huge blowout!!! I was ready to run … my defense mechanisms went up real fast!!!

[@C-Ann]

Oh girl me too!!! Year 1 sis and I literally packed bags😩🤦🏾‍♀️. Sending you prayers as well🙏🏾

[@ldkea05]

9:06 chileeeee sayyyyyy this !!!! Bcz the "ima leave" be the bathroom or the other room but that's about it ! lol 😅

[@lashun1901]

I absolutely love this channel & all the conversations that follow.

[@triciafrancisjones4682]

Having these types of moments does not mean you have a dysfunctional marriage. Some people never have them and good for them. But others do. It’s a part of the process, and it does not speak to the validity of when people got married or even the validity of the two people involved. This is life, and some people just need to hear it.

[@yodielonda]

We got divorced after 21 years of marriage! He is married again and a 12 year old son. We have been divorced for 12 years! I am single. I trust the Lord. I pray for him and his family. God Bless them!❤

[@the5thdim763]

That’s great he found love again and started a new family ❤️

[@TinaTaughtme]

That's amazing that you pray for him and his family. Love, peace, happiness and abundance your way❤

[@Brook-ct3kk]

They always move on like you never existed

[@yodielonda]

@@Brook-ct3kk you sound so bitter I’m sorry for you. I will keep you in prayer and prayer that the Lord keeps you and changes your heart and that you forgive! I am a child of the most high God, I can never be forgotten. The covering of the Holy Spirit was with me so when I left the relationship, the covering went with me. As well as I have six children, I can never be nonexistent. Love you in the name of Jesus.

[@shayp5781]

I actually think the person was trying to relate to you and you sat there as a "believer" and called them bitter instead of clarifying why you said what you said the way you did. They probably just misinterpreted you. I had a fiance who broke my heart and immediately moved on when we were struggling and asked for his ring back. Had another almost fiance that I was trying to build a life with and that had met my entire family use me for things and betrayed me. So it happens a lot and ofcourse it can happen to anybody but Ive seen this with many of my friends. Men seem to move on faster but im aware I dont know the statistics. Gotta stop using God as a weapon and actually encourage folks. It can be traumatizing and have nothing to do with bitterness. Geesh! I actually pray for you to see your wrong!

[@ldkea05]

I truly appreciate this episode highlight specifically, because, hindsight is 20/20 and sometimes you don't even know what it really was that brought you to the impasse, but now that we here, where do we go from here

[@joyricherson4570]

I was fighting right before my wedding to my ex husband....I should have taken the hint!

[@Claudymaze]

😂😂😂 Gina Gina Gina

[@stanleyfontaine25]

I’m genuinely curious. What changes between being in a relationship and being married that causes people to feel this way about each other?

[@toinetteross4373]

If you’re always going through “hard times” , “disagreements”, “difficulties” and “storms” in your marriage, it’s not meant to be…PERIOD!!

[@IbelieveinJesusAmen]

You missed the point entirely. Leave.

[@JustBree716]

Who said always. Are u referring to your parents?

[@AangAtum]

Yall put kev in the channel😂 I'm not even married or dating. It's just kev.

[@Passion84GodAlways]

I ❤LOVE❤ when these 4 are together! 🏌🏾‍♂️🥑🦋🎬

[@MyMarriageWillRecover]

They really didn’t answer the question on if they thought their marriage was a mistake. They just gave an example of one time when they were beefing.

[@arlenetanner3637]

I fought for the marriage...he didn't try... Homeless with a baby..

[@shevaunbryant8554]

He homeless or you?

[@LoniLoni11]

Melissa said I’m a G - I bust out 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Melissa you too small and skinny talking bout you a G.

[@smarti1144]

She is a lowercase italic cursive g in font size 4 😂😂😂

[@Myaccount923]

@@smarti1144😂😂

[@TheRealGinaB.]

I love the transparency!

[@prophetess179]

Awwww that part when he says he poured 🫗 ❤his heart ❤️ out to her 🥰🥰

[@annagaddisnetwork]

I’m not even married but have been a what I think “lengthy” relationship and I’m like maybe we aren’t meant to be because of what happens but I also still believe we are but we MUST get pass the things we keep going through.

[@LRuss57]

I been with the same man for 38 yrs and married for 28 yrs and I’m finally ready to move on the sad part is I don’t think I was in love but I loved him and we were always you cheated so it’s my turn but now for my mental health it’s time to let go of this toxic relationship and I’m ready 😊

[@rhondawade9229]

I Absolutely Love this!!!❤❤💜💜

[@MzTaTaLa87]

I don't know how this popped up on my page but baby!!! I thought I was alone 🥴🥴 I love my husband but sometimes it's rough. Therapy/ mediator is definitely needed soon!!

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

Some marriages are self-inflicted hazards. Oftentimes, people choose mates that God would've never chosen for them. It's human nature to question decisions, but I believe that marriages that are ordained by God are unquestionable.

[@immersiveexperiences4799]

this was such a great section of this episode .

[@orlandowilliams6]

I appreciate their vulnerability. It is encouraging. Praise God for his mercy and power 🙌🏾.

[@piqueny8872]

Pandemic took a toll on every relationship 100% in each others face kev prob used to be on the road travelling while Lizz took care if the home imma guess

[@xiic358]

The way that I said "a hundred and ten pounds!" at the EXACT same time that he said "a hundred and eight pounds" 😂😂😂

[@Shalomfriend]

We have been married for a little over a year and expecting our first baby in October. We had some problems before then but since pregnancy, I really have been struggling with the idea of sticking around.

[@diamondunicorn2421]

If god or the universe brought two ppl together then it’s not a mistake. You’ll have issues and misunderstandings and the like. But you’ll pull through them all !

[@CraftsbyTheeRose]

Hello Tabitha. Thank you for sharing a wonderful video with us.

[@mauricescott4190]

I understand. But why men have to apologize first? Plus he was matching her energy? We always have to be the bigger man.

[@felishataylor1323]

Hats off to the husband who also saw the value in therapy within the marriage not after the divorce ! Often as women we are the only ones willing to commit to therapy and trying to make it work but it really takes two!

[@duke-ndukakufamily4298]

I just found this and so happy. Y'all the group marriage therapy for "us"

[@tboykin13tb]

See Yall Know How 2 Get People Like me Who Have Not Seen The Video To Watch It In Its Entirety With That Ending 😏.... Now I gotta go veiw it 💯!! 🤔

[@ldkea05]

5:01 this tho !!!! Is what I'm visualizing the whole time Kev is telling the story

[@NextLevelWomanhood]

😂😂 Did this happen to anyone else… When Chance asked what y’all beefing about… a Burger King commercial came on 😂😂😂

[@TriggaTreDay]

Child that story is so true. My husband and I can relate so much. We both don’t like the pettiness, but once I shut down and stop talking it’s over 😂. But we laugh about everything once we are back to normal. We are not selfish in understanding one another so working through things have become much easier over the years. We are 11yrs married ❤❤❤❤ 15yrs as BestFriends 🥰🥰🥰.

[@MikeMcgaskey]

Why are these grown conversations so hard to find online this was great

[@smome777]

Because they require vulnerability. A lot of us think we have it bc we're empathetic but very few people have access to this.

[@Anitra16jc]

You should aways be friends in the beginning I believe how you begin makes a difference. We have been married 43 years we show respect but we lack the friendship and we love each other but we are not in love with each other. No point in leaving now God has kept us.

[@yodielonda]

I cant!!! 🤣🤣😂😂This is so true!!!

[@ivoryreviewsstuff]

Hearing this is refreshing. Cause without a lot of married couples in my circle it’s hard to know if what I feel is normal or not.

[@Erika-be9hq]

Community of like minded people is so important. I’m praying you find it ❤.

[@mommyofceos]

I cry every time I hear this story. It just grips the heart ❤

[@marilynbailey1972]

The love and level of transparency in this conversation is amazing and much needed. I’m divorced and there was a lack of willingness to fight and respect but lessons in this I’ve learned. Thank you for continuing to have this conversation so that we can all have healthy relationships.

[@tboykin13tb]

🤣 That Wedding pic of Chance & Tab that they posted, they faces said A LOT!! 💯

[@expertonmyself]

Not Jodeci. 😂

[@norastocks5510]

She said “First of all, Imma G” 😅😅😅😅