Tackling Extraversion Bias to unlock the potential of Introverts | Joanna Rawbone | TEDxFolkestone

[@UrsCurt12]

Bloody brilliant perspective on how the introverts amongst us are often overlooked, pushed aside and judged. I was watching this alone (yes, how very introverted of me) and I felt like standing up and applauding.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Ursula - I love the image of you standing and applauding!!

[@nap980]

"it was never about confidence, it was about somebody not understanding my process" - this is so important. I think introverts grow up being told we're shy and unconfident, which we may start to believe if we don't have anyone explaining that it's OK to be an introvert.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks for your feedback Natalie. It's so OK to be an introvert ;-)

[@urbanexiles2718]

Introversion is not the same as shyness, social anxiety or depression, thank you for spreading awareness.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

you're welcome

[@ninny1976]

Thank you for helping to spread awareness on introversion. It took me years to figure out that I was actually normal and didn't have to fit in to society's mold. I have experienced bias many times over the years. Kudos to standing up in front of an audience, too. I could never do anything like that. You are an inspiration to all introverts! Much love & peace 💗

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

You're most welcome. I'd do it all again too!

[@JeanniJonesOli]

Wow, Joanna....I love what you've said. Being one of those really quiet introverts myself, I really appreciate the insight you've shared here. This bias is so stunningly obvious to our introverts, that when others don't get it or see it, I have and will shut down rather than speak up. I can't wait to share this with some of the organizations I have worked for and with. Solutions are just so welcome to hear to my ears. Brilliant! Thank you so very much!

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks so much Jeanni. Lets make this bias a thing of the past

[@discoverwithheather8866]

Yes! Organizations need to recognize they are leaving half their staff at a disadvantage. You've presented the case, and how to make actionable changes, brilliantly. Thank you.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Heather. I'm still plugging away ;-)

[@robanderson72]

A very insightful talk about something I wouldn't have thought about otherwise. I now need to adjust my workshops to be more accessible to introverts.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Rob - I'd love to hear the difference the adjustments make. Just an appreciation helps though.

[@marksharma4745]

Excellent perspective into how introversion works. Really appreciate the insights. Wonder why only 5.1k views so far. This needs to be communicated and shared more widely. A lot of people, companies and leaders will benefit greatly from these insights. Thank you Joanna!

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Mark - I appreciate your feedback and wonder too about the low numbers. Maybe it's an uncomfortable truth ;-)

[@LuxeLifeBizJulia]

Good to see introversion spoken of positively.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Julia - we have so many great qualities that are often overlooked.

[@gwenbaird7750]

This was brilliant Joanna! I can so relate to all that you said. Thank you!

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thank you for watching Gwen.

[@caitlinmaclaren3537]

I could totally relate from the get-go, which certainly had me chuckling and smiling. If only I could convey this to anyone who has criticised me in the past for my introversion (be it family or friends), not that I feel the need to, as this has made me feel at peace with my introverted nature, which I'll never alter for anyone. A highly professional talk, yet relatable and well-balanced. Well done Jo, a fabulous achievement. :-)

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Caitlin. I'm so pleased you're at peace with your introverted nature and even happier that you're not altering it.

[@JJ-qz5gv]

Sorted through many videos on this subject. FINALLY, I found your's. Thank you SO MUCH for the pace in which you delivered...leaving a pause at the end of your sentences giving time for the listener to process. Absolutely EXCELLENT delivery.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thank you so much for your feedback JJ

[@paulhornsey-pennell1931]

such a great talk on such an under-appreciated and essential topic that gives validation to millions of people who, often, think "there must be something wrong with me", when there isn't.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Paul

[@saraprice940]

Amazing talk. Very thought-provoking. Brilliant topic and a really important issue that needs to be tackled and understood.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Sara.

[@winglet2009]

This is amazing! Thank you so much for this presentation. You have inspired me to take your message and increase awareness of how it impacts so much of our lives.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks for leaving your comment Holly and for taking the message wider. Let me know if you need any other resources. You might like my podcast The Flourishing Introvert Talks.

[@talliemaughan2943]

Really important awareness to spread. Thank you

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Tallie

[@GANHEDDO]

Great video! Thanks Joanna 😊

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks

[@nicoladeverson1311]

A really thought provoking talk that all employers should listen to and act upon.

[@rebekahlamplough1177]

Such an interesting talk. We make assumptions all the time but usually incorrectly. This insight was really helpful.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thank you Rebekah

[@LyndaHolt_BraverLeaders]

Fantastic perspective on such an important subject, so often introversion can feel like a curse instead of a gift, and Joanna wise, honest and insightful talk had me laughing, relating and inspired. Whatever your introvert - extrovert preference, this is a really important talk to listen to if you want to connect well with others.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thank you Lynda

[@karenthompson1133]

Excellent topic to get out in the open, time for the introverts to be heard at last, well done Joanna

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Karen

[@alisonshadrackbrown216]

Fantastic talk Joanna and one that I hope will give everyone greater understanding of how people act and react differently to situations. Introverts have sooo many strengths (I should know), as do extroverts - they're just different. A savvy business would want both in their team. Interesting that you've identified 6 types of introverts - going to do your quiz to see which one I am.

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Alison - you so right in that savvy businesses value both!

[@carolinestrachan5906]

Thank you for being the voice of the introvert. great talk

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Caroline

[@christaylor751]

Hi Joanna...really enjoyed your talk..i'm intrigued your expression 'think - say - think'...It seems such a concise explanation of the way we introverts communicate....where does it come from?

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Mainly from my observations I think Chris. I have been studying this for a while, so I may also have picked it up from someone, somewhere along the line. Thanks for your feedback

[@katerina.johnson]

So interesting to hear how many different types of introverts there are... I think I might fit into one of those categories! Very thought-provoking talk!

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks Katerina. You're clearly an Engaging Introvert and more besides

[@lalatigers4166]

Fascinating and insightful talk, Loved it

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thanks LaLa ;-)

[@waz1272]

Excellent presentation

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

Thank you Stephon.

[@iswaryalakshmi528]

I m not happy with my own personality

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

There is no need to change your personality, but you can flourish as an introvert when you own your strengths.

[@snörre23]

I am quite ok with being a tongue tied loner, don't want to DO anything in the outside world.

[@smrutichandra4986]

Its really painful for being introverted

[@FlourishingIntroverts]

It need not be painful Smruti. Thanks for watching my talk and taking time to comment

[@smrutichandra4986]

@@FlourishingIntroverts I m always expected to be extrovert .. I m feeling guilty about my character