Having too many choices can be a problem.

[@Caffeinepapi713]

Smartest man in the room, wrong room.

[@heisenburg8608]

Every room has a smartest person, sometimes that smartest person is just there dropping seeds and giving yall some free knowledge then he’s off

[@secretsantaification]

I think it's a good idea to try to teach them something because they teach a lot of dudes the wrong thing right now

[@edbradley6815]

he walked in there willingly

[@Todo_fighting]

Absolutely.

[@mcmjr405]

Most well read man in the room… a book a day is advantageous more often than not.

[@apptrade]

Nature doesnt give a sh*t about culture. Well said.

[@user-vu9hb1qd8r]

That is so very true

[@shammybarn]

It actually does though culture would be part of your nurture. According to most researchers Chomsky being a prime example the two parts that comprise a human being are both nature (their genetics) and also nurture(how they are raised/ external stimulus)

[@squeekyclean1644]

@@shammybarnI agree but I think in his context he means “nature is Father Time, it doesn’t care if your culture has you searching for the best option, when time runs out nature is cruel”

[@rylosoter]

​@@shammybarnNature is literally different than nurture that's why one is called nature the other is nature

[@fach4422]

Yeah but obviously when he says nature, he's talking about Biology, meaning your biology doesn't care about you culture because at the end of the day if your culture leads you to not having kids and settling down, then that trait will not get passed down genetically ​@@shammybarn

[@stuartlawler2411]

He didnt even flinch through that insolent laughter...a big boy right here.

[@HK00088]

I respect this man he’s born in wrong generation

[@thomasspann8678]

My mom is messed up so I see nothing wrong with being messed up as well.

[@HK00088]

@@thomasspann8678 my moms messed up but idk

[@xxdarkson43]

Sigma shit

[@jayjayx5x1]

I don’t think you realise they weren’t laughing at Tai… They were laughing at her.

[@HapticFrequencies]

"Nature don't give AF about culture.." Brilliant

[@leveticus1461]

It was a dumb statement as its vice versa. Culture doesn't give a sh1t about nature.

[@merkretro629]

Yeah that was good for sure.

[@noneya1238]

Well, we live in civilization now, and many people are choosing to not have children.

[@kiaunte4]

Said that to like 10 people in the last 3 years, thanks.

[@Mobi_Beaming]

Sitting here with my lambo

[@davidperry4310]

That room was like a junior high class. One adult in the room.

[@devonwilliams2423]

I bet tais garage gets more puss than those guys lol

[@wondoxl4866]

Two including myron

[@davidperry4310]

@wondoxl4866 Myron is a bit childish too. But he makes a lot of sense!

[@csteph17]

Your childish as hell asserting how you feel . Being an adult is not a on a spectrum of how you feel theirs a definite age regardless of maturity.

[@JakeDaMistake]

@@davidperry4310Myron only 31. Crazy I thought he was in his 40’s

[@devlinn2797]

Notice how the idiots hosting the show think Tai is joking? It's because everything they say is meant to be an insult, but Tai came with real sources against a claim

[@fantomman3881]

I noticed you are a typical simp mate 😂 💯

[@Yaseen47]

LOLOL this is so wrong and its funny bc it sounds so right The ONLY book you need on the paradox of choice is called Feeling Is The Secret by Neville Goddard. Audiobook is on KZbin btw YW GL

[@crzxm]

They were not laughing at Tai. They laughed at the girl's crazy idea.

[@Thomas-ps9qk]

Because what he said is funny because it’s frank and quite rude. They’re right to laugh, and he did a good job going deeper. Imagine if someone said “I’ll just do drugs, my mom was a drug addict and she’s fine” And your response is “dang, being an addy is genetic”

[@sibusiso2841]

To be fair, "its genetic" in this context sounded funny. We can be humorous while addressing real subjects but I get what you saying

[@choncha23]

My mom is single too. She is an immigrant from Mexico. Growing up, she used to talk so much shit about Men. The independent stuff and boss babe stuff. Today, she is 70 years old and is all alone. I married and made my life. She lives by herself barely scraping by, and she tells me how she regrets not marrying. It’s one thing saying I will be single when you have your youth. When you are old and sitting in an apartment alone until the holidays come around is a different type of realization.

[@JNAMOTORSPORTS]

Same shit my mom did and what’s stupider. She kept relying on my dad who wasn’t worth a shit and kept having kids with a abuser and when I ask her “why” and then I ask her “ why did you miss treat me for being a boy and a man with me also defending and taking your side and then you send me to be with him when you knew what he was” then she claims it’s my fault, doesn’t know how babies were made, it’s his fault he did use condemns, I ask when “ after the 2nd fucken kid you couldn’t figure out what a condemn was or be on birth control? I never get any real answers from either of them. What I’ve learned is they are both insane and they are both totally miserable morons and we suffered from adults who couldn’t be responsible or decent human beings and no, no one was a drunk, and no one was on drugs. These are totally sober people which makes it worse.

[@thecasualatvguy617]

Your mom and the girls mom kn tje video need to get together. The girl in the video can go along and make sure the cats don't eat em

[@popwayneful]

Sheesh this is sad, I’m happy for you but man do these single older women need to speak up so the younger women don’t fall for the same trap. I’m convinced since they aren’t it’s because misery loves company

[@deekaysky]

Children either blindly follow their parents example or they learn what to do and NOT to do from their parents experiences, my father was an alcoholic and seeing him like that I chose to give up drinking

[@rndmusrnm2763]

You can be widowed any day though. If you’re marrying just not be alone on the holidays then you’re doing it for the wrong reasons. I’m not anti-marriage either. But it’s better to be single your whole life then marry when you’re emotionally immature/haven’t found a reliable partner.

[@gatesraby6744]

That explains so much. My mother was single, meaning she heard her mom talk trash about men her whole life, made bad choices in men like her mother, and agreed with her mother because they can't figure out thar accountability in their choice.

[@hunterhendrix5301]

weird way of saying your mom was a sheep and chose to blindly follow your idiotic grandmother’s ideals.

[@kissmygrits001]

“ I got 13 lambos but u know what I value more…. THIS BOOK SHELF 😤”

[@LUIGIRACER69]

Hahah

[@tommywap0923]

He wasn’t lying 🤷🏽‍♂️😂

[@theorignalmartian1261]

You just brought back a lost memory

[@DrewChainsTV]

OG

[@bullseyebulldog8001]

Is this the same guy?

[@Curdledmayonnaise]

"one of my mentors" - tai lopez

[@DaPhreshestKidd]

I think that for any book he reads, he calls the author a mentor, because they taught him something. I doubt he met and studied all these people. Its a way to make himself look more important by association i guess

[@moritzkorsch9029]

​@@infalliblegodthat's literally what he admitted to doing.

[@bigdog4166]

​@@moritzkorsch9029the only valuable info tai lopez has ever given was completely for free and it was how to find the golden nuggets in a book that is trying to teach you something so you could get past the fluff that's written to fill the rest of the pages and get to the lessons and learning

[@RobertGillontheinterweb]

Knowing the best quotes from the key books is the way all these influencers work. Look at the new ones like Hormozi, he hasn’t had an original thought in his life, but is full of amazing quotes from others so sounds great

[@princemezi3704]

KNOWLEDGE

[@dontworryitsdi]

my mom was a single mom, shes always trying to convince me i could leave at any time and 'do better' than my husband. I don't listen to my mom 🤷🏻‍♂️ i love my husband

[@SwaggDollazZ]

Thank god

[@LvLocks1915]

Unless he's making you miserable I see no reason to separate, it's only sad when you wake up miserable because you are next to this person but you don't want to be alone so you stick around.

[@diannahoffman5919]

U are an intelligent woman. 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@diannahoffman5919]

​@LvLocks1915 W r o n g.... Marriage ISNT about FEELINGS.... Its about COMMITMENT.

[@LvLocks1915]

@@diannahoffman5919 Wow your life is/ is going to be awful if you stick around just because of commitment while you are miserable day in and day out. There's absolutely nothing wrong with divorcing someone if they make you feel like shit.

[@Bravybrown]

Knowledge changed my life literally, even started thinking more appropriately after realizing my ways were misguided. For not having any parents I'm lucky to have realized this.

[@skaterzero07]

How’d you get in and make the habit

[@Bravybrown]

@@skaterzero07 Made enough mistakes to know they weren't getting me anywhere, realization is a great attunement to have if your lucky enough.

[@erikaw8077]

This statement was the realest!! I felt it for sure!! Knowledge is power and you got it!!

[@ghslhgk1234]

Tai has a book for everything

[@meganreger6942]

That’s because he reads!!!! 😂😂❤

[@JTD33]

KNOWLEDGE

[@Fr0styJade]

Well… there is a book for every thing on this planet so

[@YourTruthIsALie]

​@@tahmnkenchfr only broke mfs don't read lmao

[@kazaiza6405]

I love that book about a Lamborghini in a garage 😂

[@roadtosucessroadtosucess8405]

VERY VERY TRUE. Learned it the hard way. Wen u feel like u have a lot of choices. U act like it. And it causes u to loose the one choice that cared for u

[@user-wu1gm8xz9u]

😔

[@kejadventures241]

Letting this loser tell you anything would make you worthless.

[@Freddielounds-1790]

You not u.

[@TT-vx2wr]

And people wonder why in the world of online dating, more people are single! Especially women! Because they see unlimited perceived options!

[@alexlilano1931]

I acutally think it is online dating. My friend literally spam the same thing to all girls, literally all girls, even the old and ugly ones to get more responses. These women think they have a lot of choices when their inbox is literally filled with spam, but most of these men arent acutally interested. My friend went on two dates and said the girls are not as pretty as their pictures. He deleted the app because he met some crappy women on it. He literally told his friend to call him to get him out of the date. I also went on a date with a girl and she isnt pretty. I can feel she think she has more option than she does. She actually broke it off which is okay. I wasnt in to her too. I'm married with a kid and she is still online dating in her late 30s.

[@adrianhartanto5243]

That's the knowledge we need

[@devinmortier5269]

Honestly impressed, first man I’ve seen where they weren’t trying to interrupt him the entire time

[@paultexasusa1366]

Tai just out classed the room so hard…

[@toolstechgadgets]

Tai is a knowledge freaky genius 👏

[@B00nater]

@@toolstechgadgetsnot at all he just reads books, I guess being able to read quantifies you as a genius now 😂

[@Martyr217]

I said this at work when I was about 24 years old, someone said I was the smartest person he knows in the canteen with about 8 people at our table and I just said I'm not that smart I just read and watch shit loads of documentaries on history because like a lot of things it repeats.

[@dabsmoothbeats1174]

@@B00naterWhat about Tai would make him not a genius? Enlightenment is please.

[@moosehead4497]

Or he just pulled something out of his ass because it was on his mind and very questionable if it's related to her having a genetic trait

[@microwaveoven9170]

I think more people need to realize that having a lasting relationship means finding somebody who may not be the most perfect person you've ever met, but they're someone who shows you that they can work with you to build a beautiful relationship. It's not about finding "the one", but about realizing that they can be if you give them time. It doesn't mean you have to settle for mediocre and hope that they turn out right for you, you should still look for red flags and know that when the other person stops working on your relationship then you need to reevaluate and/or call it quits too. Just remember, when it comes to problems in your relationship it's not you vs your partner, it's you and your partner versus the problem.

[@BillyBob-oi9kl]

Agreed. But as a man reading these comments piss me off. A lot of these guys can't get girls, so they pretend that they'd be prince charming if only they were given the chance. Meanwhile, the more likely scenario is that if they'd have options they'd act just like the people that they crucify.

[@felishaenriquez9963]

Just wanted to let you know I really loved your comment. Wish more people thought this way.

[@TheFlowZoneX]

Best comment I've ever read on YT. Brilliant. Thank you

[@jasmineroberts6034]

Fax

[@Bronco4eva]

Me and my lady been together for almost 7 years and you got it down to a T. Very well-versed ,there will always be hiccups and bumps in the road but it’s a matter of communication and how you handle it together is how you grow!

[@bigguy2128]

"My momma was cursed. I'll just remain cursed"

[@neurogal]

Being alone isn’t always a curse

[@honestreviews1203]

Some people are just truly happy by themselves.

[@GORILLA_PIMP]

Oh hell yeah!! The LESS im around other people the BETTER i feel!!!

[@DustinLee2001]

The sadness in her eyes tho, she dont look happy by herself while she says it is all Im sayin.

[@Geisla54]

@@DustinLee2001bro she’s like 14

[@SandiegoRockstar]

​@Geisla54 she's at least 18. And her face can't lie like her mouth does.

[@theedwardian]

This is a cope. Humans don't need to socialize but they need at least one other person in their lives to remain sane and motivated. Naturally this means a partner, and later in life children and grandchildren.

[@zenden6564]

"nature doesn't give a shit, you gotta pop them out" --- brutally true 👍

[@vsmith6109]

Still gotta be smart and choose someone reliable, comfortable sober, kind, and stable emotionally. Gotta choose wisely or else single mom with regret. Choosing for better? Well financially well off and healthy is also important choices. A broke guy would require a partnership in finances so working soon after a baby is born and relying on someones mom during work days. Then financial struggles is hard. Healthy also means she doesnt have to stress on him and the baby.

[@IluvAmerica]

Not every woman wants children or cares

[@jessemockler616]

​@IluvAmerica feminist enters chat

[@IluvAmerica]

@@jessemockler616 if by feminist you mean supports equal rights, consequences and wanting equality socially then yes. I personally do not want children.

[@ultragrapple6565]

​That's great, it will end with you. We don't need more people with that shit mindset, ignoring your biology and purpose in life is up to you, but having kids is the most important thing you can ever do. ​@@IluvAmerica

[@1TightMinute]

The paradox of choice, the more choices you have the harder time you will have deciding and the less satisfied you will be with your decision. People were talking about this twenty years ago. It looks like it’s making a comeback now.

[@Tamous214]

Folks. Listen, process, and use information. But just live your life. If it's not applicable, move on. Dont settle for a relationship just because you think it's the best you're gonna get. And dont leave a relationship just because you think you can find someone better. Staying single isn't a bad thing, and wanting a partner isn’t wrong either. But you should be comfortable in either state. Make improvements to your life, become the person who deserves the perfect partner, and somewhere along the way, you just might find one.

[@wrapitupcokey8556]

looks like we have a maximizer

[@Tamous214]

@wrapitupcokey8556 yes. I am.

[@Maverick.D.]

He is actually right, and this is something I realized as I got older.

[@alejandroleonardo7963]

The laughing stopped when the logic started

[@fatboynip]

Ya wtf were they even laughing? They did t even know what they were laughing at, what did they think he said? Lol

[@statik47]

​@Ieattoomuch it's called being immature / a man child. Check out Dr Jordan Petersons college lecture on Peter Pan.

[@aldomedina7999]

The laughing stoped cause they wanted him to finish his thought loser 😂 without being interrupted

[@KenTheAdventurer]

As long as people who would be bad parents don't have kids then being single is a good choice

[@dabsmoothbeats1174]

There are literally millions of successful adults that contributed greatly to the world, who had “bad parents.”

[@Applleheead]

Exactly, some people don't even want kids. Most people.on this channel seem to be very narrow minded. I'd rather be an alone maximiser than a miserable settler. I also don't think I have a lot of choice but I still accept not to settle. Men seem.to.struggle.with this concept.

[@TheTyrial86]

​@@Applleheead You don't settle because of your own personal issues. Having children is the reason you exist. We exist for that reason. All being single and not producing children does is make you a consumer. All you will do is consume, and everything you build will get returned to the state. Your wealth, time, energy, experiences. All will die with you... That sounds horrible. I have two kids, by the way. We were put here to build a better world for our children.

[@heisenburg8608]

@@dabsmoothbeats1174that’s not the point bro, the point is don’t make the world harder than it is. If you give your kids trauma then you’re just giving the future world trauma and giving your kids a disadvantage. Yeah we all suffer but is it necessary to add to that? No.

[@Applleheead]

@@TheTyrial86 I have four, some people can't have any. Life is varied.

[@meoshewu]

That woman is right. People will limit their choices.

[@tyroneabram7764]

Pac Man found a new lane. Good for him. 👍

[@theedwardian]

That's Manny Pacquiao? I knew looked familiar. Good for him, he looks taller in a suit.

[@jamesm5192]

Tai's mentors are warring in his head all day

[@codythep]

Brutally true, I’d wager.

[@SharkAcademy]

Maximizes are also never happy with what they have even when they find what they thought they were looking for, then they realize it hasn’t made them happy so they think the answer is that they need more. This is not only for partners, but also lifestyle, career, etc. They’re always chasing that thing they think will make them happy once they get it and can never be content/happy

[@firstnamelastname5950]

Thank you. Great observation

[@bestintrest3270]

As a maximizer myself I’ll tell you there’s a spectrum and rational thinking does play a role it’s not necessarily Always to the extreme as one might think

[@jonaya9944]

Can you return to us when you are 20 years older with an update?​@@firstnamelastname5950

[@marcrose3403]

@@bestintrest3270 you are truly not one then

[@TommyOhmalley]

Yeah that hit home. I now think I’m a maximizer. Granted I know life is finite so I do settle but I do find myself always wanting the best. Difficult to settle

[@tmptre]

Of course "look at my Lamborghini" Lopez brings up a book

[@Mysteriouslyhidden7]

My mother‘s been married my entire life & she still is.. I feel the exact same way this girl does and I’m not looking for the best. I’m looking for authentic, decent and honest.. That’s like trying to find a needle in a haystack. 💚💚

[@MussaKZN]

The Only one in the room that’s read a book with hard covers..

[@FOH45]

one was homeland, u think anyone gets in there without reading? 🤣

[@Xzsxztreiii]

Name 10

[@drokhalis3338]

Hey I save money buying the floppy cover textbooks in college.

[@kimmieutsunomiya1457]

@@FOH45people that work in government bureaus aren’t that smart. They also look at you as if you’re strange when you want to do extra hours

[@OGBACKFIN]

Indeed 👌 well stated...hard covers. Imma remember that one

[@level10protools11]

Tai read that book in 30 seconds in his garage. 😂

[@stonedan0]

She looked so sad and resentful while she was saying it

[@michaelkelly5356]

The one woman not laughing at him looking directly at him listening to

[@KikiNation1]

I like Tai’s response here

[@willspeakman2461]

She said she will stay single whats wrong with that? I'd happily be single for the rest of my life.

[@PhilipPaxton]

She was on the verge of tears.

[@magneto44]

better to be alone forever than be with the wrong person

[@GORILLA_PIMP]

AMEN TO THAT!!!

[@bongwater2482]

Then you will not reproduce and spread those genes. Simple as.

[@Nikolebichon]

You’re the wrong person if that’s the case. Life’s a mirror.

[@kazzykaioken8873]

Yep u and the other million people who became incels from watching youtube shorts can all be lonely forever watching porn im sure u love it

[@myexistenceoffendsmany...329]

This whole "wrong person" trope has got people, especially young women, convinced that if the person they are with isn't perfect, according to their standards, then they are the "wrong person". There definitely are many cases of people just not working well together. And that's understandable. But now it seems to me that these people just don't want to actually try and get closer, more real. An unwillinglyness to put in some work. The honeymoon phase of the relationship ends, life gets real, and they bail.

[@75starky]

One of the best episodes of fnf for real. Class was in session on this one.

[@jasonkolde99]

I just ordered it on Amazon. Thanks

[@ranranpoopants]

Why would you want to learn about that. It’s for females with problems lmao

[@GelatoooBuzzz]

Knowledge should be tattooed across this man’s forehead

[@DanielRamosss]

Hahaha Tai is a legend for real 😂

[@patrickking9600]

“Here in my garaaaaaaage” 😂

[@T_DoGo]

Never ending cycle single moms raising single moms

[@Todo_fighting]

Even if shen wasn't raised by her mother should would still inherit mother's emotional traits.

[@alexanderwolfgang3571]

​@@Todo_fightingbut, alsp.be indoctrinated by Jewish America.

[@l.l.8022]

never ending cycle fathers bailing in their children

[@boringnames6920]

Never the father's fault somehow. Men avoid responsibility for everything nowadays.

[@mimigemini1633]

I wonder where the deadbeat fathers are to stop the cycle.

[@annaleevalfig1119]

I’m definitely a satisfier for the exact reasons he mentions at the end 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@philipbaville8213]

In many businesses and fields they will often refer to this as paralysis by analysis. When you have too many options and choices you will fail to make any choice because you’re too concerned with making the wrong choice. It has fully manifested itself in the dating habits of both men and women resulting in the ultra chads/tyrones and the hoeflated women. The greatest strength of humans, is making a choice and finding the joys in that choice whatever it is instead of looking at the potential joys in a choice you didn’t make.

[@jusjay3834]

Man this is law

[@cfry3636]

Lol this happens to me at the dispensary they have too many strains to choose from and for some reason i just end up getting the same stuff cause I know its good.

[@zairmorningstarmusic]

Infinity

[@jeffmonroe6317]

My trucks oil pump went out and it was beyond my ability to fix... but I knew it was fixable. So I borrowed a car for awhile and bought a new truck. My dad's over one day and I pull up and he's been talking to the neighbor and they ambush me about "what would you sell this for?" It wasn't hurting anybody, just sitting in the driveway. But I gave it up. The neighbors dad took it, fixed it, now every so often I see it parked over there and get sad.

[@Salikuthikamini94]

Doesn't always mean they want better - a lot of women dont want to settle for men who will mistreat them and theres nothing wrong with that.

[@akashajones6079]

Exactly

[@user-ry8ms5sq9p]

Now and days a woman want that guy they find attractive even if they get treated like crap

[@tristanbain6130]

When they attract a richer guy, suddenly their man is "mistreating" them😂😂. They never leave B4 tho...that's the most bs shit n they think ppl can't see thru it.

[@user-ry8ms5sq9p]

@@tristanbain6130 you know what's crazy women love to manipulate but for some reason they are terrible at it their lies is so much so obvious it's true only the one's in love will fall for the lies so they won't feel so hurt

[@marqueslabbe1105]

They've all dated bums!

[@Led_Zeppole]

As someone who owns a retail store, He is 100% without a doubt correct. Mid pandemic when nothing was available, everything was selling. The second product started flowing back in all of a sudden we didn't have what people were looking for. It eventually might even itself out, but people just seem so lost. They dont even know what they're looking for they just know its not that

[@Youtubeuser1aa]

I don’t know if there is causation there

[@Marloelizabeth.-.]

R u smoking bruddy

[@krystalirene8360]

If I wanted to be plain and simple, I would agree with this man.

[@sandman9861]

lets see how well this age when you become a cat lady..

[@honestgabe.]

That was such a refreshing thing to hear.

[@DJDaddyAbraham]

I remember telling my neices and nephews that they don't "have" to get married .. and my sister (3 times divorced😒), getting SO pissed at me cause of it

[@user-wu1gm8xz9u]

And you were just trying to comfort them with that knowledge, so they don’t feel pressured to get in a relationship. Then of course, someone needs to budge in and try and tell them otherwise, in this case it was your sister. Who as you said, is 3 times divorced, but for some reason she still believes that marriage is essential. Like, okay, then why haven’t you achieved marriage yourself yet if it’s so essential? Lol, sums society up perfectly.

[@malachirobinson7323]

​@@user-wu1gm8xz9uMaybe because she's broken and needs to fix herself first but at least she's trying, one day you will see dying alone is not preferable. No kids don't count they leave you too when they grow up except now your kids are damaged because you have never displayed a healthy relationship to them like this poor young girl in the short.

[@user-gz2qn3su5v]

Lotta ppl won't get to know someone. Count your blessings if you can find someone you can imagine the rest of your life with.

[@garrettingram4494]

Bro really just said “some people settle some people don’t” no shit lol

[@manfrombritain6816]

incredible that tai has managed to claw himself back into gifting

[@VBTB]

Knowledge 📖

[@billyyager]

Needed to hear this as im turning 29 this month but have been stuck the past 3 years deciding what pathway in life to choose. What city would be the best, what kind of career do i want and how should occupy my time etc.. I have so many choices that I'm stuck. Its weird.

[@darrend2035]

Billy if your ever in a spot where your stuck then try to read books , books that help educate you and open your mind to new ideas ,

[@carlfrye1566]

Casinos turn 99% of people into maximizers. Go in with $1,000, run it up to $5,000, lose it all trying to make $20,000.

[@GORILLA_PIMP]

Gonna be hard if you aren't very smart though

[@kennethmaye]

You’re young, be patient…..unsolicited advice from a 39 year old who’s changing careers…..lead with security first, find a trade that you could become certified in that will make a decent amount of money that will stabilize your life. That could help you find a city of your choice to move to. Then find out what your real passion is and work on that behind the scenes while you’re making money through the temporary career until your real passion is able to take over financially. Remember you’re not stuck you’re in a transitional crossroad of “it’s time to make a decisive path”. You got this💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💯💯💯💯

[@Liv-qi8dp]

I just turned 29 too and I feel like im doing life wrong cause im single and never had a kid,

[@TheRealMusic4Life]

"Nature don't give a shit about culture" is str8 BARS 💯💯💯

[@TopGRick]

She gives “MA GRANDMA RAIISSEED MEEE” vibes😂

[@shanshackyloveduck]

It is hard to raise children by yourself. One of my friends said "oh I will just get a donor and get pregnant that way. I don't need a man." I had to have some tough conversations with her. I am a concerned friend. A child needs so much emotional support and guidance. It is harder to supplement that. You have to work harder as a single mom.

[@firstnamelastname5950]

Yes. Yes. Yes. If your conversation happened more often. Maybe people would be more considerate about being parents instead of being selfish about wanting kids.

[@quadaar1017]

Facts Truth

[@Epiphemma]

@@quadaar1017I’m a single mom. It’s not that hard, I actually kinda like it. Men can be really difficult to put up with, but I love being with my child. And I’m not working hard, I work part time. I see some married women working harder than me.. and some of them, their husband is basically another child they have to take care of, lol. I never imagined I would enjoy being a single mom but it happened.

[@user-oo8wf9gq6r]

​@Epiphemma good for you, your child can be the next generation of single people

[@legallybored8876]

As someone who comes from a single mother and am not pregnant but married , I do not know how people do it on their own. Pregnancy alone takes so much energy from you , always feeling sick and sometimes not even being able to do things for yourself. I really don’t know how anyone does this on their own and it’s not meant to be something to be done on your own either.

[@koimama]

truthfully women can birth healthy babies in healthy pregnancies later in years than ppl think. they must be healthy obviously but it’s still true. i nannied for women who had babies in their 40’s everyone was doing amazingly. there are still aspects of truth in what he’s saying or getting at. and she’s still right to never settle. she’s clearly in her 20’s she has time.

[@Marloelizabeth.-.]

These people aren’t rational and aren’t worth the effort

[@neurogal]

Yes this is true! These shows make it seem like women all need to “pop em out” by like 23 or something 😭🙄

[@trombonefellow]

Every woman won't have that luxury, there is a reason it's generally considered a High Risk Pregnancy. She may not have time either because men are just as right not to settle for her when shes in her 30s or 40s.

[@makeshiftusec992]

But also I must add that it is dangerous

[@darkmidnight818]

It's more risky

[@Peterblack12]

Wow that was some KNOWLEDGE. Did he read about that in his garage

[@calebriley7466]

She seems so happy to talk about how single she is😂

[@jacobwilson9099]

It dont gotta be perfect just compatible

[@Jonnisftw]

The only one in the room that read 10 books

[@america268]

That's what I say about online dating. Too many choices. Meet one woman you like and then tomorrow you meet another one and you like her just as much or more and then another one contacts you and you think you might like her more.

[@koacast2016]

She sounded so proud of that statement and said it with call confidence like she accomplished something 😂💀

[@EuropeanColonizer]

1. Give women unrealistic expectations 2. Real men fail said expectations 3. Create a group of forever single women

[@Mo-sk7xo]

it's the 21st century during the social media age.....everyone has unrealistic expectations.....she like 20 the mf hosting this show is unmarried and double her age because of his unrealistic expectations....He seems more forever single than her....Perhaps Men and Women are like that

[@Todo_fighting]

What you said is true, but what he says is also true, our parents pass us more than physical traits.

[@JesusRodriguez-ot7eu]

This also works the other way around.

[@ladybug3380]

Men are the ones who gave women unhealthy expectations through books, movies and social programming. They had to do that because of women knew the true nature of men they wouldn’t get chosen. So men had to pretend to make themselves a desirable mate so he can get her pregnant. Nature is wild!!

[@mclwhite5289]

@blueberrypancakes4380 single women are the worst kind of poison to women in a relationship. I thought misery loves company is just a corny line but its absolute accurate reality.

[@DGaimazz]

I’m not a feminist or anything but don’t ever let anyone make you feel you need them to be happy. If marriage is so great please explain divorce rate being higher than staying together. Find someone that you can be happy with. Not your source of happiness…

[@firstnamelastname5950]

I hate to say it. But you're right about the divorce rate. I mean, im a man. I've been approached by 2 women who were married. 1. i dont count as heavily as the other. The 1 was literally (we had a kid by accident and were trying to make it better, and this was the wisest decision for us) the other... im wondering if she is a maximizer. So anyhoo, even if 50% are together. That doesn't mean those 50% are even close to rock solid as relationships. I dont believe a lot of people realize or care or think of another person. And any level and dont care.... I hate finding shit like this video. Not because of the information. But it helps me understand how i may be fucked. If i am lucky MAYBE ill find someone to love me .... but the evidence in the U.S.A. doesnt give me much hope. Ive wondered a lot if i should travel for love. Lol! 😛

[@NightWolf-vv5me]

You are so correct. Yes you have to find happiness first within and then be happy together with someone.

[@guyjoslin7682]

Weak minded people is the cause of divorce.

[@Nobody-vr5nl]

Marriage is a weird trap to me. Sign a contract to commit? That's a weird thing to do for love. If ur committed, ur committed. No reason to bring law into the equation.

[@lifestyleeyebyneguibshaban5910]

​@@firstnamelastname5950 because we tend to listen more to others advice,forgetting that we are different..Lower your expectations and learn to improve yourself and your patner..Nothing is perfect...I know this is my truth even if i don't feel satisfied with it.

[@ZotoZen]

And she said it out loud too, speaking into existence

[@aviedw1]

Notice the joke didn't deter him. He was trying to make a point. He's def in the wrong room.

[@Artfulmisfit777]

They should make her repeat that 3x you will literally be able to see hurt and pain that comes with delusion and internal shame.

[@jichaelmorgan3796]

Often, people are more likely to relax, stop resisting, and give it up after they feel supported/accepted as they are, rather than shamed and pressured.

[@vsmith6109]

Then ask the question why is it safer to be single? Do you believe you dont deserve love? Do you fear rejection after someone used you long enough? Do you fear an unsafe home with a mean guy after you devoted yourself to them? Its safer to be single right or just in situationships where you never have to rely on anyone or be hurt by them? What if you can be loved? You deserve love and someone to rely on. When you find them... hold on to them and dont let fear keep you single and miserable. She will break down then with that truth.

[@user-ry8ms5sq9p]

​@@vsmith6109if the person is sleeping around that's not single that doesn't count

[@neurogal]

Weirdo

[@suzannehofer2541]

I call bullshit! Every relationship I’ve ever been in I have been used they’ve become successful at my expense. I am better off being single emotionally, physically and financially!

[@ianpaterson6111]

Sorry things have gone badly for you. What would you say is the coman factor in all the relationships you have been in?

[@calebmoyer3456]

If its EVERY relationship, you're the problem. You're the one choosing these people

[@bigbob3772]

Females are unfit to properly select a mate. FATHERS job.@@calebmoyer3456

[@firstnamelastname5950]

​@@calebmoyer3456 not fully fair. Being a person who has had similar experiences. Yes and no. Setting bounderies and finding out if a person can respect you AND have conversations would be a great way to start vetting people. To bad MOST people are about what they get rather then what they give. THAT is a problem. And if you have to set boundaries for such problems. THEN is a decision on your part whether you want to deal with these type of consequences. Because you can NOT just put up with something from someone. There is a LOT of nuances to relationships with humans. BUT they are also simple. Yay human paradoxes! Lol

[@lightwork5414]

Ur bad jusdge of character youll learn its life

[@smevox7490]

Product of a single parent. Explains a lot

[@NewWarOrder]

Homie has a lot of mentors

[@dyllonbroyles5447]

Shitting the bed isn’t better than not shitting the bed, you don’t have to act just because everyone else is, if you have standards and they’re high then so be it that’s the point I’m willing to take time to make sure things are done right than rush in and do them wrong and if someone doesn’t complement my life accordingly then I can’t give it any time or energy you can’t bash someone because they have standards high or low

[@MrAntbluntfreaks]

She's #delusional

[@GearZNet]

Bashings not the point. And, at the end of the day the mother did pick she just didn't/couldn't keep the pick around. The mom got pregnant by someone and raised his seed. 😅

[@dyllonbroyles5447]

@@GearZNet so, again I’m pretty sure your shit smells like shit just like everyone you can’t bash people because they made different fucked up choices than yours, as a society bashing one another instead of helping and forgiving one another is why we are failing

[@noellburnett5697]

​@@GearZNethis "seed"!?!? Dude u sound like such a degen rn

[@jonaya9944]

Sure...while you have time to be picky but eventually the day comes when being too picky means being alone and it's too late.

[@svetikchum6988]

Picky is not the same as not tolerating disrespectful or icky men, whose going to say no to a man they love that treats them well

[@user-ox8dd8mu7u]

Smartest man in that room. Tries to say something important and everyone laughs

[@AmoraEssentials]

Absolute Facts!!!! Thank you for this. I am sure she appreciated it just as much 😊

[@mandysaied]

Men can be like this too. My ex is a great example. And now he’s 32 & hasn’t dated anyone since me.. 7 years. But he thought he would find “better”. It was too late when he realized he couldn’t. I hope he finds love and has a family someday. And I hope he treasures and holds on to her.

[@GORILLA_PIMP]

He obviously WANTS to be single You seriously don't realize that?

[@aldomedina7999]

@@GORILLA_PIMPher cope 😂

[@hdfjg]

why didn't you try for it?

[@mandysaied]

@@hdfjg I did. I was so in love with him. He broke my heart slept with a girl I thought was my best friend and continued leading me on while flirting with other girls essentially looking for another girl. I straight up moved 1/2 way across the country to get over him. And when I was ready to come back it was my ex before him who was still in love with me who put in all the effort to drive and get me. He is also much more stable financially and wasn’t into partying.. little bit older and ready to create a life together VS where are we gonna party next. It was actually he who didn’t try.. and what’s sad is that all those friends he was into dj’ing and going to music festivals with secretly decided to move to a new apartment without him and tell him last minute forcing him to move back to his hometown. He’s been there ever since. It’s sad he deserves to have the wife and family I know he has always dreamed of. He would be a great dad & husband. He wasn’t very financially stable when I knew him, but when you’re young and in love you don’t care about that. Little different in your 30’s tho. Especially if you have high standards for appearance like he does.

[@Mia15239]

Maybe he is happier being single than being with you… really ego-maniacal and kinda humiliating to think it’s all about him losing something. Maybe he gained back his life/sanity/peace.

[@cixavenue]

“Pop them out?” this generation of woman have watched their mother struggle with trying to balance both, money is more important, because men dont stick around to help raise them. this is what is truly happening. They sat 2 men with means, talking about the biggest societal problem they have no first hand knowledge about

[@harshityadav4574]

I agree with what you're trying to say. Money and becoming self dependent should be prioritised over starting a family

[@neurogal]

Agreed

[@kardz1848]

Never thought id have more respect for this guy than anyone else in the room. But here we are.

[@thomasgreene8043]

Basically he’s saying settle for less like me hahaha

[@zali6370]

Tai didn't even say it to insult her, just spitting facts

[@jdlk-ny5yo]

The girl is right, never settle.

[@jdlk-ny5yo]

@@tahmnkench take a break from the manosphere bro, everyone is entitled to choose their partner.

[@jdlk-ny5yo]

@@tahmnkench there are many 2 parent families that do a terrible job of raising their kids. There are many single parents who do a great job of raising their kids. This manosphere stuff is BS

[@panama2468]

What a ridiculous mindset.

[@jdlk-ny5yo]

@@panama2468 settling is for losers, not big strong alpha males like you

[@cheesetomeetyou]

@@panama2468It's not. Settling is like asking for a future divorce

[@daseansuper]

Dude was educating and they thought he was throwing a sarcastic insult..

[@MikeJSilva]

Everyone laugh but stop instantly as soon they realize he wasn't joking with a great explanation.

[@BigMoneyBaby]

Women have the power. She is correct. Stay single, baby girl. STAY SINGLE ❤❤❤❤

[@livewutangclan]

You having a power struggle is the issue. No man is telling yall to protest. it's a inferiority complex.

[@BigMoneyBaby]

@livewutangclan You are projecting. Not my problem. I have the power, no struggle needed. Men are off the table for good. I will adopt 10 cats before I get married again.

[@livewutangclan]

@@BigMoneyBaby The most high has all the power, and he designed you to be with man. You are operating outside of your creators design with these delusions which would lead to perversions such denouncing men for life. Grow, mature, heal. one man shouldn't have the "power" to be able to turn you away from God's plan.

[@BigMoneyBaby]

@livewutangclan My creator made me whole and complete. No man needed. I am the daughter of Love. Mother Nature is God to us small beings on Earth. Argue with your God, not me. #NoMenAllowed

[@livewutangclan]

@@BigMoneyBaby God bless you. God made both women and man with the same intent. to obey his commandments and multiply; and the only way you can procreate is with a man. you can't go against your own nature and believe god is on your side.... wake up lady. you're driving yourself into delusion. I wish you well.

[@thatcitrusfriend6234]

She's not wrong though... sometimes children having a shitty parent is worse than not having one at all.

[@eldamion4515]

She was bout to cry saying that

[@lifegrowth8295]

She said that with so much fear doubt and disgust in her heart, concerning the actual reality that she may have to live this life alone. Not realizing the only thing holding her back from her own happiness may be her own stubbornness.

[@chelseybarden998]

But statistics show single women are happier in most cases. Each to their own. It doesn’t make you ignorant or inadequate. Most men lack discipline & will cheat & believe that’s acceptable. I’m sensitive & could never handle that. I’d rather end up alone than feel constantly back stabbed by the person I love the most. Again, each to their own.

[@JonJones1776]

Can you give me that source???

[@StrBLADEDing]

Single women are happier bc they still have dudes around them so they get the benefits of being single while still recieving affection from the opposite sex…. Everyone wants to be their own person, but still feel loved…and the only group of people who experience that are single woman…bc woman are shown love regardless, men aren’t. And a married woman isn’t free like a single woman even though she has the same “feeling” of love as a single woman gets. So no duh a single woman is happier, they get both sides of the coin without the consequences

[@PettyCrochet]

Single women also tend to live longer. Which is a statistic I never see addressed on these podcasts

[@austinkesler4493]

Then why do women always jump from relationship to relationship if they are so happy? I feel bad for some of you if you think your truly happier single because that means you’ve never experienced a healthy true love.

[@austinkesler4493]

@blueberrypancakes4380 anecdotal evidence yes from my life experience. I have never personally seen a woman younger then forty leave a relationship to not immediately start dating and hooking up again. It’s kind of sad really, yes some men do it too but it is just easier for women so I think that is a large part of the reason.

[@NYCBJP]

This goes for both men and women. Some people are just never satisfied then get mad when they are single or only get hookups. No one wants someone they don’t feel safe with

[@jerrydegennaro273]

In decision.👍 Sometimes you have to find out what you don't want before you find out what you really want.🤔

[@johnendalk6537]

I want a real emotional connection or none at all. I will not settle. I'd rather be alone than with someone that makes me feel alone.

[@mistresscalytrix]

Never settle, even if it means you stay single and happy, never settle for someone who isn’t what you want. That goes for all people. No onward should settle for someone they don’t want to truly be with just to not be alone.

[@lightwork5414]

Settling is only not being able to recognise the two aspects that matters most, attraction and good character, everything else can be worked on but people want ready made everything when they aint shit, if ur not willing to give u don't deserve to get. They focusing on bullshit and confused why they feel the other gender ain't shit, theyre just shit choosers.

[@andyguido7771]

Staying single inevitably will mean ur lack happiness. Saying staying single an happy shows u have the wrong mindset. Maybe u have unrealistic expectations. “Nothing sadder than an outside cat that thinks it’s an inside one” Keep preaching that shit tho an spread that unhappiness of being lonely…bc misery loves company . And if less people r in relationships than u look more normal being all alone. It’s natural to pair up, stop spreading that BS because u r incapable or choose not to

[@NattyByNature-]

I’d rather be single and happy than settling and miserable or unfulfilled.

[@dashed0327]

​@@andyguido7771 no you can look it up, being able to be alone and happy shows a lack of need for outside validation. If you prioritize relationships over everything its because you feel a void within youself that you want someone else to fill.

[@Rivracost3]

This is more true for men than women. Women tend to have active intimate social circles that allow them to maintain good mental health and avoid loneliness even when single. Men tend to only open up and emotionally supported by the women in their lives (mom and wife pretty much). Nobody wants to grow old without a partner but even worse than that is growing old with a partner you don't really want.

[@thechampb12345]

Nah we all have endless options in life and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. It's only the people who are insecure with their own lives, with minimal options, that try to make you choose. Insecure people think being single is crazy. Confident people are ok with it. What makes you think I have to choose something or someone I'm not satisfied with?

[@AB-dm5ft]

Exactly finally a smart answer thank u

[@candycolriv]

I think he’s really only expressing that, time is a factor. It may not be for you, but for most it is. A woman maybe have endless options but her fertility isn’t endless. & past the point of fertility, she’s automatically limited those options. No one has to settle. Time stops for no one though.

[@thechampb12345]

@@candycolriv but again, that mindset is from someone with not alot of confidence. "Oh lemme hurry up and find someone because my clock is running out" confident people with options don't think like that, nor could they care less if they end up alone. And men are in this as well, and for me, I've dated a lot in my years, don't want kids, and would be perfectly fine with not finding a wife before I died. We don't listen to the masses who are peer pressuring us into finding love because their weak minds can't live without it. No offense.

[@candycolriv]

@@thechampb12345 no offense taken. I don’t care lol I’m just saying …. That’s part of life. Time. Some people want to be with someone, so they have to consider that. & of course there’s people who don’t want kids… but a lot do. Which is why I said, you limit your options to those who don’t want kids, if you wait too long. Doesn’t mean you settle. Just means you have to be dating with a purpose. If that’s what you want.

[@thechampb12345]

@@candycolriv but it's not what alot of people want. That's my point. So for him or anybody to act like you're less of a person just because you don't stick with one guy or girl is ridiculous. To each their own, but to him I would say don't try to force your ways of life onto people who don't see it from your point of view. It doesn't make you better or them worse. You don't have to date with a purpose, no matter the reason, that's your choice to make. Because what you view as a wasted life, may not be that for other people

[@DarkLord-se1dv]

A lot of these women grow up without a father that explains a lot, but in reality, each daughter and each son needs a father and mom not just one

[@Sicwkskxkckckzd]

She just changed her mind for sure