No need to drink to have fun. Been there done that for many years. I tend to have less troubles more money and fewer regrets when I don’t drink 👍🏻
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
Oh me too bro, preaching!
@westtxgreg2 жыл бұрын
@@geofreypetersonofficial I’m a 100%’r if we gonna turn up we turning up to 11. I’d rather smash instead. 😁
@steven66922 жыл бұрын
Now that's how it's done...wemens gain is men's stupidity...all they do at that point is to drop a pill 💊 in your drink and guess what...game over...never drink with strangers...ever...
@hillbillyintheasia61222 жыл бұрын
@@geofreypetersonofficial coool video , ty
@b1rch9952 жыл бұрын
Same here. Apparently there's a bunch of us. Lol
@johnrobson42302 жыл бұрын
What a refreshing laid back honest video! Love to see a video about what much older guys need to expect and the doe’s and don’ts ! Respect!👍🏻
@JettMalone2 жыл бұрын
Take Two so they can talk to each other and not get bored of YOU.
@sharkretired23582 жыл бұрын
The Honesty of this guy is refreshing!!!
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
Thanks my Man!
@topofhelist6592 Жыл бұрын
I like how real this guy is I’d go to his bars just to have w him I need someone when I go that has vet experience
@riffraff84262 жыл бұрын
You’ve got good content man. This was a top informative video.
@passport_revolution.2 жыл бұрын
If you know you will be engaging in this kind of activity. Then get two different hotel rooms. Have one close to the action. The other one far away with all of your belongings. You won't have a problem with theft or a girl waiting on you in the lobby making a seen. Problem solved
@stephenbrecher772011 ай бұрын
this man you interviewed....no nonsense, blunt, to the point and no BS.....all Westerners need to watch this video.....
@basc50262 жыл бұрын
I got a lot from this vid, I’ve done my Pattaya apprenticeship years ago but always good to have the basics fresh in my mind. Definitely a must see video before going back to Pattaya
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
Lol here to help 🥸
@turkfist5272 жыл бұрын
Great interview. Important viewing for anyone falling into the blame game.
@olumidekolajo41332 жыл бұрын
Bryan flowers absolute legend . This is very informative. Funny enough I have been away from Thailand for two years and haven’t had a drop of alcohol. I seem to turn into a raging alcoholic when in Thailand . Why would anyone need to string a working girl along like there is some kind of love affair . Why do that ? These guys are either narcissists or they have a very low self esteem playing with these girls heads but what they don’t realise is they are the ones being played by hardened pros who have been there thousands of times .
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your insight im happy When people understand/get what we were talking about
@hillbillyintheasia61222 жыл бұрын
cool video ,ty
@AG-so4gl2 жыл бұрын
Legend ?, you give the guy too much credit. He is a pimp, that's a fact jack
@CelestinoAcquaviva2 ай бұрын
Awesome 👍
@Scruffers20112 жыл бұрын
Some great insights and observations in this interview. I’m a non-drinker, so if I come to Pattaya or Bangkok, I’m content to suck on a Coke and people watch during the day, then get two girls for an over-nighter. That’s good advice about avoiding the freelancers.
@davids7362 жыл бұрын
BF.....legend...... As always, speaks total sense 👍🙂❤
@clivesweeting44102 жыл бұрын
In other words buy the girls lots of drinks in my bars before you ask them how much .. great philosophy so caring !!
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
It means spend time build report dont rush
@Steevee147 ай бұрын
@@geofreypetersonofficialbuild RAPPORT.😉
@ianmiddleton96682 жыл бұрын
like your style brian,your honesty.
@Mikeb81342 жыл бұрын
great perspective given, thank you!
@horsk97042 жыл бұрын
when i worked up in Laem Chabang i would warn new guys as much as i could before they headed down to Pattaya on leave. Classic words of warning, Bar girls dont need love but lots didnt listen to me. Funny but the japanese Snack girls here in Okinawa often go to a gaijin (western) bar after work to find a western guy to sit and drink with as they want a change from sitting with japanese salary men all evening.
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
That sit and drink thing in japan is so silly to me. I guess people are starving for company. And the saying is ‘bar girls cant eat love’ ! :)
@soup-nazi6824 Жыл бұрын
Basic common sense when it comes to taking women especially freelancers back to your room never have money or valuables outside of your safe including jewellery watches ect-they can't stel much when you don't have anything lying around...
@byt290 Жыл бұрын
A lot of good advice. Either way your all to often swimming in a shark tank while your have a few drinks and that can be very overwhelming. So be on your guard with how much your spending on anything. Many good but also many just out for the dollars and they are very good at what they do. Have fun for one or two nights then get out of Dodge City...fast!!!!$$$$
@michaelgallagher96862 жыл бұрын
Hi Geoff. New sub. Great content mate. Coming to Phuket on Monday for sandbox. I’ll be in Thailand for a month. Cannot wait. I’ve made all the mistakes in Thailand but that’s life. Now I’ve learned just to have fun, be a good guy and be truthful . The Thai people are cool. Hopefully see you in Pattaya . Good luck with all your projects.
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
Mistakes are bound to happen especially in Thailand 😂
@Braylon182 жыл бұрын
Can you guys explain what you mean a bit more? Have never been there but would love to go and have fun.
@positivemartyn76098 ай бұрын
Great advice from Brian Flowers 😬👍🏼
@up2u1622 жыл бұрын
Solid advice! If you go in as a Butterfly you can't get accused of being a Butterfly later🤣
@ilovesmysangsomsangsom35002 жыл бұрын
But you can be a Helicopter, Satellite or Sky Lab as the Ladies say 🤣🤣🤣
@LDW19612 жыл бұрын
Float like a butterfly bang like a son of a B
@stonedmason1112 жыл бұрын
Geoffrey and Bryan that was one informative chilled out video lads loved it!! I thought you was a loud arrogant yank at first but you're just as chilled and down to earth as Bryan.... Il be in Thailand for my first time in two weeks cups off tea on me lads 😇😇
@fredkleckham68642 жыл бұрын
Excellent. Understanding, respectful and informative. Been visiting for many years. Still I got a lot from this. Thx. Fred.
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
Sense youve been visiting for years im Curious what parts did you find informative and useful?
@fredkleckham68642 жыл бұрын
@@geofreypetersonofficial bits I already understood. Eg. Cleanliness, presentation, respect and savvying the cultural differences. What you presented is something all visitors would be wise to tap into.
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
@@fredkleckham6864 thanks fred
@fredkleckham68642 жыл бұрын
@@geofreypetersonofficial Ill give you a yell next time Im over.
@jonbyrnes43492 жыл бұрын
The legend Pattaya pariah mentions the 3 day rule in one of his superb vlogs
@chuckrennert5783 Жыл бұрын
The 3 day rule is unaffordable now! Don't worry about it. To take a girl longtime for 3 days of barfines and her salary will be close to 14,000 baht! What schmuck is going to pay that? And thats not including her expenses for 3 days! This city is so fucked! It will cost you between $500-$600 US Dollars to take a girl from Soi 6 for 3 days! INSANE! You can watch her play on her phone all day and text other guys right in front of you at Top dollar!
@10MinutestoRouletteFortune2 жыл бұрын
"The sex is free..........you are just paying them to leave". I'm stealing that. Forget the 3 day rule........one at most! Far too many of them to just pick one for 3 days. I'm only going back when the soapys are open. 2 with a bottle of Johnny Walker works for me. Thailand is a great weight loss plan if you eat good street food, plenty of noodle soup and walk everywhere. I lose 10 lbs every trip.
@bjbanks11302 жыл бұрын
Omg yes
@koncretemang5049 Жыл бұрын
❤taught me something
@macl4ren Жыл бұрын
What a great video. Solid no-nonsense advice and insight by someone who knows.
@jmedz8936 ай бұрын
Good convo dudes ! Honestly, what you mentioned at 22:30 definitely frustrated me last time I was there ! 😅 Like, there's almost some favouritism from some of the girls towards certain types of guys e.g. White, Korean, tall, athletic etc. Not saying that my looks are under par, but I definitely felt certain girls were too reserved around me whereas with other guys they were the complete opposite lol .. but its interesting you say that its a test to see how I react .. I never thought of it that way. However, some of these guys just have "it" e.g. 6 pack, charm, charisma, outgoing personality, dress sense etc - & both parties are suckered in to it or play along with it very well. Oh, & that last story about the 5k baht ! - Oh boy, that was almost me 😅
@TreeFrog1996 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video gents from down under 🇦🇺
@tim75172 жыл бұрын
29:15 “bought the ladies some little Yakult milks” I nearly spit my drink out on that one 🤣🤣🤣
@Axiom-ug3js7 ай бұрын
This guys are so chill, I can sit and chat with them for hours. New viewer here, thanks for the great info✌️
@geofreypetersonofficial7 ай бұрын
Welcome aboard!
@CelestinoAcquaviva2 ай бұрын
Great interview and very much in depth! I wish i had watched your video before dating a Thai bar lady 😞
@mariwankhodamoradi77112 жыл бұрын
Hi Geoff, I just wanna thank you you wer pointed to so many great things
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
Your welcome bro. Are you new to my channel?
@pmimagery12952 жыл бұрын
My favourite Brian quote, "You're spoiling my mood!" Ha ha!!!!
@ajpope20102 жыл бұрын
This was fantastic thanks to the both of you
@jdedad2 жыл бұрын
My mom was a bartender in Vegas my whole life, mind games
@manharrathod65412 жыл бұрын
Hi
@markh73042 жыл бұрын
I remember her
@rzadigi2 жыл бұрын
What a couple of classy guys 😂 😂 😂
@nigel47769 ай бұрын
Haha I assume you're being sarcastic
@pmimagery12952 жыл бұрын
This conversation is so great!!!!
@kmichaelp45082 жыл бұрын
That’s very interesting. I was in Pattaya a few years ago and was nothing like I see in all the videos today. Of course a few years ago was 1975! Hahahaha. Of course I was Air Force too.
@tonymontana67342 жыл бұрын
Lol this guy!
@ajr6682 Жыл бұрын
Damn good interview
@andhemills Жыл бұрын
When I was young, I imagined myself playing the white knight (mostly for a latin girl). Perhaps a bit narcissistic, but as I've aged, I've realized it's not so simple. You can't just ride in and bring someone out of poverty. You kind of can, but there's whatever psychology they develop from being in poverty (hoarder, possibly dealt with abuse, language/communication issues). As told by the Doors in Hyacinth House, "I need a brand new friend who doesn't bother me / I need someone ... who doesn't need me".
@ortiztino2 жыл бұрын
In other words, let them know you're a butterfly (helicopter). LOL
@jameslamb46502 жыл бұрын
When in Thailand do the panda 😉😂 EatShootnLeaf
@JettMalone2 жыл бұрын
Nothing better than the Soapy
@jlynnburton97182 жыл бұрын
@Bryan I have a couple questions I'D Love for you to answer if you would Plz., 1) Are the Girls STD & drug tested say weekly or monthly? 2) How much salary do they earn on Avg. for working at 1 of your many Bars?, then Plus I assume her share of lady drinks would be added to her salary? Plus whatever she earns if she wants to prostitute herself out to random men, Correct ? 3) If a woman were happy with simply earning a salary, her share of lady drinks & tips. Would you still hire her OR is her prostituting a requirement in order to being hired? Because I've never seen any video addressing these & other similar type questions, Thanks in advance
@AG-so4gl2 жыл бұрын
Point 3. Bar owner is a glorified Pimp, and don't let them tell you otherwise
@boxxx80562 жыл бұрын
Great info! Aloha 🌴🤙🏽
@Japanese_one_Tokyo Жыл бұрын
OGs in the game This is real talk for those of you that don’t know … Gs that know, KNOW
@geofreypetersonofficial Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏
@hummerh1kid2 жыл бұрын
Great information and interview.. Thank you!
@mrmaybee2 жыл бұрын
Oddly enough, right on, in that scene, take at least 2.
@diverdave40562 жыл бұрын
name a few bars where they are not BLASTING the MUSIC !!! I hate trying to talk to a GOGO girl where you have to SCREAM at each other in hopes to be heard !
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
thai style is to be louder then the next bar. Not logic lol
@ThaiThyme672 жыл бұрын
“Farang men bar” 😂🤣😂 Hey sexy lady! Come come have drink! 😂🤣😂
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
Maybe a good skit for my channel 😂
@ThaiThyme672 жыл бұрын
@@geofreypetersonofficial that would be fun to see!
@52sadman2 жыл бұрын
I've spent over 20yrs in Thailand was married to a thai I'm from UK.divorced now have a beautiful daughter with her who's 21 now i must have been with a 1,000 girls during that time from the bar and the beach and never had a problem or cought anything
@-whackd2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like a functional family
@jimgoodreau12456 ай бұрын
I am 79 years old and planning my next trip to pattaya with my 22 year old grandson! Still living the dream!
@ArmyguyTravelsSports8 ай бұрын
Amazing video!!!!! New subscriber here. Which bars are his
@PREPFORIT2 жыл бұрын
Great interview and Q&A = new sub
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
That’s Ammmmazzzin! Thank you! Lots of cool stuff Browse the channel
@808BizStuff2 жыл бұрын
Is the bald guy speaking English? 🤣. Hard as hell to understand him sometimes. What did he just say? Hilarious character that guy. 🤣🤣
@gino26342 жыл бұрын
3 day rule , never keep one for over 3 days. Even if you like her. Get rid of her and get another one in a few days.
@Jopacob Жыл бұрын
whats the difference between a soapie, gentlemens clubs, go gos etc?
@hardmoneysolutions Жыл бұрын
"sex is free, you pay them to leave" perfect
@jonathanwillis19322 жыл бұрын
Luv it Bri👍
@marvinpi80262 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear Soi6 back into action. Was there in 2018 and totally loved it. However, I've seen some live streaming videos from Soi6 in some case girls inside the bar which is really crazy for privacy. Is this still happening? Also, have Covid added any restriction to the so called "guest friendly" hotels or things are still the same?
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
Once your here anything goes as usual
@lenseofficial7 ай бұрын
this guy sounds like he knows what he's talking about, great video. Anyone know...how does bangkok compare to pattaya? is it worth going to pattaya just for this reason? or is bangkok fine
@jimsdad3739 Жыл бұрын
The best girls in Pattaya ain't in the bars.....
@JJJJ-pi9qs Жыл бұрын
It’s generally cheaper to pay for it than it is to get it for “free”..😅
@geofreypetersonofficial Жыл бұрын
Wise words
@mrmagic14u4one42 жыл бұрын
Thanks great video
@scottg34562 жыл бұрын
Nice to see you guys get together!
@gamerzyt6102 жыл бұрын
too experts in one frame.. ooh yeah 😅
@Abundancesobernew2 жыл бұрын
Good advise.....
@mdubb4855 Жыл бұрын
Be a good customer, get a great girl.
@CRAIG5835 Жыл бұрын
Where is link to Brians Channel please Geoff.
@brianstreet52232 жыл бұрын
another good chat guys
@mdubb4855 Жыл бұрын
Which bars does Bryan run?
@josephipattersonh6933 Жыл бұрын
Where is Bryan’s spot? Please tell
@grahammurray74262 жыл бұрын
cause hes saying take lots of women he owns the bars
@tyvid Жыл бұрын
Many of us find it hard to not have an alcoholic drink at a bar, particularly if you are looking for female company. Alcohol, the social lubricant that helps remove shyness. Some guys are naturally ultra confident and forward. I envy those type of guys. But I just can't do it. Too introverted. I need several drinks to feel comfortable and talk freely. May seem silly for those who don't have confidence issues. Then of course lady drinks on top. And if the mood and chemistry feels good enough, asking the lady to go with you. By that stage bar bin is up there and then bar fine and her fee on top. Hence why I limit going out at all now here as I am on lower end of income stream and costs me an arm and a leg. Mostly I just drink from time to time and not have a lady. Can be lonely here as a result (still better than home country). I don't like the online dating sites with loads of fake photoshopped profile images. It's a lottery what they really look like and often charge above the odds and don't reply. Prefer to see the person beforehand in a relaxed setting. Not blaming anyone. My choice. Just the way it is for many of us.
@terrancekenallen22412 жыл бұрын
I don't do multiple girls. I do one at a time. Just be honest with them up front. If you make me happy with boom boom I'll put you money in your hand. When I buy a girl a lady drink I also buy a couple more girls a drink as well and tell them I'll be back for them next time. I make sure the girl I end up bar-fining hears it so she understands that I'm a 'butterfly' not looking for Long Game so no hearts are broken.
@Kronk24 Жыл бұрын
Do not fall in love with a bar girl. Period: Bar girls can’t eat love ❤️ lol 😂
@geofreypetersonofficial Жыл бұрын
Ok dead farang
@michaele81572 жыл бұрын
The David atenbury thing would be amazing
@Steevee147 ай бұрын
David ATTENBOROUGH? What do you mean? Just curious, as I'm a fan of his.
@terrancekenallen22412 жыл бұрын
Soi 6 looks interesting to me. I like the open bar scene. I'm not really into the lounge style bars with the girls dancing on stage. What do you think of Soi 6 and simalar.
@JJJJ-pi9qs Жыл бұрын
Best Soi in Pattaya, just not for lightweights..
@markh73042 жыл бұрын
The guy don't drink but he's popular 🤷🏼♂️
@terrydelve49882 жыл бұрын
What bars does he own I'll be sure to go .
@DrCarlo2 жыл бұрын
Great info vid...By the way, what bars does Bryan own?
@grahammurray74262 жыл бұрын
night wish bars mainly soi 6
@Thailand_fan1710 ай бұрын
1,000 baht short or long time ?
@franktaylor76172 жыл бұрын
Never been but it's on my list. Now that things are opening up again. Traveling is becoming a focus. I'm curious to know how to pick up a tour guide? That's All is be interested in. A nice girl to show me around, translate and a buffer between the aggressive ladies.😁
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
Hey Frank when are you planing on coming to Thailand?
@franktaylor76172 жыл бұрын
@@geofreypetersonofficial Haven't actually made a plan yet. The last plan I had would have put me in the Philippines right when things closed and I would have been trapped. I had a 4 week scooter tour planned. It's been a while since we could put traveling on the agenda. Still months away for me.
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
@@franktaylor7617 ok reach out when your ready and I can help Out
@kingmaafa1202 жыл бұрын
I’ll be there in JULY
@gamerzyt6102 жыл бұрын
It's all about money 💰👀
@bornahyard12 жыл бұрын
Nice video fellows. Would you consider to do a reboot in six months?
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
Reboot? You mean an update?
@bornahyard12 жыл бұрын
@@geofreypetersonofficial yes, I meant update. Again your video was actually quite good because I'm the guy who is recently divorced and would spill his entire life to a unsuspecting lady.
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
@@bornahyard1 lol, they are trained to handle that. ☺️
@bornahyard12 жыл бұрын
@@geofreypetersonofficial trained therapist you say? 😆 Just my luck.
@bahamasking20632 жыл бұрын
Good video.
@geofreypetersonofficial2 жыл бұрын
Thanks my man
@scottthompson68852 жыл бұрын
This is a really informative vid. After you bar fine a girl do negotiate for a price before you do it, or do you tip her like in the Philippines?
@maximilianswansson12649 ай бұрын
Nice to hear from someone with real experience 😊 great video
@wiliamwaddell6328 Жыл бұрын
1:35 The vast majority of the men are probably not pretending and they're doing it because being needed is something that men crave a lot just like women crave being wanted
@harrymcfadden25722 жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine going back if a girl is not interested to be honest I go to agogo bar with intention to drink I might hold their hand but I leave empty handed. I go for the happy hour drink I might bet a drink at pool that’s it.
@gilbarr95912 жыл бұрын
Where’s best place to find freelancers
@chrisguzman394410 ай бұрын
I would love to possibly own a bar there. Any suggestions? Please and thank you
@powisgood50607 ай бұрын
Where can i get soapies?
@geofreypetersonofficial7 ай бұрын
BEST SOAPY MASSAGE SHOPS PATTAYA THAILAND kzbin.info/www/bejne/qouZpKudo9qiarc
@soup-nazi6824 Жыл бұрын
I plan on telling them I'm a butterfly 🦋 straight up & aren't out to cause problems it's just a transaction...
@gydn.d8 ай бұрын
the amount of ads on this video is insane
@ravidaniel5967 Жыл бұрын
Are they all full bars? Like can I order a Pina colada or daquri in them?
@AndrewFudge734 Жыл бұрын
What specific area do you suggest for newbies to begin their experience like for example what is the name of your bar and its location. Thanks
@geofreypetersonofficial Жыл бұрын
$14 HOTEL TOUR & PLACES TO GO PATTAYA THAILAND kzbin.info/www/bejne/nHmzlY2Qdrugd5Y
@CC-mp5jc10 ай бұрын
This conversation was therapy
@geofreypetersonofficial10 ай бұрын
Whats parts ?
@CC-mp5jc10 ай бұрын
@@geofreypetersonofficial many parts, dude was having me reflect on what i really want 😅
@mlh4711 Жыл бұрын
Just found this guy - what a direct talking no-nonsense geezer he is. What is his youtube channel called?
@dalemyers759 Жыл бұрын
Just wondering do they have karaoke bars English words 80's 90's music can you meet girls there?