Getting judged for visiting Pattaya, do you care and how do you feel?

[@Ron-rk6iz]

If you are miserable in your sixties in your home country, you will be miserable elsewhere too. Happiness does not come from having sex with girls who could be your grandchild while drinking the entire night, besides that, it's bloody hot and most of the year very much polluted too. The refreshing Sea is a sewer and for the remaining part: "You pay they smile" There are tons of people happy in their own little street with their Grand Kids and Children somewhere in the UK, they receive true love and like the security of family around. However, everybody should try, since only then do you know.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Lol and you're exactly the type of person I am talking about, clueless

[@gautamgulati625]

@@Buzzinpattayahahahaha well said I am coming to Pattaya week after - gonna have a drink at Buzzin Lounge

[@chiefusnoldsalt]

Sounds like someone is already living a miserable life.

[@begonethot9681]

I’m 40 and I already learnt no one cares about yow unless there is something of value you bring to them. That means that 99% of people you meet in life don’t care about you really. They will complain that you are going to Thailand to ravage the girls. But they’ll forget by next week because they never cared about you in the first place . That includes your friends and some family members. My regret in life is I use to care about what people thought abo it me. And I didn’t date certain girls in fear of what would people think. No More. If you’re older 50 60 70 you definitely should bot care what others think. They stopped caring about you when you became old at the age of 30.

[@smileoften-ft3hq]

Not sure why 1. Never said what the man picked instead of Pattaya. 2. Buzzin seems to paint all Thailand with same stigma opinion. 3. I do agree the entire Pattaya seems to be judged by soi 6 or something. I was north Pattaya, nice, just not for me. 4. I've met fabulous Thai people as well as well balanced and grounded ladies. Not sure why Buzzin focuses on all thai ladies are same?

[@dennislawrence8501]

If you are old like me, enjoy what time you have left.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Absolutely mate

[@Glyn69]

It's very true, only here for a visit. Enjoy what's left best you can

[@-roomie-Motorhead]

Spot on..

[@dave74700]

Good luck you all 👍👍👍🍻🇬🇧

[@ghostshell438]

Shit im 30 & this is already my mindset

[@mattybuu4910]

It's just a translation issue. when men say: you're sad for going there, that translates to : "i'm so jealous of you going to paradise and having fun with beautiful women". when women say that: it translates to: "it's not fair that you go spend your money on a beautiful young woman over there instead of letting me take advantage of you"

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Haha love this

[@trolle0668]

I was diagnosed (and "cured") with cancer 2 years ago. It changed the way I see life. Now I do what I want, whenever I want. Nobody can imagine the size of the shit I dont give about their opinions about my travels or the reasons behind. Enjoy life, it is very short. Dont wait until it is too late to realize.

[@ianphillips6871]

Very true

[@Buzzinpattaya]

glad all is good for you now mate, nice one

[@robertwarner4412]

You are absolutely 100% right with that train of thought as for myself I couldn’t give a monkeys what people think looking forward to being back next year …!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

cheers mate

[@TheManbush1]

I’ve just turned 50 and started going to Pattaya last year, did two trips and have another two booked and paid for. I haven’t copped any stigma to my face because I’ve always owned the fact I’m a dirty old man.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice

[@soobturbo2006]

Cancelled my trip this year because my friend got a gf who told him he couldn’t go. Big mistake. I will be going from now on alone if need be. Thailand is the perfect reset for me. Removes stress and makes the rest of my year happier. Idc what anyone thinks about what I do.

[@Messyhit]

I have my 3rd trip coming up and always went solo. I prefer solo travelling it’s so much easier not debating times or places and just going with whatever you feel like on said day. You are never alone in Thailand, there’s communication and inclusion everywhere you go

[@soobturbo2006]

@@Messyhit I was always apprehensive about traveling solo. I agree completely with what you’re saying though, the only issues I’ve ever had traveling with someone is deciding what we are going to do. Solo travel eliminates that

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Wish you all the best

[@kevincunningham9589]

Your right Trev, it's not just Thailand as the world is the same everywhere. I got that stuff when I first came here 29 years ago and I sat down with a couple guys, man to man, and what transpired was that they weren't allowed to go to Thailand and were very jealous of me and basically didn't want me to have an experience that they couldn't have. So all boiled down to jealousy.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Wow thanks for sharing your experience with us mate

[@trublu72lewis77]

100%!!

[@Witho18]

Spot on ! 100% agree.

[@christiansantiago7935]

You summed it up with the line. "What a load of crap!" Personally, I believe there is jealousy behind the negativity. Being over 50 is a blessing because I no longer care about what others, even family and friends, think. I love Pattaya... and I'm proud to say so.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Absolutely

[@robertgregorysmith1417]

I’ve been to Pattaya a few times and pondered some of the issues raised here by Kev over the years. Live while you can and enjoy life. Don’t worry what other people think or if they judge you.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha mate

[@fulviodesantiago6514]

Life is too short to care what people think. Live your life. Have fun... Having said that, I was there a few moths ago, I told some people and got some looks. When I go next year, I just won't tell those who do not need to know. As far as strangers know, I'm in Mexico visiting some family.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

well said mate

[@banksyuncutlive]

You know your true friends when they know you and never judge you im a cool lone cat that walks his path not others love my kids and grandkids they love me back that,s all i need Thais always say it and its wright up to me not others see you soon mate

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Spot on

[@mickstape555]

I was in Bangkok getting dental work done,surrounded by Soapy's. When I told the receptionest that I was going to Pattaya to recover (I'd never been before) she was horrified and warned me against it. I met a great bunch of Expats and local Thai girls during my 1st visit and never looked back. Pattaya has a lot more going for it than Soi 6 or walking street. For me it's a community.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice one mate thank you for sharing your experience with us mate

[@marklewis5541]

I came to Thailand at 26 and am still coming and going at 56. Could not give a rats arse what anyone at work or out and about says or thinks. Met my wife in Pattaya and she's a great wife and mum and a hard working women who is dedicated to her family both in Thailand and here in Oz. Onwards and upwards Trev. Don't let the sad sacks get you down.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Wow nice one mate

[@mikeyboy3054]

Congrats!

[@Wee-Rex]

Many people raised their eyebrows when I said I was travelling to Thailand and planning to retire there. But, largely, everyone has been very supportive. So to all the haters, you can all take a running jump to yourselves. Thailand is an amazing country filled with the most friendly people, stunning beaches, crystal clear seas to swim in, astonishing architecture, scenery to make you well up inside (I was tearing up the first time I saw a sunset from a catamaran off the coast of Phuket, and I am not ashamed to admit it), fabulous food (not just Thai, I have eaten some incredible Western food as well in Thailand), and above all, a champagne lifestyle on a shandy budget. You can live here very comfortably on HALF what it would cost in the UK. So don’t tell me I only come here for “one thing” when you literally have no clue. Trevor, this is a great video and you make some incredibly valid points. Well done mate, well done.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

I can imagine

[@raymondolson8393]

yah must ignorant comments about Thailand are usually from people who are ignorant of Thailand. They have never visited Thailand or only spent a few days in Bangkok or Pattaya but think they know everything about the people and the country .

[@mountednoble]

Never ever apologize for your honesty! Your opinions are your own and are completely valid! Also, big congratulations on your fitness! I really enjoy these walkabouts… thanks

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thank you so much!!

[@AjG007]

I an English and have lived in Thailand for 14 years. Yes, I was judged. Do I care? No! How did I deal with it? I ignored it! How do I feel? I feel great!!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Absolutely spot on with your attitude mate fair play to you

[@davidhorton2265]

l have been coming to thailand for 20 years,been with thai girl for 16 years,great girl, partying most nights til 4am,dancing in immsonnia night club and i am 71 years old, come over lads it keeps you young

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice one

[@TheWarthogInstitute]

You are 100% spot on Trev. I have been very up front with everyone close to me that if I am ever in a position to do so, I am moving to Pattaya. Once I show them house and condo prices and the weather, most don't blame me one bit.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice one mate

[@gregsurrey8564]

I will be back in a couple of weeks. Bringing a mate who has never been to LOS. He is 72 and looking forward to his trip. He is going to love it. I often visit Pattaya for a week or two before continuing on my journey. I love that I can get off the plane at Swampy, jump on a bus and before you know it, you are sitting in a bar drinking an ice cold Chang and enjoying the sights, sounds and smells that are just so different to what you experience back home.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Sounds great!

[@userwl2850]

I'm 59. I fancy slim Asian birds 30 years younger than me not divorced overweight women my age. It's very simple.

[@userwl2850]

@@NomadicByNature my point exactly. 👍

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha

[@Tex_Symbol69]

I’m exactly the same , I turn 59 in September & I love Asia and Thailand for many reasons….. and that’s one of them !

[@WillSmith-so1km]

Really good video Trevor every word is so true. My mate has just retired and lives on 30 quid a week. Sits in weatherspoons every day on he's own nursing 1 pint. Goes home to a freezing empty flat. That's not living. Live here now in jomtien. Perfect climate so much to do to pass the time. So much cheaper than the uk. As for the stigma I used to say. Have you ever been there? The people who ridicule you are just jealous because they can't do what you are doing 💯

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@davidporter2770]

Well spoken and true. I am 78, alone, divorced and fit. And thinking of doing the trip to Thailand.

[@waynehillier]

I'm 75 and going next year!! I hope.Booked up.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Do it mate

[@robertwoolston3554]

I was home last November ,back from hols in thailand and it was - 11.. I went to work on my bike at 62 years old. I had a knee and hip operation. So I was trying to get fit. I was happy. I had lots of friends, family football, drinking the lot.. Well, I came to Thailand in June. to stay here... I wasn't desperate or lonely 😊.. Thailand has so much more to offer. I love the weather. It's cheap to live. I have lots of friends.. I know I deserve to be happy. I have no regrets whatsoever.. ps that's me. Silly blue hat after about 15 seconds of video😊. Love thailand 🇹🇭. Love pattaya.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Haha nice one mate fair play

[@travelsolo2677]

Totally agree with everything you said Trev. These people who judge others about going to Thailand and Pattaya live a depressing life, have never visited Thailand & don’t want others to be happy. I have a couple of guys at work that always give me a hard time about Thailand. I cheer them up by sending photos of me on a hot beach with a cold beer and beautiful girl sitting next to me 😂👍🤟🇦🇺🇦🇺

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate much appreciated

[@097534]

Been to Thailand 35yrs now 73, lots of people who have never been snigger at me and I don't give a toss. Back 01 Nov.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Haha nice one

[@peterlever9822]

I took 17 family and friends to Pattaya , over 10 years ago , with young teenagers , and they all loved it . And they still want to come back someday . Theres more to Pattaya than just bars and girls . Im now 63 and ive been going to thailand for over 33years now , and i still love it !!! Certainly been going to pattaya for 25 years . Bring it on !!!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice one mate

[@chrisgilling543]

All my family and friends know why I go to Pattaya, it’s never been an issue. I’ve never kept it a secret. They know I treat the Thai girls with kindness and respect, and I’ve always told people I plan to retire and live in Thailand eventually, which is why I’m learning to speak Thai. If anyone did have a problem with me going to Pattaya, I really wouldn’t care anyway. It’s my life, my choice.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha mate

[@beerschotfan]

The people who are prejudging are most of the time people who are unhappy but don't dare to change their lives. Im married to a beautiful ,Thai woman an can you imagine the stigma cause she was born in Pattaya...she"s the best thing that happened in my life. 🙏

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said

[@davidpascoe8784]

I went to Koh Samui a few years ago and when I got back home, the first thing my sister said to me was "What's wrong with Australian women?" I was only over there to visit a mate but found a few very lovely Thai women who leave western women for dead, I'd go back any day.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Judgements galore mate sadly

[@faranginthailand2498]

Great video Trev! I go to Thailand 3-5 times a year and also to several other countries. I tell everyone. Why care about what other people think? Live your life and enjoy it to the fullest😊

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said!

[@shamblesguru]

Life is far too short to be wasted ... been in Chiangmai for over 20 years..... am very VERY lucky.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice one mate

[@komboblast4044]

I had an amazing time, lovely Thai people, Thai food, beautiful weather. Wherever I am at in the world, I will say this about the country and my trip. ❤❤❤

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said!

[@gooner2100]

i dont give a shit what people think,i am a widower my children are grown up and married and have their own lives,most of my friends my age do gardening or going to bingo or some other crap.i prefer nice weather good cheap food,good company in the bars ,its my life and i will enjoy it while i can

[@Buzzinpattaya]

good on ya mate fair play

[@malcolmnelmes9447]

Completely agree on all aspects which you brought up regarding the stigma of coming to Thailand on Holiday. I used to get that back home. Now fast forward, I have lived permanently here for 13 years and I have never regretted it for one minute

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@ped5906]

Awesome work! I've explored 46 countries and call the US home. Comparing Pattaya to Vegas in terms of "paying for it" is like comparing apples to oranges - media bias strikes again (Vegas is worse--or better--depending on your preference)! I stopped caring about others' opinions on this long ago. Pattaya, in my view, is a gem (unless they mess it up). It's not just about the dating scene; there's a world of experiences waiting in all types of ways (food, diverse cultures, tooling around on a motorbike, sightseeing, shopping, beaches, and more). Cheers!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice one mate

[@CarlWiganerUK]

To be honest, I always get positive feedback when going to Pattaya with many saying how jealous they are & they want to come with me, I've never had any negatives. I reckon personally when they see the hotels, beaches, views, restaurants, attractions etc their minds quickly change to one of jealousy anyway. Been Vegas a few times & I'm just as proud to go Pattaya Thailand and make the same noise about going all over my Social Networks. 🙏

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Haha nice one mate

[@HelloImNotJohnnyCash]

glad Ive seen this video.. ever since Ive been telling people Im heading to Thailand Ive been getting battered by the *off to get a ladyboy* or *Looking for a wife* etc etc.. Whilst I plan to partake in whatever I come across when over there, the stigma of going spreads through the rumour mill faster than a victorian bushfire. Even before going, I am preparing myself for when I get back and all the sideways smiles etc..

[@Buzzinpattaya]

ignore the haters mate, leave them sat at home miserable and with an unhappy relationship, instead mate come out, enjoy and have fun, it's all here waiting for ya

[@grahamevans9427]

Another great video trev. Happiness is where the hart is if you don’t know someone why do people feel they have the wright to judge them I love Thailand and I have many good friends in Thailand men and women we are all here but a very short time make the most of it

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@routmaster38]

Well said and as someone very elderly love the respect Thai people treat me with!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@anthonymercer1234]

Mate loved this video Trev. I can really relate to this. 54, and been to Pattaya a couple of times now looking for places to retire. Met you, travelled around. I cop crap all the time in Australia. From unhappy married women mainly and tortured married men. I don't give a sh*t what anyone thinks anymore. My life my way. I'm much happier, smarter and wiser from my travels. And life is a game, for everyone, everywhere. And if blokes think western women aren't playing you - you're blind.. Thai women know the world and how to play it. No harm, no foul. Love Pattaya & Jomtien - live life now. F - them 🙏🙏🙏

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice one mate all the best

[@hawkeye136]

Hi I've finally booked to come out in February after watching your video you've given me the courage and motivation to do it thanks

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Brilliant mate

[@nevthedev3053]

Great vid Trev. Been visiting for ten plus years and suffered the judgement you're talking about probably more than I know as what's said to your face can probably be multiplied by ten behind your back. Take care Matey, and oh yes I send my grandkids postcards every time I visit 😘

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Gotcha mate

[@RS-gz6hj]

People that judge don't matter. People that matter don't judge. Live your life.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said

[@jhiggins427]

Great video trev .ive not been coming to Thailand for very long just 5 trips in the last 3 years .only people i get stick from are my workmates mainly because there definitely jealous seeing as most of them need permission from there wives to even go for a pint theses days .but my family are great there happy im going somewhere tjat makes me extremely happy see you in December mate

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Hope ya get out soon mate

[@Lostsoulmedia]

Exactly I’m bringing my dad because he doesn’t have long left I want him to enjoy the last bit he has

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Good on ya mate

[@gertdrok]

Trev, I am from Holland 68 yrs. old and I am Anxious to make that Decision. 🙏

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Do it mate

[@Stephen_Martin]

A Buzzin Hornets nest of opinions.! Love the videos, keep them coming.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Glad you like them!

[@cocooamyx3840]

I was chatting to an old guy in Thailand a few years back who was from England and he said his relatives were worried that he was going to find a thai wife so the relatives might not get all his inheritance ,

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Sounds about right

[@heathmcdaniel9232]

You hit a bunch of my points & thoughts about paying for it ya always do some how most ppl I know have never been out of the country so they don't have a clue about other cultures I just tell them I'm looking for a cheaper cost of living come retirement time

[@Buzzinpattaya]

We all pay one way or another

[@kiranmelchizedek]

You make some very serious ethical points. It's all about owning and taking responsibility for your life. Enjoy everything with dignity and joy.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers

[@tonystevenson7464]

Honestly mate I am early 50's and I copped so much grief from friends and family for going to Philippines 9 years ago. Yeah I got married and yeah maybe they can say I told you so. However, 12 months ago I went to Pattaya for the first time and went on a buzzin crawl. You and Ian eventually took me to heaven above. Right now 12 months later I am living in Australia with Koi from Heaven Above and I wish like he'll I had never ever been to Philippines. The Thai people are absolutely phenomenal and I absolutely adore her and she does me.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Yeah they love sticking their noses in

[@gshock123ist]

Nice one Terry it's the first time I have seen and heard someone talking about this subject on any internet platform. Well said, Sir. 🙏

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@RaulSanchez-zc1jj]

There's NOTHING any more moral or wholesome in the States than in the East. This video just makes me MORE excited to go in December...hell, i may move it up sooner!!!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice one

[@nickmondo222]

I could write loads here on the subject, but i dont need to. Trev, you summed it up perfectly. Its actually worse in the UK if you ask me. Last time I spoke to a woman in the bar in UK, it was like an interview......bloody ridiculous. Told her i was broke, and she did not want to know. Absolutely no difference to the girls here. The people that have the problem are the slaggers..........not the slagged. People can be weak some times, but they need to rise above the negative, ignore the shite people talk, and do what they want........I BLOODY DO!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate much appreciated

[@liamclarke8411]

100% agree with you Trev great chat this morning I love pattaya and Thailand

[@Buzzinpattaya]

cheers mate

[@markhuizinga4993]

Great video T. You only have ONE life Enjoy it and don't let Anyone control you and tell you what to do Ever!!!.Even if your married your partner has NO right to control you in any way!!!.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said!

[@peterscutt2253]

Hi Trev i'm 66. I should have come in 2021 but had to cancel because of covid. I've visited friends twice this year in Pattaya such lovely people a great place. As you say enjoy life to the full i wish i had visited years ago. Uk at the moment is a cesspit of grief. I will be back in September and will pop into the Buzzin Lounge and say hello to you and the girls.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice one mate

[@JackSmith-wy3xx]

Couldn't agree more with you Trev, my mates always took the Mick out of me when I told them I was going to be living and working in Bangkok , I'm about to start my last contract in Bangkok at 54 they're all married to women whose best years are well behind them, they still take the rip but I just smile tell them I'm going back to my nice condo and will be waking up next to a hot 23 year old lady every morning while they're slogging through the rain/ sleet/snow to work

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Haha brilliant mate

[@mattfinch3895]

My sister who is 52 holidays in pattaya she loves it. Been about 20 times. I stay in koh samui on the most part and travel upto pattaya to meet her.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Sounds great!

[@MelvynBailey]

Good video when i went i got lady to take me to different places i used to go 20 years ago i enjoyed it

[@Buzzinpattaya]

That's awesome

[@KellyRosvold]

Agree wholeheartedly with your thoughts on letting other people control your life. Life is too short for that. Good chat Trev. Keep walking my friend.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@robertstover4665]

Ready for my 8th or 9th trip there.... rarely drink, no drugs, come for affordable medical care (state of the art) and dating one of the most beautiful women in the world..... love love love walking the beaches early pre dawn..... such solitude and peace!!! Also LOVE the Elephant Sanctuaries!!!!!!!!!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Fair play mate

[@jasonw1569]

Single non-divorce middle-aged middle-income men with no dependents are looked upon with the deepest shame in North America. Basically we're kicked to the curb in all aspects after years of working our asses off surviving the minefields of dead-end relationships. I wanna go to a place in the world wherever we can be accepted and appreciated. Apparently Thailand is where its at and I cannot wait to feel young again, even if it's for just a short time. The people and culture is so beautiful. Thankyou for your content as I really enjoy your videos.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said mate fair play to you, shame on them treating you like that

[@padraigcrowley4008]

100% agree with you Trev, and on top of that I've been visiting Pattaya for 10 years and have had several girlfriends who worked normal jobs and never asked me for anything. As far as the haters go I just laugh. See you in the lounge next month arriving 16th.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Thanks mate

[@ajherby7820]

You're right to be upset, as it does happen way more than it should. I once had a bit of flack from a relative who apparently knew better than me, but I decided to go anyway. Glad I did, because I met my wife on that trip. I'm one of the lucky ones who didn't get rinsed! ...at least, not yet, haha... maybe she has a decade-plus plan for this unsuspecting rube! I really enjoy your channel -- full of good information!!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Sad though mate

[@johnniedee5884]

I’ve been coming to Pattaya for 25 years I laugh at what other people say because I’m having fun in the greatest place on earth

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Absolutely mate

[@dalemyers759]

Hey Trav it really doesn't matter what people think at the end of the day it's about my happiness but I've also had friends say they wish they were going with me this is just another way of experiencing and travelling the world and meeting great people I really believe it's about having a positive outlook on life look forward to seeing you in November cheers mate

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said mate

[@sixofnine9407]

I want to enjoy life, I don't care what people say.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Good on ya mate

[@5looprevil]

Going to Pattaya for a month in Feb (my 5th time but not been for 10 years) i could not care less what any one thinks really , but your 100% right about people being jealous heard it first hand and its a good idear to send the people who judge you if you know them well a postcard every week of your holiday they tend not to like that , watched all your recent vids they have been a big help on my planning for the trip so cheers for that

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Nice one

[@AllenZuka-xp1gd]

Well said 💯negative comments usually come from people that have never been there or married wishing or broke 🙂

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Indeed

[@rajnishdeelchand390]

This is one of the best speeches i ever heard! Well done dude!!! 🎉

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@bigdaddyl-rob7445]

AWESOME content, Trev! Sadly Pattaya and Thailand in general gets this type of stigma when it comes to travel destinations. The majority of people who complain about folks like us that visit Pattaya are completely JEALOUS and miserable and need to get a life!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@jimgoodreau1245]

I am 78 and just spent 2 weeks in pattaya with my 21 year old grandson! Greatest vacation of my life!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

That is awesome!

[@glennamyhotspur]

Your scenario is exactly my life. I will be coming as soon as I can when it is viable! This country is only going one way, it is screwed!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

good on ya mate

[@larrylhughesjr9280]

Thanks Trev I Feel What Your Saying Nothing But Truth...Be Well

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@mikeyboy3054]

There is a lot of jealousy out there from men who are unable or unwilling to move to Thailand. Retired 56 year old Canadian, been here years, met my dream lady not in a bar here, cost of living easy half of Vancouver. Love it here. You do you. I do me. Don't judge.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said mate

[@garytate3075]

Spot on with everything you've said mate, we've only got one short dance on this planet, live your life and don't have any regrets.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Absolutely

[@malcolmsquires345]

one of the best you done trev too many blinkered people out there

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Cheers mate

[@stevemcdougal9220]

Well said Trevor. If you’re not harming anyone you can do what you want in life. I’m 56 and retired. I love Thailand and I couldn’t give a toss what people think. Thailand has everything that makes me happy. Hope the bar is still doing good. 👍🇹🇭

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Absolutely mate

[@allendeans8277]

Im coming to pattaya in October on my own for my birthday, and I would rather have a holiday by myself, and I dont care what anybody thinks about my life and what I do

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Brilliant mate, come say hello will get ya birthday drink

[@smileoften-ft3hq]

​@@Buzzinpattayaguess this channel is beer and bar girl focused which is great for those interested. I went rural at 69, with a backpack, and found a beautiful kingdom with great people. No judgment, just saying there are many places in Thailand and we can all pick what suits our fancy

[@danduck6316]

Hi Trev I came to Thailand for the first time in 2003. I was 30 and just had an MD from the RN I came over with 3 mates 40, 60 & 65. I had a ball and never once hid from anyone what I was coming over for (Tourist sites and water sports 😂) I came back the following year and met the love of my life we have now been married 17 years and have 2 kids. I brought my mum and dad over both late 60’s at the time and they loved it. They have both been back about 15 times now. To your man that is being pressured into not going ignore them and get yourself over you will have a ball.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Wow mate what an experience

[@danduck6316]

@@Buzzinpattaya best place in the world still come to Pattaya my 10 year old son loves the place. When he is old enough I’m sure it will be a regular destination for him.

[@generealty]

Yes I have had jokes aimed at me, but underneath they were serious. I've even experienced it in Thailand when working. Many Thais do not like Pattaya and speak badly about it especially the farangs that go there. So much so that I stopped saying I lived in Pattaya and changed it to Chonburi or Eastern Seaboard, as my house is outside the city over the darkside. Not think it will change in my lifetime. By the way, I was a widower in UK but been married to a Thai for 23 years and have grown up kids and grandkids here in Thailand and really love my life.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Sadly yeah

[@TheMIXEY79]

Excellent video. And something that needs to be said . RESPECT BUZZ 🙏

[@Buzzinpattaya]

cheers mate

[@garethmatthewson227]

I’ll be there in December been going there now for 10 years I don’t care what anybody thinks my business if they judge me they can do one Come on man get on the plane 👍👍👍👍

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Fair play

[@nbarton8]

Spot on regarding Sad old men going to Thailand Trev, Well am an Old Man but Certainly not Sad and received all the usual Comments before my First Trip and after 15 years of 2/3 Trips a Year they are still the Happiest times of my Life which I would never Change for the World

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said

[@wayneclayson4403]

I was in the Royal Australian Air Force and was posted to Butterworth as a single guy in my 20s I spent all my time off travelling through Thailand. Now all the married women that live around me used to comment on my trips to Thailand I didn't care what was said and what they didn't realise that there husband would come around my place the minute they left and beg me to take them to Thailand

[@Buzzinpattaya]

haha brilliant

[@paullewis6132]

What ever you do in life and wherever you go some people will always judge you, I'm old and ugly enough to not let things bother me now. When I'm happy and enjoying myself I will not be giving a second thought to those who judge me. I came to Thailand in April for the first time made a few mistakes but I will be back again at the end of the year as Thailand and the people are so warm and welcoming.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said

[@Messyhit]

“You only go over there to pay for it” 🤣 have these people ever met a Scotsman? No way I’m paying for something I get for free at home 😅 Pattaya is a tiny part of Thailand, even if you go and don’t like the city then there’s a city there for everyone no matter what they like. I spent 7 days in Spain recently, tbh could’ve headed home after 5 days. Could cry in the airport heading home from Thailand 🇹🇭

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Lol

[@thedarkknight3721]

ignore the noise brother- just live ur life and make these informative videos - in some ways you are helping these people financially for that reason God will always be with you 🙏

[@Buzzinpattaya]

gotcha mate

[@RetiringToAsia]

Die with memories, not dreams! We make what we want of this life. Don't waste time with people who will judge your happiness. It's YOUR happiness!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Absolutely mate

[@Skeez-git]

Top post Trev'. Well said and thank you very much.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@Skeez-git]

@Buzzinpattaya Absolutely bang on in your description of the ney sayers. Small minded, jealous, often poorly travelled (Spain LOL) and undoubtedly a lack of funds. Let them stew in their own ignorance. I am so looking forward to retirement in Pattaya, unfortunately still a few years away but hey! It gives me the goal which is keeping me healthy and determined. Your good work is very much appreciated by 99.99% of us all.

[@joethegolfnut1]

Hi Trev, I just want to say if you've never been to Thailand and Pattaya in particular don't cast judgement. Also it was great to meet you, beer and the girls 2 weeks ago. Pattaya is a great place but take it for what it is. Speaking from a guy who has been there 5 times now if I didn't like it I wouldn't come back, Pattaya has everything you could need and want in a holiday. Keep bringing the positivity Trev I will be back to see you Beer and the girls soon

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said

[@dannygson1227]

In sweden we even have a name for it it's named: the old fashioned Swedish jealousy! People have to much free time and feel sorry for them self, i always say fck what others think of you do what makes U happy u only have 1 life live it to the maximum,. To bad 4 that guy that he can't be free and shame on those that shame him , im moving to Thailand as soon as i am financially settled!! Trev keep up the good work and u must have dropped 6-8 kg now ? Good on u mate

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Haha good man

[@commonsenseisntcommon1776]

I stopped caring what other people think of me years ago! Live your life for you!

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Well said

[@RevStickleback]

There was a guy at work who looked and acted like Mr Bean, and despite him having several trips out to SE Asia, he was the kind of guy that you wouldn't suspect might be indulging. I actually realised that being thought of like him would be more embarrassing.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

lol

[@robertdawson4502]

I agree with your assessment, do what you want and who cares about what others think or do.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Indeed

[@freethinker0409]

What i don't like is that many people in the West have this idea that only 50+ year olds like to enjoy what Pattaya has to offer. I'm 33 myself and have been coming to Thailand since i was 21, have a Thai gf living with me in the Netherlands for 10 years now and i still go back every year for 2-3 weeks while she visits her family in Korat.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

well said, I live in Korat as well, lovely place

[@Lifewithemerson323]

Exactly bro. Am not the usual passport bro who is broke and no luck with the ladies here in the United States. I usually have a main girlfriend and 2 side chicks but didn’t want that relationship life no more. Decided to visit Thailand this year and it was a blast. Now learning Thai language by myself. It’s a beautiful country and wonderful people not just women the whole culture. Retiring there in 10 years and taking my mom with me. Am in my mid 30’s.

[@roverdover4449]

Honestly worrying about being judged is a great topic for anyone anywhere. We can't control what others think.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

It's more if you care what they think or say

[@Joeyglide]

I think for younger guys as well such as myself, there is a stigma for having a Thai girlfriend, especially among western women. What they don’t seem to get is it exactly that kind of judgemental attitude along with a whole raft of other issues which come about trying to date in the modern age which is the exact reason a lot of young men are no longer looking to date in the west.

[@Buzzinpattaya]

Agreed