Taking Off On A Lover

[@adrienneu9490]

Unfortunately depression doesn't care how beautiful you are. Chemical imbalances are a thing too. Prayers for her mental health.

[@3rdstone311]

Much respect to you Adrienne for speaking specifically of the problem. Many people suffer on a daily basis and are totally misunderstood. To some it would be a blessing to have some type of physical condition, something that screams "Please Help Me...Please"!!! But unfortunately people as such live a tortured, tormented existence... Anyone reading this please pray for my best friend ____. Please support NAMI. Please pray for this young lady, my best friend and many many other ones who suffer. GOD BLESS

[@jamalj8660]

You mean HIS mental health. Don't forget about him, I know often men get ignored

[@adrienneu9490]

@3rdstone311 absolutely I could see in this girls eyes that she is struggling, and it's not due to lack of knowing she is beautiful. The mind can be tricky and cause people to not say anything until it's too late. It can be debilitating battling something internal that others see as irrational. I'm praying for your friend and others struggling on the daily 🙏🏽

[@adrienneu9490]

@jamalj8660 of course! Especially men b/c they tend to bottle things up and sometimes feel like their problems fall on deaf ears. I was just going off of what the young lady said she struggled with in this case. I'm praying for everyone's mental health. Everyone struggles male or female, and I want anyone who struggles with anxiety or depression to seek help.

[@Real-vi8gl]

Exactly, the judge isn't qualified to discuss this topic with the plaintiff. If it was that easy she would've been able to rationalize it herself. It's a medical condition, there's no way to rationalize yourself out of depression

[@shae_j]

They both need to avoid dating until they are mental and emotionally all together.

[@PrisonPreacher]

​@@teairathomas663Whatever happened to getting married first?

[@Ron-zd1jo]

she's 28 she's already programmed

[@ashmars4869]

Exactly.

[@tmmalone1986]

Maybe they just were not compatible. It’s not your job or business to judge two people you never met before or spoken to. People CAN DATE! Even teenagers Date. So don’t walk around saying adults can’t. You sound dumb.

[@PrisonPreacher]

@@tmmalone1986 "It's not your job to judge." "You sound dumb." See if you can guess the discrepancy.

[@DaniWoodson1]

Just because someone is silent doesn't mean that they're strong... especially in the moment. Check on your "strong" friends folks.

[@suraceryan]

Thank you!

[@southernwinegirl3909]

I came to say the same! Check on the strong ones!!! 😢

[@deejai1173]

Exactly the same thing I always say.

[@pixiechick92]

This woman isn't strong she's a mess

[@jaynehogue2459]

Oh she's definitely not strong she's desperate and needs to grow up

[@Liveandbreathemusic]

She is so adorable, but I can see her pain…wishing her some healing. Him too.

[@homerun0222]

Healing from what? Her own decisions?

[@computerpro123abc]

SHE IS SO CUTE!! THAT HAIR REMINDS ME OF MY DISCO DAYS BACK IN THE 1970'S SHE IS SO FAKE!!! SHE JUST WANTED TO MAKE HIM PAY FOR REVENGE.

[@ygpwnxd_xd752]

computerpro123 👍👍👍 She’s totally obsessed with this guy and I guess she wanted him only to herself so she blamed his mother for leaving his house. She’s used to living with 7 ppl in her previous apartment but in this case she couldn’t live with 1 person who was the mother. I’m glad Andrew’s eyes opened real fast to know whether to continue or not. Sometimes kids love their parents so much that they’re ready to throw away a friendship if the opposite partners admit that they don’t like his mother. I believe parents do come first bc partners come and go but parents cannot be substituted

[@natinati5800]

Moving in with someone is not for the weak. Make sure you move in with someone who is responsible, mentally emotionally and financially stable!!

[@pixiechick92]

Ya that poor man I'm so glad he moved away from that psycho

[@rubylimey7614]

To know me an live me are two different things . praying they are both in a better place n space🙏🙏🙏🙏❤

[@natinati5800]

@rubylimey7614 if you can't love me at my worst you can't love me at my best 💯

[@meghandawson2324]

No one who moves in with someone after 4 months is mentally and emotionally stable.

[@katrinagiovanni891]

Stop normalizing “shacking up “… then someone gets pregnant and “they’re not ready to be parents”….. wellll….🤔🤔🤔

[@ShawntaNecole]

Love her hair❤❤❤

[@MindSetReset]

💯🥰

[@JuanCruz-ob5su]

His heir u mean??

[@computerpro123abc]

SHE IS SO CUTE!! THAT HAIR REMINDS ME OF MY DISCO DAYS BACK IN THE 1970'S SHE IS SO FAKE!!! SHE JUST WANTED TO MAKE HIM PAY FOR REVENGE.

[@lisathomas3082]

Yeah, it suits her

[@meechee2too754]

@@JuanCruz-ob5sugrow a knob

[@eLLeBelle2484]

I commend her for going to the hospital for help when she was overwhelmed. That took so much courage. I pray she’s in a better place and with better company. This guy said he moved back home bc he missed his mom & his cat. Like, dude. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@annetedder8202]

Lol. Really.

[@tmmalone1986]

You commend people with broken arms or legs for going to the hospital also? Lmfao, if your sick then your sick. Why commend them for needing help? She didn’t go get help until she was already cutting herself and lying about pregnancy dum dum.

[@sb92773]

@@tmmalone1986She never cut herself. I commend her for getting help also. Many suffer in silence.

[@eloahnon4952]

​@@tmmalone1986*You're the reason why people off themselves.

[@jamesfetherston1190]

@@tmmalone1986 Because there is an enormous social stigma for admitting mental or emotional pain/illness or injury. It is FAR harder for people to admit to mental difficulties than it is for a broken arm.

[@meaka1979]

It breaks my heart that NO ONE validated her!! Yes, she's beautiful but that doesn't matter when your heart and mind tell you otherwise. She needs that. Not to be told that she is strong. FYI- Check on your strong friends. Stop always depending on them, be there for them.

[@aprilshines4661]

🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@treymcgee2611]

What do you mean by “validate”?

[@ChandelEbony252]

Wym? JM and her mom stated she’s a strong individual.

[@suraceryan]

I don’t get what you mean by validate

[@shesuniqueinherownwaybenja7647]

Exactly 💯💯💯💯

[@0LadyV0]

Why would anyone want to move in with a grown man and his mother?

[@joyslove3858]

Because she's missing that mother bond. Her mother seems very cold

[@tmmalone1986]

A lot of people. I guess you’re the type who drops their mother off at a nursing home and won’t take care of your FAMILY. That’s so sad and pathetic.

[@mikesteele05]

I’d rather move in with a grown man and his mother than live in one room in a house with seven other people. They’re obviously in an area where it’s difficult to afford your own place, which is why two people with full time jobs are dependent upon living with others.

[@inglewoodhoneyhoney321]

​@@joyslove3858They moved out and got their own place which is what she's suing for.

[@delishme2]

Ikr 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩👈

[@bkzdrjay]

She is 🔥. Has a natural, beautiful sophistication about her.

[@timmarmontelo3256]

Just terrible decision making acting like a child. So being pretty really means nothing

[@tmmalone1986]

So you know her personality?

[@laurenjohnson2181]

Her face is def natural but she's also naturally off a bit! Something ain't right with her just by choosing that man and loosing her mind 4 a weak man like that

[@county23]

🙃🤣

[@jamalj8660]

She just another broke chick that lived in a 1 room with 7 other ppl. Don't care how "beautiful" you are. Which she is average

[@antoinettetapper2785]

Her eyes are so 😔 wish she is in a better place

[@pixiechick92]

She was pissed she didn't win 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 she's a vindictive psycho

[@mickm6309]

Two clingy people but not clingy to each other, her to him and him to his mother.

[@pixiechick92]

He was so put off with her he had to run all the way home 😂😂😂 at least his mom isn't a psycho 😂😂

[@Bih1stOfAll]

​@pixiechick92 Oh please..he's probably still single til this day bc he's a Mama's boy

[@dacyberman0929]

@@pixiechick92psycho how?🤔

[@TheAray6]

They both are unstable mentally like you said and co dependent as hell. She was weak for this mama boy and engaged in attention seeking behavior to win him back, that much is very clear. That’s psychotic af and she doesn’t have a case. She dragged him to court to make him pay. He is a loser and she is beautiful. You live and you learn, get over him.

[@webprofit21]

😂😂😂

[@dollarperlike4087]

My QUEEN, you can do sooooo much better! Keep your head up ❤️

[@elizabethg0809]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Randal-su1bi]

She's crazy and lied about getting pregnant and then threatens him with an abortion to try to lure him back. She's not part of a balanced breakfast.

[@SacredTruthing]

...she should choose better 😒

[@Anja1968]

He can probably do better than her 2

[@dollarperlike4087]

@ whole point is, they don’t belong with each other.

[@jennholden-myers1631]

Girl he did you a favor!!!

[@trish6541]

Exactly

[@s.g.scheerer5781]

Read that made me laugh and I totally agree

[@JenniferM0531]

She broke down after the ruling. She’s still hurt. Hope she’s better cause he seems to be.

[@cynthiacler9284]

I saw that look on her face as well but she pulled it together for the exit interview.

[@jamalj8660]

What about him, he had depression too but off course no one care about men. They often get ignored. Typical . He wasn't living there and was still paying rent, id say he an honorable man.

[@elizabethg0809]

He had to live w a nut job

[@JenniferM0531]

@@jamalj8660Correct and seems to have bounced back from that…!

[@ceecope3797]

He is a grown mam who does not mind being a mommy baby and he has a 🐱

[@KrisLim-kz6zh]

Can we just take a second to acknowledge how beautiful the plaintiff is. I mean come on..

[@mickm6309]

Mom is beautiful to.

[@terrencehenderson227]

The Defendent is cute too. I mean...come on now.

[@Ron-zd1jo]

Meh... she looks like Link from a lost episode of Mod Squad

[@michelegordon2898]

Absolutely

[@timmarmontelo3256]

Who tf cares

[@brittneyreigns]

Girl you NEVER lose yourself like this over a man! NEVER! 👎🏽

[@48_LAWS-w8z]

The skin tone Then she found out😂

[@cynthiacler9284]

My mom taught me to NEVER love a man more then he loves you and it's always done me well over the years.

[@roxiestarr3430]

Sometimes easier said then done

[@Spankmepink]

Uh, watch the video. She is the problem.

[@brittneyreigns]

@ Nah. It’s real simple. Sis was ready to end it all over a great value Mr.clean that’s a mommas boy who can’t seem to grow up and be a man at his big age! Wayyyy bigger fish 🎣 She is very pretty and she had a weak moment, but he isn’t worth all that!

[@mymonkey10]

She's gorgeous, intelligent, well-spoken, has a good job, and SELF AWARE, knowing when, where, and how to seek help... Girl, you got it going on... don't let anyone, let alone a man, bring you down!!! 💕💕💕

[@1stKindChris]

Intelligent she moved in with a guy after a couple months of dating, she and that man then moved in to an apartment together, she let him leave and got stuck with the bill, she then did not get a new roommate nor did she talk to the landlord, and then to cap it off, she lied and told buddy she was pregnant............

[@elizabethg0809]

😂😂😂😂 and mentally unstable

[@SacredTruthing]

​@1stKindChris Exactly. No accountability. She didn't know her, she could be a complete nightmare to be in a relationship with

[@lindseyyoung9149]

Heartbreak is the WORST! Turns you into a totally different person.

[@sancraft1]

Let me tell you something. You are never a burden to your mother. She will find the strength of Samson to help her child. It takes strength to ask for help.

[@CNae03]

I Love your comment. It truly does take strength to ask for help. Absolutely. It's an admirable thing to do 🫶🏽

[@anikataylor9419]

Should be this way, unfortunately not every mother is what their children need.

[@anikataylor9419]

I thought the person breaking the lease is responsible for finding the replacement.

[@msfoster2468]

Yes Indeed

[@cynthiawallace7108]

Which is sad sometimes, especially with All these grown men living at home, smh

[@kellyannr4171]

Plaintiff’s outer beauty is surpassed by whatever broke her internally. This young lady needs help mentally and spiritually. I hope she gets the help she needs. You need to know your worth so everyone else around you knows how to treat you. 🙏🏽💖

[@KristyWessel]

I just want to hug her !

[@catherinesisk4369]

This beautiful woman fell in love with a mamas boy. No one will be good enough for him. I wish nothing but the best for her.

[@MBRHUB]

She made very good decisions about protecting herself and her mental state. But there is definitely unexplored trauma for this to plague her at 28.

[@Tahiha]

*She keeps saying “he thought it was a good idea”, as if she had no part in the DECISIONS she made to move in with him and to get an apartment. Accountability goes BOTH ways*

[@tamekadavis6641]

Be careful who you meet and date.

[@merdynes]

Absolutely

[@48_LAWS-w8z]

Chasing the skin tone 😂

[@alicisahall4758]

Preach on that nie

[@janetmccoy7945]

I got the same vibe.

[@MrAmigo2225]

I dated my wife for 2 years before getting married. I met her family. and she met mine

[@KiraTakahashi13]

They both got serious issues

[@thefonzkiss]

What’s his issue, he didn’t like her anymore so he bailed?

[@gtsound12]

@@thefonzkisshe’s a man. They are always wrong

[@Red-lu3ku]

Although he’s a grown man he’s not ready to live as a man. At least he was responsible enough to continue to pay rent. The plaintiff needs therapy, she’s not as strong as her mom thinks.

[@Kyocera234]

She's not as strong as she thinks either.

[@logicalblackman8228]

He’s Armenian. A lot of of them do that. And honestly, a lot of people from other cultures live with their parents, well into adulthood. It doesn’t really mean anything. This dude‘s mouthpiece must’ve been insane. Guy has zero physical attributes😂

[@blueboy-j3z]

The plaintiff is beautiful ❗️❤❤❤❤

[@marlonmalcolm1738]

I think something wrong with her mentally she just can't see herself over a soft man 😂😂😂

[@pannamal5182]

And a nut case.

[@dicktracy5234]

It's called SELF-esteem for a reason.

[@righttoouropinionthanks4710]

For sure! She can do much better than this guy!!!

[@largemember]

@@righttoouropinionthanks4710 For sure! He can do much better than this gal !!!

[@ninjak38_mjwilson3]

I think she needed that test of her heart now than later. Hopefully she knows that it’s not how we fall but always how we get up and keep moving forward ⏩⏩.

[@amandafisher4706]

I'm surprised Doug didn't ask him if he still lives with his mommy😂😂

[@aprilbouknightmarquez6340]

Nothing wrong w living w your mom 🙄.. he was helping her w bills..

[@MaxDalessio]

A mother is the only woman in life that would never stop loving you

[@OverbossZero]

Eh, can't say that for all mothers, or fathers in that case. Some parents are unfortunately super abusive and use kids for clout, status symbols, or servants. If you've ever seen the book "A Child Called It" (or something like that), it'll tell you a most horrible story that one would think was made up, but I don't think even great horror/thriller authors like Steven King could come up with something that horrible (as in, tragic to the person who had to suffer through it). I should say that I did not have this kind of relationship with my parents, thank goodness. But not every mother is a caring or loving woman - nor deserves to have a child, like no child should ever have a "parent" like that.

[@millissentflemmings2216]

Depends on the mothers. Some are terrible.

[@3l3llala13]

Your mother loves you, but she doesn’t lurveeeeeeeeee you, if you know what I mean.

[@kimr5479]

​@@OverbossZeroI read that book , that was a very sad memoir !😢

[@aminakhristoffo7948]

This unfortunately is not true.

[@cierraburks2837]

She just wants to be loved.. purely… she deserves a love that gives her security ❤

[@andrejones3562]

Only by certain people

[@jayb1854]

Happy Wednesday everyone! Hope everyone is having a decent day

[@merdynes]

It’s raining. I’m lying around eating fast food and chocolate watching the Peoples Court. It’s my day off 😊

[@ebenson4778]

Happy Wednesday! 🤗 Have a good day!!!

[@robschmidt6467]

You too! Cold day here.

[@nasra5857]

Happy Wednesday people all the way from Jamaica 🇯🇲 Ocean Corals Resort in Falmouth 🎉❤

[@lindseyyoung9149]

​@merdynes I've been doing the same today, and I keep finding myself basically putting myself down over my procrastination... this just validated my decision to veg out today. Lol. Thank you. 😊 Enjoy your off day!

[@SouLahtheLegend]

Wow Judge Milan really?!😢 I can’t believe she responded that way. What a terrible thing to say to someone who has suffered suicidal depression

[@cochrancochran66]

Exactly... she gets on my nerves...she is always very condescending and harsh with black people.

[@LuvScorpio]

She's very tone deaf and insensitive. People dealing with depression don't need to be told that they're pretty and to move on with your life.

[@fulltimebosscast4571]

the comment section is giving me hope for the world.....stay strong sis

[@dantajillgeathers5344]

Beautiful advice judge

[@loribryant884]

"Over the phone. " That's what my husband did when he told me he has a girlfriend while I was out of state. I agree 👍 That's low 😢

[@Dymsx86]

It is so cruel to call someone at work and break up with them.

[@eLLeBelle2484]

Or by text smh

[@brainy1977]

Dang.. I didn’t get a phone call or a text🤷🏼‍♂️ but yeah either way it’s still cruel to break up that way. It’s like people forget how to be emotionally mature and civil during a breakup.

[@loribryant884]

@brainy1977 You didn't get anything??😪

[@logicalblackman8228]

@@Dymsx86 yeah, I don’t think over the phone is the worst thing. But definitely while you’re at work. That’s totally messed up.

[@Dymsx86]

Goodness, my heart breaks for her. She just looks so sad. I've been there after a breakup and I hope she's in a better mentally. Seems her mom is a loving support.

[@jaynehogue2459]

She needs to grow up

[@Dymsx86]

K.

[@logicalblackman8228]

Mom was iffy. There’s a reason why she doesn’t confide in her mom. Even at the end, she said she would be there for her daughter “if she lets her.”

[@PHOENIX1699]

This whole thing went right, left, right, up, down-psyche, left left

[@jennevie7461]

More so up, up, down, down, left, right, left, right, B, A ....start

[@joecastle9993]

Dude, stay with your mom. That girl is bad news

[@chereeB-hummingbird]

💯

[@antdogg5041]

Both of them need to grow TF up before they start dating! We have a generation of children walking in adult bodies 🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Hondarider85BillyZane]

When you sign a contract it’s a contract let that Momas boy pay

[@ninjak38_mjwilson3]

Her hair is 🔥🔥🔥

[@nanoa32]

I love the tough talk the judge gave her.

[@panamafernandez4641]

JM sounds super judgy for something she says she not judging. The Defendant convinced the Plaintiff to enter a situation she couldn't afford by herself, then he ducked out of the "adult" experiment. You sign a lease, you're on the hook for the lease. Being on the precipice of homelessness is extremely stressful and depressing. Nothing wrong about her communicating the results of his actions to him. Learning your pregnant after a breakup isn't a conspiracy. There's tons of single parents out there with that exact same story. That dude was a sorry excuse for a mommy's boy. Period.

[@James-134]

She wasn’t pregnant be real…

[@panamafernandez4641]

@James-134 she most likely was. Thank goodness she was legally able to opt out of that responsibility

[@OverbossZero]

But here are you saying he's a mommy's boy when you don't know what HIS life is like. He could have barriers that prevent him from living without a caretaker, or maybe he's the caretaker of his mother. Maybe he just didn't want to leave a home that gave him comfort. No one really asked about his life before meeting this woman or what he does for his mother. We just know that he missed the comforts of home, his mother, and his cat. Everyone made impulse decisions here and it came to bite them in the butt. We don't even know if the two had a sexual relationship. Moving in with each other doesn't equal getting in bed and getting it on every time. I could see this being seen as a lie as well just so she could have him back - especially if some women in breakups suddenly have a baby inside of them. HMMM WHERE DID THAT COME FROM? You'd think she would've said "I'm pregnant" at another time, especially if they did have a sexual relationship. I probably sound rather judgemental here as well, but you can't really judge a book by its cover.

[@panamafernandez4641]

@OverlordZeroULTIMA Did you read back your comment out loud before you posted? Did you hear the part where he said his mom wrote his rent checks after he gave her the money to. He was absolutely trying on his big boy pants but then ran back home to his mom and their cat. I can understand cultural differences but I'm pretty sure his mom didn't approve. You've seriously got to be kidding me if you think they weren't shagging like rabbits. That's why they had to get their own apartment.

[@panamafernandez4641]

@@OverbossZero Did you read that back to yourself out loud? That dude left a catch because he missed his cat!? Be for real.

[@sharonrose50]

Stay single you will be better off in the long run and don’t move in with people you have only known for less than 3 months both of them are too immature to be in any relationship.

[@3l3llala13]

There’s no single set of solution that applies to everyone. Some people do well moving in together while some don’t.

[@oldageisdumb]

I think you should ask the millions of happily married people if it better to stay single…

[@thomasharris5151]

Nope… I see you already have your cat 😂 single for a lady is the pits as she ages. Especially as she ages from 40 - till the end.

[@aprilbouknightmarquez6340]

​@@oldageisdumbbeen married almost 23 yrs, love my marriage..

[@oldageisdumb]

@@aprilbouknightmarquez6340 I’m happy for you!! 24 here!

[@SpanishRockstar]

She’s so pretty, and very smart as it seems. She can get anyone better.

[@fashionforwardmom]

She's a liar and a pity party thrower. She needs to grow up

[@pixiechick92]

She is average and her mind is what drives away men 😂😂😂😂😂

[@jaynehogue2459]

She's desperate and needs to grow up

[@SpanishRockstar]

@ i just believe people become dumb when it comes to love.

[@PhillyPhil201]

What’s her @

[@MindSetReset]

Plaintiff needs the unfailing Love of Christ first and foremost 🙏🏾- If Jesus accepts me, who can reject me? NOBODY!✝

[@aminakhristoffo7948]

Amen!

[@thefonzkiss]

Get out of the Middle Ages.

[@streetsofgold4310]

@MindSetReset So True! I am praying that she finds that unfailing Love of Christ!

[@3rdstone311]

Amen and Amen!!!

[@mickcawley4797]

The Judge got this right on the money. She could have done any number of things to find another room mate and the hospital visit, nothing but emotional blackmail.

[@satansbby]

right she was being manipulative imo

[@danieltucker632]

Thanks , one honest comment now I can go to bed 😂

[@sisilyte7]

But why was it only on her to find another roommate when he was the one that left. He should have also helped to find someone new also.

[@marys4565]

​@@sisilyte7He mentioned that they did try to find a roommate but she was distrusting of them.

[@SebastiansLeftGlove0731]

This is the only real comment here. Her manipulation was completely glazed over. Falsely baby trapping someone is messed up. That plays with a lot of emotions

[@petaljoa8734]

This judge takes nice to people then flies off the handle

[@GigiRulesTheRoost]

Beauty doesn't matter. good grief. you are beautiful so you should be happy and not have any problems. wow

[@yahira6928]

Right Beauty does nothing for a broken heart

[@ccworld2352]

Omg, it is said that she is strong (which she is trying to be). She is also fragile and seems to be an empathy and/or an highly sensitive person. She is strong, but constant struggles without support can be overwhelming. I know her pain too well.

[@fashionforwardmom]

When you have to turn to others for support honey you aren't strong you are a leaner someone who needs to be told what to do and how to act. She needs to grow up with her almost 30 years old self and realize that life is ups and downs and everyone has to move on. Her problem is she just had to stop and cry about it and check herself in to the hospital claiming some BS about wanting to kill herself and had to let him know and told him to call her mommy. I mean really people that try to kill themselves that really want to kill themselves succeed. Lets be honest.

[@pixiechick92]

She's just a crazy mess she's fake and you're buying the bs😂😂😂😂

[@fashionforwardmom]

@@pixiechick92 IKR

[@itsruth5584]

@@pixiechick92how tf would you know that ?

[@metalgeartrucker4574]

Can't help but appreciate that beard.

[@ldcole90]

I appreciate those eyebrows.....lol

[@YoungBlaze]

I appreciate her 'Fro

[@cynthiacler9284]

I agree that all these hair comments are justified. ❤

[@SnoopVee]

I said the same thing. That beard was beautiful lol

[@anayasdad81]

hey as a beard guy myself that beard do look pretty good man

[@crystalshaw8744]

He didn't give his mother ish.

[@logicalblackman8228]

😂😂😂

[@thomasharris5151]

It doesn’t matter, the fragile girl got her money it all that mattered. He could’ve left her high and dry! And waited on a lawsuit or not. As long as he broke up with her it’s all that counts! He was tired of her. 🤔Would you rather they lie and cheat on you or stay with you when they hate you, just to use you? Life isn’t perfect deal with it!

[@neisci]

"Strong" people go through a lot without sharing it with anybody. Check on your "strong" friends and family members. He broke the lease, keep on paying, was the least he could have done after leaving her stuck financially. She still needs a lot of help, the way she reacted when the judge issued the verdict...

[@ckong25]

I would think she would make enough as a paralegal where she wouldn’t need a roommate.

[@jackieb133]

We don’t know her debt load. I’m thinking repayment of student loans.

[@vmo2942]

And they live in L.A.🤷🏽

[@11lululuv]

depends on where they live tbh

[@pannamal5182]

These people have to grown up!

[@urluvizmyluv1999]

I never recommend that ppl break up face to face. It's dangerous AF.

[@AmysExquisiteGifts]

Okay so I’m not the only one. Now days ppl are having psychotic breaks in public with no regard for cameras.

[@crystalshaw8744]

Why did this make me tear up?

[@crystalshaw8744]

I know why. She doesn't value herself enough and worries what others may think of her. I think she had self-esteem issues as well.

[@bwhitham7435]

Beautiful Queen, you dodged a bullet! You cannot see it now but you truly did!..The “Best is Yet to Come”!♥️🙏🏾❤️

[@VANITYISFARE]

Threatening suicide and telling someone they’re pregnant because he broke up with you is mental Abuse . She was manipulating him so he could stay with her

[@thomasharris5151]

Thank you for saying this! 😡It’s crazy that, “it’s all the man’s fault” in the comment section! She’s the loss cannon and unstable person clearly not ready for an adult situation at almost 30yrs old!

[@Kamal-ei5df]

This is like the only comment I see about this and his mom saw the signs first

[@meghandawson2324]

I am glad someone said this! She called him from the hospital so it was always all about him. I have known girls who claim pregnancy to keep a guy on the hook.

[@ericericgoodwin8147]

He didn't want to pay bills and keep job... etc. Dodged a bullet girl

[@fashionforwardmom]

He did she is the one that didn't get a roommate he dodged the bullet

[@Nevaeh1]

He paid four months of rent after he moved out

[@GigiRulesTheRoost]

She right away tries to make it sound like she had nothing to do with anything and everything was "he thought it would be a good idea if.....".

[@antoinettetapper2785]

She's beautiful 😍

[@YoungBlaze]

But makes bad choices 😮 Like.....really bad choices

[@yvonnecampbell4663]

He is not ready. Stay home with your mama and cat

[@thomasharris5151]

She’s not ready for a relationship, stay at the hospital or in a dorm room setup with SEVEN people in a stinky house!😂

[@soproto00]

Easier said than done. When you like who you like, it's hard to move on. I'm just saying. It happens to the best of us. Even when we are strong.

[@streetsofgold4310]

So true!

[@stephc189]

Defendant is an immature baby. Pregnancy manipulation,....POSSIBLE....JM should know that beauty & intelligence isn't a depression prohibitor.

[@yahira6928]

Beauty does nothing for a broken heart

[@schawnettarobinson8584]

I respect him: He paid the rent for 3 months.

[@elliebellie7816]

Who cares if she's pretty or he's handsome? They managed to bring out the ugly in each other and it caused the breakup. Pretty is as pretty does.

[@PhillyPhil201]

Oh shut up every woman deserves to be told she’s pretty has a good job and intelligent she was just fragile and this bozo couldn’t lead her did he even visit her in the hospital? She’s deserves the best

[@logicalblackman8228]

Do you think he’s handsome? Because I cannot see it. I’m sitting here baffled at what she saw him. But if you’re a woman, maybe you could give some insight. He’s short, bald and not even well built.

[@TheYvonnewise]

I just wanted to hug her I pray she found peace and happiness

[@bhornannawindeedeigh5007]

SC girl outside saying 4 months is enough time to get to know a person and move in with them. Girl - that good schooling you're paying incredibly high tuition for is doing you No good. Sad.

[@lenigray]

She's stubborn. She didn't get her way. She should have accepted a roommate or asked for lease termination.

[@atthismoment3006]

Why would anyone move in with a stranger??😮

[@deeluu7560]

Obviously cuz they can't afford to live alone 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@blessedtobealive]

Calm down, you're born into a family of strangers.

[@rckkeller9437]

Unfortunately not everyone can move on…shame on the judge for even suggesting that is always a possibility!

[@elizabethg0809]

Ok. When someone acts like a nut when you break up with them, keep this comment in mind. She was a wacko. This isn’t how normal ppl behave

[@11lululuv]

@@elizabethg0809 she struggled with a mental illness. don’t be so ignorant

[@rowan64official]

Why did he say process server like that!?!? Did he think Judge Milian didn't know what it was 😂

[@y2l906]

Sounds like he hesitated because he's currently out of work

[@robinmowbray5663]

My momma told me that if I don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything. I don't have anything nice to say about these 2. And why do people think that just because you are beautiful, that you're automatically immune to human problems? Two, 21+ year old kids. That dude let her off easy. He didn't want to REALLY want to say why he broke up and moved. He had to get away!!!!

[@carriegarcia4173]

She is not a strong person. She tried to manipulate that dude, lied about a pregnancy, hospital stay, she NEEDS HELP.

[@Sacra898]

1000%

[@leafrazer8440]

Everyone handles breakups differently. The Plaintiff had strong feelings for the defendant and the way he left was devastating leaving her to pay the rest of the lease alone. I know the Plaintiff was hurt, but maybe the defendant leaving was a good thing. This is a huge red flag, if he left you high and dry with an apartment then he'll do the same with everything else that gets tough. THANK GOODNESS YOU DIDN'T HAVE ANY CHILDREN!!!! You would of been left alone raising children! Consider yourself lucky! You are gorgeous you won't have any problem finding a good responsible man!! Don't give up, your life matters!!!!!!!!

[@joyslove3858]

I may have missed it, but the mother never looked at her daughter with compassion. She should help her daughter whether the daughter asks for help or not

[@simpleman3009]

This was a Dr Phil episode 😮

[@123bcastle]

A strong individual but can't hold up to adulthood.. pay bills have to have man around..

[@ziwestan1990]

Some of these comments regarding the plaintiff are deplorable. Anyways I hope she’s now in a much better place - sometimes it takes longer to get over the loss of a relationship. I wish her peace and good health.

[@theunit4366]

It’s better to break up over the phone sometimes cause I can tell you about 3 dead people who did it in person and it was the last thing they did. She clearly is crazy getting depressed over being an adult and having to pay bills. Then she just lied and said she’s a strong person. I can’t stand these fake victims.

[@zoeg7985]

They both are stunted at maybe 11 yo and yet they’re out in the world with important jobs ..kind of unsettling to witness

[@pixiechick92]

Exactly and all these people kissing her ass are just as stunted

[@ja49jr]

Depression is hard to cope with. Hope she is doing better. As for him, he is a mommas boy.

[@willie211]

So a person can break a lease & only have to pay 3 months after breaking the lease. That's good to know.

[@dec1slh]

The landlord has to try to mitigate their damages. I broke a lease and someone moved in by the first. The landlord tried to sue for the remaining months on the lease. He lost the case because he didn't miss out on any money.

[@panamafernandez4641]

The landlord doesn't have to do anything but collect rent. He doesn't have to help find a new roommate or anything like that. But the landlord has final say on the new leasee, if they don't pass the background check, the landlord doesn't have to accept them. The people on the lease are responsible for paying rent. Period. If she placed ads for rent & showed the place, she did what she's supposed to do.

[@dec1slh]

@panamafernandez4641 the landlord has to try mitigate damages once someone breaks the lease. If they don't they only get 2 - 3 months worth of rent.

[@panamafernandez4641]

@@dec1slh Let's be clear. You're responsible for paying the rent for the length of the lease, unless the the place is uninhabitable. You were LUCKY the landlord got someone in & didn't lose anymore, otherwise, you would've been on the hook, voluntarily or through civil action. I'm sure the landlord told you they had someone waiting otherwise you would've been responsible for your lease.

[@dec1slh]

@panamafernandez4641 I may have been lucky, but I moved out because I was robbed by the people in the unit next to me who happen to be related to the landlord. Had he not found someone, he could have sued for the remainder of the lease. But he had an obligation to try to mitigate his damages, if he did nothing to try to find a tenant, he would have only gotten 2 - 3 months worth of rent. Most people don't go to court when sued so they get a default judgement against them for the amount of the original lawsuit. In hindsight, I think that is what previously happened with other tenants, but I showed up to court and pled my case. FYI - the landlord didn't tell me anything, we weren't on speaking terms, but I wasn't risking my life and possessions by staying there. Even if I would have had to pay, some things are not worth the risk

[@MarlonColeman-o7h]

Can we acknowledge the fact that instead of cheating this man went back home ❤

[@tashanapink7688]

My ultimate heartbreak happened around 28/29 and I was in shambles but there is life on the other side of heartbreak. I get really sad when I hear heartbreak stories.

[@thefonzkiss]

No one cares, momma.

[@Leonrey-ic1wh]

Sounds like you're still not over him.... why do girls want a dbag that doesn't want them or even care about them.

[@tashanapink7688]

@ I’m actually married now so I’m definitely over it.

[@Neenaross214]

They are both gorgeous people (skin is absolutely flawless on both of them !!) and I hope they get emotionally and mentally stronger and more stable.

[@lifewithdeedee3392]

She needs to let go my God

[@el-Cu9432]

Definitely. As the old saying goes, "You can't hold on to someone that doesn't want to be kept." People would be a whole lot happier if they took this statement to heart and move on.

[@zoelife7272]

how i know this man isn't lying - he did everything in his power to be kind and protective with his words. he did NOthing to destroy her character. he is a good person. she may be strong, but this one she refused to let go of

[@Realauntmeme]

My husband and I both knew it was the real thing after a week. We've been together a little over 24 years now. When you know, you know.

[@romansbottom]

Unfortunately this isnt always the case

[@YoungBlaze]

I met your husband He's a pretty good guy

[@thefonzkiss]

Your husband has a Brokeback Mountain friendship with me.

[@Leonrey-ic1wh]

That's just conformation bias..... every man receiving a blow jobs feels that way...until he doesn't.

[@CharisToTheWheeler]

I do agree with that. My husband and I went on a date and we never stopped seeing each other since. 😂

[@brittanysturrup1]

This case broke my heart

[@sharonjohnson8512]

She's embarrassed but airs her dirty laundry on national tv.

[@thomasharris5151]

🎉😮😂 exactly! She’s still in love with him! This is her way to stay connect to him. Krazy people do this, just to stay in your life! And her mom shows ZERO emotions! I betcha her mom is the same way and ran Daddy off!🤔

[@Ladybug-mt8tp]

Women, stop doing this. This man pulled her into this and bailed. This is why I no longer operate in a certain way. A man can dip if he gets scared. A woman would have been dragged if she left.

[@toohappyy]

"He didn't provide a solution for ME". She likes to play victim.

[@kimoran1981]

Definitely.

[@SebastiansLeftGlove0731]

Exactly. He tried and she didn't accept it

[@Alphaphotographer]

She is a beautiful woman, intelligent, I hope blessings overtake her.

[@jvillebil13]

Plaintiff definitely dodged a bullet by getting out of that relationship when he did.