Taking Single Parenting By The Horn |

[@bumploveug]

What do you think is the reason more and more women are becoming single mothers today?

[@daphinekwikiriza468]

its bad decisions that us women and feminism to simple put it

[@patriciakigula7402]

Men aren’t stepping up. Dassit.

[@pamellanuwarinda7554]

Men fear responsibility.

[@ruthiebrenda4595]

I think women sometimes lower their standards for men who don't deserve tolerance. A woman will brush off red flags of a man dodging bills during dating and pull out her wallet to pay...which inhibits conception of single motherhood.

[@sanianyakato7134]

Rachel summarised it for me. There is need for clarity from the beginning. My prayer goes to my single mom friends,you are strong. Kudos ladies, always amazing!!!

[@kasozinazifah3767]

I’m watching this in 2024😢 having PTSD from watching an episode of the new season of bump love without these ladies😢 and a particular episode of toxic masculinity with Kyamagero as a guest justifying single motherhood with saying it’s women that make it uncomfortable for the men…. I’m crying 😢😢😢😢

[@katek4724]

Pumla just made me tear up... Nice discussion ladies. Especially about how women are single parenting in marriage.

[@leodinaaero9333]

Thank you for the show. I'm not a single mom, neither I'm I married yet however I like what you say Pumla about the strength and fiber in a woman that pushes them to hustle. Very educative. You all look awesome.

[@dorothyisoto6469]

Rosette summarized it for me. So articulate and clear

[@akellofreda6406]

Thank you ladies, I think Recho said it well most relationships start without a basis and limits. Without dos and don't.

[@hallejudy]

Rachel thank you for highlighting clarity because that's the first cause

[@shaniceo8291]

Pumla you are so articulate and on point , Manuela you said it so well. And to the rest of the ladies , you are so so eloquent n intelligent.

[@aberjosephine9956]

You ladies were speaking to my heart. I will choose this same path in another life than be unhappy, disrespected and have my mental health threatened. Pumla inspires me daily, as a single mom I get you well. We are raising champs and all our hustlers and hurdles will pay off some day.

[@mariafaria7787]

Woo the best show for me this Feb, it's so touching and awakening but God on our side. Love you ladies

[@jackiezcribbabycenter6168]

Best show for me, thanks for thinking in that line ladies, it's so touching, encouraging and God above all. Love u ladies

[@annnamuyomba9869]

Am proud of you ladies, thanks for educating the Society

[@mimiloveoffical1810]

There is so many relationships that are not meant to be hands leading to single motherhood. Most of the women out there who seek for help from the side of the man tend to say that they are single mothers, which they are not as pumla has said, I support her saying it because it takes a woman who plays both roles in a child’s life to be called a single mother. Thanks for the show guys. It was really educated and interesting.

[@ndebesachristine2825]

I always go to do grocery and what I have noticed is that 90% of the people selling are women and then I always ask myself "where are the men who are supposed to be working hard to provide?"

[@bibie3317]

Today I finally get your chanel.been looking for bump love channels, you beautiful ladies talk alot of sense. Thank you for each topic.not yet a mother but getting there in afew years .

[@sharontroy4245]

Thanks so much Naye u guys should be giving us more episodes

[@Loveafricalovetheworld]

Wawaw ladies, You are amazing, and you are doing a great job. Thank you for bringing up this topic. I have been living in Uganda in and out, and I have always wondered how these single mothers end up single-parenting. At some point, it was frustrating. I am sorry to say this, but I was surrounded by single mothers at my work place, house helpers, even one of my security guards was a single mother. There were days when I attempted to reach out to my house helper.Most of the single mothers I met were those who involved themselves with married men, and the came let's stay together. I think this needs help the young ladies, mean girls need awareness..I know it requires alot but if you can make a video for the sake of young girls.... Because I realized most of the single mothers are cases by the come let's stay gather if I am wrong correct me. From where come from most of the single mothers are widows it breaks my heart young ladies she of 22....40 because their husbands dead in war

[@ruthiebrenda4595]

Haaa...my elder sister is a married single mother...as in married but single handedly handling marriage

[@angellaUlevi]

What does that mean? Genuine question

[@ruthiebrenda4595]

@@angellaUlevi she's married but she does all the stuff in the house like paying bills, food, kids welfare...stuff like that and the man in his comfort zone. She's still hanging in there...

[@angellaUlevi]

Ahh, thanks for explaing

[@selphaadweya]

Kindly share on dating as a single mother

[@nashaclems136]

Going through the state of being a single married.... Rosette you were talking for me...and it hurts

[@mbogoglad2078]

Pumla is a strong lady and has confidence,lady of no nonsense 😂😂

[@BBonietor1]

Thank you Pumla, we have to paddle on.....

[@jdm3762]

Hey Bumplove! This is a repeat! We love the discussions though. Hope we actually get to watch the episode with "married single mothers."

[@sarahbirungi]

I give credit to my mother, she raised us single handedly,I we never lucked she could sell her belongings for us to get what we wanted

[@evelynayot3123]

Interesting topic. Alot to share

[@christineayebazibwe4452]

That's true ladies, having financial independence is key for single mums lest they sink in depression. But you can still thrive

[@mimiloveoffical1810]

In Uganda what as a person I believe that brings ladies to single motherhood. Number one it is all about the people we fall for the society lack of needs as we the young women, and getting irritated from our partners.

[@claretekla1747]

Financial independence is paramount 🎉

[@kahundeiryne8443]

Being a product of a single mum and being an only child has an effect on me. Imagine having to enjoy the independence before becoming one single mum in the the near future.

[@lilliankas5764]

Keep moving forward by the Grace of God

[@Revoadolph.256]

@bump love Whats ur take on kids whose parents particulary mothers, that have leaked videos or pics concerning adultery ? En how can that parent handle the life after Thank you

[@mablekirinda3895]

Thanks alot ladies...pumla cyber hugs mama......it's the money answereth everything for me manuella

[@selphaadweya]

Financial stability is important

[@anyangoesthermary8786]

There are so many married single mums, and its more tiring to be a married single mum than a no husband single mum. Long live my mum.

[@nemahasiimwe523]

Lack of clarity.I Gerrit

[@aggiekisakye674]

But manuela's shoe🙌❤

[@judithlilly841]

We watched this early this week I guess

[@candyk1008]

For as long as men and women don't take on their respective roles in marriages...many homes end up breaking

[@BBonietor1]

From the definition, am a married single mum

[@terrybouko8961]

You guys reposted this ,did watch

[@julietmujumba6094]

First of all,lord am praying that you deliver us from this thing.You guys am a single mum but am telling you this thing is not easy and I believe hundred percent it's not from God.And church must fight this thing,coz I believe this is where we can control it from,talk to people before they get to marriage especially men,Men are causing this at a very very high rate by them rejecting responsibility in homes they start. So mothers be careful,very careful.Coz the day you will get a child of a man who doesn't even know they go to supermarket a buy pampers for a baby,hmm! Hmmm! Hmmm! No money,no money,no money,then wa do you expect the mother to get them from if you the father can't afford them?! Now me am sorry to say,me personally!!! I can't listen to this year by year and continue loving to look at you,hmm! Eeee...!! No ,no,no . I can handle me not given anything,but my kid suffering when the father exsists in my hands,No .We better keep distances from each other forever.

[@julietmujumba6094]

Married single mums!!! Yeah,this exsists also,then I will call this an Abuse to that woman.Oh God,

[@imeidamoraa3966]

In KENYA the population is more than that

[@fay007]

Do you boo🤣🤣🤣

[@dianahtendo7282]

Sometimes you discuss issues with men but they switch up on you eventually!!and your caught off guard but have to deal anyway!

[@forthepeople3179]

And what is the meaning of Bumb love before you go far?

[@julietmujumba6094]

I wanted to go to court for help,but as I was planning it,God made me meet a girl the mom took to court for help from the dad ,the man was made to do everything for this girl ,the girl finished school,but the girl again hates the dad, reason,he didn't want to take care of her,I told her forgive coz he did it still,she said no,now how can you call that?! There I said lord ,give me the grace to stand and always send me yr divine spirit coz believers don't handle things forcefully.Coz I believe the ends of this girl meant not be good am telling you.If the dad took care of her,she had to forgive him for the past,Now this beautiful girl can sleep with all kind of men,and she says it's very ok for her,she sometimes goes with real signed HIV guys and after takes pep, that's her source of income too, A covered curse!!!!! They made a man a slave to always bring money for the kid by force,and the girl is a sex slave every where,ate nga bwebazimuwa,azilya buli zona zona,Hmm!

[@raymondmakola5858]

I concur with Pumla's sentiments. I think s Men we need to come to party, things have changed. I consider myself lucky as i was raised in a big family of boys and my Mother taught us to do everything. But honestly if we get to the level of looking at once's potentials and using to the family's advantage that will help, lets just stop gendering chores. Moreover, Women have just started doing away with men's nonsense hence the elevated divorce rate.

[@BBonietor1]

Here is the thing some one will tell you he is not ready for when you are pregnant up to the teens of your child and some how they show up

[@ruthiekuku5865]

According to the definition of single mothers that was given at the beginning of the show, Pumla does not qualify as a single mom!!

[@ndebesachristine2825]

Rosette am with you,,the men are sooo lazy

[@Laikaneza]

Mothers have to put in more sense in a boy child , a boy child has been ignored , men now days want women to go to work and pay bills at the same time raise a grown up man . Such men offer just bed matters the rest I can cover it if I choose to be a single mom. At the end I can still get sex if I want to as a single mom than always baby sitting a grown up Human being of a man

[@namutebibelinda4580]

does being horrid to children have to do with being a single mother ...?

[@athyjudy5682]

I think the world hasn't yet caught up with women enlightenment. Women now are less likely to put up with what those that were here 50years ago were able to put up with.

[@NEC73B]

What exactly is laughable about single married mom??!! Do you imagine their struggles?!

[@namwangahajarah4830]

Haven't we watched this

[@kiraboneema808]

But someone not being the woman doesn't mean stops being a father to the children and providing. That's what u all got wrong

[@shiphrahatukwatse7294]

Women emancipation was the greatest cause of all this

[@alatirushamim4514]

Father's av forgotten dea roles as men. Women are tired and now standing for dea rights

[@kobusingyeeve9271]

1st here 👊

[@nabidigido3765]

Banange ladies how do I get Mrs. Kakembo's phone number I need to speak to her.