Tamar Braxton Talks Domestic Violence Allegations Against Her

[@ashamakeny2112]

You can see it in her eyes, she’s not “good”. It’s sad because it’s like a pattern. She never takes time to heal properly... it’s a vicious cycle

[@thisqueenwontquit9699]

i feel like she 50% there...1/2 truths 1/2 pretence still blaming some...throwing out there that she created the the Braxton family...crying with no tears

[@divawithaattitude4121]

Exactly

[@zanguiza]

Asha Makeny , there we go with judgment again!

[@LADYDIVAful]

@@zanguiza I agree with Asha! WE always need answers from hurting people and they should forget about US and heal FIRST! Tamar, has unhealed trauma that needs time to be dealt with properly!

[@ashamakeny2112]

@@LADYDIVAful Thankyou! I just feel like all this was too soon. Also tamron called it out perfectly! Is it “for attention “. Cos why would you unfollow your family and in the same sentence claim that u speak to your mum everyday and everything is all peachy sweet. She just does and say things that don’t add up

[@arturmacedo8437]

Nene, Tamar, Mo'nique and a lot of other women are telling us how toxic these companies are and we are not paying attention to them. That's sad.

[@trayc3600]

Artur Macedo even if that's true, can't NENE & the rest of them, do something else? Do they really have to stay with these Companies? I don't think their being forced to be somewhere where they don't want to be. They're grown. Shouldn't that be a choice?!🤷

[@ashleighcakes74]

But this is the image and Alter egos they created. Then get mad when they have to play it all the time. I say be your true self at all times

[@maryarmour4868]

Stop taking them CHECKS! IT'S NOT ABOUT WE TV, IT'S ABOUT Y'ALL TRYING TO SERVE 2 MASTERS!!!

[@THEDOORIZCLOSED]

Have to disagree with this comment. 1. Nene was messy from the start, even though I love her. She didn't have to be that way. She was even like that on Celebrity Apprentice--MESSY! Her messiness made RHOA a thing, however she attempted an acting career but for some reason went right back to reality television being MESSY. 2. Monique was the same way. Although she was successful, she was messy. When it was time to promote Precious, she didn't do her job and left her for her family. She also talked mad shit and her mouth got her in trouble. She body-shamed thin women and then overtime her ability to get booked shriveled up. She may have won the awards and had her own show and everything else but after so many years, NO ONE was checking for Monique except her fans. Netflix bets on which show will be a hit and they couldn't afford someone like Monique who has been so controversial, so they went with the other female comedian who is more hot and popping. Monique self-sabotaged herself and then when Steve Harvey tried to help her, she started fighting him 3. The company has nothing to do with Tamar's antics. She, like everyone else, has been messy from the START and she has ultimately ruined her career bc of it. The frequent spats and erratic behavior...you can't blame networks for that. If it really was the networks fault, then the other four sister would be spiraling out of control as well....and they aren't. So Tamar's downfall is her own fault.

[@jeremiahtray5621]

Let's not forget Mariah Carey. She holds no secrets to the industry.

[@nrjappah]

Tamar the abuse was not your fault. We are not judging u girl. Get well, don’t ever feel guilty for pain inflicted on you by a monster.

[@MattGalter]

I am, her body language is way off. This is part of some press release, THATS IT. NO REAL TEARS + DUPING DELIGHT- WHEN THERE ARE ACTUAL PEOPLE ACTUALLY KILLING THEMSELVES, RIGHT NOW. She sick

[@cynthiaadams2392]

@@MattGalter Did you see their mother's duping-delight in the BFV trailer, when she was recounting hearing the news of the suicide attempt? They are all so...😑

[@Bloooooooooooppp]

What’s sad is people are judging her. They are eating her up online almost gloating at what happen. People don’t see the trauma they just see her persona. It’s sad.

[@rtthomas3667]

Growing up in a super religious household without any real spiritual values or beliefs and the actions of the adults do not align with spirituality will "EFF" children up. You get accustomed to being fake. It's a must to have a public persona to keep up the facade of perfection. You just don't understand unless you've lived it. This grown woman has no idea who she is. She needs intense therapy.

[@kimjones9356]

@@Bloooooooooooppp I agree its really hard to watch. Sometimes it's better to love some family members from a distance.

[@godschosenvessel4473]

My heart goes out to Tamar regardless of what ppl say negatively about her. Mental Health is real, prayers go out to her.

[@arvellgreen1]

If you’ve never been sexually abused you won’t understand what it does to your soul. To escape the lack of worth, you create a persona to be noticed and to be liked. It’s not an excuse for Tamars behavior but it explains some of the patterns we’ve seen.

[@sabrinasmiley8903]

This is such an insightful comment Kevin. Thank you for your compassion.

[@LisaLisaCJ]

I have been and I dont act like Tamar...no one I know does and I know many who have been molested, some by their own parents and they dont act like Tamar.

[@kelifacharles4075]

@@LisaLisaCJ we are all different. We all respond to trama differently

[@LisaLisaCJ]

@@kelifacharles4075 being nasty and hateful has nothing to do with being molested. Period.

[@arvellgreen1]

@@LisaLisaCJ I won’t try to convince you of my perspective. Trauma isn’t easy to diagnose or treat. It’s ALWAYS our responsibility how we act or respond to life however, it’s irresponsible to say what isn’t the case because of her trauma. There are so many factors at play when abuse happens. What we can agree on is that she needs help and healing. We are eligible for and responsible for compassion.

[@tenishamonderson1971]

She's right! The show is not the same as it used to be like at the beginning. I now see why Toni did not want to partake in the show.

[@maryfigures]

All the Reality Shows started out funny now they are getting toxic

[@Kirwina]

Tamar has been struggling since she got fired from The Real Daytime Talk Show. Tamar needs to get away for a while and really reflect on her life etc. She has been coming across as a overly dramatic angry black woman on reality tv for many years and look at what happened. I wish her well. God bless her but she needs to get off on tv and find herself and passions again. She should not let money and fame control her life.

[@gmjnsn1695]

She needs to find another industry...Fame isnt for everyone and she cant take being called out on her bullstuff! She did three shows for WE-Tv and participated in a strike but resigned for more with WE-TV! SHE IS IN AN INDUSTRY THAT DOESNT ALLOW FOR ARTISTS TO MAKE $ LIKE THE PAST! SORRY SAY WHAT YOU WANT BUT SHE WONT EVER SURPASS TONI! SHE ISNT HONEST AND SAID ON HER SHOW THAT HER FAMILY HASNT SPOKE TO HER SINCE THE NAPA VALLEY SCENE BUT HER SISTER TOLD CLAUDIA JORDAN SHE UNFOLLOWED THEM BUT SPEAKS TO THEM! WHO TOLD IYLANA THAT WAS SEXUALLY MOLESTED SHE ONLY SHE AND ANOTHER PERSON WHO WASNT HER FAMILY KNEW ABOUT MOLESTATION NOT EVEN HER MOTHER KNEW???

[@zanelemofikoe2374]

She doesn’t take rejection well

[@aGwEENapple]

Yes I wondered how she was going to deal with that. That had to be highly humiliating being pushed from the table. That was a part of her identity. But other woman celebrities were talking about her. She can be fabolous without being their focus of resentment. Fabolous doesn't mean catty.

[@aGwEENapple]

On top of not being divorced for long

[@leereneecee]

She was struggling before then. Her ex husband treated her so bad. I would cringe when I watched Tamar and Vince sometimes.

[@NaturallyKristen86]

She should start her own KZbin channel on her terms like Adrienne, we would watch, wish her the best

[@deziraelorray252]

Great suggestion

[@lp604]

She should, but you know when it comes to this media stuff. When you sign a contract it means you are owned by someone. Whether you want to work or not, it’s not up to you.

[@bestress04]

@@lp604 exactly! Adrienne's KZbin channel is run by a company called Kin. It's not really on their terms. Living in the public eye and on social media may be Tamar's job, but it's obviously not good for her mental wellbeing.

[@candidlychar]

She did Tamar takes .... but then she added David 😑

[@toniewilliams9157]

She has a channel already and i actually use to watch it

[@RSVPwithLori]

Tamar STILL isn't being honest with herself and she won't be able to break until she actually comes to peace with who she is.

[@kingbey9500]

She doesn’t need to let y’all know everything damn. Can she at least keep somethings to herself you don’t know what she going through in her own mind.

[@bluesky1685]

thing is with mental illness you feel fine for a moment then you get triggered you just fall to that dark hole again

[@kingbey9500]

@@bluesky1685 yuppp you can be fine for weeks or months and then boom !

[@consciousanfesiashapsnikof8688]

Tamar is a problem to herself. She's speaking about the botched suicide to promote her podcast. She is a chronic attention-seeker who is the lead in her own demise. I don't believe David nor Tamar, and the way that she answers questions is evident. She's still lying and promoting herself.

[@SultryNeoSoul]

How do you know if she is being honest with herself. You don’t even know her personally. You sound judgmental. Why say that? Would you want someone to say that about you?

[@yvettetorres7829]

Tamar is too raw to be speaking up yet. Being on television and being interviewed on such private issues will not help for healing journey.

[@cleopatramyers6134]

She needs more time away but I think she is doing this because she wants the narratives about her to be from her mouth only. I pray she gets the healing and love that she deserves.

[@maryfigures]

She keep saying she don’t want to put herself out there but she is doing that. She is not talking the time to heal herself.

[@dannyclarkemacomber7022]

Shes not forced shes being paid and gets views which leads to endorsements. This is all Hollywood bs

[@carlmilton8197]

That may be for you. Everybody's different. Talking about it and helping others can take your mind off you . it helped me alot by speaking and helping others.

[@SultryNeoSoul]

This is Tamar job how she makes money is on tv. It’s easy for you to say it’s too soon. She doesn’t work at Walmart can’t just quit and call it a day.

[@sibabalwemangali4491]

I still feel like there's a lot that she's not saying.

[@pansysgarden]

Same here. I think she's holding some things back.

[@SCRIPTED33]

@@pansysgarden Why should she have to tell everything what she told was enough.. She doesn't owe anyone everything... Does anyone here? feel like they owe everything... That's crazy as you can see what she's giving to us the public is hard enough..

[@jesuslovesme8477]

@@SCRIPTED33 I know right! Greedy nosy people!

[@kevinharris3993]

Tamar is not ready for this interview. Tamron is a journalist and she is going to ask the tough questions and Tamar needs to treated with a little more sensitivity. I do believe that Tamron showed empathy but she is going to ask the tough questions and I don't think Tamar is ready to be confronted with the hard truth.

[@ronnajackson5893]

Very true, she’s not ready. Tamron asked the same question (why did you attempted to end your life) several different ways... She never really answered or I missed the answer

[@jackieabbott4362]

It was Tamar choice to do it .

[@antoinette6388]

So very true, I don’t think she is ready to come out and talk about the events that have happened , yes , Tamron did very well trying to be gentle , maybe Tamar needed to rest before doing any more interviews .

[@billhughes8726]

Tamar don't need to be on TV.

[@jewelaiken7637]

Tamar was mean and nasty to her sisters throughout the Braxton Family Values especially when she was new money with her ex-husband. And until she owns that her rift with her sisters will never heal.

[@klion3924]

Tamar was mean to her sisters because she was abused and lashed out in other ways to her sisters. Her sisters should not give her pass but show her love unconditionally.

[@sherryan1]

Agreedd... she was mean for ratings and this is the result... I do believe she feels bad for it but does she understand it. It seems that she willingly played the villain and the end result was chaos unfortunately

[@tb718w]

Do y’all think iyanla was right for checking her or calling her out?

[@karenmccloud4660]

So, BFV, Tamar and Vince, Get Ya Life, and The Real - none of them art the REAL Tamar? People always show their true colors eventually. Can't be different to each group of people. Tamar is the common denominator in the breakdown of all her relationships.

[@karenmccloud4660]

@@tb718w If someone really is seeking help, they would not behave the way Tamar does.

[@EDT3270]

Tamar reminds me of K. Michelle and Nene Leakes. They’re obviously hurt people hurting people, but blaming everyone else for the hurt that they cause and seem to refuse to take accountability. FULL accountability. They seem to hate the drama but also thrive on it. I pray she can heal. I’m really rooting for her but I think she really needs to take a step back from social media and “celebrity” to truly “do the work” and heal and come back when she’s mentally ready.

[@LeeLee-ux8gh]

Crazy Victim

[@brainsandbeauty2832]

I just wrote that I'm so sad to hear her neglect accountability in the areas that were her fault.

[@janesmith7346]

If she truly do the work, I don't think she will ever do reality TV again. Maybe she should self produce her own music while working a "somewhat" 9-5 JOB for a regular paycheck with benefits and until she can do this musically full time on her terms.

[@destinystarkhan8888]

ESPECIALLY Nene.

[@desireepadmore5360]

I Agree With You 100%

[@user-ib1hz6rm7v]

When Tamar said “it’s not an allegation it’s a fact” that hit me.

[@kimmyd6832]

I will never forget when Toni decided that she didn’t want Vince to manage her anymore and later Tamar called Toni (the living legend) a has been. I knew who Tamar was ever since then.

[@LisaLisaCJ]

all of that is why I have zero sympathy and I dont believe her story. Mental illness and being mean are two different things. If thats the case all of us are mentally ill. She is just a mean spirited person.

[@mika6516]

Wow...she actually said that?

[@sus-kv4kn]

@@LisaLisaCJ I think she both!

[@THEDOORIZCLOSED]

@@LisaLisaCJ wowww I can't believe she said that!

[@orlandoaguasvivas6580]

Toni is a living legend....and Tamar is not even the shadow of Toni

[@ashleywilliams2369]

Tamar doesn't appear to be authentic during this interview at all. She shouldn't have done this interview. What she says, simply doesn't line up with her actions.

[@Wise0319]

Meds... you know how those ppl become puppets

[@ericparker2197]

what does it take for her to be authentic . I am curious to know since we all behave the same during stress and hurt...

[@erinscarlett1907]

I think she had tears in her eyes at one point and had to look up.. but we all knows she has key points to hit

[@beenbaddlewenskii5756]

She is authentication. You obviously don't know her🤦🏽‍♂️ she wanted to kill herself SHE IS SERIOUSLY HURTING

[@catalystcoversations5644]

When did Iyanla say she was sexually abused?

[@ijaneek]

I understand that clips are cut out when making a show. But season after season Tamar was rude ,mean, acted like a brat. Now everything that is happening to her is everybody fault but her on. Own Your Stuff Honey

[@tokelomalatji803]

It's like you read my mind🤞

[@rashawncampbell7619]

Best comment lol

[@user-br7qc3fv4o]

@@tokelomalatji803 you're south african 😂😂😂🤞🏾

[@tokelomalatji803]

@@user-br7qc3fv4o thwii

[@MarquesTheProducer]

clearly, you must've of missed her accountability part ... this isn't the full interview. it's longer. she already owned up to the fact that she was rude and she owned up to her being the problem. y'all just refuse to see it ...

[@deborahcruz1019]

Tamron did a great interview . I like how she interview because she does it with care and doesn’t add to the Gossip.

[@KnowWhat]

The sad part is wholesome families without issues don’t draw ratings. The network probably saw greater profits at the expense of her family fighting all the time. It’s so toxic!! Good for her for recognizing that & not wanting to do it anymore. Tamar I wish you all the best!! 💕 ❤️

[@nme.00104]

💯🗣️💭📣📢👏 remember it happening to deshawn on real housewives, they wrote her off because she was too boring and with her husband being a pastor he wasn't involved in any scandels.

[@harrietsmallwood6743]

If she truly wants to heal, she needs to get off TV. Period. Also, I’m confused about who exposed her abuse during that Iyanla show, I don’t recall it being mentioned? What I do remember is Tamar coming out after if aired and stating that it had been revealed during the show.

[@ceesway100]

Me either... maybe they edited it out and she spoke too soon. Sad though!

[@christinacarlyn240]

I'm also confused about that. Especially, since she said no one in her family knew about her being abused.

[@tb718w]

I think iyanla was right to call Tamar out and she didn’t like it and her mother didn’t like. If she told iyanla that I’m confidence and iyanla didn’t air it then she kept her secret....if Tamar didn’t tell but another family member did maybe they thought she need to have that info to truly understand tamars ridiculousness. But I’m still confused on the truth with that one. But Tamar acting like at 40 or whatever age her going on iyanla was the breaking point highlights the fact that Iyanla was correct about Tamar abs her behavior. Tamar is hyper focus on that show because she got her ass checked in a way that nobody has done or those that have done so Tamar gets into a fight with and iyanla wasn’t having no parts of it. When Tamar finally got fame and true notoriety it was on the bfv and she was dramatic, disrespectful, self absorbed, cruel and never took accountability instead covered it with funny verbiage, lip smacks and eye rolls. Naw, iyanla wasn’t what cause anything. She has been allowed to be horrible to others and highlighted that for further fame and didn’t like being called out. How as a person with all those negative feelings about reality tv did you sign yet another contract to do more reality tv? Your not new to the game so how did they dupe you? If you’re feeling suicidal, who is worried about going to work? I wish no normal person harm but she a regular person just like the dramatic asshole type person we all know in our real lives. We all know someone like Tamar. We may say “ohh girl I can only take so much of ____” or “___ is always doing the most. Thinkin she can treat people any old kinda way”...I know someone who did a dramatic pretend suicide in my family. Literally wanted sympathy for yet another f up that she couldn’t hide so she created a narrative that she was suicidal. It’s sad. It is really sad because there are people who are truly struggling with suicidal thoughts And depression. I agree with another commentator, if she’s really concerned with her mental health she needs to take time off from all media including social media and remove herself from the entire Hollywood life and work on herself. She is blessed an lucky enough to not need to work for survival because financial she should be in a strong space and if she’s Not Logan’s dad should be. She’s needs to stop and accept the hard truths about her character and behavior and focus on becoming a better her.

[@babykaylene99]

it was said behind the scenes to her family w out tamar’s consent

[@YaYa-ke1zr]

Someone on the show shared it with a producer during that taping... and Tamar felt that Vanzant crossed the line with that knowledge whether she flat out mentioned it or implied it during taping. I didn’t see her mention it though. We wouldn’t have known at all if Tamar hadn’t publicly acknowledged the abuse after that show aired.

[@jmlx7179]

This was a great interview. I appreciate the way you handled this interview with sensitivity and grace. She deserves a happy life of love and peace.

[@MarshasJourney]

It's not just the show that is causing everything. She needs to get to the bottom of the issues and heal all that trauma.

[@peterparker01676]

Hello dear Marsha How You Doing tkoday?

[@GrowwithNaomie]

She needs a break.

[@rorisang88]

Agreed. She just needs to stop!!!!

[@MattGalter]

She need a better acting coach lol... its not funny, there are actually depressed & suicidal people out there: Tamar is NOT 1 of them

[@BriaBarrows]

Yes! And she needs to focus on God. Social media is killing these celebs

[@wendyellis3738]

Maybe..but she wanted to be bigger than her sister then she couldn't stop wanting more and more..but more is not always good. She made some very bad choices and like to point the finger..

[@keishasymone7375]

All she has to do is stop doing the show 🙄

[@missbehaving9128]

*JESUS SON OF OUR ALMIGHTY GOD PLEASE COVER TAMAR AS WE KNOW THAT YOU CAN. HALLELUJAH*

[@lefikapeloetletse170]

Amen 🙏.

[@danicepedersen5071]

Amen in Jesus name

[@zulema_dilemma]

Amen

[@luenajenkins4112]

Amen God only you can help Tamar.

[@amirasmith4132]

Allah has no son no partner . Jesus is the messenger of Allah Get your life

[@Rebecca57097ssss]

I treasure interviews like this because it humanises people. And viewers should refrain from judging especially when revealed, understand reason behind their motives.

[@jsue6994]

Dang Tamar. Now I see where the pain is coming from. Childhood trauma will rear its ugly head and make you want to hurt yourself. I know. I have struggled with this. She will need counseling forever to stay grounded. Family and friends can’t heal that pain. Prayers for you Tamar. When confiding in someone about your childhood pain, it hurts when that person takes that conversation outside of the two of you.

[@stephenchristian3636]

@ J Sue Amen 🙏 Childhood trauma is real & not only that it shapes and mold you into the adult you are today. I'm a Sexual abuse/physical abuse survivor an til this day still fighting some demons but thank God for Therapy an healing.

[@moniquebrown5009]

I always believed her family never gave her the support she needs

[@ticrowell1080]

Love Tamron’s no nonsense approach at the end.

[@Lsa238]

Tamar I pray for your recovery. Mental health is no joke and unless you know what it feels like you’ll never understand. It’s like being a prisoner in your own mind

[@caligirl7492]

OMG...you just said a mouth full cause that's exactly how you feel. Speaking from experience.

[@janiceharley9051]

I was told from a friend that it is like being in a dark hole 🕳 and you cannot get out!!Only through Prayers in Jehovah and through Jesus Jesus.

[@veronicahickman5634]

I believe her…..all the way….🙏🏾keep her and whole family covered

[@ShawneesJourney07]

🗣Tamar Estine Braxtonnnn I need you to 🛑 get off social media. Stop doing interviews. And REALLY do the work. This whole interview was cringy. You're still afraid of who you are. You have not taken accountability for anything you've said or done. Being the baby braxton is over. Beeeeeeen over. You're 43. You don't know yourself. You're afraid to know yourself. Your representative looked cute for the interview though. I'll be here when the real and healed Tamar is back and ready to slayyyyyyy life. Love. And the music industry. ♥️ #Tamartian

[@shondap4448]

Absolutely right!

[@ladys5289]

She sounds like she's rehearsed her answers so much that nothing comes across as genuine. It seems scripted if that makes sense.

[@ShawneesJourney07]

@@ladys5289 her representative showed up. Cute for the cameras.

[@trinityizzard6821]

You hit the nail on the hid w/ this comment.

[@peterssister421]

Very well said..WE LOVE YOU TAMAR❤

[@sorayariley]

I wish she would heal off air. But her attacks on we tv is completely uncalled for.

[@klimaxxx06]

She’s not well. When one beefs with everyone then it’s that person. She lost husband, co workers at The Real, new boyfriend, Employer at WETv, her sisters. She’s into it with everyone. She needs help.

[@daniellesteele6328]

@@klimaxxx06 all of that is not just her fault there is other ppl that have had a hand in it.... like why she get blames for everything 🙄🙄

[@klimaxxx06]

@@daniellesteele6328 It’s her! It’s not all these different people, she’s the common link to all the drama. I hope she gets the help she needs

[@daniellesteele6328]

@@klimaxxx06 I’m glad we all close to her so we know what’s really going on in her life I don’t know why ppl wanna be in the business that much like just leave her alone stop blaming everything on her it’s not just her 👍🏾 GOD BLESS

[@klimaxxx06]

@@daniellesteele6328 I’m glad to have common sense and can see that those around her for her whole life have concerns with her. It’s not everyone else in her life...it’s her.

[@Karynwashere]

i saw Tamara back in April during quarantine coming out Whole Foods in DTLA. Even though i was starstruck I stayed in my car and just watched her. She looked so sad. May God comfort her. I feel her pain.

[@Peace-lt8bc]

stop staring at people...just weird

[@kamariatoure42]

I live in LA, too. I see celebrities all the time and you are so right! A lot of them look so sad, even the really rich ones. And to think this is the business I'm steady trying to break into ironically... SMH

[@jt7911]

@@Peace-lt8bc 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@etherealbutterfly]

@@Peace-lt8bcthat would be you as you’d likely had ran up to her begging for an autograph. THAT is weird. The commenter gave the celebrity space. Star struck and all. That was considerate.

[@ReemThearab]

I am so heartbroken for Tamar. She’s such a sweetheart. She holds so much in, and here she is pouring her heart out. I really hope the best for her and her son. She really deserves it.

[@MicheleAleczandria]

It's sad because she's the one who wanted the reality show. And in my opinion she was so rude the entire first season, but she was entertaining & was loving being the Break Out Star! Now that she's looked at as irritating and mean she wants off the show. Interesting.

[@justrene6858]

🔊💯💯💯👏👏👏👏👏

[@myrao819]

Sounds like its HER FAULT. So was desperate to be in the spotlight. Thought it was cute to be all over the top...wanted the fame. I dont feel sorry for her. At all!!

[@CodeRed06]

💯

[@MissPamR]

Tamar came out of the gate lying saying she’s “good”

[@egyptscott4801]

LOLOLOLOL NICE

[@brandinmichael5475]

She defined "good" as being better than she was yesterday.

[@seacyren161]

@@egyptscott4801 why is that nice?

[@dtl77089]

Is it me or is Tamar being evasive with her answers? It seems like she's playing a game by not being genuine.

[@flncgirl5705]

Bingo!!

[@MicheleAleczandria]

I feel that too

[@latoyajackson2874]

Not one ounce of accountability....this interview was a waste of time

[@trinityizzard6821]

Tamar is still acting... Her being a dramatic brat has cause the disfunction in her family... She has to grow up and take accountability.... This fake crying is killing me... I can't...

[@justrene6858]

💯💯💯💯💯👏👏👏👏👏

[@yasminejasmine4368]

This poor woman doesn’t trust anyone, she feels unworthy, she feels alone and always attacked.... she is defensive and over the top all the time because of it. It all starts from her mother... how don’t you know what’s happening to your baby in your house???!!!! And then if you know how don’t do everything in your power to fix it???!!!! Because of what people will say? Because of what the church people will say???? Anyone with a brain can put two and two together.....

[@makechanges1821]

@everlasting gobstopper is this a trick question? I immediately interpreted that as meaning her mother putting things together that was happening in her house. Chileeeeeer lol 🥴🥴🥴

[@makechanges1821]

@Jasmine Dickerson you are overly invested in this comment lol. You should simmer down, relax, and meditate. It’s not that serious love 😂

[@maryfigures]

Sometimes you have to separate from toxic people even if it is your mother ,and sister.

[@wendyellis3738]

You want to be famous so you got it..

[@llbabygirl1528]

I think her mother didn't know because Tamar hid it for a long time, they probably threatened Tamar not to say anything we don't know the full story

[@corrislinden8689]

I’m Praying for you Tamar Jesus Christ has you in the palm of his hands and he promises that he is close to the broken-hearted and saved those who are crushed in the spirit 🙏🙏🙏

[@duggie88]

This interview was just not good, the repetitive ask of the day she wanted to take her own life and not trying to understand how she got there was a little distasteful. Tamar definitely needs some time to herself and to get help.

[@SheiFunmiNomiaYusuf]

Tamar seems to be dancing around the questions Tamron is asking, particularly about her suicide attempt. It is still too raw for her to share that part of herself and what she has been through (or still going through) She is not ready and someone needs to let her know that it's okay. And it's also ok to take a break from television and the media.

[@TheNeeuqnozama]

Yeah she asked like 4 different ways, Tamar never answered

[@proph-od1bj]

She sold her soul for fame

[@Forevermally]

So many things to say.. since season 1 Tamar has been off the chain!! I think she saw $$ and she continued to disrespect her sisters and herself for a check each season. Now it’s bad BAD and it’s wearing her out. Her family is torn apart. From this show.

[@rashawncampbell7619]

Agreed

[@mizzmiami3242]

Nailed it 🔨

[@exertionathletics5353]

They aren’t torn apart, they don’t fool with her. Vincent said she had a problem long before

[@michelledavis4341]

That's what reality tv does to people and their families.

[@flncgirl5705]

I believe her and David were physically abusive to each other!! Tamar never tells the truth about anything so you can’t believe what she says. She has publicly disrespected the pace sister, Iyanla , her family and others Im sure. I think it was last year or so when she was on Wendys show talking about how fione this man was and smacking her lips and how she’s changed yada yada!! I’m really tired of her at this point !!

[@princess373357]

Healing, praying for peace it seems God is the one to deliver her. She is human and make mistakes God has to rescue her, her finance saved her life. No comments on her relationship

[@schroeder666]

she is 10000 percent fake and what else can you say? she's totally lost in the job of being an entertainer and a fraud

[@thisqueenwontquit9699]

this girl is really hurt or shes a master manipulator ...where are the tears

[@nosim3092]

No change in eye color even

[@mykel1990]

Botox will do that for you.

[@adrienneb4009]

Glad you said it first. Didn't want folks coming for me in the comments. Its difficult to take her serious because she's such a character. I like her and hope she gets the help she needs

[@LisaLisaCJ]

she is the latter...

[@thisqueenwontquit9699]

@@adrienneb4009 I feel the same way ... I’ve been rooting for Tamar since the real... but she needs real people to tell her the truth ... let me not say more

[@kimmyd6832]

I can’t say that Tamar isn’t in pain but she did not come across as genuine in this interview. She needs to really stay away from all forms of media for a while. I just don’t know if her financial situation will allow that.

[@crystalo8603]

I agree. I feel for her, but she did all that sniffling and didn’t shed not one tear. I feel like it was rehearsed. If you are about to cry, it’s really hard to hold back tears for that long and she did it soooo many times.

[@niickywms]

I’m not getting a genuine vibe from her either

[@marlonbattley2905]

The woman just attempted suicide. How dare you say she is not genuine. How would you feel if it was you? You are horrible human beings!!

[@Chiqsan]

I agree. She could be numb and still think she has to give a certain presentation for the world. Wouldn't surprise me if she is medicated too. She hasn't learned or built up enough courage to be 100% authentic, that will take her some time.

[@lovelysnowella1665]

You're right. I know what you mean. She is totally fake here but it doesn't mean she isnt feeling anything. It's just that she is still acting and presenting an image which is unhealthy

[@apurple86]

TAMAR!!!!! Don't ever let anyone have that much power in your life EVER!!!!!!!

[@shakeanasmith1858]

I'm not going to say she's lying and I'm not going to say I believe her either. I've seen her cry to td jakes and give heartfelt apologies to her parents and siblings in front of iyanla and still regress. Sometimes if you are a compulsive liar and master manipulator you can fool anybody. I just hope these aren't her usual tactics and if she is sick and hurt. She gets the help she needs

[@ericadjonret]

I was thinking the SAME THING!!!! I’m not gna lie, she just does not seem genuine to me. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@ALIOA]

Damn like being in a depressive mode you go through the motions. These motions are different from people to people. With me I was literally a zombie no emotions whatsoever then I moved into anger (angry at everything & everyone it didn't matter to me). With Tamar acting up it shows that she genuinely has some underlying issues. This is applicable to everyone really, there's always a source. If you're a pathological liar perhaps you were lied to a lot, if you are a bully perhaps you were bullied in some way. I don't think this was an attention seeking stunt by Tamar. & Also it's difficult to stop old habits.b

[@ALIOA]

Oh goodness I don't even think I made any sense. The construction of the entire essay is horrible. Please disregard 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@Immeallday]

👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@LisaLisaCJ]

she gives "heartfelt apologies" then sideswipes everyone in her family...this whole interview is manipulation

[@MossyB4Prez]

Man these comments are ether. How do yall tell people how to act after something they've been through? It usually starts during childhood, gets suppressed and it eventually has to come out. So many people deal with depression, anxiety etc. Tamar definitely isn't "ok" because it's in her eyes. Now that I know, somewhat part of her story, I can understand why her attitude is the way it is. It's a mask. A defense mechanism protecting the unhealed inner child within her. I hope she receives it.

[@MrsTmac0784]

💯‼🎯

[@peacheskong2245]

TAMAR NEEDS TO LEAVE HOLLYWOOD, PERIOD she's so hungry for the fame. Go to a small town, relax, unwind, pray, sing and heal. She's her own worse enemy. Why is she doing interviews being active on sm when she nearly attempted to kill herself?? There;s NOTHING healthy nor normal about her behavior. She doesn't want to heal, she's too busy trying to convince people she's a victim. I'd want to see her do better so much.

[@THEDOORIZCLOSED]

She hasn't healed ONE BIT! And you're right, she's too busy trying to do damage control when really the only way she can fix the damage is to go get therapy for herself. I have never seen this kind of behavior before!

[@nawal10]

But how do we know she’s not also slapping on a wig and makeup here to continue and lie??

[@destinystarkhan8888]

I feel. Tamar is lying. She seems very desperate for attention. Any kind of attention. Very sad.

[@JustGwen57]

She's such a drama queen. I'm sorry about her being molested. She can be verbally abusive to people and I believe David when he says she attacked him. She needs to stay off 📺. She's crying and not tear

[@shayk9227]

All these comments are so true...im watching this like Girl Bye.. Its too early she needs to be off camera and take a break. Smh

[@nawal10]

@@shayk9227 she loves the camera and attention, good or bad, so she will never take a break 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@shayk9227]

@@nawal10 right

[@JoeF1997]

If you see this Tamar, you are LOVED

[@56348u]

Attention seeking at its best.

[@zivanholloway]

Your mental health comes first. Take care and get well soon Tamar! We love you! ❤️

[@cj10109]

I’m glad she’s doing better. I’m still praying and wishing her the best 🙏🏾❤️

[@Missriroo]

Look at how she’s breathing as tamron speaks ... literally like she’s waiting and thinking of what to say.. CLEARLY she is NOT okay. Tay needs to first take accountability of the things she has said & done and just be off social media. She really needs to heal.

[@kyralynch5880]

Bless Tamar's heart, having the courage to talk about her internal struggles. You know why she got that call to come into work the next day because these shameless networks are making tons of money off of black pain...period!!

[@LaFemme434]

I just wanna give her a hug and tell her she will be ok. She WILL get there. She is fighting #staystrong

[@muffthisshxt]

This makes me sad because we can all tell she’s not good. It was too early for this interview. Tamar has to heal and accept her truth before she can be vocal about her truth to the world.

[@ms.gracefullybroken8724]

Yessssss...she mos def hv to heal & be honest b4 she can encourage & inspire any1 else

[@ms.gracefullybroken8724]

Let’s give credit where credit is due, Tamron Hall was awesome in this interview. Big ups to her❤️

[@reginamillergodsproperty]

Nobody told Tamar black women don’t get what they want in Hollywood? Some folks want fame so bad then end up dead! Tamar done act a fool since she came on the scene that makes them people coins. Not being positive or nice... just facts This interview is weird

[@anjukacey6658]

Sending love to Tamar...she really should start her own KZbin. Start small and building it back up girl.

[@shellshockedmummy6265]

I agree! She will be in complete control. I have seen the other girls of the real doing it well

[@fairydust950]

Not a bad idea

[@EyeSpyBlackAmor]

God shes beautiful. As a person who suffers with mental health issues I admire her bravery

[@jamesvids123]

It’s sad how people are reacting when we know she tried to kill herself. We all have issues in life. Issues where we just want people to listen, understand and respect how we feel. Tamar I pray that you heal. That you find peace. There are a lot of people out here that will blast you for being emotional honest. This isn’t what God wants from us. I love you sister!

[@DyanaRozay]

Wow this was hard to watch. Tamar is able to confirm that she was molested by several people in her family but she's still protecting her abusers by keeping their identities private. God bless her. The day she stops protecting them will be the day she and the whole family will be set free. This type of secret rots family bonds.

[@vickyserr]

its extremely difficult to out a family abuser, because even though u are the victim, families don't like dirty secrets aired. they will sweep all the shit under the rug, then what? you've spoken but everyone else has shut up, so who really protects the abusers?? family or victim?

[@DyanaRozay]

@@vickyserr everything you said about families wanting to keep sexual abuse a secret is true, but Tamar's story is no longer a secret. She was outed by a family member who works on the show; and it was aired for the world to see. It will never be undone.

[@vickyserr]

@@DyanaRozay I wouldn't want to be outed, wasn't their place to do that. its Tamar's story, not theirs. The truth always finds it's way out.

[@SunandSunflowers]

@@vickyserr all of it is true. You out the victim and everyone will turn on you and sweep it under the rug. The only thing you can do is get help for yourself.

[@jenf836]

@@DyanaRozay this is what I don’t understand. When was she outed? On iyanla or the bfv show?

[@octavialuci275]

There’s going to always be a part of you that will remain broken when you’re sexually abused as a child. You never get that back.

[@iamdynez]

I mean....i hear you sis, but the cameras can’t capture what you don’t give them...and you gave a whooooooolllleeee lot over the years, really TWO MUCH, no shade....i hope that she truly finds peace in her life , cause fame isn’t worth all of this....whole time there’s a child watching all of this take place...

[@paullgagliardi5798]

All the Braxton shows that someone needed to put Tamar in time out. She always acting out! A definite cry for help, happy she finally is getting the help she needs. 💫

[@trishkenzysm8769]

I feel Tamar has some serious issues and her family are covering more up ,and then again blaming David for tamars problems.

[@dmitrimccullum4346]

Facts so I didn't understand why they blame David for something they never really addressed thier issues

[@petb8449]

Hold your head high Tamar. You are a strong woman n no one can break you. Learn from all you've been thru and keep moving forward. You are very talented, intelligent, wise and blessed.

[@RENTBOYBEAUTY]

Tamron is so professional!! Love it

[@mari.castro6891]

God be with her, heal her pain. ❤

[@DNB7227]

Sometimes that life is not for everybody. I remember Tamar, saying she asked Toni to be part of the show and Toni did not want to do it. You've got to have a solid foundation to be in the public eye and walk away sane. It's just not for everyone.

[@butterflyblackout1276]

If she didn't tell anyone then who found out??? Who told? Makes no sense.

[@darlenne7918]

Also it would have been a great way to face the fact and HEAL! Just face the pain and HEAL!

[@SD-hs2pk]

I'm guessing during the couseling sessions then one leaked it

[@Clarene24]

It was leaked from counseling She knew it was from counseling because she hadn’t told anyone else

[@shaunte35]

You be surprised what siblings witness but never speak on... no telling what those sisters saw that Tamar didn’t know they seen .... especially since Tamar admits that it was several different family members.. from 6 years old to 16 years old

[@KayKay-fc5sg]

I am thinking the same thing. If she never told anyone, her family didn’t know then who told...the therapist, her or did someone(s) in the family know?

[@hevspring189]

Get well soon Tamar we love you 😘

[@lisandragreen8039]

I’m not sure if anybody remembers the Iyanla show and the situation leading up to it airing. Tamar went off publicly trying to discourage anyone from watching the Iyanla bc she ASSUMED her abuse was going to be aired. It wasn’t. Her behavior was the focal point and even her going off about the call times, etc. Maybe I’m missing it, but this whole “they used my abuse to get ratings” isn’t what happened on Fix My Life. The episodes are here on KZbin. Watch for yourself. Tamron kept trying to keep her on track and I simply could not understand why she kept jumping around and blaming a network for showing her as she behaved. There wasn’t a body double. I understand growth, I understand wanting to show up as who you are presently, then do that. No one needs to give you permission to be who you are. Just be it. I’m sorry it took such a toll on her but honestly I don’t understand, maybe I’m not meant to.

[@colleenscott7769]

Tamar, you need to Get Ya Life for real, before you do any interviews. Please get some help and take care of your mental health. Your true fans will be here when you're well.

[@hernandezchantay9592]

The whole time not a tear fell acting to the 1000 🎉 nice Tamar

[@sefsagi7071]

Thanks Tamar for sharing your truth! It takes courage!!! Hope she be okay now n in the future!!! Praying for her success!

[@A.Shawnee]

Tamar cries with no tears...truly a talent

[@misswinter5329]

huh?

[@Litteratuer_Dee]

Always

[@misswinter5329]

@@Litteratuer_Dee she doesn’t but okay…

[@Litteratuer_Dee]

@@misswinter5329 On the show she did .. a lot. But okay ..

[@horton12wright]

Facts fake asf

[@RSVPwithLori]

This is probably the best acting she will ever do.

[@miloperrault2614]

That's a very critical statement but then everyone has an opinion.

[@daniellesteele6328]

That’s very disrespectful to someone pain no matter what y’all will still give her back lash she can never win even when she tryna tell her story HER experience we really don’t know what happened all we see is what is on the tv and they edit it so let’s stop judging Folks👍🏾

[@orlandoaguasvivas6580]

Her whole life is a show.....Toni Braxton wannabe

[@PreciousTea-i9n]

Tamar lived a thirsty life of being served on a silver platter surrounded by a group of humble happy and hurt family members that chose to share there beautiful life with the public. Now after everything goes down hill for her, we have a young woman cry victim of suicide due to multiple allege sexual abuse. I am a huge supporter of suicidal victims & survivors as I recently buried my ex-husband to suicidal and daily pray for my son who also suffers with mental health. I scream, cry, question, & pray looking for help so that I can continue speaking up as an advocate looking for all types of resources to help other loved ones. If we're going to speak our story we must share it from beginning to end regardless who approves. No one has suffered the hurt & pain of the victim & your unfortunate experience. We don't want to doubt any victim so we ask that you please seek the proper help before you speak a story that can leave your audience questioning themselves as the whole story is not shared. We love the Braxtons, we wish this family tons of success & love and will cherish & remember Tracie with all of our hearts. Tamar we send you prayers and hope you find the help that you need for yourself and for your precious son.

[@noellmd]

After watching both segments, I’m impressed with Tamron Hall, Tamar responses seem inconsistent ,defensive and unclear ,, although it could be related to her being unhealed but Tamron is trying to ask tough questions without being insensitive. This was not an easy interview.

[@darlenne7918]

This should have been an Oprah interview.. Tamar is not ready !! Take time girl to truly heal

[@empressbreeze]

This interview is a little blaming. If you’ve never had cancer, you can’t relate. If you’ve never dealt with suicidality or depression, and you don’t have an empathetic heart, you can’t relate. When you’ve gone through certain traumas, it literally changes the functioning if brain. Think of trauma wounds on the body. The heal but the scar is still there. Mental health challenges are no different from any other health challenges. I applaud Tamar for talking her truth and her experiences. I hope she gets the healing she needs.

[@kanneshiaburdett8443]

Tamar Tamar Tamar.....PRAYING that GOD gives you PEACE that surpasses all understandings!!!!

[@teer6201]

Her acting is horrible..the fake tears repulsive

[@Joy-xu9wk]

@Frances Alaniz people need honesty, even when they are down. You don’t enable bad behavior then get shocked by people who have no boundaries.

[@melb9514]

@Mz indy You sound really stupid! Learn what mental illness is and walk in mine and Tamar's shoes! Just stop it messey!!!

[@GannyAngie]

Anyone every thought or think that there is two sides to a story, it is not a coincidence that both Vincent and David said she was physically abusive, and that she texted David a message saying he should not have just left, but forgive the things she has done, implying she did something to make him leave.

[@alicemiriah]

When is Mona Scott going to stop being in the shadows doing the devil’s work and getting away with it? Sure, the people who agree to the show are grown and making that decision, but her and her producers manipulate and do all they can to stir up trouble for these people. I know some people believe we won’t watch without the damaging drama, but you will!! She needs to be dealt with. Enough is enough.

[@linklight889]

Its not a mona scott issue they want the fame and money. They are the ones that choose to be fake.

[@wandarosado4495]

Being a survival myself the pain never goes away...you can push it to the back...but it always finds its way....Strength and the Grace of the Almighty will help you through mama....

[@mirandam5746]

I cant with the whisper cry 🤥

[@richardbutterfield412]

Funny how she agreed to do the latest round of The Braxtons. And she says she hates reality TV

[@toronce]

NOT ONE TEAR, GIRL!

[@t.c.5456]

💅🏿💅🏿

[@nikkiteatawk9604]

Nope. Not nan one! 😂

[@briannadunkers-brown5072]

That’s what I was LITERALLY just thinking

[@theanimator9964]

Tamar am so sorry u r going through this💔... u r special and I love u!!! Just continue be strong❣Much love from 🇯🇲

[@XxMercuriiXx]

If someone in the family did give the producers info about her SA to Iyanla, I wouldn’t be surprised if it was Towanda

[@Indialanae]

No foreal

[@ms.gracefullybroken8724]

Before she could heal & deal with her divorce from Vince, she was already in a whole other relationship. It’s impossible to have a husband & a boyfriend, that’s total dysfunction. What good can come from that, none...let’s get on one accord & stand in the gap for her & lift her b4 The Throne of Grace, God is able🙌🏾

[@amanid4970]

Where are the tears???🤣🤣🤣🤣 Tamar is something else

[@heatherdennis8752]

No Tears!! Tamar never answered any question straight . Tamron had to keep asking her the same question in a different form. Tamar is a Liar. And over dramatic period

[@FreedomofSpeech865]

Iyanla revealing someone’s business like that is revolting. Trauma must be handle with care by licensed mental health professionals. Despicable.

[@kaywilliams1616]

I always say this!!! Iyanla is dangerous and to televise these ppl in “therapy” I feel is exploitive. To each its own... I’m sure she’s help some but she has no license in mental health which I think is more than necessary when unpacking certain traumas...

[@804smiles]

I really like Tamar I know she can be extra or spoiled & whatever sum1 might say about her but sis does have a gift from The Most High, & I hope she really can take time 2 heal & find that thats the only way she can truly grow & be sincerely happy! Rooting for u Tamar B.!

[@mickeyavant5709]

Im a lil piece confused...how did someone in the fam tell somen u said wasn't known? Maybe it wasn't ur fam & cuda been someone else?

[@_beautymarkd4419]

Tamron is the best with the questions!!