HOW TO UNDERSTAND CALLOUS RELATIONSHIPS THAT TRAUMATIZED YOU |LIVE CHAT

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

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[@jenniferduron4204]

Cold hearted people really exist and it traumatized my being..my whole life.😔

[@kandeedee2913]

Thank you so much. Peace and blessings.

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

You're welcome!!

[@oonaghmolyneux7760]

Cold hearted = heartless, like talking to a prosecuting lawyer. You pay for your pets surgery. They say they would have put it down. Your pet dies. They ask you, how much did it cost? You call for their advice, they shout at you that they are too…for this. It’s anti-support, anti-humanity.

[@floatingincornishskies]

Cold hearted = the absence of love towards any & all beings. It is a loveless place to be.

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

Well said.❤

[@After_this_He_will_return]

Hello, Tamara. :) Thank you so much for having the courage to speak out about these topics. Topics such as these are going against the grain and can potentially be dangerous, so thank you! I am a victim of gang stalking, and it has slowly traumatized me, causing me to not necessarily become a different person, but to shut down and put up walls. Before I first noticed I was being stalked and manipulated, I was a very happy person. I was self-loving, much more confident and I was not afraid to express compassion and empathy. However, because I am under 24 hour surveillance, and 90% of the people around me, (even people on this platform are weaponized against me psychologically), use key words to condition my mind, and they use everything I say in the "privacy" of my home, I have shut down most of my emotions and have been conditioned to not trust anybody around me. This includes my own family members. I know that I am NOT the person I've been conditioned to be and that I normally deeply empathize with others. I miss deep connections with others so much. I just keep praying and trusting the Lord to lead me out of it, to heal me and reveal to me who I can trust and whom I can't. My gang stalking experience has taught me that there are many more narcissistic people than I ever realized there were before I experienced this. Your videos help me and I'm thankful for your work. 🙏❤️😇

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Thank you so much for that sweet comment of truth. I pray before I come on...that's for sure! 🤗 The only wisdom I can give you -- and I hope you truly hear that this is in love and concern -- is that you must work against what you feel is happening to you. You MUST push forward and be healthy in soul and mind. You must believe that you can overcome how you feel and what you are thinking right now. The last thing you want to do id isolate and withdraw because that's the "devils playground." You have to stay connected socially and possibly even seek out counseling that is truly beneficial and renewing of your mind. Hopefully, if you do decide to go to therapy, that you can develop a relationship with that therapist that allows you to explore where your mind, heart, and soul is and determine a more healthy existence. Praying for your strength.

[@After_this_He_will_return]

@@TherapistTamaraHill You're so welcome, and thanks so much for your reply! I will sincerely consider what advice you've given me - I need to chew on it for awhile and make a move. I do truly know that everything you've said is coming from a place of concern, so no worries. :) I'm so glad you are a believer and pray for others! I truly believe that prayer is the most loving action we can give to a person, because of we pray, then we entrust it in the hands of our heavenly Father. 🙏😇 I hope your night is blessed! 🙏❤️😇

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Amen❤🤗🙏I don't see life outside of Him! And I totally understand. Keep going. You're doing great!

[@hugmc]

Head up I have many tactics too help repel this creatures that I share with you later just up and getting ready 👍🇮🇪I know it’s hard too know who too trust have been caught out a few times myself when I should’ve known better but I am trusting my gut feelings again and letting God show me used too a believer and drifted away over the years been trying too get recently I suppose that’s why this is happening but God is love and I will succeed even at 63 years old ❤️

[@alexandreachislum216]

I relate to you 100% we are to not put trust in man and guard our hearts

[@larasudomlak7128]

Educate yourself AND use your intuition...there will always be haters and those who judge you. Move through your life with confidence.You are not doing anything wrong.🤗

[@marciamagnus9079]

Tamara, could you offer some guidance on LIFE AFTER YOU HAVE CUTOFF A PARENT/FAMILY MEMBER? My sister had to cutoff communication with our Mom but my sister seems plagued (by her sense of duty), if not haunted, by the decision. Bless you for your guidance!

[@susan6906]

Thank you for your help. I watch you videos.and I learn about myself. I believe being aware of issues that you might struggle with can make you a better person. Taking action and actablity to change so you are no longer bond to difficult and toxic behavior. Because once you change your relationships change too. What you no longer want to be and what you no longer want in your life. Happy healing!

[@peggydietz6148]

😢 I missed sharing with each of you … hard day and just needing to shut down … Also my furnace was detected as Not Safe … Friday …. Can not be replaced until Tuesday . And snow is on the ground falling this morning first time . Could this be warfare ? I follow a fellow from South Africa and he shared he had 3 flat tires in one week and his father 2. I present myself in court Monday am 9:45 BC Canada time. This will be the day the truth is exposed in court after a 40 yr marriage and 9 separated. I’ve become so aware of darkness and deception in every arena I’ve been present . It’s truly shocking ! I can’t get my head around your own children being used against you …. How can we separate our love and their lives and find peace . Forgiveness I know is first step . Hurting people hurt people, the saying goes. Authentic and integrity r a must to seek …

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Awww. There's always next week's live chat! Hope to see you then. And please hang in there. It sounds like life is challenging you right now. We all have been there (or will be there). From a spiritual perspective, it's spiritual warfare. Prayer is a must and I hope that you will see a "new" you and a different you on Monday. Hang in there.

[@btlfilmmedia9514]

Many thanks again for your great insight and helping so many people making these videos they are really well explained and detailed

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

You're very welcome!🤗❤Thanks for watching as always.

[@user-hn1sw4cf7x]

Great topic!!

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Thank you!

[@TamikaWoodard1029]

Good evening. I hear you well

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

Good! Thank you 😊

[@cascadiacondor4359]

Thank You Tamara

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

You are so welcome! Thanks for joining.

[@jennifersim778]

❤

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

Tamara, I just love this channel. God uses u to talk about the subjects I’m struggling with…the timing is always perfect and divine.🥹🙏🏻✨

[@TherapistTamaraHill]

I'm so glad! What an answered prayer. I'm so glad this is helpful to you. 🙏😇

[@kristengilbert3566]

as a adopted mom its the vibes, my daughter is 24 i have been praying for years she would change and grow up, now i am seriously opening my eyes into what she maybe a narcissist sociopath, soooo sad especially for my 4 yr old grandchild, she has been using her to get things out of me. I HAD TO GO NO CONTACT 2 MO NOW