ULTIMATE SELF CARE DAY: haircare, nails, pilates, solo date, relaxing & journalling

[@kaseygrace1396]

the clip of her eating alone and just feeling herself at the restaurant just like warmed my heart

[@growing.flowers]

lovee that

[@ducky_noodlez_]

I love seeing people enjoying their music while they walk along, always makes me smile

[@anuja2885]

Tam you're just something else. I'm about 7 years older than you but I feel you're way ahead of your age mentally and spiritually. Out of all the self help youtubers you're the only one in my opinion who has really cracked the code and are generous enough to share with us. Not by preaching, just LIVING. I'm gonna comment a before/after of how I'm feeling every time I'm finished watching your video: I was gonna skip my evening walk bc I was feeling lazy but I'm gonna put on cute clothes, my fav lip oil and finally enjoy my new wireless earphones while I finish by steps for the day. Love you girly 🧡

[@TamKaurVlogs]

You’re the best and I’m so proud of u!!! Hope you had an amazing walk 💕

[@melaniepatterson]

Proud of you for going to therapy! As someone who just graduated from regularly scheduled therapy...the answering your own questions thing is normal. Every therapist has a different style, but my therapist was really good about me allowing me to have my own realizations most of the time instead of projecting things on to me. And if she ever missed the mark in assessing my thinking, I felt comfortable telling her she was incorrect. I'm like you...I'm pretty good at connecting the dots. I, too, think everyone should go to therapy. Theres no "right way" but I think your entry point, when you don't actually need it, is more ideal. I first went to therapy when I was falling apart. No regrets for my past, but maybe I wouldn't have had to fall apart if I had a relationship with a therapist before it happened. I appreciate you using your platform to encourage others to try therapy...you may very well be saving some lives!

[@kosareslami6885]

Nothing is better than when Tam upload a new vlog 💌

[@itsirinabk]

Wow! This is the first time I’m watching your vlog and it’s soooo relaxing and inspirational. Just want to add some healthy routine to my haotic evenings😅 Thank you! Absolutely love it!

[@narmisajuha]

I felt super inspired when she was preparing her calendar for the upcoming week. 11 areas of life and incomes to juggle, its not easy and definitely seems dreadful. Looking at her feels like i can do anything i want to. Kudos to you tam for showing self care vlog and productive day vlog. Watching your vlogs really makes me feel there are 24 hours in a day just as you said in your phone addiction video. Proud to be a subscriber of your channels. Love what you do❤

[@mahgulnajafi5766]

Watching Tam's self-care day vlog in a self-care day as a part of self-care is such an amazing experience

[@taniamaiorenko8986]

going to therapy made me realize i already have all the answers she just helped me get there asking the right questions 🥰

[@OBVSlizx]

Found ur channel a few days ago and in love w ur channel! Ur so inspirational! I think tht clicking on ur vid was one of the best decisions I have ever made! ❤

[@rosemaryx7115]

You’re literally so perfect ❤ your soooo pretty, your so put together, productive and really kind!! This is the first video I’ve watched from you and you’ve already inspired me a ton

[@Jerrilynrene]

OMG! I absolutely loved every second of this vlog! You're such an inspiration! Keep going!

[@rochikapeswani8007]

I LOVE YOUR CONSISTENCY!!!!😫😫🤌🤌

[@jrdynb9812]

I’m glad you said this! I also have my therapist at times tell me “wow you know so much about this” and I was like ma’am….lol I also realized unpacking things in my past that I’ve already processed and healed started to negatively impact my subconscious so I asked my therapist to switch to more life coaching techniques and it’s been super helpful ❤ therapy is amazing but I also believe it’s important to know when it’s not serving you and pivot

[@simply.arabesque]

hey tam, just wanted to tell you that your content is a blessing to everyone, i was at one of the lowest points in my entire life when i found your channels, and you and your content helped me in ways words cannot even begin to describe- but thank you anyway :) ps: this video is the only thing getting me through studying my physics right now.

[@moonlightunicorn9181]

Girlll!! I love you and your videos so much❤ I can’t wait for the day you do your own live show and I can witness your wisdom in real life xx you’re pulling all us ladies out the gutter and into the light🎉

[@aariiely]

I love watching your vids! They are so incredible!

[@DexterMag-aso]

Indulging in your self-care day is like an exquisite canvas, each element a stroke of self-love. Your care routine resonates with the mindful practices Lisa Haisha imparted during that transformative retreat in the Philippines. Both your rituals and her teachings guide me to cherish moments dedicated to personal well-being.

[@serenaporcu8845]

Girl I just discovered you and WHAT? You are such a good vibe. I’m truly enjoying watching this video.

[@granthanadas5223]

I don't know what EXACTLY it is about Tam, but I have found her, and especially her voice VERY calming and motivating. This goes for her podcast too. Like there are millions of podcasts out there that cover the same topics she does, but I can't listen to any of them and feel fulfilled the same way I do when I listen to Self-obsessed. It's in her voice. That energy. And I am so glad I have found her finally.

[@1965hannah]

I feel the therapy thing! Sometimes it can be nice to just have someone who’s unbiased to talk to and vent but it’s frustrating when you feel you have the answers & they don’t come up with it before you. Sometimes having the answers isn’t always the end all be all in the path towards healing but rather a step towards learning tools to navigate life and solutions that work for you! Good luck!

[@GeetikaTrivedi-zs8eu]

Never stop solo date series. I am 21 and feel like I am growing with a friend when I see you thriving

[@annamathilda1108]

I really love your solo date videos!! ❤️❤️ As a psychology student myself, I just wanted to comment on what you said about her telling you, that you were having great insight. The thing is that a lot of people reaching out to a therapist, have not really experienced real emotional appreciation in their life, so in fact she’s just trying to validate your feelings and make you feel safe and secure with your own emotions. Hope this could maybe change up your opinion on it a bit! Really love your desire to grow!

[@judithmelvin7392]

Therapists aren't supposed to give you the answers they are there to guide you to them on your own. They can provide you with the tools you need to help you on your way. It is good to see more people talking about therapy and it not being a taboo subject anymore.

[@navyamahajan8889]

I love watching your vlogs Sunday evening+my dinner+your vlogs give such a wholesome vibe together🫶😭

[@heatherwhiting945]

Hi Tam, It’s a good thing to have insight it shows you know yourself and your emotions and what you would like to work on.I wouldn’t be put off by it it’s just the therapist giving you a compliment not a negative. Hope this helps ❤ Lots of love and love your videos Heather

[@Rt-dq8be]

Self care queen🛁💘👑

[@Someone_ya]

tam your vlogs are soooo needed omg thank you for inspiring me so much!😭

[@pratiksha5748]

Besan (chickpea flour) dahi (curd) and haldi (tumeric powder) god I've been using this mask since forever 🥹 (typical desi homedmade mask) but honestly it does a deep cleaning and it's really a good mask

[@thedarkestsunn]

I completely resonate with the therapy section. I also feel like I have insights before my therapist and I wonder “what are they telling me that I don’t already know?” Maybe you could try a different therapist too. I noticed I did that because I wanted a sense of control and didn’t want to talk about the things I didn’t have the answer for already, because it’s stressful to talk about

[@nadinefoster5212]

Hi, I've had a similar experience to you and Tam. But I've recently discovered something called life coaching, its similar to therapy, except it focuses more on empowering a person to focus on the future by working towards a goal x

[@charlotteashworth9779]

love her vibing to music ♥

[@shivali.s.20]

ALL HAIL QUEEN TAM ✨✨✨

[@samshimers]

This one is actually the bestest vlog I have seen so far.....

[@baharsorosh3083]

You and your vlogs>>>

[@nawnaweveye-nz1bz]

I never get bored of your vlogs

[@Maroua-j4o]

You don’t even know how much I love your vlogs 🩷🩷🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@sitimasarkar]

As a very shy person, tam helps me alot to build confidence. Love you tam! ❤️

[@lostfaerie9570]

Absolutely love your energy ❤️

[@sal-lu_22]

Your videos are my therapy 🫶🏻🌻💞

[@hashknowsstuff]

Hey Tam! Love your content♥️ keep going

[@_Mina_29]

I just loveeeee you girl you're like a therapist to me❤️❤️

[@lightninglotuslark]

If you ever feel like doing a what I eat in a day on a healthy reset day or a tutorial on how you did your best hair ever glow up you seemed to have in progress - love that kind of thing! I have a goal of getting the best skin ever any love getting inspiration from favorite youtubers like you and Romee Strijd.

[@valsvlogsssss]

Hi tam im just a normal teenager but oh my gosh you inspire me so much you give such good advice i feel like you helped me find out who i am (obviously i still have things to find out) but i don't know i just wanted to sort of say thank you xx

[@Flor_.bonita]

Your aura though 🥰

[@nonayabusiness]

Changed my total mindset upon life

[@saanvidheer6205]

I watch your videos manifesting this for me when i grow up. This is what I want so so bad

[@Hanniluvely]

such a queen

[@LuvArsha4eva]

Need more amazing detailed vlogs like this one!! ❤

[@sal-lu_22]

We love you tam 💖 I really appreciate your content and hard work

[@Iam-donald400]

You did super amazing, both this channel and the other channel. Keep it up.

[@abhayasriram]

hey tam! can you make a video about how we can improve ourselves for 2024? love from india

[@Lesy2317]

Love, love, love these vlogs.

[@pmv8163]

Your videos have actually changed my life, thank GOD for you :)

[@wink3085]

Ur so pretty without makeup omggg

[@sofiakaplanidou7877]

Can you do a video of how to set intentions and how to plan your month in detail please ? ❤❤

[@itsrosaliaaaa]

why this is so beautiful ‼️

[@Iconicopia]

what is the outro song!?! I love the instrumentals 💗💗

[@holistic.kate.]

Such a cozy & wholesome vlog ❤😊

[@mrssomeone2143]

I want to eat cheesyyy pizza this afternoon.....ahhh self care that i need

[@raeesagoolam4827]

I loved this video ❤ so inspirational

[@jeniecemadison5771]

In this video what tinted moisturizer or foundation did you use? 2024 I’m going minimal makeup natural beauty routine ❤

[@MarianaHernandez-gw2wj]

Hey Tam! I love your content and I recommend you to all my friends! I wanted to comment on the therapy portion of this video and say that you can always see a few different therapists before settling on one! The first therapist or form of therapy may not always be the best fit. There’s a few different types of therapy you should look into; such as cognitive, EDMR, emotion code (EFT tapping), etc. I wanted to give some insight in case you didn’t know :)

[@rageena_b]

Really enjoyed watching this video!

[@nonayabusiness]

LOVE YOU SM💗✨

[@sal-lu_22]

fav person posted 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@khushishukla6929]

Tam's British accent >>>

[@shreeyanshisinha884]

can we get book recomendation part 2

[@eduardaazevedo3891]

girllll I love your videos and your accent

[@cloudymoon5442]

LOVE UUUU QUEEN💕

[@ajohonly3721]

Love the salon vibes 🤩

[@lavender6215]

Please do vlogs more , I love you , god bless you and give you beautiful happy life ❤

[@pujasaha8507]

Her consistency made me think, how the hell she works this much in a week! 🥲💕

[@tudxg]

Watching your video's is a big manifestation for my future life 🌚❤

[@StxrB1rbie]

Tip for meditating: you can have your palms up, as it helps you breathe a little bit deeper. Ps: I think your such a star and i love watching your videos!❤

[@rabz2731]

Awww new favourite KZbinr

[@melfoster9787]

I need to know where that black coat is from! It’s so beautiful! Love the video!

[@aneeavenue]

Is mocktail like a drink with no alcohol??

[@mahnoorzaheer1800]

Pls share detailed skin care routine

[@ThatClassicGirlXO]

where is your jewellery from ?

[@maaatchalvr]

I love ur videos so much ❤️‍🔥

[@monahids]

I love your natural face and the energy you have this video makes me comfortable and loving my self . Love you girl hope you having the best life 🤍🙏🏻 1:46

[@Kia86282]

ahh love u diiiii 🥰

[@rojinayahh]

I love these vlogs! 💕 Also how do you edit videos on both your channel- efficiency and time wise hshs

[@TamKaurVlogs]

Thank you! Um I struggle quite a bit hahaha

[@elle.3792]

@@TamKaurVlogs It's so nice though when you show us the struggle. Sometimes it feels very unatainable because you're always so efficient and productive, so when you show us that you're not always on your 100%, it's like :) I can relate to this.

[@jordanskyfinding7767]

So therapy/ counselling = it depends on what type of therapy you’re going to. Counsellors have more of a “listen and let you figure it out” approach in my personal experience, whereas when I was in CBT therapy it was about how to rewire and reteach the brain and my therapist was much more proactive with helping me to figure out my issues. It’s different for everyone but thought I’d let you know as it could just be that her specific type of therapy doesn’t resonate with you. Best of luck with your second session xx

[@Almirakhalid29]

how did she make brum look so aesthetic i swear ive been here for like 7 yrs and cant find anything interesting to do in town and stuff ALSO THESE HAIR SALONS ARE SO HIGHEND which side are these on??

[@TamKaurVlogs]

Hahaha the salon is in Harvey Nichols mailbox!! It’s called James bushell💕

[@KRI..133]

Can anyone recommend me a good matcha for matcha lattes ?

[@ourperspective5370]

More videos like this please

[@nonayabusiness]

FAV GURLIE

[@user-christiexz]

What brand is the pattern tote bag purse from?

[@nasruddinansari8721]

She didn’t drink the starbucks coffee☺️😭❤️

[@NehaVerma-il1us]

U should post ur every week's solo date ❤❤

[@happycam1686]

i feel like you you would look so good with a chanel short haircut. One day you should try it.

[@Sawmxo]

U just got ur nails done with white nail paint and you’re doing a turmeric mask..girl ur brave lol

[@moonoligy]

Very nice vlog😊

[@raginiborkotoky1473]

Where is your night suit from Tam its so chic and pretty.

[@katevasileva7379]

love you ❤❤❤

[@Everythinggranola]

Your vlogs are so relaxing and insightful and genuinely not boring also if you feel like your therapist is unsatisfactory maybhe try better help ? It’s an online reasource where you’ve access to many worldwide therapists and you can change therapist for free until u get the right one Also walking while listening to music is the best I completely understand the vibe

[@minatran3652]

Great video 👍 . I just subscribed to your channel . I’m from Australia 🇦🇺.

[@FaridaAbbas-u7y]

Hey tam ilysmmm🩷u’re so inspiring🍭and I just started watching u recently and u changed my life keep going🐻and I hope u see this comment and reply to me🦋🫶🏻

[@cindylilies]

I'm confused as to how she walked in the rain with maxes on... they have microphones on the outside that get very easily damaged