Taylor & Soph on breaking up, 19 and pregnant & becoming TikTok famous | Ep. 30

This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/UnplannedPodcast and get on your way to being your best self.
We had ‪@TaylorandSoph‬ ​⁠​⁠​join the show to talk about their relationship, Soph's experience of being proposed, getting married and becoming pregnant at 19 and their rise on TikTok.
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[@bread5544]

You can tell Matt and Abby always make it so easy to hangout and talk, it never feels awkward when they have guest/friends over

[@proudtobeachristian286]

Jesus loves you ❤❤❤

[@jigglypuff_foryoutube1700]

@@proudtobeachristian286amen!

[@jigglypuff_foryoutube1700]

I totally agree, it feels very natural

[@cassidycrowther3528]

I've never been much of a podcast person, but Matt and Abby are my favorite to listen to! Wednesday is my new favorite day of the week! You guys are so relatable and fun to listen too! Thank you for always brightening up my week! ❤️

[@UnplannedPodcast]

SO happy to hear this!!! Thank you!!

[@Just-wiggling-thru-life]

Same!! ❤❤ The relatability and humor both are priceless 🥰

[@savannahday4924]

Me too!!!

[@catherineee11]

The way that Abby looks at Matt when he is talking is just a small thing that shows how in love they are ❤❤

[@tyara.collins]

Loved this. They’re very mature for their ages and seem very laid back and super cool people.

[@debraphillips8399]

My husband and I were engaged for a year, was halfway through building our home and we broke up for 10 months. When we did find our way back to each other, it was so much better than before. We both realized what we had lost while we were apart. Two kids and 22 years later, we are so happy! We have never looked back! ❤❤❤

[@brookehinckley8030]

Seriously, one of my favorite podcast yet! I love how y’all are able to make everyone feel comfortable to be open and honest about things in their life. I just enjoy all y’all so much. I’ve actually only seen Sophia and Taylor in Devin and Hunters things. I’m going to go check them out now. Thanks for sharing all y’all’s lives with us!

[@abbyruth7302]

I haven't gotten a chance to watch all of your podcast episodes... but I've thoroughly enjoyed every one that I have seen! It's just so wholesome and real. I think it's a really nice way to be able to get to know some of my favorite people on social media a little bit better

[@carleenfouts7289]

I also have Wolf-Parkinson-White Syndrome and found out I had it when I was pregnant with my 1st baby. My heart felt like it was going to beat out of my chest it was beating so fast. I went to hospital and my heart rate was over 200 and was like that for around a day or so. The first hospital er I went to had no idea what was going on with my heart so they life flighted me to a bigger hospital. They didn’t know what was going on at first either since the condition is so rare. It took me throwing up because of morning sickness to throw my heart back into a normal rhythm. The doctors talked about doing an ablation, but didn’t since my HR went back to normal. It is so amazing to hear that you have the same condition I do. I still get episodes that only last for a few minutes or so every so often, but it crazy that I didn’t know I had it until I was pregnant! Love the podcast by the way!

[@amandalopez9294]

My exhusband and I broke up for 4 1/2 years. Had to navigate co-parenting our two young kids and divorce, just for us to find our way back together. We’ve been together now 2 years and have almost 1 year old twins. Happier than ever. We both needed time by ourselves to figure out who we were. We were so young when we dated and had our first two kids. It is possible to have a beautiful strong relationship with an ex.

[@estherlouise924]

I 100% agree, you CANNOT get rid of "Wassup Dudes!" Every time I hear it, It immediately brings a smile to my face!!

[@Number1PookieBear]

I love listening to y’all when I’m cleaning. Idk why but it just gives me more motivation and it’s cool listening to y’all talk about the most randomest things and it making sense

[@owlexc]

Super chill vibes like friends hanging out. I loved this podcast!

[@DelaneyWalker]

Dated my boyfriend at 18 for 4 months. We broke up after he turned 21 and we were apart for about a year and a half. Came back together out of the blue and worked on things for about 8 months before officially dating again and now we’ve been back together for almost 5 years. It really all depends on the situation.

[@alyssa_m01]

One of my favorite episodes yet! I love watching Taylor and Sophia! Their content is hilarious and wholesome 😅

[@lisaprice6389]

Matt and Abby i loved this podcast i have always watched your vlogs but just recently started watching the podcast. This was my favorite so far

[@lifeoflunel2590]

I am do grateful for this podcast! The amount I've learned is just insane❤ Love u guys so much - all of ya'll are so inspiring to me 😊

[@madiray4373]

Sophia’s smile when Taylor talks about her 😍🥹🙌🏻

[@cathirodrigo2933]

Thank you for doing this!!! I love your podcast but mostly I’m SO happy the 4 of you got together!!! I always thought the connection between y’all & the Cordles would lead to a friendship with Taylor & Sophia 🙌🏻❤️. I love Christian’s gathering around together!!! ❤❤❤

[@clarasher__]

I loved this episode! (I’m newer to this channel) but I absolutely loved listening to this! You guys are so down to earth that it makes me feel like I am sitting in the same room as you! 💕

[@maggielarkin6121]

I love listening to this podcast it is always a way to feel joy and enjoy cleaning on wensday morning it always motivates me to clean thanks for doing this podcast and I hope Abby and August are doing well💜💜💜💜love yall

[@petitecherie501]

What a great couple you had on this week. Wishing Taylor and Soph love, happiness, joy, faith a healthy baby. Please let them know that my ablation went well 5 years ago with no problems since. I look forward to their KZbin channel and to Matt and Abby congrats on your second son❤

[@dustindunkin1]

One of my favorite podcast this was awesome Taylor and Sophia ❤ great job Matt and Abby ❤

[@HAMFAM6]

Matt and Abby I truly enjoy all these episodes . your so down to earth and make such enjoyable content. May the lord continue to bless you and keep you! Thank you for bringing on wholesome people on for clean content that’s enjoyable ❤

[@kemiljas7671]

I started following you a while ago because your content was so sincere with good values and fun to watch. Lately I have noticed a difference in how you title your videos and what kind of topics you choose to dwell on. People don't need to know everything about the private life of couples. And Matt, there is nothing shameful in the beautiful things happening within a marriage. I'm writing this only because I think you have such a beautiful family and a lot of potential as creators. Don't let fame or money or the expectations of others overshadow your values!

[@amandamenezes5617]

My favorite episode ❤ I love this collab please have them back again for a collab

[@Gingerhannah23]

I think it’s so sweet and genuine, the way Matt and Abby are talking with this couple and about their own relationship. I married my high school sweetheart at 18. We were married 30 years last December. I feel like 7 years or 4 years is not a real confirmation a marriage has lasted or is meant to be, but I wish all of these young people the very best ❤

[@caydenstrabala-fi1qy]

When they were talking about the accents it is so true. I am also from Georgia and the accents are so different. They have such a more noticeable than mine. I love y’all so much and I am so happy for everyone on this episode❤️

[@elizabethgray_]

Love this podcast so so much! U guys make me so happy ❤ and literally laugh out loud ❤

[@Clairewitmore]

Just so you know, I want the fog horn effect on every intro!! Love yall. And congrats on little Augie ❤

[@ItsKLP]

I love Taylor and Soph, the cordles and all your friends. I’m a follower of them all and seeing all of y’all be friends is even better.

[@Number1PookieBear]

I agree very much

[@BarbetteKjostad]

I was so excited to see Taylor and Soph on your Podcast. 🥰 I love you Matt and Abby and you seem to host some of my other fav people. Congrats again on Auggi, he is just as adorable as Griffin. 🥰🥰

[@silverice7219]

Hello from Romania, Matt and Abby. You are 2 very nice and sweet individuals, i really like listening to your podcasts. I love how Abby is all emotions and is the Matt the driving force, and your dynamics. The love between you 2 is palpable and the friendship is visible. I know that there's struggles,( as someone married young, at 19, and now we will celebrate our 20th anniversary next February) but the love, respect and friendship will get you trough. I also like Matt wiggly feet, made me laugh. Much much love.❤❤

[@lifeas.delaney]

By far my favorite episode! I think I was smiling the entire time🤣🤍

[@daisyromero5381]

currently watching at 4am, love love LOVE

[@sarahpanda9521]

i love your vidoes during every up and down just think we are always here for you guys

[@renae.peyton]

i’m so excited!! love you guys💕

[@vickycorey8195]

The "what's up dudes", is awesome! It is so nice and refreshing to be able to sit down and watch a video that I know is clean for my kids and grandkids. ❤

[@rachele932]

Their literally taking about the "pull out method" and they talk about sex in other podcasts. How is that clean for grandkids?

[@heatherschuster7190]

I can't do social media other than KZbin. On that note I would like to say I absolutely love seeing you grow into the people God intended you to be. I watch every week and never gets old always something to laugh and smile about. Amazing parents that is what you both are. Thank you for making my days better. I send all my love to you and your family and I am subscribed to most of your friends lol.

[@abbyroberts3]

My husband and I broke up for about a year as well when we were about 19 years old. We got back around when we were 20, got married 3 years later. We now have an almost 1 year old daughter!

[@hannah_2485]

I LOVE WEDNESDAYS!! It’s always such a joy and excitement when a new episode comes out. Then I have to choose wisely with what task to do/ get done while I listen 😂 Thank you for such great episodes guys!

[@UnplannedPodcast]

YAY!! We love Wednesday too! What task did you decide on for this episode?!

[@hannah_2485]

@@UnplannedPodcast drive to work lol I have a long drive and it always makes it not feel like it!

[@LynnleighMirous-zy9bk]

Oh ny God I love you guys

[@therayfamily2222]

Today I did my college discussion, made my sons lunch and made my bed 😂

[@messina0413]

two of my favorite couples! love your podcast always🩷

[@samanthar3234]

Thank you so much for talking about getting back together after breaking up. I got back with my ex after he changed. I took a while to believe that he changed, but I felt so calm with him and he makes me happy. Taylor and Soph's story makes me feel so much hope for our future together.

[@lizrodriguez2424]

I was waiting for this podcast so badly!

[@TheBruna9442]

ABSOLUTELY LOVED THIS EP

[@sophiablass]

Matt talking about the weird feeling when a teacher says their pregnant is SO RELATABLE HAHAHA

[@kalijanis8288]

Facts 😂

[@kaitlynbrown1850]

Right! We had a teacher who got pregnant over summer break and some of the boys in my class made the joke “well we know what you did this summer” it’s very weird having a pregnant teacher especially when you are in middle school.

[@aprilm96]

It’s so funny to hear Matt talk about living in St.Louis cause I’m from AR but my husband is from MO and we now live about 1.5 hours from St.Louis and my husband’s grandpa used to be a stage manager at The Muny and even performed some.

[@kolbyflora576]

I love your guys content you inspire me so much love y’all

[@brendachaves6375]

Hey Abby and Matt. I love your podcast. I can’t wait to listen to this one with Taylor & Sophia

[@austinkretchmer6968]

Omg I had the same heart ablasion! Only came up when I was 19 but I had 2 major episodes where it shot up to 250 for awhile. They had to reset my heart in the ambulance. Crazy! So relatable.

[@marleyjohnson664]

I love the podcast! Keep up the good work! Again congratulations on Auggie and becoming a family of four❤️ Taylor and Soph are such a cute couple, I’m so excited to watch them bring their baby girl into the world 🫶🫶

[@nyasiawade3458]

This video is such an eye opener for my relationship. Do you guys have any advice on starting a KZbin channel ? And I love you guys so much and your videos

[@sarahmarie5660]

Abby always patting Matt when he talks to much 😂😂😂 it makes me cry laughing

[@Summerideas4ever]

Taylor is so well spoken! 🥹

[@Dumbledoresarmy-ne2wz]

it is at 2am where I'm from, so Excited to watch it.

[@jesseahlynn]

We need a part 2 of them after they have the baby!!

[@reneecarol2130]

Matt should do 48 Hrs as a single parent with two babies 😂

[@madisonsmythe6968]

I’d love to see that! I really wanna see the baby!

[@jmcast3195]

You guys...no. A baby needs his mother.

[@PiperFerrell-zq5cq]

@maddisonsmythe they are blurring the baby's faces btw so I doubt think they are😥

[@reneecarol2130]

I understand the privacy,but I honestly don't watch them anymore.

[@madisonsmythe6968]

@@PiperFerrell-zq5cq oh makes since they boys safety and privacy are first

[@user-zd8tt5um3i]

So excited to listen to it!

[@mincej79]

You guys and these guests are so entertaining and funny!

[@richelissevandenberg134]

As a fellow Aruba citizen that lives close to Curaçao I DID NOT EXPECT KURAKAO during this unplanned podcast. Definitely 5/5 for the unplanned laughter moment🤣🤣

[@Sav1010]

Im a medical student and was literally drawing out the conduction pathway and ECG findings for Wolf Parkinson’s White syndrome when she started describing it on this podcast.

[@JoSykes01]

Enjoyed that podcast it was so good.

[@edit.girl1667]

Wow pregnant at 19! They have goals. I'm at University with 25k in debt, barely have money in bank, and I'm about the turn 19 September the 17. That is crazy, I honestly wish I had the love you guys have for each other including Taylor and Soph. ❤

[@danaschreiner3334]

That's pretty normal give it some time! Also my birthday is Sept 17!!!😊

[@kaylab7999]

So good I was so glad when i found out it was live

[@michaelstinson9282]

Love the podcast! ❤ They didn’t even mention that Soph had her period on the wedding day/night (which was shared on there KZbin) that would confirm she wasn’t pregnant then.

[@tshenolomxathule734]

Matt and Abby, thank you so much for the podcast. Really, I love it. It's just so amazing to see how, real you guys are. Many times it seems like life is so perfect for some tiktok couples. Which really, I am happy for them. But you guys share the challenges in life and show us how bravely you guys face them, as a couple. This is how I know that you guys love each other. #Love goals, so happy for you @Matt&Abby

[@joshm8015]

My dad recently had an ablation to treat his AFib. It's thankfully a pretty minimally invasive procedure w/ short-to-no recovery time.

[@vickihernandez2761]

Love all of you! Great video ❤

[@lunalovegood68]

This is so exciting to watch. My hubby and I got engaged in January. Then we were married March 12th. I was nineteen and he was twenty. And our first baby is due in December. So we’re excited. I love hearing someone else’s perspective of the same story.

[@lunalovegood68]

It’s crazy because I’m also having a girl. And she is due like 2 weeks before my birthday.

[@freddiehighmore93]

one of my favorite podcasts. :)

[@oliviab4412]

been waiting for this one!!!❤

[@Kat_idell]

100/100 so good love you guys so muchhhh

[@oliviapinter9478]

I can't stop smiling I love accents so much you guys should have more southern people with accents on the podcast or any accent haha ❤

[@bjjjb3056]

I’ve been with my husband since I was 15 but this is a lot fast We got married at 22 and had our first at 24. 37 now and I couldn’t imagine all this so fast but I hope it works out!!❤

[@Shana_Bigley]

I would love to see more diverse guests with different stories. It seems that most all have the same life story of getting married young, waiting until marriage & having kids at a young age.

[@alexusnoblitt7963]

Did you watch Jon and Alex 😅😂😂

[@Hillcountry_Homemaker]

Honestly it’s nice to see young couples having babies young. Some people, like me, can really relate! There are tons of other podcasts that represent diverse couples. I don’t see anything wrong with a niche!

[@HiItsMeAgain03]

Why Shana? Does it offend you? I absolutely love that the children & Grandchildren of yester-year are going to show the baby-boomers & Gen-x'ers how to care for each other. Even if they fight they don't quit! I believe in all of them!

[@asecmimosas4536]

I would agree but that this story has become so uncommon in the modern age when people are postponing marriage and dating and having smaller families. Promoting the opposite, marrying early, big families, that is definitely a worthy objective.

[@Rach-]

@@asecmimosas4536totally agree

[@wendiconrad9836]

Great video! I lived in AZ 30 years ago and sweet tea was a thing!

[@bkessinger94]

Loved this episode. My husband and I are a couple that got back togerher too. I didnt know Soph was homeschooled. I was homeschooled 7th through 12th

[@Itschlo24]

So excited to listen to it

[@famoushollywood]

This was very informative!! Hey I'm going to Sandals Curacao next year!!

[@masonegan2157]

I love both Y'all and sweet tea is top tier haha, love from Ohio!

[@kfinman]

I told my husband that my ideal would have been for him to propose and us to get married 5 minutes later. We tried for a 4 month engagement but our church wasn't available the only date that worked for us and our families that month so we ended up waiting 5 months instead. From meeting to marriage was 15 months and it was perfect, but we were 26 when we met. We merged our finances when we were still dating because we knew after just a couple months. And yes, we waited because we both believe to strive for obedience to what the Bible says. I actually had cancer when we were first married but we had our baby girl earlier this year and she is such a miracle. We had an easy, fast, unmedicated water birth at a birth center with just my husband and midiwfe there. We got to go home 2.5 hours after delivery and all slept so well in our own beds. Those early newborn days were so incredibly sweet for us.

[@edithmarcera6501]

I also have WPW but my 'episodes' only last couple seconds. Usualy it goes away when i cough. Praying for you that the surgery goes well

[@melodyberger3539]

definitely the best podcast so far!! i love both of these couples 🫶🏼🤩

[@annavronti8440]

We need Sam and Jess on this podcast!! Also I love you guys❤❤!!

[@JessicaWinkler-gi1rw]

I just realized that our babies are 8 days apart. Your son is August and my daughter is June (short for Juniper). How fun!

[@jillian2039]

been waiting for this episode.

[@LovesLifeLiterally]

I absolutely love you guys so much!

[@shannonmcdonald6896]

I LOVE YOU GUYS AND TAYLOR AND SOPH! Wow!❤

[@janetdalby6076]

Always have a good show

[@pucashells1]

Curaçao and Aruba are both in the Caribbean. Right above South America. They are on the equator. (I’m originally from Aruba :) and loved it there!)

[@bjmehl2009]

I did a short engagement, 4 months, and totally recommend it.

[@unapologeticallyromel7096]

Love the podcast ❤

[@lauracooke3906]

Love the podcast :)🎉

[@emmaomness]

Such an interesting podcast episode

[@eeg122]

Wow, they are so young but wish them lots of love and blessings~

[@TheONLYgoinnutz]

I have been with my husband 17 years and married 9 1/2. 2 previous, very abusive marriages in my past and 1 not so great marriage for him. He asked me, out of the blue at a beautiful restaurant. We picked my rings, wedding dress and other dresses on Amazon. Our path is different than yours. We are much older. I went into marriage #1 thinking for better or worse and it was abusive. Husband #2 beat me all the time. I had another child without marriage and my husband is gifting my youngest with HIS last name. I love your podcast.

[@victorflores4685]

47:05 ahahahahahaa I am dying at his impression of how the used to say it 😂😂😂😂 ✌️

[@Brynleyschulte]

I love you guys together!!!!!

[@kyleighchampion1534]

“I was scared he was gonna be mad” “I- well that’s sad”😭

[@Mrs.CarolineBaileyMorvanttt]

I’m married to my ex and me and my husband have a similar story. My husband and I broke up way back when due to his partying and drug addiction. Few years went by started hanging out and bam here we are almost a year married come April. God has a plan for all of us❤

[@madisonmeyer7806]

I refuse to believe Sophia is 19, she’s so mature

[@nathanwilliams9264]

God matures you fr I’m 16 and everyone tells me how mature I am for my age

[@annmariedobbin4369]

Really?😂have you watched their videos?

[@Idontknow-lm6bc]

You thinking she is mature makes you just as immature as she is

[@nathanwilliams9264]

@@Idontknow-lm6bc you saying that makes you immature 😂

[@nathanwilliams9264]

@@annmariedobbin4369 yeah, I mean there still kids but they are mature FOR THERE AGE like they might not be mature but at 19 most people are drunk and on drugs so yeah