Teaching English in China & Japan: Why I QUIT after 8 Years

[@gabis2603]

I feel like one of the reasons you couldn't control the kids was cuz you're so empathetic and easy-going, they seemed to see you more as a loving friend rather than just a teacher :3

[@OrientalPearl]

You're right! I just wanted to be friends with them and play all day lol

[@mplsfarmer]

@Frank Burjan-it doesn’t work with American kids either. I’ve taught in China, Laos, and Minnesota

[@ravian1235]

Gabriel SM i face the same problem hahaha

[@bjjposts6349]

Mpls Farmer hey I’m from Minnesota, where did you teach.

[@jessicahao3185]

Well when I look back, the teachers who had the biggest impact on me, in terms of life lessons, we’re the teachers who were nice to me and respected me in a friendly manner.

[@OrientalPearl]

It's never too late to completely change your life. I was sick of my office job and fixing my broken car. I spent many days dreaming about adventure. Adventure is out there for anyone willing to take the first step. -Anming

[@grk8921]

Yes I agree - few channel are arrogant like the xiaomanyc - not everyone will have shocking reactions but he shows only with reactions and he is arrogant and speaking chinese got to his head

[@Falconer710]

G RK Don’t hate do u know him well ?

[@grk8921]

@@Falconer710 it's just my observation.... I am not here to waste my energy through hate ... peace bro

[@Falconer710]

G RK Respect 💯

[@wolfqueen4636]

@G RK wait what ? What are you talking about ?

[@yiowd.768]

Those kids adore you. They'll always remember you.

[@OrientalPearl]

The cover photo is when I went back to visit them 2 years later.

[@eChineseLearning-school]

So many of our students want to learn classroom-related Chinese to be able to better control and manage their classrooms. I think you did better than you give yourself credit and they will always cherish their time learning from you.

[@OrientalPearl]

Thank you so much! I really appreciate you saying that because you are in the education field. It means a lot! Thanks for your encouragement.

[@pthithic]

Your vids are so much more tolerable than most of the "foreigners abroad in asia" genre. Most are weirdly arrogant, or social outcasts in their home country and running from something etc You're pretty normal and your perspective is refreshing compared to the usual (usually a male) obdervstions of life abroad in asia which often degenerate into some axe grinding about the new culture

[@OrientalPearl]

That's why I'm fed up with those videos too. I hope to show this from a different perspective.

[@Odgin]

Those arrogant guys are usually there for the easy job (less qualification required than in their home country) and the poor local girls and it shows.

[@EDITMODE]

The very 1st person I started watching speak mandarin was Moses aka Laoshu. He became a reeeeaaallll piece of work imo. Lost a lot of his viewers due to making titles like "black man fingers asian womans mind with amazing mouth skills" and things of the like. It really made a lot of people cringe. And in one particular video where he was harassing a small asian woman in a library, he KEPT asking her about if she was married and if she was still happy in her marriage. TOTALLY UNCALLED FOR AND RUDE. Yes, she couldve just ignored him or walked away, but if you're a woman like I am, you have most likely dealt with this same behavior personally and you know the man will start to be nasty and rude if you ignore the harrassment. So that's probably why she sat there and tried to be nice. In any case, I definitely had to unsubscribe from his channel after those nasty titles kept flooding my feed.

[@OrientalPearl]

EDIT MODE A youtuber is calling himself Moses? I don’t feel the need to write that I am a white girl in the tittle of the videos. I think that’s obvious from the picture. And me being white is not the point of the videos. There’s more to the story than that.

[@pthithic]

@@OrientalPearl the worst meltdown I saw was the Ryan Boundless saga. I mean...wow, dude just fell apart until he hated Japan or something. Still has an axe to grind

[@MrShamsiyah]

Idk but watching you with those kids around I felt like you are a natural at this and teaching is your true calling. Maybe you're conflicted by people telling you to "get a real job" but honestly teachers, doctors and law enforcement workers are the most vital of all professions and the pandemic only drove that further home.

[@OrientalPearl]

Wow, and here I thought I was bad at the job. lol

[@Bounceoo7]

It's unfortunate that a lot of KZbinrs like to create their own narratives. Thank you for sharing your experiences (genuinely). Learning from each other's experiences is important to the development of society and totally underrated these days.

[@OrientalPearl]

Yeah, I felt like a lot of the videos about teaching English on KZbin were a little dramatic.

[@RespectOthers1]

It's far better to try something and realise it doesn't work out than to not try and have regrets later on. Keep doing what you're doing, Miss. Authentic!

[@OrientalPearl]

Exactly right! I didn't expect to teach English forever when I started anyway.

[@Greensky02]

Glad you decided to post on KZbin though! Loving your channel! I totally agree: If you currently feel stuck doing something you don't like in your life: You always have options for a happy future if you make the change! You don't even have to move half-way around the world for a positive life change experience, sometimes it's just about changing jobs or making new friends!

[@OrientalPearl]

Very well said! I couldn't agree more.

[@jameslonergan5840]

After all is said and done, You have gained a very nice life experience! Thanks for the video!

[@OrientalPearl]

It was totally worth it! Glad you enjoyed the video.

[@dmille1959]

The different between your videos and so many others is that you're so down-to-earth; and as a Michigan native myself, you remind me of half the women and girls I've ever known.

[@OrientalPearl]

Let's keep it real in Michigan. lol No need to oversell things passed what they really are.

[@awegahn]

I hear Scandinavians are held responsible for populating the Midwest (Michigan too?). Seems it was no joke - we carry the same sense of being grounded and not striving to oversell things. Me being the exception of course.

[@honantong]

Your Chinese is good !! The students love you. Good or bad, you've seen more of the reality than people who just stay at one place.

[@OrientalPearl]

Thanks you. I didn't change schools so many times because of any particular reason. I just wanted to try living in different cities across China. The English teaching contracts are only 1 year.

[@mplsfarmer]

@Oriental Pearl-when I taught in China in the mid-1980s you weren’t allowed to teach more than two years at any given school. The government feared that you would have too much influence over your students corrupting them with your western ideas if you stayed longer.

[@divideandconquerasia7051]

You're so mature for your age. Being in many different countries would've made you learn a lot more about the world. Your parents must be proud of you. I hope they are. I feel inspired. I'd love to go to Japan (and America) someday. Beautiful countries.

[@OrientalPearl]

Thank you so much! I've been out of the house and on my own since 18. It's been a learning experience.

[@yeevisuals5924]

Your videos are fun to watch. You’re a genuine person and it’s evident in how you interact with people. That’s what you’re showing and offering to the world. Continue making videos through out your life’s journey!

[@OrientalPearl]

Yee Visuals This is just getting started. I have 8 years of stories waiting for you all. Many more good stories and interactions to come!

[@pingsunday]

Finally, mastering a language is to communicate with people. Jumping around the world, and have fun is a dream of any people. I understand your desire. ^^

[@Davidrixmusic]

My wife went to Western Michigan University to be an English teacher, she taught at Battle Creek, Michigan High school, a real challenge in an inner-city school. Even with impeccable classroom management skills, she quit, returned to school to study ASL/interpreting which is what she does now in colleges, hospitals, etc...She had to cut her own path which is what seems to be what you are doing. I enjoy you channel...great job!

[@OrientalPearl]

Wow, so many names of places in Michigan. That takes me back lol. Sorry it was a hard experience for her. One of my friends also taught in the inner city for "Teach for America". She cried everyday when she came home. You have to be made from iron to handle being a teacher.

[@yazidzaidi4595]

I wouldn't consider my self a professional in teaching but one of the reasons to loose control is the number.... But i think to teach kids English as a foreign language while you have advanced Chinese skills is very useful at least you can communicate and understand their needs properly, and remember there is no experience meaningless in your life so enjoy every moment, build your personality and don't look only to the negative side of it 😊😊😊

[@westy40]

Absolutely love your videos!! I left a complimentary comment on your last video and wanted to expound a bit more. So many videos are "in your face" with a lot of phony preening, lots of annoying edits and cuts, and just coming across as shallow. I know xiaomanyc has brought you many new viewers. There is something refreshingly different about you, and the authenticity is a major part of it. Your speaking mannerisms and your style is so enjoyable, you have a certain grace about you. Superficial phoniness is found everywhere on social media, you come across as authentic and a human being of good character. You're definitely a throwback. I'd love to know how you got this way. I'm guessing you have good parents with a good value system.

[@IanMcCausland]

westy40 totally agree with this comment!

[@OrientalPearl]

Thank you so much for your wonderful comment. I feel so honored. I have some friends from home living in Japan doing videos too and I saw them and got turned off of youtube. I hesitated to make a channel because I didn't want to make "those" kinds of videos.

[@NicholasShanks]

12:35 "If we didn't speak Chinese they would take us to the doctor." haha! You must be ill if you can't speak Chinese.

[@OrientalPearl]

Ha ha. That part sounded funny.

[@oxipali]

Ugh why do I relate to your story so much. One year in corporate world (business development) and I am sick of how pointless my days felt. I quit my job and I am studying Chinese full time. So tempted to just fly there and try a new life.

[@OrientalPearl]

Wow, we are like the same person lol. What's stopping you from coming over? Also, if you do come expect challenges that will make you doubt your decision, but stick through it. There is a light at the end of the tunnel.

[@DopeCantonese]

👏🏻What a wonderful experience sharing! And How could you be a expat teacher for 8 years?😱 I have been a teacher👩🏻‍🏫 for 4 years (two years in China🇨🇳 as an English teacher and 2 years in Thailand 🇹🇭as a Chinese teacher)I could totally understand you. I love my kids but class management is a real problem for me. 🤭Class management in an international school is even harder.

[@OrientalPearl]

Wow, teaching in Thailand must have been really cool! 8 years was a bit long. I went part time in the last year and now I just do tutoring. As you know well, being a teacher is harder than it looks lol

[@DopeCantonese]

Oriental Pearl I totally agree with u. And what's more, teacher's status has been changed a lot. When we were young, we respected our teachers a lot. But now.... Thanks to lots of irresponsible parents and school leaders, it's stressful to teach. Hmmm For me, Teaching in Thailand is harder than in china because of no nap time😪, no break time 🚽between classes. What's more, the salary is not higher than in China. But Living in Thailand is cool🏝

[@xxxfoxy]

Loving your videos. They’re inspiring me. Keep them coming as we all need your positivity in this world!

[@TennisGvy]

I lived in Michigan for 3 years. So many people like you who have never left the state, they go Up North for every vacation, and to Grand Rapids when they want culture. Very nice to see someone who actually left.

[@OrientalPearl]

That's right! And for some strange reason, I've never been to the Upper Peninsula.

[@TennisGvy]

@@OrientalPearl haha It's nice in the fall. I saw you said you were having trouble doing subtitles somewhere else. I wanted to recommend this process: -Finish editing your video -Build a subtitle file in the .srt or some other standardized format. Basically just type a time and subtitles as you go through watching your edited video. -Hard embed the subtitles into the video using something like virtualdub. Maybe it'll be easier than your current method

[@Jed-qi8wo]

@@OrientalPearl yoopers, welp. I can tell the midwestern accent. I'M from Minnesota with a scandinavian family history. You can probably guess how my ya betcha sounds like.

[@FatSausage]

Underrated channel just binge watched all your videos

[@OrientalPearl]

Wow, thanks so much. I'm new to youtube. It takes some time to get momentum going.

[@stronglikebo221]

I genuinely love your content. Keep it up🙏🏾

[@scorpio16000]

I agree!

[@ajb3983]

Yes, get out there and see new things! Meet new people! I love your content and you just are so good at speaking on camera. I lived in Michigan for a big portion of my life too and I definitely agree that of any state, Michigan has the least amount of accent! Now in Cincinnati!

[@OrientalPearl]

Thanks for your kind words! I'm from the metro Detroit area. I heard Ohio was voted as the most accent neural state. It's probably the people in the UP that lost it for us. They sound like Canadians. lol

[@ajb3983]

Oriental Pearl - I lived in the Irish Hills ☘️ and then Lansing during college. Of course :) I dont know people in Cincinnati definitely have a Kentucky-ish accent they also drag out their O’s. I think in Michigan the word dollar was pronounced, “dahler” but here in Cincinnati it’s pronounced, “DOLLer”. I just notice some words are different from Michigan. I think it’s funny when people think you have a Russian accent :)

[@OrientalPearl]

Adam Bradberry ha ha, they don’t think I’m Russian because of the accent. They just think I look like a Russian. Lol

[@martygodfrey4026]

And what, may I ask, is wrong with sounding Canadian? You hurted my feelings :-) Don't forget we are only separated by a river. Ontario and Michigan.

[@toriheart5046]

Love watching your videos , I'm from Michigan too 😀

[@OrientalPearl]

Tori Heart A fellow Michigander! Yes! Thanks for the support from back home.

[@tresbay]

Oriental Pearl Another Michigander here, too. (Traverse City.) I speak a few languages, and lived in Spain for a semester when I was going to the University of Michigan. It was an amazing experience, and one that I’ll never forget. Living abroad and learning new languages and all that goes with culture is such a huge eye-opener. I’m now thinking about learning Mandarin, because it’s absolutely fascinating to me; all my other languages are Germanic and Romance languages. Anyway, love your videos, great content!

[@janswhatsupdoc]

This is very motivating, I have an older cousin currently teaching english in south korea and here you were teaching in both china and japan. I understand there are pros and cons of the teaching job but I want to look into a career like that too. Taiwan would be my country of choice since i did study abroad there for 3 months

[@williamshirley3121]

I know the feeling when you go to another country like Maybe Egypt Japan or china you grow and grow to love it wouldn't want to leave

[@alivia-klover2061]

I'm so inspired by you. You're so amazing I know that most kids today are just glued to their devices, but now I'm not afrade to want to learn Karean or Chinese. My family doesn't really like the fact that I love learning Korean and love the culture and they don't really want to saport me with learning about it so when I watch your videos they make me so so happy. I feel like you shine a light one my dreams when no one wants to see them instead of feeling alone. Thank you so much you're so amazing and you've got such a gift. I am never gonna give up. Thank you♥

[@OrientalPearl]

I'm glad to hear that these videos make you happy. Don't ever give up on learning languages no matter how hard it is sometimes.

[@alivia-klover2061]

Thank you so much I wish I new you in person! ♥ Have a good day

[@alivia-klover2061]

I'll share your videos with my friends I think they'll love them to just as much as I do! 😊

[@p7647-w2b]

Nice way, nice memories. Congrats!

[@OrientalPearl]

Philippe Thanks I redid some of my early KZbin videos that were not done so well.

[@p7647-w2b]

@@OrientalPearl Cool! Sure it's a hard work , but finally a great and authentic content to share.

[@vaiduliuke]

I really love how honest you are in your videos. Really looking forward to future content like this. As a fellow expat, I like to see other people's genuine experiences in diferrent countries. And I agree with you on how hard it is being a teacher. Tried that out myself and gained a new respect for school teachers (and my mom, who has been a primary school teacher for over 30 years now).

[@Deadtide]

Loved this video, especially seeing how happy you made those kids, that's what it's all about. As for your "real talk" I totally agree you should do YOU, don't worry about other KZbinrs and whatever content they are putting out there. Yes, on KZbin a lot of people go for the "shock" factor and it will get them views and subs, but so will great videos & stories like this. Waiting for you to hit 10k subs...so happy I was here when you just passed 1k! Keep up the good content.

[@OrientalPearl]

Thank you for the support! It might take longer for this channel to grow doing it this way, but I think it will be worth it in the end.

[@Deadtide]

@@OrientalPearl I said the same thing with my channel. While everyone else does covers of other artists and blew up a bit from that, I kept it original. Covers aren't for me, so I stuck with my guns and happy I did, so you do the same!

[@pcimprezzive]

Thank you Anming for your videos. They're entertaining, real, & I just love the day in a life sort of vlogs! I also appreciate the respect you have for the language. By the way, I'm Chinese American & you inspire me to speak & know my culture better!

[@OrientalPearl]

That's so wonderful to hear. You saying you feel inspired to go out and learn makes doing the videos worthwhile.

[@ReReChan]

I'm also an English teacher in Asia, in Taiwan to be exact. I also learned Chinese in a classroom environment and I can't tell you how jealous I am when I observe my Chinese teacher never needing to shout at us to get back at our seat, to focus, don't kick, don't run, don't do this, don't do that, etc. I thought, yes, teaching adults would be a lot more relaxing, but I'm the same as you. When I'm done with this teaching job next year, I'm never going back to teaching. Teaching is just not for me.

[@OrientalPearl]

I feel you on that one. Many of my colleagues lost their voice at the end of the day. I know two that taught for years and did permanent damage to their vocal cords. Tough job!

[@ThoseBackPages]

These are my favorite types of videos, the real talk. i appreciate your content, so i watch. There are only so many hours in the day, and there is only so much time one can dedicate to watching KZbin, so we have to choose wisely. Thank you for continuing to "keep it real", even with your recent onset of KZbin "success"

[@OrientalPearl]

Thanks so much. I was hesitant to start this channel, but I hope it has some value to people.

[@ThoseBackPages]

@@OrientalPearl im glad youre here, and i believe i am not alone :)

[@britturk123]

"I felt a bit anxious driving my car in America, I had a few car crashes so I decided to leave and go to China on my own", said no woman feeling anxious ever, HA !. You are a bit of a trailblazer young lady. You already have more exciting storys to tell when older in just a few years of living than most have in a lifetime, and all because of travel . Wondeful watching you and the children interacting so warmly, you might not like teaching much as a profession, but those children would never know. Your like a beautiful kind chamelion, you blend in perfectly with your surroundings and become one with anyone around you . Girl power never came from a pop group it has always existed, and you are proof of this. You are very inspirational to girls/women, although i can imagine many parents not unlike yours thinking I'm not sure about that, my child living in a foreign country, well they're different to us aren't they?. Although you once again prove that basically we are actually quite similar, much more than we think anyway.

[@OrientalPearl]

Thank you so much! I love this comment you wrote. Some of my family is on board with it, but my dad has yet to be convinced that it was a good idea to do all of this. He's just looking out for me though.

[@redtesta]

where did you live in usa where you had so many accidents? ok just saw you were in michigan. That explains it :) We agree on those other channels im sure we would name the same. You are authentic for sure compared to some of the others . I actually unfollowed a couple of them. I honestly think it went to their head (even more) as they got more and more subs , quit their jobs since they were making a lot of money ( when you could) through ad rev .

[@OrientalPearl]

redtesta Michigan. And every single accident happened in the winter because of ice, snow, and messed up roads. I got hit when waiting at a red light multiple times because the car behind me slipped on ice. Yes, many of the other China/Japan vloggers out there don’t sit well with me. For many reasons, And the big youtubers doing that have gotten really comfortable in their position and are posting many “day at home” and “supermarket” videos. To be honest there is not a big difference between doing that in China/Japan and back in your home country.

[@redtesta]

@@OrientalPearl omg how miserable i understand. Yes, i was going to make the same statement, " comfortable" . Well, you're vids are refreshing and you explain a lot. You went in depth why you aren't teaching and the ramifications that affected the situation and why you aren't back in China. The one question i do have and it's in regards to the ' red envelopes" and i do know how that happens, since it's a no no to do that when you are teaching and you mentioned teaching on the side, could you accept that same situation but teaching on the side? I have traveled and sure, i enjoyed it but besides that (and i understand you are younger) what would be your plans say having a comfortable amount of money saved in your account, what would you like to do ultimately? Thank you for the response.

[@OrientalPearl]

redtesta The school rules were that we could not accept red envelopes. Most of the parents would expect their kid’s grades to improve dramatically after you accept a red envelope. If you are a private tutor and are not giving out grades, I say go ahead and accept that envelope as your payment for tutoring. Nothing is free, you will have to help the kid a lot, but as a tutor you don’t have control over grades, so there are not any ethical issue there.

[@lukebugg1832]

You must watch Bald and Bankrupt, his channel is very authentic, it's quite funny too, his adventures around Europe and Asia are great fun to watch. Hope you're staying safe, kind regards from New Zealand.

[@OrientalPearl]

I LOVE BALD AND BANKRUPT! He was the guy I was talking about in the end, the one who gave me hope in KZbin again.

[@garrykimovich]

Imagine if you taught at an American school. lol

[@OrientalPearl]

I don't think I could do it. There are too many rules.

[@Bigblob2013]

lol no parents ever gave me a hongbao :(

[@trinity9295]

@@OrientalPearl Yes and the kids are too mischievous

[@D4rkLigHtLP]

@@Bigblob2013 youre not supposed to take that anyways 😂😂😂

[@valdegomez4581]

Accent,,,southren carolina got the accent

[@light6713]

Ran into your channel last week it was recommended since I watch a lot of China/Japan expats and so far I love it. Keep it up

[@OrientalPearl]

Welcome! This channel is really new. I hope to add something new to the group. Please stick around.

[@awc222]

I taught in Japan for 13 years, mostly adults and adult volunteers (Peace Corps type) so it was easier. Also taught in Thailand, Kenya and Honduras, so I understand your frustration.

[@OrientalPearl]

Wow, that is so cool! Where is your youtube channel? I want to watch that!

[@cekkihoti1654]

Please continue to post on KZbin don’t hate it lol,you have fans from all over the world now,like im from 🇽🇰 kosovo in europe and watching you in japan 🇯🇵,i love your videos becouse are pure no fake things involved like i can feel your videos like im in there for example going to small shops etc,noone knows what people are going through so meaby a small encouragement or a good message gonna make a person happy,i wish to you a blessed happy life☺️🙌

[@norb4152]

I made it home after the magic three years (four in my case) in Japan! In pursuit of a creer, of all things. Now I have the dreaded office job in my home country and unrealistic dreams of retiring very early. I'll probably end up quitting in a couple years and go teach English again. Paid way less (especially in Japan like you said), but it was a better life. I'd love trying to teach in China actually, though I don't think my (Japanese) fiance would appreciate that idea very much. Thanks for sharing these. Wish I was as open as you interacting with people. What do you do now?

[@OrientalPearl]

I understand what you mean! I didn't mention that I went back to the US after the first year, did marketing again and quit again. It's hard to be torn between two places. I am a grad student at Waseda now doing a semester exchange, but the semester is over and I can't go back to China because of the Coronavirus.

[@1MinuteFlipDoc]

@@OrientalPearl what subject are you studying at Waseda?

[@OrientalPearl]

1MinuteFlipDoc I’m in the Asia Pacific Studies Department. I’m doing research for my thesis on US-Japanese Automotive trade friction.

[@Lijoje]

I'm with you on the arrogance of some of these language KZbinrs. This is why you are so refreshing! I just started watching your videos and I love your authenticity. You're amazing!

[@OrientalPearl]

Thanks so much. I'm glad there are other people that feel the same way. Some of these personalities don't sit well with me.

[@oscarpastores8137]

Your best vlog so far, imo! Very interesting stories to share. Thanks from a new subbie.

[@OrientalPearl]

Welcome to the channel! I hope to keep it real over here.

[@Banrionbowser]

Your videos have really inspired me and your so enjoyable to watch. Lots of love from Ireland ❤️

[@OrientalPearl]

I love Ireland. That was one of the most interesting countries I went to in Europe. I have a video on this channel from West Ireland "Stranded in Japan: Plus 5 travel fails"

[@Banrionbowser]

@@OrientalPearl Thank you! And will definitely watch it today 😁

[@rosliromasarms2111]

Btw... U ever Tourist to Malaysia..? Over here so many Chinese also like Japanese and Korean live here... Malaysia is Truly Amazing Asia... Thank 4your upload here... Thanks from Malaysia..

[@OrientalPearl]

I went to Malaysia last year to see my Chinese friend from college that lives there. I loved it! I want to go back there and make a Speaking Chinese video there one day. I have some video footage from the trip last year, but I haven't made it into a movie yet.

[@whushaw]

This was eye-opening! Thank you for your insight. I have to agree with you on your point about viewing other videos. It's hard to find that right KZbinr that isn't full of themselves or arrogant. On the contrary, you're so down to Earth!

[@OrientalPearl]

I'm no perfect person by any means. I have a lot improve on. But there is a lot of content out there that is misleading people and I don't like it.

[@milesian1]

Oriental Pearl Definitely true for videos made by the Snake and Milk boiz.

[@IanMcCausland]

People takes years of education training to control early years children! You did very well!

[@OrientalPearl]

Thank you, this was year 2 or 3 of teaching. The first year was really really hard.

[@Momo-qo7is]

I have been here for more than 4 years. I am a bit lost what I should do next. I love watching your VDOs.

[@ItachiUchiha-gf4fz]

When I started class in New York, around 11-12 grade, some American kids are so disrespectful. I mean like my math teacher cares about my classmate sitting in front of me and she always asking why didn't he do his homework. Instead of saying sorry or I can't do it because I didn't understand it in a humble way, he just straight shout some nonsense (I'm not good picking up English at that time yet. So, I'll just call it nonsense) or sometimes she'll just ignore her. I mean he is not a kid anymore he is a teen already and if he needs help why not just go to after class free tutoring? I mean I'm not a native English speaker but I manage to go to math tutoring every Monday to Thursday. Lots of students here keep saying that the class was so hard but they never really think I feel the same way as they do. They've got an advantage here cause they have a free lunch here in New York, native English speaker, no need to have a uniform just to go get in public school, free public transportation and most of all the tutoring are free. So, if you messed up in a particular class you can made it up with your teacher. There's no need for them to say that the school is a crap because this they've got everything that most students around the world most probably don't. There is lots of thing I hate about the Philippines schooling system and Filipino personality of course but nonetheless I only met few that had no interest in school but if they were asked by a teacher to do as they've said they will still do it. No questions, they must. It's like what they've said is true? That there's always an Asian better than you? So, when I look back at my classmates who doesn't care about the class or teacher and disrespect them, I would just say it in my thoughts "dude, you have all the opportunities that other kids doesn't. It's not for the teachers sake, it's for your own benefits!". I really want to say that words to them but my English skills aren't that quite good. So, I just let it slide but now I had more knowledge about the language I might be able to say it in college if I got a chance to getting into one. Your scenario it's because you're teaching children and no matter where you go they're gonna be spoiled at a point. Children are fragile. So, you'll gonna take care of them as if you were holding your brand new phone. Be patient, I know you're doing your best and loved your job. Children is still exploring the ethics of life and you can't force it to them but an alternative you can inspire them. -Best luck of you Ms. (Name) Oriental Pearl! Sorry, I'm new to the channel😅

[@OrientalPearl]

I think teaching is a challenge in China too. Kids misbehave a lot as you can see in the video. I can imagine that there are a lot of challenges for teachers in America too. I'm glad that you found this channel! I'm new to KZbin.

[@ItachiUchiha-gf4fz]

@@OrientalPearl yes, there's no doubt that teaching in Asia will be quite difficult. Most Asian parents are strict especially in China and this attributes trough their kids personality. But come to think of it, the more they behave like an annoying little brats means you have a great relations with them because they act like you're their second home and they wanted to be comfortable with you. If you're a strict teacher the entire class would probably behave as you wish but there's still some won't. I myself is a clown class when I was in Elementary. I noticed when a strict teacher is coming into class, everybody behaves and doesn't not talk but of course I'm a class clown and joining in with my cousin who also a class clown we're always get yield out 😂 and she let us stand in a corner till the end of her class. Well this based on my experience, I can't argue enough because I'm not a teacher and haven't been to China. So, you just probably got worsed😁. Sorry! I am 1/3 Chinese and my Mom enrolled me in a Chinese preschool when I was a kid. I didn't like it because when my classmate is stabbing with a pencil to the other kids they report in to the school home room teacher but the teacher doesn't even bother. I got curious so they push me towards that stabbing kid and the teacher who doesn't even talk in my language does not care a bit. Since, she can't understand me when I told her that there's a kid stabbing with pencil and me and the other victims shows our wounds to her, she just called my grandmother to let her deal with me since she is a total crap. After I told my grandmother what happened, I moved into another school and ended up with me cousin who I mentioned earlier. You're actually better because you've care enough about them and give them the proper love they've need. So, always remember to don't give up! You're probably the best teacher in the school😁

[@JohnnyWin]

You're such an interesting person. I recently stumbled upon your videos and it's so nice and refreshing to see real/genuine content on youtube. :)

[@OrientalPearl]

Thanks so much! I'd rather do it this way even if it means it will take longer to get noticed.

[@speedyg2012]

Lol all the kids touching the camera. XD You did really well teaching kids considering you started in a different field in marketing. I can relate, kids can drive you mad sometimes even if they're cute and you been foreign teacher.

[@OrientalPearl]

Yeah, the first year of teaching was rough. This video shows the beginning of the 3rd year, which went a lot better.

[@candiceyu9876]

Gosh I can totally relate. I’m currently teaching Chinese in a private school in Spain. It’s actually my second year here but I still can not be able to control the kids. To be honest my first year was even worse. I went to work, had terrible classes and went back home crying like a baby... The thing is I couldn’t help bringing the feeling of frustration into my personal life. Fortunately things are getting better this year but class management is still a pain in the ass. I literally just talked about this with my colleague, a very professional English teacher today that I need to try different approaches. Idk how long can I take it like this but I will try haha

[@EDITMODE]

You didn't appear to have trouble controlling them but then again we only saw bits. Here in America, parents would fire a teacher the second they placed a hand on them. Like that video where you were teaching Charlie and he was trying to grab at your face so you grabbed his hand and moved it away from your face...some Americans (actually an annoyingly large amount of Americans...) would get upset and be like OMG HOW DARE YOU TOUCH MY CHILD 😂😂 I legit dont even feel okay taking pictures of my son when hes in a public space where other kids are, such as a park, because GOD FORBID their kid is in the background in the photo! "Omg you pervert why are you taking photos of my kid!? 911! 911!" 😩😩😂😂 it's very sad and annoying. I'll just ask my husband to take the photos instead. Americans are craaaaaaay.

[@OrientalPearl]

It certainly feels like that sometimes doesn't it? I don't think I would even attempt teaching in America.

[@rolfpoelman3486]

I was hassled by a sickly paranoid badly mannered etc approx 20 year old Australian school teacher etc, also threatening to call the police, who was supervising her students in a public park, just because they were in the fairly distant background of my camera shooting of the park's playground and/or green grass. No doubt if I hung around to wait for the notoriously disgusting pigs, then I would have had no support, even though I was probably entirely legally allowed to photograph in a public place. Other similar incidents have happened, once with an Australian policewoman at a car accident, her being antagonistic and provocative, as usual. Similar also was somebody else in a public park wine festival in NZ where photos or videos were shot.

[@EDITMODE]

@rolf wow that had to be extremely annoying -_- yep that's the exact reason I dont even feel "safe" taking my son's photo at a public park. Someone's kid will be in the background and next thing ya know I'm gonna be forced to list as a predator 😂😂😂 I tell my husband "you take the pictures, please. If I do it, cops will be leaping from the trees with their damn jet packs to come get me".

[@EDITMODE]

Its 100% legal to take photos in any public area UNLESS that area has been bought out for the day by some specific party AND theyve placed signs to make everyone aware. I looked it up after Hilary Duff went off on some guy for taking photos during a kids soccer game. I mean...I get theres creeps out there...but your kids arent out here nude....and it's a public space...go somewhere private if u dont want anyone to see your them 😆😅🙃

[@Venik75]

EDIT MODE waw, America seems to be pretty annoying.... this kind of stuff slowly come to France, really oppressive feeling. I hope east Asia will be spared 💀

[@jeanchristophe15]

Thank you for sharing this lovely video of your interaction with these lovely students!

[@nguyenvandangkhoa2005]

Such an inspired teacher =))) it’s would be my luck if I have a teacher like u =)))

[@OrientalPearl]

Awwww, that's so sweet.

[@dealstogo2649]

Great video. Candid and sincere with no BS. It's very refreshing.

[@mikemcwong]

Funny you used the word arrogant, that is exactly what I feel about a lot of those other foreigners in Asia videos.

[@OrientalPearl]

I was sitting here thinking the same thing. That's what I don't want my videos to be like. So I hope it doesn't come across like that.

[@josejm407]

Thanks for all the info about being a teacher, especially in china.

[@ForUploadin]

I’ m from Japan and got a private license of teaching Japanese. In China, there are a lot of Japanese teaching jobs and I want to live there for one or two year to learn and experience the completely different culture. But if I do it, my career will be over and I don’t think teaching Japanese to foreigners is a proper career even though I found a job in a national university over there.

[@OrientalPearl]

I know many Japanese teachers in China. They used to teach me Japanese in China lol. Some have been there for 20 years. Usually they have some frustrations with the school they work for though.

[@dawnmeyer5969]

Oh wow! I can relate to you so much! I was an assistant English teacher in a public junior high school system in Japan from 1992-1994. Basically, I was a human tape recorder. My job was basically like the JET program, except I was hired by the city I worked in. They wanted more English teachers than what JET would allow them. It was a great experience, but I started to grow cynical about the culture. I’ll always love Japan. I still dream about it occasionally.

[@OrientalPearl]

Luckily to every school was like that, but some were. I felt bad for my Japanese teachers at the Japanese language school because they were basically in that same position.

[@kaliechips]

I agree with you about a lot of videos being arrogant! Whenever my boyfriend puts on a J-Vlogger I tell him to turn it off, hahaha. It's nice to hear you talk positively and welcoming about your experiences :)

[@OrientalPearl]

You and I can try to keep it real on youtube Kalie. Let's show people what it's really like here. Less arrogance and toxic personalities and more real experiences. I watched every single one of your videos by the way. Keeping it real over there. Respect! Don't let the trolls bring you down. We should hang out more.

[@kaliechips]

@@OrientalPearl ❤️❤️❤️

[@jinl6853]

I had well over 20 westerner teachers when I was in China. All of them are great but most of them can't speak a proper sentence of Chinese. Love your content and respect the hard work behind your language skill. Wish I had a teacher like you.

[@OrientalPearl]

That's how our English school was too. I though that they missed a great opportunity to learn Chinese. I went to Chinese language school everyday for 4 hours before work.

[@manlikeme5475]

How long did it take to learn Chinese/Japanese? Had you been learning it before you left the US. So 8 years or more

[@OrientalPearl]

Ruben Easy I self studied a little before going to language school in China and Japan. It took 3 years to pass HSK6

[@manlikeme5475]

Oriental Pearl Cool! Thanks. Enjoy your vids 👍👍👍

[@bbkmm1]

The key is to immerse yourself in the culture/country. You are hearing, reading, and writing that language 24/7. If you study in a school outside the culture/country, you have limited exposure to it. By the time you get back to it, you would have already forgotten most of what you learned last week.

[@milesian1]

Oriental Pearl You did a great job learning Mandarin. I know it’s not easy to acquire a new language in a new country without having a solid foundation first.

[@martycream]

You are so authentic, real, very intelligent, i admire you...from Québec

[@OrientalPearl]

Thank you Quebec

[@firas919191]

I've thought about teaching English abroad to be able to travel but I don't think I'd do well controlling kids either. About the content, just make the videos you want to make.

[@OrientalPearl]

Firas You could always teach adults as well. That was a lot more enjoyable for me.

[@sunstar2599]

Hello. I am exactly the same as you. Playing with the children. Teaching them but get crazy by them too. I still love them.same like you. Great to see someone same like me in the other side of the world. Thank you. 🌍

[@mattbanning7597]

I already quit teaching english before i began :p

[@odietamo9376]

I have been watching more and more of your videos for the last week or two. They are remarkable, and so are you. (I’ve heard you make only one observation that I can’t quiet agree with. No matter, not a big deal.) The content of your videos, the production, your personality, all first rate. You are fantastic! You make me laugh, too, which is no small thing.

[@josjo8574]

ohhh, that sounds sooo nice-what a life...I do it....😀seriously... 我会很高兴i have noooo problem. maybe start by buying a plane ticket after corona goes away

[@pinoypolyglot5501]

Yes, I taught English to kids in Japan and college age students in China. I really didn’t enjoy the whole classroom management aspect of teaching, so I quit and decided to become an accountant. Eight years later, I’m sick of it! So I plan to do a MA in TESOL so I can teach at a university level in Australia and hopefully just concentrate on teaching and less on classroom discipline.

[@OrientalPearl]

Ha ha, it sounds like you just like to switch things up every few years. There are many people that are like that. I am too in some ways.

[@claire-hd6vz]

“I’m going to cry” “Yes!”

[@firefly618]

Usually I only watch KZbin to get some Japanese practice on the side, but I saw a couple of your videos pop up and immediately found them refreshing and sincere! Your current accommodation (cheap share-house for Chinese students?) may look too shabby to some, but it's the best way to meet and make friends with people. But please don't live on junk food! There's a lot of healthy stuff you can just eat right out of the bag, such as fruits, vegetables, and nuts! And yes, instant noodles are junk food too 😉 I lived in Japan for a year, going to a language school in Tokyo. I started from zero, so I only got to an intermediate level before I had to return to my country (Italy) for health reasons. But I'm trying to keep my studies up from here. Besides, it was my third language (2nd one would be English) and I found that the more languages you speak, the easier it gets. BTW if you want, I can recommend a share-house owner / small company that has an even mix of Japanese, Chinese, Korean, and western residents in their houses. They hold events every month, including overnight trips every once in a while, and it's super cozy and family-sized, so you get to know everybody and it's super fun! Take care. -Toby

[@OrientalPearl]

Thanks for watching. I love this humble home. Ha ha, it only looks like I live off of junk food. That;s cool that you lived in Japan too. Stay in touch.

[@GregPalmer2]

Another lovely young lady with a angel type nature,hopefully you will find the right man and have your own kids to pine and care for you. 😁👍🤣

[@OrientalPearl]

Thank you. I found a good guy in August last year. We are still together today.

[@bingobetes1825]

I love the authenticity in this video. I have considered teaching English in Japan and I need to see these types of videos. I appreciate the effort put into this.

[@OrientalPearl]

I’m so glad that you liked it. This was one of the first videos I made.

[@bbkmm1]

Michigan set the standard for English? Not England? LOL. It's alright. Most Americans think this way. I threw most Americans for a loop when I told them people can tell them they are Americans by their accent.

[@joaootxutxucao3990]

wooooooosh

[@OrientalPearl]

I was just joking around. I couldn't hear the Michigan accent until I left there and came back home to visit. It sounds very Canadian.

[@bbkmm1]

@@OrientalPearl I know you were joking. However, most Americans do think that way due to lack of exposure to the outside worlds.

[@bbkmm1]

@@OrientalPearl There are only a few words that would give a Canadian away. Word like "about" is pronounced "aboat", not "aboot" like in the movies.

[@mirieshii1948]

@@bbkmm1 it is true though. The American Standard Pronunciation (like what you hear in CNN) is the standard accent for business english. The British maybe the original one but it is harder to learn for most non native speakers. There's also the media. American media is surely more widely consumed than British media so the exposure to it is more. Americans maybe known for their arrogance in a lot of things but their general accent is really the standard (in BE).

[@Dannydogmouth]

What a fantastic life experience :) Thanks for showing us parts of your life. I love these vlogs

[@Luos31]

That's why I work with security! People HAVE to do as I say regardless of their social status or make me company all the way to the EXIT! Comfortably if necessary! I'm just an invisible part of the decor in the side of the property and pays better xD maybe I'm not a people person... Nah maybe I've just met the wrong ones xD

[@OrientalPearl]

We have a lot in common. I used to work the graveyard security shift all through college.

[@Luos31]

@@OrientalPearl Pearl? are you sure you're even alive? maybe you are that perfect gal because you might be ghost or something? ahahhahahahahaha just kidding! however here in Brazil we get to work in 12 hours and rest 36 in the sequence! there are some other options but i prefer that way so it doesn't stop me from going t gym and stuff

[@peturstefansson]

Oriental Pearl: I hope you will continue to make these videos because your videos are fun to watch. Kids are kids, young, lively, full of energy, and in need to use it.

[@OrientalPearl]

Thanks so much! More to come very soon.

[@MiniRunnera7]

What are your thoughts on focusing on a language as one of your main aspects? Like for example I just submitted my applications for University and my focus was Chinese studies as honestly I am not a really good person when it comes to studying and education so I had to stop pursuing my other choices. Now obviously the 2 main career paths are teaching and translating, for me I just couldn't be a teacher and I don't enjoy translating but at the same time i want to use my multiple languages as an advantage :/ Also keep going with your channel the content and quality gets better each video! 加油 :D

[@OrientalPearl]

Thanks, I'm improving slowly. I considered translating too, but it doesn't pay as well as I thought. If you have some other skills like computer skills or business knowledge you can work for any kind of company that does business with China. You don't have to limit yourself.

[@cliftonthayer]

That's why I like you so much. You are very genuine! If you stopped making videos. You tube would loose out on one of the best!

[@wildandwonderful7069]

I heard that teaching Chinese kids is difficult because they have a "little prince" entitlement mentality.

[@OrientalPearl]

Ha ha, many of them do!

[@wildandwonderful7069]

@@OrientalPearl I heard that from SerpentZA and Laowhy86 probably on their shared chamnel ADVchina. Do you follow them on youtube?

[@anya3512]

I love your videos so much! They are very refreshing and wholesome. I was reluctant to watch this particular video bc I thought it might be annoying like other language travel youtubers because of the title, but it wasn’t! It was still your high quality videos where people don’t disrespect other cultures! Once again, your channel is amazing and eye opening!!!! 💗

[@OrientalPearl]

I know what you mean. A lot of the videos out there annoy me too.

[@BrockMak]

9:28 Your accent is still different from Eminem. Granted, he lived in poverty, still...

[@WTFiTzFlow]

11:45, COVID is stopping me. 😭 I can’t complain because I actually got to visit Japan/China in January/February 2020 before it all began… I am so grateful for that pre COVID-19 Traveling Experience. ❤️

[@henryc1000]

9:18 Accent?? ACCENT?? 😂 Coming from somebody who lives in Chicago, you have no accent at all😉

[@OrientalPearl]

Thank you! And it was a bunch of guys from Texas that told me that. They are ones to talk lol

[@dominiquehudson8077]

Lol everyone has an accent.

[@aaronjta42]

That's because the lower Peninsula accent of Michigan (especially Detroit) and Chicago (as well as Buffalo, Syracuse and some other Inland American cities) are basically the same, because they've all gone through the same vowel shift called the Northern Cities Vowel Shift 😜

[@abeytagl]

Your videos are awesome! Thank you for being you with us we appreciate you

[@kevinlemoine8876]

This is an inspiring video. I'm just in Tokyo one year for work at university since february, I was not interested to learn japanese or stay more but after few months I'm really enjoying to discover this culture (despite the virus thing). You make me really think about staying more. And discover other Asian countries. Thank you for this kind of video.

[@OrientalPearl]

Japan is a really good place to wait through this pandemic!

[@729mana]

i love your Authentic videos honestly , never stop please

[@OrientalPearl]

I promise you I won't stop. :)

[@akinoshimo]

Kids are kids everywhere... fun watching these kids enjoy life,, and you must be a wonderful teacher, they loved you so much. Great positive influence. I hope their experience with you lasts a lifetime.

[@OrientalPearl]

I went back 2 years later unannounced and walked into their classroom. They went nuts. Those are the moments I kick myself for not bringing a camera.

[@Scarlett-nu8gh]

Have you considered working in early years? If you enjoy being with children, teaching, and playing together, and can speak multiple languages... Contemporary early years is child led, play based and holistic. Much more fun ☺️ I don't think people will ever give teachers the respect they deserve, but it's so rewarding ❤️

[@OrientalPearl]

I used to teach kids in kindergarten in China too. The system they set the kids with just didn't work. They had them sit in chairs and learn like big kids. It was a big mess.

[@Scarlett-nu8gh]

@@OrientalPearl That's such a shame! Children shouldn't learn that way. Have you looked into alternative pedagogies? Like Montessori, Steiner, Emilio Reggio? I'm a Montessori teacher, just finishing me degree then I'm hoping to work in another country ☺️

[@OrientalPearl]

Scarlett D I know. It’s totally taking away the biggest advantage kids have: learning naturally. Well... I guess the school’s priority is just money.

[@OrientalPearl]

Scarlett D I’m more into teaching adults to be honest. I haven’t looked into a lot of research about teaching kids, because no matter what I think... the school will make us do what they want.

[@jei_dynasty6433]

I love your authenticity, and honesty. Looking forward to seeing your other videos.

[@OrientalPearl]

I appreciate that! Please watch them all :)

[@jei_dynasty6433]

@@OrientalPearl Let me ask you a question. I know that most Asian country require a Bachelor's to teach English. I am curious to find out if someone who has a Degree in let's say Culinary Art, if that will be accepted.

[@robonkenhout7965]

We also dropped everything in the states and came to Japan in 2008. Original plan was for 2-3 years, still here today! From a career standpoint, I probably should have thought out things a little more, but what a life experience! Not only here in Japan, but we've traveled to many Asian countries, have met so many interesting people. None of this would have happened if we had stayed home. Next home, maybe somewhere in Europe? Life's too short to stay in one country! Glad to see you're enjoying Japan.

[@OrientalPearl]

That's amazing how "just a year or two" ends up becoming 10. lol

[@lullala9589]

someone once told me that a teacher takes 5 years to control his class..so i stopped blaming myself, why i was starting my career .. i never thought that being a teacher of small children is the most beautiful profession in the world, but the only bad thing is the damn educational system that treats children just like numbers, why children are not robots, when you love your students, you are the happiest professional in the world..well, thanks for the video and sorry for the incorrect english , I got to know your channel today and I'm learning English. Automatic subtitles help a LOT.

[@OrientalPearl]

I'm so happy that you are using these videos to practice English. That's amazing! You are doing well.

[@Mike500]

I used to supervise some kids of different ages in a youth center for a while, and they will constantly try to challenge you, in the way of "how much can i get away with". When they see that you're a bit of a pushover, that's it, you'll never get your authority back. I found that although you can be friendly, you shouldn't be communicating on a "friend level". It should still be clear who has the authority and who has to listen. Then they give you the respect. And if they get praised by someone they really respect, that's what actually makes their day. I know, easier said than done, and it's a fine balance. In my opinion, those kinds of skills, like classroom teaching competency, didactic action or however it's called, are almost as important as knowledge of the actual topic you're teaching. That's why, if you have a shortage of teachers, newly hired "career changer" teachers who have knowledge about a topic, but no knowledge about teaching, tend to have a hard time in the classroom. But i also loved your interaction with the kids on the field trip! That might not be the textbook way, but it warmed my heart :)

[@OrientalPearl]

Very wise advise! They pushed me a lot to test the limits. There was a stark contrast between how they treated me and the Chinese teacher.

[@bournejason66]

Keep the authenticity. That’s what keeps me and many others to your channel

[@OrientalPearl]

Glad to hear that, because that's what I enjoy watching the most. I didn't know if others felt the same way or not.

[@jakob4856]

this video just gives me sm inspiration to keep going and do my thing. Tysm

[@OrientalPearl]

You should! Do it your way!

[@pr0n3]

Un-tethered and liberated from teaching! This channel's gonna get crazy! XD Hope to see some new great content from ya. Cheers!

[@OrientalPearl]

Freedom! lol and people wonder why I just started youtube recently. I didn't have time back then haha

[@tz6323]

I really like your honesty and authenticity. you can speak good Chinese and naturally. maybe you can share with us how you learned both Chinese and Japanese at the same time? can you also write? when do you find time to do so? thanks.

[@OrientalPearl]

I made a video that explains it in "multi-lingual channel intro"