Priceless Relationship Advice - Teal Swan

[@stinkytofu5616]

I have officially found the most insightful person on the internet.

[@ShaunDobbie]

I go back and forward between this and actualized.org

[@yearofthedragonjane]

hell yeah u have :)

[@axalissuintoyr4107]

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[@carolinelaronda4523]

Yingdi Han agreed ! She is absolutely amazing isn't she !

[@sujata_155]

Shaun Dobbie me too. I go back and forth between Teal and Leo from actualized.org

[@TealSwanOfficial]

Even if you were to follow the oppressed desire, that would bring you closer to your genuine desires. And it would bring you closer to willing them into your existence. Yes. You can not fail at this game. Everything you do brings you closer to your truth and happiness. You can and should desire whatever you want and as you gain those things, you will learn more about what you truly want. but you can not know what you truly want unless you follow your CURRENT desires.

[@MegaTrivial]

Teal Swan It is so beautiful said, everything ... I just think that the oppressed desires are the true desires, and through them you come in contact with the true self. The current desires are secondary: adopted, borrowed, or artificially created; in hope to replace the genuine, the oppressed ones with. Thank you so much, for creating this beautiful, qualitative, clear and clever video and speech...!

[@debbiesharon5249]

who are you responding to?

[@debbiesharon5249]

what do you mean by an oppressed desire?

[@debbiesharon5249]

Who are you responding to?

[@1anamjawed5]

I believe it requires A LOT of self awareness, self growth and spiritual growth. Stay grounded with wisdom 🙏🏼

[@Cowface]

“The person who you want to be with is the person who is already the person you want, before you came into their life” is 👍🏼👍🏼

[@CodyJakubowski]

damn gurl..... i'm floored every time, but this was the flooriest

[@akiinefaexperiencinglife]

Lol...it is good good

[@thandimhlongo2200]

🤣🤣🤣

[@PacificNWGrl]

Flooriest 😆

[@focusedlids5420]

🤣🤣🤣 I'm done 😂😂😂😂.. I'm crying😭😭😭😭... you are HILARIOUS 😆😆😆😆😆🤟🏽💯

[@teegsyd]

So much flaw!!!

[@ginob615]

Teal is a wonderful guru that blends physiological and metaphysical worlds into easy, digestible information the anyone could understand. She is truly someone I am proud to say I am still able to gain radical spiritual growth from after much personal exploration. Namaste

[@mykimtube]

I like what Abe says "Our relationships are really about US not another"-- it really is never about the other person. All just holograms of our inner selves. thanks for the inspiration blessings

[@Marjolinos]

Exactly :)

[@SoulfeastKatieLove]

Thanks for sharing!!! Want to learn more about this... do you have links?

[@kahsenyah]

You've expressed so perfectly the reason people become miserable in relationships. Thank you.

[@GypsyInThirteen]

I just took a good look at my imaginary boyfriend and i'd keep him jus the way he is. love you ghost amorsito.

[@zsofiatoth6615]

😂😂😂

[@PriyankaGupta-ew1li]

😂😂

[@ammettacarrillo3728]

🤣

[@Sekona.realtor]

Wow you nailed it.. for 15 years I couldnt figure out why my marriage failed and you did it in few minutes here. You are amazing. May Love be with you always

[@NM-bo5td]

Ah Teal, due to my insecurities I have always settled for whoever pays me attention and have ended up in mediocre relationships. Never once have I allowed a man in with him I feel a spark or connection with. After watching this video, I will do only that. I deserve being with someone who I connect with and nott be ashamed of being sexually attracted to a man. I’m 56 and have worked on myself for years while being single, what would be the point of settling..This video has arrived at the perfect time. Thank you.

[@AnonW]

I'm exactly like the guy you stated in scenario 2 who is attracted to beautiful women. Interesting story, a girl chased me for a while who I didn't find very attractive but I fell in love with her personality, for a while I was always struggling like you stated in the scenario whereby I see other attractive girls and find my settlement not as appealing. Eventually I realized what I have now is what I fell in love with and stopped wishing for this illusion I had in my mind and I was able to change. Now I don't care at all how attractive other girls appear to be, I simply just love the one who is my soulmate.

[@ajaysahu7265]

AAAre yooou making these mistakes with your maaan? twitter.com/489508fd9c635313b/status/804693412402241537 Priceless Relationship Adviсe Teaal Swan

[@Theantinarc]

I thought that for awhile... eventually I became disgusted by him and left... I am attracted to what I am attracted to. Some people are only meant to be friends.

[@mariaevestus]

Inspirational! I am currently struggling with similar issues and reassessing my perspective relative to my partner. He loves me for who I am and is an excellent person as he is.

[@fishcanon8141]

Doolally same boat I am in. This video makes me want to reassess whether I want to keep dating the guy I am seeing now. This is a painful feeling.

[@annv6781]

Mike Wu. Damn you are amazing

[@ryanstucke7811]

love them for who they are right now

[@Marjolinos]

What I miss in this video is: 'wanting' things in another person, are your own projections. Than you want someone to fix things you THINK you can't do/be yourself, or you want it because you haven't accepted parts of yourself/the universe like it is (like unwealthyness, lazyness, etc). It's when you judge certain characteristics in humans. The point is, 'wanting' and desire is a thing from the ego. Notice that everytime when you feel truly relaxed and happy, there isn't anything you want. It is possible to love everything that IS. And every person that IS. Not despite good looks, or because of good looks. Or despite no money, or because of money. There is no 'because'. The 'loving someone BECAUSE'.... = ego. That's not love. Love is loving what is. Loving all there is. So when you find yourself judging or blaming your partner (indeed, because of an illusion you fell in love with), it is because you don't accept certain things as they are. Not because you would truly be happier with a person who has all the things you 'want'.

[@maiabullio7205]

Nice. It contributed to my thinking. I appreciate that!

[@salayir1144]

Wanting loyalty and faithfulness is it asking for too much?!

[@frappalina]

@@salayir1144loving someone and wanting to be with them don't always overlap. If loyalty and faithfulness are in your best interest, then set your boundary and accept only those partners who are willing and able to give you these things.

[@erkidenknight]

That was my thought. I'm not on board this follow your desires where ever they may go type of thing. Many of our desires are ACTUALLY unreasonable given our situation and teach people that they should never settle seems more like advice specifically for someone like teal swan who is both beautiful and wealthy rather than a normal woman. I'm not sure this video is 100% on point there's some poison in this video too.

[@Marjolinos]

@@erkidenknight yeah i think that every desire has a truthful foundation though. But the interpretation of it by the mind, is often false.

[@radicalhonesty3628]

as I watch this video, what arises in me, is longing and desire... and an immense and intense ache inside my soul... I pray magical blessings in the lives of myself and my true love (whom I am yet to meet). may him and I, both experience magical transformation and new levels of enlightenment and bliss... and may that lead us to each other, very-very soon! and may you, as well, beloved reader, be blessed, too...

[@ankontini]

Sometimes a change may happen not only in the way we perceive the other person or ourself. Sometimes a change occurs in the real personality of a person. And this also shatters the relationship.

[@change0maker]

In long relationships, people change, they grow into someone else, sometimes better and sometimes just spiral down. So, the person we fell in love with wasn't an illusion but now it is.....

[@bourgeoisbrats]

Straight [truth], no chaser :-) Love how she uses her intention to stay on point. A lot of these KZbin "life coaches" have good intentions, but tend to end up preaching to you (or worse, sympathizing with you), instead of creating an experience where you can't help but reflect on your role in your predicament. Subscribe

[@annv6781]

bourgeoisbrats. Most valued comment!

[@tonigaston3938]

I ended a rainbow engagement I am so glad that God is bring information that is feeding my soul. This the best information that I have heard so far you are doing a great work.

[@JaeChristineOfficial]

I think the same exact way Teal! Loved this video. I was taught this lesson through my previous relationships in which I dated based off of potential because, like most people, I was GUILT TRIPPED. It's beautiful to now realize the truth. Now I am free to attract a partner who loves ME and I love HIM. Bravo Teal! Thanks for this reminder.

[@eurobloke1226]

Wow! That actually helped a lot. I now know what I've been doing wrong all these years. Thank you.

[@melaninandaura9713]

If I only I could go back in time and show this video to my 17 year old self. How life changing that would have been!

[@ugehriddimmaster]

How old are you now?

[@anandanabila8439]

True

[@papichulo4022]

Wow I just realized I was in love with an illusion. I wish I saw this vid before my recent break up

[@archie977]

relationship is the only psychological mirror we have to look in.

[@douglascampbell4993]

I still believe it is healthy to see the potential a partner has, and be supportive of their endeavours as long as those endeavours are theirs. But you need to acknowledge and love them for who they are right now irrespectively. Can’t hold it against them if they don’t quite reach what they hoped for, but be there to catch them if they happen to fall..

[@SOCRATES012]

It's about equal respect. If someone does not respect you, simply respect their right to do so and move on. Respect yourself. Peace and One Love familia

[@herherherherherherrrr]

YOU. ARE. EVERYTHING

[@Gazelle78Sideburns]

Hey I just wanted to express my gratitude about all that you have taught me and are continuing to teach me about myself, everyone else, about the universe, and about my connection to the universe. I find you very attractive and beautiful in every aspect of your being. Your beauty is like an exact reflection of the beauty of your soul. Every word you say touches my heart like water touches a thirsty person. You are by far the best teacher I have ever had. I could continue to thank you and appreciate you for the rest of my life and that wouldn't even be enough of how much I truly love you and appreciate you. :) :D Namaste

[@Dollartrees]

My ex was the guy in scenario 2.. He would tell me he was so in love with me yet would always be looking at other women. It made me feel so unworthy and angry because he couldn’t be honest. Anyway I called it off last week, pray for my healing 💜

[@Dollartrees]

My heart hurts guys /;

[@rameshsharma4422]

I am sorry to hear that... Every terrible turn brings a great insight make sure you learn the lesson life is trying to teach you or you will fall in the same trap....

[@Dollartrees]

@@rameshsharma4422 thank you for your wisdom

[@ichooseme4life]

@@Dollartrees Allow yourself to greive the relationship. It's the only way to heal in a healthy way. Use it as a teachable moment. Give yourself the love you deserve because you do!!

[@Dollartrees]

@@ichooseme4life thank you I really appreciate the kind words 🤍 it feels like I’ll never stop grieving but it’s getting better

[@Spiritriver01]

That's an impressive plethora of relationship pathology that she talks about. Sadly, those problems often do coexist in relationships. Consider also, much of what we see in others is actually a projection of our own attributes. Therefore, in a sense, we can actually fall in love with ourselves, while misidentifying the other persons character. "Unhealthy" relationships are not necessarily a bad thing, if the couple is able to work through some or all of the issues. Relationships can be stable and fulfilling, even with unhealthy behaviors present. It's best if people can figure out what's healthy or not, and accept the relationship as it is. I think sometimes people fall in love with the concept of being in love, while hardly noticing much about the person they are about to select as a partner. Even that kind of situation can work out, or if it doesn't, those individuals are at least one step closer to a successful relationship later on. It is absolutely true that we should look for what we want in a mate, be it looks or financial security, or whatever else might be a sustained interest. I believe there is a biologic basis for being attracted to certain physical features, besides the obvious one of simply liking good looks. I think we are genetically programmed to look for others whose attributes are complementary or compensatory, in a way that leads to improvement of humanity as a species. Maybe that's why fat and thin, short and tall, outgoing and introverted people often come together. Anyway, she's right! Love who you are with for who they are exactly, now. If we see lots of goodness in them, be aware, that through that person, you are admiring and loving yourself. Don't fall in love with hopes and expectations. Even if they come true, they are not the accomplishments that maintain deep abiding love. It always remains the heart and love of the individual rather than the work, that establishes deep and fulfilling connection.

[@ByeByeBelly]

Yes, I love my partner just as he is. No, I don't like myself the way I am, but I don't hide who I am. I spent many years waiting for my ex to treat me better, I never loved him for who he was. I was waiting for him to get a job, be less abusive etc. It never happened and I decided to stop living in la la land and remove him from my life.

[@StiltFactory]

Wow Teal. You kinda nailed my last failed relationship...I'm intrigued.

[@RababAlhunaidi]

Honest and beautiful

[@BatistaFreshh]

Just watched “I love you even though” “overlay” , “incompatibility” & this one. It’s so sad but so true . I thank you for your knowledge & help. Truly. Always been with your leadership since 6 years now. I appreciate why you do. Helping all of us be what we should be. I also seen you live in orlando years ago. Thank you teal swan!

[@lawofattraction7651]

Watching your videos again is literally restoring my sanity!!! Thank you soo much!

[@moonmajesties]

Thank you for this Teal, it’s helping get to the very root of my/our authenticity, of being in realty fully. Which is so appreciated 💗

[@Niakisses18]

i love this woman!! SHE'S BRILLIANT..... this video helped me so much because im just coming out of a so called "PERFECT" relationship but and there is alot of things i never understand. mainly because my ex partner was so secretive of his past.... what i get from this is that, if the person that your with right now, analyze every single thing about them , and ask yourself if this is really the person you want to be with , THE PERSON THAT THEY ARE RIGHT NOW!! not the person that they will be or you hoping them to be... cause THE BOTTOM LINE PEOPLE DON'T REALLY CHANGE!!!!

[@Bibiexxlove]

This is an amazing video! This is exactly what happened to me and my ex boyfriend, who i though i would marry. I left the relationship wondering what went wrong but i finally understand. Thank you so much!

[@hexcrackerjtj]

I don't now how you do it Teal, but you manage to constantly show awareness even to this stubborn spirit. Thank you for being there for me

[@happystar7777]

Interesting. With my partner, i have always loved him for who he is. Although I was always spiritual and he wasn't, and that Would be a deal breaker, but I felt he was still right for me. I had a Feeling he would join me eventually in spirituality, even though he was very logical and skeptical. But that feeling I guess wasn't Why I was still with him. Now, he has actually become very spiritual. Kind of funny.

[@happystar7777]

Known him 10 years. Just now becoming spiritual, and I love him just the same. So I guess that means, just because you believe they could change for the better, doesn't mean that you're loving them for that illusion.

[@khatack]

Perhaps he already was spiritual, he was just denying that part of himself. There's a massive difference between spiritual people who deny their spirituality and non-spiritual people, you can sense the spirituality in a person, even if it is being suppressed. Your partner never really changed, he just rediscovered a part of himself that was already there.

[@horizon5677]

How are you guys doing right now?

[@valeria939]

Skysurfer 777 i truly believe that true true love can only be mutual. I hope in your next relationship is more balanced and you receive as much as you give.

[@maiabullio7205]

Oh, my God, I'm having the exact same feeling... I'm just worried for how long I'm going to have to wait...

[@RARAGEMI]

I am always blown away by Teal Swan. Thank you Teal! It’s amazing to get to know myself!

[@CARMENAMARA]

I love this.

[@archersamson254]

a tip: you can watch movies on Flixzone. Been using them for watching loads of movies during the lockdown.

[@harveysawyer2447]

@Archer Samson yup, have been watching on flixzone for since december myself =)

[@user-xq5rp9fm1p]

Totally. Such great advice/perspective! Thank you!

[@RickSturm1]

I thought some of this had merit, but after two failed marriages, I think my experience more closely resembles the joke (not funny if it's too close to the truth), "Women marry with the idea of changing him to fit her needs, but men marry with the expectation that she not change." Both end up disappointed.

[@mloveleigh]

righT oN ricK.. i totally agree on both counts!

[@bukony3820]

Rick interesting observation on your comment is you did not want the 2 women to change , and you say that for men in general. In my perspective I expect change in her but in a sense that she may evolve . And I am eager to be with her in her evolution as I evolve myself spiritually . Just a thought as not even Teal has the black and white on this just perspectives on her perception which is pretty good Teal.

[@RickSturm1]

I actually remember reading what I said somewhere else and totally agreed with it. The first wife blew up and turned on someone that I no longer remember and I thought to myself that I hope she never turns on me like that...and of course she did. The second wife was more appreciate of my income, but turned out to only love the moneh, but split when the money ran out. It does occur to me that I know quite a few thar never got a Divorce

[@RickSturm1]

I was also about to say that some of those I suspect are still together because they honor their wedding vows that end with, ", til death do us part. Some or maybe even most fit what I said but are still together mostly because of their vows.

[@Theantinarc]

Everyone changes... love is about accepting the change someone goes through along with every other part of them.

[@madvolleyball95]

yes I like what you say about loving them for who they are here and now, I would like to add that if this relationship is going to continue for years you must allow them to change and grow :) also we must realize we will never fully know or understand this person, they are multifaceted and not static beings, so, as you said you must not hold expectations for this person, but allow them to show you who they are and do your best to love them unconditionally. be open minded and let them surprise you!! much love to you teal!

[@Victoriathelovecoach]

Teal isn’t talking about being in love, but recognising what you want and being in a relationship with someone you want. This advice is useful but not a long term situation because things we want tend to change over time. The only way to find love in a relationship is to first fall in love with yourself.

[@penultimania4295]

thats nonsense.

[@jmpardo11]

In my relationship I had no expectations whatsoever. In my head I would sometimes think wow, he would be a great stepfather. I think I may have inadvertently manifested those things while accepting who he was in the moment. I loved him then for who he was then and I am loving him for who he is becoming ❤️

[@Belphoron]

„Fall in love what is and not what could be.“ I love this sentence :) I only do not understand one example: If you normally do not acknowledge, what you really want yourself and stop pursuing it, because of „society“ I get it. But what if you want something, but are never able to reach it? No matter if relationships or other longings. What if you actually always seem to „generate“ situations and result, that are rather quite the opposite of your longing? Is that a sign, that you yourself believe unconsciously, that you should not and are not allowed to raech that wish, or is it a sign of your subconscious or higher conscious, that what you believe to be your real longing is illusion? How can you discern your „false“ programming by yourself or the outside world and strip of this clouding layers of false information?

[@MukwaNdishnikaaz]

I think that sometimes false programming can be identified by your results. When you see patterns that consistently appear in your life it is a sign that there is a false program running in your belief system. Another possibility is that the desire may not be a core desire or in contradiction to a core desire. The person who really wants the nice house and fancy cars but does absolutely nothing to get it clearly either doesnt really want it or has other programming running that prevents themselves from going after it. There are many methods of doing your inner work to figure these out. Some of them you can do with yourself like guided meditations and some you may want to go to see someone who does this for a living. One of the methods I use on my clients is ThetaHealing to identify core beliefs systems and replace the false ones.

[@mahimajaiswal4225]

Listening to you feels like I found my god mother...thank you so much for everything you do Teal...you help me heal❤

[@weaveeezzzscalpeeezzz1987]

you are the truth girl.

[@TashaTheCurator]

👍

[@Razu-fb6cg]

I see many people keep on speaking about Troplusfix Dating Secrets (just google search it). But I'm uncertain if it's good. Have you ever tried using this popular dating manual?

[@mangalpal8921]

Your voice is so soothing Teal. I just ❤️ you

[@thepsychonautilus]

Namaste! Thank yo for sharing this with us, it is much aprreciated! keep up this beautiful work!

[@missheather4487]

Somewhere over the rainbow! !!! Oh we all love the potential! ..hardest lesson to overcome...thank you Teal you are truly unique xxx💖

[@bernielewis5346]

Teal I’ve agreed with you on over 100 hours of information. However the rainbow seller I do not, I think a relationship can be built on hope and people can move words their dreams together

[@layasuka8113]

The truth is love and developing of the heart and consciousness to become more noble, more loving, more creative and more beautiful in spirit and all that you create is the key to life in the universe.

[@joycesegers5578]

Damn! I'm a Rainbow girl!! 🌈🌈🌈 More work for me, Yay!! 🥳 This video awakened me on so many levels!! 😭🙏🦋

[@lukreecelupe8849]

I just realized that I always fall in love with the potential 😳

[@BonnieBeatsMusic]

There should be a trigger warning I WAS NOT READY!

[@PacificNWGrl]

Totally

[@maiabullio7205]

Yes

[@Eli666Ms]

LOL this tells the whole story i got through last year! i wish i had found this video when you posted it, but.... who knows, maybe i wouldn't have believed what you were saying. I guess sometimes what we need it's just completing the process in order to become more aware. And i'm grateful to the process and to the feedback you give me. You are a great person, Teal, thank you

[@TheSchola3000]

omg i think i just fell in love with this woman lol

[@meloduple]

Teal, your energy is at the right place. You’re not trying to be hyperactive to have our attention. You’re not trying to be funny and goofy to be interesting. You’re grounded, serious, authentic ❤️ I am grateful that you’re on KZbin 😌

[@MelissaGarza]

Thank Source I don't have this problem. Yay!!!

[@LVRealEstateVideo]

I feel like you are an angel sent here to teach me about the real truth of life.....this video was so powerful....I am so grateful to have met you online and some day I will meet you in person....and you honestly look like an angel when you speak - Everything about you feels like Love to me. Thank you Teal I just ordered your book.....and thank you for offering it at a reasonable price....Can't wait to read it. Warmly, Heather

[@kat8548]

She really is wonderful. I would love to do what she does one day

[@serinataylor6299]

Katherine Beth Cowan heh you just fell in love with your potential. sorry I couldn't help it :P :)

[@rameshsharma4422]

It's your projection 🔥

[@teicandle577]

This is the best comment i found here so far! The "what is" is not about falling in love with his/her current condition, but falling in love with his/her *core*. Looking at the current condition like a good education / job / salary still doesn't free us from "what could be" thinking. Desire for a partner from your soul, and Source will show him/her to you..

[@heybakes]

That was GREAT! Are there any videos on "energy" and attraction? I am attracted to a persons energy. It doesnt matter how attractive they are, if I cannot feel their energy in a magnetic way, I am repelled. How do you find people of compatible energy, without eating carrots and hanging out in a yoga class all day?

[@Marjolinos]

Do you know Eckhart Tolle? You could watch some movies of him. You always attract things that match your energy. So when you don't like what you attract, there are some 'non acceptances' in you. What you want, is possible, if you see things for what they really are... especially in yourself.

[@heybakes]

Thank you Marj! Love ET. You are right. I have many non acceptances, all obviously reflective of self. Cheers.

[@BlueFace33388]

I know men who have been with gorgeous beautiful women but they still cheated, sometimes with plainer women. I didn't get it before, maybe I do now.

[@LiberApolion]

Beautiful and wise! Yes, she’s right and obviously there are many more factors to the equation, but she is providing one of the most significant in our narcissistic society. The only question that was left aside is the “why you might want potential in place of reality.” She did mention it implicitly although the reference was more into what we see, not why we want to see it in that way. What we want in others tells us more about us than the other.

[@vico2209]

but how do you know what to compromise and what not to compromise when you see 80% good side of your partner and 20% the bad site(potential). How do you know what to work on and when to leave...?

[@ichooseme4life]

What's in that 20% that you need but are not getting?

[@bluehope6967]

My eyes of seeing truth will still open. Until I forget this message again.

[@kittykatfancy]

This is the first time I have disagreed with Teal. Here's why. I am a hostess at a restaurant. I also have a law degree, and plan to be a psychologist. That will take years of work and school, and my partner knows that. My partner is getting his masters in sports management. He's applying for PhD programs in sports management, because his goal and his dream is to be a sports management professor. I love him fully, exactly as he is right now. He loves me fully, exactly as I am right now. But neither of us would be happy, or want to stay in the relationship, if the other stayed exactly where they are right now. We both completed law degrees. He left law because he hated it. I am disinclined to practice law - because I hate it. Neither of us expects the other to become a lawyer. But I do expect him to complete his goal of becoming what he truly wants to be - a sports management professor. And he does expect me to become something other than a hostess. (I have the same expectation of myself.) I understand the broad strokes value of this video. But I think it leaves out and maybe discounts those couples who are engaged simultaneously in working toward goals they both value, and which their partners expect them to fulfill. Life would not be what I wanted it to be, with my partner, if he stayed a masters degree student, or never fulfilled his dream of becoming a professor. And I expect life would not be what my partner wants it to be, with me, if I stayed a restaurant hostess. That, I feel, is 100% okay. We love each other as we are now. We also expect and look forward to the day when we have both actualized and become the people each of us plans to be. And we cherish being with one another in the meantime.

[@verenah.1190]

+Jessica Hubbard I don't think you have to "become" the person you plan to be.... it is all already there...the seeds are there, it just has not manifested externally - and maybe it will in the future, or maybe it will not. But I guess you love the seeds that are there. Your partner is striving towards that goal, that is the seed. Even though it has not manifested. What happens if there is an economic crisis and he will never achieve this goal? Would that make you stop loving him?

[@kittykatfancy]

No, I love who he is. That has a lot to do with his wit, intellect and drive. If there were an economic crisis he would apply himself in another direction and be just fine. TRUST ME he is not without faults. (Ahem. He is being rather a jerk at the moment.) But I do love him. And that is good.

[@kittykatfancy]

You are making some unfounded assumptions, my dear. Sounds like you are a staunch defender of Teal. I used to be one of those. Maybe ask her to pay you for the work it takes bending her words to fit any given circumstance. Takes quite a bit of effort!

[@madelyntoday7093]

That actually goes along with what she said because the two of you loved each other before you met your goals and now you love each other after you met them.

[@michaelhicks5150]

This is the problem with "gurus" who speak in absolutes. Nothing is absolute in this plane but the laws of nature.

[@17noella]

illusion shattered for sure. believe in myself so right thank you.

[@The1stGurehaundo]

This is why Pick Up Artists don't work on long term relationships...

[@bobmartins5128]

Galgo Carreras Word

[@RheaTempleton]

Such good advice! Never settle for someone. If they aren't what you want right now find someone who is. Life is to short for chasing rainbows.

[@tammyrose6157]

I would love too get too know her and go Drink coffee or and Tea with and be come friends with her I have so much too learn and ask and I dont feel so a lone some how when I watch hre I feel like I found my Spirtual Mother and or sister I know that Crazy I think it might be We got alot in commen but she is smarter and I do belive in this too be true I will keep watching this and Keep learning as much as I can and One day I will do some action I can not force my self to get all this in one day or I will burn my self out by over lodeing my self if I do not watch it I got too take it easy I love learning Love-N-Ligh Blessed Be

[@toneone1134]

Thank you.

[@valdy5986]

What about all the people getting into a relationship pretending to be something they are not. Then when the mask falls off, you ask "who are you?". By this time, you maybe in too deep. Love fraud happens all the time. How do we see through the cloak?

[@malabrinetica]

+Valdy I guess you just have to go with your guts...trust your intuition ...sometimes other people manage to fool us because we fool ourselves first...

[@willemhendrikvangreunen5276]

Valdy it's like mmmmm well grasping for air when u in the deepest part all alone in the Atlantic ocean deep deep very deep... because I found some answers only when I put the shoe on my foet to feel what the endured.. because as I'm finding that self as a boy had to use what I learned myself and what ever needed to get cognitive dissonance to self help. No truth is a mask and cloak coming off and as victim I'm finding myself with dagger in the hand with blood dripping from the one u love more then self.

[@nicolemariepr8478]

Time will allow you to get to know them better. I'd say to take it easy and not rush into relationships.

[@jordansmith8547]

If you are authentic you will attract authenticity to you. Remember, the outside world is a mirror reflected back at you.

[@ichooseme4life]

When I've found myself in a relationship such as this, I had to get very honest with myself. What I discovered was I didn't take enough time to get to know the person, it became sexual too soon and I didn't listen to the whispers or justified them. Once the whispers became screams, I felt "duped". My inner voice was trying to get my attention..but I didn't want to hear or believe it...lol

[@alisaberrak7968]

this is really a priceless relationship advice. I didn't expect it to be this significant!! teal is my google for life man, thanks god

[@Niakisses18]

AND ITS OKAY TO WANT THE MOST GORGEOUS GIRL WITH THE SEXIEST BODY OR THE TALL DARK AND HANDSOME MAN WITH ALOT OF MONEY! ITS OKAY TO WANT WHAT YOU WANT

[@northvashista]

It's like you mad this just for me. Your timing is impeccable.

[@TheWiseOldChinaman]

THIS ADVICE along with many other videos are IN TOTAL CONTRADICTION with the video titled why we do not remember our past lives where Teal talked about "The universe is trying to explore and realize itself through as many possible perspectives as possible from our physical experiences such that we would want to experience to be a butcher in one life as well as the animal being butchered in another life"... THIS IS DUE TO FRAGMENTED THINKING FROM THE SOURCE that Teal channels from.

[@TheWiseOldChinaman]

Heidi Svenson I think you missed my point. What i was trying to get at based on what Teal said in the video titled " Why we do not remember our past lives" is that, IF Teal is telling people that we are here to experience for the sake of experience in order for the all knowing all abundant universe to expand, why advise us to change anything or expect anything instead of just let things happen as designed and intended and planned by the omnipotent and omniscient universe?

[@HeidiSvenson]

TheWiseOldChinaman Oh no! I don't know what happened, but my comment was actually not in response to what you wrote, but to Ern Collins wrote...somehow I mis-posted it. ISorry for the confusion! :)

[@TheWiseOldChinaman]

No problem Heidi :-)

[@paolacastillo7836]

Spot on. And its something Im finding in many of Teals vids, specially in topics about relationships.

[@MukwaNdishnikaaz]

TheWiseOldChinaman These two ideals are not in contradiction to each other. Both are true still. We ARE here to expand. Our learning and shifting and changing and unraveling of ourselves is what causes us to expand. Figuring out what you want and what you dont want is part of how you expand. Free will is the design we set for ourselves before coming here. When we find our way back to the core of who we are and be true to ourselves and desires, we find ourselves feeling more fulfilled and consequently more connected in the process. You can change your desires. But if you have core desires they are hard to change or overcome if it is not your path to do so.

[@DomDeVille]

In the past, I watched your videos when I was really down. Now, I am relatively up in comparison, despite a recent breakup. You helped me understand others who told me to give up on wanting what I want. I froze myself in time right now and I was like “damn, not too shabby”. Despite often blaming myself for failed relationships, I think it was my foresight and awareness in some of these situations that got me through.

[@user-wd8ld1my8c]

Damn Teal... Did you fall straight from the sky...? This message really struck me i my heart. Every single word resonated with me. Teal, blessed is the day that you where born. What an i credable gift you are to this world!

[@ViloletLightWellnessMakaiSide]

Teal, I have been watching your videos for years. You are very wise! Even though I have been watching your videos for a long time this one only found me today. Although, I wish it would have come to me sooner, today must have been the day I would listen. Thank you!

[@bonitabanks1236]

I had to watch this video just to make sure that you were living up to the title and for sure ..thank you ! ! THE MOST valuable information!

[@2-3-B]

Teal I love you. I too believe that we must accept ourselves and others face value. False expectations of ourselves and of others will come due to a potential performance relationship. Self honesty and realness of self is the only way through...

[@Giiiselleo]

You are an angel on this earth... such a beautiful soul you are 😌

[@MsCerise007]

Everything you just said is soooooooo true!!! People are blinded by the light

[@cosmicgiggle5942]

Thats very true Tamara. I was raised by a single mother that taught me all women are beautiful, providers of life, nurture and above all understanding. As Im still friends with my exes, I can say they are all different in every way possible. Those things never mattered to me, but statuesque tells people to find what benefits them only. More people need to realize looking for and "falling" for archetypes are dangerous. Peace.

[@Mylegiscaughtinashackle]

I needed to hear this. I really did. While I'm not shocked I have deluded myself and allow others to delude me, I'm shocked and very grateful someone could put words to my current dilemma. I fell in love with potential, and yet, three years later my hope is dead. Thank you Teal Swan

[@Loveyouwish]

Two types of change govern the flow of events in our lives: the type we imagine and wish for, and the type that life initiates for us. Whether we are the engines that drive how we move forward with the next phase of our lives, or we are directed by spontaneous events, nothing is more useful at a time of change than having insightful advice or guidance!

[@GravyBrainz]

best way to sum it all up, the best relationships are two independent people with a mutual understanding. and remember true love is true appreciation, that's why you need to love yourself first is because if you appreciate yourself you wont let your emotions become dependent on another human, then once you got that down you meet another person who understands that. so instead of your partner becoming some kind of possession they become your partner in appreciation

[@amrtvideo]

She is Perfect as she is. I wouldn't change one thing about her. My friendship with her is the most balanced relationship I now experience.

[@sophia1998ish]

thank you for your kind advice. I have been married for 25 years and have tried countless ways to explain what I need from him. Maybe this all stems from my lack of affection as a child, so maybe I need to look deeper into myself to find happiness. But you are right that I should just learn to have acceptance and maybe I can stop that search for that rainbow within myself or him.

[@Ivana7002]

I've learned that first step in the direction of manifesting desired is to accept things as they are right now and make the best of it.Then Universe can work with us.If we are resisting something it only sends signal that we want more of what we resist.Thank you for explaining this even better!

[@alexanderx3554]

In regards to the pot of gold analogy, "Tell the world what you intend to do, but first show it!" - Napoleon Hill

[@elvan1]

I agree with you. People have hard time to believe some people could be in love someone who he or she is.

[@subliminalandmeditation9141]

I just found your channel and want to say your teachings resonate so much on a deep level. I wish I had found you sooner. But I'm grateful that I now can benefit from your wisdom on my personal expansion journey. Much Love to you❤

[@dayanahoyosvera4170]

These 3 videos are good introductory videos imo: How to Feel Your Emotions (and other emotion videos. Teal says many people don’t feel their emotions, which are what guide us in life), Teal’s Process, Happiness Tip, & Spiritual Bypassing

[@HeartOfAllCreation]

I’m grateful for the new perspective you are offering! I feel a deep resonance with what you share. ❤️❤️❤️

[@irenecastaneda7936]

You bring light to my life. Thank you.

[@brenab1000]

you are amazing, You enlighten keeping it simple, but not one bit simpler,thank you for your loving kindness that shares the truth that illuminates.

[@danielaiaelamoldovan8852]

This Is such a mind opening for me.... I Always wanted a relationship with a rich man but I denied that to myself and considered selfish and not ok ... And as a consequence I beat myself up for wanting that ... I ended up with a wealthy man but not generous One and One that tells me I love him for his Money , it's not true , but I think that because of not accepting this desire of me he mirrored back to me ....We broke up.... But after listening to this I have the inner pace of being ok with what I desire and won' t settle for anything less ❤️❤️❤️