Teb Niam Pog Cov Lus. 6/18/22

[@kabnplias2334]

Leej twg tsi tau raug niam pog tsim ce yeej tsi nkag siab od sim neej no ma lwj siab tshaj plaw

[@zevang5508]

Wow, Nyias heev txaus nyias

[@yerlee4326]

Tam li kuv xav mas, leej niam zaj yuav tseeb dua leej nyab zaj, yog tias leej nyab tsis muaj nplooj siab ntxub leej niam pog thiab txiv yawg mas, leej nyab yuav tsis ib sij tsiv ib lub tsev tsis pub leej niam pog paub li ntawd no? Ib txwm muaj los ces tej laus yeej nkaus2 thiab es tej hluas yeej tsis xav yuav tsis xav tu tej laus li ntag, tabsis tsis tau hnov txog tej nyab coj phem npaum li tus nyab no hlo li , es yuav ua ntawv tiv thaiv tsis pub yus niam pog txiv yawg tuaj ze nus lub vaj tsev li tus nyab no . Kuv yog ib tug nyab los lawm thiab niaj hmub no kuv kuj yog ib leej niam pog lawm thiab, kuv xav kom peb xav tias, tus tswv tsim peb los ua neeg nyob nws xav kom peb sib hlub tsis hais nyab lossis niam, yog peb tsis coj zoo ces yeej tsis tau koob hmoov ntawm tswv ntuj li. Tseev peb nyias yuav hus nyias kwj tse los tus tswv yeej paub qhov yus ua zoo lossis yus ua phem tagnrho lawm. Es thov kom peb ua siab ntev , ua siab zoo , es kev hlub thiaj muaj mog, ua tsaug

[@เหยอทอแสงศิริ]

Koj hai yog lawm nawb 👍👍👍

[@baoyangfamilychannel7814]

Sister koj yeej ua dlau zog lawm thiab

[@Hlub-xlo]

Koj yog ib tug nyab tsis zoo thiab. Mloog koj sab koj yeej phem kawg thiab.

[@semicharmedlife]

This story is embarrassing on both parts. The mil is controlling and over bearing. She addresses her adult son as "menyuam" as a child. Which means she never accepted the dil and still thinks she can continue to control her son's life. As for the dil, its a power struggle between her and the mil. She wants to replace the mil as the authorative person over her husband instead of viewing herself as an equal to the mil. The dil admitting that she purposely hid her husband from his parents shows she is just as evil as her mil. The husband should make his own health care Decisions. In the end there are no winners.

[@amazinggrace8136]

Ephesians 5:29, “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”

[@pamvue8258]

Yog kawg!!!

[@Yourfavhmonggirly]

Did we forget they have kids too? The money need to go to his kids. Kids and disabled husband need care. The money will help with care.

[@PeemTsheejDuaNtais98]

Don’t know who to believe. All I can asked for is best of luck to the son’s health.

[@HomeMadeWithLove23]

That how the mom love her son. She do care for her son. Once we become nyiam pog, we will understand how the daughter inl will be like to us. So be kind, understand, be respectful, be communication is the key with the families.

[@maicha4809]

Niam pog los phem, nyab los phem. Poor guy….

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

Yog. I hope that she at least still loves her husband and is taking care of him the best she can. If she is then that is one good thing out of this mess.

[@autumnlossij-muas1490]

Those who cry wolf the loudest will always be the first to be heard and believed. Keep doing what you've been doing. Those that are mature enough to understand will never take just one side. Continue to stand your ground. Thank you for sharing your portion of ypur journey.

[@txhobtxhawjheev8588]

Only people with the same mindset think like the mil and inexperience people with in laws believe the Mil’s side of the side story. Neeg muaj hlwb tsis ntseeg niam pog yooj yim.

[@magicalunicorn5853]

Exactly - anyone who’s a nyab could probably smell something wasn’t right and that was the fact. Her son is alive still because he is away from HER.

[@tswjntug2346]

@@magicalunicorn5853 each of them has her own dark side. I wouldn't buy their stories.

[@gabriellevang3461]

Me ntxhais kuv nkag siab koj zoo kawg mog yog twg tsis tau raug txoj kev koj taug yeej tsis paub, s d tsuas tias nej zoo ib yam tab sis tsis zoo li hais, yeej paub tias mob koj thiab koj tu siab npaum cas piav tsis tau rau twg os mog tab sis thov koj pub koj tus niam pog tuaj saib nws tus me tub mog koj txhob xav rau twg os thov koj xav tias yog koj ua rau vaj tswv no mog, thov vaj tswv txhawb koj txoj kev xav mus rau qhov yog mog

[@tsaabduabci4610]

he kuv nyiam koj cov neej neeg heev li os txhua txoj yeej nug tag li

[@kevinvang2979]

This is amazing, two sides of the story! I love it. It’s like a continued series!

[@leek-te5dx]

Your comments are the reason gossip lives on. Long live gossip you clap to that then be at peace Bra.

[@vangthao4624]

Hmong stories gonna be on Netflix now.

[@pajhuablaujchannel3731]

Niam pog los phem nyab los phem

[@padaoyang2965]

You and your MIL have one goal: for your husband-her son, to get better. You both have different ways of hoping to reach that goal. I hope you both can reconcile so you guys can stop the suffering you both are causing your husband-her son. What's worse is when you are sick and your loved ones are fighting. Sending you all lots of love.

[@yuamoua4113]

I completely agree! I get that both of you want what’s best for him but last thing he needs right now is more stress on top of his health. May god provide you both with clarity, strength, and love! God bless!

[@JRxwb]

When you’re trying to heal him but she’s keeping him from healing than it’s time to take him away from her. The moon can do her way but she don’t need to keep the Dr from doing theirs too. It’s the son’s choice if he want to heal. Like she said if she divorce him no one will be and to take care of him but her. The mother should be grateful the she is still willing to take care of him and taking him to the Dr to get better and not ditch him to riot in bed.

[@swanlake3895]

When I listened to the MIL’s side I can tell she’s the controlling type who thinks she can run her son’s life. When it comes down to money it’s between the husband and wife, usually the siblings and in laws will not provide. Do what you have to do as long as you have good intentions for your husband/family.

[@mv9073]

My mom is like this mother-in-law, so I believe this story so much. My kids and I can’t go to the hospital and let her even know. Otherwise, I get the lecture about how- “Dr’s want to use us as experiments. Dr wants to give us cancer. Oh, any shot they give will give you cancer.” Always- “let me find you hmong medicine only!” When I couldn’t have kids due to PCOS and finally did, she says it wasn’t because of Dr, it was because she called upon the cows and the pigs and spirits to help me get pregnant. It was because she paid this shaman and that shaman who got me pregnant. You do you! And that’s all that matters. The Hmong culture forgets, when a man marries, who his future is. He doesn’t need his parents at night. He needs his wife and kids!

[@heysoniher]

Agreed!

[@suchilee7257]

Or his siblings if it doesn’t pertain to weddings or funerals. 😒🙄🧐😅

[@maymoua5472]

Koj niam pog tsis ua koj tsaug los kuv ua koj tsaug ntau2 uas koj tu2 koj tus txiv nawb kuv paub tias sab2 npau cas

[@mayloucha7813]

Niam pog os niam pog aw…thov tsum thiaj lau….! Tsuav tus Nyab tseem hlub thiab kam tu koj tus tub ceg yog #1.

[@vangyang4118]

Mother-in-law is too controlling, but Nyab is too entitled.. MIL believes in herbal remedy.. Nyab believes in Western medicine/ treatment.. Like the book, “The Spirit Catches You & You Fall Down”, maybe a little bit of both to help the son.. The settlement, maybe a little bit to his parents as dej siab, for raising the son and helping to care as much as they know how to “hlub”.. Should anything arise, burial is on wife, but he is their “nplooj siab”.. So maybe you two females need to stop fighting over him and try to work together to help him..

[@nojkhoomchannel4817]

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[@heysoniher]

MIL has no claim to that money.

[@Gurlhmong]

Sometimes MIL are so overbearing, it won’t work. Also if MIL makes it about money, then that shows where her motive is.

[@Ncotauhlubtsistau]

Wow koj txwv tsis tau niam tub txoj kev hlub os. Yog lawv yug mob mob lawv siab oh koj ua tsis nyog lawm nawb viv ncaus.

[@rcmobil3258]

Neeg lub neej yeej zoo li no txua yam qhov phem qhov zoo yog yus los xyaum lawv xwb peb cov nyab muaj 1 txhia yeej yog txoj kev no qhov peb siab tawv peb txawj phem yog peb xyaum lawv xwb kuv los yeej zoo li koj thiab

[@sombunman5551]

Nyab ua yog lawm

[@MaivPibDuaTshiab]

Niam ntxawm li cas los teej muaj kev hlub txog me nyuam

[@nkaujhmoobusa2116]

Hmoob khawv koob yeej pab kawg. Tabsis yuav tsum cia Doctors txuas xov hlaus kom ruaj khov mam tdhuab khawv koob pab mas cov pob txhas cov nqaij thiaj li xab xeeb xab saws zoo sai sai ho. Koj niam pog nkhaus tseem yuav khwv kaus neb cov nyiaj thiab ub.....xuab dhau

[@MissHmong911]

Niam pog Los phem kus kes nyab Los heev ces zoo li 2 zaj no

[@tradingkite3571]

The mother in law is controlling. The nyab also crossed the line by filing a restraining order. If they really love the son, they should stop trying to hurt each other and focus on healing him.

[@j.a8739]

I believe her side of the story more. Old people , old way of thinking.

[@xeexiong2029]

Yog kawg yeej muaj ib cov niam Pog yeej phem li ko kv yeej ntsib qhov ko los lawm

[@VivoVivo-jz7ls]

Niam pogaw yog likj tus nyab hai ntau dua lawm nawb

[@mit.9280]

To the sister of this story, there are two sides to a penny. Therefore no need for you to clear or explain yourself but for the fact that you filing a restraining order, it’s beyond inexcusable actions on your account. A traditional Hmong’s Mom’s’ love is what and how your mom-in-law did.

[@MsPajrose]

I agree. If she refused to let the mil do the traditional way she should not file restraining order and should allow his parents see him. She is not a good nyab either. They both are at fault and that’s very sad for the son/husband.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

I’ll file for a life time restraint order if need to.

[@lmyt8610]

I think you guys are missing the point. The dil has no choice but to do that because her mil refuses to listen. If the mil at least listen half the time she’d probably let them see him. As soon as they know where she lives they are just overwhelming all together and start their medicine again 🤦🏻‍♀️ this is a hard one. Unless the shoe fits we’ll never know where she stands

[@Moneymotosr3]

@@lmyt8610 thanks for the clarification because top few comments are really missing the point. It’s not easy when mil is always on your shoulder no matter what

[@diannaxiong693]

Yog koj tsi coj khiav ces yeej zoo tabsis coj khiav ces yeej phem2 tiag2 li nawb yog koj coj tau phem npaum li no. Tseem tshuav koj thib nawb pog aws.Kawg lawv foom2 yus ces kawg yuav mag rau yav laus nawb poj hmoob aws. Niaj hnub niam no txoj kev npam nyob ze2 lub ntiaj teb lawm mog ceev faj nawb es yuav txom nyem xwb os..Leej twg hais lis tsi paub tabsis cia rau vajtswv mam los txiav txim rau nej yav tom ntej no nawb poj hmoob aws.

[@นางฟ้าในใจ-ฦ7ฃ]

เราเป็นผู้หญิงด้วยกัน ไม่ใช่แค่แม่สามีคุณหรอกที่ชอบบ่นชอบด่า มีเยอะแยะ นี่มันเป็นแค่ข้ออ้างของคุณที่คุณไม่ชอบเค้า ส่วนเรื่องของยาสมุนไพรเนี่ยเราก็เข้าใจคุณนะ บางครั้งคนแก่ก็หัวโบราณเกินไป คุณก็อย่าใจแคบไปหน่อยเลย อย่าลืมว่ายังไงเค้าก็เป็นพ่อแม่ผัวเรา

[@nutchakee3134]

ใช่เรามองว่าสะใภ้ว่าเมกาก็ทำเกินไปนะยังไงก็ไม่สมควรเอาลูกเขาไปไม่ให้เจอหน้ากันแบบนี้อีก...

[@palee73]

Yes the money they pay for your husband's injuries, is not right to give it to the other brothers and family. Your husband deserves the money. Just keep doing the right things!

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

Nyab of this story...I agree with you to some extent. It's hard to be a nyab to a MIL that is too involved in her son's life. However, you need to understand that your husband is her son. Her flesh & blood as yours are your flesh and blood. Put yourself in her situation, would you want your future DIL to hide your son from you? I sense that you & your MIL don't have much of a relationship, but you married her baby...no matter how old he gets; he'll always be her baby boy. Please be more open minded & allow your in-laws to see their son!

[@missthoj4993]

Tu nyab hai lo yeej yog lawm thiab tab si ma tsi txhob ua npaum ko rau niam pog thiab yog lawv tu tub ce lawv yeej hlub2 nco2 thiab .

[@camua3317]

Niam ntsuab teev niam pog zaj neej neeg lub npe hu li cag

[@su6800]

I want to hear the husband's side of story.

[@chongly8351]

Koj hais yog lawm cov laus no ntseeg tshuaj hmoob dhau lawm. Cov niam pog yeej muaj tej tus phem kawg li koj tus niam pog.

[@hmoobnrhiavkevncajncees8957]

2 Zaj neej neeg A-B ces neb phem ib yam thiaj tau ua Niam pog thiab Nyab neb sib phim xwb yog yuav Muab hais ces neb sib txeeb pob Nyiaj lawm xwb yog hais tiag2 ces tsi Muaj ib Qhov Nyiaj li ces tus yuav Hlub tiag2 ces yog Niam pog xwb os nawj tus thoob tsibtos nrog ces mloog xwb Yeej nkiag siab lawm os nawb

[@lavendert8275]

Nobody understands if they are not wearing your shoes leej twg mus ua nyab tau tsev neeg zoo ces they not understand cov mus ua nyab tau tsev neeg phem hos tus nyab zoo los muaj tus phem los muaj thiab os leej twg tsis tau niam pog txiv yawg tsis zoo mas txhob maj2 tuag nawb

[@kayingyang2323]

Nev nev kuv tub hais tias cov dab neeg no yog Hnov ib tog lus xwb tsi txhob ntseeg2 zaum no Paub lawm los po!!

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

It's good to hear this side of the story too. It brings more clarity, however neither side is necessarily doing the right thing sadly. If the daughter-in-law secretly snuck away with the son, that must mean that the relationship with the mother-in-law wasn't so great and mil isn't an angel like she paints herself out to be. But d-i-l was too extreme by hiding the son and putting a restraining order against m-i-l. I understand now why she had to do it, but it still wasn't the right way to go about it. Sad for the son all around.

[@calijahhawj]

If was her son that chose to be hidden away. It wasn't the daughter choice. She just respecting her husband decision.

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

@@calijahhawj it was both of their decision it sounds like. But either way, it was wrong of both of them to just disappear into thin air and not say a word. The son should have been a man and spoke up to his mom so that everything wouldn't be pinned on his wife like she was the evil one who planned all of this on her own.

[@JRxwb]

@@MonaLisa-de4cp He’s sick and broken why does he need to deal with his crazy Mom. She should be grateful the Nyab don’t divorce her son. Did she really want to bath him naked like he was a kid again?? No son would want that. If your mom was keeping you away from getting treated and your body is all broken I’m sure I’d want to move away silently from her too. What kind I’d a mother would want to do Dr from healing her son?? This Mom is a bit mental. 😵‍💫

[@MonaLisa-de4cp]

@@JRxwb I agree that the mom is too controlling and yes, probably a bit mental too. He is her child so of course she'd naturally want to take care of him even if he's married and grown. She just doesn't know her limit and can't watch what she says so I'd say she's the main problem. That still doesn't excuse the actions of the son and nyab. I don't know if the son even tried telling his mom to stand back a bit but they both should've tried taking it up to the relatives about her excessive controlling behavior and that if the relatives can't do something about it, then they're forced to do something and the mom yuav tu tsi tau siab. They only talked about the $ with relatives but should've talked about the rest too. In the end everything is messed up. I agree that the mom really should be glad that her nyab is still with her son and hasn't run off with the $. I just hope everything will turn out well for everyone in the end.

[@suevang3537]

@@MonaLisa-de4cp is Qaddafi r f crfjpi

[@chongkiez]

So glad to hear the nyab side of the story. I knew the MIL was obessesive and controlling. She is crazy. MIL needs to leave her son and nyab alone. They are ADULTS. This is why some elders get put in nursing home because they get so stubborn and crazy.

[@pamvue8258]

I totally agree. When in laws like this causes stress on the marriage and dil...you have to be in their shoes to know. Tus nyab its at her breaking point and what is the wife for if she cant take care of her hubby. Why the mom...dang...he is a grown man...he belings to his wife. Makes me angry as I am in thr same pool as the daughter with a crazy mil!

[@leechang1814]

Ah...hais txog peb hmoob cov khawv koob yeej muaj cov zoo tiag2 vim peb txiv ntov ntoo ntaus nws ob txhais ceg dam tag ob peb ntus nyob tebchaws nplog, peb mus caum tus xibfwb paj yeeb yaj nyob lub zos nab fias tuaj ua khawv koob rau tau ib hli xwb nws thiaj zoo lawm peb txiv ho kawm ntawm nws los kho tib neeg thiab nws twb kho tib neeg lov txha lov npab lov ceg li kom hauv tebchaws nplog tuaj rau tebchaws thaib thiab txog meskas teb no thiab. Peb txiv twb ua khawv koob rau ib tus yawm yij hu ua Choj Yaj, raug laib tua nyob Fresno, CA pw hoo maum tau ib hlis tsis tsim li lawv cov kwv tij thiaj tuaj thov peb txiv mus ua khawv koob rau nws thiaj tsim rov los thiab zoo lawm. Niam no tseem nyob Fresno, CA hos peb txiv laus2 lawm ho xiam rau xyoo 1999 nyob rau Merced, CA lawm. Yog nej xav paub tus xibfwb paj yeeb yaj no feem coob cov laus nyob rau peb sab xeev yeej paub nws hos kuv tij laug thiab ib tus kwv los yeej kawm tau los ntawm peb txiv tibsi tabsis tuaj txog tebchaws no tsi tau ua rau leej twg li lawm. Tabsis ib co khawv koob yeej lam ua xwb yeej tsi zoo tiag thiab...

[@robertleeliugwi2jkqk237]

Tus muam los tus niam ntxawm. Zoo siab koj tuaj hais koj sab rau me sawv daws mloog. Koj tus txiv puas muaj lub zog tuaj hais nws zaj dab neeg. Ua li txhua leej txhua tus thiaj paub ntseeg leej twg. Kuv xav paub rau qhov hauv ntiag teb no kuv tsis xav hais tips yuav muaj ib tug nyab siab phem npaum niam pog zaj dab neeg.

[@sengtheking]

According to both stories, you two are at fault. The MIL should’ve learned and not be so controlling. You should at least let your husband sees his mother.

[@isarili747]

Agree they both fault need to stop before too late

[@amazinggrace8136]

I think she tried, but the mil wanted things done her way and her way only. Plus its the son who said for her to take him away.

[@JRxwb]

I think that by the time even her son don’t want to see her and she threatened the Dr that she will sue them than us time to take the sun away from her too. That’s just too much the moon is doing not good to the son.

[@lilyv.628]

When it comes down to it, it's the son's responsibility to stand up for himself, stand up to his mother (if need be) and help his wife understand his family's dynamics. A real man must never hide behind his wife.

[@laceitup96]

Right, he's making his wife look like the bad one that's Making the decisions bts. If he truly wanted to move away or not have his mom be in the hospital he could've said something. Yea I understand that he's under a lot of stress and rehabilitating, but his vocal function is still there. Just call your mom and give her your word goddammit. Lol well need his side of the story as well. Part 3 I'm waiting

[@Lisa_X5]

@@laceitup96 Yeah, part 3 is from the son’s side of the story.

[@isarili747]

Qhov tseeb ces Tim tus nyab tus niam pog nkaus xwb os the son have to speak up

[@Embrac3m3]

Have some words to add too: Phem ib yam. Nyab los tsis need add nws 2 sentence, niam pog los txob nkhaus nkhaus thiab xya xya nyab npe thiab os. Come together and make every day a best one so that everyone can move forward with no regrets. The greatest debt you can owe in life is LOVE.

[@shuanaher5828]

Ruam li koj ces cia Dr tseev es thiaj li zoo mas

[@cathythao9094]

You guys are too quick to judge. I don’t believe in both sides, I believe the truth and the truth will never be told cause the son is too sick to tell it. When that much money is involve they all claim innocent.

[@VivoVivo-oy1dn]

Thaum nej tseem muaj niam nrog nej nyb ,nej muaj mob muaj niam muaj txiv nrog nej txhawj ,ces nej yeej dim ib qhov kev nyuab siab mog ,pob txhab dam tshuaj ntsuab yeej khob taub zoo kawg thiab mav kj niam pog ua li yeej g yuam kev thiab o vim niam hlb thiab txhawj nej xw mog.

[@chiliayang5832]

Cov laus ces yeej coj li no mas viv ncaus peb cov hluas yeej nkag siab zoo lawm os

[@hnubxiong9840]

Lwm hnub kj ua pog kj mam paub kj yuav tau ib tu nyab ua li pog no ua rau koj kj thiaj paub

[@leelee8608]

As bad as the MIL is…. I believe that you have no right to keep her son away. If you know how his mom is already then set your boundaries (if you haven’t done it yet). After setting your boundaries and she won’t follow then yes! you can keep him away. As far as the money goes…. It blinds people in every way. It’s really up to you if you want to give a bit for his parents but not the sibling. If you think, if there isn’t his parents then there won’t be your husband for you too. It wouldn’t hurt to give a bit to his parents.

[@jalynnkat]

Sounds like she’s already done that (setting boundaries). Taking the son away was her last resort.

[@ginamoua9989]

Im assuming you didnt finish listening to the story if your asking about setting boundaries. Money was always the motive here. Parents always assume they are entitled to money no matter where its coming from.

[@leelee8608]

@@ginamoua9989 I did finish the story. She didn’t really state that she talked to the MIL before hand about setting boundaries. But if she did then yes! She had a right to protect her husband in every way to make him get better. This family issue has so much more like she said. It’s just sad that it had come to this for both of the families.

[@isarili747]

Nyiaj pog qhov muag ces tsis nco qab txog tus neeg uas last hope lawm os

[@cheelee8986]

Mi nyab thiab mi niam pog aw… li cas los peb tsis txiav txim tias leej twg thiaj yog, Tiam sis thov kom koj tus mi txiv tsuas muaj zoo zuj zus Xwb mog mo nyab aw…

[@มัยเเมม]

Niam ntsuab teev tej txoj zoo li no koj tsis tas yuav muab los tham li os tej txoj sib ceg li no na

[@pajnyiagyany8147]

Kuv xav hai tia yeej coj tsi zoo ib yam os yog txawj sib yoog sib hwm yeej tsi muaj teeb meem koj xav hai tia koj txawj kuv xav hai tia kuv ntshe ces ua neej nyob yeej tsi sib haum li hau lub tiaj teb no

[@knegirl]

But still, at the end of the day, he is still her son. Please understand that. Everyone goes through phases of in law abuse. When you become a mother in law urself, dont be that person who is always right.

[@kavang9826]

I think you should listen to the whole thing again. 🤦‍♀️

[@knegirl]

@@kavang9826 nope once is enough. No one side is right. I've seen close to this case, at the end b4 his death, he cry for his mom.

[@maryly09]

@@knegirl yes i agree. I think so many ppl cried for their mom at the end. My grandma died when she was 83 yrs old and she cried for her mom too. That broke my heart bc i realized we never stopped being our mother's child.

[@kaam6671]

But her son chose that way already

[@maryly09]

@@kaam6671 it's all he says, she says.

[@shenglee7110]

Thank you for sharing your story...now let's hear your husband's side. Lol. You and your husband made the right decision to seek professional help and removing yourself from your toxic mil. Broken bone is a serious matter. Some older generation will not understand. Btw, I found it disgusting she asked you for money after spending it on hmong medicine then claims how much she loves him in her story. I don't doubt the love, just doubt the way she delivers it. Also, how biased of her to blame everything on you, when it was a mutual decision both you and your husband made to block her. Just do what's best for you and your husband. To all people using hmong medicine, there are a lot of scammers out there with the so call 'care all' green medicine. Please seek a medical professional. We are in the US where clinical care is easily accesible and most innovative.

[@maikiaher4662]

Yes. I'm ready to hear the son's side too since DIL said it was the son's idea to sever ties with his family.

[@lpbvivo7646]

Kj yg ib tug nyab phem dhau lawm lawv tus tub lawv hlub tsaj kj kj tsis muaj cai txwv kj niam pog

[@bvang8370]

Marriages has a 50% chance of divorce and since he's disabled, his chance of a divorce is much higher. The only reason his wife is still with him is because of the $1.3 million and $ that comes in monthly. Once the money runs out, she will surely dump him. When that happens, he will have no choice but to move back with his blood family. But his parents will be old by then so they won't be able to take care of him so his future will even be more difficult.

[@xmay71]

That's not true. I guess you have issue. Most people love their spouse and will care for him or her with or without the money. You must not have enough faith in your spouse. JS

[@lhlh4293]

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[@lhlh4293]

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[@nouvang4059]

Hais txog ntawm cov nyiaj tsis yog yuav faib ua 4 phuv tiam sis yuav tsum tau muab200,000rau koj muab100,000 rau niam txiv thiaj tsis npam

[@nraugntses3610]

I just feel more lies from Nyab than Mil. I don’t think she’s still so caring if the son don’t have any life insurance or income. A mother always caring about her children what ever her believes and will try to protect.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

I don’t care, only if niam yuav yuav tub ua txiv yau then I’ll free my hands 🙌

[@_milly]

Haha, I knew the MIL isn’t so innocent herself. The MIL’s story sounded like she wanted to control her son’s life. And since the DIL wouldn’t allow her to control it, the MIL got mad and threw a fit. I wasn’t expecting to hear from the DIL’s side so quick but like I have said on Jenny Vang’s channel “I enjoy hearing the other side of the story, like this one.” - There are always three sides to every story. We heard the MIL’s side, now the DIL’s side, and we will never hear the real side.

[@c.lee-soulisak327]

This is the same thing I said or posted.

[@magicalunicorn5853]

Yup me too! As a nyab, I knew the MIL was playing victim and looking at the nyab as an enemy vs her son’s wife.

[@23KE.]

We need to hear the son’s side. 😄

[@c.lee-soulisak327]

I tend to believe the nyab side bc she said..I did like my MIL at the beginning but nothing I did made her happy. Then I began to hate her. And she also said..I told my MIL I won't share the money with her or the older brother and explained why. The MIL side..she was always the good one, always loving and caring for her nyab. Hmmmm???

[@panislorpo7056]

@@23KE. ບໍຂໍຊໍ່ຂໍຊຊລລໍລໍໍຂໍໍໍ

[@beautiful2360]

Omg this mother in law sound just like my mother in law

[@uzidoormanq-2t]

Like mine too!!

[@txhobtxhawjheev8588]

I understand you sister. I have a mil/fil like yours too...only those with similar experience understand how you feel. These types of in laws are VERY CONTROLLING!!!! And MANIPULATING!!! My mil kicked us out of my husband own home-to this day she can’t do SHIT! You do you...they do them! Your mil is in denial of her actions and very disrespectful of your decisions.

[@maiyang570]

Agree!!!

[@yerthor4207]

Yog Koj zoo ce yeej Tsi Tawm tsev lo ma me Nyab aw

[@yerlor8328]

@@yerthor4207 es yog koj ne koj puas tawm os . Kuv xav tias yog koj no ntshe koj twb khiav lawm os

[@Gurlhmong]

@@yerthor4207 es koj puas zoo li niam poj peb thiab los.

[@txhobtxhawjheev8588]

@@yerthor4207 yog li koj hais kawg...yog Kuv yog tus Nyab zoo ces Kuv nyob tiv aws...tiam sis Kuv yog tus phem Kuv cia lawv tus tub txiav txim. Koj kav tsij ua zoo luag thiaj qhuas koj nawj.

[@shellysongsong9577]

I only started to listen and already got tired of this story. I totally agreed with the wife. We Hmong women have understand once our son is married; we need to let him go to live his life otherwise he’s not going to know how to be a man and lead his family. We as mothers can be there to offer help when needed but don’t interfere with their life. The other things with these old folks and their ways of healing using spiritual healers and herbal medicines. They don’t understand that without the right tools to keep the bones intact and straight; when the bones grows back together, it will not be straight and it will cause future complications like healing may take longer and it may not heal right. And it will decreased In strength and flexibility/mobility as well. Herbal medicine has a lot of side effects that can damage kidney and other organs as well. Spiritual healers spraying waters(if it s in the mouth, it’s already been contaminated) at risk for infection. Mothers we always loved our children but when they are grown; let them go. We had lived our life already and now it’s their turn to live theirs. Please don’t take your titters out of their mouth.

[@pahouamoua8054]

Thov kom koj tus txiv zoo tsuag tsuag nawb.

[@maivanghang7823]

I can't believe the both sides. But I understand that a mother's love is priceless. Just pray for the son to get better soon.

[@yermoua8300]

Tus niam tsev Yog ib tug neeg zoo lawm ces lwm hnub koj cov nyab yuav hlub koj heev ho koj Yog ib tug nyab phem li niam pog hais ces lwm hnub koj cov nyab yuav ua li koj ua rau niam Pog rau koj thiab nawb

[@fdfs7861]

Ho niam pog kuj yws tau zog lawm lo lusg yog niam zam niam pog thiab nyab yeej tsis zoo

[@kaoxiong6148]

I applaud you for standup to your mother-in-law for her herbal medicine and magic for healing her son. Herbal and magic cannot compare to science and technology…I noticed that old people are like that. They believe herbal and magic over science and technology. Good thing that you took your husband away from his mommy, so the doctor can help him. The mom and brothers have no right to share the injury money whatsoever. Wish you guys luck…😩👍🤠!!!

[@jimengsong4966]

nyab hmoob mes kas ces tsi nyiam kho tshuaj ntsuaj thiab yog lawv tus tub lawm lawv hlub o lwm hnub kj mam hlub kj tus tus li niam pog hlub niam pog tus o

[@muanmyxayvangxaychid1396]

sister mloog koj hais ma koj yeej phem kawg thiab os niam pog luag hlub2 luag tus tub luag thiaj npaum no koj yog tus nyab koj yuav tsum mloog niam pog lu xwb koj yeej ua dhau zog lawm os

[@beaxiong5260]

It best that mil should leave them alone n let them live their life n be happy.

[@shuanaher5828]

Ua khawv koob yeej yog ib qho zoo kawg li nawb..yog koj cia ua khawv koob..tej zaum koj tus txiv twb tsis mob npaum no nawb....

[@shengkhang7427]

laum hnub koj cov mam tsim koj nawb

[@lindalo8060]

Niam pog yeej yog tus phem xwb es koj twb muaj ib pab thiab es cia lwm hnub mas txog koj thib os mog

[@domua9725]

Kj yeej yog ngab phem

[@sircha5304]

Koj yog ib tug pojniam siab zoo kawg rau koj tus txiv...mob2 pw thb zaum xwb los koj tseem tu tseem hlub. Kuv qhuas thb muab koj tsa rau chaw thajyeeb siab. Pab txhawb koj lub zog.

[@fdfs7861]

Yog koj tus tub lo kj yeej hlub thb

[@chuvang5487]

Yog hais txog nyab sab ces yog leej twg tau cov niam pog nkhaus2 li tus no yuav tsum tau cov nyab ua taus niam li tus no los tswj tus niam pog thiaj tau hos yog cov nyab ua tsis taus niam es muab qhov quaj los lwv kom yeej xwb ces kawg mob stroke tuag.

[@tubhmooblis268]

Li cas los luag yog niam lawm yeej tsis npam luag hos yus yog me nyuam yus ua rau luag mas yus npam hos

[@ShortyThankyou]

Ntuj yeej muaj qhov muag yog Koj zoo ces yuav tsi npam Koj yog tias Koj yeej phem ces Koj yuav muaj Ib tus menyuam coj yog nkaus li Koj ua rau Koj niam pog nawb ntuj muaj qhov muag

[@ดาวท่อ-ด8ฆ]

เข้าใจทั้ง2ฝ่ายนะคะ แต่ก็อยากให้เข้าใจ ความรู้สึกของผู้เป็นแม่ด้วยนะคะ ใจเขาใจเรา..ลูกใครๆก็รัก..อย่าปิดกั้นการพบเจอจะดีกว่านะคะ

[@flowercloud2745]

All the mother does is the love to their child.

[@nkaujkabliavaj7332]

ob niag pog nyab ko ces sib phim nkaus xwb os nyab los xws li pog .hos pog los zoo npaum nkaus niag nyab thiab xwb ob niag no mas thiaj tseem tseem yog sib xaiv tau os

[@yuxianlee2864]

Oh ua neej nrog ib tug neeg ua yws yws tau ma mob hlwb thiab dhua tshaj li tus neej yws yws tau nyob tsis tau nrog ua kev li.

[@shuanaher5828]

Khawv koob zoo tshaj plaws os

[@pajvaj5]

I love that you replied back. I agree with you 💯.

[@kevinher4010]

Yog peb tsis nrog tsev neeg ntawd nyob ces yeej tsis paub tias leej twg yog tus yog 100%.

[@MaivPibDuaTshiab]

Nyab phem dhau lawm os

[@ashlyysng9849]

Koj yeej phem thiab os nws yog niam es koj tsis pub nws niam tuaj saib nws tus tub li ne

[@ntxawgvajsuavwjchannel7771]

Kuv los xav li ko thiab

[@kerlee7536]

Yog mloog tag ob tog txawm li cas Los koj yeej yog tus nyab siab phem uas tsis pub luag niam luag txiv ntsib luag tus tub li ko yog leej twg yuav koj tom ntej ces yuav tau txais t xoj kev lwj siab ib yam li no thiab tiag

[@subgkau1882]

Kj ua nyab log yeej tsig yog lm og.lawv tug tub lawv yug tau lawv yeej plhwg puag thaum yug poob nthav log lm.yeej tsig ua cag li .lawv tug me nyuam lm ceg lawv yeej hlub2 thb

[@Ntximhlubchannel]

Qhia ncaj hai tia cov nyuam hmoob meka tim no lawv tsi ntseeg tshuaj hmoob lo yog tshuaj e g yog meka tsim tawm lo g yog tshuaj muag raug cai thiab tej kev cai khawv koob tej no o feem coob lawv ntseeg nia maum xwb vim lawv nyob rau lub neej tiam tshiab lawm teb chaw vam meej lawm thiab yog mob npaum li nw tu txiv ce khawv koob g pab os vim lub Cev twb pua ntsoog ta thaib zoo tshaj ce koj tseem tu tseem hlub nw tu tub xwb ce ok tshaj os cav cuag li txia tau nyiaj xwb ce khiav xwb peb ua neeg nyob peb loj2 lawm peb kuj tsim nyiam ib tug neeg yuav lo khoo peb txhua2 yam yog nw Pom zoo thiaj ua tau yog tsi Pom zoo ce kom yu tsum xwb thiab ua dab g lo tsis pub li ce yu yeej txawj peem txom thiab cov lau no lawv tsis ntseeg txog nai maum li cov hlua ho cov nyiaj ce tu nyab tu tub twb muaj mẹ nyuam thiab

[@wanidayang6941]

Nyuam qhuav ntxim txoj me kev tuaj rhuav yus tus nyab phem na ha mag tsis mag.

[@beevveil2240]

Tsis yog os. Koj paub tias koj tus txiv yuav tuag ces koj thiaj coj khiab