"Man's immortality is not living forever, every moment free from fear is immortal." Very true, so spot on.
@adalbertoruize Жыл бұрын
I say one is a reflection of the other (1/2&1/2)
@lwinsoemar74052 жыл бұрын
"Today can either be a best day or a worst day for my life. It just depend on my perception". What a beautiful message!
@j5146 Жыл бұрын
❤
@krnwtrs Жыл бұрын
😅😮😢e3 😅
@fishyfish2679 Жыл бұрын
Grant is a known charlatan, a numerologist, crypto scam peddler, a nobody who knows how to milk money from gullible new-age people looking for answers in their secular and empty lives. There you go. The emperor is not wearing clothes.
@m.zafranalhaqqi6580 Жыл бұрын
So every morning, must say being fully grateful and decide it is the best day and show who we are
@ganeshmurugan8098 ай бұрын
❤
@artistevivien5 жыл бұрын
I wish I’d watched this TED talk earlier, I feel like I’ve heard the same message hundreds of times but this really resonated with me. I’ve always been a naturally anxious person, but feeling gratitude is a great thing to do on a daily basis, it’s basically a practice to keep yourself grounded.
@SagaOfStoics9 ай бұрын
The power of perception is one of the greatest Stoic principles one can learn. This one concept has changed my whole life. Stay Stoic.
@paulaiello20715 жыл бұрын
He’s s good speaker and even better story teller. I have noticed and admired people throughout my life that just go for it with no fear. Have confidence in your ability to solve problems. He loved his daughter as much as I do mine. Good talk.
@ggonsg7 жыл бұрын
What an INSPIRATIONAL story! I have allowed fear, worry, angst to control my life. Now, at age 59, I'm doing my best to face it so I can live the life of my dreams! Good/great things are happening! Want to stay strong! Thank you, thank you, thank you!!
@upamanyuhota94527 жыл бұрын
Sharon Gonzales thats really great!! 😊
@amerael78237 жыл бұрын
you're such a strong woman!
@clickadelic76816 жыл бұрын
It's never too late to do the right thing!
@parisrain15466 жыл бұрын
you are 71! not 59 or 60
@chrisparker57966 жыл бұрын
most people never do.
@kkmotghare57 Жыл бұрын
two ways to overcome fear: 1)Gratitude 2)Intention
@truthalonetriumphs657210 ай бұрын
Yeah. Yours is much better than the talk.
@SagaOfStoics9 ай бұрын
True words.
@rickacton7540Ай бұрын
you cant be "grateful" if you arent aware of how to program your reality experience by controlling your emotions, you will instead be trapped in a perceptual loop of seeing reality as a pain-avoidance survival challenge.
@KingaGorski Жыл бұрын
Perspective really is everything, gratitude is a superpower, and we do indeed get what we expect out of life. *Change your beliefs* -> *Change your lens* -> *Change your reality* 💫
@SagaOfStoics9 ай бұрын
Great takeaway!
@BIP4ME7 жыл бұрын
This talk should be one of TED's most inspiring. Courageous, heart warming, moving and certainly inspiring. Thank you Robert.
@marshadeal31105 жыл бұрын
Mm,.
@aravandarnavporwal93164 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍
@spinnettdesigns6 жыл бұрын
I live this way and I have overcome things that most humans could not survive, and over a span of 15 years, I have had 4 separate Doctors tell me so. Gratefulness as well as graciousness are life savers. I didn't realize it but I'm a person who will not give up nor give in because it makes no sense for me to do so. My sister once called me a "scrapper" but that's not the case. It's more of a moving forward. I love the quote from the Patsy Cline story (Sweet Dreams) "Somebody's gotta be happy, it might as well be me..." That gave me a strange sort of courage because it reminded me that happiness is a God given right and so that also includes me. So all of the abuses that I had suffered needed and answer and it was not to quit, but to thrive. The credit goes to the creator who's love showers all humans if they would just look up...and be grateful.
@sarahhussam2759 Жыл бұрын
That's inspiring to read thank you❤
@kentondragon9263 Жыл бұрын
Top speech. It really does takes seconds to change your mind/life. And if you really do move with purpose you can pretty much achieve anything. And if you fail you fail, learn, get up and go do. Fear? What's that? I remember months ago when we were in lockdown, sick, losing loved ones, losing incomes, losing businesses and houses...and now I have to be scared of life throwing anything else at me?🤣 I promised myself if I get through that, I'll never take anything for granted, work harder and smarter never to be in any sh!tty position again.
@Zondaa Жыл бұрын
Hey man, wanted to check in and ask if you still remember this message 3 months later and how life has worked out for you since this comment
@pdias84696 ай бұрын
Robert I’ve never seen you talk on TEDX. I never watched Utube before. Now everything about the you I watch. Absolutely brilliant Robert.
@johnogorman53358 жыл бұрын
A Fantastic talk - what a question for us all to reflect on "What can your mind do in 18 months if you are free from fear?
@ThePainkiller19826 жыл бұрын
nothing
@bartomeusstroud20796 жыл бұрын
Angelluis
@shivaswamybhoopalam64026 жыл бұрын
Since ages Indian philosophy stands on fearlessness and good for all ....
@glitchgod38685 жыл бұрын
Stay home and not go to work
@brunolima78485 жыл бұрын
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@Lebethu5 жыл бұрын
'In life we don't get what we deserve all the time, we get what we expert' profound statement
@soulotravels7 Жыл бұрын
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@dothatvoodoo9 ай бұрын
The secret to overcoming fear Robert is falling asleep! How lucky are you!!
@candacearden43202 жыл бұрын
"Thank you Robert -- Such Glorious Truth -- I am going to listen to your speech again and again and again . . .!"
@pinkeyshahi414 жыл бұрын
“Its impossible to be fearful and grateful at the same time.”
@jimconnolly41063 жыл бұрын
What about having a child
@jimconnolly41063 жыл бұрын
What about being fearful of being shot in a conflict but grateful your with people on your side
@Sophie-gv6gd3 жыл бұрын
I don't think it is impossible. You can practice gratitude and struggle with fear at the same time.🌝
@joannalamelza78703 жыл бұрын
@@jimconnolly4106 1a
@jimconnolly41063 жыл бұрын
@@joannalamelza7870 what does that mean?
@whowearereally649411 ай бұрын
Forever grateful for this, what an awesome, awesome talk!
@dtjackson16475 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Anxiety always involves things that are going to happen at some time other than now. If you can completely stop yourself from thinking about a time other than now, you will be unable to feel fear, and you will experience eternity in a moment.
@alexandertsiaras44125 жыл бұрын
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@alexandertsiaras44125 жыл бұрын
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@lauraprice2148 Жыл бұрын
I did it ! I manipulated it all without knowing less than two weeks I am now have ability to see things that most people can’t
@adamdownes47255 жыл бұрын
All Fear is a concept about the future. Think about it, even if you are facing a bear in the woods, your fear is that you'll be killed.
@colbyd.50444 жыл бұрын
Eliminate outcome, eliminate fear!
@beedebawng25563 жыл бұрын
It being about the future isn't what makes it, however.
@beenschmokin2 жыл бұрын
It's the allegory of Jesus on the cross. He is the metaphor for spiritual and intellectual enlightenment. And where does enlightenment die? Between two thieves that steal you away from living in the now. Those two thieves are regret for the past and fear of the future. Depression and anxiety. There is only the eternal right now.
@suzysuzy03122 жыл бұрын
@@beedebawng2556 mom is
@AltamashKhan16052 жыл бұрын
@@colbyd.5044 But every action we take is based on an idea of the outcome... How would you eliminate that
@jameshancock59524 жыл бұрын
Robert, Your talk changed my life, listening while trying to sleep, my head spinning and afraid of the morning. But like you said, it could be the worst day of my life or it could be the best. I decided to make it the best, and so it was. That was yesterday, and today can be even better. Thank you! 2020/11/23
@limrosemary85365 жыл бұрын
indeed.. The Creator has not given his masterpieces fear or timidity but love , power and a sound mind
@ProwerAdmirer4 жыл бұрын
Fear and cruelty is the norm in this world. China, africa, middle east... It's just western world is so advaned so it became the norm.
@domlikatrichkova52857 жыл бұрын
Beautiful speech, thank you. I will remember this quote from Alexander the Great- "Every moment free from fear, makes man immortal"
@parisrain15466 жыл бұрын
ah shaddup stallix
@swicheah73046 жыл бұрын
Domlika Trichkova llama
@StutteringCoach15 жыл бұрын
But you are a woman!
@mobleyMobley5 жыл бұрын
@@StutteringCoach1 woMAN
@kimberley12354 жыл бұрын
Hi Domica. Are you bilingual? 🥰💖
@katherinekelly64327 жыл бұрын
Perhaps not free from fear but free from the fear of fear. I think there is value in fear. It can be useful and there are reasons we have the ability to feel fear. Fear is not necessarily the enemy but your relationship to it can make fear into an enemy.
@briannab52966 жыл бұрын
Katherine, very very well said! 👍
@leoki48046 жыл бұрын
Thank you, reasonable and sensible.
@sexybeast77286 жыл бұрын
"free from fear" doesnt mean fearless, but that other thing you've phrased... if he meant fearless he would have said fearless. Anyhow, it seems you get the overall point.
@ruxoox67196 жыл бұрын
There's a difference between fear and danger
@SadieMage6 жыл бұрын
YES. I remember reading a study of the top reasons for people with GAD and panic attack disorder having panic attacks... the top reason was fear of having a panic attack!!
@abdullahamir2940 Жыл бұрын
This is by far the best, simple, to the point and effective ted talk I have ever listened
@nanaanan47316 жыл бұрын
Good note on how people think. 'Your win is my loss" as a scarcity mentality vs. an abundance mentality.
@infinite_editz60985 жыл бұрын
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@free....... Жыл бұрын
I HAVE FELT THE SCARIEST POSSIBLE WAY OF FEAR FOR THE WHOLE HUMANITY. I HAVE FELT FREEDOM FROM FEAR AND FILLED WITH LOVE WHICH I FELT IT WRITTEN IN MY DNA AS IF THIS IS HOW I WAS BORN TO BE AND FILLED WITH GRATITUDE AS NEVER BEFORE BECAUSE FREEDOM FROM FEAR CAN NOT BE REPLACED OR FALSIFIED.
@etcetera32822 жыл бұрын
"Man's immortality is not living forever. Every moment free from fear, makes man immortal." Alexander the Great (That's because, when you break yourself from fear, your thoughts go on forever). In life, we don't get what we deserve all the time. We get what we expect. Two ways to NOT feel afraid: 1. "It's impossible to be fearful and grateful at the same time." 2. Be intentional with our decisions/choices.
@agal7024 жыл бұрын
It is December 23, 2019!!!! TODAY, I woke up with no fear. Thank you Universe. And yes I am watching this in 2019 in response to a comment from the past. So those of you who ever said that time travel from the future into the past would never be possible is obviously living a life filled with fear, as I just proved that untrue.
@CruzyThaMan4 жыл бұрын
A. GaL elaborate?
@Sydmk20075 жыл бұрын
Brilliant speech, once i no longer fear of my self i go far that i’d never imagine. It is so true! Thank you so much for sharing.
@jamesm8315 жыл бұрын
Bravo Mr.Robert , Bravo !!!!
@lungilemashile55895 жыл бұрын
This is great ..the courage to ask your boss for anything ..always create an environment that is free and easy.
@blueray47103 жыл бұрын
The most important thing to remember, is that do not question whether your child would be the child you envisioned and hoped to have but rather, .. I wish you a life with minimal hardship my child! I wish you to find happiness, what ever that is to YOU! I am grateful to have this opportunity of having you with..Joy as.. millions and millions simply can’t for.. a variety of reasons.
@jefreymalasarte36744 жыл бұрын
Yes! I can overcome the fear with gratitude, I can overcome the fear with intentional choice. Big Thanks to you Sir Jim..
@evelynbegay24954 ай бұрын
Grant is so engaging and humble.
@AlwaysPositiveRam2 жыл бұрын
What a great perspective towards fear. Beautifully explained. Abundance and gratitude play really important role in eliminating the fear. Thanks a ton Sir.
@Dohyin_ Жыл бұрын
I love the storytelling to open the discussion really funny yet insightful. I have always been scared of alot of things but recently I have been less fearful and more grateful and confident.
@saig1236 жыл бұрын
He looks like Elon musk Thanq for 1.5k likes😀
@SadieMage6 жыл бұрын
if Elon and Benicio del Toro had a love-child...
@143kyla6 жыл бұрын
I thought he looks like Elon too.
@vishal0612kumar6 жыл бұрын
I thought he is Elon musk that's why i clicked on this video.
@peacekeepermoe6 жыл бұрын
I thought he looked like Benicio Del Toro lol
@samikal48016 жыл бұрын
Yes, he does 😂
@ahmadqadeibalban3776 Жыл бұрын
"Life happens to us every day, we can decide what we will do with it, let's all decide that we are the masters of our fate, that we are the captains of our own souls"
@thragblan3 жыл бұрын
If I could hit the like button more than once I would. Bravo Robert E. Grant.
@jenmdawg Жыл бұрын
There’s a stoic practice of confronting your fears directly that has helped me be able to access this kind of message. Wishing it away, trying to overcome it, wanting to be fearless all worked against me but writing down my biggest fears and looking at the practical things I could do to prevent or overcome the worst outcomes gave me my life back. Had I not done this then the sudden death of my SO last year would have destroyed me.
@benedetta80013 жыл бұрын
Life happens to us everyday but we decide what we will do with it. We are the master of our fate. Thank you for sharing such precious advices.
@davidealedona58182 жыл бұрын
Freeing Fear will make our societies beautiful and free. Fear of man! Fear of God is the virtue to beauty.💯
@ISIHIA236 жыл бұрын
He is a really good speaker! The diction and intonation is book perfect.
@magdalenaw2285 жыл бұрын
That is exactly why I don't believe him entirely ;)
@patriciasalvatore23945 жыл бұрын
Beautiful minds are free of fear. No kidding. Ive known this since i was 7 yrs old. Could never quite turn This simple knowledge into reality.
@evanfrolov53564 жыл бұрын
“Our perception drives reality” 13:50
@raziasultanasiddiqui4587 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful talk and very important for seniors. We do not have to be afraid even of death, for that is bound to come, let us welcome it with a smile.
@hongtrinh5569 Жыл бұрын
Bravo Robert. One of the best TedTalks I’ve watched. Incredibly inspiring, perceptive, insightful with admiration to noble minds. The taste of humor and amazement in his stories was very entertaining. 👏
@research1747 Жыл бұрын
Freedom from Fear is the Journey to Truth is a Spiritual Journey !
@TheScottGillies5 жыл бұрын
"Our. Perception. Drives. Reality. . . In life, you don't get what you deserve always, but you almost always get what you expect" @13:38
@PuiiZo4 жыл бұрын
okkmomom
@rudolph18992 жыл бұрын
I could not stop listening to this guy
@delcionhanisse44515 жыл бұрын
This TED changed my life... Literally!
@marangelliramos6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Robert Grant! Excellent speech! ❤️
@lifesupport29176 жыл бұрын
great speech ! although I don't agree with saying : you get what you expect, but I really do believe that my own perception would change my reality !
@DstyBnA Жыл бұрын
Perhaps one of the best ted talk i have ever seen
@RoseMarieRaccioppi5 жыл бұрын
Free from F E A R... onto the embrace of Freedom, Evolution, Aspiration, Revelation ~ master of SELF... the alchemy of BEING...
@MichaelTaphouse4 жыл бұрын
Wow. The world needs to listen and comprehend this. Thanks for everything you do!
@Negash45 жыл бұрын
Very inspiring speech, thank you 🙏. When I listen to such people I understand the holy Quran more than when listening to the explanation of the Moslem scholars. Because when God sent Adam and ave down to earth , he told them , “ those who follow my guidance, should have no fear or sadness “. This is what we neeed on earth to live happy,: no fear about the future and no regret or remorse about the past, by being thankful and living now.
@syedhussain3810 Жыл бұрын
I firmly believe fear doesn’t exist, our weaknesses give life to it and make it stronger by not believing in ourselves.
@luxelindz3881 Жыл бұрын
Synchronicity ❤ This was an amazing speech Robert. Well done!
@hrishiwagh9916 Жыл бұрын
Believe that you are special and everything will be special for you
@sheyda225 жыл бұрын
I salute You, Sir! Just what I needed to hear right now. Thank You. Your Daughter is a lucky Woman having You as Her Dad.
@stephenmcgregor10226 жыл бұрын
Pretty Amazing. We all forget the blessings we have and being thankful for them. Rather often we dwell on our disappointments. So, master your own fate!
@natemiller39365 жыл бұрын
The movie “Invictus” directed by Clint Eastwood starring Morgan Freeman as Nelson Mandela and Matt Damon as the Captain of the South African rugby team is a great movie. That is where I first heard the poem this man recited. The movie tells a beautiful story about Mandela and his struggles and overcoming fear and being able to forgive and not give up and not losing hope.
@tannychatlada8407 Жыл бұрын
Invictus, ok i will find this movie, thank you
@Elmarieva Жыл бұрын
But Mandela was involved in terrorist acts of violence where people got killed. Not such a great man as mainstream makes him out to be.
@isupportyou99296 жыл бұрын
Typical successful way of public speaking. Thank you for his talk.
@talhatanveer50192 жыл бұрын
In life, we don't get what we deserve, all the time. We get what we expect. ~ Robert Grant
@daily-amir-sweden4 жыл бұрын
Geart speech. I just wrote down that quote from Alexander The Great quickly after you said that. Now it's on one of my room's walls. I'll read it every day from today to learn the ability to face my fears. Thank you.
@joazz16 жыл бұрын
Most powerful speech I've heard about the fear topic . Very inspiring
@benzun96005 жыл бұрын
You must not read much
@marisaande5 жыл бұрын
Fabulous presentation for all to be inspired! Well done Robert...and well done in life! So happy for your daughter Madeline, shes a lucky young lady to have a beautiful heartfelt loving Dad. How lucky you all are. Yes, be ever so grateful, you did it, you figured it out! Life is precious, and flying by....have no fear and you will Live it well.
@AI-Heaven-Hell9 жыл бұрын
Strange that there are so few responses to this excellent talk. Fear is indeed one of the most crippling emotions there is, and overcoming fear the most valuable asset you can develop. Some fear has a function and its wise to distinguish between justified and unjustified fear. But most fear the latter.. I would love to have seen a transcription of the poem he recites in the end.
@dylankron82797 жыл бұрын
Invictus by William Ernest Henley, same name as the movie about Nelson Mandela.
@luckyadeloye34527 жыл бұрын
I do not watch Ted talk based on recommendation and number of views but title of the talk.
@getmajor7 жыл бұрын
Use fear to your advatange never take it for granted
@patmcglone53675 жыл бұрын
Robert Grant - Thank you. Very inspiration !!
@mariarosales77174 жыл бұрын
Gracias por compartir, interesante información,desde hace 3 semanas unos colegas me intimidan,me cuestionan,me ponen en ridículo ante los demás,yo siempre voy con mente positiva,pero con tus consejos,vencere el miedo,los nervios y saldré adelante.gracias, gracias, gracias.
@patkorie5 жыл бұрын
This words came to me a the right time: the lowest time of my life but now I have just realized that I am the master of my fate.
@Hi_nochai_bye5 жыл бұрын
The poem is: 'INVICTUS- William Earnest Henley'
@ChiasmMarksTheSpot5 жыл бұрын
Im glad to find this in the comments. during the talk my ears mistakenly heard "Ernest Hemingway" ... and that didnt seem to make sense at all seeing as how Hemingway killed himself...not making a moral opinion about it....but now that i know it was a different author, the message of the poem is perhaps more in line with the life Henley lived
@Cordellthe2nd Жыл бұрын
What a treat. Absolutely awe inspiring and infectious delivery. Truly a human to commend and take notes from.
@qu67425 жыл бұрын
I watch these talks everybody. I gave up IG and Twitter fill yourself with stuff that pushes you forward
@cdipsingh4 жыл бұрын
Totally agreed! I refuseeeeee to spend quarantine time on tiktok.
@millie98143 жыл бұрын
@@cdipsingh awesome
@aang88045 жыл бұрын
thanx grant for your inspiration and sharing.
@CeciliaMacLean7 жыл бұрын
This is a profoundly revealing talk. I am able today to see how I sabotaged myself in the past due to fear.
@SANOc7207 жыл бұрын
very true atleast in hindsight we can say that our fear was wrong
@rcloyd47416 жыл бұрын
Cecilia MacLean p
@dianaboughner79775 жыл бұрын
Thank you 👍👍💞so validating for positive empowerment with gratitude and conquering the many doubts and fears that can debilitate our true abilities.
@finnthinkin76955 жыл бұрын
Implementation of any plans in life and staying on the course of the plan will pretty much determine any expectations is what he is saying. And it's so true. Another aspect of it is acting upon our dreams with the right intention, sequence, perseverance, and no faer, rather than just dreaming alone draws 80-100 % every expectation towards our hands.
@caterina_music6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Robert for sharing your own personal experience. It made me realize about my own self. I loved it. Love Caterina x
@Bradsworld25 жыл бұрын
1. Gratitude. 2. Be intentional
@missionpupa4 жыл бұрын
You missed the most important part: youre in control.
@tuglife53223 жыл бұрын
@@missionpupa not always no
@missionpupa3 жыл бұрын
@@tuglife5322 yes you are, unless you are physically restrained then don't make excuses
@tuglife53223 жыл бұрын
@@missionpupa you are just a spoiled boy.
@missionpupa3 жыл бұрын
@@tuglife5322 I bet you would make an excuse about anything. Your excuse for my logic now is because im spoiled. Cant wait what you say next.
@smashingtwoscoops4999 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful! Thank you..🙏
@tsurumikutaro76426 жыл бұрын
Fear is emptiness fill it with ideas and you will not be afraid anymore.
@mryan44525 жыл бұрын
.... Or do it proper, get therapy, reinterpret those fears. Then live a fuller life. Your way wouldn't work.
@cswatkinson5 жыл бұрын
Wow
@laurarichardson7187 Жыл бұрын
Wow I give it up to this man making it to the birth of his daughter! That's was so sweet.
@philippawhite61525 жыл бұрын
Fabulous content, great delivery, thank you to a real star.
@KagoYAMAfarms-ci1nm Жыл бұрын
Watching this is SouthAfrica 2023 It's Nelson Mandela's birthday. The universe is beautiful and that poem is my favorite.
@Noor-9797 жыл бұрын
Fear and gratefulness don't belong together. True
@HassanHassan-el4ky5 жыл бұрын
As an Arab Palestinian, who lives in the Middle East, i need to put extra effort to overcome fears, people around me are fearful to step one step forward. People here fear from uncertainty, unpredictable future, and of becoming jobless, i rarely see someone takes risks. Or doing things audaciously,
@gabby49294 жыл бұрын
This is so amazing it's so much easier to accept these narratives when you understand
@benmuir24074 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful piece of spoken architecture.
@lovemecom38327 жыл бұрын
I agree for this video. It's an inspirational story.
@ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS5 жыл бұрын
Robert Grant gave a very inspiring and poignant lecture. Robert Grant seems to have remained humble in spite of his tremendous success in life. I believe he understands, "There but for the grace of God go I. " The world would be a much better place if people stopped looking at their phones and electronic devices and gossiping about each other and devoted that attention to making sure that the emotional needs of their children are met.
@stevehorowitz57817 жыл бұрын
Great example of the Law of Attraction! Very inspirational and thought provoking.
@oliviva3978 Жыл бұрын
I can listen to him for hours
@focused44783 жыл бұрын
Fear just means you have a great imagination ✨
@sanchitapandeyofficial4 жыл бұрын
Great inspiring message and so well delivered..loved watching this video!
@musicloverkathy7 жыл бұрын
Fear, and it's sibling, hope keep us mercilessly chained to the past or the future, and prevent us from living in the present.
@araucana19765 жыл бұрын
Good point!
@ahmermirza5 жыл бұрын
I think you've got that wrong. You can hope to do something that you will get it done, no matter the amount of fear it gives, you will get it DONE!! It can be "sibling's rivalry", but cannot agree for anything less.
@tannychatlada8407 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, its nothing to fear. We are the Master of our Fate., 💗 Love this speech.