The Battle for Your Time: Exposing the Costs of Social Media | Dino Ambrosi | TEDxLagunaBlancaSchool

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@MitchPhillips
@MitchPhillips Жыл бұрын
“Social media is free, because you pay for it with your time”. Incredibly compelling way to frame the crazy trade-off we partake in.
@Runningformylife1983
@Runningformylife1983 Жыл бұрын
What are you on about? It's not free because we pay for it with our time?!??! It's free because its full of adverts. Advertising pays to be on social media.
@WMAW23
@WMAW23 Жыл бұрын
​While you're looking at a single ad or several... You're wasting your time anyway. Behold the,payment
@THEEultimatewarrior
@THEEultimatewarrior Жыл бұрын
@@Runningformylife1983you are paying for it because you only have a finite amount of time
@Naptime0815
@Naptime0815 Жыл бұрын
I understand his point but „real cost of TikTok“ does not add up for me. I would not pay $400 for a book which I need 20hours to finish… same thing for any sports I am doing
@jordanponto9146
@jordanponto9146 Жыл бұрын
@@Runningformylife1983the ads wouldn’t pay for it if we didn’t spend on time seeing the ads…
@mihaitmf
@mihaitmf Жыл бұрын
Social media "tells us that it's more important to be updated about everything, than to be deeply informed about anything". Wow that hits hard, I love that quote.
@ShaloMEibbotson
@ShaloMEibbotson 8 ай бұрын
I heard it in the video at the same time as reading this comment. Brilliant timing 👏 👌
@arseniyhueplet7369
@arseniyhueplet7369 5 ай бұрын
Same
@SilvianSuomi
@SilvianSuomi Жыл бұрын
Always open the app with a purpose in mind and leave when mission accomplished. That's how I fight in this battle.
@alexfabricio7964
@alexfabricio7964 Жыл бұрын
That's a good perspective... Thanks for sharing
@ISURSouL
@ISURSouL Жыл бұрын
That’s an awesome way to do it! Could you share your main objectives? All I could think of is: (1) Understand a business, opening hours, looking at products and stores (2) Understanding a background of a person I will meet in person, like hobbies, religion, etc to engage better conversations (3) Reading news
@heithanzikk
@heithanzikk Жыл бұрын
What if my purpose is to binge watch tiktok for 4 hours straight? 😅 just kidding, but that is a good way to avoid social media,
@SilvianSuomi
@SilvianSuomi Жыл бұрын
@@ISURSouL You got some nice goals! Your goal could be anything and vary each time. As long as you have one and remember it, you'll know what NOT to click on and when to close the tab.
@SilvianSuomi
@SilvianSuomi Жыл бұрын
@@heithanzikk It's ok as long as you enjoy it and really just watch for 4 hours 😂
@jessl1631
@jessl1631 9 ай бұрын
Restful activities to substitute: reading, doing art, gardening, making music, playing a game, walking in nature, socialising.
@elisecalypso
@elisecalypso 8 ай бұрын
I love this :,)
@adityaadi2116
@adityaadi2116 8 ай бұрын
socialising is hard for me
@briannac2231
@briannac2231 8 ай бұрын
@@adityaadi2116there’s always something to improve
@ballexbanan
@ballexbanan 8 ай бұрын
​@@adityaadi2116idk how it is foe u but personally i was rlly bad at socializing and still am but i got better by just talking a bit more like trying to talk even if youre rlly scared
@manii1605
@manii1605 4 ай бұрын
include gym pls
@susainK
@susainK 9 ай бұрын
"IF SOMETHING IS FREE THEN YOU'RE THE PRODUCT."
@elisecalypso
@elisecalypso 8 ай бұрын
crazy !!! i love this ted talk
@javiercarballal3087
@javiercarballal3087 8 ай бұрын
"If the product is free, the product is you" Such a quote👌🏼
@stopper0203
@stopper0203 8 ай бұрын
Plot twist - you pay monthly fee to avoid being the product, only to find you're the product anyway
@paullo8268
@paullo8268 7 ай бұрын
things you own end up owning you.
@vebdaklu
@vebdaklu 7 ай бұрын
A caveat is necessary here - this quote works only in capitalism. In capitalism, everything must be a product and have a price, so anything that appears "free" is paid in some other way. In other economic systems, free things exist. For instance, open source software is a good example of truly free stuff (and how actually free stuff should work).
@dino-ambrosi
@dino-ambrosi Жыл бұрын
Hi everyone! Just wanted to express my gratitude for all the support this video has received. It's already reached way more people than I ever imagined, and it has been amazing to read the comments/messages from those who have felt impacted by it. I have a lot more to say about this topic, and I just uploaded a follow-up to this talk on my channel. Please give it a watch if you are looking for more tangible advice on building healthier tech habits!
@vee8648
@vee8648 Жыл бұрын
The grid visualisation in your talk is an impactful reminder that 'moderation in all things is the best policy. ' Thank you for sharing and Happy Holidays 🎉
@Sitenderam
@Sitenderam Жыл бұрын
Powerful message delivered beautifully! Thank You!
@bowenholden2057
@bowenholden2057 Жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much for that talk, it has a life changing effect. Do you have a printable image of the grid you used to show the life span in Months and categories of time use? Thanks again, it was an incredible talk.
@eugeneboyko1195
@eugeneboyko1195 Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@Aziz_Piran
@Aziz_Piran Жыл бұрын
Well done Dino! That was amazing. I found it extremely useful.
@CanonFirefly
@CanonFirefly 9 ай бұрын
I uninstalled all social media apps and bought 4 bicycles and now spend about 10 hours a week cycling to work, riding trails in the forest and exploring wherever my bike can take me. I met a wonderful woman who also loves crazy cycling adventures and we share so much great time together doing the thing we love to do. My mental and physical health has improved exponentially. I lost 20kg. I was promoted at work and bought a house and am now able to be there physically, financially and emotionally for my teenage children. I still look at screens, that's almost unavailable, but the time is much reduced. Freeing my mind from the virus of social media has given me my life back. Life's too short to not ride a bike every day.
@loge9981
@loge9981 9 ай бұрын
oh so you’re delulu
@ravi3647
@ravi3647 9 ай бұрын
Keep going solider
@jayakatiyar618
@jayakatiyar618 9 ай бұрын
@@loge9981 found an addictive social media user right here! couldn't take out the time to properly spell out "delusion"
@halima2030
@halima2030 9 ай бұрын
@@loge9981literally how
@depaki
@depaki 9 ай бұрын
lmfao how funny this comment is
@secretbuttercup658
@secretbuttercup658 9 ай бұрын
I'm 19.Thanks for saving my future by opening up my brain.
@SinViperOfficial
@SinViperOfficial 9 ай бұрын
Cheers to 19 😊
@lalitspeaks
@lalitspeaks 9 ай бұрын
still you won't stop using it 🙂‍↕️
@judey2003
@judey2003 9 ай бұрын
Same bro
@Fitnessfanatik
@Fitnessfanatik 9 ай бұрын
Good luck chump
@Cizean
@Cizean 9 ай бұрын
@@lalitspeakshow contradictory. Check your comment before displaying a statement of arrogance😂
@mangjuanmedia
@mangjuanmedia 9 ай бұрын
“When you’re trying to FOMO, you actually missed out on living” Damn, that hits hard!
@Telolee-po8kc
@Telolee-po8kc 8 ай бұрын
Can you tell me what FOMO means please?
@Alex-02
@Alex-02 8 ай бұрын
@@Telolee-po8kc It means “Fear Of Missing Out.” Stuff like this are easy to find answers to on the web tho so I would advice you to simply put it in a search box next time.
@thelastmile_
@thelastmile_ 8 ай бұрын
@@Telolee-po8kc Fear Of Missing Out.......
@Telolee-po8kc
@Telolee-po8kc 8 ай бұрын
@@thelastmile_ Thank you
@NotAnYoutubeChannel
@NotAnYoutubeChannel 7 ай бұрын
i dropped the mic, bro.. in my literal case my brushing teeth that was in my hand hahaha
@debbie2626
@debbie2626 9 ай бұрын
REMOVE SHORTS FROM KZbin
@msanrai
@msanrai 9 ай бұрын
Or at least give an option so they aren't on our feed! Agreed!
@CUL8torAlig8tor
@CUL8torAlig8tor 9 ай бұрын
It’s apart of the battle. They have to keep up with all the others so they got the shorts to keep you hooked and scrolling. It’s frustrating.
@perpetualteef
@perpetualteef 9 ай бұрын
@@CUL8torAlig8tor they do not 'have to' keep up with all the others. their business model is based on it, yes, but our social media platforms do not have to be based on this business model (based on the interest of capital). they can be based on our public interests and can be designed for our wellbeing
@RohitKshirsagarvlogs
@RohitKshirsagarvlogs 9 ай бұрын
​@@CUL8torAlig8tortell them to make separate app for shorts for those who watch short form video
@jup.ter.l
@jup.ter.l 9 ай бұрын
How is that enough? At the end of the day we would still be addicted to youtube. I may uninstall insta for some time but then I will waste my time with youtube videos. (Even most educational content is waste of time imo because it does all the work for you in a short time compared to reading)
@prachisingh7353
@prachisingh7353 Жыл бұрын
"a letter tells us that our communication doesn't need to be frequent, it just needs to be deep" :)
@chriskaymulla6091
@chriskaymulla6091 9 ай бұрын
that one hit deep for real
@Luca_Munz
@Luca_Munz Жыл бұрын
Best decision I ever made deleting all social media about 6 months ago. Have lived such a more beautiful , peaceful life since.
@joycegichana3213
@joycegichana3213 Жыл бұрын
I’m watching this video because I finally deleted everything yesterday and I feel lost, to say the least😂
@Luca_Munz
@Luca_Munz Жыл бұрын
@@joycegichana3213 yeh for sure I felt like that at the start! I would say 3 weeks I was happy. Then after that it’s only when I’m super bored but I have much healthier things to do. But I would say past month or 2 I have no inclination to go back. Create a table with 2 sides. one side what you gain from it and one what you’ll gain without it. I use this for everything now.
@Slim.01x
@Slim.01x Жыл бұрын
same here
@toowat
@toowat 11 ай бұрын
@@joycegichana3213give it time
@diasutsman
@diasutsman 11 ай бұрын
Is the platform you've commented on counts as one of them?
@frenchantonio1
@frenchantonio1 Жыл бұрын
Social media is like shopping at the store: know what you want going in, or you'll wander endlessly and leave with things you didn't need.
@godsonabbey6670
@godsonabbey6670 8 ай бұрын
“*leave with nothing.” There, I fixed it
@ELLa-rp4lr
@ELLa-rp4lr 7 ай бұрын
well said!!
@mac23806
@mac23806 7 ай бұрын
Still most people will probably end up leaving with more in their cart they never extended to get in the first place
@Starlightgalaxy527
@Starlightgalaxy527 7 ай бұрын
Problem is its barely impossible to not be chemically absorbed by all those stimulis....
@zorororonoa2469
@zorororonoa2469 2 ай бұрын
its worse than shopping at the store. You will not shop more after your trolley is full. But the shorts you watch have no endings.
@justhuman3424
@justhuman3424 9 ай бұрын
Believe me, I disappeared from social media and it is the best feeling in the world. This is your sign to live life for real and not online
@billybobinthehouse12
@billybobinthehouse12 8 ай бұрын
Welcome back
@Maruthi99
@Maruthi99 Ай бұрын
IF SOMETHING IS FREE THEN YOU'RE THE PRODUCT.
@rachelcook9053
@rachelcook9053 9 ай бұрын
I'm an 8th grade math teacher and do a Thoughtful Thursday every week. Made them watch this for one of them. Should've seen their shocked faces! Thank you very much for doing the research and posting this visually!!
@misty919100
@misty919100 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for your thoughtful intentional service for the future of our children 🍎 🙏🏻
@wge621
@wge621 9 ай бұрын
Thoughtful Thursday sounds like a great idea
@beigepiano-du5dk
@beigepiano-du5dk 9 ай бұрын
thank you so much for being a great teacher
@maddimorris8212
@maddimorris8212 Жыл бұрын
“social media is free because you pay for it with your time” - this hit me hard, I wish it wasn’t free and we actually had to pay for a subscription
@SreeragNairisawesome
@SreeragNairisawesome Жыл бұрын
what good will that do?? in that case, u will be paying with both ur time and money.
@xXGrandclosingXx
@xXGrandclosingXx Жыл бұрын
So… you want to incentivize more social media use in order to make the money your purchased your subscription with worth it?
@dynasty108
@dynasty108 Жыл бұрын
hey, are you american? i was wondering if you know a lot about facebook unfairly influencing the 2016 u.s elections. and do you think it's a thing everyone knows about and have thought about? I'm just working on a future video about social media dangers. thanks
@Itsnot-et6yp
@Itsnot-et6yp 9 ай бұрын
@@xXGrandclosingXxthis has gone over your head. Requiring a monthly subscription would make social media a lot less appealing, and would probably be the most effective method of stopping extremely young people from getting on it
@lizruggles3531
@lizruggles3531 9 ай бұрын
Time is the subscription fee. I just calculated it for myself. There are 1,440 minutes in one day, and I’ve spent 56 of those minutes on Facebook alone today. That’s 4% of my day spent on Facebook. It’s 12:49PM, and to take this a bit further, I figured I’ve spent 120.5 minutes(8% of my day) on my phone as a whole, although I’m not sure if I should count Spotify(music while driving). Roughly 8% of my day has been lost to social media. I could be practicing my photography with my new camera, sketching, reading, playing with my pets, gardening, ANYTHING- in the end, all we want is more time, and we are spending(wasting..?)it on social media.
@trentsleight2506
@trentsleight2506 11 ай бұрын
This should be viewed by millions. The algorithm don’t want you to see this
@rollerblader5350
@rollerblader5350 10 ай бұрын
the algorithm brought me here....
@RiyaJerai
@RiyaJerai 9 ай бұрын
​@@rollerblader5350yes me also 😅
@hobi1369
@hobi1369 9 ай бұрын
Don't be paranoid
@theunknownguy3119
@theunknownguy3119 9 ай бұрын
The thing is that 95% won't even remember this after 2 days .
@RiyaJerai
@RiyaJerai 9 ай бұрын
@@theunknownguy3119 yeah you are right 😅
@fitriiagr
@fitriiagr 8 ай бұрын
“Free time is your most valuable resource, don’t give it away for free” I like this speech
@SolidSnake013Duds
@SolidSnake013Duds 7 ай бұрын
I felt that
@6914NJ
@6914NJ Жыл бұрын
This problem is made even worse because we use social media to soothe ourselves and deal with our loneliness, depression anxiety etc. Then, we get even more hooked and spend even more time.
@gamblingg0urmet
@gamblingg0urmet 11 ай бұрын
Become comfortable being uncomfortable.
@boringmemes5718
@boringmemes5718 10 ай бұрын
@@gamblingg0urmet stay hard
@lenababyyy1482
@lenababyyy1482 8 ай бұрын
Me currently right now. It’s worse with adhd
@cyberduck7377
@cyberduck7377 8 ай бұрын
Used as coping mechanism too
@sree9973
@sree9973 Жыл бұрын
I am 20 and I don't use any social media other than Whatsapp and KZbin for my study related info . I am living a good life focusing on my self with less comparison❤
@A-PyreD
@A-PyreD 11 ай бұрын
2 months ago ı deleted my accounts and ı am feeling relieved ı don't need to prove anything
@SharkyJ40
@SharkyJ40 10 ай бұрын
Careful with WhatsApp. Consider signal. 😌
@rollerblader5350
@rollerblader5350 10 ай бұрын
Why is there people commenting publicly on social media about how they are feeling? No one cares, we don't know you
@SharkyJ40
@SharkyJ40 10 ай бұрын
we also do not care about you or your comment...???@@rollerblader5350
@samjeldi3950
@samjeldi3950 10 ай бұрын
​@@rollerblader5350 So no one care about your comment
@angellebelleza9838
@angellebelleza9838 Жыл бұрын
Social media does a great job at making us feel like if we aren't constantly engaging there, then we're missing out. This talk does a great job of giving us the perspective that it's quite the opposite. Choosing where we give our time takes self-control and practice. Social media destroys that ability.
@epicmaster833
@epicmaster833 Жыл бұрын
Well said
@margaretsearle5173
@margaretsearle5173 10 ай бұрын
@angellebelleza9838 Yes, & also KZbin ! Yes, I really do have something better to do with my time !
@davidmayes4212
@davidmayes4212 9 ай бұрын
What I've realized after being away from social media apps (outside of watching KZbin videos) is that I don't even feel like I'm missing out. Most of the folks I actually care about I talk to on the phone or text, and it's a lot more meaningful/personal communication.
@Hri9B
@Hri9B 3 ай бұрын
Im 15 and bro just saved my entire life
@Shuvam01-i3o
@Shuvam01-i3o 14 күн бұрын
Fax 😂
@marielkagatan4093
@marielkagatan4093 6 ай бұрын
"Don't let yourself get to the age of 90, only to look back on your life and realize that while you were trying to avoid FOMO, you actually missed out on living."
@namasteen_4732
@namasteen_4732 7 ай бұрын
This 11 minute speech, might just change my whole life.
@Baketoast
@Baketoast 4 ай бұрын
💯
@yukondeighton8075
@yukondeighton8075 Жыл бұрын
This is fantastic. The part where he explained what books and letters do compared to what TikTok and Instagram do was deep. I should watch this every morning.
@igorgorbatschow
@igorgorbatschow Жыл бұрын
Timestamp? Don‘t remember this one. 😅
@ssgvintage9151
@ssgvintage9151 Жыл бұрын
​@@igorgorbatschow6:50
@Ryan-ke5uq
@Ryan-ke5uq Жыл бұрын
A correlation I thought of while hearing that part is how meaningful well written letters can be. You'll often see situations where elderly people have a shoebox of letters they've received decades ago from family, love interests, and friends. I haven't seen a situation where somebody has a box of mementos with printed out Tweets.
@yukondeighton8075
@yukondeighton8075 Жыл бұрын
@@Ryan-ke5uq absolutely. I'm 29, so I've basically never written letters. I have an aunt who send hand written letters in the mail to me, and it is so nice honestly.
@abylalai
@abylalai 9 ай бұрын
I don't use Instagram, Tiktok, WhatsApp and so on, but I waste almost all my free time for KZbin
@giftnizi
@giftnizi 9 ай бұрын
Whatsapp is mostly texting, but socializing can be addictive, i guess
@Hamza00987
@Hamza00987 8 ай бұрын
Same here
@nobitakadostdoraemon4010
@nobitakadostdoraemon4010 8 ай бұрын
Same
@Hamza00987
@Hamza00987 8 ай бұрын
@@nobitakadostdoraemon4010 abhi bhi KZbin pe hi hoge
@edgardsik1182
@edgardsik1182 8 ай бұрын
Whatsapp is not a social media, it is a communication app
@ellawarren4795
@ellawarren4795 9 ай бұрын
I’ve been social media free for about a month and it’s completely changed my life. I started getting up at 5am and going to bed at 9 when before I was barely asleep by 2am
@FitrahMaliki
@FitrahMaliki 9 ай бұрын
What do you do to spend the time without social media?
@davidkunakovsky3155
@davidkunakovsky3155 4 күн бұрын
Going at bed at 9 is not a flex yikes.
@Flosseveryday
@Flosseveryday 3 күн бұрын
A girl at the bar told me I was a walking red flag for not having social media. 🤷🏻‍♂️ I’ve been off social media for 3 years. I’m so different, I love it.
@akshatsharma264
@akshatsharma264 Жыл бұрын
This has to be one of the most important speeches of our time.
@markcalben5294
@markcalben5294 Жыл бұрын
"Don't let yourself get to the age of 90 only to look back on your life and realize that while you were trying to avoid FOMO, you actually missed out on living." great TED talk, Dino
@Slim.01x
@Slim.01x Жыл бұрын
‼️‼️‼️
@matthiashamburg5980
@matthiashamburg5980 10 ай бұрын
10 minutes being on the screen for this Video saves me from countless hours. Thank you so much. And I will spread the news. Every minute worth it.
@jerbieb3486
@jerbieb3486 8 ай бұрын
I’ve been reading a book called “Steps To Christ” and journaling out my thoughts instead of a morning scroll through social media. Things are getting better and my appetite for reading is growing again! Please give it a try, even if you can only read a few paragraphs or one chapter a day.
@judithfpiazza2112
@judithfpiazza2112 7 ай бұрын
Love this idea - ty!
@lulu4993
@lulu4993 6 ай бұрын
wow, are you Christian?
@julsim9841
@julsim9841 19 күн бұрын
“The body, mind and character that you will have in the future are being actively shaped by how you choose to use your time today.” hits to the core
@bentrayn
@bentrayn Жыл бұрын
Something I appreciate about Ted talks is that they never have a click baity thumbnail. Sure the title may work toward that effect, but I never walk away from a video unsatisfied.
@MrRooney182
@MrRooney182 Жыл бұрын
The amounts of time consumed on these platforms makes this talk one of the most important ones to hear and adjust our behaviour to. Thank you.
@dance.dance.dance.
@dance.dance.dance. Жыл бұрын
8:53 Social media is free because you pay for it with your time. When something is free, you are the product.
@so0ory4
@so0ory4 9 сағат бұрын
“Social media is free, because you pay for it with your time”
@hollygraham2890
@hollygraham2890 7 ай бұрын
Truly, this is the most impactful KZbin video I’ve ever seen. I feel absolutely gut-wrenched and sick to my stomach but I’m so glad I’ve seen this at 22 years old because I still have a lot of time ahead of me and I can change now. I’ve always known social media isn’t good for me but he has somehow managed to get across to me the actual magnitude of this issue and I’m terrified for life! I have just deleted all of my social media profiles and apps and will just use messaging from now on and I will NEVER be tempted to redownload them ever again. Thank you for saving my life, sir.
@Mareloko41
@Mareloko41 Жыл бұрын
I quit social media 3 years ago. Best decision ever. I live my life for myself now, if you’re reading this and thinking about doing it - do it! Your life will improve. Because you’re just a product for these companies to be sold as data to other companies.
@mattchadbourne446
@mattchadbourne446 Жыл бұрын
Is KZbin social media?
@francoishenrileblanc
@francoishenrileblanc Жыл бұрын
No it’s not
@smaugs2881
@smaugs2881 Жыл бұрын
it is! you just confirmed it with your comment@@francoishenrileblanc
@dynasty108
@dynasty108 Жыл бұрын
hey, are you american? i was wondering if you know a lot about facebook unfairly influencing the 2016 u.s elections. and do you think it's a thing everyone knows about and have thought about? I'm just working on a future video about social media dangers. thanks for your message by the way.
@chibuezennodim1438
@chibuezennodim1438 10 ай бұрын
I did the same thing a year ago. Life feels less heavy.
@360PhoenixFlip
@360PhoenixFlip 9 ай бұрын
Most phones have an option to set a time limit on apps, just changed my IG time from one hour a day to 10 minutes. Never installed TikTok, never will. After watching this I intend to read more books.
@emilys8890
@emilys8890 Жыл бұрын
Updated with everything rather than deeply informed about anything - I love that. We are so focused on gather information we will eventually forget or to unimportant rather than truly get invested in a few topics
@dr.namrata6289
@dr.namrata6289 6 ай бұрын
I think everyone needs to see this video daily in the morning to get back our lives on track
@Jugglervlogs1o1
@Jugglervlogs1o1 6 ай бұрын
I request TEDx to open these speeches to general public as well because we're compelled to see these beautiful speeches on our screen.
@sato4465
@sato4465 Жыл бұрын
I honestly think everyone needs to see this video, ESPECIALLY younger people
@jenniferllande
@jenniferllande Жыл бұрын
This is one of the most stunning visualizations I have seen to explain the problem we are dealing with. Thank you, Dino, for this work.
@MLemonT4
@MLemonT4 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant talk. The gaming industry has picked up on this as well. They no longer want your money, they want as much of your time as possible.
@Astrotamtv
@Astrotamtv Жыл бұрын
I think its the other way around… games back then were made on the thought of “how can we make this as fun as possible?” Now its “how can we charge as much as possible on this game?” Addiction/time spent gaming is just a result of some of this ideology
@justchristolin5076
@justchristolin5076 Жыл бұрын
The early 2000’s were the perfect middle ground. 80/90s games had soooooo much Grind built in but they did force us to build communities around the puzzles and issues we couldn’t solve.
@brianmarley7915
@brianmarley7915 11 ай бұрын
I’m gonna go out on a limb here and say they absolutely want your money.
@StrawberryPeachCobbler
@StrawberryPeachCobbler 10 ай бұрын
​@@AstrotamtvI literally asked other gamers if they spent money on passes, currency, etc. Almost all of them that could, did. I said I didn't because I liked the challenge. If you have to pay for everything its not much of a game.
@02aditisingh41
@02aditisingh41 9 ай бұрын
“Social media is free, because you pay for it with your time” really struck a nerve in me. There's no going back from here for me. Thankyou Dino Ambrosi.
@cedrickjr.8979
@cedrickjr.8979 6 ай бұрын
Am 25 and i hust started getting soaked into social media by 20. It got worst from 24. This really has helped me. Now, I see the many loopholes and am really going to have to sort out the damage
@craigzilla100
@craigzilla100 Жыл бұрын
Should be played across every high school in the world..
@ahmermirza
@ahmermirza 9 ай бұрын
"That free time is your most valuable resource. Do not give it away for free." Easily one of the best closing lines 💖
@angxlyouth
@angxlyouth Жыл бұрын
Life is too short to regret it. I think our current generational issue is getting back the time social media companies take from us so we can live fuller, longer lives.
@Avocadoloops
@Avocadoloops Күн бұрын
This is by far one of the most effective TEDx talk. Deeply impacted.
@imjcjm
@imjcjm 3 ай бұрын
"When something is free, you are the product."
@RyanMcCormick-pn4hq
@RyanMcCormick-pn4hq Жыл бұрын
Social media platforms make us chronically distracted - so real!
@LêVănPhátPhạm
@LêVănPhátPhạm 11 ай бұрын
Damn he is such a charismatic speaker. The confidence, the pauses and everything. They give weight to his speech a lot.
@-Moonlight-1
@-Moonlight-1 11 ай бұрын
Thank you for this amazing and eye opening ted talk. I deleted tik tok about 10 months ago and I was shocked by how much time i actually had this whole time. I started doing things that i really had passion for and my life has never been better. Also majority of people these days don't seem to be able to make meaningful and deep conversations and that's upsetting. My friend picks on me because I don't have tik tok, but I'm positive that I'm making the right decision every day by choosing to not waste my precious time on social media.
@harshshukla6403
@harshshukla6403 3 ай бұрын
I am leaving my comment here during travelling and I promise I will discord all the social media distraction and change my life ...if someone like my comments I get the notification about what I promised to me 😊
@lunawa.
@lunawa. Күн бұрын
i hope you kept that promise
@divyanshipathakm
@divyanshipathakm 6 ай бұрын
Was thinking long back to limit useless social media scrolling hours to 1 hour a day max and after this eye opening talk(for the facts that I already knew) I'm sure I'll start to live in the real world once again!!!
@MusicLover-xl3qr
@MusicLover-xl3qr Жыл бұрын
This talk is so underrated more people need to see this. Thank you Dino!
@sleepyman1583
@sleepyman1583 Жыл бұрын
It's not about what you do, it's about who you do it with.
@MatthewVargas
@MatthewVargas 8 ай бұрын
"While you were trying to avoid FOMO, you were missing out on living." Amazing sentiment.
@kalpaniks1583
@kalpaniks1583 Жыл бұрын
Thank you man!!! The most incredible and truthful speech I’ve heard after ages. I admire your bravery for sending this dark message to the world. The world needs to hear it. At least me! Thanks again! 🎉
@QuincyHickman
@QuincyHickman Жыл бұрын
I agree ❤ ... However I believe his message represents light and this world represents what is dark. And it's getting darker. Thank God for this message ❤
@jothishprabu8
@jothishprabu8 11 ай бұрын
How many of you just use KZbin
@pokemonscientist158
@pokemonscientist158 9 ай бұрын
Me I don't have my own phone so
@DarkKnight-db1dy
@DarkKnight-db1dy 9 ай бұрын
Me
@scoobydooby6180
@scoobydooby6180 9 ай бұрын
Me but i be in these videos though. All day. One way or another. Scrolling. Watching. One topic after another. I been thinking for a while that I gotta give this up too man
@prithvirathour35
@prithvirathour35 9 ай бұрын
But its also fcuked by these shorts trend.! 😢
@scoobydooby6180
@scoobydooby6180 9 ай бұрын
@@prithvirathour35 this digital world just ain’t it man. The positive is the ability to retrieve information quick and easily, but at what cost you know
@Topperboy2025
@Topperboy2025 4 күн бұрын
I am 17 and this is deep.
@Nomiiiso
@Nomiiiso 8 ай бұрын
I am 25 and I feel like I wasted more than 3 years, but "optimistically" it is not too late!
@GoferGirl
@GoferGirl Жыл бұрын
If social media wasn't free, would you spend money on it? So why are you spending time on it? You can always make more money. Time is something you can never get back.
@HighTechFan_Geek
@HighTechFan_Geek 10 ай бұрын
Maybe real life sucks and we do prefer our screen and scrolling
@thenewsilverwolf
@thenewsilverwolf 9 ай бұрын
Sooo true!!
@sabitamarndi9827
@sabitamarndi9827 8 ай бұрын
​@@HighTechFan_Geek yeah If only reall life wasn't as disappointing as it is. Then I wouldn't search for an escapism.
@ELLa-rp4lr
@ELLa-rp4lr 7 ай бұрын
dammm
@RedTraxorz
@RedTraxorz 7 ай бұрын
i really wish social media apps were locked behind a paywall
@epicboss786
@epicboss786 Жыл бұрын
00:00 We have limited time in our lives to do everything we want. 01:34 How you spend your time determines the quality of your life. 03:07 Excessive screen time has cognitive consequences and affects mental health negatively. 04:34 Social media platforms influence our mental health, relationships, and ability to pursue important things. 06:01 Social media encourages shallow communication and undermines deep understanding. 07:24 Social media platforms profit by monetizing users and influencing their behavior through targeted ads. 08:50 Social media platforms profit from your time 10:15 Most of us are overpaying for social media.
@valentinetorres7952
@valentinetorres7952 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this. As a business teacher I showed this video to my students and the discussions there after were so powerful! We learned a lot and now have some solutions moving forward!
@neelmazumdar673
@neelmazumdar673 9 ай бұрын
Every line spoken in this talk had a lot of depth. One of the best TEDx talks I've seen so far!
@JACK1ETO
@JACK1ETO Ай бұрын
The irony of giving this talk and still being active in social media and showing off your life
@wellthisisinteresting4912
@wellthisisinteresting4912 7 ай бұрын
Bro sometimes my screen time does into the double digits. that’s a huge percentage of my life. This video needs to be seen by EVERYONE.
@AnwarSadath787
@AnwarSadath787 Жыл бұрын
An absolute eye opener. Prcecise, concise and very well narrated.
@PabloJasso
@PabloJasso Жыл бұрын
One of the best TedTalks I've ever watched. Really love how he shares this subject from an insightful perspective. Made me think a lot. THANKS A LOT!
@curioso0_0
@curioso0_0 8 күн бұрын
0:56 Part of those 126 months includes sleep, as school days are not uninterrupted. There's overlap between time spent at school and time spent sleeping.
@charleslotara
@charleslotara 4 ай бұрын
"Social media is free because you're the product they sell." This got me.
@lokeshrajput3956
@lokeshrajput3956 Жыл бұрын
These are the one of the best lessons I have learnt in my social media journey 😮...
@e8tGrand83
@e8tGrand83 9 ай бұрын
Do what you like to do. If your dreams are big enough, you will be chasing.
@saphire82
@saphire82 9 ай бұрын
i’ve come to the conclusion that for most people the only thing it’s going to be able to take is to get rid of their smart phone. It’s an extremely hard habit to break and when it’s there it’s like having a pack of cigarettes there in front of you when you try to quit smoking.
@elizabethyeager7705
@elizabethyeager7705 6 ай бұрын
WOW!!! I don’t waste anymore of my time! WAKE UP TIME!!
@seopeter22
@seopeter22 9 ай бұрын
This made me realize my actual life is very short. I can't get lazy and push off what I should do today because today will never EVER come back. 90 is too optimistic. I've seen some people die at 50 or even younger. Even if you live to 90, you have to start accounting for surgery and recovery times, funerals, mortgage, raising children, your deteriorating health, alzheimer etc.
@malharpatel1139
@malharpatel1139 Жыл бұрын
Greatest Ted talk of all time, I'd not pay any meaningless attention to these devices anymore, thanks sir.
@The_roasting_king
@The_roasting_king Жыл бұрын
How was today in relate to this comment
@malharpatel1139
@malharpatel1139 Жыл бұрын
@@The_roasting_king pretty great, I'd not say I'm completely unattached but way better than I was before, Today I went on climbing a Mountain, was a Good Hike!
@The_roasting_king
@The_roasting_king Жыл бұрын
@@malharpatel1139 😲😲
@The_roasting_king
@The_roasting_king Жыл бұрын
@@malharpatel1139 wow
@malharpatel1139
@malharpatel1139 Жыл бұрын
@@The_roasting_king how about u Sir?
@TheToastEditz
@TheToastEditz Жыл бұрын
I spend a lot of time on screens. But that's also where I learn the most things. I personally don't think screen time is a bad thing. The internet is like a unlimited library. You could learn anything you want for very little money of free on the internet. It's a great tool if used correctly that is.
@kiprotichkoechmaiywa2870
@kiprotichkoechmaiywa2870 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯
@davysmith8569
@davysmith8569 Жыл бұрын
When I was a kid I watched tv all day , read played a bit. But still it’s all a time waster. Phones just accelerate it now bit same thing.
@realdavebob
@realdavebob Жыл бұрын
Agreed, agreed
@jamesabar207
@jamesabar207 9 ай бұрын
He literally said it’s a tool that can be used. The issue with constantly learning things online is when are we putting the knowledge to use if all we are doing is learning..
@neighbor9672
@neighbor9672 7 ай бұрын
Literally the mindset of humans who download themselves into computer networks (Gwen Khan in Outlaw Star, among others in sci fi)
@bluedaisies
@bluedaisies Жыл бұрын
Wow it’s been a while since i watched a full 11-minute video without scrolling and it’s actually really goood. Thank u for this amazing thought-provoking presentation ❤
@frayaban6956
@frayaban6956 9 ай бұрын
The stories that I could've write that i did not because my head always says that "Let's go find some motivation while scrolling through social medias" then just when I realized that I should be writing, I already wasted hours and and that made me feel unmotivated. It's a cycle really.
@taylahsimmons
@taylahsimmons 9 ай бұрын
"figure out what it means for you to get a good deal out of social media platforms", i like this... being intentional with the value these platforms can bring if used correctly.
@SadiyaSheikh-gp3ud
@SadiyaSheikh-gp3ud 8 ай бұрын
This is the most needed tedxtalks for this social media addicted generation
@Komal_Suprabhat
@Komal_Suprabhat 8 ай бұрын
My Macroeconomics professor always says that, "If anything is free, YOU are the price."
@deepti.sharma.
@deepti.sharma. Жыл бұрын
Hands down, this the best ted talk of my life.
@yossikael5214
@yossikael5214 7 ай бұрын
This video is the actual jumpscare on KZbin right now, the sucker of the essence of our lives is truly always near and among us.
@noor366
@noor366 3 ай бұрын
You become Responsible towards your thing, nothing can dominate or take over you.... The World is changing and having control on oneself and taking care of your mental health should be primary objective to utilise your time productively❤ kudos to those who have self Control
@AzureDefiance3701
@AzureDefiance3701 9 ай бұрын
I really needed this. Thank you.
@anastasiiavyy
@anastasiiavyy 6 ай бұрын
My favourite TED talk for now 👏🏻
@shintyty
@shintyty Жыл бұрын
I have been trying to reduce my screen time for Social Media, and by the way it is designed, and how addicted it has been, has been the hardest thing for me to change, but after a semester, I can go a whole few days without going on my phone no problem. Now working on helping my younger siblings reduce their screen consumption which has been even harder
@pakshaal_jain
@pakshaal_jain Жыл бұрын
That's great, can you share some tips
@shintyty
@shintyty 9 ай бұрын
@@pakshaal_jain Yes of course! I have tried many things, but it was alwasy difficult to improve past a certain point. I think removing what you don't need from your phone is good, but what I learned from a phychology video is that your environment always wins no matter your intentions over time. An analogy would be like even if you want to be warm and wear jackets, if you live in a freezer, you will eventually become cold. I find that it is similar with social media, and so for me the best thing to do was to set your environment the best you are set up for success. For example, when you don't need to use your phone, you can put it out of sight and reach, so you are no longer using will power to avoid it, or you can take the leap and sometimes go on with your day leaving your phone behind if you can do that. I found it the easiest way to become less addicted, and there are lots of things on your phone that you could transfer onto maybe like an tablet if you have one. But at first I felt so much fear going anywhere without my phone, but now I feel at peace and I don't think about my phone anymore which I love. Now I usually carry a notebook in my pocket most of the time instead most the times.
@pakshaal_jain
@pakshaal_jain 9 ай бұрын
@@shintyty thanks dude, appreciate it
@christinemaeg.vargas5146
@christinemaeg.vargas5146 5 күн бұрын
5:45 tells us more why people cannot deepen their relationship with ppl because of this. They'd rather choose social approval instead of value ppl who truly cares for them.
@amnafathima7564
@amnafathima7564 19 күн бұрын
This should be shown in schools
@jakewharmby
@jakewharmby Жыл бұрын
The calculation is mind blowing. Glad I found this video
@steff.y2001
@steff.y2001 Жыл бұрын
This video deserves to be heard! Always coming back to this whenever I'm using social media on streaks.
@thecalgarians4597
@thecalgarians4597 7 ай бұрын
This talk has at least 10 so powerful and mind-bending statements delivered by Dino that I literally had to pause the video to let "that" sink in so that the enxt time I rush to "avoid FOMO", I don't forget to miss on "living". We definitely need more discourse on this topic before it gets too late. ❤
@shelovesCreating
@shelovesCreating 2 ай бұрын
"while you were trying to avoid FOMO, you actually missed out on living" hit me hard 🔥🔥
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