"We are in survival mode so much that rest makes us uncomfortable..." I felt that one in my bones! valuing health over hustle! yes to that!
@hockeygirl8401 Жыл бұрын
This needs to go viral. This has been healing for me.
@NaTashaBLMFT11 ай бұрын
She is on point and speaking the truth ❤
@Dr_Kennebrew2 жыл бұрын
That was my mother's saying as well. The more you cry the less you pee.
@Allthingscocoposh Жыл бұрын
This TEDx speaks volumes and highly resonates. She delivered this exceptionally. Praying 🙏🏾 for our culture.
@topgurl93132 жыл бұрын
This talk is one of the best I've ever seen. I feel like she hit so many points in a shorter amount of time, than some of the other TED talks covering a similar topic.
@latonyamsummers12 жыл бұрын
I love the way you delivered your talk, with humor and confidence and authenticity. You betta!
@itsreallyniamarie9 ай бұрын
I often fight myself about resting when I’m genuinely tired & then when I have things to do I find myself flaking
@shandacomeauxlcsw7188 Жыл бұрын
Excellent! The more we cry, the more healthier we’ll be❤️
@kingquezDBMG Жыл бұрын
Thank you SO MUCH for this sister. I'm 48 years old and the healing of multiple generations of built up Trauma just began within the past 5 years. YOU are necessary for OUR evolution. 🙌🏾
@heavenaaliyah3542 жыл бұрын
This talk deserves more. Wow.
@DTWAR2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely beautiful speech. I too agree with her statement, “being placed on earth to heal the blaque man, woman and child”
@sonalifiske3 жыл бұрын
Such a powerful and revealing TEDx Talk! You are blessing us with this. Thank you for shining your light.
@JoyLady-19662 жыл бұрын
Yesssssssss…I broke free 2022 I ain’t no bag lady!!!!!!
@chiantim18016 ай бұрын
Let's keep talking about this until we can't talk about it anymore!! People need to learn more and more about this.
@jacquelineortiz66013 жыл бұрын
Love, Love, Love. Gooooo Brooklyn! it is all in the hands. So proud of you. God is good.
@holisticevolutioninc3550 Жыл бұрын
This is such an important conversation!!!
@mindbodysoul23952 жыл бұрын
Jalen Agnew 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I swear God will bless you for this Generational Awakening light bulb you have sent out into this world. When I say all the weight just shed off my shoulders, back and the tightness in my jaw. I felt my self in real time release it all. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you🙏🏾
@christophercampbell74542 жыл бұрын
I love everything about this. I truly hope we can break the cycle and finally rest.
@gisellespringer Жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 yes babes!!!
@beacuenco9319 Жыл бұрын
Wow absolute chills.
@MelaniaMack4 ай бұрын
I felt this entire Talk so much that I couldn't stop crying. This is an entire Word.
@nadiapayan3 жыл бұрын
Everything about this talk, Jelan!!!! Thank you for your light, your voice and your willingness to share this gift of a talk with us.
@fayurquhart-louis83792 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jelan you got this right, I wish you every blessings. Our community needs this
@teahwilliams-hampton39983 жыл бұрын
YES!!!!!! You hit all the marks!!! Excellent!
@thequirkypineapplestudio3 жыл бұрын
YES JELAN!! This talk gave me goosebumps and I love your energy! So much learned in this talk!! Thank you for bringing all of these things to light.
@nvyharrisonII Жыл бұрын
Excellent!!!
@xxesinammxx11 ай бұрын
This was gorgeously put and comforting. Jelan girl, thank you!
@TheJenna333 жыл бұрын
I love this talk so much! As a white woman it gave me some insight into the trauma experienced....please do more of these!!!
@teamheteroandhappy40062 жыл бұрын
You love it bc she doesn't intimidate you she comforts you .
@sydney9832 жыл бұрын
@@teamheteroandhappy4006 Ask yourself was that necessary
@Loveispeacej Жыл бұрын
I agree only because she's not a threat. Yt ppl always do this we don't want uour sympathy
@StaticMook3 жыл бұрын
OMG you hooked me right away. I love this! Yet again you made me cry!!! I’m so proud to know you!!
@QuoronMusic3 жыл бұрын
So proud of Jelan! She manifested this!
@wellbodisalone Жыл бұрын
Agreed! It was a powerful speech.
@Jesusgurl112 жыл бұрын
Oh my goondess!! This is amazing!!! This is the best TedTalk I've ever watched!!!
@blueorion134 ай бұрын
thank you ,,, on point and necessary to hear,
@allyj98512 жыл бұрын
I am so proud to know you and this is such a needed message.
@wellbodisalone Жыл бұрын
Excellent video from the very beginning till the end!
@bernadetteallen54152 жыл бұрын
All of this, sis!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@LeAnna1st4 ай бұрын
Thank you
@Muvacam3 жыл бұрын
Yes!!! A conversation much needed! Queen you broke this down very well!
@stephanierountree5425 Жыл бұрын
THIS RIGHT HERE!!! It's so real! The presentation of the problem was on point as well!
@Fitdascription Жыл бұрын
Wonderful talk. Excellent job on creating the parallel between the two worlds. Wonderful display of what cognitive dissonance looks like and the trauma responses it invokes. Keep keeping on sis. Do the damn thing!
@MarySpence-th2uz2 жыл бұрын
So much that should and does resonate, Jelan. Gratitude for your work!
@MarianaSilva-dp6hu2 жыл бұрын
Incredible!
@lisagorman216 Жыл бұрын
Please, please, share more when possible. ❤
@sabrinascrochetdesigns2 жыл бұрын
I wish my parents would understand
@queenshanalee Жыл бұрын
Great video, very enlightening.
@CT-fp6it3 жыл бұрын
YES. Just YES to all of this -- thank you Jelan: You. Are. A REVOLUTIONARY 🔥
@omoz1893 жыл бұрын
On point Jelan with Code Switching and Micro Aggressions you said it real talk girl 👧 👏 🙌 👌 💯
@asmahamidullah9571 Жыл бұрын
May Allah bless you Sis! And yet we rise! ❤🇹🇹❤
@simplybeautiful47412 жыл бұрын
Say ya LESSON Jelan! This is a POWERFUL WORD! Thanks for staying on the wall & in the gap. There is time for a shift in this season. Time to Tear Down & Build Up!
@christinapeoples41642 жыл бұрын
Yasss sis! I love this!
@Summer-kb2dm2 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is good! Thank you!
@intuitivelyinsync8622 жыл бұрын
Yasss thank you so much 💓 💖 💗 💛 ❤️ 💕 💓 💖 💗 💛 ❤️
@Joan1able Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@ChainBreakerswithDrTrista2 жыл бұрын
Love it!
@tashitaylor18352 жыл бұрын
This is my clarification
@natetinsley311911 ай бұрын
I agree with most but not all of it, well done ma'am 👏
@shawnevans56122 жыл бұрын
❤WOW! This was so good and so well done 👍🏾
@KiRetteCouture2 жыл бұрын
Wow! This makes me want to hear an immigrant version of this talk. Aversion to indigenous beliefs can be a trauma response but it can also be the result of an informed choice.
@Thehabitualthinker2 жыл бұрын
Super proud of you this was insightful! Keep up the good work💙
@Bombshell_Virgo10 ай бұрын
I love this TedxTalk , i want to cry ad clap at the same time lol beautiful speech
@goddessmaatlove11 ай бұрын
Passed down coping mechanism love this Ted talk ase
@teresajohnson62582 жыл бұрын
LOBR LOVE LOVE!!!!
@AlleenLoveHope3 жыл бұрын
fantastic job!
@keishabishop7038 ай бұрын
Amen
@ottogreenjr.7857 Жыл бұрын
We also code switch within our cultures as well!!! Tribal effect? Just a thought!!!
@lbutchj4877 Жыл бұрын
You're on to something. I wish you could go a little deeper.
@Mpirefilms Жыл бұрын
and she's beautiful...
@goldiemack54710 ай бұрын
🙏🏿🙏🏿👍🏿✌🏿
@carlaa3623 Жыл бұрын
i think its because of the tradition of church and upbringing.
@deibymartinez18910 ай бұрын
Future President Candidate.
@aliciarae8726 Жыл бұрын
I love how this video has way fewer views relative to others that have been up around the same time. More white people need to watch this but judging by who's in the comments doesn't look like it.