I’m 15 and I’ve never been so scared of anything every night I think of It I become so scared I wanna just stay in the light not the dark
@ohyeahyeah32975 жыл бұрын
Wolfy _ I feel you bro
@gaylesmith29875 жыл бұрын
Wolfy _ I’ve had the same exaggerated fear of death since I was your age. I’m now 58 years old and as I get closer to death, my terror becomes more crippling. I’ve been in therapy many times, to no avail. This is no way to go through life. Someone once said to me ... ‘Your obsession with death is so severe, it’s as though you’re already dead.’ That was tough to hear, but it was true. I try to remind myself of that comment, and when my fear becomes overwhelming, I focus on doing something I enjoy, and spend less time focused on that which I can do absolutely nothing about. I hope you find a coping mechanism that allows you to enjoy your life to the fullest.
@JMc_15 жыл бұрын
Fear of the unknown is the thing that frightens us more then the thing we fear. Research death Wolfy. Learn about it, there are tons of books on the subject, and people who have had near death experiences. Those who have gone beyond and returned will enlighten you. They say it’s not dark but light, a very loving experience. Their are people who spend time with the dying (hospice) and observe the dying transitioning from this realm to the next as a new beginning, not an end, and those who pass on do it joyfully.
@Vez-r5v5 жыл бұрын
@Wolfy _ dont waste time thinking about the inevitable death. I know it sucks knowing that u cant stop it from happening. You 15, enjoy ur life while u still young
@HealthyMindProject5 жыл бұрын
I never really feared death until I had my first panic attakc 11 years ago. I was totally convinced that I was having a heart attack. My fear then became crippling for many years. I'm much better now, by accepting that death is inevitable. I think it's not the fear of death so much, but the process of it (painful, scary...). Wishing you all well. There is a video on my channel about fear of death, and my experiences of it.
@skeletonking90575 жыл бұрын
Fear of death makes you want to survive and not live
@Jesussavedme5 жыл бұрын
This is the absolute truth !! I have lived in fear of death for so long I can't go a day without thinking I'm dying of something ..it has stolen years of my life I have become a sad impression of my former self 💔 it's time to live again please pray for me 🙏 God bless you
@boltzmannbrain86985 жыл бұрын
Laura Beldin hang in there. I hope things change for the better
@KatelynMrsBamaIngle5 жыл бұрын
Laura Beldin I will pray for you. I struggle from the same.. I love you. 😘 death is easy.. living is hard. You are gonna be fine. And when the day long away in the future comes.. you will still be ok and loved peace stillness joy Will engulf you on your quick trip into the next dimension. Hugs! All is well. Always keep faith and hope.
@cecilecavallaro49245 жыл бұрын
Not me. Accepting death takes away any purpose in my life. I'm just going to die so this whole life is just a waste.
@Jesussavedme5 жыл бұрын
@@KatelynMrsBamaIngle thank you sweetie 💛💙💚
@minniebritton68933 жыл бұрын
Relating to the most of the comment section... Since 13/14, as a 16 yr old now, I fear going to bed as it’s the time I’m alone, in a silent room in the dark, slipping into a whirlpool of overthinking death and getting panic attacks over it, crying. Knowing so many other people are experiencing the same thing is relieving and comforting in a way. So if your reading this I hope I’ve helped you to see that your not alone.
@godwinxavier40183 жыл бұрын
How are u doing now?
@Amer-pp3ty2 жыл бұрын
same here. Im almost 15 and i feel the exact same. this feeling is just constantly there and I really dunno how to get over it. but thank u and I hope u r feeling better
@pureenergy45782 жыл бұрын
There are a lot of people that know there is no such thing as death. Look up books on out of body experiences and near death experiences.
@ArcherTheGiant-2 жыл бұрын
17 yrs old and all the time I have panic attacks of the fear of death
@hummingbirdbumblebee46182 жыл бұрын
Find the book HANDS OF LIGHT written by the physicist Barbara Brennan. In this book are a lot of diagrams/pictures of what we all look like as eternal holograms and eternal electrical energy fields. You can't die because you are constantly being created.
@tacticalbarberpewlife21274 жыл бұрын
I fear the fact that I won’t be conscious,& won’t be able to see ,feel ,hear ,how is my family going to be how are they going to cope
@StephJ0seph4 жыл бұрын
You might not be able to see or hear it in real time but I bet you can imagine their reactions or even just ask them right now.
@d.j.70694 жыл бұрын
You will be totally non-existent, unconscious with nothing! You won't know that you care about anything because you won't.
@SquirmleSquirmly4 жыл бұрын
D.J. But what is that? You can say that there’s nothing after death but what does nothing exactly mean?
@backflipbro7904 жыл бұрын
just imagine how it was like before you were born. That is what death will be like. You won't care.
@potatoistudying24 жыл бұрын
@@backflipbro790 Maybe
@lounajushpe49064 жыл бұрын
Sometimes i have such bad anxiety about death that I think to myself "I could just end it now so that I don't have to suffer with these thoughts" and It's just the most ironic thing ever
@kelsosnow32364 жыл бұрын
Not the answer. Idk if you're a believer of God and Christ but let me tell you! I struggle with it almost daily. Well May 30 2020 my grandma who I was so close to passed. I was there but God prepared me bc months before that I was consumed with the thought and at here passing it handled it like a new man. Hopefully you'll find peace in comfort
@semc00784 жыл бұрын
Feel u
@rmoises83 жыл бұрын
mee too
@alphaone28343 жыл бұрын
@@rmoises8 one was never born and one never dies
@ThatGirlSheila3 жыл бұрын
Wow I think the same thing
@isaaccrawford51085 жыл бұрын
I've never been able to cope with death, I always watch videos and read articles trying to help you to help but i doesnt work. I just end up terrified and feeling more alone than ever. I always try and appreciate everything around me, I stop and appreciate. I breathe in and try and forget it for the time being. Until the next night comes
@lalkavictoria5 жыл бұрын
me too :(
@ahumanbeingamnayplaceholde17464 жыл бұрын
@@significantpepper5274 Although life can be indefinitely extended with theoretical life extension technologies, one cannot last for eternity due the possibility of death, even in an "immortal" and deathless state, is non-zero.Death is still inevitable, but at least life will persist much longer.
@akanksharana61454 жыл бұрын
Nights are the hardest
@thiagogregory13 жыл бұрын
@@significantpepper5274 What's the title?
@rubyace70583 жыл бұрын
Same
@765aabbzzz4 жыл бұрын
I’m struggling with this right now. Afraid of dying in my sleep. I’ve wasted so much time thinking about death and the unknown. Why do we have to die? This guy was so strong to get up and talk about this. I’m so ashamed and guilty. Crying typing this. I’ve wasted so much time. Be strong everyone
@spimentel5624 жыл бұрын
You're still alive right? So, go ahead do what you want to do as long as it's not illegal and won't deprive anyone of their freedom to do the same.
@sonupv11113 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much
@helmetongrass1893 Жыл бұрын
its even worse when you are going through this after losing a loved one (my dog in my case)
@tremble3633 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much bro
@larmabareng Жыл бұрын
@@helmetongrass1893my dog has died & I am also experiencing it
@joelymatthews65055 жыл бұрын
I’m not scared if dieing or the process of dieing, I’m scared because I know that I will never see my family again, my entire existence will eventually not even exist, I will have no more emotions, no more thoughts, no more joy and everything I have ever done, no matter how big or how small, will be pointless. But I know that I have been dead for an infinity before I was born, it didn’t affect me, maybe after I have died and another infinity has happened, I will be reborn. Or maybe I will go to heaven. Maybe I will just die but I will have no sadness or fear and my family will live on through name. I am scared of death but I have to remember that I don’t know what happens and I am only scared of my own predictions, which in itself, if pointless.
@alphestanley71945 жыл бұрын
Same
@cundionfire4 жыл бұрын
Ever heard of the loop theory? It's the idea that universe comes into existence then dies over and over again so it may be possible that your consciousness may be reborn after an "infinity" which, outside the constraints of perspective time, may be an instantaneous moment
@spimentel5624 жыл бұрын
Our mind is our own worst nightmares
@xiiscd-46srijitaroy823 жыл бұрын
Hey look at the works of Dr. Bruce Greyson...he makes you look at death with a different perspective...and he is a skeptic too.
@samanthiwickramage97643 жыл бұрын
me too
@flowerstar01965 жыл бұрын
I don’t fear death. I fear “ what’s after” . Do we really go to sleep and stay in Gods memory until resurrection happens, do we become something amazing after death, do we just die and that’s it. Every body has a different opinion, which one is the real one? If God created us, and he gave us air to breath and people to love why let us die? There has to be something more than this! Right? Am I ever going to see my family again? That’s my fear. The “this is it” I’m dying and that’s it , fear.
@wilkas1595 жыл бұрын
We will see when we die, no one in entire human history could answer this question and no one is gonna answer, so why care about something we don't know at all. Oh and every opinion is right and at the same time absolutely wrong
@flowerstar01964 жыл бұрын
VILKAS ♥️
@vale-jt9yd4 жыл бұрын
i can relate to this in many ways and i can’t do anything about it i’ve been struggling this whole week worse than others and i can’t stop crying this comment exactly is also how i feel i’m scared of what’s after i’m scared to never ever see my family and people i care about i wish i had someone to talk about but i don’t because no one knows exactly how i feel and i struggle talking about it because i start crying right away this fear is unexplainable and i just start shaking and panicking i don’t know how to calm myself down 😔
@idabsopeoplecantseemecry38354 жыл бұрын
@@vale-jt9yd oh dude same this is literally one of my greatest sources of anxiety i literally remember having a mental breakdown and crying about this when i was 4 and recently it's starting plaguing my mind again :(
@flowerstar01964 жыл бұрын
vale same
@samhijazi88415 жыл бұрын
What an a needed awareness: Not only death scares us but also robs us of the quality of what left of our life - super thought!
@oliviacadena20365 жыл бұрын
YES!!! 👍👍👍👍👍👍💙💙💛💛💜💜
@leapingjoseph84623 жыл бұрын
I know it is robbing me of a quality of life, but I cannot stop the fear of illness and death.
@pureenergy45782 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly. I write on a lot of youtube videos the words that say there is no such thing as death. Proven by quantum physics a long time ago. We are eternal electrical energy fields and holograms. The book HANDS OF LIGHT written by the physicist Barbara Brennan says this.
@artaria224 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I know it's coming. I felt I had a reasonable fear of death. Like I didn't want to do stuff that would kill me. But suddenly about a year ago it just has messed with me. And I'm like dude, I get it, it's scary. But every moment I spend scared is a moment of my life I won't get back.
@lifewithcookie47404 жыл бұрын
Nehthelania Jackson this is me ur so right
@leapingjoseph84623 жыл бұрын
Danielle, I relate 100 percent. For 2 years I have spent every moment scared, and I cannot stop it. I know i cannot get those moments back, but I am still scared every moment of the day. It is exhausting and ruining my life.
@JacobHayden9112 жыл бұрын
Get therapy for the fear. Or some kind of counciling or guidence. Every moment you spend fearing death could be taking days off your life too! It's important to embrace it and not fear it and to enjoying life while you have it. Because it's GOING to happen, it's pointless to constantly think about it.
@feardheas45482 жыл бұрын
It's a problem fearing death but it's compounded by depression and a complete lack of meaning in life. Sometimes being a deep thinker or even just being intelligent works against you. Then one could also argue people that fear death and are disillusioned with life just simply see things fir what they are i.e life is suffering and horrible...others run and hide and just don't see things fir how they actually are...those are the lucky ones
@eriche73684 жыл бұрын
I never felt closer to a comment section before
@mathewyee94294 жыл бұрын
I know, going to a comment section like this makes me feel better.
@matlhogonolopromisemazibuk23724 жыл бұрын
😂
@BrianAndersonTT3 жыл бұрын
The grim and absurd thing to have in common has made our sense of connection that much deeper.
@jonathanreiman67003 жыл бұрын
Wow we're all scared of death. How surprising and wholesome. Never would expect a fragile mortal entity to wish it wasn't so... Squishy. We aren't even conscious, not really. This is an illusion.
@leapingjoseph84623 жыл бұрын
@@jonathanreiman6700 , I don't understand. Can you explain please.
@aidanjoyal4773 жыл бұрын
Man died on March 22, 2020 hope he lived a good life
@Dare53582 жыл бұрын
without a doubt, he did.
@Matty944 жыл бұрын
“Death smiles at us all. All a man can do is smile back.” - Marcus Aurelius
@ericsierra-franco78024 ай бұрын
Not a real quote from Marcus Aurelius. The quote is from the film "Gladiator'.
@pabloservin96473 жыл бұрын
I’m not scared of my own death, I’ve accepted that we are all going to die one day! But the thought of losing my parents and my little brothers is keeping me from living my life happily. Sometimes I can’t even sleep because of it
@yokoohellno5 жыл бұрын
been dealing with death anxiety since I was 14. I don't know how to deal with it
@33s604 жыл бұрын
Thats everyone
@davidtaylor75364 жыл бұрын
You are going to die one day all you can do is live in the moment and have fun tell anyone you love you love them over and over again
@greenlantern11234 жыл бұрын
David Taylor I lost my father when I was 5. I’m 50 now. I’ve had 45 years of it. All it has done is make me angry and probably shorten what life I have left. We were all dead once...before we were born we knew nothing.. we were in a state of “death” . All I can say is the living are the ones who will suffer without you. Take time to love them .. tell them.. have no regrets and when that times comes .. don’t fear what you have already done
@guenpatiag37374 жыл бұрын
greenlantern1123 im afraid of thinking that one day i will be in a hospital breathing my last breaths
@eternalsunshinealways4 жыл бұрын
Guen Patiag is it bad I started crying while reading your comment
@dancingdelilah18825 жыл бұрын
I am struggling with this now. I've had a fear of death since I was a small child. And when I was diagnosed with SLE at age 15 my fear increased. So here I am, getting older & older.....and my fear of death persists. I've wasted so much time fearing death!!
@Hisusi_Het5 жыл бұрын
Same here I feel you
@Stormyweld055 жыл бұрын
@SP7 Playz Systemic Lupus Erythematosus.
@leapingjoseph84623 жыл бұрын
Dancing Delilah, same here.
@helmetongrass1893 Жыл бұрын
have you heard of quantum immortality? stop being afraid and chill, you aint dying in your own frame of reference atleast
@artglauser69534 жыл бұрын
My condolences to Dr. Holm’s family on his passing. His words and life are a constant source of inspiration to me and help me navigate the dark waters of uncertainty.
@robertclarke7411 Жыл бұрын
What day did he go meet the Lord
@pdawggity11 ай бұрын
@@robertclarke7411 March 16th 2020, he is my dad.
@sharkkeeey28664 жыл бұрын
My fear is when I die all memories are lost and no one remember me then million billon years pass by and a lot change but I can’t experience it I can’t describe what I’m thinking but it scary af. when I was born until now it felt as if a day past by so I’m scared of how short life is and I talk to much don’t i period the end.
@hyrule59754 жыл бұрын
Sharky op36 dude I feel ya, if it’s mentioned say in school, I’m not bothered, but when I’m alone and I think of it, it really really scares me, there’s no words to describe it. I’m thinking when I get to that point il for a happy person though
@petervannini12323 жыл бұрын
same man, any luck dealing with it?
@jtwitch_72173 жыл бұрын
@@petervannini1232 homie just think about going out on top and like being happy with what you’ve done and don’t worry about it cause there’s no point
@xiiscd-46srijitaroy823 жыл бұрын
SAME.
@rubyace70583 жыл бұрын
Same
@sneasnake63684 жыл бұрын
I fear what I'm going to miss after I die. My grandmother passed five years ago and I'm always thinking about what she's missed and how much joy the things that's happened would've brought her. And I know it will be the same for me. I'll never know what happens after I'm gone and that scares me. I wont remember anything about my life, I'll be erased from existence, so does anything I do really matter? But then I remember the impact my grandmother had on me, the love and caring she showered me with. And I think that hopefully, one day, when I'm resting five feet underground, someone will think remember me with the same fondness. And for that to ever happen, I have to be like my grandmother; kind, gentle and courageous. If we were somehow able to live forever, would we really care about living? Maybe, in a poetic way, we need death to truly feel alive.
@bojackthetrustworthy7364 жыл бұрын
Damn,amazing comment, I try to think the same. It may not makes senses for us yet, but overall I can assure you it does, We just need to enjoy these little moments,cherished me and just wait and quietly spend the rest of our time on earth.
@evalord80443 жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say this was a beautiful comment and very much how I feel, thank you for that :)
@sparkemotioned5 жыл бұрын
such a beautiful talk, I really felt it...and that snoopy dance was amazing
@Rond335 жыл бұрын
Snoopy dance is necessary in life
@leapingjoseph84623 жыл бұрын
Sad that he passed away.
@TrumpyJake5 жыл бұрын
I want to die to get it over with but I want to live forever and do everything
@mism8474 жыл бұрын
Aging has been reversed in mice not long ago... it may happen to us within our lifetimes
@youngjezy233 жыл бұрын
I don’t want to live forever it will be a nightmare
@freakster-60293 жыл бұрын
@@mism847 we just gotta find out
@itachisucks66933 жыл бұрын
Download tik tok
@steffanyadams83104 жыл бұрын
Loved this. Very well said. Savor every moment. You will never get back any minute, second that passes. Definitely stay GRATEFUL. Loved this talk. Praying for this mans health and family.
@leapingjoseph84623 жыл бұрын
Loved the talk too and the positive message. Unfortunately, he passed away.
@Uncle_Sam762 жыл бұрын
RIP Dr. Rick Holm, I hope to meet you on the other side when my time comes.
@maxinelowe62855 жыл бұрын
I knew about death when I was a child it was spoken about freely I have never been afraid of it I have seen many die mostly cancer but I believe there is something and hope that all of you find some peace x
@miagovideos18074 жыл бұрын
I’m not scared of death I’m just scared of loosing my love ones like my mom, dad grandma and grandpa I feel like I wouldn’t be the same without them just knowing I’ll never see there face again or personality.
@imabhisekroy4 жыл бұрын
I do the same bro. :(
@chairacabrera3 жыл бұрын
This is my issue it sucks!
@sandoso26793 жыл бұрын
Your loved ones will die too. No one loses anyone, just some ppl go ahead of others to the same spot
@sheliadozier72954 жыл бұрын
Thank you brother and God Bless you and your family....Amen
@ChevyGuy703 жыл бұрын
Late nights and this is the only thing I think of. Makes me sick to my stomach and can’t sleep. Event more so the thought of loosing loved ones
@idabsopeoplecantseemecry38354 жыл бұрын
I think I'm just in denial about death. Every time I think about writing my own will I feel sick to my stomach. (I'm literally only 14.) My parents discussing life insurance makes me feel anxious and depressed because it's kind of acknowledging that something terrible might happen to them one day :(
@yesmaybeno92224 жыл бұрын
Im 14 too and i feel the same
@mism8474 жыл бұрын
I want to choose when to die. That one day I will be tired of life and not die when I still have so much to experience and observe.
@zkkz76443 жыл бұрын
How do you feel know
@jennygardner56405 жыл бұрын
This was one of the most raw and beautiful yet sad ted talks that I have ever watched
@Memorial247 ай бұрын
People who fear it should get over it, no matter how afraid you are it’s gonna happen one day and there’s nothing you can do about it
@tracysimon79724 ай бұрын
Thanks, Captain Obvious lol
@Memorial244 ай бұрын
@@tracysimon7972 It’s not obvious if people still fear it
@tracysimon79724 ай бұрын
@@Memorial24 because "getting over it" isn't that easy. Otherwise, we wouldn't be here talking about the fear.
@Memorial244 ай бұрын
@@tracysimon7972 Well there’s no other way to deal with it so that’s the only useful piece of advice
@tracysimon79724 ай бұрын
@@Memorial24 hence the Captain Obvious comment.
@lindseyfraser92614 жыл бұрын
What helps me is thinking of it as going to sleep forever and I love my sleep.
@ahumanbeingamnayplaceholde17464 жыл бұрын
Without dreams and the remotest sense of existence, of course.
@ahagqgwvisn98794 жыл бұрын
But I hate sleep...
@Gusthesaltybus4 жыл бұрын
But what about memories and loved ones
@spimentel5624 жыл бұрын
I was in operating table last year. That general anesthesia is good I almost dissapoibted that I woke up in recovery room. Now my stage 4 cancer might actually hurt me before it kills me.
@mism8474 жыл бұрын
Hmm, you're right. Maybe if I become satisfied with my life and make the best out of it, I will accept death later on?
@flowerylemon6124 жыл бұрын
I’ve been dealing with Thanatophobia since very little, always thinking of what’s beyond first with curiosity but after entering puberty, it morphed into a fear of what will be after, what’ll happen to my memories, everything that I learned, my family, etc. The thought of dying and being forgotten has always haunted me, though now after doing some work on my own I’ve been able to control my sudden thoughts about death. It used to make me want to vomit, cry, scream, and cause me to have something similar to an anxiety attack. The fear of death isn’t about the process for me, it’s about everything that comes after, since even though it won’t be painful, the thought of losing everything I’ve worked so hard on always destroys me.
@arrencybiey402111 ай бұрын
Rest in Peace Dr.Holmes .We might be stranger who does'nt know each other but we will surely return to the same universe and that makes all of us are related .
@kiranshama3195 жыл бұрын
if I die tomorrow don't feel sorrow just let it go and look at the stars say goodbye
@leapingjoseph84623 жыл бұрын
I like that.
@rolandcuthbert7844 жыл бұрын
What a courageous man. May the Lord give me the strength, compassion and dignity when it comes time for me to pass. In Christ's name. Amen.
@youngjezy233 жыл бұрын
Life is good when your young it’s the best period of our lives enjoy it
@bornwithoutconsentobviously3 жыл бұрын
Not when you have been bullied since age 13 and depressed since age 15 and severely anxious since age 20. But yes, I'm having the time of my life here as a 30 year old now.
@i.ehrenfest3498 ай бұрын
Welllll….being young is a very hard time for many people.
@ominous-omnipresent-they5 жыл бұрын
I don't fear death. I fear the process.
@CrispyChris6994 жыл бұрын
Exactly, like what’s it going to be like moments before we die, and during the process of moving on in the afterlife.
@ominous-omnipresent-they4 жыл бұрын
@@CrispyChris699 I'm still not convinced there is an afterlife.
@jakee33684 жыл бұрын
-Keith- _EA1381_ you should be, god and heaven are real, and he has a plan for you. He even has a place in heaven for you, and me!
@shorty8294 жыл бұрын
@@ominous-omnipresent-they when you pass, you'll be in a infinite state of dreaming, you wont know because you cant
@ominous-omnipresent-they4 жыл бұрын
@@jakee3368 Firstly, let me apologize for the short story below. Despite the first paragraph being a direct response to your comment, the rest is meant for anyone who happens to stumble across it. Now, onwards! I am sorry, but I'm simply not convinced, and I haven't been for a very long time now. There’s really nothing that you or anyone could ever say that I've already haven't heard multiple times already in my 38 years on Earth residing in the Bible Belt. Being raised in a predominantly Christian society in some rural county of Mississippi was everything but easy for me. I couldn't have been no more than 12 years old when I began struggling with my beliefs. I literally had no one to turn to. There was no world wide web, no Dawkins, no atheist KZbinrs - just me, my insatiable curiosity, and my grandmother's outdated Encyclopedia set from the 1970s. Thankfully, elementary school was pleasant for me. Being in gifted class means I had full access to the class computers during recess as well as the plethora of children's scientific magazines of the time. High school, well, I'm not getting into that clusterfuck other than the fact that certain parents didn't enjoy it when their kids were actually learning. It did not take long for me to realize that my questions were not favored by those around me. I was actually referred to as a demon by my very own aunt. Who was I to turn to when everyone around me was intellectually dishonest? I was likely an atheist before I ever knew there was a word for it. I'd be lying if I said I wasn't grateful for all of this.
@user-nh6yf5xm9y5 жыл бұрын
is it wrong to desire to evade death? does this question even matter? am i being too greedy if i want to live forever young? probably. there's just too many novels i need to read; too many movies, shows, animes i need to watch; too many games i want to play; too many songs i need to listen to, dance to, and compose.
@Vez-r5v5 жыл бұрын
We would all love to live forever, but then what would be the purpose of life? I mean why bother even getting out of bed if tomorrow is always guaranteed?
@user-nh6yf5xm9y5 жыл бұрын
@@madiannn i do believe in God and Jesus, but... even when we're not talking about them, i'm sure there is still a lot of meaningful things in the secular life.
@Jesussavedme5 жыл бұрын
Honestly I love life because we learn an grow but I don't love the pain and suffering we experience so living forever here on Earth doesn't sound fun lol I'd rather live a good long life and then spend eternity with my father God and son Jesus 🙏💛💚💙💜
@significantpepper52745 жыл бұрын
People will make it seem that death gives life meaning. Well,if you torture and make someone miserable so they can appreciate life more,you are a monster. And the monster is the Reaper. Happiness *IS* meaning,and if immortality ever becomes a thing,i will become immortal in a heart beat.
@mrjjthor4 жыл бұрын
I don't ever want to have immortality. Seeing all your loved ones die and when you have seen and done everything you can do in a 100 lifetime what'll be there to do next? Boredom and severe depression will take its toll and the worst thing is that you wont be able to die and escape from it.
@octaviobumble52454 жыл бұрын
I used to be terrified of Death. When I was eleven years old I stayed awake at night thinking about the universe and made the sudden realisation that one day, I was going to die and then be gone forever. Before that realisation I had a typical catholic mentality with regards to death and had never questioned an alternative to the afterlife. The thought of not breathing forever would make me feel claustrophobic and distressed. What made me realise how silly I was being was the realisation that before I was born I was essentially dead. The time before I was born was an eternity. Likewise the time after my death will be an eternity. I honestly dont recall being scared or suffering before I was born. There is nothing to lose. However I live my life as a decent person in the off chance that there is a benevolent creator awaiting me in the afterlife.
@Lezzylree4 жыл бұрын
Good thinking :)
@spero3604 жыл бұрын
That's quite wonderful
@louierivera3304 жыл бұрын
Super wonderful
@ryanread86174 жыл бұрын
Emir Vural The pure nothingness scares me though, all I’ve ever known is life, living, beauty, the warmth, family, and existence. I can’t describe before I was born but I know I want life, and death the chance there no afterlife scares me. What’s the point of living if it pointless and only momentarily, why exist in such beauty if it won’t matter and it’ll be taken away. I feel like life might be a curse itself, forced to live, forced to die. Maybe life exists to keep evolving to not die but idk, being nothingness scares me as it won’t be me. And being alive is a miracle.
@louierivera3304 жыл бұрын
Ryan Read if you were dead and never knew life and were presented with a chance at life, would you take it? Im scared too but i think people like us are better suited because all it is is a let go. The hardest let go. Perhsps when you’re old like my grandma and see all your friends and lovers die you’re perspective ill change. Also kind of messed up but when i go through desth related anxiety i think of the kids who never got to see 20 years old. The kids abandoned by their mothers or too sick to grow up and think how unfortunate it would have been if it were me. A feeling of gratefulness washes over me until the next time i think about it.
@nathanorput87374 жыл бұрын
The thought of death has had me so scared for weeks now. I don’t fear the death part, but I fear what comes after. Not a day has gone by where the thought doesn’t cross my mind and it’s driving me crazy. I want to believe that we go to heaven, or we’re reincarnated, or even if life just repeats itself, but I know that the most logical and accurate answer is that we will probably never see any light ever again. I’ve heard the story’s of people who go to heaven and back, but I know that it’s probably a hallucination. I just can’t stand the thought of nothing for eternity. Can someone give me answers or just ease my mind?
@maulanwong38414 жыл бұрын
Actually if it's nothingness then it's not even blackness because in order to process blackness you'd have to be alive and have a working conscious brain
@xiiscd-46srijitaroy823 жыл бұрын
Look at the works of Dr. Bruce Greyson it might help.
@saras.68632 жыл бұрын
@@maulanwong3841 exactly. it’s impossible to imagine what nothingness is
@peaceaisosa2 жыл бұрын
For religious people like myself , its hard to be scared of death. We know whats on the other side and it gives me joy. Earth is the worst place to possibly be but its hard fot anyone who hasn't had a spiritual experience to understand
@222yr2 жыл бұрын
well, if we only start beeing awere once our nervous sistem was made, when we opened our lunges to breath for the first time (at least, is what we think, right?) then, after we take our very last breath, when our nervous sistem goes off forever, we'll never be able to know where, if, when, how and such after we die, so if we never gonna know, there is nothing to worry about it! our soul is, in a logically way, nothing less than the knowing that we are aware, not a thing that enters in your phisical body, but a party of the body it self that will die with it, so be cool, there isnt nothing to worry at all :))
@Humble-Savage Жыл бұрын
Fearing death will not prevent it. That definitely hit different.
@justinbaker95838 ай бұрын
What a brave man
@eternity96914 жыл бұрын
How did KZbin know this was happening. I am still trying to settle with it. I love my family so much MEMENTO MORI
@tinkageorgewilliam8714 жыл бұрын
Rest in peace doctor.
@Dare53582 жыл бұрын
Truly truly beautiful. This helps.... so much.
@rmoises83 жыл бұрын
R.I.P Dr. Holm, I wish I could overcome my fear of death.
@leapingjoseph84623 жыл бұрын
me too
@andreb.7445 Жыл бұрын
Rest in peace sir. Nice video
@tacticalbarberpewlife21274 жыл бұрын
I’ve been dealing with fear of death since mid 30s i’m about to be 34 now & it gets worst I was never like this till a little after 33
@grantv23134 жыл бұрын
Ha. Same. Just want to survive till my kids are adults at least and I need to be here for my wife. You get to late 30s and the end seems like it’s getting a lot closer than you want it to be. Hard not to think about it or worry about every ache and pain. And they’re starting to add up. I too look at it like I wasn’t here before and I shall just not be here again eventually.
@ArtofWEZ2 жыл бұрын
same
@Story_Fuel2 жыл бұрын
That was so moving. Needed that tonight.
@holysandwich40759 ай бұрын
I have been panicking whenever I think about death ever since my grandfather died. I was his caregiver. The terrible fear of not knowing when or how you will die make me anxious about the time I have left on this earth. Moreover, the inability to control belittles me. I am still 22 but there are too many ways to die and death doesn't spare youths. I feel connected to all those people in this comment session.
@nativeamericancowboy50289 ай бұрын
If you didn't fear being born then you shouldn't fear dying. If you don't fear going to sleep at night, then you shouldn't fear dying The truth is no one dies. We just transition, and it's a lot less eventful than you might think. I know because I've died temporarily and have come back. When I died an Asian looking woman grabbed my hand very gently and asked me to come with her. She pulled my soul out of my body. I had no weight. She looked at me and smiled 😊.
@nativeamericancowboy50289 ай бұрын
You have another body inside of your physical body. It's there right now. It doesn't come alive when you die. It's been alive the entire time.
@ScorpionNani Жыл бұрын
I cannot avoid this feeling, I'm an observer, I like to admire and retain cool information and memories, I'm an overthinker so my life revolves around knowledge. The fear of death to me is losing everything I took into my core, losing opportunity to see new beautiful things, losing the ability to not constantly observe people, the earth, the universe, knowing one day I can't smell the ocean anymore or feel that fresh breeze coming through the forest, these are things I'd like to never lose or miss and why I would consider the possibility to live forever. Knowing it not a possibility shocks me deep in my core with panic. But one things that comforts me is that, if you die, you will never know you felt like this, all this worries, all this dread, because it's opposite of living, it's the lack of senses, so might as well enjoy it and see this feeling you're having as a motivation to not focus so much on vain things or focus on what other might think, because in the end nihilism is real and you still have the ability to control your life at the moment. Try some scary things you wanted to try, taste some weird things that pop up in the back of your head, hug some people, surround yourself with positive energy, show kindness more, protest your political beliefs (Hopefully beliefs that respect everyone) . Life might not have any meaning (as presented itself), but the way you live can always have an impact to others down the line. This feeling might never dissappear, but your actions you do daily have a butterfly effect in the world regardless. Regardless of the outcome in the end when the big time comes, everything will be OK because you know, I haven't seen a single person coming back complaining so I guess they are better off. 😜😉❤️
@mr.pothosswag8396 Жыл бұрын
Great video and great man. I will save this video for future rewatching. Thanks TED
@kaolineb63010 ай бұрын
I don’t fear leaving earth. I do fear leaving unjustly,violently,and or young. But no amount of worrying will reveal my future to me.
@isaacrurengo46904 жыл бұрын
RIP Dr Richard P Holm
@allenic3 жыл бұрын
He died???
@GB-my3uw3 жыл бұрын
@@allenic yes in march 2020 ,RIP
@s_ainsburys17493 жыл бұрын
When you die, you go on another journey. You get to find out where everyone else is. Just remember, when you die, we will come with you. And you’ll wait for us.
@Sirjohnfootball2 жыл бұрын
Nonsense
@NahHaha Жыл бұрын
@@Sirjohnfootball😢
@JennySumpter1794 ай бұрын
I constantly worry about death, just the thought of not being able to breathe will throw me into a full blown panic attack im talking crying shaking and just a hopeless feeling and this will happen sometimes twice a day. I cant stand it not being able to enjoy what life i have left to enjoy.
@naturalisted17144 жыл бұрын
It takes time to get over a fear. You fear it first and then something has to happen to convince you it is not something to fear. until you're convinced there's nothing to fear, you will be afraid. You cannot talk yourself into being convinced, you must be convinced by something.
@christinejoygatchalian81973 жыл бұрын
A friend of mine died this year. Ever since then, I fear death more than ever. The thoughts in my head were like "she was only 16, that's too early". And no one expected it because she was very caring, bubbly and faithful to God. Then last month, my stepfathers, stepfather, auntie, and sister died. I try to cope by exercising but every night the fear haunts me. I hate it so much. I just always want to be in the day not the dark. And I use to look forward to sleeping but now I can't sleep well and I sometimes wake myself from sleep to make sure I'm alive. Wtf.
@blacklyfe5543 Жыл бұрын
@@helmetongrass1893lies
@tmotus843 жыл бұрын
The only two thoughts that help are: 1- Everyone succumbs to it. In that way I am not special. 2- If I bring enough hope and light to those around me, in time, my fear of death will become meaningless.
@kholood385311 ай бұрын
This is my favorite tedx talk ♥️
@lia-hv8vt4 жыл бұрын
i’m just scared of not being conscious. idk how to explain this, but i would rather sit in the dark all the time when i die, than not being conscious, i’m only 13 tho haha
@unknownxoxo89054 жыл бұрын
:((
@badvibes.92154 жыл бұрын
Bruh same im 15, I've seen all the people that say this are young or developed fear of death at a young age I'm trying to get over this cause I can't take this anymore I guess we fear it cause we're experiencing so much and have so much to live that the feeling of numbness and darkness feels scary Maybe we haven't just lived enough We'll get through this don't worry
@katsaidthat4 жыл бұрын
I'm also 13, and I totally get what you mean!! I would rather be conscious and doing nothing - at least I would still be able to feel and think.
@shorty8294 жыл бұрын
But if your older, your opinions of wanting to think or feel still, will change
@mism8474 жыл бұрын
I'm 19. I still have some fear of death, a little bit more than preferred, but I think it'll go away when I get older. Maybe there will be fear when I'm close to death, but I will likely get over it. It was way worse when I was younger, but there are several things I've learned: If you spend your time being nice to others, giving to others, and basically strive towards making the world a better place, the death anxiety will be smaller because your death won't feel like the end. You will be more eager to accept it because you will care more about how other people around you are going to be, and it will feel less like losing everything, but more like just losing yourself while cherishing the memories of others and hoping those alive will have better lives Face your fears head on. If you want to eradicate fears, you need to jump into it several times until it's gone. It's way harder with death, though, but with a lot of other fears, like spiders, it will pretty much reduce drastically if you are surrounded by them, or touch them, or just don't mind them to a decent degree. Reach for your dreams and don't be afraid of taking chances. It will reduce your death anxiety when you face it, because you will regret less. What people usually regret is not doing things, not actually doing things. And don't believe the fearmongering in the media. They've done it for years, and they still do it, and they almost always turn out to be wrong. Just learn about how power works, and it will make more sense. And last thing, always research what you don't understand. When you do that, you will know more about life, usually live better and have less regrets. It will also reduce anxiety as a plus. Hope it helps, cause it sure does help me! :)
@robynrutkowski19509 ай бұрын
Death and Dying College Course was my best course ever.
@ianopande80995 жыл бұрын
I DON'T FEAR GOING TO SLEEP FOREVER
@ahumanbeingamnayplaceholde17464 жыл бұрын
Or returning into a state of unconsciousness/non-existence
@spimentel5624 жыл бұрын
Me too. I dont know how it feels before I was born and I want to go back to that state when I die
@Akosua2255 жыл бұрын
Very beautiful speech. Thanks for sharing.
@bumnuggetz68944 жыл бұрын
I don't wanna lose my family.. Especially my mom
@breannamoon26423 жыл бұрын
Mines not thinking about it every minute of everyday, because I have things to keep me busy during the day. It’s at night when there’s nothing stopping my mind and keeping my brain elsewhere that all the feelings and thoughts I didn’t feel through out the day that come flooding in.
@austinrogerswolf3 жыл бұрын
I'm in the same position night time sucks
@boldsign4 жыл бұрын
If there is a god, I'm ready. If there's no god, I'm ready. I'll be fine when it's time.
@leapingjoseph84623 жыл бұрын
I wish I could feel that way.
@garylines57554 жыл бұрын
I live in cronic pain every day . At first you pray to get better then you pray for a night's sleep and now I am at the point I pray not to wake up .
@Cloud-wl8lp4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry
@susanemo98113 жыл бұрын
Bless you xx
@valueconsulting18143 жыл бұрын
God bless you hope you fine now
@mirxbyty32003 жыл бұрын
I hope your Situation has changed
@leapingjoseph84623 жыл бұрын
Sending prayers and God bless you.
@Leto854 жыл бұрын
We've all experienced death before we were alive. That we can't recall it doesn't automatically make it scary.
@cecilecavallaro49245 жыл бұрын
How is this helpful? I'm trying to get over my fear of death. The more I feel accepting the less I care about anything in my life. It all becomes meaningless.
@wilkas1595 жыл бұрын
Sounds like deep depression, later you probably wouldn't care if you live or die.
@IVDestroyerzzVIJc4 жыл бұрын
cecile cavallaro been feeling like that for 2 weeks now idky
@leapingjoseph84623 жыл бұрын
Been feeling like this for 2 years.
@bornwithoutconsentobviously3 жыл бұрын
This is good for me. Means I can let go of life a lot sooner than I expected.
@francismausley72395 жыл бұрын
Perhaps these words will provide comfort... "Thou art My dominion and My dominion perisheth not; wherefore fearest thou thy perishing? Thou art My light and My light shall never be extinguished; why dost thou dread extinction? Thou art My glory and My glory fadeth not; thou art My robe and My robe shall never be outworn. Abide then in thy love for Me, that thou mayest find Me in the realm of glory." ~ Baha'u'llah, Baha'i Faith
@GB-966610 ай бұрын
I fear the unknown and the loss of consciousness even though I am a devout believer. Someone told that my faith was not strong, and maybe they were correct; but my fear of death remains even as it has decreased.
@veedramma42995 жыл бұрын
Am I scared? Absolutely. I have panic attacks and existential crises all the time. But there are things we cannot control. There are many things we do not understand. And it's okay to accept that ultimately you cannot change that. When I had appendix surgery and was put under, there wasn't darkness or a void or anything. It was like a TV shut off and there was no memory until I woke up in a dazed state. I was, and then I wasn't. People often say they think that is what death is like. Somehow it comforts me when I think of that state, as horrifying it may sound to those who haven't gone through it. This is excluding religion and spirituality of course. I'm agnostic, so I'm not really sure what to expect, but if it's that same sensation of flicking off a switch, I would say it is a release from the suffering of this world and back into the state we originally came from.
@maverick32105 жыл бұрын
Near Death Experiences could be a better option.
@boltzmannbrain86985 жыл бұрын
I like this
@JaskaranSingh-ml2if4 жыл бұрын
@Buzz Lightyear well I suffered from anxiety attacks and what not for the past 2 weeks......just think it this way today's society have shaped our mind in such a way that we as individuals give too much value to our existence (I can understand why) but actually we were made to carry on the species and give our genes to the population......when we are alive with consciousness we are not able to fathom the fact that we will have to go through an eternal sleep.....well that's not as bad as it sounds....If you compare that to sleep then yes you might be scared bc we wake up everyday from sleep...but in this case there's nothing on the other side.....but see it like this.....close your eyes for 1 sec.....and yes this is what death will feel like to you ......the matter that makes you survived 14 billion years in the universe without you even slightly affected by it.....so it's the same on the other side .....if you want to be calm then go and watch kurzgesagt's video on optimistic nihilism
@jeremyfoster87263 жыл бұрын
So you are saying almost dying did you of fear ?
@selhnnl87573 жыл бұрын
You calmed me down thank you ❣️
@karliann17 күн бұрын
I have had a fear of death since a very small child. I would cry for my family and grandparents telling them i didn't want them to die. At 2 years old i witnessed a violent crime and death but have no conscience memory of it but now I know why I am scared of death
@eternity96914 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful. 💛💕
@MarcusHelius5 жыл бұрын
Without his faith, this man would be as terrified and hopeless as those poor people who feared death up until the end. Listening to him talk he sounds very close to losing it, like his fear is just bellow a thin covering of religion...
@chrismathis41624 жыл бұрын
When I exist death does not, when death exists I do not......Greek Philosopher
@niekboon47024 жыл бұрын
And one doesn't exist without the other
@Fennetic9 ай бұрын
What scares me the most is the thought of not having thought. What does it feel like to not feel anything? I believe that day these questions gets answered is the day our fears get lightened. Most people argue sleep is similar but I disagree, sleep is just another form of consciousness, our minds tirelessly work to give our body the rest it needs. That's a whole lot different to not having a physical body no? Can we even reach a point where we can fathom non-existence?
@nativeamericancowboy50289 ай бұрын
Lol... It doesn't work like that my friend. Inside of your physical body is a whole other body. You can learn this through DEEP study of martial arts. Martial Arts invokes a different consciousness than that of your daily mundane living experience. Once you reach your inner body, you will no longer be concerned with this death topic because you'll understand that nothing conscious ever really dies. Including you.
@i.ehrenfest3498 ай бұрын
Well, sleeping means being very much less conscious. In some sleep stadia we’re still pretty conscious, but in others we’re far away. Have you ever been under anaesthesia? Your body still works, but those are non-conscious processes. You’re simply not conscious. I think that’s what death is like, and I’ve already been under anaesthesia, so I reckon I can do death. I get scared, at times, but it’s my general anxiety that’s doing that. I don’t think death is really a scary thing.
@Memorial247 ай бұрын
It’s literally like going to sleep it’s nothing to be afraid of
@nativeamericancowboy50287 ай бұрын
@@Memorial24 That's not the part that people are afraid of. People are afraid of what their friends and family are going to do in their immediate absence.
@i.ehrenfest3497 ай бұрын
@@Memorial24 But is it? How would we know?
@dish98494 жыл бұрын
I don’t want to live forever but 80 years is just to short there is too much to see too much to know too much to discover. And 80 years is not enough for me to experience all of that how am I gonna study all of science and learn all the languages if I only have 80 years and tbh more like 50 years. That is way too short of a time.
@rosepemberton52624 жыл бұрын
I was in a deep depression. Felt suicidal both wanting death but fearing it. Too scared to actually kill myself. It's a horrible state to be in. I believe all anxieties come from our fear of death .fear can paralyze us and it can Be hard to find path out of fear. it's like we are trapped in that part of our minds, like being in a maze. Sometimes we need a leg up to look over the walls of the maze to see the path out of the fear maze. I started intermittent fasting and taking a food supplement called lithium orotate not to be confused with lithium carbonate which needs to be prescribed by a psychiatrist. The lithium seems to dampen down my death anxiety it has given me the leg up to look over the fear maze wall. I'm aware of the fear maze but I can see the pathway out now. It's like the lithium orotate has created new or opened up neural pathways . I realize now that I don't have to stay in that fear maze. I take 1 5mg capsule in the morning and 1 5mg capsule in the evening. Please do your own research in lithium orotate. My mind does not dwell on that dark place anymore. A simple salt has given me my life back.
@BeingBetter4 жыл бұрын
That's wonderful. I've used lithium orotate for years now. It's also given me back my life. I have several videos about it on my you tube channel.
@leapingjoseph84623 жыл бұрын
I've never heard of it, but interested.
@i.ehrenfest3498 ай бұрын
How long did it take for the lithium to start working?
@acgillespie4 жыл бұрын
These truths are very real and important for folks to hear. take it from a loner so close to death who was so full of misery and fear i did all i could to make this whole world as sick and as miserable as i was. i'm so glad it is true if we hang on.. This too shall pass
@kevinfisher4663 жыл бұрын
he is gone now. well his body is. but his conciousness is still out their somewhere. good converstion
@lilacskys6911 ай бұрын
I am scared of not existing.. i don't want to "not exist". I want to be with my mom and my friends. The thought of just not existing one day is terrifying to me and it's not letting me live. I am 17 now.. when I turned 16.. these thoughts started haunting me and it's making me crazy. I'm not able to function. It gets even worse when it's dark. I hate being alone as well. This is affecting me so much I hate it. I get panic attacks at night and even in the day and I cry, I don't want to die!
@PikoCases2 ай бұрын
Only when we are no longer afraid do we begin to live.
@jessicavens19912 жыл бұрын
I have cptsd, generalized anxiety disorder, agoraphobia, and death anxiety. (This since i was a little kid) 30 now and had over almost nearly 10 years of theraphy. Still have the anxiety issues and panick attacks who are debilitating. I am scared of death, and everything after. Scared there isn't anything after, or to reincarnate....i just want to be with my family❤ forever
@lizispotato99673 жыл бұрын
I’m not scared of death, I’m scared of dying painfully, or loved ones dying, but death to me the last few years has seemed more like a mysterious adventure rather than something to be feared. I’m excited for when the time comes, where I go after this, what kind of freedoms does shedding this limited body afford? There was a big study on consciousness after clinical death that was fun to read, science still cannot observe human consciousness in a logical way, we know it exists but can’t yet observe someone’s experiences, only take their word for it. If particles can’t just blink out of existence, why on earth would we think we would after death?
@clueless36803 жыл бұрын
I fear death because you dont know whats gonna happen after death, and when you are in your deathbed or dying you know you cant do anything about it, and it will be the last moments of your life
@dondressel4523 жыл бұрын
I was diagnosed with prostate cancer in the bones 4th stage to be blunt I’ve been going strong for 17 months When I asked the oncologist who’s treating me about my prognosis He said I could have quite a few more years left This was unheard of years ago So yes medically we have come along way Carpe Diem is my motto
@Viviennitta Жыл бұрын
How are you doing?
@StarrySkyzzYT Жыл бұрын
I got Thanatophobia when I was 7… I can remember all of the sleepless nights trying to not cry. My parents didn’t know for years… i still have memory’s of all The pain I went through as a kid.. I didn’t have a lot of friends at the time.. i hated most social interactions and most days of school I starved myself to get to a empty table so I didn’t have to go trough the pain of just walking up down and back like 12 times looking for a place to sit when I decided to get lunch.. in my line order as a kid I was in the back of the line so when I wanted to sit near someone the table would be full if I didn’t starve myself.. the only people that I trust is my family.. every time I go out with them as a kid I feel like they are gonna get in a car crash or somthing bad will happen to them.. my sister hates when I get something she doesn’t.. I beg my mom or dad to get somthing just to spare me and my mom and dad from my sister.. I can’t tell anybody in my family things except my sister.. my grandma hates my mom because her parents are dead.. my dad acts like nothings wrong and my moms just being dramatic.. she starved my mom alot and when we ask my dad “why does grandma starve mom?” He will respond like “can we not talk about this?” Or “she didn’t she would never” my moms clearly tired of it she’s scared me as a kid when she’s really tired of my grandma and dad she would sometimes say she’s leaving me and this family.. all my family loves me… sometimes.. I need help
@thedailyrage25614 жыл бұрын
“Fearing death causes death” Welp, I’m screwed
@IVDestroyerzzVIJc4 жыл бұрын
The Daily Rage oop been fearing death for 2 weeks now idky it just happened now I can’t stop thinking about it
I’m scared of not having a life at all it’s like going to sleep but it’s not because you wake up every time but when you die you never wake up I won’t see my family my friends I won’t feel anything and I just won’t here anymore idk what’s gonna happen to me.will I got to heaven,is their nothing on the other side.i can’t get over it😭
@paulh75894 жыл бұрын
I have seen proof of "The other side" My father showed it on his last day. Time is linear while we inhabit our bodies, but it is not linear when we turn from a caterpillar into a butterfly. We think of loved ones that have passed away with sadness because we miss them, but they see time differently and welcome us when our time comes. It really is nothing to be afraid of. The thing that bothers me most about death is that my eventual passing is going to upset my loved ones still here. I'm not afraid of it at all, nor should you be. I want to live a nice, long life and live many more years but at 54 I am over the halfway point as are most of my loved ones. We realize it, and enjoy life with each other more than ever. I love my Wife, Brothers, Sisters, Nieces, Nephews, Friends.... all that good stuff, but when my time comes I am ready. I am in no hurry, but I have no fear of it- nor should you. Mora, put a few more years under your belt and the anxiety will go away, you will understand it is nothing to fear at all.
@mora21664 жыл бұрын
Paul H thank you so much❤️
@spimentel5624 жыл бұрын
@@paulh7589 you did not see it. Your father saw it. You're father who is also another biological entity with his life's experiences.
@MelissaAnnLegard19894 жыл бұрын
I'm in a deep depression right now because of this. I'm absolutely terrified of dying cause I'll be gone forever. The mind isn't able to comprehend death, that's why it causes a lot of anxiety. One minute you're here and the next you're not. You won't even know you're dead. I lost a lot of family the last 6 years, sometimes I was able to push the thought out of my head but other times I was like omg I'm going to die someday. It's absolutely terrifying when you think too much about it.
@thecobbstar2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful emotional speech !! Thank you very much for sharing x
@robertclarke7411 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@bryancortes5303 Жыл бұрын
Being scared of death is one thing that I fear but not as much as time going by and me not noticing and next thing I know I’m alr old. Just the fact the one day I’m just living and next thing I know it’s alr been 5 years that went by in a snap of a finger just terrifies me
@randominternetgirl17985 жыл бұрын
I've been feeling very sick for the past 4 days. I've been feeling nauseous, but I can't throw up. It hasn't been accompanied by any other symptoms, but I fear it might be cancer. I had been planning on turning my life around,eating healthy and working out, but this changed everything.I'm 15. I'm not ready for this 😭
@eeemms5 жыл бұрын
If you're not diagnosed yet I'd recommend checking that out but I also don't wanna creep you out I've been sick for a whole month now( with the same exact symptoms) and I don't have any other issues just a weak immune system of course I'm just 13 so I can't tell you if you have cancer or not but imo I don't think so still if you're not feeling well you should go to a doctor it can be some virus or just stress taking a tool try not to over think it and try your best to relax srry I know I didn't magically heal you but I wanted to help you out
@randominternetgirl17985 жыл бұрын
@@eeemms It wasn't actually cancer. I don't know what it was but I felt better after a few days. I just panicked because I had never felt nauseous continuously for a few days straight and this is a symptom of cancer, so I got concerned. I started exercising more and began eating healthier and I'm fine. Thanks for the tips though 👍
@Kiopurslol5 жыл бұрын
HollowWolf oh no 💔💔💔💔
@helmetongrass189311 ай бұрын
Lol the funny thing is when you study about a disease in too much detail, then it seems like that's exactly what's happening to you, cuz my guess was thiamine deficiency lmao
@dannysze81834 жыл бұрын
famous yogis vivekananda said conquering fear of death is a constant struggle until you realise and experience the oneness with god. it is a very important spiritual practice and during the practice it enriches our living daily.
@andrewfarahmand31794 жыл бұрын
I fear more that I will lose someone close to me and I will never get to see them again. After I die I will not have to go through that pain
@sfrwriter5 ай бұрын
After I put my dog to sleep, I have thought a lot about death and my own mortality. I don't fear death per se, but I do fear the suffering. I find that the fact that I'm going to die at some point, is paralyzing me. I'm nearly 50. It's stopping me from starting anything new. What's the point of it if I'm going to die anyway and there will just be nothingness? I may as well do nothing. That's what I'm doing now. I work for my keep and when I'm done I just lie in bed, waiting to die. What baffles me is that although most people fear death, they still bring new people into the world, who are inevitably also going to fear death. Why not break this cycle altogether? Why would you do this kind of torture to a loved one? I didn't have kids, so thankfully I haven't subjected anyone to this terror.
@adalineburke5474 Жыл бұрын
I have thought much about death. Many say that they fear the process of death not the concept. Many times people who die are not conscious at the time of their deaths. If not, it could be quick. It could be slow. If a person is slowly dying, death is a relief and to be welcomed by the sufferer. But at that often with a slow death, a person can prepare and are usually in the clouds. There are too many circumstances that can happen to sit there and panic about our own death. It does me no good. And no matter what happens, my body will return to the earth to keep life going. We are here for a small fraction of eternity. In time, almost everyone will be forgotten. Nobody will sit there fascinated by what all I did. My purpose in life is to make sure that I made the best of it and helped others do the same since we all share that fate.
@nazaninparsian80214 жыл бұрын
I do scared of death because I been through it I couldn’t breath for 5 minutes and it was horrible... it was a person was there and I was very scared from this person I couldn’t see his face but he told me its not my time so I scared more , when I experience this I just want to live in this beautiful life because I always think this world it’s horrible but now I love this world
@aphill22083 жыл бұрын
So happy to know I'm Not the only one with this fear! It makes me a?little less fearful,I guess I'm normal!
@stitchtui36192 жыл бұрын
did you drown?
@ep4801 Жыл бұрын
So many people say they have a similar experience
@ep4801 Жыл бұрын
But they don't say it was horrible most of them say it was peaceful