"Say yes to the person, but no to the idea." If you want to express an opposite opinion. Brilliant. Reminds me of the concept of validating a person you care about but rejecting a set of their behaviors that offend you.
@tsstn7 жыл бұрын
I watched this at the request of my daughter and sent her this message. Then it occurred to me that many people might be in my same shoes. "I agree. Yes, and... Is simple and brilliant. I know that I often say no. But it is very often the same careless no, not usually a kick you in the teeth no or a cease and desist no. It took me years to realize that my Dad wasn't shooting down my ideas when I came to him with excitement. He was troubleshooting in advance of trouble. He wanted to prepare me for the worst and instead I took it all wrong and got shot down. I know I have told you that before. I will likely tell you for the rest of my life. But the reason for that is to show you that perception can be your best friend or your worst enemy. You must decide, so choose wisely."
@frandriedger84502 жыл бұрын
Yes, and I love you Galen! You were at our school about 5 years ago and all of us who saw your program still speak of it fondly!
@MarlaBronstein8 жыл бұрын
Every time I watch this I am inspired. Thank you Galen!
@tommymullins36897 жыл бұрын
we rise by lifting others
@aquasama5884 жыл бұрын
THATS A W E S O M E
@justinflows6 жыл бұрын
Damn. This is one of the best speeches I've ever heard! Powerful stuff.
@petern586 жыл бұрын
This is brilliant. It is so good to have this video to watch, keeps me on my "YES AND"toes. Thanks.
@aquasama5884 жыл бұрын
THATS AWESEOM!
@nitosilva64043 жыл бұрын
This is by far the most inspirational video I could have ever asked for, thank you.
@SunnyLake11 жыл бұрын
Love you Galen - this is awesome! What an opportunity for you, and as always, you completely rocked it. Congratulations!
@galengraziano71274 жыл бұрын
"Improv is about making other people look good." Great instructions, Galen(fellow Galen, lol)
@dannnsss80343 жыл бұрын
"yes to a person and no to an idea"
@EmptyFeet3 жыл бұрын
improv-ing oneself, if you will
@videoman1913 жыл бұрын
underrated comment
@sergysgospelnarration11996 жыл бұрын
1. Say yes// Never say no. 2.make other people good 3.Add more to the original idea.
@aquasama5884 жыл бұрын
THATS AWESOME!
@mike_r91 Жыл бұрын
Yes and this is such great advice!! 🙏
@masonhankins714211 жыл бұрын
The worker who said no to picking up a piece of paper was just practicing an advanced improv technique called Empathy which is cool because the Department Feud became a very funny and interesting Harold in my brain.
@oxygenlung8 жыл бұрын
the right to say No is so important though.......
@setitheredcap26776 жыл бұрын
The whole point of the video is be more positive not by saying yes to everything.
@Velocirarrptor3 жыл бұрын
Also say yes to yourself, and your boundaries, your self care, your strong feelings, your safety. Say yes to your self wanting to leave, having a bad feeling about something.
@claytongrange21377 жыл бұрын
This is awesome!
@CharllesNunes4 жыл бұрын
For more people thinking and acting positively in this fabulous and fragile world... ;-)
@dergruneheinrich31792 жыл бұрын
'I'm breaking up with you' 'Yes, that's awesome'
@johnlscott_bellingham5 жыл бұрын
Awesome Galen!
@elizdonovan19656 жыл бұрын
Excellent talk. Thank you. 🙂🌲☘️
@shkelzennokaj5194 Жыл бұрын
This guy is talking about narcissists but he is so nice not to mention that word.
@miguelangelsanchez59595 жыл бұрын
The only occasion when you have to say NOOOO is when some enthusiastic con artist (in an Enron or theranos kind of business) comes to tell you “Hey I bring you a good opportunity to make money, so invest with me (give me your money)”.
@lovepeaceisneverguaranteed73855 жыл бұрын
I searched how can humanity improve yet I found this huh.
@aquasama5884 жыл бұрын
THATS AWESOME!
@frandriedger84502 жыл бұрын
Yes, you can have a cookie, after dinner!
@Zaharik12 жыл бұрын
7:30
@maybe_24322 жыл бұрын
I just want someone 2 peg me ngl
@ro863626 күн бұрын
That's awesome!!
@isaiahsiew11 жыл бұрын
but what if his dad was talking the truth and to save him he had to say NO.
@vincent212129 жыл бұрын
+Isaiah ben had the father been positive, he would've realized that 'Yes' was the right answer. Also, he wasn't making the son look good by turning down his idea
@04ia90 Жыл бұрын
He could start with "yes" saying "it is great you want to do this, this is a big challenge i am proud of you...." And only after this to say his objections and the things that worries him . Than it will be accepted much better by the other party. It is always better to start with "yes"
@theman22498 жыл бұрын
im a piece of shit to everyone I love...
@nuggies13484 жыл бұрын
who's here from drama? :D
@vgzhh11714 жыл бұрын
idk am i :???
@alinedasilveirabrasil3 жыл бұрын
👏👌
@mindblown4677 жыл бұрын
it's better to be honest to people and improve there lives then lie to them with this yes and stuff
@gadgetronia75444 жыл бұрын
That's actually a negative thing to say, people's ideas are set for a reason, they think about them in a positive way because they know in their heart they can make them work, when they share their ideas to others they do so because they trust in those people as supporters, when instead they discover they are negative people, they are rather likely to cut them off from their lives.
@larryrobinson69143 жыл бұрын
A twenty four seven cartoon channel starring Tom and Jerry
@crabenchanter48905 жыл бұрын
its a no no
@kinsmed6 жыл бұрын
Let me know if you want a public speaker on improv that doesn't spend the first 2 & 1/2 minutes telling you how NOT to do it.