Why I am Boobless After Breast Implant Illness | Lacey Marie | TEDxIdahoFalls

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As women, there are parts of us that inform our sense of feeling divinely feminine, and our own bodies are often emblematic of our womanhood. So what happens when a significant aspect of your own body turns toxic? Confronted with that very reality, Lacie Marie made the difficult decision to not only have her breast implants removed due to toxicity, but also chose to have her entire breasts removed because of genetic markers for cancer. Lacie Marie shares her amazing story of making the difficult decision, learning how to accept herself and reclaim her femininity beyond the social expectations of how a woman is "supposed" to be shaped. Boobless and Fabuless is her mantra. Lacey Marie believes flatter is better. After years of dealing with seemingly random health issues and being near death, she discovered it was all connected to the size of her breasts. Lacey learned she had Breast Implant Illness, plus two genetic markers for breast cancer so she made the decision to have both her implants and her breast removed.
Through this process, she realized there’s a gross lack of resources and support for Breast Implant Illness, which has empowered her to use her story and advocate for more women to become Boobless and Fabuless. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

[@gigismummylewis9293]

I am a 34B. And I have been pressured to have implants by 2 boyfriends in the past. I broke up with both men, due to the pressure of looking a particular way. I am now 58, very healthy and a “perfect” 34B. I will not change my body image to preserve a relationship.. men wouldn’t do it for their women! Double standards come to mind!!

[@maryannebrown2385]

Indeed!

[@hillmidget1326]

Jesus I'm not even a AA and none of my business have pressured me. I'm so glad you didn't listen to them

[@chinnyokonkwo5162]

God bless you ma

[@lindsey1051]

Wow, you had a lucky escape from both men, if men don't love you the way you are then consider that a red flag, I bet neither of them were perfect either..

[@_Everyone__]

Right, if it isn't broken, don't fix it.

[@jaidlea]

I feel ridiculous. I’ve been so depressed and upset because I’m a 32A, and sometimes I don’t even fill up the A cup. I’ve been thinking about getting implants, solely so that I’ll feel more attractive. But listening to your story has changed my mind. It will take time for me to learn to love myself, but now I’m just grateful that I’m healthy. Thank you so much for sharing.

[@belleh7158]

Girl I so understand I’m the same, beauty is from within and you can wear so many more clothes with a smaller chest and less back pain x

[@nikkid3042]

When you have children, they do get bigger! so don't put fake stuff in your body!

[@rosie6]

Good luck love!! Me too, im flat but learning to love myself. The size of ur heart is what matters

[@_Everyone__]

I will ask my wife to watch this; after 4 kids she want implants, unfortunately she don't care that I say that she look wonderful how she is. Size doesn't matter, she is feminine all the way.

[@GinnyBerch]

You're a wonderful husband

[@tleemf6923]

Suggest she not only watch this ,but if she must ..then get a boon lift and not implants

[@kumarules118]

Breastlift is better option, although the scar will be visible

[@k0rn0ndac0b]

Make sure your actions match your words; I’ve been with men who tell me they loved my chest as it is, but their search history was full of boobs that looked nothing like me and it has crushed my soul. I can’t believe the words that come out of their mouths when their actions seem to negate them.

[@proudcynophile1901]

I hope she comes around. She has a terrific husband and I hope she realizes it and loves herself as she is as you love her as she is!

[@johnflorio3052]

The size of a woman’s chest does not matter. What matters is the size of the heart behind it.

[@jacobjacob4139]

Honestly what really matters is the size of her brain, even though we can't see it, the plastic surgery that we can see reveals a lot about the size of the brain, go figure.

[@DeepakKumar-vd9tr]

@@jacobjacob4139 true...

[@insanelyawesam1420]

Beautiful!

[@roses9707]

ok gandhi

[@falsehoodbasher7240]

@@jacobjacob4139 so does The length of her hair not matter either? Just The brain inside of her head? Would you date a bald, flat chested smartie ?

[@mamacist1539]

All young girls in high school and college need to see this before getting implants. my hero! Thank you!

[@Bambotb]

Exactly

[@AndreyGuild]

Stop now! Are you saying that a person who's not allowed to make own decisions about alcohol should not be allowed to mutilate their body...you're crazy!

[@ashleytaylorfredrickson487]

👍🤗 YES THANK YOU I couldn't agree more with u! Sad part is though that a lot of very young women get implants & then latter regret it because they realize it isn't what they really WANTED OR DESIRED!😩😔

[@Brad14397]

Not even just the young women but every woman

[@ashleytaylorfredrickson487]

@@Brad14397 👍 Yes you're right & thank u for pointing this out! 😊

[@ginayoung130]

She looks incredible in that bright pink blazer with her scars showing. Such an icon. I hope that someone who needs to see this video will...

[@ashleytaylorfredrickson487]

🤗I'm so glad that someone pointed this out! I couldn't agree more! She's so BRAVE & such an INSPIRATION!😊 And with out a doubt her story will inspire courage & help many women around the world!🌎

[@Syndarel]

Um, no she doesn't. I did not even notice that she wasn't covered but I think people should keep their stomachs and chests covered just out of consideration for the next person I don't happen to think everyone looks good except if it's someone in my family and close to

[@louisemacleay2846]

@@Syndarel she is an inspiration! Have you ever had chronic illness? I guess not

[@karirenner7688]

I'm that someone who needed to see this...🥲💙

[@Agwafina]

GIRL POWER🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼💗💗💗💗 this is truly so so beautiful to see honestly I am so happy I saw this video I was going to get implants ! But wow !!! There are so many videos of women on KZbin with the same exact symptoms! And similar stories

[@insearchoftruehappiness9214]

It’s best to not mess with your body unless it’s medically needed.

[@Becky_Cal]

Wise words indeed.

[@kellisuzuki8889]

I would consider gender dysphoria making gender confirmation surgeries a medical necessity

[@maximwilson1482]

True that...I've been considering fillers and minimally invasive sculpting procedures on my face. These are far more dangerous then I (foolishly) assumed. Aging sucks especially with all the pressure to be perfect...

[@Mimi24177]

@@kellisuzuki8889 no that is not medical needed that's demonic to think you born in the wrong body because, some demon in your head tell you that you are.

[@jedimastayoda112]

@@kellisuzuki8889 You'd be wrong.

[@milajb7164]

After 5 years I decided to remove my implants. Doctor was so worried why. I insisted about my health and I want to be natural. After surgery he said:" You will regreat and in least than 2 yrs you will back". Already passed 2 yrs, and I'm more confident and so thankful to get back my health in good condition.

[@GM-uq1xz]

Was he Jewish or indian lol probably

[@anitahalvorson6586]

i wish they would keep their opinions to themselves. after my double mastectomy for cancer while in recovery overnight i had a male nurse tell me i'd want reconstruction. please. this was over 7.5 years ago. about 6 months ago my counselor even told me i would change my mind and get reconstruction. wtf. people need to mind their own business and listen to people when they say what they say, esp professionals, supposed professionals. needless to say my counselor is no longer my counselor.:)

[@ytb8361]

@@anitahalvorson6586 good for you for being confident with overcoming illness, doing what you want for your recovery and choices. I wish you the best of luck for the future and I wish, hope and pray for a lot of health and happiness for you 💓🍀

[@user-sf9gs2pg1b]

@@anitahalvorson6586 Exactly. They always think they know best, but they’re a professional in their field, not in your psychology.

[@madeleine7308]

@@GM-uq1xz what???

[@shraddhapawar]

I'm 28 and have really really FLAT chest. But I NEVER was uncomfortable with this fact, and will NEVER be. Women and men too need to realise that being alive and healthy is all that matters. Your body's beauty fades once you age anyway. Nothing matters then.

[@_Everyone__]

Well said.

[@guesswhoscomingtoyoutube]

it really doesn't matter or it should not , your so right

[@ismaelomaribanez]

Not that it should matter, but a lot of people like flat chested women.

[@oliviawutam]

Sorry, that's hard to believe. I don't want any man in my life but for heaven's sake for myself I want "something" No transwoman would want to live boobless, Yuck

[@DeepakKumar-vd9tr]

Flat chest is better than implants

[@tattoobaby114]

The fact she isn't wearing a shirt under her coat is BADASS! I strive to have her confidence. Your an extraordinary woman!

[@pollacksharman0147]

Hello how are you doing 👋👋👋☺️

[@bunnycat4153]

This is what I’m inspired by, too! Soooo COOL!!!

[@mercythompson1559]

Boobless and fabulous She’s gorgeous Can’t believe the first man left her while she was struggling with the pain I’m glad she found someone

[@SunnyHeartKay]

I can totally believe it

[@imaginempress3408]

Believe it. My partner never supported me in any of my illness.

[@jurgenr.4062]

I hope that he is your ex-partner meanwhile. George

[@dawnmeredith2262]

I was terribly ill til I finally got my implants out in 2000. The brain fog alone was causing me to give up practicing law...but w/in a few months post explant I was significantly better and am still practicing law.

[@recoveringsoul755]

my now ex tried to say I was crazy unfit mother because of a "botched reconstruction". Low blow. I never would have had plastic surgery just for cosmetic reasons. But for medical reasons, being lopsided, you either try to equalize or remove both. I wasn't ready for the latter. I was a great mother. Still need a new lawyer

[@deborahedwards160]

Ditto I have been sick for 42 years, I get my Explant 11/2022 I can hardly wait

[@squirrelslayer6837]

Did people compare your brainfog to them not remembering where they put their keys? 🙄 I too live with debilitating brain fog, people don’t understand. Glad you got your life back 🥲

[@chrisl9289]

💗💗💗 awesome I'm so happy for you! Natural girls are the best and the most beautiful!

[@steephaniieeeee]

@@deborahedwards160 you had your implants for 42 years???? :O

[@mrkrabs8112]

To stand there and tell her story with her head high is so inspiring.

[@laceymarie9671]

Thank you!!! It was hard... but the amount of women it has helped already has been worth it. 💖

[@jason4547]

It doesn't matter how high you hold your head. The world will still judge you O.o

[@QueenOptimist]

Absolutely 💖

[@Mingo579]

So glad you are better... Thanks for not giving up❤️

[@karenbaumgartel6077]

@@laceymarie9671 so inspiring and strong: Courage in spades!

[@KarunaSatoriASMR]

I can not wait to remove my implants. I am so happy for you. I hope to be happy for myself soon, too.

[@a.l.a7901]

Same. Hopefully next year they can come out. I am sick and tired of being sick and tired.

[@eltonmoyo8495]

I removed mine 6months ago. Best thing ever!!

[@daymartinez4648]

Best decision I made was removing them

[@andistenger6251]

were you able to explant yet?

[@anitaostrander4301]

how long did you have your in if you don't mind me asking.. I've had mine for 30 yrs, no problems but I want them removed but im scared because they have been in for so long.. who is going to do your removal?

[@megringa]

I had BII 7 years was enough for me to feel like I was dying. The implants have been out for 3 years and I’m finally alive again!

[@moniquesalinas8940]

What symptoms did you have? I been having horrible dizziness.I want them out so bad but can’t afford getting them out.not to mention a capsular contractor

[@samadhi1414]

I explanted six months ago. I ended up in the ER room with numbness and tingling on face and body. These symptoms continued until I removed my implants. I no longer have my symptoms. I feel amazing now. Thank you for sharing your story. You are so beautiful and powerful

[@laceymarie9671]

HOORAY for the symptoms being GONE!!! So So happy for you

[@samadhi1414]

@Maximus Glixia I am so happy to hear you have decided against surgery. It is simply not worth risking your health.

[@johnfreeman3147]

We're they textured implants?

[@redman6578]

I'm glad you learned a lesson, You shall not make for yourself a carved image” (Exod 20:4). This is why changing the nature of a human being is a sin.

[@constantinecouponz3140]

This is the same thing that’s been bothering me. Tingling in my arms and legs and paralysis of the face and I have implants

[@nfc598]

Imagine having a mom like her. Those kids are so lucky to have an incredible example to inspire and show them how to be brave and strong

[@Suzanimal_316]

I really like your comment & I obviously agree completely! Take care NeonFluffyCakes!🙂😉

[@Metroid-rg9pn]

Knowing Lacey and her family personally, sadly this is less than 10% of the story. And sadly, half of it is fictional.

[@laceymarie9671]

Thank you... I love my kids fiercely for sure. This comment means the world to me... thank you ❤️

[@RawOlympia]

why does it take implants to be brave and strong?

[@ScoobyDoozy]

@@Metroid-rg9pn I’m a year late but if you happen to see this- Are you open to elaborating at all?

[@rommycianci8326]

My step daughter is having hers removed tomorrow after many years of "mysterious ailments" she is becoming an EXPLANT WARRIOR. So proud of her.

[@FunnyFarmHomestead]

I’ve been a wreck since I got implants and I’m getting them removed September 15, 2021. THANK YOU for your openness, vulnerability and honesty… I just wish I had seen this before I got implants four years ago.

[@henriettesofiapetersen]

Please update us with how you're doing after 😍

[@FunnyFarmHomestead]

@@henriettesofiapetersen I sure will. Thx so much

[@charleneh8084]

I’m having en bloc surgery with a lift Sep 14 2021. I can’t wait!!! I’ve had them for 17 years. 750 cc’s hasn’t held up so well after that many years so I had them deflated last year. The other day during a pre-op appointment I told the surgeon I think they’re causing me illness and of course he didn’t believe me. We have to fight for what we know we feel! Who do these doctors think they are

[@neilpye6089]

Hope everything goes well, I could never understand the fad for putting unnatural lumps of rubber in a body.

[@ritapaine7752]

Have had mine for 18 yrs, the worst thing I ever did, has caused me to have lupus, but I can not go thu the pain of having them out. A huge worry on my mind.

[@lapitufitaazul]

My husband suggested liposuction in my belly after having our 2 children, I bleed quite a bit for everything (specially C-sections)...so, I said: NO WAY, I want to see our children grow!! They are 15 & 13 now. Vanity can become a real enemy for some people. 💔

[@yaprakdalatward5617]

I hope you divorced him. He’s obviously worthless.

[@AlyTarmin]

I would've divorced my husband if he said that.

[@lapitufitaazul]

@@AlyTarmin ABSOLUTELY! We have 23 years of marriage and counting! There are crazy, weird people out there, that is for sure.

[@SunnyHeartKay]

I bet he needs liposuction

[@Truth_Seeker86]

Hope you meant *EX husband.

[@ririrocks6734]

I wish more people talked about this disease. Women need to know what can happen.

[@virender808]

If any foreign material is put inside human body no one knows how it will react .cosmetic surgery is the biggest money churning machine so no one talks abt the consequences of it hope your story acts as a lesson for others ..

[@Kwd123]

I feel like a lot of people talk about the consequences…

[@Andrea-zv3up]

Any foreign object put in your body will always reject it. It’s inevitable

[@josiecamilo7098]

The body rejects foreign substances it knows when something is not normal. It's self preservation. Thank God she got to the cause and was able to live.

[@KuniKarin01]

Wow she’s so strong for doing this. She’s my hero. Women go through so much we always want to fix and change ourselves and it’s not even us who is the problem

[@manisnomo1248]

If you lack character to the point that you mutilate your body, you ARE the problem. You even lack the requisite character to admit that you have a problem.

[@TheBizzle1984]

The doctors only caring about aesthetics is infuriating, but not surprising. She's very strong to stand her ground 💗

[@gabriellsbaby]

It isn't doctors, they are only giving people what they ask for and profiting on generations of women letting themselves feel like they are not enough. We need to stop asking to be filled with plastic and toxins.

[@itstimeforlife]

This woman is beyond gorgeous!! Body, mind and soul. Wow I'm in awe

[@askmom802]

that no one on her medical team considered, even in passing, that the cause of her maladies might just be the two silicon filled foreign objects on her chest is just mind boggling.

[@loremipsum9859]

why??

[@abbymcferran5078]

an inconvenient truth

[@gwynbetts29]

Someone is making tonnes of money from the silicon industry, including influence of selective information published in medical journals about their product’s safety record and suppression of unhealthy side effects. We all know that doctors receive a financial commission for using products.

[@marymiller9656]

its kinda like it is a taboo subject that no one wants to face. questioning , throwing light on the myriad of symptoms would upset too many associated entities

[@csc1641]

I had a bi-lateral mastectomy in August of 2020 due to cancer and I didn't get reconstruction surgery. I feel my new body is perfect in every way.

[@rkeller8141]

She is a beautiful very feminine woman who is admirable in courage and a beacon of light. A reminder to myself, I dwell in a body but am not my body.

[@northerngirl4924]

So sad, what a journey. Rise up women. We are so much more than a cup size. I salute this woman. She is a warrior.

[@SandraLuz3]

100%

[@debbiehunt5940]

I wish this woman the happiest life. God bless her

[@yaelWolfebaz]

Somehow the flat chest doesn’t look abnormal at all, just kind of sporty. I got my implants out when I was early pregnant and when I’m done breastfeeding I’m getting a full lift with no implants. I’ll have small probably A size boobs and huge scars but I don’t care anymore

[@mashaa.7509]

Good luck!! 💕

[@abigailsco5700]

Were you able to get the implants out while pregnant? I can't wait to tale my implants out!

[@nhvkuy4675]

How you feel about yourself is the most important. You are a queen!

[@michaelh5055]

You are absolutely full of chit. No licensed surgeon is going to put you under while pregnant for a cosmetic procedure. If this is true. Then that anesthesiologist needs to lose their license for being absolutely irresponsible and reckless. I also think you are a complete moron for putting your unborn child at high risk for cosmetic surgery.

[@nut1909]

@@michaelh5055 chit

[@NarsFromMars]

She fought the tears so bravely. I'd burst into a hysterical sob.

[@NarsFromMars]

@Mary Purcell Hi Mary, please read my comment carefully. I said she's brave, "I'd burst" which of course means I WOULD burst into tears if I were to talk about this in front of an audience. I DIDN'T feel for her and I admire her.

[@amiramohamed6579]

It's weird how much women do to please men and on the other hand men don't even try ... i mean girl if he doesn't like you the way you are then he doesn't deserve you just let him go

[@jacobjacob4139]

I don't need anyone to please me and I don't please anyone, don't blame it on men dear, blame it on media, stop consuming so much media ladies.

[@Ryan_but_the_name_was_taken]

Agree. It was media.

[@danyelo9032]

Not really. Not everything woman do are for pleasing men

[@shikhargovil9579]

it seems like you have consumed a lot of toxic content on social media. it's all non sense. women do not do everything to please men and i do not want anyone to please me.

[@rizen9457]

I went on a date with a guy. I came very well dressed to the restaurant. He came with shorts and a shirt. Almost like "you're here to impress me. Let me see what you got".

[@de9461]

"Femininity comes from within!" Amen to that!

[@ThatPaliRN]

People please just accept yourself. The way your born. We are Human. Not plastic. The message we are sending the youth is toxic! We are much more than what is at surface.

[@gracie99999]

yes and it says it itself ‘plasticosergio’

[@lagr5225]

This woman is so strong... She's fighting with her tears, it is so heartbreaking to see 💔 What a brave, brave way to talk about her experiences! 🙏

[@jessejules2092]

I love how this woman owns and accepts her body as it is and is confident to demonstrate the consequences of implants. Can we please have some more brave women showing acceptance of their bodies and loving themselves in healthy balanced ways.

[@raerae555]

Poor woman. It’s enraging to me that her doctors would remove her own organs and body parts first yet leave the foreign objects/implants in her body. You’d thing the foreign objects would be the first to go.

[@davidimhoff2118]

It's not the doctors it's the the insurance. The insurance companies pay for the wrong stuff. I have had a double organ transplant and it's just awful. Insurance companies can label this as cosmetic and not something that could save her life. I hate insurance companies.

[@bipsomma2483]

I can’t imagine what this woman, and her family went through. I’m so glad she fought for what she KNEW was right. And now, I really will believe my husband when he says I absolutely do not need implants and he loves me the way I am.

[@carolapostolos8929]

Never thought I would hear a discussion about this topic. I admire her bravery. She's beautiful inside and out.

[@starlitmakeupchick]

I had my explant in 2020 and my health has improved so much! I feel better about myself now than w implants.

[@snone6700]

Did you have the implant capsules removed as well or just the implants?

[@nhvkuy4675]

Health is so much more important than looks. Also she totally rocks the look. So stylish! I saved the video in my playlist as beauty. Because health, happiness and self care are foundation for it.

[@kotekkotkovany]

I cannot believe this video only has 421 likes.....So glad you are feeling great again and are healthy, keep spreading the extremely valuable and important message....❤️

[@laceymarie9671]

Thank you!!! You are correct this is an extremely important message! Please share with everyone you know!

[@zuzanna1456]

Because most are happy with their implants but keep paying for removals after a year that’s what they’re hoping for smh

[@heatherm2140]

7.5K likes now and just over 150 dislikes... getting more views and likes!

[@GrowingGraycefully]

Awesome story! I explanted Dec. 2019 and feel AMAZING! I can't believe I had implants for over 17 years. Makes me cringe now that I think about it. Congratulations on your success story.

[@laceymarie9671]

Congratulations on your explant and taking your health back!!! Cheers to the rest of our lives!

[@oldsoul2701]

I've had mine for 26 yrs as of April 4th this year. Never stopped to think my hair loss,low energy and severe joint pain is from my implants. They've become extremely hard. Very painful for mammograms.

[@michaelh7527]

@@oldsoul2701 Maybe you have thyroid issues. Thyroid issues cause all of those symptoms.

[@janedoll3237]

@@oldsoul2701 I think they need to be replaced every ten years anyway. If they’ve become hard than that’s definitely a problem.

[@lindsey1051]

@@janedoll3237 Don't know who you've heard that from? my sister's surgeon when asked said they can last 30 years or more if no untoward symptoms/ problems and she has had them in 28 years now no issues

[@mayahzo7619]

She is so strong to have gone through that. I wish doctors would be more serious about this matter. There are also plenty of youtubers who have removed their implants because they were making them sick.

[@michaelh7527]

How does this make her strong? I hear that a lot. Couple incisions and pull them out.... It's not like you are going through a 8 hour surgery and 6 months physical therapy.

[@laliday]

@@michaelh7527 You're a man you'd never understand.

[@michaelh7527]

@@laliday Oh wow, you really hit the nail on the head with that wonderful explanation! I am a man, so therefore I am not capable of understanding anything or possibly having a good or valid opinion 👍👍👍 God help anyone who is dating you or worse 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️. You seem like the type of person who needs detailed instructions on how to use a roll of charmin 🤦‍♂️

[@janedoll3237]

@@michaelh7527 they were referring to the mental strength it took to overcome amputation. We’re all made of flesh and blood, it could be you one day, why not show a little more empathy?

[@aqueen4006]

Thank you for sharing. I’m going through the same thing. I had textured saline implants implanted at the age of 19, 2 years ago I found out the implants were recalled because of bia-alcl- a (cancer of the immune system )I’m now 31 and started to feel the same symptoms of bii around the age 28 after having 2 children.. I blamed it on chasing the kids around just being tired and exhausted having small headaches , sometimes anxiety , joint pain (maybe I’m using my hands too much with household mom duties.) but no.. I’ve decided to make an appointment to have them exchanged , but then realized I’m just gonna have the same problem with a different implant down the road. I have an appointment April 6 to have them explanted completely.. I can’t wait to start feeling better and get my life back! Any implant made of plastic is poison and foreign to the body and it slowly kills ! Please be aware. Learn from our stories !!

[@_Everyone__]

Bravo. good luck!

[@AndromedaChace]

Update?

[@Zee-ob1pe]

@Flowerlover * textured are more likely to have this problem. Find out which one u have , call ur surgeon .

[@mari2710br]

Implants don't even look good in my opinion...You look amazing, so confident and true to yourself!

[@sashagumbs09]

Wow this almost brought me to tears! Thanks for sharing your story! Praying for healing! Wanted to get an augmentation and now I definitely will work on just loving myself a little more.

[@laceymarie9671]

This makes me SO happy!!! YES!!! Love yourself! And then find a new level to LOVE yourself even more.

[@sashagumbs09]

Love that❤️ Thanks once again!

[@revekat2053]

I wonder sometimes if this has something to do with why Wendy Williams is so sick.

[@tamidanklefs-lott4487]

Thank you for sharing your story Queen!! Beautiful presentation 👏 After almost 18years with implants and 16 years of severe illness that literally took living of my life away... and countless hours at a gazillion specialists...and NO help from then whatsoever....I too had a friend that introduced me to a BII group on FB and I explanted Feb 17th!🎉👏 Still working on my road to recovery and healing but I can breathe full breaths, hallelujah 🙌

[@pollacksharman0147]

Hello how are you doing 👋👋☺️☺️

[@gsthompson4592]

I found your semi short story on my journey today to overcome grieve after several yrs of being paralyzed. I'm happy to have met you. You are in your recovery journey. You are very courageous and I applaud you. Good luck on your Happiness Journey Lacey.

[@minicadivnica7874]

Dear Lacey, you are an incredibly feminine woman! What you did here and how you did it deserves deep and utter respect. Your children are truly blessed to have a mom like you. Thank you for being you. It's a wonderful inspiration! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Ana-qw2zv]

This was so emotional. Every girl should see this before planning any incision.

[@lifewithsulmy7504]

$9,000 well spent for my husband and I. I had them out on 1/3/2020 and I feel like I did before the implants. Life is amazing 👏 I thought Christmas 2019 was my last Christmas, that's how horrible it felt to be alive.

[@annettebeavers9710]

How did you choose your Dr?

[@lifewithsulmy7504]

@@annettebeavers9710 I live in Southern California I saw a fb page about it and looked at the list of doctors many women had used and liked. Look for a group on FB I don't have a FB anymore 😕 sorry I can't help more. Also make sure that they are taking out the capsule too, not many doctors want to but the ones that do know what they are doing. Be selective and skip whoever doesn't make you feel comfortable. I went through 3 doctors before I found the right one for me.

[@recoveringsoul755]

jan 3rd is when I had one removed for cancer, and followed with reconstruction. It's never going to match but I do like having something there. And if you arent' thin like she is it will look funny to have nothing

[@lifewithsulmy7504]

@@recoveringsoul755 I'm sorry sorry you've had to go through that. Yeah if you're not thin it might look different but I was so sickly that I didn't care anymore what I would look like, my quality of life was non existent and I had two toddlers that needed me.

[@annettebeavers9710]

@@lifewithsulmy7504 Thank You

[@freakygirl26]

I have always been super self-conscious about mine because they are probably A- low B (on a good day). I, like many others, felt that femininity was somehow connected to how big/appealing they were. I am so glad I watched this talk. It shows clearly you mean and feel what you say.

[@magicalpatterns]

I thought this happened to me. I took them out and it wasn’t that what caused my illness. It was mold in my house. But I’m happy I don’t have those toxic bags in me. This lady is so brave to share this. Thank you for saving lives with your story 💎

[@laurebourgeois7256]

What were your symptoms? Was the mold visible or hidden?

[@Canadianforestfairy]

Same! Did you do a detox? I still feel not myself and very tired. Finally moved out a week ago❤️

[@Canadianforestfairy]

@@laurebourgeois7256 swollen sinuses, tired all the time, woke up feeling like i was over 90 every muscle so sore, brain fog, depression, anxiety, rashes

[@relaxation-Corner]

@@Canadianforestfairy fid it go away when you left the house?

[@Canadianforestfairy]

@@relaxation-Corner it got better, but I definitely still feel it (my sinuses swell up), and if Im near mold i react really strongly. Apparently detoxing from mold takes a long time

[@inwonderwoman]

Thank You. I have BII and finally got a consultation and tentative explant date for August !!!!! 🙏✨ You were SO beautiful and Strong and very brave, for us going on Tedx! I love you so much, Thank You! 🥰👏👏💕 💕😘😘✨🙏✨🙏🕊 Your Boys are SO blessed to have such an incredible Momma. I am so happy you are here and alive for them and remarried and and and!!!🙌💕 God bless you!

[@AdrenalineJackie]

How are you feeling??? I'm explanting in 2 weeks!

[@laceymarie9671]

@@AdrenalineJackie I am feeling fantastic. It can take time! I am a year out from my 2nd surgery and really seeing some improvements.

[@Teal_Seal]

I’m flat - finding tops and dresses that look nice are a challenge! Haha I often shop in the juniors dept. I’ve always wished I were a little bigger, more in proportion (my rear is ample), but it’s not worth the risk or expense. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@knightsalmon42]

Just love yourself the way you are and don't entertain people who don't.

[@drawntofashionillustration9596]

Find a good tailor. A simple dart can do wonders.

[@glitter_w]

she says femininity comes from inside but at the same time she is about to burst into a cry... she actually knows how femininity is important, but I want to give a big applause for her courage and strong will to overcome all the pain she's been through

[@Lea-zf8zy]

well it is actually mostly because of other people who tells ''boobs make women more attractive'' ''i love big boobs small boobs are not attractive.'' ''women with big boobs and hips are best'' those stuff really affect women a lot and they feel insecure.

[@gia9551]

Nah bro she’s doing a huge speech for a big audience about a really hard time in her life. That’s where the emotion comes from

[@carly582]

Um shes talking about the doctors literally telling her to start planning her funeral...

[@mediokritet]

You know it is possible to hold two seemingly opposing thoughts- grief over the loss of a body part and it not defining femininity 👍

[@pepperjack6749]

I don’t think I’ve ever seen a bigger badass in my life. Unimaginable respect!

[@GillianBerry]

💯

[@j.w.2690]

Thank you so much! Such a strong woman! You're a hero! I want to remove my implants as soon as possible! I love how it looks, but I hate how it feels. I'm 29 years old an feel sick. Every day. Stop to try being perfect! I want to be real, I want to be me again! Greetings from Hamburg/Germany

[@DR-gg4zp]

I had mind removed as well due to being so ill. This issue is REAL!

[@angelpilot9081]

Glad I saw this. I'm not getting them anymore

[@gracie99999]

and beside what some say that it’s for them and not for anything else? um why not focus on tings that’s are causing you to change what’s beautiful whatever it be and we all have flaws even models need help. so why we all not waitin in line for next fix? age in women wit lines and all is beautiful and it’s the flaws when combined wit less flawed make you! it’s like a apple lie let’s say~you would tink fresh apples nice ripe good?! or the old ones? but any pro pie maker will tell you it’s the right combination of them two that creates that almost perfection!

[@gabriellsbaby]

We easily blame men for having an expectation...a desire, a fantasy. It is us as women who are at fault for buying into that, teaching our girls that there is a standard of beauty and we are not it unless we dye it, cut it, implant it, fill it stretch it, remove it, squeeze into it, starve. It has to stop, we are the only ones who can say "nope" we are the only ones who can say "this is the standard of beauty, kindness, a healthy body that I cherish for its perfect imperfections, the love I have inside me, my thoughts, my mind, my vision, my accomplishments, my dreams..." Don't be afraid ladies, don't be afraid young women, don't be fooled little girls, you deserve to be loved and cherished just the way you are.

[@Becky_Cal]

Excellent point and advice. This is the same reason I’ve been single for 15+ years and don’t date. Sure, I’ve had short flings here and there but I’ve learned that sadly, most men are poison. Many women whose reach the age of 100+ and are happy, healthy and vibrant either divorced young and never remarried or have never been married. There’s something to be said about what men do to women’s mental & physical health. Therefore, if you can only attract men if you fit their idea of what’s beautiful, screw them. Do what makes you happy & don’t worry about “attracting” men. They’re not worth the time. Trust me. ☺️

[@MP-rv7td]

My eyes are focused on your beautiful face . You are beautiful inside and out . Thank you for sharing

[@laceymarie9671]

THANK YOU 💖

[@marial3231]

Yes she is gorgeous.

[@jaxinesaunders1535]

She's really beautiful on the inside and out.

[@AndreyGuild]

Cause boobs don't matter and face does? Is that what you are saying?

[@MP-rv7td]

When i talk to someone i talk to their face not their chest or boobs🤦‍♀️. Likewise, when someone talks to me, I will look them in their face instead of their boobs. In her case, She has a beautiful face and I find myself admiring her face.

[@harrieth7954]

This is what a warrior is...I have chills...Amazing and beautiful lady!!

[@juliejones4759]

You are a beautiful woman. Stand tall and brave and proud my lovely. I had a double mastectomy in 2005 due to cancer at the age of 35. I have been asked constantly “ why do you not want implants?” Because I am who I am, boobs are not who I am! Keep on going lady and thank you from Coventry in England. Xxx

[@leonieschmidt7110]

Lacey thank you for sharing! I'm going to share to spread the word. Implants ruined my health too and it's women like you sharing their story that encouraged me to get mine out. You are a powerful lady. Hug those children tight x

[@laceymarie9671]

XOXOXO thank you and sending you light and love! I hope your health is improving. Please do share this and share it often... sharing stories is how we can help others 💗

[@lisawyckoff7070]

I had my implants for about 7 yrs. Regretted it the moment I woke up from surgery and wanted them out. Finally did in 2019. I felt the same as you when I woke up from explant surgery.....I CAN BREATHE!

[@alexmartin104]

I got implants at age 22, we had a good run but now at 32 after my first baby, I’m over them! I want them out. But it’s more to remove them and lift them, than to put them on. But really ANYTHING you out into your body decomposes... you just don’t know how it’s going to affect you.

[@katemoonkate]

I removed mine after 10 years. They never gave me happiness or femininity, or helped me with male partners. I feel better now.

[@YogaHippie70]

At 32 in 2002 I had saline implants, going from a flat 32A to a 32D. I did a lot of research and learned silicone implants can cause these issues. I don’t know that saline causes these issues. I love my implants but honestly now at 52 I would not have implants. I understand so much more now about life. If I thought I had any cancer both will be taken, not taking chances. If that happens I will have a beautiful tattoo that my friends husband does for women from all over the world. Shane Wallin Tattoo. He’s awesome. So happy for you coming through this experience and sharing with women. 💗

[@meganseals2703]

I am getting mine out next month. I regret my decision to get them every day. So tired of being in constant pain.

[@Pinkles666]

Hope it went well for you.

[@ThatPaliRN]

I pray you have a speedy recovery

[@Monica.r7]

Wow! Such a Warrior and beautiful lady!!! God bless!! ❤️🙏🏻

[@laceymarie9671]

Thank you!!!! Feel free to share and help spread awareness!!!

[@natalecolasanti6440]

This is amazing. Your story and courage are so empowering. I just explanted Wednesday and this just reaffirms my decision. I am so thankful you're able to watch your boys grow! Kudos, Lacey! You're one stunningly beautiful, strong, smart lady! ❤👊🏼👏🏼🙏🏼

[@map3364]

Gutsy, tough, beautiful and inspiring woman. So glad she’s feeling better.

[@neelamchauhan1604]

The prime goal is to have a body which is healthy , a good physique should be a by product of good health ,and certainly not something u do at the cost of your wellness ...proud of you ❤️

[@elisangelacamargo4477]

God bless you, honey. You’re a beautiful soul. A gorgeous woman. Thank you so much for spreading the word.

[@deniseposton5675]

For me changing out my silicone implants (after 20 years of severe headaches and food sensitivities) for saline was all I needed. Within 2 weeks the headaches were gone and I saw the food issues start to subside. But I can certainly relate to what she has gone through and her struggle to find doctors that care and listen. Kudos to her for her amazing strength.

[@annagarcia2790]

What do you mean saline was all you needed

[@deniseposton5675]

@@annagarcia2790 I had the silicone implants removed and replaced with saline filled implants.

[@bethguerrera6715]

A Beautiful woman, Thank you for speaking. Because of this video, I started putting the pieces together for a 12 year battle with unknown health issues.

[@ms.reezee4415]

She made me cry 😢, she is beautiful 💖

[@EMuro-wu7uy]

This is amazing to see the bravery and openness. I've had to start over after losing all of my family. I never had children. After losing my husband I've been told you should have a child, I've been told all kinds of mean and negative things. But it's important to live your life, on your terms. Health is important. Beauty is not subject to one thing. Doing what is best for yourself.

[@LLK1169]

Bravo! Thank you for sharing your story with transparency, clarity and grace. Thank you for getting the word about BII out there. You look fabulous!!!

[@laceymarie9671]

thank you thank you thank you!!!

[@laceymarie9671]

THANK YOU

[@bunnycat4153]

Wait, she can just go completely shirtless now like NBD, huh??? DUDE! How freaking liberating!!!! Wow! That’s definitely a major perk!

[@meeras.g8087]

Madam you look so beautiful and radiant. Nothing matters before your courageous personality.

[@MillieVF]

Wow...thank you so much for this video. I never knew that life-threatening illness from implants was a concern.

[@lynellroberts5895]

Thank you for sharing in our group. I’m 8 days out from explant and know it’s the best decision I’ve ever made. I pray this gets out to more and more. 🙏🏻😊

[@pollacksharman0147]

Hello how are you doing 👋👋☺️😀👋

[@lindabaldwin3261]

My heart goes out to her. She vulnerable and hurt from incompetent doctors that will destroy your complete life. I am happy she able to help some may need help.

[@l76343]

You are amazing & so brave. thank you so much for sharing your amazing story! My explant was 6 weeks ago and it was the best decision I have made this year.

[@laceymarie9671]

HOORAY!!! that makes me so happy!!! Happy Healing!

[@janejohnstone5795]

Beauty is within yourself...and shines through..

[@lolawolfcharlie9770]

Instead of blaming others we need to teach young women to be educated, self confident, and responsible. Teach young women do be independent to have confidence, to take care of their bodies and soul . We need to take responsibility for our own actions .Stop blaming others.

[@ambercorsetti2348]

Wow, well done, Lacey! You are a pillar of strength, beauty, and grace from the depths of your being, outward. I always leave your barre class SO uplifted and a foot taller. :) Thank you for sharing your story, for being a shining leader for all of us, in owning our health to live this life in the fullest degree!❤️

[@laceymarie9671]

AWE Amber thank you!!! Reading this made my day 💗

[@johanaotalvaroloaiza7095]

You're so brave!!!! Thank you so much for encouraging us❤️💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

[@laceymarie9671]

Thank you!!! You are so welcome!!! Feel free to share to help spread awareness!!!

[@user-ct7yr5mq5t]

Sending Love ❤ i got mine removed 5 days ago because i was sick too! I only had them 8 months, but the symptoms started after 3 weeks. It was the best desicion i‘ve made to remove them and i‘m so thankfull that i was able to!!!! Wish you all the best and i‘m so proud of you for making this video! Stay strong. Sarah from Austria

[@johnbacaris8406]

How awesome! You have helped so many women with bringing this subject into the light! You are an awesome and powerful women of God! This is a awesome video! Thank you for posting!

[@laceymarie9671]

Thank you 💗 I pray women & men are open and ready to hear this message!

[@KarlaYoutube]

God bless her and bless every woman going through it.

[@vivavita3769]

The same thing happened to me after metal on metal hip implants and again after a titanium tooth implant. I had to figure out the cause on my own. No help at all from numerous doctors.

[@noriherrera4603]

Hello I have teeth implants and planning some more. Can you tell me what side effects do you experience with the titanium? Thank you.

[@destinywilliams5763]

I racked up thousands of dollars of ER visits and specialists. All my friends said it was all in my head. I dropped them all! I removed mine the best decision I ever made of my LIFE!

[@gretas950]

Great talk, so moving. You are so beautiful in every way possible! It's insane what us women have to suffer through in this life. I wasn't actively planning on getting surgery, but in the back of my mind it has always been a vague possibility. Definitely not anymore

[@lee-ann1589]

So powerful! I hope this reaches every woman who considers implants. Thank you so much for your bravery and for sharing so honestly. You are a warrior!!