TEEN TAKES OWN LIFE - Then They Destroy her Gravestone. A STORY OF HOPE from Garfield Cemetery in IL

3 Days after Quincee finally received her long awaited gravestone, thugs ran it over with their car and crushed it.
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Quincee was blessed with beauty, talent, love, and laughter that unfortunately she and the world sometimes couldn't see. She loved all the good times with family and friends, which will become cherished memories, loved poetry, art, and photography, liked being unique and had a great sense of humor. Her smile or laugh was contagious and could lighten the darkest places. She was the most giving and caring person and had a love for animals, nature and people.
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The Angel face you see is the Haserot, named “The Angel of Death Victorious". The stoic angel is seated on the marble gravestone of canning entrepreneur Francis Haserot and his family. Holding an extinguished torch upside-down, it represents a symbol of life extinguished. Wings are outstretched and the gaze is straight ahead.
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[@blythemiller5693]

A little back story on Quincee’s headstone. Quincee was an artist so I knew she needed a monument that was special. I found a company in Memphis that specializes in unique headstones. I took a trip there and they designed her stone perfectly. I wasn’t in a hurry I wanted it to be perfect. I knew I wasn’t able to send her to college or pay for her wedding so this purchase was all of those things plus everything else she wouldn’t be her to experience… very sad 😢 The day the headstone was hit the Wagners and my family were on our annual Dylan and Quincee trip (Disney World that year) my first response was pure sadness but after much thought I figured whoever did hit it must really be going through something and all I could do was pray they would get help. I’m pretty sure it was someone she knew that didn’t know how to cope with their emotions. In the end I went through the hardest thing in the world losing my daughter. A stone can be fixed but she cannot be brought back. We fixed her original headstone… just the way it was before. She will continue to be loved and missed every second of every day. All money collected will go to her and Dylan’s scholarship fund. We choose a student that share a story of hope and overcoming something horrible in their life. These students share real life horrible things that have happened to them and share with us how they overcame them. Our first recipient just graduated from veterinarian school 👍

[@FacesoftheForgotten]

Thanks for taking time out and writing Blythe. Quincee is very special, and in our hearts, It was an honor for me to tell part of her story. God Bless you. -- Ron

[@FacesoftheForgotten]

Blythe-- a heads up: We disable the Comments section now, typically, two weeks after an episode airs. In case you wanted to copy and save the comments. I am thinking you probably won't....but just in case, I thought I would let you know. There are many many amazing thoughts from people all over the world...well, almost all of the comments are. Stay safe. Ron

[@KimberlyLew]

I love you turned around the thinking of her stone being vandalized. You have a lovely soul. And it’s wonderful you have set up a scholarship fund. A great way to honor her life and help others. I’m so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful child. ♥️

[@haleighrhaea]

I love you, mama♥️

[@carinabella3393]

All my love & blessings to you, Blythe ♥️

[@blythemiller5693]

Hello Ron, I am Quincee’s mom ❤️ I would like to say thank you for honoring my daughter in one of your videos. Although not all the information was accurate I thought you did a good job with the information you were given. I have come to terms with 11 years later and everyone that was knew and loved Quincee has a different story to tell about her. The Wagners (Dylan’s family)and my family are on our annual Quincee and Dylan trip. (Hawaii this year) We watched this video together and all had mixed reviews… we are the mama bears protecting our kids. All and all you did a nice tribute to her and who she was as a person. Our children are missed every second of every day and loved so much by so many. Losing her changed my whole life. I have learned through the years to live life, love always, and try not to judge others. That’s what Quincee taught me… to be a better person ❤️💔

[@FacesoftheForgotten]

Thank you. Did my best. I understand. I am glad that, in the end, you approve. Although not perfect. All my best to you. Her memory will live on in my heart, and also with my family.

[@sheriweathers9248]

🙏 prayers of comfort for you and your family.

[@Witchofthewoods.]

❤️

[@kennydemartini2169]

I'm sorry for your loss, and I know your pain. I lost my sixteen-year-old son to suicide 21 months ago. Though I haven't learned to live my life again yet, I have become a better person by helping others. I honored my son by doing a scholarship in his name for two of his classmates last year. I miss him dearly, he was my buddy. I wear his socks, carry his wallet, sleep with his pillows and drive his car. I think about him many times every day.

[@belmum1689]

I am so sorry for your loss, I lost my big sister in early 2010 to cancer at 34, she had a daughter a bit older than Quincee, I am sure my sister and Quincee are together.

[@haleighrhaea]

Hey all, I am her friend H.Rhaea! I'm reading some comments of your own testimonies, and would like to say for what it's worth: I AM SO GLAD YOU ARE HERE!! You deserve all of the happiness in the world. Keep treating yourself with patience... it will all be okay and worth it.

[@KimberlyLew]

My condolences to you🌼. Quincee is a beautiful soul & her story is deeply touching us all. Maybe this video & comments will help - if only just one hurting heart. Thank you for sharing your love for Quincee with us. ♥️

[@haleighrhaea]

@@pippadot679 Thank you so much for your warm welcome. ♥️🌻

[@haleighrhaea]

@@KimberlyLew Thank you so much for your kind words. 🌻

[@robthetindog8218]

I was bullied in school; even by the teachers. I came close to ending it myself.I can so relate to this. I had a friend that did commit suicide at 17 (October 1972); she was smart, talented, pretty, loved horses & was one of the nicest people I’ve ever met. She was one of the few that didn’t tease me; she was very popular, but went out of her way to befriend me. It’s been 49 years almost to the day, & as I write this I’m crying & missing Elaine still. This is a very real problem; made worse by social media. I’m almost certain that if Facebook etc had been around then, I would have joined her in tragedy. Thanks for sharing this. Ppl if you see someone showing these signs please, PLEASE! do something, anything to help them! Sometimes all it takes is a kind word

[@KimberlyLew]

Elaine was a very special person it seems. And so are you!

[@Barnabas45]

So was I in the 70's, Sad the teachers did nothing about it or even joined in!

[@sachifrances5195]

Had a few teachers who were actually ringleaders when it came to bullying.

[@Mavis308]

@@Barnabas45 In the 80’s, it wasn’t better. Teachers and administrators didn’t care, I was bullied in Middle School from 1987-1989.

[@Barnabas45]

@@Mavis308 Yep, It wasn't pleasant, It got to the point where I never went to school and I ended up getting sent to a juvenile detention center for 5 months for of all things Skipping school, I ended up quitting school when I turned 16, I did manage to get my G.E.D, I met some of these bullies later in life and they were all losers! I couldn't believe I let these total losers push me around!

[@amfwelsh]

As a funeral director I constantly see the after effects of someone who just can’t cope anymore, and seeing the broken families in front of me is so so tragic. More needs to be done for these youngsters.

[@KimberlyLew]

I agree

[@rubysparrow2975]

Bless you for always trying to help the families. I know our director was wonderful to all of us and thankfully always had a tissue on hand. He was truly a kind person through our emotional grief. Thank you for being strong enough to help the hardest time people go through in this process. It is the funeral director and funeral home that can make all the difference in our memories. You take care and good night.

[@amfwelsh]

@@rubysparrow2975 thank you. I always try to be human and connect with families and just gently guide them through an awful time.

[@juaquiene7726]

Ant Flynt. You sir would have a riveting affect on an auditorium full of mid schoolers. On the effects of suicide. You'll never know of the lives your efforts may save. Cause you opened the minds of those to know the signs of depression and where to get help.

[@amfwelsh]

@Avalon 2 sometimes working in a funeral home we think we are just doing our job. And many times after the funeral has taken place we get gifts and cards from the families or even an email of thanks. That blows my mind every single time. It’s a super rewarding occupation.

[@tracyt.2534]

Thank you for purchasing headstones for people who don’t have one!! I didn’t know that!! Bless her heart ♥️!! So sad for both of them!! That one is even more lovelier than the one she had.

[@juaquiene7726]

Tracy the first one was put up by Quincee's family. It took her mother 3 years to afford the one she selected for her daughter. It was attacked and destroyed in short time. Yes it was sweet a friend of Quincee's started a Go Fund me. To replace the original. It wasn't the friends money that bought it. It was the donation of many. No disrespect to the friend and those that donated. However there is no comparison on the value of the headstones. The original one placed there by her loving family. That raised her, loved her and took care of her all the years of her life Far out weighs the value of the replacement. It's not always just about the $$$ or how fancy it is. Some of us value love on a far higher scale..

[@blythemiller5693]

It is the original headstone… they were able to fix it ❤️

[@carrieannkouri2151]

That's pathetic bullying disrespect can happen even after someone is gone. Thank you for sharing this story.

[@savhannawilson9336]

When my parents separated I got way more depressed. I already had depression because of bullying at school. I tried several times to take my own life and it never worked. Tell one day I was almost successful but I heard my dads truck and the garage door open so I stopped and I went and hung out with my dad in the garage well he worked on one of our jet skies we had. I think god everyday my dad came home when he did because if he didn’t I probably wouldn’t be here right now writing this. I’m so grateful for everything that my parents do for me I’m so glad that I get to wake up every day and live❤️

[@KimberlyLew]

I’m glad you’re here, too!!!

[@savhannawilson9336]

@@KimberlyLew ❤️

[@aprilforrett7081]

You are alive for a reason I'm so glad you didn't end your life

[@oanaelena4001]

So sad and so unfair! Too young to die, and kids need to know that there is a whole world out there to discover, beyond petty bullying. I like how you pointed out this is a story of hope! Quincee is definitely not forgotten!

[@debrarodriguez32]

@@pamelaraney4654 prayers

[@patriley5136]

How christ like bullies are they are so full of Christian love. (Sarcasm)

[@patriley5136]

@@pamelaraney4654 I have nothing but dusgust and disdain for bullies.

[@debbiebutler3815]

Quincy was a beautiful girl. How could anyone run over her grave May Quincy Rest In Peace ✝️✝️😢😢♥️♥️🌹🌹

[@kristic4472]

they were probably her bullies

[@muffassa6739]

That was so horrible what happened to her. Then for someone to treat her grave that way. Yes I bet it was her bullies may she RIP

[@juaquiene7726]

Something good can be accomplished here. Get enough people talking about this act of cruel vandalism. Will leave tongues wagging. Hope the purpotraitors who did this will just turn themselves in. Then face the music. That would be better then facing vigilantes justice.

[@Willow_508_]

Here in Australia we have Dolly's dream,a foundation set up after dolly Everett ,a young teen,was ridiculed on social media,not only by kids but by adults. Bullied online. R I P Quincy.. Beautiful headstone. Hope their are cameras now 🦋❤️

[@Charlotte66666]

How awful that people would destroy her original stone,I'm very glad that it was able to be replaced ❤

[@suzannaandrea4306]

I could cry

[@sheilabock466]

This episode hits close to home for me. Lost my son in 2019 from suicide by hanging. A good kid with a big heart that was overwhelmed by social media and what others thought of him. Only sign I got was the the text "I love you" the morning of the day he passed. I truly believe that self worth and basic respect for others should be a class requirement in schools and the younger the better. Beautiful cemetery and profound episode. Thank you sir.

[@marymathews8421]

My sincere sympathy for the loss of your son.

[@KimberlyLew]

I’m so very sorry 😔

[@beatrice135]

Sending you love and light.

[@darlahurst8359]

Sorry to hear about the loss of your son...

[@haleighrhaea]

Thank you for sharing. ♥️ I agree with you. Also- a bigger emphasis on tge importance of mental health.

[@mandyparsons9593]

So sad that social media brings out such terrible nastiness instead of the greatness it could. RIP Quincy

[@Cruella_DG]

I can’t understand how anyone can destroy a grave site/ headstone. Not just the disrespect toward the dead, but mostly their loved ones who are left behind with the difficult journey through the grieving process. It’s like insult to injury when someone invades or destroy that. I also like to wander through graveyards, especially older ones with some history. I find a real sense of peacefulness. It’s nice to think of it’s residents, however they died, that they may be at peace now. I’m in Australia and really enjoy your videos. Thank you for sharing 😌

[@chrismc410]

This is why bullying that results in suicide should be charged with capital murder. Meets all the requirements: malice and forethought. Only thing different is the weapon used. Ill-feelings, ostracization, being an outcast all can kill as surely as a bullet under the right conditions. They killed that girl the same as if they picked up a gun and pulled the trigger themselves. They should face the same punishment if one plans the killing of someone and carries it out, be it killing directly or indirectly. There are only two punishments for Capital Murder: Life Without Parole or Capital Punishment aka The Death Penalty by one of three methods: Lethal Injection, Hanging or Shooting via Firing Squad. If a future bully tries to drive a victim to suicide and knows if caught he faces Life Without Parole or a Death Sentence, he might think twice about it.

[@whatta62]

Kids being xtoopid. Has always happened. Nothing new. R.I.P. Quincee.

[@susansparanormalpennsylvan81]

BOWMAN's CEMETERY in calcutta, ohio, some vandals knocked over about 20 headstones, it was in the newspaper, whoever did it, i hope they are haunted by the ghosts of the graves they destroyed

[@whatta62]

@@susansparanormalpennsylvan81 I hope they are, Susan. Haunted...

[@patriley5136]

@@chrismc410 suicide is murder by proxy.

[@SteveFlanigan]

In my mind I put my arm around Quincee and whisper, "It will be alright." I hope she hears and understands.

[@priscllamccain1423]

You are certainly a good hearted Irishman. We Irish have kind hearts❤️

[@joyful_tanya]

I grew up very near to here. I also struggled with depression and anxiety back in the 1980s. I tried at 17 years old. I am 54 and I am very glad (even though life is difficult) I didn't succeed. Things do get different if they don't get better. Please get help and don't end your life. Rest in peace dear Quincee. Prayers for the family. (Edit: If anyone feels led to share their story to help those struggling with depression, suicidal thoughts, etc and even possibly helping Quincee's family and others who have lost someone in this manner please comment! Love and hugs to everyone who reads this. 😘)

[@pbostler]

I praise the Lord you are alive. 😃. [I'll be 55 next month. ]

[@joyful_tanya]

@@pbostler thank you so much. I had praying grandparents. I believe that is the only reason I am. God bless you and keep you.

[@pbostler]

@@joyful_tanya Awe so welcome and yes , praying grandparents! Aman. We lift up our kids and grandkids daily. 😃. The Lord Jesus keep you close😃.

[@angelbasham6631]

Amen

[@4crazycathy]

Glad your with us Tanya! 🌹💋♥️

[@susanlundy857]

My daughter is a psych nurse practitioner I have seen her cry over her patients and it’s sometimes hard to distance her self from them

[@melissaholt5731]

Yes Ron, this is a big issue with our teens today. The cyber bulling the social media, this generation is dependable on friends on social media, the covid being locked down is how they would interact with each other for at least a year. Sad, very sad.

[@melissaholt5731]

@@cherylschantz9893 Yes , sad thing.

[@elainebines6803]

I know Prince William is trying to raise awareness of this social media problem which is horrific for our teenagers...

[@ashleywilcoxfotfmod]

This is so unbelievably sad. That could have easily been me in high school. I can’t imagine what her friends and family are going through. May her beautiful soul live on and touch everyone’s lives 🖤

[@denahoward10]

This is a heartbreaking story 😢. Ron you are so caring and tells the stories so well she has her angel wings now. 😇😇🌸

[@nadiabrook7871]

@@pippadot679 AMEN to that!! XXXX♥️

[@ephtea614]

I always think, when hearing these sad suicide stories, that the heartache will hit the bullies also one day when they mature and have kids of their own. They will reflect on their behavior and the guilt and sorrow will hit them. Some kids, young adults can be the most unempathetic monsters sometimes.

[@KimberlyLew]

Karma 😉

[@sherladixon2842]

Such a sad story in the respect that she didn’t see any other way out of her depression. God bless her family and friends

[@elizabethanna]

Why would someone be so cold hearted as to do that to her grave thats so terrible 😞

[@ernestinemaloy8680]

Elizabeth Anne ikr ...believe me , the spirits protect the dead I can promise you they are pestering these morons for their disrepect...I would not want to be them...I don't get it...why would they destroy her fucking headstone ...???? They didn't know that girl...ignorance is one thing but this is an act of pure hate...but again ...WHY....???? AS A 2X SURVIVOR OF ATTEMPTED SUICIDE I UNDERSTAND HER PAIN....RIP QUINCY...UR BEAUTIFUL....

[@woodstock69girl55]

@@ernestinemaloy8680 because they are evil,I hope she haunts them.

[@grandmama05]

So sad. Breaking up with boyfriend must have pushed her over the edge.

[@cissyiniguez]

Too bad their parents did that, having each other was probably the thing that was keeping them holding on and then they took it away

[@susancarden749]

I cannot understand anyone who destroys headstones, it just gives their love ones more pain and grief with their loss, Rest In Peace Quincee.

[@Lcalvert66]

I teared up watching this video! It angers me that some imbecile(s) vandalized this girls grave! My heart hurts for this mother, but knowing people got together and gave this girl a new headstone gives me a glimmer of hope that there are still good and decent people out there! Thank you Ron!

[@Lauren-dm4it]

Love your story telling abilities. Always makes me feel like I’m walking beside you while you tell the story.

[@maryaliceoconnor687]

Even in death bullies don't stop. They will be bullies all their life. Thank you friends for replacing her stone. RIP beautiful girl.

[@rochelleb973]

Sick and disgusting. What kind of subhumans would be so disrespectful

[@TommyTheCat42]

This hits hard for me. I’ve lost a couple good friends to suicide in high school. Soon after high school I met my wife, the absolute love of my life! After 10 years of abuse I couldn’t take the lying, cheating, or beatings anymore I broke up with her. Soon after I came home to find her hanging in the basement... I’ve had adults harassing me on FB blaming me for her death! Thank you Ron for bringing this to light, more attention needs to be brought to this subject.

[@FacesoftheForgotten]

hey send me an email, lost your email address. thx

[@TommyTheCat42]

@@FacesoftheForgotten Done! Thanks for the love

[@TommyTheCat42]

@@Regina0964 Thank you Regina, that means a lot... I agree 100%! Nobody should be blamed & these people mean nothing to me. I’ll always feel some guilt for her death that I’ve been struggling with for years, but ultimately I know it was her decision!

[@SerenitySueGraveyards]

Wow Tommythecat sorry to hear that ❤

[@TommyTheCat42]

@@sylviamoreno687 Thank you Sylvia, I’m glad to hear your son is doing well... I do believe she felt the guilt of what she did to me then realized it was too late to fix it. When my wife passed away it was only weeks after I lost my mom, your son is fortunate to have you to lean on when life turns upside down. My mom was all I wanted when my wife passed, it made everything so much worse!

[@kathylivedinthe80s14]

What a beautiful stone. I can’t understand the mindset of some people that would destroy a headstone.

[@RhettyforHistory]

I have never seen a turnstile in a cemetery. I see they made it out of pipes but I wonder what the thinking on that was. What a Sarandon tragic story. I think today's youth have to deal with so much more than we did just because of the social media presence.

[@FacesoftheForgotten]

turnstile a first for me too. maybe back then they were counting how many people were coming and going...hmm.

[@babygirlzmommy]

I originally thought maybe it was something installed after the car ran her headstone over, so that no vehicles could get in, but then I saw the other way in by that path you showed, so I really don't know now

[@Emphasis213]

Maybe the turnstile has a symbolic meaning.

[@Carolbearce]

Thank you for bring us this story. I remember how difficult the high school years were and they are nothing like they are now. Thank goodness Facebook wasn’t around then. Well done Ron.

[@brendagray3112]

Yes FATHER GOD, build a fence for our children/ Thank YOU in advance🕊

[@sebastienbolduc5654]

I love the "Chillin with Jesus," on her stone. It reveals to us what kind of personality she had. A very beautiful monument for a very beautiful young lady. As for the tragedy of her and her boyfriend's life story, I'm lost for words. Despite the hurt her family felt when it was destroyed I hope they can view this one as an upgrade, instead of a replacement of the original. All the love and support from the donors was a sign from Quincee to her friends and family. It was more than just a sign. It was a sign carved in stone.

[@denisekinney1087]

This is the second time I have cried at one of your videos. So young, so beautiful, whole life ahead of her. She is Chillin' with Jesus I have never seen that before however it made my heart skip a beat! To me that is the second most memorable head stones you have shown us. She was love, and she is loved. Thank you Ron for sharing that with us.

[@glendafromaustralia1625]

Amazingly sad story repeated all over the world. Loveliest headstone for Quincy 🦘🦘🦘

[@mr.nibbles2369]

My daughter went through bullying very bad at a Catholic school and they blamed my daughter for this all over a boy, parents were like not our kids and she talked about cutting herself then wanted to commit suicide. This was at the age of 13 it took her over a year to bounce back. I'm here to say listen to your kids no matter what!!! DONT GIVE UP!! I myself am a survivor of suicide never give up

[@KimberlyLew]

🤗

[@sheilaghny1]

ty for sharing your truth

[@mr.nibbles2369]

@@sheilaghny1 if I can help anyone by telling my story I will keep telling it

[@krissarasexydiva1781]

Same here

[@candieevavold4937]

My daughter is a cutter. She hasn't had an episode in a couple of months, but we still have our knives locked up. She goes to therapy. It's so hard to watch our children go through this. Thank you for being there for your daughter.

[@robydaniels2318]

Thank You Ronn for bringing this to light! Had there been social media when I grew up, I wouldn't have made it. People and children can be cruel! I suffered greatly in school with bullies ect...took many decades after dropping out to become a whole person.

[@durwud8431]

Thank you wonderful moderators , I can be there in about a hour drive . Plan on taking her a nice turtle and pay my respects real soon, such a beauty what a shame 😪

[@KimberlyLew]

💛

[@deirdresullivan2177]

It's so tragic that young people think the only is to take their life,here in the North of Ireland 🇮🇪 it the highest its ever been,so much more needs to be done so young people can get the help they need at a time when they really need it 🙏

[@pamelawooten3251]

RIP beautiful lady. Thank you Ron.

[@elizabethsamways7624]

The cemeteries in the USA are so well kept . I wish I could say the same with the cemeteries in the UK. The stories you tell are all spoken with love and respect for these people. May you continue..🙏

[@yvellebradley2502]

What a gorgeous young woman. She must have been in so much pain and turmoil.

[@pegs1659]

I think she said hi to you with the pinwheel spinning. Its so sad when a person dies that way. RIP Quincee

[@motherbird1981]

She's dead so she isn't doing anything...it's called a breeze. You can see other things blowing in the breeze.

[@pegs1659]

@@motherbird1981 Good grief. Who are you to tell someone what they believe is wrong? I hope you got the wad in your drawers straightened out.

[@motherbird1981]

@@pegs1659 not me...it's what GOD says 😁

[@haleighrhaea]

Funnily enough, we had an inside joke about a pinwheel. I'll never forget it.

[@blythemiller5693]

If you have nothing nice to say then I would ask you not to say anything… keep your ignorant comments to yourself That’s what god would say!

[@robyntaylor7476]

If you do ever come to the UK, please visit the Bryntaf cemetery in Aberfan in South Wales. 144 victims from a horrific mine slurry heap were killed. Most were young children under 10 years of age.

[@proseb4bros976]

I'm so glad that you are covering such an imperative topic. I served as a AFSP Suicide Prevention Advocate on the state and federal level for many years. I am a survivor of suicide and have recently lost two dear friends to suicide. Mental illness has always been stigmatized so much that it's seen as shameful to ask for help. It's especially hard for young people. I hope this video helps someone in need. It's time we end the stigma around mental health and let it be know that life can get better...all you have to do is ask for help. 💜

[@Lorenzo12887]

This made me burst into tears I can't stop crying because it hits way too close to home for me. I remember being the exact same age as Quincee I was newly 15 when one night I decided to ingest a bottle of pills but luckily my dad found me because I went and hugged him and told him I loved him which I never did so I think he got suspicious. I got rushed to the hospital and had to drink liquid charcoal to get the pills out of me. I ended up dropping out of school because if it. I had just lost my mom the year before to a accidental drug overdose and my first boyfriend I thought I was in love with broke up with me so I decided I didn't wanna be here anymore and I wanted to go find my mom. That was 15 years ago and I now have 3 beautiful kids who I live for every day. I remember how sad I felt and I'm so very sorry this lovely young girl had to endure that type of pain. I can't imagine how her parents feel I hope they are doing well. She sounded like a beautiful soul who left this earth far too early. Rest in heaven Quincee your story will stick with me forever 💜

[@cindylouheart7571]

I tried to end my life when I was ten due to the abuse I got from male and female teachers at school. Our next door neighbors stop me when thay seen me hang a rope from my parents carport. As a teen I turned to alcohol to stop the memorys. Now i don't drink have great husband and adult children. Life is still hard. I have 3 children that were home school. I will never ever trust any teachers ever again.

[@pattycraven9222]

I watched you for the first time last weekend, thank you, I am already addicted! Keep it coming.

[@KimberlyLew]

Welcome to FoTF!

[@alandickerson3379]

Thank you for sharing this very heartbreaking story!

[@piratelady6467]

I agree - its so dis respectul to destroy the headstones of this poor young women - it's awful I lost a friend to suicide and cousin to drug over dose - I feel for the family

[@irishcountrygirl78]

There are no words, poor girl. Even after she is gone they come for her headstone. Awful carry on....such disrespect. So happy it's now replaced. As a mother of teens this scares me truly, especially with social media nowadays, nobody can hurt her anymore. Heart breaking. Rip sweet angel. ❤️

[@johnready630]

So sad. I'm a senior now and never had things like social media growing up. We played outside and interacted with other kids playing games and the like , never really worried about what others thought....we were kids all growing together . I wish kids today would go back to that just a bit , put those damn phones away and really get to know others in person , not just someone in the internet . It makes life real and on a whole different way then we see now. Sure we had bad times and good but we got thru those and continued to grow together , not listening to stuff on social media but in person . I so wish we could go back to those times , what a better place it would be.

[@louisespike9641]

First I'm going to say rip beautiful angel. Its so disgusting how they do that to her grave this made me cry of her story she's so beautiful

[@jacquelinedenambtman6191]

Sad story about a beautiful young girl! Thanks for sharing. We really should have more respect for each other!! Quincy rest in peace 🙏🏻😇😘😘😘

[@vinniebarbarino5725]

The way I dealt with bullies is fight fire with a hotter fire. I showed them all no mercy. And I survived. To bad this girl didn't have me around to help her.

[@2010Tigresa]

Thank you very much for sharing this story about Quincy. Greetings from Uruguay!

[@takoholic]

This was so touching and so sad too. What a beautiful soul; may she Rest In Peace. 🥺💛

[@ShowMeMo]

Her beautiful spark of life continues to touch and bless the world even today! May her memory be a blessing. Shalom.

[@Hiven-N-Thriven]

Kids go through alot more than they can talk about. They are important, worthy and loved. I hope everyone instills that in their children. Peer pressure and how they are viewed by peers is so important to them and the more acceptance and kindness is taught, hopefully the less a tragedy will happen. God rest her 🙏

[@lindaschaldach1783]

Quincy seemed to be a very amazing young woman. So sad that depression took over her mind. Too bad she didn't reach out to someone for help. Shame on those creeps who destroyed her tombstone. Too bad they weren't caught.My heart goes out to her family.😪❤❤🙏

[@noraabdulla2486]

What is last name

[@valeriekoch9128]

The Patch made it seem like the tombstone happened three year after her passing, it seem like they were targeting her, they had a long way to go to hit that stone, surprise they didn't knock more over.

[@mcwatersd]

There has always been bully's. I was as a kid and we almost lost my daughter to it when she was young. Today the magnitude has changed with social media and so many outlets as parents to monitor. It is sad that even in death a person is bullied by thugs who think it's ok to desi grate a grave .There really are some sad people out there who probably think they were justified as well. Thank you for introducing us to Quincy and her wonderful friend. Keep Safe❤Keep Well❤

[@BlessedbytheKingofKings]

This is such a sad sad story. 😢

[@mgdiamante5123]

✝️May God rest Quincee and her boyfriend's soul in peace.

[@juaquiene7726]

To another Mary, glad you noticed today's story also mentioned that a young man also died here.

[@cherrymccall4806]

So sad. Such a beautiful soul. I can only imagine what her life could have been if only she had gotten the help she needed . I've lost 2 friends to suicide over the last few yrs. It's hard to understand how a person can take their life. Thanks for sharing this young lady with us.

[@amaliasereno3315]

her spinning flower spins as u describe what happened, clearly a sign that she appreciates you... RIP Little one🥰🙏🕊

[@Felicity2121]

Yes I noticed that & it stopped. There didn’t appear to be any wind but even if there were it wouldn’t have span & stopped like it did!

[@amaliasereno3315]

@@Felicity2121 it definitely makes me feel like there is life after death... Surely now she is in a place where there is no longer hurt, sadly it’s a shame she didn’t get the help she needed to overcome her pain though...grateful to this channel for telling her story.. As mother of teenagers it helps to look for signs and to always do wellness checks on them ever so often, making sure they know MAMA BEAR is always watching out for them... God Bless and be safe all💙🙏🥰

[@KimberlyMills67]

Such a heartbreaking story. Love and prayers to Quincee and her family. May she rest in peace. ♥️🙏

[@rochelleb973]

Her new stone is beautiful

[@SerenitySueGraveyards]

I was bullied in secondary school but at least when I got home I was safe at home with my family, now a days it comes into the home on social media, tik tok, Facebook, Instagram, WhatsApp, Snapchat etc life is hard, what a beautiful young lady, sorry this happened, to add to that they vandalised her grave, sick individuals. Rest in peace sweetheart 💗

[@susanna3]

Ron, you honored the memory of this beautiful young lady with sensitivity and caring. The way you told her story with compassion and understanding was so moving. It makes the world better at a time when we need empathy more than ever! Thank you! Rest in peace Quincee 🙏

[@maritzaagosto1793]

At the homes , schools , businesses , communities , and everywhere ... bullying is ZERO TOLERANCE . Thanks Ron for your presentation with the help of the girl's long time friend . 💮🌼🌻🌺🌷🌹💐

[@bradklingensmith]

Except it isn't zero tolerance and it can never be stopped. It is part of the bad nature of humans.

[@rosescott9299]

I’m so sorry for Quincy. She had far too little time on this earth. Rest easy sweet darling.

[@annmariemcleod6670]

Thank you for doing her story

[@dianalynnelizabeth780]

I love how this channel tells the story of everyday people….remembering them…. and tells the stories of others that those of us can and should all learn from.

[@brookeparrish4650]

Her windmill went around as you spoke so kindly of her! What a beautiful headstone!

[@johnreed8336]

Thank you for remembering and celebrating the young life of Quincee. May she rest in peace in the arms of her family and with Jesus , her saviour & redeemer !

[@babygirlzmommy]

I cant believe someone would Run over her grave.. she was such a beautiful young lady, and that is an amazing stone.

[@kathysheehan1]

🤧how can anyone destroy the tumb stone. Bless that young lady lord

[@pamela5250]

Such a heartbreaking story. She has a beautiful stone. Looks like she’s visited often.

[@blythemiller5693]

I visit her 3/4 days a week ❤️💔

[@pamela5250]

@@blythemiller5693 So sorry you lost her. 😢 ❤️🙏🏻.

[@Felicity2121]

@@blythemiller5693 how lovely…I’m sorry for your loss. You have brought a tear to my eye knowing that you haven’t forgotten her.

[@badposture4968]

@@blythemiller5693 I’m so sorry, she’s right there with you, every second and she feels your love. You will see her again someday. ❤️

[@vee5196]

Rest in paradise beautiful Quincy 🌹 💐 🙏

[@indigohalo3421]

Thank you for sharing this story..Flying With the Angels..🕊❤

[@paulaorourke2259]

I’m in South Australia and not long started watching your show which I absolutely love how you show so much respect and take the time to remember…. This episode made me cry a little. So so young and so pretty. Still had her whole life ahead of her. Thankyou for all you do. Love & hugs from S.A

[@susienierhaus7007]

What a bunch of douchebags! 😡😡 beautiful young lady. It was probably like she died all over again to her family after they destroyed her first marker. I’m so glad people stepped up to help replace it. I’d happily donate to a fund helping teenagers. It’s very important they know they are loved and get help when they need it. Thank you.

[@amethyst5538]

Huge hugs out to Quincy's family and her BFF down south. I hope the young lady is resting and at ease now.😭

[@ethelrosesalto7542]

It's a heart breaking story ..but it's true there is HOPE..in every rain their is sunshine.. thanks Ron for sharing that story..I hope the new generation will enlightened that their parents are there for them and they are not alone in their struggles..keep safe Ron.. blessed be ☺️ 💕

[@cheriecarpenter3529]

It's hard to believe that anyone would be so cruel as to destroy someone's headstone😢💔 RIP sweet angel❤️❤️

[@ladylaois8184]

My Grandsons grave was robbed of a beautiful marble inscribed vase. I remember the utter feeling of devastation. We live in a very odd world . God bless all here. And especially our wonderful host ! Brilliant channel

[@timmyangeltlc4888]

Your mods are awesome.

[@KimberlyLew]

Well thank you, Tina 🥰

[@nadiabrook7871]

They sure are!! XXXX 👍

[@timmyangeltlc4888]

@@KimberlyLew only stating the truth.

[@annmariemcleod6670]

Facebook Is cam be very evil. But it's not just kids it's adults too. Bullying at any age is insane and very unnecessary. It's very sad

[@patrickverona387]

Wow!! She was only 15 years old. That is so incredibly sad that someone that young could be so despondent and take her own life. Thank you so much for sharing this.

[@donw3912]

Your skill at telling peoples stories in just the right way is so refreshing to hear. Teen suicide is a horrible thing that needs to be addressed alot more in the school setting as well as at home. To think that someone would desecrate a grave in such a way...I hope those involved are haunted by it constantly. Thanks for doing these stories...such a pretty girl and a bunch of fun to be around I sense. love does hurt sometimes and its no fun when theres nobody there to help one put the pieces back together when things dont end well. I'm sure shes up in heaven happy and free with her loved ones friends and family alike. Rest in peace precious angel:-)

[@purplehaze5977]

Beautiful stone for a beautiful girl R. I. P. Angel 😇

[@pattyherpel5032]

Beautiful young lady and headstone. Such a sad story. Should put some kind of iron gate around it with a lock for family and friends only viewing.

[@juliehanks5889]

Rest in peace Quincy! What a moving video. Poor sweet girl who was in such pain and for one moment she thought this was her only option. Gone to soon and loved to this day. God bless all her friends and mom that never let her down 💜. Please keep up the wonderful work you do. You are needed. 🌻🌻👼💜🙏💎💎🌹

[@nanmattingly6402]

Thank you Ron for remembering this beautiful child. So very very sad.

[@amandapanda7878]

Thank you for bringing this to light.When i was in school i had my own personal issues with bullies, and when i turned adult got harressed for weight and i wanted to do the same as this poor girl..May she rip and the ones who caused her to do this, may get a scratch they cant reach, several.for the rest of their lives.People think bullies are a joke, they arent,They impact so many lives.Thank you again for showing respect and for sharing

[@KimberlyLew]

🥰

[@janiceking4415]

So sad...May she and her boyfriend both fly high with their angel wings..RIP sweet girl

[@twylajohnson4708]

I am so sorry for the loss of your beautiful daughter. The scholarship you started in her name, is a wonderful way to remember and honor her.