Teenager Who Murdered His Entire Family Transforms Into Erratic Stalker | Joe Collier Case Analysis

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Dr. Todd Grande

Dr. Todd Grande

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@douglaswatters7303
@douglaswatters7303 29 күн бұрын
I can't get out of a speeding ticket but this guys kill a 10 year old boy and two adults who are helping him and he walks away free? The system is a joke.
@vicvega3614
@vicvega3614 29 күн бұрын
This happens a lot, when someone under the age of 18 murders they usually get out at age 19 or 21, its disgusting
@AdamVest
@AdamVest 29 күн бұрын
I came here to say the same thing.
@DroneStrike1776
@DroneStrike1776 29 күн бұрын
Tell me about it, I had my license suspended and put on probation in 2001 for 3 speeding tickets in 6 months for doing 35 on a 30, 55 on a 50 twice. All 5 mph above the speed limit, which was all BS, I was just targeted. "You took off too fast" WTF does that even mean? I saw the cop there, why would I do such a thing? It's because I was Asian, driving a brand new bright red 2000 Civic Si, lowered with rims, during the Fast and Furious days. I would get pulled over just because "routine stop". Glad they got rid of that policy. I haven't gotten a speeding ticket or moving violation since. I following the rules of the road and is a big car enthusiast, so I take driving and safety seriously. Even as a conservative, I still don't fully support the police or the broken system. 23 years later and it still pisses me off because of the broken system.
@quietstorm6553
@quietstorm6553 29 күн бұрын
...And he collected some inheritance from the family he murdered. Talk about backwards laws. Found guilty of murder and get paid by the victims. Goes to show you that laws do not have to make sense.
@carpathianken
@carpathianken 29 күн бұрын
The problem is that the Police have to meet their speeding fine quota that their sergeant compels them to before their actual technical shift starts & they begin to work on actual serious crime. It's all got to do with revenue raising.
@woltan1979
@woltan1979 29 күн бұрын
Yes, Dr Grande is Ariana’s son. People can stop asking if they are related now.
@KimKalli
@KimKalli 29 күн бұрын
That question is annoying
@shawnmaria-z2k
@shawnmaria-z2k 29 күн бұрын
Her son?? 🧐😂
@suzetteduncan
@suzetteduncan 29 күн бұрын
as i suspected
@lisaann3840
@lisaann3840 29 күн бұрын
@@shawnmaria-z2k😂
@jennsuicune
@jennsuicune 29 күн бұрын
Yes? And? 🤣
@kenmore01
@kenmore01 29 күн бұрын
Getting the inheritance because he was the only remaining family member is a cold slap in the face to any other relatives or friends!
@annewyckoff9720
@annewyckoff9720 27 күн бұрын
It's a slap in the face to humanity generally.
@sassycat6468
@sassycat6468 29 күн бұрын
When Dr G gets to say ”mostly because of the murder part" I get an odd sense of satisfaction lol 😁👍
@djg5950
@djg5950 29 күн бұрын
I feel bad that I've never been able to reject anybody "due to the murder part". It's always the plain garden variety type of sociopath and the lying and cheating part that gives them the boot.
@emmonsterd
@emmonsterd 29 күн бұрын
I like it when he calls people “exceeeedingly creepy.”
@icturner23
@icturner23 29 күн бұрын
I’m adopted and my parents were social workers. Not telling a child they are adopted is a really, REALLY bad idea.
@emmagatewood3898
@emmagatewood3898 29 күн бұрын
I agree. The truth will always come out eventually, especially nowadays with the advent of genetic DNA testing. Lying to a child about their adoption is deeply unfair to them, and can have devastating consequences when the truth inevitably comes out. This guy is exhibit A when it comes to that. 😕
@patrickoguinn4553
@patrickoguinn4553 29 күн бұрын
But your not justifying murder. Right?
@breathnstop
@breathnstop 29 күн бұрын
I wasn't adopted but my mom's parents made her marry another man not my dad when she became pregnant because he was more successful. My dad wanted to marry her too but he was just a pilot. Not considered a real job in 1952. It really messed me up. I couldn't understand why my dad didn't love me and treated me so bad. My grandmother confessed on her death bed when I was 20. I was devastated but it all finally made sense. Apparently I looked just like my real dad.
@poindextertunes
@poindextertunes 29 күн бұрын
@@patrickoguinn4553is anyone ever justifying murder in these comments? c’mon man
@Rebecca-hc5ju
@Rebecca-hc5ju 29 күн бұрын
It's deceitful. It's such a betrayal.
@KimKalli
@KimKalli 29 күн бұрын
Gut wrenchingly unfair. There's no justice here. Just pain and evil.
@troy3456789
@troy3456789 29 күн бұрын
Mental disorders.
@timhinchcliffe5372
@timhinchcliffe5372 29 күн бұрын
Dr Grande needs to put out a _narcissist bingo card_ so we can play at home and check off the personality flaws and score against the analysis at the end.
@xxxxOS
@xxxxOS 29 күн бұрын
Making narcism survival your entire personalty and obsession is unhealthy
@timhinchcliffe5372
@timhinchcliffe5372 29 күн бұрын
@@xxxxOS you know what they say about people that assume.
@jkjives1786
@jkjives1786 29 күн бұрын
As someone so aptly commented on a previous video, "sense of entitlement" would be the free square in the middle!
@Chefsandrajm
@Chefsandrajm 15 күн бұрын
Seriously
@grumpyoldlady_rants
@grumpyoldlady_rants 29 күн бұрын
Never hide from a child that they are adopted. It’s often devastating when they find out when they are older - especially if it’s in adolescence. My youngest is adopted. She always knew she was. I would bring it up matter of factory at, say, a doctor’s appointment when asked about family history. I knew, in time, she would ask what it meant. When she was about six, she finally asked. I told her it meant that me and his dad wanted another child but I couldn’t have more babies (I had two sons from a previous marriage but had to have my tubes ties after the second). I said we heard about a woman who had a baby that she wasn’t able to care of and we said we would and that was her. She seemed to accept this. About a year later, she asked me “So (her two other siblings) came out of your belly but I came out of another woman’s. Did I come out and crawl into your belly”? I started to again explain when she added “How do babies get out anyway? Is there a zipper or something”?
@Hatbox948
@Hatbox948 29 күн бұрын
A bittersweet but cute story.
@meredithisme3752
@meredithisme3752 29 күн бұрын
A normal person wouldn't commit murder because of it
@Hatbox948
@Hatbox948 29 күн бұрын
@@meredithisme3752 So true. This guy had so many personality deficits.
@grumpyoldlady_rants
@grumpyoldlady_rants 29 күн бұрын
@@meredithisme3752 - True
@TheeDavidDee
@TheeDavidDee 29 күн бұрын
I never feel bad about being single after watching your videos. Thanks, Dr. G!
@brose-bg3ks
@brose-bg3ks 29 күн бұрын
It’s not difficult to do a background check on anyone you plan on living life with
@TheeDavidDee
@TheeDavidDee 29 күн бұрын
@@brose-bg3ks This might be true but how many people in relationships become first-time offenders of atrocities? The more I watch Dr. G's videos it seems like the vast majority of the brutality and murder are by people with no such public records. They resemble the person next door. Ordinary citizens living a seemingly ordinary life for ordinary pursuits. Not this video, the people in this situation could have done what you're saying. But this doesn't cover much territory. If we watch Dr. G's videos regularly we can see the majority of these horrific cases contain people who seem like the least likely to do godawful criminal acts. People without criminal records who we wouldn't suspect.
@brose-bg3ks
@brose-bg3ks 29 күн бұрын
@@TheeDavidDee I totally agree, it’s a huge risk involving anyone into your life in such a vulnerable way. But yes, I was referring to people who blindly date others and do little to no due diligence about the other person before sleeping with them. I’m married, 8 months pregnant, and I know my chances of being 💀 would statistically be by my spouse, but honestly, love and trust is a leap of faith at some point. And knowing that my husband trusts me not to 💀 him either makes me feel trusted too lol
@TheeDavidDee
@TheeDavidDee 29 күн бұрын
@@brose-bg3ks Always gambling when it comes to love and trust. Best of luck to you with the new family. 😊
@carpathianken
@carpathianken 29 күн бұрын
What hope has the human species got? Anyone with any intelligence is warned off from procreation because of the almost inevitable grief that it gives them in the future & yet the imbeciles that promote & thrive on true crime drama breed like rabbits
@allanbarr1975
@allanbarr1975 29 күн бұрын
Do love the way Dr G implies wtf is wrong with people - usually in reference to people marrying serial killers etc. Love the dry, despairing, wit
@gonelucid
@gonelucid 29 күн бұрын
I noticed it took him a while to get good like this.. his old videos arnt as good.
@sarahd8093
@sarahd8093 29 күн бұрын
I can't blame Joe's biological mom for cutting him off after finding out what he did. She did a selfless thing by giving him up so another family could raise him. To think you saved someone just so they can go on and end other people's lives, pretty sad.
@charlottewilliams574
@charlottewilliams574 29 күн бұрын
Oh so someone who has committed that kind of crime, he can refuse psychological therapies? Like, woah 😮
@eddysgaming9868
@eddysgaming9868 29 күн бұрын
He's not the one with the problem, clearly. It's society. /s
@bubbabroad9051
@bubbabroad9051 28 күн бұрын
I was shocked when Dr John on Hidden True Crime said the majority of offenders would rather have more jail time than counseling 🥺
@tayookunfolami2522
@tayookunfolami2522 28 күн бұрын
And they released him afterwards...that's the real surprise
@rayross997
@rayross997 29 күн бұрын
"Mostly because of the murder part". Yes, that really changes things.
@Shadow1-cf7nw
@Shadow1-cf7nw 29 күн бұрын
Unbelievable how people can murder for no reason whatsoever.
@This-time-more-than-ever
@This-time-more-than-ever 29 күн бұрын
Whi said he didn't have a reason? He was beat as a child.
@slypork5030
@slypork5030 29 күн бұрын
​@@This-time-more-than-everThat was a reason to kill his mom and brother?
@benhartart9487
@benhartart9487 29 күн бұрын
There’s always a reason or many bro
@kina18
@kina18 29 күн бұрын
​@@This-time-more-than-everSo said a cold blooded killer. I wouldn't be too quick to believe a man who killed his whole family including an innocent child.
@kina18
@kina18 29 күн бұрын
​@@benhartart9487 Fabricated in their minds.
@georgeoh-well8116
@georgeoh-well8116 29 күн бұрын
I speculate that a healthy initial parent/child bond is critical and its dysfunction is a factor in many of these sad tales.
@eddysgaming9868
@eddysgaming9868 29 күн бұрын
Yes. It's crucial for later development.
@skycloud4802
@skycloud4802 29 күн бұрын
And winning a genetics lottery too.
@nanettevantriesteharder2469
@nanettevantriesteharder2469 29 күн бұрын
@@eddysgaming9868 The brain is built from the bottom-up during early childhood development's nearly continuous growth periods from conception on. Beginning during the teen years, apoptosis severs unused pathways to optimize the system. In adulthood, the mature brain is used from the top-down for decision-making. If an unwanted child is more than likely conceived out of wedlock by a fatherless teen mother raised by her single mother without a high school diploma in a dysfunctional cycle of poverty, addiction, and violence, maybe this is the place to start preventive interventions.
@OnTheThirdDay
@OnTheThirdDay 29 күн бұрын
I am glad he didn't murder again (to our knowledge). I was definitely expecting Candy to end up dead. Hope she stays safe and protects herself. However he is definitely dangerous for people in the future just as he was to his parents RIP, God protect people from him now.
@LuxeMindsetVibes
@LuxeMindsetVibes 28 күн бұрын
The fact he could refuse mental health treatment while in a facility & then inherent the estate of the adoptive parents he murdered is wild. Good for the biological mother for putting logic over emotion, and stealthy getting him out of the house & changing her locks. I know that was hard to reconnect to your child that you gave up for adoption, really try your best to help him, only to find out that he murdered the people that stepped up to raise him & then kick him out of your life again.
@aarondavis8943
@aarondavis8943 29 күн бұрын
Many psychologists have, over the years, supported the notion that people like Joe can be reliably rehabilitated and have advised parole boards, legislators and judges that they should be released into the community. Unlike ignorant laypeople, including romantic partners of psychopathic killers, they have no excuse.
@srper2
@srper2 29 күн бұрын
So he murders his entire family, walks away and inherits everything? How does this happen?
@Ebenezer456
@Ebenezer456 28 күн бұрын
Absolutely shocking how this could happen. Talk about some screwed up laws... just no justice
@thelocalmaladroit8873
@thelocalmaladroit8873 29 күн бұрын
It’s scary knowing he’s still out there somewhere.
@emmaponymous
@emmaponymous 29 күн бұрын
I would love to have a "Guide to Dating: Avoiding Unsuitable Romantic Partners" by Dr Grande.
@jcrnda
@jcrnda 29 күн бұрын
Attached: A List of Psychopaths and Serial Killers
@carolynbares7643
@carolynbares7643 16 күн бұрын
I would like to see an analysis of the partners of those serial killers.
@hp7093
@hp7093 29 күн бұрын
Can you imagine adopting out of the goodness of your heart and the kid kills you? Mind boggling
@Widkey
@Widkey 29 күн бұрын
The military allowed him to enlist despite knowing he slaughtered his family??
@taylorkai4144
@taylorkai4144 29 күн бұрын
this is the real question. did the military even check his background? did they even know about his name change?
@brendandmcmunniii269
@brendandmcmunniii269 29 күн бұрын
Not the real military, just the Air National Guard
@This-time-more-than-ever
@This-time-more-than-ever 29 күн бұрын
I mean he had experience for the job, no?
@Widkey
@Widkey 29 күн бұрын
@@This-time-more-than-ever LOL
@thaisb229
@thaisb229 29 күн бұрын
Perfect candidate
@carriefawcett9990
@carriefawcett9990 29 күн бұрын
This is the worst case of injustice I've ever heard! I'm so angry now!
@everlynevins
@everlynevins 29 күн бұрын
Glad you clarified which Wakanda was meant. Definitely wouldn't want to confuse the two. 👀
@beautifulsunset4071
@beautifulsunset4071 29 күн бұрын
People who adopt or where the child has a different father, please tell the child from when they are little. I have it in my family and known of others too where the child finds out as a teenager or adult and it is devastating most of the time. 😔
@charlesterrizzi8311
@charlesterrizzi8311 29 күн бұрын
Totally agree don’t keep secrets from kids they will hate you,
@FrankOdonnell-ej3hd
@FrankOdonnell-ej3hd 29 күн бұрын
jeez these laws designed to protect juvenile offenders often turn out to be cases proving the old saw that the path to hell is paved with good intentions⚛😀
@shawnmaria-z2k
@shawnmaria-z2k 29 күн бұрын
Good thing is, this happened many years ago and the laws have changed since then!
@FrankOdonnell-ej3hd
@FrankOdonnell-ej3hd 29 күн бұрын
@@shawnmaria-z2k good to hear⚛😀❤
@RB01.10
@RB01.10 29 күн бұрын
@@shawnmaria-z2kAnd isn’t anybody, even a minor not allowed to collect inheritance if they’re the ones responsible like Jovan ?
@zenawarrior7442
@zenawarrior7442 29 күн бұрын
What a list of horrible qualities. Always amazing to me how people fall for the superficial charm act. Great quips & points. Thanks Dr G😊💚💚
@astralclub5964
@astralclub5964 29 күн бұрын
Too many times I’ve heard adoptions going bad! An adopted kid in my old neighborhood stabbed his mother.
@julianaalencar9586
@julianaalencar9586 29 күн бұрын
Total BS What about all the other cases that are committed by non adopted people?
@nattie911
@nattie911 29 күн бұрын
What was the mom doing? Not all foster parents are safe ppl
@garrysekelli6776
@garrysekelli6776 29 күн бұрын
Machiavelli wrote about just such a case involving the murderer Oliverotto di Fermo. Who murdered his adopted father.
@TexasLawyer313
@TexasLawyer313 29 күн бұрын
True story, a child was adopted in my hometown by an attorney, the child was returned for reasons I don’t personally know and never chose to attempt to discover. The child aged out of foster system, moved to another state and there he eventually met, lived with, and murdered my father. I practice law now in the same town as his almost-adoptive father. I’ve never spoken to that attorney but if I ever did, he wouldn’t know me since I have a married name for many years now. Sounds like fiction but very true.
@lindawakiyama1603
@lindawakiyama1603 29 күн бұрын
My condolences to you for the terrible loss of your father 😢!
@mdievend
@mdievend 29 күн бұрын
(Mrs. Mark) Best line (after listing about twenty of Joe's very disturbing personality characteristics), "In addition, he was exceedingly creepy". (The deadpan delivery didn't hurt either.)
@WhoIsWhatIDK
@WhoIsWhatIDK 29 күн бұрын
Just a reminder, I’m not diagnosing anyone as Exceedingly creepy….
@AB-un4io
@AB-un4io 29 күн бұрын
Thanks, Dr. Grande. You’re “spoiling” us!! 😊 I thoroughly enjoy each analysis. Hope the rest of your weekend is wonderful.❤
@Flamsterette
@Flamsterette 29 күн бұрын
So he's not really spoiling us? Quotation marks are NOT used for EMPHASIS!
@suzanne3262
@suzanne3262 29 күн бұрын
I’m worried he will come after YOU! Be vigilant, doc.
@danielledigiacomo8950
@danielledigiacomo8950 29 күн бұрын
Yeah, this dude is still out doing his thing 😳🥺
@poindextertunes
@poindextertunes 29 күн бұрын
stahp
@lisabelle7553
@lisabelle7553 29 күн бұрын
This is how every minor in Canada is treat under Youth Offenders Act. I lived in Alberta and I remember news that a minor had wiped out his entire family of seven people. No name was ever released and you cannot find a news article about it. That was in the 90s. The youth offender has no criminal record when they are released, and their name is kept confidential. So if you live in Alberta or Canada, he could be your neighbor or the guy you work with.
@BrettSerug-ff7do
@BrettSerug-ff7do 29 күн бұрын
I can't believe he got to live a wonderful life after what he did.
@laratheplanespotter
@laratheplanespotter 29 күн бұрын
How on earth do you manage to post so much?! I’ve been binge watching your videos. From a forensics and criminology student, thank you!
@youssef16844
@youssef16844 29 күн бұрын
Do these people marry like they're going to Walmart to get soda?? Jesus Christ.
@bthomson
@bthomson 29 күн бұрын
Do people go to Wal-Mart to get soda like they get married?
@Scipio_Americanus
@Scipio_Americanus 29 күн бұрын
Thanks Ray. You said what everyone was thinking. 😐
@troy3456789
@troy3456789 29 күн бұрын
​@@raymondfrederick It was spelled Wal-Mart since the fall of the big wind.
@srsusansummers3070
@srsusansummers3070 29 күн бұрын
Blessed be the holy name of Jesus
@troy3456789
@troy3456789 29 күн бұрын
@@srsusansummers3070 Don't forget Ahura Mazda and Vishnu too. They're a lot older than the gods of the bible.
@Penn4286
@Penn4286 29 күн бұрын
Dr.Grande , Do we know where this evil creature (Joe Collier) is living now and what type of job he has ?? You present many cases that I had never heard of !!
@danielcarroll5667
@danielcarroll5667 29 күн бұрын
I would be willing to bet we will hear something horrible about this "person" in the future...
@nataloves
@nataloves 29 күн бұрын
We went from "always generate an interesting dialogue" to "CONSISTENTLY generate an interesting dialogue", we failed you, Dr Grande 😢
@RullXov
@RullXov 29 күн бұрын
Passive/aggressive post-it notes are a huge red flag.
@GrumpyMeow-Meow
@GrumpyMeow-Meow 29 күн бұрын
You got me with that vibranium joke, Doc.
@Jerrysmithsmyname
@Jerrysmithsmyname 29 күн бұрын
I love your dry sense of humor! Thank you for another great episode ❤
@RB01.10
@RB01.10 29 күн бұрын
I remember this case on the Investigation Discovery show “Web of Lies”. Outrageous that he was allowed to collect inheritance, thankfully it was changed.
@wsidechris
@wsidechris 29 күн бұрын
I have a strong feeling there will be a part 2 video some time in the future.
@reneegardner2286
@reneegardner2286 29 күн бұрын
My same thoughts
@Bebecat477
@Bebecat477 29 күн бұрын
He murdered his family? Oh I can change him.
@jeffreybrewer8649
@jeffreybrewer8649 29 күн бұрын
"There will always be someone out there so desperate, that even Joe looks good" -- Its nice that from time-to-time Dr Grande acknowledges the viewers 😁
@kriscollinstunes
@kriscollinstunes 29 күн бұрын
If they fixed the law in WI why don’t they go ahead and charge him? There’s supposed to be no statute of limitations on murder. He was never charged with it and never tried on it.
@OnTheThirdDay
@OnTheThirdDay 29 күн бұрын
"I'm not diagonosing anyone in this video, just speculating how high a score one could get in Candy Crush if someone played like this."
@0p161
@0p161 29 күн бұрын
The dry puns are hilarious. I watch solely to see how he puts them in
@OnTheThirdDay
@OnTheThirdDay 29 күн бұрын
@@0p161 I find it very entertaining amidst a serious topic. 5:30 Like when in this video he said that his mother was playing it cool after finding out he was a murderer "mostly because of the murder part"
@charlotteboyett-napper4780
@charlotteboyett-napper4780 29 күн бұрын
I’m now waiting to hear “exceedingly creepy” in the subject’s personality trait list 😂
@raisamoola2090
@raisamoola2090 29 күн бұрын
Hi Dr G! Thank you for the upload!
@mykal2803
@mykal2803 29 күн бұрын
So heart breaking, take this kid in, and he not only murders them, but there son.. There last legacy of this world.. its so dark.. then he doesnt even show remorse by taking mental health counseling.. then takes there money, and makes the surviving family have to deal with him over estate issues.. He could have easily bowed out.. but this thing, just kept on taking.. and taking. Truly a monster.
@karenbochinski
@karenbochinski 29 күн бұрын
Joe should have been put in prision when he killed his adopted parents and one sibiling. He should have had a life sentence
@LúciaKitten
@LúciaKitten 29 күн бұрын
Thank you for your analysis on this case, Dr. Grande! I appreciate you so much!
@comfortncube510
@comfortncube510 29 күн бұрын
"Analyse This" great movie
@beautifulsunset4071
@beautifulsunset4071 29 күн бұрын
I was waiting for the "exceedingly creepy" comment. 😂 He definitely is.
@comingoutspinster-rebellik1479
@comingoutspinster-rebellik1479 29 күн бұрын
Heartbreaking 💔! The 10 year old!! 😩 😭 what a massive CREEPER! He needs to be locked away from society and to pay hard for his sick crimes. Super dangerous animal! Actually, animals are lovely and nice. “Joe” is evil!
@Robin-xt7yo
@Robin-xt7yo 29 күн бұрын
So prolific Dr. Grande! Thank you!
@petejames1326
@petejames1326 29 күн бұрын
peter changed his name to joe, lol, well obviously makes perfect sense 😂😵‍💫😵‍💫😮😳👀
@RUTHP123
@RUTHP123 29 күн бұрын
"....mostly because of the murder part.' Dr Grande is one of a kind
@lindawilson4625
@lindawilson4625 29 күн бұрын
"There will always be someone out there, so desperate, that even Joe looks good." Sadly, I have to agree. WTF is wrong with people?????
@AnAdorableWombat1
@AnAdorableWombat1 23 күн бұрын
If Joe is the bald, white man in this video, then he doesn’t look that bad until 4:08. That haircut is not it! But he’s not unattractive at all. 🤷🏽‍♀️
@Panwere36
@Panwere36 29 күн бұрын
Masterful Wakanda reference, Dr. G!!
@johnnoone4323
@johnnoone4323 29 күн бұрын
Society punishes teenagers for speeding when driving more than teenagers who kill someone. The judicial system in the USA needs serious revamping.
@Vitaminsiobhan
@Vitaminsiobhan 29 күн бұрын
Happy Sunday Doc!
@JohnGlen502
@JohnGlen502 29 күн бұрын
I wish he had commented on the possible cause. Adopted children often are troubled there must be severe trauma from the separation and lack of care at a critical time while an infant. Something must happen to brain development obviously not to all so severly but every adopted child I know had issues.
@everlynevins
@everlynevins 29 күн бұрын
While plausible, some people are just horrible beings without childhood trauma.
@pamcornelius9122
@pamcornelius9122 29 күн бұрын
Genetics are responsible for 70 - 75 percent of your personality according to child psychologist Dr. James Dobson. The adoptive parents probably only had about 25 percent input.
@falkor6615
@falkor6615 29 күн бұрын
There’s the primary caregiver scenario. Babies birth~ 2 require a present, nurturing, responsive primary caregiver (usually mother) and this sets the secure attachment style in place for the child for life, usually. In the case of a disruption in/absence of this relationship, then an insecure attachment style forms. Google to see a list of those but includes a pattern of r’ships featuring behaviours/thoughts like pushing people away(they’ll just leave me anyway), being inappropriately close(I need to keep them close so the don’t leave me), etc. perhaps Joe, and many adopted children struggle because of a disruption to the mother/infant bond. It’s heartbreaking but obviously not cause for murder
@patriciapitt4228
@patriciapitt4228 29 күн бұрын
​@@falkor6615thanks for putting that up,because when I was 52 my mum told me I was swapped at birth,but in a family of 5 the other sisters always said I was different,loved being on my own,still do,just been up to the tablelands here in Nth Qld Australia only 82 years young 😊 never wanted to kill anyone,even thow my step father wanted to kill me,crazy world we live in it's great the Doc being all that out and the comments really helps people to understand and cope Cheers All ********.
@JohnGlen502
@JohnGlen502 29 күн бұрын
@@falkor6615 That's what I mean. They now think narcissists are at least partially made, and borderlines, and I'm not excusing murder, but have long wondered what is taking place in the mind of infants exposed to trauma.
@valkyriehutton4556
@valkyriehutton4556 29 күн бұрын
Just like other commenters, I knew a lot of adopted kids and everyone of them was screwed up in some way.
@Kathy-us6zx
@Kathy-us6zx 29 күн бұрын
This was so tragic. Thanks again Dr. Grande
@Grandmas_Favorite
@Grandmas_Favorite 28 күн бұрын
I feel so bad for these people I have to deal with stalkers. I can only imagine the amount of fear they have to deal with on a daily basis. It’s absolutely mental.
@Reality_C
@Reality_C 29 күн бұрын
Why was this person out in the world?? 😢
@satukataja-lf4wo
@satukataja-lf4wo 18 күн бұрын
Not “was”…is :-(
@Simmerany
@Simmerany 28 күн бұрын
Hahah lol I love his sarcasm. How can he said it with a straight face? I wouldn’t been able to hold my laugh 😅😂 btw: I am talking about the wakanda part 😅
@Titanium_Cranium
@Titanium_Cranium 29 күн бұрын
Woah, I thought the good Doctor got stuck in adjective-mode & needed a reboot. Outstanding analysis of a cretinous, malignant & egregious man-child who unfortunately was permitted to continue wreaking havoc forever more on anyone in his sphere of influence, when clearly he needed multiple decades in the judicial system for the horrendous murders and arguably would never have been free but for that state-specific law that protected this creature from real justice.
@raymaharaj4502
@raymaharaj4502 29 күн бұрын
@Dr. Todd Grande do you ever sleep? Because I know your daily posts although amazing has come between me and my sleep. Lol. I’ve been binge watching for two whole months religiously and I haven’t even come close to seeing all of your top notch videos. You are one hardworking, funny, stylin’ bastard! Thank Dr. Grande. Absolutely amazing channel!
@maggieotoole5520
@maggieotoole5520 27 күн бұрын
If "exceedingly creepy" isn't in the DSM 6 they're not doing their research 😂
@BeanDreamr
@BeanDreamr 29 күн бұрын
The wakanda part got me good, great content as usual.
@MEL2theJ
@MEL2theJ 28 күн бұрын
Thank you again Dr. Grande 🙏
@helpyourcattodrive
@helpyourcattodrive 29 күн бұрын
What’s happening today?! Thanks, Grande, for another interesting video. ❤ I learn a lot from your videos.
@luvmenow33
@luvmenow33 27 күн бұрын
I can't believe the system would allow a family annihilator anonymity knowing they will likely marry and start their own families. That is absolutely insane!!!!!
@brandiparker2062
@brandiparker2062 10 күн бұрын
I love this man, his dead pan one liners…how can i get an appointment?
@jasmincampbell8105
@jasmincampbell8105 29 күн бұрын
That sympathy is powerful 😢
@nonprogrediestregredi1711
@nonprogrediestregredi1711 29 күн бұрын
Dr Grande, it is not Mineral Plant, WI, but actually Mineral Point, WI. I'm guessing that you had a typo on your script. Otherwise, per the usual, great video!
@carolkowalewicz3822
@carolkowalewicz3822 28 күн бұрын
Chilling story, but excellent analysis as always. Would you consider analyzing the case of Charlie Brandt? It is very disturbing, to say the least.
@bstny98
@bstny98 29 күн бұрын
How can I hate and love Grande at the same time
@jonchowe
@jonchowe 29 күн бұрын
Hans Zimmer joke opportunity missed.
@vonclod123
@vonclod123 29 күн бұрын
My 1st thought!
@poindextertunes
@poindextertunes 29 күн бұрын
idk kind of a reach
@jonchowe
@jonchowe 29 күн бұрын
@@poindextertunes "But with a father named Hans Zimmer, he felt he had to settle an epic score." Even something that dumb and short would do.
@simplygina7703
@simplygina7703 29 күн бұрын
Dr grande I really hope you see this . Did you do a video on the justo smoker murder of Linda stoltzfoos? I thought I saw it but I can’t find it anywhere now
@mtss9566
@mtss9566 29 күн бұрын
A absolute madman. Phew!
@Mataylor17
@Mataylor17 28 күн бұрын
13:19 😂😂😂😂 some of your comments are too hilarious. Especially with your dry delivery. My long time OB/GYN is like that too. He always cracks me up.
@Joe-Przybranowski
@Joe-Przybranowski 29 күн бұрын
I accidentally mentioned to my ten year old niece that her mother's boyfriend wasn't her father. It didn't turn out to be a big deal. I had assumed she knew
@shawnmaria-z2k
@shawnmaria-z2k 29 күн бұрын
That’s good it all worked out because it very well could’ve gone the other way. Someone close to me found out the truth about their dad and they were already in their 30’s when the truth came out and it has had devastating effects on them ever since then!
@wrmlm37
@wrmlm37 29 күн бұрын
I cannot shut my mouth AFTER hearing his sentence! OMG.
@cynthiaschell7246
@cynthiaschell7246 29 күн бұрын
you don't know the guy is a psycho, until you know (and unfortunately, by then, it may be too late)
@commonsense5965
@commonsense5965 29 күн бұрын
This case is a Kafkaesque mind-boggling case. Two loving people adopt their future murderer, who not only pretty much gets away with it, but is also rewarded with their inheritance. The biological mother has another son, which I understand she decides to keep, while renewing her relationship with the lost son, only to find out she is housing a butcher. This POS seems to have it easy with women, despite being an obvious creep, and is forgiven again and again by Candy. So basically he's just roaming around, has never really paid for his crimes, just looking for more victims, while hiding his monstrous side?
@BobbioAdam
@BobbioAdam 29 күн бұрын
KZbin is recommending me red pill content just hours after watching this. You had a very fair and objective take, Dr. Grande. I don't know why the algorithm works like this.
@tracevicente
@tracevicente 29 күн бұрын
Insane story. Justice denied.
@ITSALLWITHINYOU
@ITSALLWITHINYOU 29 күн бұрын
the dry wit is just fabulous 😂
@sweeabn6736
@sweeabn6736 29 күн бұрын
My name is Joe. Haw!😂. It’s so fun to listen to this.
@pannamal5182
@pannamal5182 29 күн бұрын
I think dr grande covered it all!
@breathnstop
@breathnstop 29 күн бұрын
Its sickening that Linda didnt warn Candy and waited until she randomly called to tell her about the murder part.
@mmmmlllljohn
@mmmmlllljohn 29 күн бұрын
Lol! “Well, I could do worse than somebody who wiped out his entire family. At least I didn’t end up with somebody who wiped out several families.” Yes, women need to be more choosey and very careful who they let into their inner circle. Candy is very lucky she is still alive, thank God. ❤️🇨🇦
@sonjastanger5858
@sonjastanger5858 29 күн бұрын
Wow😳😳😳!!! Spot on Dr. G
@georgeoh-well8116
@georgeoh-well8116 29 күн бұрын
Ha...ha...I get it 😂
@BurroGirl
@BurroGirl 29 күн бұрын
Oh my the list regarding Joe!
@christopherortiz9330
@christopherortiz9330 29 күн бұрын
0:58 Man, I was really hoping Wakanda, Illinois had the vibranium I was looking for.
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