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[@juliecarl1649]

Take it slow. Don't rush back into a relationship. Make him prove himself over time. You are a strong woman!

[@Amyfroud1991]

I really hope caleb is changing for the better and won't hurt you again and the girls , praying it works out. Good luck with everything

[@dwanaallen3689]

Girl I love that your fighting for your family. If you love him you both should give it another chance .I love how excited you get when you talk about your girls you are such a great mom.

[@christahodge6023]

Kayla I understand that you want your marriage to work, and I understand working on it but I really hope you didn’t let him come home until he has proven to you he has really changed. You don’t want him to come back and the girls are used to him being back and he does it again and he’s gone again. That’s not fair for the girls. It is better for the girls to be raised by two single happy parents than parents that are together and miserable. You don’t want your girls to think that is what they want in their future relationships. I’m also gathering your family aren’t okay with your decision, but for the love of God don’t punish your babies by keeping them from your family. They love you and the girls very much and just don’t want to see y’all get hurt again.

[@ItsKaylaVictoria]

Never once did I keep my children away….

[@carolinewillow1081]

@@ItsKaylaVictoriayour mother has comment filters in her video, so it’s only supporting her viewpoint. I’m so sorry people on coming here to scold you. Kayla, you do what’s best for you.

[@christahodge6023]

Sweet heart I never said you did, and I didn’t think you were that kind of woman. I just know from experience some women do that to hurt their family and it only hurts the kids in the long run.

[@tracyr6792]

I respect your decision. Only you know what’s best for you and your girls. Maybe Caleb could have a sincere face to face talk with your family acknowledging his mistakes and offer to do whatever it takes (ie counseling etc) to gain their acceptance/peace with his return into the family? He will need to face the heat with them in order to hopefully earn back their trust in him. Wishing you all the best.

[@tomkat75]

Praying for your marriage and I truly hope all works out for you guys. You can't just disregard the feelings of all of those ride or die people that were there for you through all of this. I'm sure they are just scared and nervous for you and he needs to earn all of their trust back as well. I am rooting for you guys. Be blessed.

[@montananative9786]

You are an adult and can make the decisions that you feel is best for you and your babies, I could never stay away from my children and/or grandchildren 😪

[@cfunk3085]

I miss seeing you and the babies on your mom’s channel. I hope you will update here as much as you can. I’m happy your family is back together and pray for Caleb to get back to a good place and for your heart to heal Kayla. ❤️

[@adrienne1586]

I’m glad he’s trying to change but don’t let him move in, and give him your trust without his actions changing

[@bonnie3994]

JUST A FRIENDLY FYI,,when it comes down to it the decision is yours too make,,but aways be aware and NEVER BE ANYONE DOORMAT🎉🎉🎉I PRAY FOR YOU AN THEM BEAUTIFUL GIRLS,,your family will come around they are not in your shoes,,you know your heart,,🙏all goes well,,Congratulations on your job❤

[@patriciaverricchia8410]

Do what you feel is right. I'm very proud that you want God in your life. I was a very upset momma with my daughter but they have been married now 30 years. It is not up to even mom to decide what you need to do. God can fix anything and i finally gave it all to God and i know he will do the right thing. ❤

[@loricarson5619]

Its sad that she lost the amazing relationship she had with her mom,brother,sister and Stepdad for working on her marriage....hopefully they can find it in their hearts to forgive kayla for what she is doing back with caleb...hope they will be able to see the girsl because if i had grandbabies i wouldnt wanna miss seeing them grow up. ..Kayla is amazing

[@toddquinn2]

Didn’t know Barry was her Stepdad?

[@lesleychowdhury-lx2zb]

I didn't know that he great dad ❤​@@toddquinn2

[@lesleychowdhury-lx2zb]

Hopefully they work it out hard but use getting through hope you mum sister and brother and your stepdad will see grandchildren soon use work out

[@samg873]

@@toddquinn2 crazy isn't it? I thought she always looked like Barry to an extent

[@AllegedlyMaybe]

She ain't lost anything....maybe herself in a relationship for a moment.... they will stand by her come what may even if they gotta stand in the back for a bit.

[@Shelly.1962]

I have 5 grown children 3 are married. They have all had their ups and downs. Really in the long run its both your choices its your marriage ...dont be pressured by what anyone thinks. Do what's best for you and your beautiful family. So basically i dont involve myself in my kids'marriage. I pray for them and just be supportive of their decisions. We are all learning no one is perfect ❤❤❤️ You go girl you got this 🥰💋🌹

[@deborahperry-mx9hf]

Please don’t keep your babies away from the grandparents. Whatever is going on between the adults it’s not fair to keep them from people they love and love them. Even if you have to let them go without you PLEASE let your parents keep that bond with your babies it will be so important for everyone. Whatever is going on with your marriage should not hurt your babies. Because at any point things can change and FAMILY IS EVERYTHING!

[@firephoto213]

yes. you are keeping them away from the people that have been there the most for the girls..

[@ItsKaylaVictoria]

I literally haven’t but you keep believing what you want to….

[@jenniferdamato3623]

Kayla, you have to do what is best for you and the girls. You definitely should not live with him while working this out. Don't make it easy for him to come back. Remember, he did do you and the girls wrong. I know people can change, but make him prove it to you first. Just be cautious and careful. If you have put it in God's hands, he is leading you in the right direction. He would never put you on the wrong path. Keep the faith and stay strong and positive 🙏.

[@22Lura]

Thanks for the update I thought you had already divorced him. But I am happy to hear that you guys are giving it another go for your daughter’s sake. And I’m glad to hear that you are taking it slow and having others help you out with guidance 😊 Congrats on the work promotion 😊

[@footballlvnlady]

Kayla, it is your decision if you stay with Caleb! You are a wonderful momma to those babies! You are so beautiful inside out! I have had you and the girls in my prayers since you were pregnant with Aspyn. God will lead you on the right path! You are a strong woman! As for your family I can understand their feelings being a mom to a grown daughter. You want the best for your daughter and if a man hurts her there will be hell to pay. Let them see how Caleb is treating you and the girls. They will come around but Caleb hurt them too! Sorry for the long message! Continued prayers to you and the girls! ❤

[@pastorwife]

Praying for you and your marriage. Way to let God lead you. Totally support you in giving it another shot. Been in your shoes. Love you and your family.

[@PWBNP1965]

Kayla, I give you kudos for trying to reconcile your marriage, life is hard and we all make mistakes, forgiveness is the hardest thing to do and it seems you and Caleb are working together on this. I know from experience your family is worried for you and the girls, they want what is best for you. My prayers are with you all that everything will turn out according to God’s plan.❤️

[@Lisa-ne5pd]

Do what's right for you and your family. Don't worry about what other people say. People can only tell you what they would do. You do you. God Bless and hope everything works out.

[@anitadolen3497]

You do what you need to do for your family. My 2 boys and I left my husband almost 20 years ago. It was for totally different reason than yours but after lots of prayer and counseling, we got back together after 4 months. We continued counseling for a while. Today, we are still together and my boys have thrived. So you do what is best and don't worry what people say. Work on the trust again. It's so important. ❤

[@DoyouknowmyfriendJesus]

I am proud of you. Proud that you have been praying about what to do. Proud he's interested in a Bible study and getting into church. Listen that means a lot. You have to allow God to direct your steps. Not what others may tell you. If you have Christ the center of your marriage and pray together and read the Bible together you are bound to succeed!!!! God Bless you

[@catherinewolf8838]

Its always good to turn to God for direction and CONGRATULATIONS on ur promotion 😊

[@VivLeighton-go1ht]

Be very care full that you do not get hurt again do not rush into things take your time.i wish you and you girls all the best.but beawere off the saying onece a cheat alway a cheat

[@lisadorsi5628]

So happy for you - take it slow - be true to yourself & the girls that’s most important. Praying for you all.

[@juliekelderman4041]

I support you Kayla and your decisions. Will keep all of you in prayer.

[@momxswift4808]

Kayla, I’m so glad you have let God guide you. He will always be there for you and protect you and guide you! I pray Caleb is serious and he turns to God and asks for guidance. You’re an awesome Mom and God has blessed you with 3 beautiful little girls! God bless you and your family.

[@joanhall4707]

Sending love ❤Kayla’s family really loves her we should not judge them I hope she makes up with them ,because you do not want to,stay mad I have a close family member that will not speaks to,her family it’s hard on the family .its hard to have a daughter you love so and see her going through this after getting married praying this family can heal because they do love Kayla 😢

[@deavonte76]

Kay, u know that I love you. But I just want you to pray. Please pray and ask God to show you the way. I promise he will he will, so pray pray pray 🙏 and don't be mad at your mother she just cares about yall. Please make peace. You only have one mother. I love you and my princesses.❤❤

[@tamichambers6165]

I think you are amazing and i think your decision to give your marriage another try is absolutely your choice and your choice alone God speaks to us all in different ways and if for some reason it doesn't work out you will never have to doubt the fact that you didn't try. Wishing you and the hubby many blessings to come. Remember God turned the biggest sinners into something great all through the Bible. We love you and support you . Fight fight and then fight some more don't let that devil win. ❤

[@justinfelt748]

Hi, Kayla!😊😊😊😊😊. I'm so glad that you're okay with the babies and having fun. I missed you!💙💙💙💙💙💙🌷💖💖💖💖💖💖🎉🎇👍

[@susanharknett1263]

Kayla God does not want your marriage to fail, so even though people have their opinions, the only opinions that matter are what you and your your family decide that’s totally up to you. I pray that everything goes well for you and just know that I’ll be praying.

[@pamelanelson4959]

Kayla if it makes you happy than make that marriage work! As for your family they will come around but Caleb will have to prove to them he has changed and will NEVER hurt you and the girls again!

[@daveoscar1]

We support you in what you both make the decision of! I have seen marriages come back and the couple say it was all Gods doing at the end.. So happy you gave it to God as did Caleb. Prayer and time with God is very comforting and enjoyable. You are so precious and beautiful as are your family too!

[@domniquieg]

We love you, Kayla. And trust me, marriage is hard. Nothing comes easy. If you and your husband want to work on your marriage, then you do that. And I will always support you. The people in your life need to realize that it's your life and that you have to live your life for you. They will either get on the bandwagon or be left behind.

[@melissagallimore3355]

Years ago my husband and I separated and I was so torn over what to do. I felt like I was letting people down by talking to him and if I didn't talk to him I felt depressed and not being a good mom. We ended up getting back together and have been married for 31 years. On the other hand my daughter has faced with a similar situation for the last 2 years she decided after many attempts to make it work that she needed to end it. She is dealing with all of the same feelings that we all go through but for her and her child it was the right decision. Two situations with 2 different outcomes but the best choice for each person. Every situation is different and no-one can tell you what is right for you accept you. You have done the best thing you can do which is listen to God he will never let you down. If things work out great , if they don't then that will be great too because you will come out knowing you tried your best and that's all you can do.

[@shannonmehler4737]

You know no one has a right to judge you. Do what you feel is best for your family. Nobody knows the whole story because KZbinrs don't post the whole story and you guys have that right. I wish your family the best 💜

[@Candace_Renee]

God can change anyone. I’m glad you went to God and allowed him to lead you. My prayer is that the family you’ve created as well as the family that you come from can be restored. Blessings to you and your family sweet girl❤

[@reneemarie2603]

Only you can make the decision if giving your marriage another chance is the right thing to do. I pray he is, has, and will continue to do the work to be better. You and them babies deserve only the best!

[@doreenellis7877]

Kayla, you shouldn’t feel like you have to explain your decisions. This is your life and you know what’s best for you and the girls. Praying everything works out❤

[@denisechambers1467]

Good for you!! I hope you both work it out!

[@bridgette206]

Y’all are so super nice family. I’m so glad you’re giving another chance again with your girls. We had the same problem with our family. My sister had nothing to do with us. We went to my grandpa. She didn’t say a word to us at all. It’s been like that for five years. We’re super sweet and she is mean. And be strong.

[@monac.9642]

Kayla, you do what you believe in your heart is the best for you and your girls. Those 3 beautiful girls will always come first in your heart and then your self. Take care and be safe.

[@Barinda8]

I pray for healing and love for you and your husband, whether together or individually and for you and those relationships that may not be supportive of your decision, understandably so. Just lead with love and grace and all will be fine ❤️

[@Mama_Terri]

God gives us the power and the authority to avoid the “ spirit killers” in our lives, no matter who they are. God is the ultimate at reconciliations. Prayers for you and Caleb as you work through this difficult time.

[@maryzarend100]

You are the only one that can make that decision. Keeping you and your family in my prayers. You are an amazing Lady.

[@melissaschomaker3696]

I'm very happy you're trying to make your Marriage work. You two are so cute together. However, he has to follow through with what he says he'd like to do to help not only himself but the marriage. And I'm sure your family is just concerned. Like everything else give it time. Things have a way of working out. God has a plan. Love and hugs from MN. Been watching you all since the beginning! ❤😊

[@Robinbonds]

I have missed you and love the way you delt with saying that let God lead you as a mother i can imagine what your thinks i pray y'all can come to a peaceful resolution i love your mom and family

[@sallyhuffman9571]

I wish the best for you both. As far as support from others give it time. My mom once told me that any issues I had in marriage I would eventually get passed and move on but it would be hard for them too because I was their daughter and I was hurt. They see what you went through and it’s hard for them to get past because they don’t have the same connection you do. They love you and just don’t want to see you hurt. Praying that all works out for everyone.

[@MelodyTallmage-t5t]

Hello beautiful Kayla always put ur self first take care of yourself

[@loribroggi8375]

Good luck Kayla it is your decision on how you want to proceed with your life. Your family will come around they are only trying to protect you. I can't imagine not seeing my grandkids i am glad you are not taking the girls away from your family. They will come around in time. Wish you success and happiness.

[@ylanadinkins4139]

hi Kayla, i love your videos and they make my day better, i missed you, i support your decision 💗 🌮🌮🍕🍕🎸🎸🍫🍫🚀🚀🛡🛡💙💙🌎🌎🌟🌟🛹🛹🎧🎧🍵🍵

[@Trulyloved18]

These comments are so stupid and I’m sorry you have to deal with it. Work on your marriage Kayla and I wish you both nothing but the best. Prayers for your little family and I hope it all works out in the end. 🙏❤️🙏❤️

[@carolinewillow1081]

AGREED! They were all positive until her mother put out a video. It’s honestly so horrible.

[@nancygalle1379]

It's so good to see you Kayla you look and sound like you're doing fine w/ yourself and girls.

[@valerieshores8076]

Pleased your giving another go, your family will be fine. Their just worried your going to get hurt again. Your mum won’t be able to stay away from the girls for long, she loves them so much, as does the rest of the family xx

[@gracebreen427]

I love y’all so much, and I love your mom and siblings so I hope you guys can come back together even though you guys differ in your opinions of you and Caleb getting back together. Not having a mom’s support is so hard so your very blessed to have a mother and siblings that love and care for you so much even though you won’t always agree on everything. I’m praying everything works out for you and your family because it is important for your girls to have their dad in there lives. Xoxo 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💕💕💕💕. Also congratulations on your promotion 😊

[@heidimcgaughey2802]

Hi Kayla. Good to see you again too. I really miss your vlogs. I’m missing you Kayla. I really miss not seeing aspen and the twins too. I’m glad that you are going back to college. Aspen is so beautiful and adorable too. The twins are so adorable and cute too. The girls are so adorable too. Kayla you are a special mom too. I love your vlogs. Your family is so special too. Congratulations on your new job promotion. Tracy is such a wonderful grandma to aspen and the twins too. Bryleigh is such a special aunt to aspen and the twins too. Aden is such a sweet uncle to aspen and the twins too.

[@jacquelinereagan8241]

So glad to see you. I was praying for you and the girls. Seeking God’s will for your marriage is so courageous and wise. I pray that God will bless your marriage and your family as you all grow together. I pray that God will surround you with supportive people as it may be difficult for some to immediately jump onboard. So happy for you guys.

[@michellearseneau8119]

Kayla what it all comes down to…it’s yours and his decision. We are behind you all the way. We all make mistakes..and we all should be forgiven and given a chance,

[@debbielopez6593]

Sweetheart Kayla I am so proud of you both I know you both had to do some soul searching during the time you were separated. Plus forgiveness takes both to workout a marriage. Marriage is not easy and being young parents it is and can be overwhelming as well. No matter what happened which is no one’s business,but yours. I am glad Caleb is working on making changes for him to be a better man, husband and father. God will guide you both through this next chapter always remember God loves you both and continue to lean on him,and with hard work devotion take each day as it comes. I support you sweetheart I know this was very hard for you. Love you blessings ❤❤

[@animalcrossing810]

Praying for yours and the girls safety and well-being during this time!❤

[@kristincook7870]

Prayers for you and your girls and your marriage. I also pray that the rift you have with your family would heal. Thank you for the update.

[@amandadickey3875]

Glad to hear you and the girls are doing good. You have to do what’s best for ya’ll. Don’t worry about what anyone is saying it’s your life and you’re doing what’s best for ya’ll. ❤

[@Pamela-el9yv]

God does change people and he opens doors!! I pray for both of you and support you completely! Its not for anyone to judge your decision!! God Bless you both and your sweet babies!!

[@meghanbenham9864]

I am happy to hear you and Caleb are working through things. You are no doubt an amazing mom and strong woman. It is no one’s business and you know what is best for you and your family. Stay strong Kayla!

[@edwardleecaliforniausa]

Good morning Kayla happy Tuesday morning and this was amazing video I enjoy your channel and you are amazing supporter

[@xzAllisonxz]

Good for you Kayla!! I support your decision, you know what's best and that's the best for you and your family.

[@kathyherbert9805]

You go girl my son in law walked out 5:30 years ago and when my daughter broke her leg in May he can and helped her out with the kids 16 years boy and 11 years old girl boy it been a rough ring about 5 weeks ago the decided to get back together and all I can say is work on it and be open and honest tell him how your feeling every day good luck

[@ashleyhaskins8618]

Hi Kayla, so proud of you for letting God leading you to the right direction. I support you and your decision. I will keep you and the girls in my prayers 😊.

[@pattikopp9583]

Only YOU know what is BEST for you and your girls. Thanks for being honest with your followers. Don't read or worry about the negative comments. Prayer is your best guide.

[@patsysilliman5411]

Take things slow and praying that Caleb has changed and so glad that u want to work it out the girls need there dad

[@chelbybata5633]

i love that you are letting God lead you and your marriage will be praying for you!

[@lesleychowdhury-lx2zb]

Your life if want give go give it go, just hope doesn't do it again hurts you , missed you love your family and girls love from my family Scotland,

[@AmberClark-d6w]

im happy for you and the girls and that your trying to work things out just take it one day and one step at a time I'm sure god will help find a way for you to make it through amen 🙏

[@ldduet3]

That took a lot of courage… bless you Kayla! Your life - your choices ❤️

[@kara7249]

Do what makes you and your family happy happy

[@nisiesworld.9889]

Praying for your family. If this is what's best for you. Then I say do it. I support you. 💙

[@erica2730]

Much love to you and your family girl!! Regardless you should be supported by the people most important to you!! You and your babies happiness matters more then anything. I understand there is a lot of grey area in the situation but you deserve to be able to make your own be judgements and have your family have your back 🤷‍♀️❤️ I hope it all works out in the end!! ❤️

[@KATHLEENKAHANE]

Hi Kayla, Thank you for the update just want you to know that we love and care for the three of you and pray for a good reunion we are here for you no matter what and support you in all areas may this time around bless you in many ways and good to hear on the promotion congrats.

[@lthomas2074]

Well your an adult and it's your decision, I hope everything works out and wish you the best. Hopefully things will get better in time and people would respect your decision. Follow your heart and do what is best for you❤

[@samg873]

Maybe Caleb had to lose Kayla to straighten his butt up

[@calebjenkins4423]

@@samg873you right

[@kristypaul8067]

Praying for you and your babies Kayla your in my thoughts and prayers ❤

[@cathygalea2558]

Happy that you are giving him another chance to work it out it is your life and the girls you have a great support system with your family

[@gayleclark8870]

So proud of you, I hope that everything works out for you both. ❤

[@naidahayslette79]

I am proud of you for letting God lead you. Continuing prayers for you all and I support you regardless!

[@SherreeHarris-c2q]

Kayla..you are soo beautiful inside and out. And only you know where God is leading you and what is best for your family. Satan's goal is to seek and destroy the family. And he always starts with the father. We all have fallen prey to Satan's temptations. I find it very encouraging that he feels the tug of God. You all will be in my prayers. Love you soo much.🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕

[@NoraChester]

You have to do what's best for you and the girls!!!! If you can work on your marriage then I'm praying 🙏 🤲 everything works out for both of you!!!!

[@julienacey5047]

It's a fresh of air that people try to rectifie there marriage .of just throwing it away .marriage is hard work and it needs constant work . Try and make tome for your self's as a couple ❤

[@MJ-mi9jx]

I'm praying it works out for you, and i dont know what happened with your family, but i am hoping it works out cause i miss seeing you and your girls on your mums channel, but praying it work out with you and calab ❤

[@kathyhuffman8419]

I HAVE MISSED YOUR VIDEOS GLAD TO SEE YOU BACK ON I WILL BE PRAYING FOR YOU AND CALEB GOD BLESS YOU AND TAKE CARE

[@Marilyn-yd8tm]

Hi I wish you and your family all the very best and hope you can all heal and get to a good place again love from the UK ❤️

[@JanBasquez]

Congratulations on your job promotion!!! Give Aspyn and the twins hugs & kisses! 😘

[@t.ellevision]

Hi sweetheart!! Missed you and been praying for you and the girls ❤❤❤ Edit: I totally understand the concern I've been in your shoes before, so I get it. I think with some time and with Caleb proving himself that people will come around. They love you and the girls and YALL are their number one priority. Stay strong sweet girl God will work all things out for His good 💕

[@ItsKaylaVictoria]

Thank you so much!! We’ve been doing good

[@t.ellevision]

​@@ItsKaylaVictoriaI'm so glad!! Yall are very loved 💕

[@lisatimm8466]

Sending you all a lot of Prayers and also a lot of love your guys way ❤️ 💕 💜 ♥️ yes girl you are so very right we really do need to put everything that we are going through in our life and just put it all in the Lord's hands even if we are going through some hard times and even if we are going through some good times too he will always always be there to help us out. I am really proud of you Kayla and Caleb for trying to work on your guys Marriage and getting your guys beautiful little family back together ❤️ 💙 💗 ♥️ 💜 I really love you guys and I am also a big fan of yours

[@catherinethebingolover1113]

kayla prayers for u kaleb and the girls hope it goes good for u and u do for u and what u think is best. best wish for a happy future

[@soundmanpt]

I just posted a comment to you on a video you did from over 5 years ago. IT was called "I'm Exhausted" and it was the first time you were seen wearing glasses. Yo even made a comment about the fact that you were wearing glasses to go shopping. I commented because the glasses you were wearing brought back memories for be from my days as an optician. It was a very popular frame and I fitted quite few young ladies with that very same frame. I wondered if having been pregnant at least twice may have played a role in your having to wear glasses. In looking at your current glasses the lenses don't appear to have gotten much if any stronger over the years. I'm going to assume you have likely gotten several eye exams since then. Have you been needing small increases since then or have you had no changes? By the way I like your current glasses on you. So much different from the frames from 5 years ago.

[@joagate3259]

Hope it works out as I've been there said all right things to me. But sadly it was not good idea but hope it's ok and know children have a new sibling so it's important for everone, we don't know mum is not speaking to Kayla they will sort it all out because can't believe Kayla can do without her mum. But I do hope this is not how it is. Just do cheats ever change in general but Kayla a adult and she will wAnt her mum they so close it will work iut.

[@kimberlylipps1054]

I’m happy for you Kayla and your girls ❤

[@bevbarrett8537]

Hi I will keep you in prayer for all of you as a family if this is what God wants then it will work out for you praying together will help you I went back to my ex husband 18 years later and it worked out for many a year so I wish you all the best for the future for you all love prayers and blessings 🙏Xxxxx

[@ashtenreeavery]

praying for you!❤

[@ernurse3699]

I respect you trying again with Caleb for your family ❤ Sending prayers up🙏🏻