Terrance & Denisha Catch Up | With Arlette Amuli REACTION

[@derwingaston1820]

Y’all missing that Terrance slowed down bc of her red flags. He is just too nice to say it directly. He did the right thing. He should have pumped his breaks after all the things he mentioned towards the end.

[@BlackLuv17]

👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@jackievaughn1771]

Amen, she was very wrong for him, she is chasing clot , fame, just wanting too be on TV 📺 she never really wanted too be with him. That why she has so many male friends. That girl doesn’t want to be in no relationship, she think she’s all that. And it all about her and only her, she’s trying too make him look bad. Terrance isn’t a fool, he seemed all the red flags 🚩, if a person really wants too get to know someone, they will try too do everything they can do, to see that person. So they can get to know them -- not keep on making excuses after excuses. And blaming everything on him, like she not doing anything wrong. Like she’s so perfect, just because she say she a Christian. Real Christian, do not play games, on people they want too get too know. Like she blocked him, and he’s not stocking her at all. And she was 30 something minutes last too their date as well, as he was late -- they couldn’t work that out. She is a loser, and came on the show for fame, if I was Arlette Amuli , I wouldn’t never let her come back on the show -- she is (fake) and Terrance deserve, another chance to find Love ❤️❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ ❤

[@jackievaughn1771]

Right on

[@rahimthompson]

You have to watch women like her. She’s articulate which disarms people so that she can gather information quickly about them. She was gaslighting and weaponizing things she learned about Terrence. The subtle jabs about “confidence,” “insecurity,” etc., validates what I’m thinking. I bet he caught on and fell back.

[@dripbeasy5]

facts shes a narcissist for sure

[@QueenOS76]

Exactly..I said she reminded me of the type that would beat herself up then call the police on you...She gives Psycho in my opinion..lol😂 . I'm laughing but I'm Soooo serious tho.

[@Hinokami777]

@@dripbeasy5and toxic gaslighter

[@Hinokami777]

@@QueenOS76yep! Can tell she been hurt in the past and now taking vengeance on any other man

[@jackievaughn1771]

He did, Terrance ain’t dumb

[@biggsmarley8318]

Kitezz and his wife,one of my new favorite channels

[@KiteZz_]

Welcome to the family, we are honored to have you 😁🙏

[@NaijaBoiTellEm]

Bro dodged a bullet for sure. He messed up with not communicating how he felt but for someone who calls themselves a "Disciple", she was moving and speaking more like a Pharisee.

[@adielwilson8749]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@kikialeaki1850]

D-disciple

[@Hinokami777]

And a Harlet

[@Wedat24]

They both wrong in this but her true colors came out at the end Terrance dodge a bullet

[@rebeccapetty1k390]

@Wedat24 what true colors ?! She was upset with him of course she’s gonna say things to upset him again what true colors ?! 🤡 if you defend Terrence on this one really you must be as f**** up as he is

[@Wedat24]

@@rebeccapetty1k390 shut up weirdo idk why you @ me 🤡

[@jackievaughn1771]

That girl, was no good for him, she talked a big game to beat the other ladies on the show, but she’s wrong, wrong, wrong -- remember she & he said after they match, they went too the club, and one of her male friend was there. She says she a Christian, Christian don’t hang out in clubs. Not real ones. And meeting male friends, and she believes, everything how too be planned out around her schedule

[@jackievaughn1771]

And she be drinking

[@KiteZz_]

IMPORTANT: This is still a REACTION. We do not know everything nor are we going to push like we know everything. This is our opinions, we are not claiming it to be FACTS. At the end of the day we hope both Terrance and Denisha find love in their own ways. Thank you. Join The Discord! discord.gg/2g1a Time Stamps 00:00 Intro 00:32 Opening Statements 01:24 Reaction Starts 02:18 Recap 04:27 Did They Date? 19:32 Another Woman 33:43 Denisha's Red Flags 44:32 Terrance's Red Flags 01:08:38 Denisha Blocked Terrance 01:16:13 Who Was Wrong?(OPINION)

[@jackievaughn1771]

He was wrong, from not Communicating too her, before their date, and in between time to his arrival too the date, since he was running late. And she was wrong too diss him, and everything else she did, blocking him etc……….

[@jj10176]

At worst Terrence had bad communication but still tried with her. She has a lot of red flags but for ppl to make terrrence the villain is crazy considering he took a couple of bullets on this segment and was still respectful

[@BlackLuv17]

STILL rooting for Terrance.. Glad he knows who she is Now.

[@jackievaughn1771]

Terrance is a good person, his work schedule is crazy

[@jval46]

So she is over there saying don’t call me after 9, in the mean time she over there getting drunk with not one, but two disciples? Sounds like someone is still attempting to explore some options. 🤔

[@backpackmami]

😂🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂

[@tinkerman4326]

​@@rebeccapetty1k390 nah. You're not making the point you think you're making. They're both wrong in this situation

[@rockon8174]

@@tinkerman4326 point was made. Read the comment again.

[@EsmyBurnett20]

Exactly she needs to make it make sense. The math is not mathing SMH

[@rza380.]

True like after 9pm wtf is we in high school

[@dontbringmelemons]

This opened my eyes. I’m not ashamed to admit I have some of her qualities (blocking people and not giving men enough grace). I’m making the change TODAY. I don’t want to to end up bitter and single forever.

[@trixflyordie]

Proud to hear it

[@burgerdude9271]

I really enjoy the commentary that you guys bring to the table very wise and well spoken individuals

[@bunggelo]

Y'all this one really upset me! If people actually listened they would first notice when Terrance said he was planning to take her out to do things she wanted but she was impatient. That for me was easily confirmed by her literally going out and buying tickets for not 1 but 2 events. But what really pissed me off was how she tried to flip it on Terrance about them not having a real second date when she was 30 minutes late. Even when it was mentioned she tried to brush past it like. "Oh I don't know what happened, I think I was late". But then when Terrance just naturally assumed they were meeting on another occasion he was playing on her time. That's crazy, I feel like it was only myself and maybe 3 other people really caught on to the fuckery. I don't like how ppl tore Terrance down and acted like he was supposed to just accept anything and move fast to accommodate someone that was just being pushy, desperate, and yet disrespectful and unaccountable. The girl is red flag and honestly low key manipulative. Also I don't like how some people tried to make it seem like Terrance IS broke and didn't pay for the outings they went on. As if he was the one that made this girl go out and buy ticket preemptively. That was her choice to do, she didn't want to wait for him to plan their dates, no one told her to do all that. Ultimately I feel like because Terrance is the only one person who's ever had his own spin off on the show, he became a target for weirdos and she one of them. Team Terrance all the way. And I'm not saying he's perfect. But I am saying she didn't deserve my boy to even put in the effort if people could actually see through to her character. Just look at the body language, she was rolling her eyes when he was talking and taking little jabs. Terrance was being nice if you pay attention he didn't really air out how she acts behind the scene. But she is OFF. Bullet dodged!

[@rockon8174]

Indeed!!!!

[@Coachkingrod]

She wasn't impatient she was frustrated. That's BS. He literally planned a date and she didn't even know if she was bring picked up or not. She explained this clearly.

[@abdelhak_13]

Nah, don't pin it on her. She was late for 30 mins and then Terrence decided to call it quits, he came back at 10 to save face as she said for the sake of the "story". Her story was pretty consistent and Terrence agreed with everything she said, he tried to make excuses but then she responded to everything and explained everything clearly. The only date that Terrence scheduled was a miserable failure because he played with her so hard, he made her wait, and even when he was running late, he texted her "where you at?"... what kind of BS is this? He played with her time and basically tested her and she clearly didn't want to completely bash him, especially when it comes to the tone of the conversations he tried to have with her at night. Terrence at least didn't object to anything she said. Also, let's not forget that the whole communication got compromised because Terrence that Denisha being a disciple is a bad thing and he quite literally he said it was "a deal breaker". I'm not team nobody, that's so childish. I'm team facts. Terrence blew this and that is okay, but don't put it on Denisha, it's not her fault.

[@BlackLuv17]

Team Terence all the way.. the minute she started talking I knew it was going to be downhill for Terrance because she was the wrong choice. I wonder if ivory is still available. Terrance will find love with a petite woman 🎉🎉🎉

[@abdelhak_13]

@@BlackLuv17 I'm not sure about the physical attraction, because Terrence seems to not be fully transparent here and it's an issue and a waste of time and only confirms what Denisha already said about him. Arlette should've given him the opportunity to see his match because choosing people purely based on their answers without seeing them is crazy. It seems like Terrence saw that he has options, which he deserves ofc, but he should've been truthful about not being into Denisha and therefore not wasting her time as she explained multiple times. A man should know what he wants, and be straight to the point. I feel like Terrence will definitely be back on the show though, sooner or later, he's one of the most beloved contestants.

[@loxsochic]

He doesn't know how to "establish a presence"...spot on!! "Yes. I would also say that he seems to lack confidence, and comes off a bit "wimpy" - I hope that he finds his voice, and understands his worth, establishes boundaries, etc...because I am sure he is a great guy and she is a great young lady...and can use this as a learning lesson. Let me just say that I liked you both before but knowing that you both are believers! And just how you carry yourselves on your channel, and how you give reactions from a solid and Christ-based perspective is refreshing. Y'all feel like family...so hey, cousins! Love y'all...🙂Keep going, your channel is great - you both are great, continue moving upward. May God bless your channel and that it continues to grow and positively impact millions! 💯❣

[@Chaos92muffin]

Once i heard yall break out the bible my spirit leapt like john the Baptist in his mothers womb. Say it louder for the people in the back!! We need more faces in God's word. 🙏🏾 Legit loving yall commentary & deep diving, breaking down everything analyzing it & looking at things from all angles. This is the type of woman you don't wanna bring home to your mom, let alone date/marry (even if she says shes a Christian)

[@KiteZz_]

God blessed us with this channel growth, it would be disrespectful to not give him his dues every chance we get 😁🙏

[@kbis2cold]

I will say this much...Terrance is not good at communicating. Because at the beginning he did a horrible job of communicating his version of how things went. That basically handed her the floor to dog him out. In the end we found out that she really is a mess.

[@KiteZz_]

He chose too late to fight back. Thus the damage was done

[@cindy_rn8348]

​@@KiteZz_ Exactly 💯💯💯

[@jackievaughn1771]

Yes

[@Scoobydoowasacat]

Just started the video and I heard y’all say you guys were outputting 20 videos a day and bro I gotta just take a moment to show some respect for the work that y’all putting in, I got my own channel I’m working on on a different account and bro I gotta say the amount of editing I have to be doing for each video is really a chore for the content I’m doing so I gotta respect that y’all are so consistent while also having your warehouse jobs from what I remember in your previous vids. You guys are truly inspirational keep it up 💪🏽

[@MikeJones-pf3bp]

Facts they stay grinding fr 🫡

[@KiteZz_]

It is a lot of work and it has humbled me completely. I have so much respect for the youtubers who did this in the early 2000s and 2010s because it had to have been even harder back then. Keep grinding also let me know your other channel id love to support! Thank you for sticking with us.

[@delandomcwilliams5737]

She's selfish. Bottom line. Terrance has to do everything on her time with her rules. Terrance could find much better. I hope to see him on Season 2. Leave her be. Don't start anything else with her.

[@mandym918]

Terrence dodged a huge bullet. She said some of her male friends may like her😅 shes not serious

[@Hinokami777]

Nah she completely confirmed that some do and smiled about it smh. The moment a man confesses he wants you intimately and romantically he’s not a friend…. These women be gas lighting. Nothing platonic about that relationship cause the moment she gives that friend a try they’re taking that opportunity

[@jackievaughn1771]

No, not at all, she when on the show for fame only. Not too meet anyone, she just wanted too win, by telling him everything he wanted too hear. On the show, not one time she said-- hey I got a lot of male friends, you going too how to deal with. If she had said that, she knows, she wouldn’t been pick at all. She just made herself look 👀 good for TV 📺

[@backpackmami]

14:58 see…i like the wife! 😂 me and her are so here ✌️👀✌️😂 she peeped game….like i peeped game…and we ain’t with the bs! Lol

[@crossbearer2471]

What I probably hated the most was how people in the comment section on the original video just dragged Terrance but said nothing about this woman and how manipulative and somewhat condescending she was. Just because someone professes to be of Christ does not mean they are going to behave in a Christlike way. Maybe Terrance is not the best communicator or the most assertive but one thing I still say he has going for himself is that he is a genuine dude with a good heart. She did a good job at hiding her true colors until the end, but I'm glad she started to reveal herself and I truly believe he picked up on this earlier. He dodged a serious bullet.

[@KiteZz_]

People pick sides extremely fast in this world. That opening sequence did enough damage to Terrances reputation that a lot of people were not interested in hearing what he had to say.

[@jamardegraffenreid128]

Terrence has to do a lot better with his communication !!!!! He sounds like a mumble rapper when he speaks . Terrence I'm pulling for you bro it's not all on you but you have to.do better

[@BlackLuv17]

From the beginning of her speaking I knew Terrance was in the right I just felt it.

[@Hinokami777]

@@jamardegraffenreid128he’s country and a bit shy

[@ORIGINAL__ONE]

Terrance Wins : Her Red Flags : Tattoos Drinking after 9:00 pm But told Terrance don't call after 9:00 Multiple Male friends that like you and hang out with them getting drunk No Patience for time to get to know a potential husband Want men to be consistent Constantly blowing up her phone Sheit testing him about other Men in her DM Today's Modern Woman

[@AlwonDomz]

12:52 Ashley explained to Terrance that he can bring a change of clothes when he said he had a tailgate on episode 1. Ironically, Terrance fought WAY harder to date Ashley him than this young lady.

[@jval46]

Honestly Terrance got an L and a W. That girl is problematic, condescending and just making her story to seem like Terrance was a not putting effort. Instead when you really pay attention, you will see that she is just a person who only wants to make time for the things she wants. I get Terrance can’t communicate, but there has to be a middle ground. Naw, Terrance saved himself from her. She giving divorce vibes. I’m very curious about how she is with other men. I don’t think she is who she say she is, I think she just knows how to sell her story to people and people will fall for it.

[@rebeccapetty1k390]

@jval46 how can you make excuses for that dude when he himself confirmed he didn’t make the effort ?!!! Always trying to sneak in some criticism to women even when they are not in the wrong .. gtfo 🤡

[@BlackLuv17]

Greet breakdown on that woman 👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

[@Hinokami777]

Even if he sucks at communication atleast he shows up on time. She doesn’t and she set the standard at that moment then things went downhill

[@AaronBass-f5x]

They both had issues. But he is too nice too nice and wont tell all the issues he has with her.

[@Josef_Stylin]

You know I like these catch ups with reactions, because it gives you perspective and understanding. Without it you could let your feelings form and your opinions could make you bash Terrance or her. 👍🏽

[@dg91097]

I was waiting for this reaction

[@CallMeMaykes]

Same!

[@KiteZz_]

Hopefully we gave you guys solid content 😁🙏

[@KongoBongo965]

After watching both Videos I feel as if we all need to take sometime to be alone and understand are selves better cuz people are to darn complicated and I'm on my own Journey as is and it ain't nothing wrong with being single hope u guys have a nice day and week

[@KiteZz_]

Hope you have a blessed Week as well 😁🙏

[@backpackmami]

agreed. I believe it’s the ppl who want take that time to know themselves, don’t want to see themselves fr fr, they would rather be with someone and project their struggles and insecurities on them then do the work on themselves.

[@tyboogie2k10]

If u been paying attention to her body language she doesn't look happy

[@christinas1375]

I noticed that as well

[@MikeJones-pf3bp]

Personally, the first half she made him look bad but when the truth came out in the end bro really dodged a bullet. So basically Terrance should have communicated clearly and just cut it off like any man/woman would, especially once she said “why should I choose you over the guys in my dm’s.” First off- the date to the comedy show wasnt even a date for them, she was supporting her friend and wanted bro as a plus one, then she showed up LATE and expected him to stay with dirty work clothes. And then she even said bro isn’t allowed to hit her up after 9 even though he gets off close to 7. But yet she’s out here saying she’s a disciple but hangs out with male friends who she said like her (wanna smash, waiting on his downfall) drinking after 9. Then she calls him insecure for questioning that? That is on top of her admitting to him that she was a cheater and steady mentioning her ex on the show before. That’s my only thing with Terrance- he should make it clear that he won’t accept foolishness. Theres a difference between being nice and a pushover. Also think he would’ve been better off with girl #2 from the show. Just my take on it

[@TSidez]

Facts

[@KiteZz_]

I feel like becauss Terrance allowed her to tell her side so vastily at the start and he basically came into the fight swinging horribly from behind that even as he started to expose the truth, the damage was already deeply done.

[@MikeJones-pf3bp]

💯

[@MikeJones-pf3bp]

@KiteZz_ yeah I’m glad y’all looked at both sides cuz most people were killing him in the comments without watching the whole vid

[@BlackLuv17]

Exactly!!! Ivory was/is the better choice for Him. I was on Terrance side the minute she started talking.. I'm STILL rooting for Terrance 🎉🎉🎉

[@1_Kwabena]

Kitez from Baltimore talking about “tew”😂😂

[@bunggelo]

Another thing is it's not considerate to invite someone out for pizza when the original plan was to go to a comedy show and you were the one who had him waiting for 30 minutes. I need everybody to connect these dots. That was the least she could do, because if I was Terrance I personally would have went home and wouldn't have came back outside to meet her after that. If the shoe was on the other foot we'd be grilling the guy, but the double standards are just ridiculous. She herself said she's fast paced, from what I gather the lady was literally just buying tickets for them to do stuff and just telling him hey let's go do this. And to my understanding Terrance briefly said he was planning to do something nice for her that he knew she wanted to do, BUT she is impatient. See Terrance kind of frustrated me because I personally think he didn't really want to tell everybody just how much she was forcing it. But if you really pay attention you can tell.

[@KiteZz_]

I feel what you are saying. At the end of the day we can see both sides point but we also have the unfortunate situation of not knowing the truth hidden between. Thank you for your comments though, im sure they will be food for thought for some people who are leaning either way.

[@trixflyordie]

It was her friend hosting the event. She probably got tickets from her. And he was there on time

[@Bankroll284]

She already didn’t want to mess with him before the first date when she found out he wasn’t a disciple, so she had to find a reason to stop dealing with him …and she was only saying things that’ll make it seem like it was all him for the reason they stopped communicating. Just like when she said she never asked him to go to church and he said she definitely asked him to go…she leaves certain parts out of her stories and is only telling us what she feels will keep her in the clear…

[@Hinokami777]

Yup!!!! Funny how she claims she so holy but has a team of male friends she’s promiscuous with

[@1_Kwabena]

I love that yall tie these reactions back to the bible and the Lord ! as someone trying to better myself in Christ I really appreciate your viewpoints you two have very just eyes for young people you two are a very wise couple definitely my favorite reaction channel and couple on YT❤

[@rich_on_intention]

Terrence needs to work on his dating skills because to date women is a skill and better understand yourself. He dropped the ball from a poor skills to initiate, plan and pursue. I will say he recognized red flags but needs to communicate better. I will say this girl is full of it saying she has guy friends that like her in a romantic sense, says she doesn't want talk past a certain time but outside with guy friends drinking, and thought her question about what makes him different from the guys in the DMs is crazy.

[@S.R.SERUM75]

That's because she wasn't into him like that,because if she was TRULY feelin' him,it would've NEVER mattered if he called after 9pm. When a man is "THE GUY" in a woman's eyes,she will break or bend her own rules.

[@rich_on_intention]

@@S.R.SERUM75 this is all facts, he just wasn’t that guy for her.

[@S.R.SERUM75]

@@rich_on_intention 💯✊🏾🤝🏿

[@itsYourChance]

Her eyes tell me she's toxic. She has emotional issues or someone burned her . She has control issues and takes the lead. Cuz impatient or immature females can tend to do that. U must let them lead. If u don't. U will resent them. If they won't lead..it may not be it. She gives sideways comments and insults. She also says he should be confident and secure in their relationship. They don't yet have one. He may not move super quick..I feel he will lead but in his way. He's laid back..she's too anxious. I think she has anxious attachment style. I can already tell. She put him on the defense assuming he's as many guys in dms of which are about and for a booth call most likely. Red flags of either wounds or tooo guarded defensive. The eyes are a windows to the soul. I get the download in one second lookin at them.

[@rockon8174]

She is impulsive with the alcohol AND food. The soft voice is to disarm. She loses 100 pounds, she will be doing stuff with those male "disciples." 🙄

[@Hinokami777]

Someone definitely did that’s why she keeps a bunch of male friends on standby for backup just incase….

[@benl4707]

This lady is coming off of being fired n dumped by boyfriend in Atlanta, having to move back to Arizona recently: ie projecting! She trying to find her way: ie drama, bs, religion. Terrance should of chose the other girl (she said she was the one her family leans on etc) guaranteed she was the best out of the bunch for his speed...he would have had to step-up alittle but still on the that speed.

[@BlackLuv17]

Yes he And Ivory would have worked out better.

[@dripbeasy5]

she disgusts me 😂 terrance we wit ya bro, shes either delusional about her actions or shes playing stupid. terrance a good dude I’m not switching up classic narcissist 💀

[@jamardegraffenreid128]

No wonder this young lady is single. Tell me what man in there right mind is ok with his lady having a lot of guy friends ???!! Most men are not ok with that. Her exes lied to her. Another problem terrence is way too nice. At some point your going to have to man up bro.

[@Hinokami777]

Exactly. She calling us insecure cause we have common sense and are not fools. Call us what you want. While she stays single and unmarried , smashing her homies

[@valyncia3961]

I'll just say, listening to terrance SPEAK on this catch up was a hard listen for me personally...

[@ZeeNacole]

I'm not going to pick aside but I will say this, Terrance was watching her behavior.

[@wlovelex]

they both have some things they need to work on. and i hope this recap opened their eyes to those things. if not, they will keep going through the same cycle until they do.

[@BossLady0707]

She for the streets, she didnt get her way and blocked him. Terrace have some things to learn but he seems genuine. He dodged a bullet.

[@skorwolf2719]

This girl is toxic give Terence another show

[@Coachkingrod]

He'll no lol.

[@its9333]

Also what’s the beat musicat the disclaimer in the beginning?

[@KiteZz_]

Its a Beat from the Filmora Editing software. The song specifically is called "Battle of Hope AI Music"

[@NitroMarvelous]

I had one Block me during the relationship. I've learned to leave that alone.

[@iamtired9350]

Blocked him for no reason, numerous of male friends, doesn't want him to call after 9 but is out after 9 with male friends, etc...TERRANCE DODGED A BULLET!

[@QueenOS76]

Alex is looking beautiful in this video🥰#Queen

[@thelayer006]

I don’t know how ppl are bashing Terrance but Denise’s messed up too.

[@KiteZz_]

They both did bad.

[@thelayer006]

@@KiteZz_ big facts

[@Bankroll284]

In the beginning when she said she was 30 minutes late and she still found a way to blame Terrance…i knew she was going to be saying bs the whole video🤦🏾‍♂️Terrance dodge a bullet fashoo smfh

[@Hinokami777]

Facts!!!! Narcissist

[@its9333]

Perfect timing😂

[@AlwonDomz]

40:47 C’mon y’all… Innocence? Doesn’t know better? Terrance is a grown man… If you’re going to date someone, do it or don’t… This lady went through too much trouble to get Terrance and date Terrance for Terrance to be so dizzy and limp-noodle about everything…

[@KiteZz_]

At the end, we believe they both did bad over all. But we also understand Terrance should have done way better for sure.

[@AlwonDomz]

@@KiteZz_: We’re 90% on the same page. I see Terrance as the problem personally, especially if he can find time to be on Arlette’s show 4-5 times. Hope things workout for both but this recap was the most frustrating lol

[@danounou00]

They're both single so I'm not sure why this young lady is being bashed. The issue I have with Terrance is that on multiple occasions he tries so hard to be picked, which will land him in these kinds of situations when dating. I don't think Terrance knows that he himself is a CATCH. He's a hardworking and family minded man. He needs to surround himself with men of higher caliber and work on his confidence, public speaking, and overall purpose as a man. I feel like he's dragging his feet (literally), he seems very laid back but lacks a lot of initiative. The situation with the male friends, again she's an unwed young woman with a healthy social life and is looking to date until she's courted but Terrance needs to learn how to communicate his concerns tactfully and set boundaries as well. I think (bad on her part) she was throwing the "options" in his face because the lack of seriousness from Terrance.. almost like a "hey I know I came on the show for you, and I sold you on me... but I'm also experiencing you as well...step up."

[@KiteZz_]

Well the reason the she comes under fire is the things she was revealed to be doing towards the end. Comparing him to her DMs was for sure a no. There is never a reason to throw "What makes you better, than the men in my dms" is defenitly going to rub any man the wrong way especially in the mindset that they are trying to get past just "dating", then to call him insecure for not liking the question is a no-go. But I agree with what you said towards Terrance, I think hes his own worst enemy.

[@danounou00]

I 100% agree with your commentary, she was definitely gaslighting Terrance by using emotional baited words like “insecure”. In the terms of bashing the young lady, it came from seeing “she’s for the streets” comments all over IG with commentators only watching an edited clip. Like you both said, Terrance needs to be more assertive… I just hate that his form of communication lacks words that will actually land and depict how he feels. This can be very problematic running into people who will over talk you. He comes off as lacking self confidence, he’s a bit lackadaisical.

[@BluPhire4Hire]

She sounds like she wants a stable so she can have guys who want her readily available to feed her ego. Terrance, please avoid her! I bet if you dig into it, some of those guys probably have a similar story and background with her. Sad thing is before even hearing it through folks were ready to destroy Terrance over this. He's a laid back dude who deserves much better. He should communicate better, but he didn't deserve the shots and hate he got over this.

[@BlackLuv17]

Thank you for clarifying THAT!! I am STILL rooting for Terrance 🎉🎉🎉

[@Hinokami777]

Exactly!!!!!

[@Hinokami777]

She wants a bunch of “friends “ on standby and as backups

[@rockon8174]

55:00 brings up randos in dms, has a bunch of male orbiters, has tattoos, eats a lot....red flags!!!! Run!

[@BlackLuv17]

Quick fast Terrance be out!!!

[@SusieSue242]

There should be one date a week and a daily phone call for 30 minutes. If you can’t give that you’re not ready to date.

[@jeffreyjay1723]

Not making excuses for Terrence in his lack of initiative with not planning the dates, however wasn't really into her! I felt Terrence picked the wrong contestant on the show. His decision boiled down to contestant 2 & 3. I believe he should have chose contestant number 2 the petite young lady with the bubbly personality. When contestant number 2 revealed herself I felt that Terrence was very attracted to her and I felt what's fillingham as well. When contestant number 3 revealed herself, I felt in my gut that she wasn't the right one for him even when she was behind the screen her vibratton and energy was on a lower level, IMO. The other young lady contestant number 2 had an energetic personality she had some umph! about herself, she seemed like a lot of fun, she had a good sense of humor, she seemed very level-headed, she wasn't taller than him and aesthetically they looked very good together.

[@BlackLuv17]

EXACTLY!!! I am hoping that Arlette can Get he and ivory together if she is willing to reconnect with him because she matched with someone as well but she was a better fit and Terrance saw THAT.

[@naitjj1]

LMAOOO them both saying oh @18:50. Im sorry but terrence could have put more effort, if you are interested in someone, you go above and beyone but hey thats just how i feel. He made the date so it is his responsibility to let her know the time and place in the first place tho

[@Candy004]

Sigh… maybe we’ll get a Reggie and Nova update. They looked cozy in the group pic with Phillip and Brittney

[@articstorm007]

That's one I'm waiting on

[@zidane8452]

Also Australia and emeka

[@duediligence7557]

I would like to see the Pop the balloon 🎈 episode with them first... I wander if it will air or was there something that went wrong with the video footage of that episode...

[@jackievaughn1771]

He’s not insecure, because he’s calling her out on her bull crap, drinking with male friends when you trying too get too know someone

[@jackievaughn1771]

That girl didn’t give him a chance-- she new he liked her a lot-- he had work situations that week - getting off late

[@mimiwins1]

I’ve had 2 guy friends for over 20 years and I never had any romantic interest in them. And I can only assume they never had interest in me. Once they say they have interest in you but you don’t then it’s a complicated situation and personally I would pull back and not use them to make someone else jealous. Which is what this woman did to Terrance.

[@speaktruth9989]

26:00 yeah 32:40 yup 39:18 agreed 49:40 yeah they both wrong

[@BlackLuv17]

Terrance will find TRUE love in a petite woman.. hopefully Ivory is still available 🎉🎉🎉

[@shaelovesJesus]

I had a male friend for 13-16 years We were once sexually active with one another. Each time I had a boyfriend, friendship was put on pause. Once I got married, friend was cut off!!

[@lorab74]

Terrance dodged the bullet and her red flags

[@yoshix8441]

First of all Terrance, they could never make me hate you! But i feel as though he should’ve communicated wayyy better to this woman because of the red flags he saw, he fell back and I think it’s that simple. However she didn’t deserve to be wasting her time and left in the dark on how he really felt. Everyone is talking about her going out and living her life, what is she supposed to do while waiting on Terrance to apply that pressure? Sit on the couch waiting for a man to court her?He didn’t show enough effort because he lost interest. As a woman she had every right to pull her energy back after that.

[@KiteZz_]

This was a solid breakdown 🙏 its unfortunate that we never will know how everything truly went down because I feel like they didn't truly get everything off their chests for sure.

[@yoshix8441]

@@KiteZz_ Thx and I agree, communication is key. I wish them both the best!

[@jackievaughn1771]

She was doing things with friends, after 9pm, but he couldn’t call or text her -- she was closes minded toward him. I think she was mad because he didn’t get too go too the show with her

[@vintageeagle8853]

I like to interject 😂😂😂😂😂 In my opinion they both need to go their Separate way yes terrance mess up but he need to know next time he date another girl just be on time and tell her stuff ahead so she wont feel some type of way As for her: she too old to play games like that nobody have time to block or unblock somebody and dont call me after 9 but i can go out with pinky and the brain She needs jesus 😂😂😂

[@Shaylahrsm]

It’s the mumbling 😫

[@salonegal4024]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 understanding everything he says is a struggle fr !

[@tonethevirgo]

& She blocked him on everything , then unblocked him 🤦🏽‍♂️ *Siri play ain’t no Love Jay z*

[@BoujieKCTrucker]

1:17:42 trickery is what it was.

[@hearddemonta4]

Always take initiative. There's no excuses with planning dates. Get to know a person, and while yall on the phone do your research and Google some spots. It seemed like danisha was really trying to throw Terrance. I agree with wife. These are tagalong dates.

[@ORIGINAL__ONE]

Men : Work Eat Poop Sleep Talk on the phone to girls During the week Date on your day off If she want to see you in workdays she'll come to you

[@CullodenJones]

I couldn't wait 2 hear what yall gotta to say, y'all the perfect couple with the critical thinking bouncing off each other!

[@FearlesslyInPursuit]

Terrance. I watched the entire video. He didn’t do the necessary steps to set the tone nor pursue her. And she was over it. It shouldn’t take weeks ot months to initiate dates and show entrance. Is Terrance timid??? If he is he needs to grow up. Ugggh

[@KiteZz_]

Thats fine, but I would like to ask, how you felt about the issues Terrance brought up? He did bad though thats not even a debate 😭

[@jackievaughn1771]

He need too go out with Ivory

[@dmoore4889]

9 is not late and she’s not going to make me think it is 😂. Imo if a guy is telling you he sees you as a love interest he is no longer a friend, he is a guy waiting his turn.

[@Hinokami777]

Facts!!!! And her gets off work at 7. Gtta drive home , shower , then eat. She’s impossible

[@LelandBWorking]

Terrance need to be more grown in his approach. If he was more assertive, she would’ve followed his lead. Men gotta take accountability.

[@shaelovesJesus]

The thing is: if he was hanging with his female friends like she was, she would feel some kind of way. The word "insecure" get tossed around too freely.

[@Hinokami777]

Yup!!!! Pure hypocrisy

[@mimiwins1]

I agree she had some red flags especially telling him “what makes you different from the guys in my dm?” but Terrance simply put forth no effort or planning for the dates. If you have a date set up go ahead and have some clothes ready to change. He wasn’t even communicating with ther what time they were supposed to meet for a date, never communicated he was running late, plus there is no excuse he couldn’t have some general ideas what to do on a date. Arlette has given Terrance many changes time to move on - no more Terrance videos please

[@Hinokami777]

He barely had a chance she controlled everything and was impatient

[@DLShoulders29]

I watched the Arlette video all the way to the end. I have one question: I know Terrance is a project, but are all the women Arlette bring on this clumsy?? All of the women who match seem, I’ll be nice and just say petty. This is sad. 🤦🏽‍♂️ I’m afraid we’re going to have to do an intervention for Arlette.

[@JERRYDELVA-li4wn]

Your wife is right I don’t think Terrence was didn’t know because she bought the tickets. She told him suddenly so she knew that he was going to work and she knew that he’s not gonna come to no stinking think about it. Most women hate when you feel like that, he just come sit next to you, watch the thing in his work clothes.

[@nTrubl3]

Until Terrence improves hisself he will never be satisfied with the outcomes with women

[@girlinstyle4957]

idk what her goal or intentions were but I'll tell you she failed at getting me to see Terrence as anything but sweet and genuine. I still think he is a good guy and hopefully he just takes this as a learning lesson and stays persistent and his sweet self. I pray God sends him someone just a down to earth as him.

[@tonethevirgo]

I give up on rooting for ppl 🤦🏽‍♂️

[@KiteZz_]

Miscommunication happens, I feel like we didn't get to see Everything that lead to them going wrong but there are some flags on both ends. 😔

[@toyrisgoodwyn5120]

Single ppl stay away from dating shows, continue bettering yourself and take your time you’ll find someone

[@monicadavis9475]

She upset me. She put restrictions on him texting and calling yet was out in the street. Who tells ppl abt their so called male friends liking them and that their dms popping. She's toxic. He upset me by not being more detailed about the dates. You found time to take off from work for many pop the balloons so make the time. And why can't he understand that they don't have a different religion. She keeps explaining it and he isn't understanding. 😂 why Terrance.

[@saturns_eyes]

Yeah, she barbecued extra crispy. I hate the fact that I can't defend Terrance completely because he is flambéed smh. Do better everyone. When you are building a relationship, it's appropriate for your partner to be insecure in the beginning while things are transitioning. But the idea is to talk through it. Remember, it's you vs the issue not each other. Speak up when you have issues. And avoid placing labels on someone that they didn't ask for. It's ok to ask your person, "Are you insecure?" "Did that make you insecure?" etc. But don't be like "You're insecure." "It's giving insecure." "Have more confidence." etc. On both parts, it feels like they made a lot of permanent moves without taking the proper communications with each other. Side note, tell tale sign of someone who is stuck in "single life" habits. They will always make you the problem. Always make excuses for their friend zone friends, single friends that want them to stay single too, exs that can't leave, etc. And, compromise will NEVER come up.

[@tyshadixon4630]

Team Terrance!❤

[@malandminarb143]

My question for her is even though they are her guy friends, why did she go out there drunk and entertaining them knowing that they have feelings to potentially be with her towards her? Also I understand everyone has their walk with God but getting drunk with friends that have feelings toward her..isn’t that risky judgement? Adding on to that yes, I like how you guys covered that in the video that it does mention that in the Bible. 1:06:05

[@BoujieKCTrucker]

1:13:27 fear of rejection. She in fact is the insecure one.

[@lorab74]

I rock with Terrance

[@PreciousSullivan]

At first I thought T messed up but I have to be honest, he dodged a bullet! She’s a red flag and also manipulative

[@jackievaughn1771]

He still wanted too date her, until she told him about those guy’s friends and she was out of town too

[@toyrisgoodwyn5120]

If it’s a set up date on a show that millions of ppl watch. Most time the females are gonna set these high expectations for the men off rip just because of the clout aspect of it.

[@ismailambye3237]

Terrance is just insecure. He did not even try but just assuming. You get personal with issues when you are dating but not when you just knowing each other. Terrance is not ready

[@jackievaughn1771]

But you wasn’t acting like you were with him. And you blocked him, and he done nothing wrong, that was so bad. That you had too block him. She didn’t want him to see what she do with other guys she talk to. That girl is something else

[@katedemenok]

I can see why he’s single , he’s not putting enough effort and masculine energy ngl. He’s a bit too passive for women (generally speaking)

[@lorab74]

No she is not giving him a chance to make plans she hanging out with male friends drinking but tell him to not call her after 9pm

[@jackievaughn1771]

She playing games with him, she never wanted too be with him

[@ftcdp42]

Seems People do this to market themselves and shit on another person with no respect for each others love language

[@trixflyordie]

She honestly didn't like him that much. If you truly want to be with him. You would change your schedule