Texting Signs You're His Side Chick

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

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[@kristinb.223]

Guys would never get away with this breadcrumb tactic if every woman said no and walked away when guys act like this. Stay strong, ladies!

[@h3arty]

Exactly!! These guys suck, Ryan's videos helped me realise the dude I started seeing wasn't interested, so I just deleted him 😂 he texted me asking if I deleted him 😂 told him how I felt, gave him an opportunity to make a plan to meet up if he was actually interested..... He deleted me back 😂🤣

[@tpt1985]

I'm strong but alcohol gets the best of me 🙃

[@kristinb.223]

@@tpt1985 I know exactly what you mean!

[@Dependencycourtsellschildren]

@@tpt1985 then stop going to bars on dates. You have low willpower.

[@kimberlysmith853]

@@Dependencycourtsellschildren My thoughts exactly don't drink alcohol if they can't handle it.

[@stellakamau6994]

If he's always flirting with you and your still single. All this back and forth means nothing if your not exclusive and he's not fully investing in you.

[@bijoumwaura3735]

💯💯💯🇰🇪

[@lunallena5594]

Major hint: he never calls or texts you by your name.

[@debbiedavila9841]

So so so so so TRUE!

[@vianaqin517]

C u r s e d 🤣🤣🤣🥲🥲

[@karenmoore6258]

Even worse ...texts you with the wrong name 😱

[@lunallena5594]

@@karenmoore6258 That is also a red exit flag!

[@rapidjerkytumblingmovement4340]

@@karenmoore6258 Jeez how can men be that dumb haha

[@katydid0323]

The “good morning” text always cracks me up now. Sometimes I’ll respond with “which number in the rotation was I this morning?” or I won’t respond to it at all unless he’s been consistently setting up dates. Ladies- I highly suggest taking Ryan’s masterclass! It was extremely beneficial as he truly wants to help YOU avoid all the wrong guys out there and find that great guy that really deserves your time and attention. I’ve put his practices to use and seen such a change in my dating world.

[@datingcoachryanpatrick]

So glad to hear you got this out of my Masterclass, Katy! Thanks for sharing with the group 😄🙌

[@HangPuma]

Every couple day he sends: "Hope you have/had great day xxx" at 2am and takes half to one day to respond with one word text. When you call him out, he will guilt trip you that you're playing him.

[@helensanderson7092]

Mine was a "Good Morning Darling" then nothing for days. In the end (now) I gave up and now I'm just going to stay single. Relationships are just to much hassle for no me now, I'm to old for all this.

[@suecole5543]

Waste of space . next

[@vianaqin517]

I lost it when Ryan said side chick and the whole atmosphere just changed🤣🤣🤣

[@vickiweber4718]

After a couple times, I was saying it with him

[@janekamau7169]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dinamarin4068]

Same 😂

[@irishapao5572]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@rapidjerkytumblingmovement4340]

Me too LMAO 🤣🤣🤣

[@rosesareredvioletsareblue111]

"Guys will do anything to get laid...." Remember that powerful mantra ladies! I've never think that I am the only girl that he connect with unless he bring me to his friends or family. Full stop, non-negotiable. Morning text, good night text, all day text, doesn't tell you anything really. His action does!

[@michellekobel8047]

Good Morning Beautiful... I have actually texted back..take me out of your rotation. I did this one time, the guy went belligerent on me. My response was "thank you for showing me your favorite color, Red flags. NEXT" then before he could respond..blocked.

[@number1fan262]

If I could love your comment & hug you here, I so would. Absolutely brilliant. I need Ryan & women like you in my head at all times when dealing with guys.

[@michellekobel8047]

@@number1fan262 hugs..we girls have to be strong and take no crap. Even if it means we are still single the longest.

[@blessedfromtx.1910]

Lol, Yes girl! I love it😂😂

[@Harsha_London]

@@michellekobel8047 I am here for THIS!

[@sunshineyone2081]

Best comment ever!!!

[@leopardlily3398]

We need to stand the eff up for ourselves!! We decide how we want to be treated. Yesssss

[@natifonty]

Your videos are pure gold. If only had I watched them one month ago I wouldn't have had lost my precious time on a guy that treated me as his side chick. He'd use cheesy nicknames such as baby, babe, etc. NEVER my first name. He'd send me pictures of what he was doing during the day but if he wanted to see me he would only contact me during the evening/night. I'm glad I told him NEXT. Cheers from an Argentinean follower! 😊🇦🇷

[@Areyoukiddingme64]

I got the good morning gorgeous texts!! 🤣

[@simplydee2567]

I like the response back to the text. They are direct and not rude. The texts are direct in telling the guy, don't waste my time.

[@monicasoares4671]

He only would invite you to hangout at home during night time. No weekends together on his prime time Friday/Saturday

[@SharlenesJourney]

Yep major red flag had a guy do this to me and it was always late at night but every time we hung out he always had to leave every time

[@echoes4679]

Ouch, everything you said is true about him. My goodness! How did I even believe this guy! Thanks for the wake up call!

[@mindyinoregon3927]

I wish I had watched your videos in my 20's! I went through SO many horrible dates and confusing text dialog, being strung along. I always tried to believe them and to give them a "shadow of a doubt" but now, i see things so much clearer.

[@mscam0918]

I totally agree with everything you have said. Here's one for you. (Me) Good night love. Hope to speak to you soon. (Him) Ok .. will be at basketball games so probably talk to you during the week Seriously? I'm not worth a 2 minute call? I'm like, so what games are 24 hours? No breaks, half times? I'm not worth his time. I don't want to believe there's someone(s) else, but after listening to your video, the truth is hitting me in the forehead like "duh."

[@katrerina1085]

When he texts and calls you Bae or Bub but never calls you that in person or in a phone conversation.

[@Eg-jd9zt]

Or you’ve never even met in person yet or don’t know them. That means they have a lot of “Bae”s YUCK lol

[@rukhshandarehman7509]

Forgetting birthdays and covering it up with workload.

[@SamElle]

i ALWAAAAYS suggest a day date. It lets me know immediately what this guy is interested in if he only suggests night time dates

[@trandall1142]

That doesn’t always work. A guy could be between jobs and have time on his hands at the moment.

[@17amandamarie]

Honestly it’s safer that way too, especially if you barely know him-gotta have those dates in broad daylight! 😂

[@svetlanacanani669]

@Abc Def Unfortunately you can have the most meaningful conversations with someone who he isn’t in real life... I’ve learned that the hard way.. a soulmate over the phone turned into a psycho🤷🏼‍♀️

[@trandall1142]

@Abc Def exactly.

[@Itsmarylynn]

Very true

[@gettobedby3985]

And the Groundhog Day text, he kept asking you the same stupid question over and over again.

[@toffiet3347]

What stupid question

[@melisacai1992]

This was so helpful, I wish I would've seen it about a year ago. It would've saved me from a "situationship" with a player. Thank you for sharing all of this with us! 🙌🏻

[@TheLoudseed]

Omg I just had this happen in the Fall. He did so many of these things. I knew in my heart something was shady about him, so as soon as he went cold within the first few weeks, I called him on it, then walked away. Then he comes back multiple times over the last few months and I have ignored him. I finally sent him a text to talk on Sunday, nothing from him. Your advice, Ryan, has been really helpful. It's given me more confidence to express myself and what I want and not settle for anything less. Trust your gut!!

[@rubycubez1103]

I zone out after the life story text. It feels like they're trying to get through the major points in his life to develop false intimacy. Usually it ends with them bringing up sex in some way...not interested...

[@suecole5543]

Yes . game player.

[@nalynegunggavakin9682]

Haha Patrick you are a dating genius! I have encountered those types of texts. I went off all dating apps bc it’s a way for them to play too many mind games.

[@PinkyMsBrain]

I dont bother to be honest. I notice that if i give less attention to the guy, the more he wants my attention so i give the the least mist attention possible. He needs to work really hard if he wants my attention otherwise i am not going to waste my time texting or anything as i know my worth

[@tajsino4081]

Am i the only guy here looking for dating advices here?? Lol 🥴 I love this channel. :)

[@aisha.2407]

Really liked "big/ younger brother figure" dialogue. Felt someone's looking after us women out here! 😁

[@lovejaycakes]

Can you do this video again, for people who are talking to someone in another state or country? And can’t see each other in person lol

[@yerkasteph]

THIS

[@rebeccabellomo7537]

Yes please!!

[@aureliaphosa5036]

'Saiiid chiiick' 🤣🤣☝🏿 Alas!! Eii Ryan

[@bettinakatsaros8719]

The last day until confirming a date thing. What this looks like is a guy you've been dating for a while all of a sudden can't confirm plans for a Friday or Saturday night until the night before. It's the yeah I'll know by Thursdaymorning if I can see you on Friday night. Truthfully if it's a family or work thing he would tell you that on the front load. What he's doing is holding out to see if somebody else he's talking to is available and wants to go out with him first

[@circesercy2190]

They have to squeeze off a few texts with the phone turned away, then put the phone face down at the beginning of the night. They suddenly only play music with the phone in their pocket when it's usually hooked to a speaker

[@Mandy.S.]

You could just be like me and get the "social media lead on" from all of them. I even got that crap from a guy I used to work with. At this point, I've lost faith in anything "real". I'm looking for real - real dates, real just hanging out as friends sometimes just enjoying each other's company, real stuff. Why is this so hard to obtain these days? I'm at a loss.

[@narjesnagme9758]

I like when he said SIDE CHICK because everything he saying is so true

[@flowerlullaby]

"wyd"

[@elenar7836]

😂😂😂

[@adie5137]

I think another side chick text may or would be this: "Hey! How are you?" First time or first day may be fine. Then you try to reply and continue more conversations, wind~~~~ After that, few days later, probably few weeks or even few months later: "Hi, how are you?" Answer: Yeah, I'm fine without your distractions! Don't mind being single, as long as I'm happy with family! I can always entertain myself with some movies, outdoor activities, online games and even Korean dramas! LOL 🤣

[@MsPixiee]

Wow, you got it! 🏆

[@adie5137]

@@MsPixiee thanks ✌️

[@kimberlyfeliciano4375]

Omg. I got the good morning beautiful texts. I didn't know about rotations and lists. Lol. One day I did a thumbs up emoji and was he so aggravated. I was told he consulted with 6 other people regarding my response. Lol! I was tired of this text, it felt so superficial, so empty because nothing followed. I was told I would never get another good morning text. At first it crushed me, but then I hard to face facts- if the audio and video don't match then you're wasting my time!

[@rezishehaj4705]

Oh yeah the future talk text.. That was sooo true! 🙄😒

[@priyuk12]

I just liked the way he says side chick after each pointer Great video 👍👍👍🤗

[@BreathOfLifeYourWillLiveOn]

I have been learning these behaviors are a result of child hood issues with parents

[@set85]

I'm now realizing I was probably a side chick. The first date he didn't show up because he said he accidentally fell asleep. I tried to be patient and understanding, so I gave him a second chance. When I suggested we do something on the weekend he seemed down for it. Then something just happened to come up (a plumbing issue in his house, his mom and brother stopped by unexpectedly, etc.)

[@zippyblessed839]

LOSER....NEXT!!!!!

[@melaniepeters5138]

Love your videos, they are all so helpful. Just a thought for a video, how do you make your first date your last date. Any tips on that.

[@lexiejavier2611]

How about in a Long distance relationship? We have different time

[@42710steph]

Oh yes...the sad story phone call...I just got that one !! Just when I was moving on...2 weeks later, he left me a message on my voicemail begging me to call him back with a sad voice . Got him on the phone, he told me "right, I need to tell you the truth " and told me a story worthy of a B-grade drama movie!! All of a sudden, he realized that I was the most honest, pretty and funny girl he ever met blablabla...and cannot wait to see me again !? Last time I saw him was a year ago...yeah right...

[@bernadettszucs4356]

Hi Ryan, You are absolutely right. Two weeks ago, i just asked his opinion about if he has plans about to see me person....after we had 3 weeks chatting....then, he dissapeared immediately...😌

[@danicaharley6273]

Hi love, you seriously saved yourself hours of listening to his lying crap and him just playing with your head and wasting your precious time xxx

[@meckek16]

What if... Is a long distance relationship, he never text me, but we talk twice a day for one hour each time?

[@mauritahowell1415]

if you feel.wierd, trust your intuition

[@edithmr21o]

*Notification pops up* without hesitation watches

[@MetalBere]

Me too 😄

[@edithmr21o]

@@MetalBere yea even if I can't relate I'm in advance *conspicuously* "no one is going to play me, shoot"

[@MetalBere]

@@edithmr21o yeah, we're always learning 😊

[@kathie554]

What does that mean?

[@MetalBere]

@@kathie554 that KZbin notificates her of a new Video and she proceeds to watch it

[@fairycharmcottage]

Excellent advice! Thank you, if only I had known these things 8 years ago 😂

[@MegaBingles]

I have a dilema: there’s a guy I met on a dating app. He takes every long to respond to text messages. He will initiate conversation but then when I respond and ask him a question it takes hours sometimes responds until the next day!! I asked him if he is serious about getting to me because If his not then that’s ok I’ll move on but he tells me he is serious and that he thinks about me all the time? If I thought about someone so much I would want to talk to them all the time and respond quickly right? I really think his a nice guy and like him but I think this is pointless.. what do you suggest?

[@beautifulsoul8365]

Next! You deserve and can do better.

[@muzamilbaig1964]

He's playing game tht's it. Follow your gut feeling cause it's always true and kick him out

[@pratzzw9448]

He's keeping you on a hook dear ..you deserves best

[@janine1111]

Same situation here for me!

[@lcolon5606]

drop block and roll

[@stephieks2]

Ahahaha.. hell yeaaaah! i hate this question when a guy come with this question "so tell me a little bit about yourself?" 😡😄 - Damn! that question is always turn me off. And i rather answer "please be more specific about your question, just like how i do to you". 😁 And if that turn him off, then better move on! 👍

[@werlkj567]

I hate those questions too. I've said "what specifically would you like to know?"

[@Cantetinza17]

When you do set a date, but then he cancels it last minute and says he has a "family emergency". It can happen, but funny how it happened on that day.

[@moni3082]

deffo the early morning text many times over

[@terrismith4493]

None of these apply to me. But there are other things that occur to make me say Hmmm.

[@itslingling]

not even a side chick, im no ones chick :D

[@rapidjerkytumblingmovement4340]

Hahahahahaha sad but it's okay

[@KnoUrWorthLuv]

This is so on point! Great advice😊

[@audreyhempburn5306]

hahaha I laughed every time he was like " Side Chick! "🤣

[@artglue2]

Omg....I get Good Morning and Good Night texts. I just ignore them...not interested.

[@christygoerzen8935]

Thank you Ryan, I love all your videos and this one in particular is golden. So, so helpful.

[@wandaleczynska917]

Love his sob story - oh the last man I was involved with told how once his neighbours were back from their holidays he would ask them to feed his cats so that he could drive up to meet me in person, Great! I thought & I even gave him details of 3 local hotels near me. Suddenly, his attitude started to change he wasn't feeling well but still carried o with his 'evening' voluntary work, during the day he would be doing 'researching or his online course' at his local library. He was too ill to come up & see me but well enough to entertain a 'friend'. One of his texts he said he would 'take it' nice & slow with me. It was at that point the penny dropped - he was only after 1 thing. He still continued with his sob story being too ill to visit me. I stopped replying to his texts. I got dumped & blocked on social media.

[@Graciella0297]

I love how you keep saying side chick at the end of the explanation 😂😂

[@theteachingromance]

Thank you for each and every single video of yours. I really feel like they help a lot. Also, the "good morning" and "good night" texts are something I receive now for over a year or longer. Each time I ask about why there isn't more effort put into these I get the answer "well, I am extremely busy at work" or "I don't have anything going on right now, so also no talk material" LOL So not worth responding to these type of messages.

[@BNS392]

I really love your help with the wording.

[@Nat-he4xd]

He would only make plans with me Monday-Thursday

[@angelamendola6865]

No Saturday night dates = definite side chick lol

[@danicaharley6273]

Woww, I'd be like, well I'm sorry I'm busy Mon, Tues, Wed, Thursdays, I have a yoga class, I'm seeing a friend night, I have to do my hair & nails, I'm having a work dinner night etc 😊

[@SharlenesJourney]

Same that’s a red flag and it was always very late at night since he didn’t get off till midnight☹️ we used to hang out on the weekends a few times but that all stopped

[@alyannachongchieyun8792]

Ryan, is it normal for a guy to be so silent especially when he wants to meet but doesn't respond as to what time & where to meet? Does this show he isn't interested in meeting up? We both dragged meeting up till like after 2 months of knowing each other on social media actually.

[@maryeva2491]

Yeah if we really pay attention it’s all so clear ! Once I started paying attention to men bs types of connection sometimes I feel I’m the one finding problems everywhere, but truly is rare to find an interesting person nowadays 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@TheRacqgrl769]

Man, when all of this is one guy.

[@charisse234]

Ana brown believe me you are so right.what I always do is call them out on it.peace and love 💛

[@helenellsworth9556]

I never knew about number 2 gee now I know

[@ingridhaughney3645]

..‘I’m just lying low’ for two weeks over the Easter Holiday, as if!!!

[@vitabuonavita2565]

Ryan sometimes a woman needs an Honest Man's point of view, the whole Mars: Venus scoop. Thank you for Helping me see my worth, giving me the insight,so i can see when a GUY is JUST stringing me along. Thank you from my Heart

[@tpt1985]

Im realizing and learning all this at the age of 35, and at this point I don't trust anyone, my heart is in a cage and only the man above has the key to my heart. I QUIT!!! 😊

[@sumarsihsuharjana3676]

Thanks for making this video Ryan 😁

[@deearockgirl19]

The SEEN thing, why are most men leaving me on read??🙄🙄

[@shesellsfish]

I like the look here's a pic of my home. I live alone, not dealing with anybody else? Duhhh. Really? You're trying to deal with me right? So who else do you play this game with. Just because you have your own place does not mean you're not dealing with somebody or several soebody's. Particularly since you're never free on weekends or holidays or early evenings. Deuces, player, Deuces

[@debbiedavila9841]

Never texts or says my name, cancelled on me so many times last minute, works late, the list goes on. But, I really believed him when he said I was the only person he was seeing. He finally stopped texting last week. But, before his last "good morning gorgeous" text, he bought me tires.... So what the heck????? That's where I'm confused.

[@mermaidcirianneaqua]

A good guy should never make you confused girl. They will be upfront with you with ACTIONS. His inconsistency with his communication with you is already a red flag. Trust your gut. Don’t waste time on that boy. Find yourself a MAN.

[@svetlanacanani669]

Enjoy your new tires👍🏻

[@debbiedavila9841]

@@svetlanacanani669 Oh yes I am! LOL

[@mrileymitchell9324]

@@svetlanacanani669 "Guilt Tires."

[@lc4972]

🙂.... they can say these in person too...

[@kkoliver1488]

Thank you so much Ryan... you're awesome! ❤️🙏🐆

[@monikavarro2020]

Such useful information. Thanks!

[@susanmcroberts2275]

Good morning beautiful. Sweet dreams beautiful. Nothing else ever

[@sherrylee6475]

What about dating a guy for 4 yrs, and him telling me, " you need to let me miss you" for his excuse to go without seeing me for a weekend, when that's the only time we do see each other. We live 1.5 hours away

[@Eg-jd9zt]

Switch it up and say ok! And back off and get busy for the following weekend too. Go rogue. Be realllly busy. He will freak out bc it backfired.

[@tanithjay-ryan4312]

Lean back from him. Get busy genuinely enjoying life. If he's as committed to you as you are to him, he'll step up to lean forward in a meaningful way. If not, then you'll already be doing yourself a favour. On a side note... everyone needs space from time to time. It's healthy for us to take time for ourselves. Catch up with your best friends, go visit somewhere you've been wanting to go, despite initial reluctance you'll actually get a lot out of it too. Good luck x

[@LibraLady-hg4pd]

If a guy told me that for the first time after dating for 4 yrs id be sick w suspicion. Bells, whistles & fireworks plus so many red flags waving in front of my eyes I would have a difficult time driving the rented car with dark tinted windows as I tailed him. Sorry not sorry. Been lied to and screwed over way too many times. I will NOT sit back and "trust" any man until I Know hes worthy of my trust. And thus far, I havent met one that is.

[@Eg-jd9zt]

@@LibraLady-hg4pd tbh I’ve been there too, that’s what drives men away. It comes from a fear of abandonment. When we know we are ok no matter what, we can lean back and observe. And yes people do need space and it’s healthy to take time apart. The more you’re like ok, and do you and your life, the closer men will come to you. We had lives before them. The mistake that women make is throwing their life out a window for a man and making them their entire life when they meet them and suffocating the heck out of them. That’s not healthy and will drive men to leave, cheat, whatever. We also choose certain types many times that are familiar. Go for a different type and try something new. Sometimes what’s familiar is not healthy. If there’s a pattern many times the common denominator is us and our choices or behavior or a combination of both.

[@dashphonemail]

@@LibraLady-hg4pd If a guy wanted one weekend away from you after spending every weekend with you for the last four years, and let you know that in an honest, straightforward way, you'd go apeshit? Yikes

[@sihamBaD]

You confirmed to me that I was not only a side chick, but a sex chick ( the booty call thing) omg ! Thank you 👀😅 it's weird but I can finally be convinced to let him go..

[@Stardust-np1lo]

Another name for side chick I was told is "your his snack"

[@Katherine-mo8fl]

AWESOME 👍👍 GREAT JOB! INTERNALIZE LADIES! 💕

[@CrysASMR]

LMAO the grey screen , "sidechick"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sandrakushnerick7797]

Thanks Ryan this was good. It good yo Know all the signs. I had a guy do that once and it never happened again.

[@carlogirl95]

True huhu ouch. Wanted to say i like him but mehhhhhh i deserve better

[@ReeveKat]

I got a good morning kitten text and so I sent him a kitten meowing. He then proceeded to tell me how he came up with kitten. Honestly, it was pretty cute. However, years ago I was interested in a different guy and we planned on hanging out 2 or 3 times and each time he'd cancel on me last minute so the last time he did it I was like if you're just not that interested in me just tell me and he had a huge blow up and was like if thats what you think im doing then we don't need to talk. Thank you next.

[@elenasupino2108]

Ahm hi! I just to ask a question if I am one of his side chick.. and this is what happen I ask him I on what hour did he slept the last night and he answered me that he did not record the time on what hour he is sleeping...

[@ipshitamehta7999]

Hello i guess maybe your advice would help me,so there’s a guy who showed way to interest in me made me feel special when I met him . I said no for going out on a date when she asked me itself on day 1. After that day he seems crazy for me and then whuhoo he disappeared. Initially I was like what happened so I checked upon on h like 2-3 times & then I was like let it be. He just send me snapped and texted how am I when I initiated the conversation but I land up ignoring him. Now I don’t know what’s going on but I want him to do efforts for me. Coz something weird happened he didn’t land up texting or calling but his brother did in a very chill & decent manner. Can you please help

[@hanniacorena7657]

I need this, long distance edition!

[@kellywilliam9486]

Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again Contact me

[@kellywilliam9486]

Whxtapp me

[@cheryl9715]

You really need do one for 3rd shift because they only see in the morning and that's it because they gotta sleep from about noon to 9pm to wake and go to work???🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔 also if they are in a relationship the house is empty because spouse and kids are working or at school, so they never see you on there days off or call you unless they are alone. 3rd shift is always morning dates.🤔🤔

[@hawaiigirl8089]

Bait & switch is what zillow does

[@broccolihighkicks3857]

Ugh i’m not getting any texts, i think ive been friend zoned but he said he needs to focus on his work as a chef and he works late...idk i should next him but i’ve just moved to a new city and hes my only friend lol

[@camokitty]

Well said. Thx

[@cherrylane79]

A guy comes back weeks / months after leaving you (while you were wondering what went wrong after you were messaging with him and things were going smoothly) suddenly, with no explanation. Ask him: "Excuse me, who is this?"

[@misamisa2677]

i will not go through all that i cut loose

[@bhargavikaveti1328]

U r a lifesaver

[@maryc.garrison]

you rock Ryan

[@beckerbowa9878]

V I a W h a t s A p p.

[@beckerbowa9878]

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[@Rachel-wt5nl]

So if the guy I'm seeing texts me good morning and good night everyday but also is texting me all day long throughout, am I just the woman on top of his list of 5??

[@theteachingromance]

I think it depends on the type of texts he sends you through the day.

[@Rachel-wt5nl]

@@theteachingromance their always paragraphs with tons of emojis. I think in previous videos I watched of Ryan hes says thats a sign he at least likes me? How can I tell if there's other girls still?

[@mermaidcirianneaqua]

@@Rachel-wt5nl Sometimes, you just dont know. But a good way to see it is if he’s consistent in his texts, calls, and setting up dates. Consistency is the key here. Also, if he texts you all day, thats great! But make sure that its not excessive texting and that he ACTUALLY has a life.

[@Rachel-wt5nl]

@@mermaidcirianneaqua ahh this makes so much sense thanks girl! He's definitely consistent and I can tell he's putting in work to see me whenever we are both free😍😍

[@yeseniap1763]

@@Rachel-wt5nl I'm in the same boat as you! The guy I'm seeing does the same thing! And I do asked myself if he's doing it to other girls and he tells me he isn't and I'm the only one .

[@shirenae52]

My boyfriend has emotional issues. He doesn't show physical emotion or contact often and I usually have to initiate it. But when we "do it" he is more attentive and is trying to be more outward with his love. But I'm kind of worried he's to comfortable and that sex is the main bond between us. Can you help me??

[@chunkycloud_]

Dump him. He won’t be there for you when you need more from that bond between you two. If he isn’t doing anything about his emotional callousness then you will be left waiting forever until he does, and when that process starts for him, it will take time and effort and you would be already drained out off from the waiting. You could end up feeling resentful.