My Thai Girlfriend is a Narcissist & a Sociopath, A Truly Unbelievable Thai Girlfriend Story 🇹🇭

[@thaitalkwithdan]

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[@adlerarmory8382]

Somebody finally won! But at what cost? I wouldn't have been able to put up with her philandering for 2 years waiting to get paid back. Money you can always make more but you never get time back.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

@@adlerarmory8382 I would not have had the patience for that, I would rather lose the money and get out also

[@andrewelo]

One of the best stories yet.

[@gordonleakey6830]

@@thaitalkwithdan Just a quick question down. How come you never posted any pictures? People send you? I could give us other guys. You know. Heads up, especially because you do have your private group of members.?

[@thaitalkwithdan]

@gordonleakey6830 because I would get in very big trouble if I exposed people’s identities in that way, KZbin have a lot of rules a hell of a lot of rules and I have to try and keep people identities a secret

[@Paul_in_Thailand]

I had a row with my g/f the other day. I said to her "Europe is a highly developed part of the world. Why do you think we are so stupid?". She replied "If Europeans are so clever, why do so many of them lose money to Thai woman?". For once, I had no answer...

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Love it 😅

[@velvetinedrapes4359]

she's not wrong 😂 weak men falling for the first piece of skirt that flutters her eyelashes at them and there goes the savings account! Lmao

[@Tony-mh3dm]

A young a beutiful woman that treats you like a king cost more money, just like a brand new dependable beautiful car cost more. If you want an old run down , unreliable and undependable girl or car , stick with western girls, especially the American girls. I dont know about Euro girls , but I bet they aren't nowhere near bad as American girls. Sorry American girls , you earned that reputation.If it weren't true , you would see millions a men flying outside te country to enjoy a real woman company.

[@Paul_in_Thailand]

@@Tony-mh3dm To be fair, I saw an older American man today in the supermarket with his younger Thai model. He wasn't quite disabled but he wasn't 100% healthy either. She walked him around the supermarket and chose foods that she knew he could eat and told him certain foods he would not be able to chew because they are too hard for him. The stories are great on this channel but sometimes, the kindness of Thai women is overlooked, whether he's paying for it or not.

[@frankosmith6718]

Its easy. Love transends common sence and logic?

[@xfiltrate]

This Thai Australian gentleman exemplified the very best of both cultures. He exhibited intelligence, compassion, understanding and his "break up strategy" was like that of a chess grandmaster. He never lost his heart, nor his money and she was a formidable adversary seeking both. Well done!

[@underworldringside]

His thick as a brick. Of course she will work

[@NEILBAGELSTEIN123]

After 15 visits to Thailand in 8 years I am convinced that Thai women dont care if you have one arm or one leg if you are impotent or a hunch backed hideous looking man as long as you can support them financially thats all they want.

[@glen7849]

@@NEILBAGELSTEIN123 if you haven't lived here full-time you can't really give an opinion if you just visit to meet girls. They can be just as bad meeting in bars,online or in tourist areas. You wouldn't get serious with a bar girl or freelancer in your own country so you had to treat it the same here. My brother has been married with a good relationship for nearly 30yrs here since he was probably too young to get married and I've been with my wife 12yrs, married for 8 and had 2 young daughters. It's just extremely important to really take your time with relationships here and not take it seriously until living here together for a year. It still doesn't mean it will work out like anywhere but my brother has businesses with his wife in western countries too and my wife is a head nurse and has taken care of me and paid when my financial situation got bad a few times, especially through covid. She owns the property we live on and takes care of her mother herself and I own 2 condos in trust for our girls if anything happens to me later in life, they can't sell until 25yrs old, they're 8 and 10 now and don't know they have that protection. It's written so not even my wife or her family could sell. Both my brother and myself have our wills that everything goes to each other if something happens under what we want with our wives agreement, his wife has more money regardless. I just think women can be the same anywhere so look after yourself first and make sure if children are involved, they're taken care of. The only thing I've paid for is our car because I didn't want 2 children on bikes with us for safety and everything else is shared expenses.

[@adlerarmory8382]

Maybe I'd have a chance there, then?

[@DrFingers]

@@NEILBAGELSTEIN123 correct. When I was young, slim and pretty, with thick curly hair, they mostly ignored me because I didn't want to pay. Now I'm old, balding and grey, I have no trouble attracting them. Simply because they think I have money. What makes me laugh are those guys who are paying every day but actually somehow believe they're dating. They talk about their 'day game', or 'picking up' or 'pulling'. And when asked about it they try to tell you that they never pay for it. In Pattaya, they date girls every day and never pay. Because they're superior to the mongers and don't have to pay.??????

[@DrFingers]

Only one pickup line is necessary. 'Hello. You go with me? How much you want?

[@AntiscampoliceTV]

WOW! GOLD DIGGERS?!

[@H.1965-s8p]

She slept with him on the first night and only had three partners before.. every woman has the same story...🤣

[@matthewbaker6177]

Yeah, but for some reason, so many men believe the line....

[@adlerarmory8382]

The Number is never the real number. It's subjective. Some women will only count the ones they felt something for to keep it as low as possible. Two things women always lie about: their weight and their "number"

[@H.1965-s8p]

@@matthewbaker6177 Yep. I was one of them...🤣

[@H.1965-s8p]

@@adlerarmory8382 100%

[@glen7849]

@@H.1965-s8p if any Thai woman or from anywhere really sleeps with your the first night it's the biggest red flag you can have, even more so in Asia because decent women will bring a relative or best friend to the first few dates to keep face. Most won't even drink alcohol until they're really comfy with you.

[@maximilianswansson1264]

If he would just have used his big brain from the start he would understand that a true "hiso" thai woman doesn't work in a bar or restaurant overseas 😂.

[@ITravelSale]

When I heard Dan said in the story the Guy says. she was Hiso. But working in A bar restaurant serving drinks 😮My Huh 🤔 antenna said something’s skewed 😮 wtf 😂😂then after she moved in my mans journey into twilight zone started 😂😂

[@kellyjordan6440]

100% agree

[@mynameisstilljafo4063]

Yep, you nailed it. HiSo don't work in jobs like that.

[@leedex]

@@ITravelSaleand a Hiso, wouldn’t date a 5 out of 10 regular guy like home 😂

[@googleuser2609]

*Exactly!*

[@Word187]

Good to see you back healthy. You're strong man Dan!

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thank you 😊

[@VENEMPASTOR]

*Most of those chicks are extremely deceptive. *Most foreigners are naive and absolutely clueless about this. *Most foreigners get cheated on and they'd bet anything that they know their girl and that she's different.

[@wills9732]

Nice to see you back mate. Congrats on the recovery!

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thank you 👍

[@MrPat-UK]

@@thaitalkwithdan. Good to see you Dan, heading towards a better place now buddy, hopefully your health is recovering gently and you, above all, taking it easy mucker, Don’t overdo it , steady and ready is better than weak and of ill health.. best regards mate, watching from the uk, Enjoy your videos immensely learning about Thai culture and customs….👍

[@chogno98]

Great story and delivery. Take care Dan!

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thanks, you too!

[@Nueng-Andres]

Again, what a story! good to see you back Dan!

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thank you 😊

[@hw934]

From my own experience as a 28 year guy living here and all these other stories. Don’t bother with Thai women.

[@glen7849]

@@hw934 lots of us have good Thai wives here who work and share expenses, I don't think you can say we you said above any country if you meet women the right way. A western woman is more likely to have sex the first night than a decent Thai woman because it's seen as normal for western women to have one night stands, a decent Thai woman loses face with everyone everything if found out.

[@LonglingEriksen]

stick to the men then

[@hw934]

@@LonglingEriksen alright white knight

[@taalofaa]

Amazing Guy! Much Applause............. He is on my level of handling women with minimal to zero damage

[@RealSerie26]

This dude wasted way too much time on this almost 40 y/o woman and it's a sign he was desperate. A dead giveaway was the fact that she slept with him right away. I definitely wouldn't have spent a cent on her healthcare or education. Why? These women aren't loyal to anything but money.

[@VENEMPASTOR]

@@RealSerie26 Loyalty is to your money, her family and financial security! Danm right!!! For the most part, foreigners are just tools!

[@g60force]

Most funny thing is that he now boasting that Thai men think he's a champ... and Thai women think he's sweet.... trust me this doesn't matter, cuz he'll get scammed again!

[@underworldringside]

His Thai

[@underworldringside]

​@g60foryce yes

[@paulsz6194]

No wonder she was so eager to check out his apartment after spending one night with him. She was sussing out his wealth! I wonder if she really has MS ,o did she set this all up and choose some dodgy doctors and play out the health situation to her advantage?🤔

[@MrRed-bk9xn]

Excellent story of the “ Champion “!!!

[@RoaringRanger]

This was an epic tale.

'someone who has an excessive need for admiration, a sense of superiority, and a lack of empathy' thats all women folks, yours isn't different shes just hiding it because she sees value being with you.

[@xenajade6264]

"that's all women folks"... seriously are you for real? Come on man.

[@malin5468]

The first red flag was that she had a BA from a top Bangkok university and was only working in a bar

[@Bekindloveis]

They can get fake degree my caucasian expat fren married a Viett woman who worked in a cafe he knocked up his wife left with their son so he married her after she gave birth to a girl he found out later she admitted her degree was fake but her whole family & village is proud she is now an expat wife 😂

[@sweatingbuckets]

Hmm, not that unusual. Its not that easy to get a visa in Australia.

[@A.herrera.]

who is this legend?? would gladly buy him a drink and shake his hand for the way he handled this situation, cheers champion you are a legend!.

[@shaiaxelrud1568]

Hey Dan, you look so much better and this is so good! Keep up the great job. Warm Greetings from Tel Aviv!

[@MOVIEHORIZON]

The gentleman acknowledged all the red flags… but sadly inexplicably dismissed them…

[@xfreelunch]

Good to see you back, Dan. One thing you never mention is that some of these Thai women have friends who watch your channel... like mine... who might tell them. Even if the names are changed, the story is easily recognized. I got busted for sending my story to you rather quickly! Luckily for me, it hasn't resulted in a complete disaster, but the possibility is there for other guys.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Yes I do have Thai women that keep an eye on my channel and a lot of Thai friends that watch but don’t comment, if you don’t want your Mrs to find out you have to be very careful with the details and maybe change the province etc to throw them off the scent 😳

[@danielcharles-b5f]

The poor bloke thinks he’s clever, but it seems to me he wasted 3 years of his life even after he exposed her ….. he’s the loser

[@ZommBleed]

It was his to waste. It was a cost/benefit analysis (gamble) that gave him the dividend that was acceptable to him after his initial investment didn't pan out. He's on top. How many stories end so well? [My two favorite stories are the guy with the condo & STD girl who ends up handcuffed to the sink with a buttplug & facial; and the other is the guy who went to retrieve his late friend's haunted suitcase. So much drama, neither could be contained in just one episode. This one approaches epic level status with these two top tier stories.]

[@paulsz6194]

@LOWERCASEMANN are you quite simply the most intelligent & cunning man here, who has never made a mistake in his lifetime? Are you soo intelligent cunning that you outmaneuver such women at their own game? Oh please do tell your stories here, and tell us. How great you really are!! 😂

[@marcuslouisson5498]

aggree, you cant stop this type of behaviour , women like this cannot be shamed ,reasoned, they are totally emotionally detached

[@wills9732]

If this guy is a 5 and he is with and 11 it is gonna be a Usury relationship end of story, do not pass go, do not collet 200 dollars \, go directly to jail, then hell.

[@edwardpatalon1701]

This young man has wisdom beyond his years. He wrestled control of his thinking from his little head. His patience, planning, execution was well done! Cheers to you sir! I wish you the most success in life and no doubt you will achieve it!

[@DJSharks71]

Not patience, sheepish cowardice and desperation. Lost years of his life for nothing

[@DEFENDER-lx2hs]

Great to see you looking so well you have been though the wars lately.I hope life becomes better going into the future be well.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

I hope so too

[@PizzaLord]

Yeah because definitely being part of the upper class involves working behind a bar and serving drinks and food to tables.

[@firepanda282]

Kudos to the guy, he exited the situation in a very cunning way and didn't trigger the wrath of a sociopath

[@Roberto-xc5xy]

Love the vid! Thanks Dan! And congrats on the recovery, mate!! Good luck!!!!

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thank you 😊

[@TheTrueCrimeNerd]

She's 36 years, her dowry privilege has expired

[@leecooper868]

Hi Dan. So great to see you back on the channel. Your looking so much better now mate. Glad to see you are on the mend again buddy. Keep up the good work my friend. 👍👍🇹🇭

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thanks, will do!

[@jonathanmortimer2279]

Hi Dan, I hope you are feeling much better. Thank you for the video. Very best wishes, Jonathan

[@xcx23cwea65]

She had him picked out already and he thought he was in controlled. That "LOVE BOMBING" is something isn't it. That's the very first "RED FLAG"

[@riepkodevries3360]

The love bombing is a difficult thing for me, because they also tend to behave like that in order to protect you from other (Thai) women. I also experience this to some extent with my own Thai girlfriend and I got to understand it in this way. In other words I don't see my girlfriends love bombing behaviour as a way to protect her asset aka money, which could also be a motivation for other Thai women, but rather as a way to prevent me from falling in love with another woman and/or cheat on her and lose me this way. These are her words as well and I do believe her. I just hope she will see overtime that she does not have to show love bombing behaviour in order for me to be loyal to her in our relationship, but seeing how relationships in Thailand often end I can see where this behaviour comes from.

[@kayakcobber524]

Just look for the song from Solomon Burke: my rose saved from the street. They notice everything before you even see her ...

[@Rio-mn1cw]

ITS ABOUT TIME WE HAD A GOOD STORY WELL DONE ON THE GUY WHO GOT HIS MONEY BACK 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@jimmyg4428]

Great story Dan glad you’re feeling better. Keep up the good work.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thanks Jimmy 👍

[@AB1Vampire]

This Subscriber was slick as all heck.

[@paulinetaylor4192]

My biggest doong-doong! was when he said she moved in with all the designer shoes/bags/clothes. With boxes and boxes of 'stuff'. I just thought straight away: Presents from other men ...

[@derekmarsden8934]

Your videos are an absolute pleasure as always. You are doing a great job and good to see you looking better. Greetings from Newcastle uk

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thanks Derek appreciate your comment 😊

[@stevemorris3751]

Glad to see you back Dan ,looking good again and saving lives from destruction I will be in Chiangmai in November for two weeks ,I will be applying the 3 day rule if you know what I mean ..take care buddy

[@stevewilliams2565]

Long narration..You did well Dan.. Wishing you a full recovery.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

It was tough to get through this video, I was sweating and out of breath 😅😵‍💫

[@stevewilliams2565]

@@thaitalkwithdan Understand. Could see that..Shame you not use shorter content .Take care Dan

[@thaitalkwithdan]

@@stevewilliams2565 nothing I can do if the subscriber emails a long story as I don’t edit them, take care of yourself also 😊👍

[@thequeenslandtiger]

Welcome back, Dan. ..... What a ripper story ! ...... Keep well ...

[@denismoreau3646]

Now that was a good story ending well for the man. Also take care to bring us more stories like that. 😊

[@gordonleakey6830]

Dan I hope you fill better soon sorry to hear you are getting better and glad to see you are back

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thanks Gordon I’m feeling much better every days gain now 👍

[@gotamd]

I can't imagine dragging this mess out for two years and lying about it the whole time after already discovering the truth and deciding to end the relationship. I personally would have gotten out ASAP.

[@ZommBleed]

Then you don't understand the game of revenge. It's called The Long Game for a reason.

[@gotamd]

@@ZommBleed sure, but this sounds more like someone who isn’t familiar with the economic concepts called the sunk cost fallacy and opportunity cost. In other words, this is emotionally driven rather than logical behavior.

[@ZommBleed]

@@gotamd He is half Thai. It was a good story and he deemed it a worthy use of his time and effort. Had he done nothing or let it go, it would have cost him more than just tendered currency. No one knows him better than he himself. Forgiveness is more than a virtue, it is incorporated into Jesus's prayer he taught us to use when praying to the Father (a.k.a. The Lord's Prayer). Some people need to grow into it. He did nothing wrong or unethical; he recouped his loss and moved on. I don't see him holding a grudge. He had other options and chose this path. I hold no angst against him.

[@MOVIEHORIZON]

Why is a well-educated Thai pageant winner just working as a bartender?…

[@BrandAustralia-d5q]

Good story mate😮😊

[@MOVIEHORIZON]

I would have been wary of continuing to live with her for TWO ADDITIONAL YEARS after “breaking up” with her - I would taken the financial loss.

[@seph4667]

Dan, you can do no wrong. Never apologize for self-care. I hope you and your son enjoy growth, happiness, and endless pleasant surprises. I admire your class, style, and competence. You are among my favorite human beings. This is no small feat, as my standards for others are ridiculously high. BTW, this is your finest upload to this date. Your channel is priceless.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

That is such a nice thing to say and I really appreciate you saying this 😊 thank you so much 🙏

[@seph4667]

​@thaitalkwithdan If you could see yourself in 10 years, you would now be the happiest man on earth. Authenticity is your strongest trait, and in our increasingly fake generation, your gifts are life saving. You have a good heart. That is the supreme mortal accomplishment.

[@rudybannister5097]

Absolute barnstormer of story brilliant really enjoyed it thoroughly engrossing . All the best now Dan I have been a subscriber for a few years and love your pod you take care now and rest and get strong all the best Rudy

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Glad you enjoyed it Rudy 😊 I’m hopefully on the mend now 👍

[@ChocolateAfterDark]

When I get over there I’m not looking for a relationship, just friends………with benefits of course.

[@matthewbaker6177]

Famous last words......don't give your Line or whatsapp to any lady and you'll be fine. Obey the 3 day rule. No matter how good one is, someone just as good or better is just the next bar along.

[@johnseppi]

Rest up little brother. Nice to have you back amongst the living. Carry on the message, you have helped many of us more than you know, for that , thank you.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thank you 😊

[@rvajna]

Great story Dan. Get well soon and keep the stories coming.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thank you 😊

[@beestonbump1106]

Brilliant story. What a guy to keep calm and play that long game. He's a Bro.

[@js-he9rn]

Interesting story and completely believable. Glad to see you back and doing better! Be careful out there.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thank you 😊

[@azchoudhury]

Great story. Get well soon and take time to recuperate. All the best.

[@markhuizinga4993]

Good on Ya Dan keep your spirts up and stay safe !. Very great story indeed .

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thanks 👍

[@jeaneallen4969]

Fantastic story, Get well soon.

[@wellbeing4914]

This narrative sounded ridiculous the moment it mentioned she was a bar girl and he wanted to domesticate her. It can only be going downhill from then on.

[@MarneeSpear-yv6si]

That was interesting 🎉❤

[@KarenJackson-t5m]

Thank you! I enjoyed the story , wishing you well!.👍👍✋✋✌✌💓💓

[@frankosmith6718]

Back of the Net? Great story.

[@alexdeonversaagde]

Hi Dan. Great story.. love the ending. Very clever. You lost weight. Keep strong. 🎉

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Yes I have been sick again but I’m back on the mend again 👍🤞

[@markverlof]

heyeee dan is back

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Yes... Just about... 😅

[@markverlof]

@@thaitalkwithdan 😅🥲

[@thaitalkwithdan]

​@@markverlof😁😁

[@lindawilson795]

This man figured the woman out and got his money back all the while playing it cool.💎

[@bonky221]

As for someone who is in mid 30s and has been to Thailand 4 times and Southeast Asia 9 times you will experience two different types of women. First, is the gold digger who only cares about your money or resources. You will never enjoy true love with them and you're better off paying for 1 one-night stand than getting into a serious relationship. Eventually, she will get bored of you and will ditch you once she secures another bag from another lonely, desperate man. She already has multiple guys in different countries she can pick from and you're just having your turn with her until the next guy decides to come to Thailand or Southeast Asia. Second, you will deal with a career-driven, educated & good family structure woman. Those types of women are usually harder to find as they tend to have higher standards and won't settle for any guy with money, looks, or resources. If you don't have the characteristics and traits of a good guy she will most likely not engage with you. They do exist but you have to put in the work, go in neighborhoods where tourists don't normally live, and have an open mind. Hopefully, this helps out guys who are looking for love or a nightstand.

[@nzavali00]

Get well soon, brother ! Good to see you back

[@rkgaustin]

Glad you're on the mend!

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thank you!

[@SilverFalcon460]

GOOD LORD, Dan...sounds like you have been through the wringer....AND BACK!! I was seriously worried that you where NOT going to make it. Welcome back!)

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thank you, I’m still fighting on mate 👊👍

[@omniexistus]

Over $30k for the dowery even tho she wanted $300k. She'd be out the door ASAP.

[@davidramsy3048]

He is an absolute Super Star.very smart man.

[@Miles-pg7gf]

Nice one Dan lol 👍👍👍

[@adamDiDnp]

Well said at the end mate. Blokes do need to get more respect for themselves!

[@robertmcneil7145]

You are back!

[@gezeers]

I'm glad he went through all that not in a bad way but his clever at the end and got a wake-up call,put a plan in motion, and got his money back. She was very good at hiding what she was up to,until that one night when the phone was unlocked and he found out what she's been upto in this relationship. Im glad he got his money back and she's back in the LOS. Good story and Dan keep the work up best channel by far.🙏🙏🙏🇹🇭🇹🇭🇹🇭🇹🇭

[@Madders23]

I’m in Vietnam now Dan and took your advice about getting insurance. I hope you’re feeling your old self now. You’re looking good.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Hope you are having a good time, I’m feeling great thanks 😊 much better now

[@Madders23]

@@thaitalkwithdan I am thanks. I love the place. That’s really good to hear. You could have done without the allergic reaction!! Make sure you get plenty of rest. Take care

[@thaitalkwithdan]

That’s good to hear I have always wanted to visit Vietnam and hopefully one day I will 🙏 I am doing good now, light exercise at the local lake every day, eating 3 meals per day, drinking lots of water, I am feeling fantastic compared to before 😊

[@Madders23]

@@thaitalkwithdan I hope you do get to come here one day. I am sure you’d love it too. There’s nothing not to love. That’s good to hear that you’re looking after yourself and feeling so well. You’ve certainly been through the mill.

[@stuartmccrossan2097]

That's been one of the best mate wow these woman Can be very clever

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Yes very devious

[@malin5468]

Good to see have recovered from your terrible experience.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Thank you 🙏

[@sfguy2024]

Glad to see you’re alive mate, was worried about you.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Still here, I’ll always keep getting up off my knees 👊 gotta keep keeping on…..

[@sfguy2024]

@@thaitalkwithdan Dan, love your content and think you have an easygoing personality that makes me want to tune in. Maybe you can start some other channels specializing in other content around Thailand? Current content is only going to get certain segment of viewership and limit your monetization. Keep up the good work and stay healthy.

[@donpardo1]

That man is definitely MI5 SPOOK material!! Chapeau 🤠!!!

[@xerxeso1]

Hi Dan...One Great Story to Pin on the Frig....Try to Avoid Medication (Yah Met) and Jabs (Poison).....

[@smitsos1]

This was a great story.

[@Wurd2yaMutha]

Your content is informative and amusing. Do you ever get letters about relationship nightmares with Thai men ( gay or straight) or ladyboys? Would be interesting to see if it’s comparable.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

Yes sometimes if you look through my channel you will find some stories

[@Tony-mh3dm]

Yesterday I saw old guy who was every bit of 90 , maybe older. And he had a real cute Thai girl by his side helping him walk. And yes, you could plainly see that they were a couple.

[@marcrichard7251]

Wow, what a crazy story but take care of your health Dan… and I hope you and your son are doing OK together😊

[@ranctil3]

Hi Dan I van see why you would be exhausted after reading that story Im exhausted just listening to it. Not many men are as patient as this guy you have to give him credit gor that. Hope you recover completely soon. Best wishes.

[@thaitalkwithdan]

I definitely would not have had that level of patience I would rather have took the loss and just left

[@marcom2248]

After listening to all of your stories, I came to a conclusion. I will try to avoid all the eights, nines and tens like the plague, when I will visit Pattaya for the first time. The other girls have the same equipment and abilities I'm looking for too. I suppose that will save my heart and bank account. Great to see you in good shape again. 👍

[@no_clot_shot1128]

Wrong... Most 1s to 6s look up to 7s to 10s and desire that life

[@kmarie7051]

To be honest if a woman's a pathological narcissist they will use you for whatever they can get regardless of how they look. A less good looking narcissist has no more love or genuine interest in you as a person that a very good looking narcissist has.They use other people the same way a non-narcissistic person uses tools or objects.The relationship must be providing the narcissist with something. If it doesn't, they will abandon it. They have no use for something or someone they cannot get anything from. They are getting something out of it, even if all they are getting is the feeling of superiority from running you down. This is not just something that happens in romantic relationships either. To be honest, no narcissistic behavior happens in just one kind of relationship. Pathologically narcissistic people see everyone the same. Whether the person is their spouse, their sibling, their parent, their child... everyone exists for their use. A narcissist that exhibits jealousy in romantic relationships may often display jealousy in family relationships, too; such as a man who is jealous over other men getting his wife's attention, but also when his brother gets their mother's attention. A narcissist that attacks their spouse for small mistakes may also treat co-workers this same way. People who do not offer the narcissist anything are considered useless. They will often be ignored and abandoned when a better deal comes along because the relationship is nothing more to them than a transaction. The narcissist does what they have to do in order to receive what they want from the other person. This can take many forms, it can be many things. They may want money, sympathy, admiration, for people to fear them, for people to desire them, a punching bag they can abuse, someone they can feel superior to... the list goes on and on. What they want often has a direct effect on their behavior, which is why the narcissist may (at first) appear to be many things to many people. It isn't that they are different, per se. It's they want different things from different people. If they want to be feared by their spouse, they must be a tyrant at home. If they want to be admired by their co-workers, they must be charming and magnanimous at work. If they want sympathy from their friends, they must appear to be a hurting victim. It is the same person doing all of these things and though they are different, the motive for all of these behaviors is the same: supplementing their nonexistent self-worth. Pathologically narcissistic people cannot create, regulate or sustain their own self-worth. They have to extract emotional responses from other people using various manipulations and masks, which they then convert into validation of their existence: If someone admires me, I'm good. If someone cares about me, I matter. If someone fears me, I'm powerful. This is not true self-worth because it is totally reliant on other people, but it is the closest thing a narcissistic person can get to it. As with any other human being, the total loss of self-worth is disastrous and can lead to suicide. Because narcissistic people have no self-worth to begin with, they are completely dependent on others to give them value. As you can imagine, much of the time, one person is not enough to fulfill this. It's like filling a pitcher with a hole in the bottom. One stream going into it would not do very much at all. But 3 or 5 or 10 streams pouring into that pitcher would be much better. The problem is, the hole in this pitcher is big. The pitcher can perhaps stay at a constant level, but it cannot get full - no matter how much is poured into it. And if the streams stop, it empties very quickly. This is literally a life-threatening catastrophe for a pathologically narcissistic person. If even one stream stops, this is often noticed immediately and felt very deeply. The narcissist may panic, trying to regain that stream or find another to take its place. You may wonder then, how discards ever happen. Well, the stream dries up or it slows to a trickle. They are not getting what they were getting from this source before. The mirror has clouded and all they see when they look at this person now are reminders of things they've done wrong. They will begin to search for other streams - other sources that aren't clouded - when they notice this happening. And when they find one, the old source is replaced and the problem is solved. Other people are mirrors to a narcissist. They don't see the other person themselves. They see a reflection of who they are and what that reflection looks like is entirely dependent on what they believe that person's opinion of them to be. If they have treated this person badly, or believe the person to be superior to them, the reflection will not be a nice one. It will look like flaws and weakness and ugliness. If the person does not know them very well or looks up to them, the reflection will be more pleasing. This is why they often seem to value the opinions of strangers over their family; the stranger's opinion is generally not tainted by any of the narcissist's abusive behavior. How could it be? They don't know about it. It is usually very painful for people to realize that what they thought was a marriage or a family or a parent-child relationship is no more than the necessary rigmarole that narcissists must go through to get what they cannot create for themselves. They must rely on other people, but in the end, it really doesn't matter who the people are. In many cases, it could literally be anybody, because it's not about the other people and never has been. Relationships of any kind with narcissistic people can really be nothing other than transactional. They need things that they cannot get on their own. They must "purchase" them from other people through manipulation, extortion and subterfuge. It's also very like a relationship between a baby and a caregiver. The caregiver holds all of the responsibility for the relationship. It is their job to provide care, love, support and literally everything else the child needs. The baby's only contribution is to exist and receive these things. This is exactly what they believe a relationship is supposed to consist of: they are supposed to exist and you are supposed to do everything else, regardless of how you are treated, what you want, what you need, how you feel or anything else. That's what they think should happen when someone loves them. It's unrealistic, unreasonable and and almost pathetically childish. Babies are not expected to show love, empathy, compassion, reciprocation or anything else. They are not capable of that just yet. It seems that narcissists are suffering from an arrested development that has rendered them incapable of it as well. The difference is that babies do not abuse their caregivers. They are not adults that understand right and wrong, or make deliberate choices to do things that hurt others. And they don't stay babies. They grow. They mature. They learn. They eventually reciprocate. Narcissists don't. A baby changes and grows every month. A two year old is only 2 for one year. Being in a relationship - any relationship - with a narcissist is like being in a relationship with someone who stays 2 years old forever.

[@Carlo1629-b3e]

You don't know, a Thai bar girl and even a girl with a degree as in this case, will fool you.

[@markblanch2905]

I think the entire point these thousands of endless story are teaching. That's a shame

[@sflxn]

This is ridiculous. Why are so many men so weak and why are Thai women so deceitful?

[@marcuslouisson5498]

many of the men are vunerable, been thru divorce courts etc , in answer to your second question, thailand is one of the most corrupt countries on the planet, half the population is female , couple that to greed, zero accountability , and complete emotional detachment , with the backdrop of a fantasy holiday destination, you have the perfect cocktail for this occurrence , and to be common and to flourish

[@LifeMyWay007]

Interesting that his "proof" of her scamming him is also EVIDENCE that he is an ACCOMPLICE in scamming the next guy as his cut of the scam was $600/month and ADMITTING he did not care about the new guy getting scammed. An upright citizen with high morals indeed...

[@mickdungeon602]

Im dateing a japenese girl I like listening to these stories incase issuse like this arise. But she never ask for money.

[@balicrimechannel8143]

Dan, please don't take this the wrong way, but you look and sound like you're slipping back into illness. When you were sick and in hospital you looked and sounded very sickly and weak. After you'd been out about a week you made a video and apart from having to take frequent drinks of water, you looked and sounded like you were almost back to your old healthy self. Now you're looking and sounding sickly and weak again. I'm worried that whatever is wrong with you hasn't been definitively identified and dealt with. I'm concerned you may be headed for a relapse. I know that you've got a doctors appointment tomorrow and are eager to just get a clean bill of health, stop taking medicine and put it all behind you, but you need to be upfront with the doctor about how you're really feeling and the symptoms you've been having as well as the fact you stopped taking the medication (after assuming it was causing your recent symptoms). I know you just want all this to be over with, but wishful thinking won't make whatever this is go away. Please don't repeat your near-fatal mistake of misdiagnosing yourself with Dengue Fever by now making an assumption that it's the medication that's causing you to slide back into ill health. You may be right, but let a doctor make that call. I really wish you'd go back to the U.K and let a First World medical system give you a good going over (I know you won't though). However, it's what I'd be doing if I was in your shoes. Something's not right.

[@Lucifer0007]

This is 100% correct

[@thaitalkwithdan]

I have been very sick for around a week due to having an allergic reaction to so E medication I was taking, I went to the hospital for 6 hours, seen 5 different nurses/doctors until finally the last doctor informed me about the allergic reaction, took me off my medication, gave me antihistamine tablets and the last couple of days the rash is clearing and I’m feeling better but it will take a few more days for me to build my strength back up again and start sounding and looking normal 👍 I’m back in the hospital on the 8th where they will check to see if my lungs have fully cleared and if I am definitely on the mend, hopefully that all goes ok and I can just concentrate on building myself back up again 👍 but I agree with you I’m not great today, I feel very tired, look skinny, sound tired and in all honesty this video was very hard to record 🫣 hopefully in the next video you will see an improvement 🤞🤞🤞🤞

[@gordon.Jacko1055]

I suppose there’s one good thing he wasn’t the only stupid man 🤔

[@MikeG-2022]

Hope this next Doc Visit does the trick. But IF still losing energy a couple weeks down the road head back to the UK for a FULL Check! Don't end-up like these stories and Miss a Bunch of Medical 'Red Flags'.... This has been going on for a bit of time which doesn't seem normal...... Good Luck!

[@blacknwhite5451]

I think you deserved each other, reading between the lines. You used each other to obtain status. You even stayed with her for 2 more years after you knew her secrets. That is not normal behaviour. You were more worried about your status being ruined, or getting your money back. I suspect you may both have narcissistic traits. It's not unusual for narcissists to attract each other. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.

[@Bekindloveis]

Truths! 👍🏻😂

[@thorsporkland6330]

Geez,..really?? 🤡🤡

[@Bekindloveis]

I bet he regretted impressing her with the $500 bottle of fine wine on the first date since she prefers quantity being a binge drinker & not quality 😂

[@gregsmitz6310]

OMG, my girlfriend went ballistic because I am watching your video. 😄

[@thaitalkwithdan]

😂😂😂😂 I would say to her “why you worried if you love me for real” 😂😂😂

[@odinraknes5218]

Perfect plan 😂😂😂😂👍👍👍👍👍👍👌👌👌👌👌👌

[@stevesheldon8616]

This guy wasted years of his life even after he accessed her phone and he's actually bragging about it. Imagine the toxic mood when they were co-habiting as "friends". That's not to mention the red flags before then - 30-something student flunking every class, self-described hi-so pouring drinks in a bar, all the luxury goods, letting him smash her so soon, her going out without him so often, slacking on the housework... He must be a 4 or 5 to be so proud of keeping this piece of work in his life for so long. And he obviously cares what others think of him way too much. I'd wager that the people in his social circles he says he's impressed have a very different opinion of him. News flash to the guy in the story - You impress people who are worth impressing by being real.

[@balicrimechannel8143]

Well said. I was thinking the same but couldn't find the words. I also thought his comment at the end that the experience had 'opened up doors' within the female Thai community shows he's learned absolutely nothing from the whole thing.

[@annsmith3537]

Great you’re Looking A Lot Like your Charming Self Pleased you are over the worst Love to you and your Son ❤️❤️🙏🙏

[@cazulu3]

Interesting story. You certainly expect it in Thailand but in Sydney, Australia not so much. Players are spreading their wings. Working in a bar in Australia is a bit different to the concept of working in a bar in Thailand. You wouldn't expect players to be down at your local. I wouldn't judge a person working at the local. Its a job and there is a lot worse out there.

[@Mashtaggreeny]

Good news all round. Rest up bro

[@Zen36977]

Lust is blind

[@jpants5144]

Ego is delusional.

[@tommyhiggins79]

This guy lost years of his life just to maintain status in the Thai community. Believe me they all knew her game and what she was doing from the beginning. His loss was more valuable than money and his great escape just prolonged his agony.

[@tommyhiggins79]

I think he should have immediately cut off the relationship and not slow walked his way out. What a pathetic way to lose two years for minimal return. Is the opinions of others that important? Come on man stand up for yourself. Staying together after you know what’s been done to you. Do you think the Thai community didn’t know what she was doing? Where she was going and getting money from? They always gossip and believe me they know that she took this guy for everything

[@tommyhiggins79]

Her Thai friends were covering for her the whole time

[@balicrimechannel8143]

Spot on!