That Mother’s Day Present Side Eye

We’ve all seen the “your present sucks” side eye before… luckily ‪@Etsy‬ is here to help. #sponsored #mothersday
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Custom ceramic tray: phpottery
Custom Portrait: OnTheEdgeCreations
Bath Bombs: LittleFlowerSoapCo
Mama Necklace: DaniqueTrends
Do not disturb candle: CancelledPlans
Dog mom mug: WoofAndWhimsyStudio
Measuring spoons: BeehiveHandmadeLLC
Wooden spoon: HearthandTableCo
Engraved ring: CaitlynMinimalist
Macrame plant hanger: KnotAGame
Embroidery Kit: iHeartStitchArt
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The Holderness Family creates original music, parodies, and Vlogs for KZbin to poke fun of themselves and celebrate the absurdity in circumstances most families face in their day to day life. They published "Christmas Jammies" in December 2013 and life hasn't been the same. Since then, their popular parodies, "All About That Baste", "Baby Got Class," and original music "Snow Day" have received national news coverage. Penn, the Dad, took a chance and left his job as a news anchor to join his wife Kim, the Mom, at their video production and digital marketing company, Greenroom Communications, LLC. Lola and Penn Charles are always happy, respectful and eat all of their vegetables (that last sentence is a lie). Penn, Kim, Lola, and Penn Charles publish Vlogs and other nonsense to this channel as often as they can while remaining sane. Our viewers have become our family and we try our best to respond to comments.

[@mattsully2238]

That reminds me,I really need to figure out my wife's mothe--- oh look; The internet has a new trailer for a marvel movie! What were we talking about?

[@theholdernessfamily]

Haha, consider this your friendly reminder!

[@jjtablett1363]

My favorite mother's day gift from my husband was a handwritten letter about how much he appreciation he had for how I raised our boys and took care of him after his accident. I have never felt so incredibly loved and appreciated more than that letter.

[@raelynn2773]

I am not a present person. I don't really like getting things, so eons ago when I had my first kid I asked my husband to just redo the flower bed. Now every year I get some sort of renewal or replacement of the flowers, or a new sapling, or bush planted, and every year I get to enjoy looking at until it gets too cold. For me it's truly the best of any gift thru the whole year. I realize that can't work for everyone, so if you're looking for an indoor option I recommend a Flaming Katy in a pretty (handmade?) pot for gifting. They're nearly impossible to kill, and can be easily coaxed into reblooming any time you want.

[@lovinglife3954]

I agree. I’d rather spend time doing something than get a gift. To me, that shows more care. Gifts are low on my love language list.

[@thirstwithoutborders995]

@@meeperbird OMG, you just explained my Leo gift focussed mother-in-law, while my husband and I couldn't care less.

[@mchowe01]

I love that! I ask for tomato plants for Valentine’s Day. That’s usually when it doesn’t freeze anymore. And my son remembers every year to plant a couple.

[@Sicara91]

My Dad has always made it a point to make Mother's day special, like even after the divorce he would come over and help us cook my Mom breakfast until we were old enough to do it by ourselves. This year I am flying out to see her for a week, that way I can cook her breakfast and get her flowers and all that good stuff.

[@robertbowman448]

Gotta respect a divorced dad who still teaches his children to value their mother.

[@lnwmelon]

You have an amazing dad!

[@alyseandrews1066]

That is really incredible! Great family values!

[@lulumoon6942]

Great story, thanks for sharing! 👍

[@nachey1]

My son told his mother this morning, your mothers day gift is knowing you created this (points to himself).

[@theholdernessfamily]

That's sort of adorable.

[@teacuppug8337]

Hahahahaha! That’s cute!😅

[@FrancosBabyGirl]

That made me laugh thank you!

[@MizBryteEyez]

🤣😂🤣😂

[@heavynleigh7951]

Please tell me she kept the receipt!! 😂

[@d1znenut]

My dad was so horrible about gifts that my mom always bought what she wanted, wrapped it, and put his name on the tag. He joked it was always nice to see what he got her every time when she opened it.

[@victoria7t]

Not only did my dad used to do that when he was alive but he made it a point that all of us do that for mother on Mother's Day.

[@Therealshabbosqueen]

Lol that’s cute

[@victoria7t]

@@meeperbird Indeed. He definitely was a rare one.

[@jonogren5567]

Cherish your Mom's folks. My Mom will be 80 on July 3rd. She is so nice to me. The sweetest Mom ever. 😅

[@susanjthornton]

Cherish your mom is great advice. I had mine until she was 95 and I was 57. It’s been 7 months and I miss her support, kindness, thoughtfulness, empathy, perseverance, and humor tremendously. I’m grateful to have had both my parents into their 90s, married 71 years, and I’m so glad I did cherish them. And become their friend.

[@jonogren5567]

@@susanjthornton RIP. My older brother passed away on 4-6-19 from colon cancer. He was only 55. I am 55 now. I have 1 younger brother who is 51. Take care.

[@jonogren5567]

My Dad is 84 on July 27. Love him.

[@mik1of3]

I guess I'm weird....I'm not my husband's mother. He has a mom. Getting stuff from HIM on Mother's day is creepy, so I told him to stop after the second one. Just help the kid get something for me until she's old enough to do it herself.

[@la4508]

Same

[@sabrinalavallo1064]

this is such a great song. Happy Almost Mothers Day, Holderness Family and anyone who reads this comment.

[@charliemay9893]

Just get out the house with the kids and let her have some peace and quiet lol

[@OurFamilyVine]

We love Etsy too! Great gift ideas! The side eye lol!

[@theholdernessfamily]

Etsy is the best

[@ashleydonohoe7941]

Mother's day is on my birthday this year. All I want from my husband and my kids this year is a bath, a nap and time to read. Simple inexpensive gifts.

[@LetsFocusOnChrist]

That sounds ideal to me! My birthday was in February and I asked for an afternoon off. Hubby was super sweet and gave me the whole day!

[@KaraRobinson412]

Yes! Just give me some "me time" ... that's all I ask. (Oh, and clean up any mess you make while I'm off duty!) Signed, another mom who also has a birthday that bumps into Mother's Day.

[@mog-gyveroneill2500]

We've already had Mother's Day... Mothers Day..that doesn't look..eh..it has an apostrophe.. right?! 🤪😬🤯...in the UK...for goodness sake, I've forgotten where I was going with this..it does have an apostrophe..yeah, it does...

[@senseijoyner]

Mother's day this year is also our anniversary and baby dedication day at church. Our little one will just barely be 2 weeks old by then, and family is coming in for it.

[@catherinematrisotto6619]

A couple years ago my granddaughter made me a Mother’s Day card. Because we are ethnically Polish, she went on Google and wrote a card in Polish using Google translate.

[@billopad9625]

This should be an actual TV advert! (If the ending belongs to the thing, there’s an apostrophe.... the day belongs to the mother - apostrophe.... 👍)

[@QUICKBOOKS1]

A little tip that I use. Set a "Reminder" in your iPhone and have it repeat annually. I do the same for Birthdays and everything else. Everyone asks how I remembered, and I don't tell them my phone told me.

[@malcolmrowe9003]

Is Mother's day in America the same date each year? Because I haven't worked out how to set an annual reminder to cope with the fluctuating date in the UK.

[@6butterflywings6]

@@malcolmrowe9003 no. It’s the second Sunday. My phone alarm can do that. Yours is based on lent, so it varies wildly. And comes up unexpectedly if you don’t care about lent.

[@karaa7595]

Mother's Day for me is like a second birthday in that I get an extra 30 minutes in bed while my hubs cooks breakfast. I put that extra sleep to good use when I clean up the mess afterwards. Lol.

[@kimnapoleone9934]

I love Etsy! Thank you for trying so hard to show the Mom's appreciation! I'm going to point my family to my Etsy wish list too.

[@Nurichiri]

I will not lie, my favorite Mom's Day gifts I get are what my kid makes me at school.

[@alyseandrews1066]

Aw! I can't wait for that 🥰 Mine are 2.5yrs and 6 months so we have a little while yet lol

[@ChowMeinWarrior]

Thank you Holderness Family!

[@jeniececollazo7033]

Lol I can't get enough of the holderness family. 😂❤

[@beth8775]

On the other hand a gift certificate for a real massage from a professional is a great gift.

[@theholdernessfamily]

This is TRUE

[@sarah-phillips]

I always say “just look at the Etsy favorites!” Because, yes, I receive the plain piece of paper cards. Really we just want to have no child arguments and to have our kids snuggle with us while we watch a movie of our choosing. IS THAT TOO MUCH TO ASK?! We taught you how to use the toilet. YOU’RE WELCOME.

[@cxqcxq5176]

Right?!?! 😆 🤣 😂

[@ingridheinrich46]

Thankyou so much for recommending Etsy, turned out to be exactly what I needed!

[@abbiesundet3132]

Thank you. For reminding me that Mother's Day is coming up.

[@stephaniemiksell419]

I’m flying home to Oklahoma to see my mom for Mother’s Day 🥰

[@donaldstanfield8862]

❤

[@rbandhoneyberry]

This will be the first Mother's Day since my separation. My kid is 7. Unless she makes me something at school, I'm taking myself out to dinner, lol.

[@ehaight8430]

You guys rock with all your songs!! I love how you can take any holiday and turn it into this awesome song!!!!! I also love your book!!!!! you guys put some much effort into it!!! Good job :)

[@ElainefromPenguinPlaceCrafts]

Thanks for the Etsy shout out! If Sunny was a dachshund, I might have made the list, since custom dachshund dolls have been my best seller lately!

[@brettst01]

Surely the ceramic ashtray to a non smoker is perfect :) Love you mum.

[@anacontreras4548]

HE'S DOIN THE BEST HE CAN! HE'S DOIN THE BEST HE CAN! 🙃

[@theholdernessfamily]

Right?

[@QUICKBOOKS1]

@@theholdernessfamily, Definitely. I am now in the age group that allows you to register for a vaccine. AstraZeneca has lowered the age range to the 40's in my province. I'm just waiting for "The Call".

[@KaraRobinson412]

@@QUICKBOOKS1 Hello from another Ontarian who just made the age grade!

[@alyseandrews1066]

@@QUICKBOOKS1 I wish they'd do the same here (from Nova Scotia)

[@LitiaHowland]

This song belongs in the Top Ten Countdown! 💛

[@thetoysofchildhood]

Tip: a gift certificate is always great (for more $$$ than a " free backrub" lol)...then we can get EXACTLY what we want😂🥰. Another entertaining funny song, as always!!!

[@theholdernessfamily]

That's not a bad idea

[@thetoysofchildhood]

@@theholdernessfamily Trust me👌👍😂

[@madmommy]

Good man, Etsy is the way to go...birthday, Christmas, anniversary...

[@marilynbaton4391]

Cute, as usual. But IM STILL WAITING FOR THE MOM AND DAUGHTER SHOPPING FOR CLOTHES OUTING. !!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@haleyanne86]

I never thought of getting gifts from Etsy for my mom or telling my husband to get me something from Etsy when it comes to Mother's Day ideas...might not be such a bad idea. I'm gonna go check out your guys' shop right now and then, tell my husband to get me something good. 😉

[@Dermatillomaniac]

Yes yes yes! Live that you listed the sellers' shops below. Etsy rocks!! Support small, minority-owned businesses!! 💟💙🌈

[@marilynmiller8670]

I am getting the ultimate Mother's Day gift. My Son & Girlfriend built a House 10 mins from us.🙂

[@memorylayne78]

I have those heart measuring spoons. It was a Mother’s Day gift a few years ago. 😄 I love browsing Etsy, but I’ve never actually bought anything

[@lovinglife3954]

I love the bouquet.🤣

[@martinadelvai4115]

I never surprise my mom, I talk to her first. Also, I don't usually give her a present, but I plan a nice day for us. 2 years ago we went to have breakfast at a really nice place, followed by a spa day, ending in dinner. We still need to do last years trip. This year I'm taking her to the botanic garden in our region. Depending on what will be possible by that time we will have breakfast before / cake after the visit there. And I'm probably getting her some flowers.

[@mariag.8242]

Experiences keep people feeling happy much longer than objects, so yes, excursions or luxury times - and photos! My mom probably won’t travel overseas again but all her photos are on a cycling screen saver so when she’s chatting on Zoom she’ll interrupt to say stuff like, “Oh, that’s the 3 of us in that little alley with all the flowers in Nice!” and we can see her pleasure. Of course it happens when she’s using her computer on her own; we just see it on the weekly family Zoom (old, not dumb - pandemic tech is hers to conquer, with a little help from her kids😉)

[@nataliequinton5976]

I got a Nerf gun for Mother’s Day one year. #momofboys

[@carolmclean8535]

Love all your videos. Glad to see them. They make me smile. Thanks

[@someguyonli]

My Girlfriend has an ETSY site (I won't post here). Very nice home made soaps, bath bombs and super sweet gift baskets!

[@LetsFocusOnChrist]

Etsy is the best! I love that the creators will work with you to get exactly what you want!

[@OttoTheWeim]

I’ll bite on your ad. Loved it and heading to Etsy to avoid the usual. Thanks Penn

[@cathifamjourney469]

Love this, lol. You are so creative

[@smdoug]

As an Etsy seller: Thanks for the support!

[@weeblez72]

Hysterical as always. When did mother's day become about the gifts?

[@laurenmanning3672]

Not that I don’t like thoughtful, practical gifts, but I think sadly, our world has become all about gifts for every possible occasion. It’s a little ridiculous! Push presents, Easter gifts (not talking egg hunt here), kindergarten graduation, you name it-there’s “supposed” to be a gift for it. 🤷🏻‍♀️🙄

[@mariag.8242]

The “Day” was invented by Hallmark to sell cards so it was commerce from the beginning

[@anng2004]

Penn at the little craft table making a card.....lol. That's my 6 year old everyday, 'how do you spell...?!?'. I know it's a sponsored video, but seriously men, go to etsy. Or buy us chips, wine, coffee. My husband gets me dark chocolate covered espresso beans...best thing ever. Oh, I bought a cross stitch pattern on etsy that said 'oh for fox sakes'...cost like $3, used up a bunch of quarantine time and looks great on my shelf.

[@christyhoehn8244]

My dad always said “ well , you’re not MY mother”!

[@phaevasynn]

I've watched every video since you started KZbin and this us my favorite KZbin channel!! BTW what should I get my mom for mother's day?

[@eldergeek6077]

Lol, I asked mine and simply bought it. I also get cards for other mothers.

[@robbymounce5764]

Happy Mother’s Day! Yeah, okay…….… I just used the TALK-TO-TEXT method to write that up there…….. 👆 lol! ❤

[@lizardflop]

That’s so True tho I mean I’m 11 and I have no idea on what to get for my mother like do I get her a new Bath robe or a New mask like one is Practical and one is something that she needs. She needs a new bath robe but COVID is a thing and it couldn’t hurt to have another mask AHHHHHH pls help me chose

[@skival]

The "Its Fine" Embroidery kit should have flames around it instead of flowers.

[@spinthepickle1244]

What my husband does for Mother's Day is what we do for Father's Day. So we do nothing. And I'm OK with that. They're pretty dang sweet to me all year round.

[@guineapigsnthings]

A couple years back, my dad gave my mom a paper towel for mother's day. Just kidding, it was way better. It was *2* paper towels folded into a card with "It is mother's day" on the front and "You are a mother. Have a day." written on the inside.

[@mariaskabardonis8353]

Yeah my mom on mother's day is stressful. This song is so relatable

[@mef2101]

I'd suggest "Mothers" is possessive in the holiday label. But is it possessive SINGULAR? Or possessive PLURAL? As "Happy Mother's Day?" Or "Happy Mothers' Day?"

[@pamelamays4186]

Penn needs a recording contract.

[@johnruffing7422]

Believe in the belief that there is love. Mother’s Day 😂😂♥️♥️

[@tarahaines661]

My worst Mother’s Day gift was two gerbils that ended up being a mom and dad gerbils to a gerbil population explosion. I don’t know why he thought I’d want gerbils, oh and this was just two months after giving birth so it was my first Mother’s Day gift ever.

[@mariag.8242]

Oh, lifetime side eye for that one 😂

[@lisacraze1]

Um....she’s not your mom. And the kids are old enough to get their mother a nice gift. So in my opinion, your job is to encourage your kid’s gifting. If YOUR mom is still here, dote on her!

[@AveragePinwormEnjoyer]

This song just bops.

[@Vipre-]

I know when Christmas and July 4th are, any other "holiday" up to and sometimes including my own birthday I couldn't name the date for anything.

[@sarahb2344]

Thank you Holderness Familly

[@amydinaklein]

Hotel room by herself!!

[@dawnchafin548]

Lol. Air plant Hanngy thing

[@theholdernessfamily]

Penn has such a way with words

[@anng2004]

Not gonna lie....yesterday i literally told my husband I wanted an air plant hanging thing.

[@pey10_marie]

Lolll Etsy is awesome

[@emiliewilkinson7857]

I LOVE Etsy!!!

[@hannahmore9118]

Without apostrophe means plural, multiple mothers. With apostrophe means it is owned by the mother. The day belongs to mother. Mother's Day. ♡

[@official_aperson]

Mothers day was in march in the UK

[@paulottobre6172]

I know that you already did something for about how a mother or woman takes in the store but maybe do another but it's with ace how long

[@limalicious]

I have a harder time shopping for men....it's like....gift cards (restaurants, grocery stores, gas stations, coffee places, sometimes Home Depot/Lowes) and food from other countries. What do you buy men?? The men in my life don't drink or golf or grill. The fanciest gift I ever gave my dad was two baseball tickets I won from a raffle at work...I will say he loved that, though.

[@momentsformoms9467]

I have a hard time too. I just got my boyfriend his first ever Easter basket this past Easter. His family is of a religion that doesn’t celebrate or believe in it & also grew up poor(he’s almost 24).

[@6butterflywings6]

I feel like its so individual for guys. Like, maybe we have to put so much thought into it because it can’t be a bunch of flowers. LOL. Does he read? Does he need a tool? Does he like going new places? It’s a lot of thought into each person we gift to. I do wish there was a standard “flowers” equivalent!

[@limalicious]

@@6butterflywings6 I think it's ties. XD;

[@kayisfish]

Hubby buys me wine or rum every year and I'm okay with it lol

[@AnubiraiPlus]

Technically since they’re using a plural version mothers, in which the day belongs to them all. The apostrophe would come after the “s”, so it would be Mothers’ Day.

[@Hiker_who_Sews]

Maybe my son would do it even if he had bucks up the wazuuu, but he's pretty poor. My gift is that he spends the day with me. Best. Gift. Ever.

[@alyupde9337]

As a mom all I want for Mother’s Day is tons of hugs and kisses from my kids that morning and them to tell me how much they love me! I’ll tell them how much I love them! Then I want a spa day away from my kids. My spa package would include a massage or five. Maybe a nice golf game alone or with my husband. That sounds perfect! PS Don’t mom shame me. I’m a stay at home that homeschools my kids (a one year old and a five year old) plus I’m pregnant. I’m with them 24/7. I wouldn’t feel bad leaving them for a day!

[@mariag.8242]

I don’t think anyone who’s spent time with kids would find that request at all weird or un-mom of you! 😂

[@richardmahn7589]

It's MOTHER'S Day.

[@lisah9192]

I just buy my own present.

[@tammileroux3329]

At least your husband tried Kim. There's some women out there whose husbands do not acknowledge Mother's Day

[@jonogren5567]

How do you know?🤣🤣

[@tammileroux3329]

@@jonogren5567 how do you think I know? Some of us actually post facts. Some of didn't get gifts from our husbands.

[@heatherhopfinger6017]

Can't go wrong with silver or gold collector coins

[@serenarobak3640]

I thought I was tge only who tell myself. . It's fine, everything is fine. Self-taught coping mechanism I thought. LOL

[@joelkleintop1991]

Great song but I have an idea make the song should I stay or should I go about leaving the house during COVID

[@heatherhopfinger3942]

I ordered myself a nice NKOTB mask the best etsy love them

[@deek6115]

You forgot to shamelessly plug your book 😄...you know...for all the Bibliophile Moms📚

[@retluoc]

Yes, it's mother's 😄

[@smwd2591]

C'mon, you can just write a card!

[@richardrreeves]

I made the comment that you should use your talents for good. It was 3rd comment made it's gone. Did you delete it or did the censors?

[@aleka..]

Did you have link in it? I keep hearing some creators disable links in comments to avoid spam or whatever (so those posts don't get posted) and I think they can block some words or phrases... I'm not one myself so not sure if true, but I had mine "dissappear" too. (inoffensive)

[@teambeining]

I confess - all moms love Etsy 🥰

[@joelkleintop1991]

Mine doesn’t

[@heatherhopfinger3942]

I buy coins from there sometimes and find New kids barrettes there

[@yuri_luver69]

Love it!

[@richardmahn7589]

Major ad for Etsy! But I'll let that slide....with a side-eye....

[@mjmedia9865]

When are you guys releasing a new album?? 🙃

[@ZumieZumes]

Well done!!! 😅😅😅💀

[@cxqcxq5176]

Add lyric about how your wife is not your mother, where the h3LL are our kids, all this time that i was searching for a gift, they were nowhere to be found, they were playing Roblox...shouldn't they be saving their allowance, color her a card with some crayons, least you kids candooo...sing it with feeling...every fathers day i feel this too lololol

[@cashcarter7013]

Come on DAD !!! You gave your SUPERWIFE something way better than any present !!! 2 beautiful children and a lifetimes worth of love and companionship and all the free unlimited parody entertainment subscription Penncast Platinum Productions !!! And all that other wonderful stuff that gets thrown in for free P Dawg Supermatic Hologram Husband Household Handy Helper Yes Ma'am Deluxe Family Fixit Kit !! You can tell your loving wife "It ain't shake and bake but I helped" !!! You got it made Penn and your wife is the best mother y'all could ever ask for !!! She's never been mean to me and most people hate me for being so perfect man !!! Make sure you get her something nice .....

[@mothwingthemedicinecat]

I need to get my mom something. She says she doesn’t want anything but you know how that works. Say you don’t want anything someone will get you something.

[@victoria7t]

My mother always says she doesn't want anything but then if you really truly don't get her anything you get shamed for it various times during the following year.

[@sonja2446]

It isn't that she *wants* something, she wants YOU to want to GET her something. Two *entirely* different things. :D Watch her. Find her favorite things.

[@victoria7t]

@@sonja2446 Exactly!!

[@victoria7t]

@@sonja2446 however when you have a highly discerning and refined mother and you are not in the same tax bracket in your pocketbook does not agree with this then that can present major problems. You get the best that you can afford that you think she wants but she doesn't like it anyway because it's beneath her. This is no longer my issue thank goodness but when I was in my twenties and in my early thirties it was a serious point of stress for me because my pocketbook did not agree with what she would want and like.

[@sonja2446]

@@victoria7t That is an entirely different ball game. One you cannot win. I'm sorry you were forced to play. :(