RESPONDING TO HATE COMMENTS | AGE GAP RELATIONSHIP

[@relax-smile-relax]

You don’t have to explain yourself to anyone. Seriously!! Just love each other and keep God at the center of your relationship. You guys are super cute ☺️

[@Celine2024-G]

Amen

[@shernettsilva3959]

Exactly

[@ThinkPraise]

👍🏾 TRUTH!

[@roberts200]

Mam pytanko, czy jak mówicie o poważniejszych tematach jest opcja tłumaczenia na polski. Takie lżejsze tematy można załapać przy średniej znajomości angielskiego, ale już ważniejsze sprawy fajnie jakby były też na polski.. Pomyślcie o tym proszę,, fajna z Was para, powwoodzenia

[@relax-smile-relax]

@@roberts200 Dobry pomyst

[@ewafredriksson5826]

I am 41 and my husband just turned 63. So happy ❤

[@stardustgirl2904]

People that are young, don't realize that when you have true love as you age nothing changes, the hugs and kisses stay the same! And if you take care of yourself, you'll age well,and stay younger.

[@tammylesure5339]

Oooo By The Way I B 59 The End Of December My Fiance Is Going To B 39 In Jan & We Been Together For7 Years & Still Inlove

[@Reesa601]

Still a difference. 19 and 41 is very different, no life skills.

[@sindyseidel]

People are actually sick 😫 Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl!❤ As a 40 year old mother of 3,I see nothing wrong with this! You guys obviously Love each other 🥰And I wish you nothing but the best now and 4ever ❤Love is Love ❤God bless your beautiful family always❤Screw the haters! 😂🤠❤️

[@patience597]

I am a black guy and I really admire you both. You are a great couple and God will continue strengthening your relationship. Stay blessed

[@dianagittens5899]

All I see is a man in love with a woman enjoying their life together. Keep living your lives. 🥰

[@korda5471]

Well then look at it with a bigger picture.

[@kamaledinemehdani3490]

@@korda5471 Tell me what is wrong. Eh? I'm 15. I don't see nothing wrong with their relationship?

[@korda5471]

@@kamaledinemehdani3490 the girl when they started dating was only 2 years over the age of consent, and they have a step daughter who’s only one year younger then Iyah. Imagine knowing your dads into girls your age. Gross. Not to mention when this guys 60 she’ll only be 38. My point is you can’t tell if they are really happy on camera and it seems like they trying to validate themselves by telling themselves they are happy through videos. Just my opinion though.

[@AFluffyLombax]

@@kamaledinemehdani3490 you're 15. You wouldn't.

[@kamaledinemehdani3490]

@@AFluffyLombax Let's not get started with age. That's the last thing I need right now. Having fallen in love, and knowing what love has been for over 2 years now, don't try and put my 'lack of understanding of their age gap' as a reasoning of my young age.

[@growinspirit]

My love for you two has no limits. 🥰 If only people can mind their business, it's gonna be cool. Just "do you", be happy and let the jealous go to hell.

[@proyouservicesltd3652]

Haters are truly a sign of gaining popularity . Embrace them, even cultivate them, nobody works harder to promote you than your haters !

[@proyouservicesltd3652]

@@ellag8068 But it's the truth, haters have been known to create whole websites and forum pages, social media accounts just to discuss and hate on people. All achieve is promoting the people they hate.

[@korda5471]

They have a step daughter who’s the same age as Iyah. Do you not think that’s at least somewhat creepy?

[@dont375]

@@korda5471 Says who? At the end of the day, She’s an adult and he’s an adult, there’s nothing wrong with their relationship.

[@BTYS]

That is so true

[@lenasudberry4251]

Hello love you guys so much thanks for the content and life is too short don't waste your time explaining your love for each other u guys happiness is all that matters to u I met my son father I was 20 he was 40 nothing wrong with it wish u guys nothing but happiness and long life together 💗💗💗💗

[@GdzieJestNemo]

no polish people will ever talk about "appropriating culture" it's a nearly uniquely american concept

[@prickleswithpineapples2362]

All over the world learning from each other is embraced but not in the America mostly ( can’t speak for all)

[@nancykiptoo925]

Do your thing…. I love the chemistry and everything about u guys. Life is too short to listen to other people’s opinions.

[@nancykiptoo925]

I am in a r/ship of black/ Asian. Yo! 90% hate / trolls came from my family/ relatives…..i learnt alot and now i have grown a tough skin….. i still say the more they talk bad the more you get stronger

[@Nancynancy7687]

From Kenya

[@Celine2024-G]

Amen

[@chrisretired5379]

Right on, Nancy 💝

[@charmainebaker-capps3735]

Exactly sis...exactly@!! Can u all imagine what would happen to each of our lives...if we all..LISTENED..to EVERY SINGLE ONE ...of the people in the backyard n front yard of our lives..we wouldn't actually have lives...we would have more prisons...& live everyday life!! In tbem...who wants tbat...not me. Have a feeling u guys don't either. So hear with the ears if you want...but only choose to listen to the positive advice n even still...take n apply what you guys truly think n feel; it's YOUR life together. The only thing that should matter🥰👍 be good 2each other ok😇🙂🙃!!❤one love💝

[@Sea_aiden]

Don’t waste your time responding … you will NEVER please everybody .. Live, Laugh and Love ☺️

[@gruv2nz]

👍

[@fatimaleger2839]

They’re jealous. 💯 folks are mad that this guy is timeless and she’s beautiful. Gtfo haters 😂

[@korda5471]

Why would we be jealous of a fucking groomer?

[@kimberlydennisrncpn7824]

@@korda5471 Omg if it bothers you so much go find something else to watch!!!!!!!! Why waste your time if all you're gonna do is be bitter? U have a choice, go and watch something better. We enjoy watching groomers😛

[@korda5471]

@@kimberlydennisrncpn7824 Because I wanna try and make people like you understand this is not all sunshine and rainbows it’s not just love and haters there’s something more weird behind it.

[@korda5471]

@@kimberlydennisrncpn7824 Also the fact you enjoy watching a groomer is fucking disgusting but whatever

[@notfunny1410]

@@kimberlydennisrncpn7824 "We enjoy watching groomers" Bruh

[@eddiepack433]

The haters miserably continues to watch y’all! Thank you for sharing your beautiful love story. And as far as your race it’s obvious, Raffia? Very handsome! And he loves the hell out of his fiancé. I am happy for the both of y’all!👍🏽💯🥰😘🥂

[@vanessaadams1452]

I was dating a man that was 40 and I was 20 years old. what the hell was I thinking. I will tell you I'm 50 and he is 70 years old now. I was thinking I found the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. All love

[@vanessaadams1452]

@@rachelo8294 Yes we are married.😉

[@nottheterminator968]

That grandpa hit the jackpot

[@ascosche]

😂😂😂 love this

[@ayodissanayake1551]

Wwwwwwoww .... ❤

[@laurelcrissman8801]

I'm 25 with a guy who is 50 soulmates truly met when I was 19 and he was 44

[@kellyhamilton4757]

You guys will be fine. I met my wife when she was 19 and I was 38. She just turned 30 and I am 49 now. She is Hispanic and I am white. At first her family wasn’t sure about this. Especially the grandmother , and my mother didn’t think it would work out . But over the years everybody loves everybody, and we all get along. I wasn’t looking for a relationship when we met. She actually asked me to go out with her and her friends twice and I said no. But then we started to hang out and then the next thing you know we were just together it was crazy. It was not planned. And now we’ve been married for almost 10 years and together for almost 12. And we also now have a seven-year-old child. Don’t let anybody tell you what to do. Live your own life. As long as you two love each other don’t allow others stupid opinions to get to you. Believe me we’ve gotten the “Looks” just ignore them. We love you guys!

[@robogreek3157]

But your name Is Kelly and have a female pic?

[@faratiya6706]

Learning polish isn't appropriating a culture. There's nothing wrong with learning another language or wearing a shirt with another language on it. People are so mean. White or black, Asian or Spanish, Indian or Japanese...it doesn't matter

[@Se_190]

FAR, MY FRIEND, THE WORD IS SELF HATRED & IGNORANCE!!!!

[@faratiya6706]

@@Se_190 exactly!!

[@idontgiveafaboutyou]

People find anything to be offended by. Truly.

[@christinepittman4194]

Live love and grow and glow you’ll. Their are people in relationships that are the same age or close in age and Happily married happily involved. And then there is the flipside. Couples who stay together out of convenience or very unhappy. if you watch their videos.You can clearly see that there is no manipulation no codependency. Or someone who is looking for a father figure.Or I want someone young and energetic.You have two people who were attracted to one another.Who over time got to know one another and fell in love And the rest is history.What you see is a beautiful interracial couple living their lives and expecting the best out of their union.Hate or Haters will not change how they feel for one another.She has total control of her decisions and her life

[@pamelabennett4792]

He's older and she is young but a person can see they both have the same tender sweet heart with pure loving honest attributes. Just look at the hurt in their eyes. I bet their love will grow stronger as they grow old together. I can see they are already teaching one another the simplest things in life. So so sweet.

[@nikkic2710]

You are a well grounded man Raphael..Bless 🆙️ on all ur accomplishments and thanks for serving 🙏🏾

[@raheldaheljones4794]

Heh,I haven't seen such a beautiful couple before.move on my friends and continue to love yourselves.Then always put God first in all you do too.God bless you two

[@morgangilley7197]

You two are so beautiful and confident! ♥️♥️♥️I hope to be this confident in an interracial relationship too! Thank you so much for inspiring me😊♥️I love you guys so much!

[@marlynmorgan3658]

I love Iyah's response to those negative comments; she's showing a lot of maturity there! 😍. Those people really need a life! I think many of them are extremely jealous also. And I love how her boo is smart enough to acknowledge that she's young, and is going to make mistakes; and he's cool in watching her learn and grow from them. My fervent wish for you is that you never part...until God says when. Keep blossoming in love! ❤❤.

[@charmainebaker-capps3735]

Nice!!! I second that!!👍💜

[@soniachapman6359]

AN ABSOLUTE RESOUNDING AMEN TO THAT RIGHT UP IN HERE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!🙏👌👏👍🙏

[@sarascott2561]

These comments really make me mad!!!!! Most of the ppl making comments are jealous and have nothing better to do!!!!!! If they don’t like you, why do they continuously watch your videos!!!!!! I think you guys are great together and it’s no one business on what you guys do!!!!! Just continue to communicate and love each other and everything will be just fine!!!!!!

[@Mea_DS]

Right on! A bunch of haters!

[@heatherfranklingomez9050]

You guys are cute ignore them I was 23 when I met my husband he was 36 I’m black and he is Mexican we get stares but who cares we make each other happy and that’s all that matters you guys are happy about to be husband and wife ignore the haters they are just plain miserable. It’s just sad to see sick minded people and racist age is just a number and skin is just a color underneath we all bleed the same way.

[@jessicaran148]

The comments make it seem like he’s some super predator, racist, abuser, wow that’s mean. You two seem like a nice couple. I’ve seen all of your videos and you two have a really good chemistry.

[@Virtue3712]

True. And he actually looks good and young! Can't even see/tell he's that older!

[@korda5471]

@@Virtue3712 Yes you can but he does look younger then 43

[@kylishadean7859]

Continue to love one another. Never mind the haters, keep living a good life. Give God the Glory and keep living. The hate that is given to you is the hate that the people that is giving it feels for themselves. I love your channel. Keep the content coming. I’m in an age gap relationship and I wouldn’t have it any other way. I love you both.

[@MianewMia]

Haters can't stand your love, You just need to prove to each other this beautiful feeling that all of us dream to have. I love you both... You so much deserve it. A hater even doesn't understand what love is 🤔 But we normal people we love you soooooo soooooooo but sooooooooooooooooooo much❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘😘😘😘😘😘

[@MeShe271]

So sad that you guys have to go through all this hate. I think it's awesome that you guys are in love and sharing your story. Me and my husband are 22 years apart. I'm 38 and he is 60. Love has no race. As long as your happy and two consenting adults I see nothing wrong with it. You guys rock and God bless!!!!

[@irenedarkwah6329]

KZbin suggested your channel 2 days ago. I usually take my time to subscribe. I subscribed just now quicker than usual because I am angered by the Hate Comments. I wish we all could be more supportive of each other.

[@caitlinogorman3623]

I just think that you two are absolutely freaking adorable separately, but undeniably stunning together. I am so sick of everything being white and black, black and white. Onlookers should be happy that two people found love and happiness together, you compliment each other beautifully. May I also say respectfully that Raphael is an extremely handsome, well put together gentleman and YaYa is stunning beautifully. I can’t wait to see you’re gorgeous offspring one day in the near future. Anyone speaking down on your relationship is small-minded and they have probably NEVER have been happy in their life and their are purely envious. It’s so refreshing to see two people like y’all. 💋

[@elizabethfitzgibbons2672]

Yes

[@glorialouiise]

Don't give them your time.🙏🏾

[@korda5471]

Actually they should since the comment section is supposed to give opinions and constructive criticism on a video to make them better. So actually do @thats so Iyah

[@lynnlanclos2403]

Ignore the people that's mean and stupid. The color of your skin does not matter. It's what's in your heart. You two love one another and that's what matters. I see the love and the joy you have for each other. Blessings to the both of you. And the love and enjoy each other.

[@kidenrose9762]

It's really a shame when we cry out on streets that black lives matter yet we are the ones promoting racism Never mind them divas Love you

[@Se_190]

FOR REAL, HYPOCRITES STRAIGHT UP

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

Thank you so much 🥰💓💗💛💖☺TRUELY

[@Se_190]

@@thatssorafiyah7739 You guys are most welcome, I mean every word of what I say. Ya'll continue to love each other and enjoy each other. Life is short, don't EVER ALLOW ANYONE TO MAKE YOUR DECISIONS. YOUBARE YOUR OWN WOMAN, COMPETENT, WELL EDUCATED AND ARTICULATE. I PRAY 🙏 YOU AND ROFOL WILL HAVE A WONDERFULLY BLESSED LIFE ❤ TOGETHER ❣ MY PRAYER FOR YOU CELINE, MY DEAR, IS THAT GOD'S GRACIOUSNESS WILL HEAL YOU, YOU WILL BE WELL, BEFORE YOU KNOW IT. I WILL KEEP ALL OF YOU IN EVERY PRAYER I PRAY... "GOOD SITS HIGH & LOOKS LOW," ALWAYS, THIS YOU GUYS MUST REMEMBER, PLEASE❣❣❣❣❣NOW THEN, BE WELL, BE BLESSED, STAY SAFE, TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES & EACH OTHER, GOD'S SPEED🙏🙏🙏🙏❣❣❣

[@kidenrose9762]

@@korda5471 The main issue here is love dear Age doesn't matter And they are neither the fast nor the last

[@robinvolpi]

@@Se_190 You folks likely don't even support Black Lives Matter so this may be right up your alley. 🙄 Here's a copy and paste of what I expressed to them earlier: How can you two say with certainty that "most" racist comments come from Black ppl when ANY one can use a Black photo for their profile and many do it to troll and spark division? Russian trollfarms have been known for this but also many other ethnicities have been exposed for doing the same. Also, I've seen racist comments from whites/others suggesting that the young lady looks "violent" and abusive.... two racist tropes against Black ppl, including women. For the record, my first introduction to your family was tonight when I came across some of your "short" videos and in all honesty I was initially VERY alarmed. As a Black woman seeing this extremely young Black lady dancing around some much older white, or ANY ethnicity, male was quite disturbing w/out context. That doesn't make me some "hater" nor bigoted. It makes me human. I had to come to your channel to see what exactly was going on and this is the first full video I've begun to watch. Once again.... please use common sense and better discretion before assigning the blame to all of your hate comments on Black people. It's odd, ignorant and likely not true.

[@chrisretired5379]

Smart man and woman here, they recognize and respect, are sincere and a match ! 💝💝

[@AngelaSmith-er7qb]

Please don't let what people say steal your joy. I'm 65 a mother of 4 my youngest daughter is 23 studying to be a nurse. I'm glad she's getting her career together first. Love has no color. Be strong. Support each other for we live in a world where there's hate. This is just a test. To see how strong your love is. Can your love stand the storm .I pray God bless you keep your family safe full of happiness. Put Jesus first and everything else will fall into place 🙏 😊😊

[@chariemonroe7608]

This is a relationship that is legal and based on mutual love! Leave them the fu@k alone and live YOUR best life and let THEM live theirs!!🥰😍 You can't open the eyes of idiots they will just poke them out,they don't WANT too see!

[@maemae1752]

It’s been my experience that whenever you are in a mixed race relationship, it’s always your own race who will be the most critical of YOU! PS this is pretty consistent across the board (no matter if there is a skin difference or not) There are bigoted people in every race. Its always based on jealousy so just ignore them and live your lives.

[@edithmwilakaunda3423]

Exactly my case

[@maemae1752]

It’s impossible to make everyone else happy and accepting so the only thing you can do is honour your love and live the happiest life possible. LOVE is the antidote to everything.

[@Leilaniflora2014]

It's being protective of her not critical of Her. she is the child.

[@onyenmehieihenagarankeoma2070]

@@Leilaniflora2014She is not a child.

[@Leilaniflora2014]

@@onyenmehieihenagarankeoma2070 she is.

[@user-vt2ce2jc4r]

Iyah and Raf..... I struggle with depression and watching you makes me happy

[@RexieG]

You both make a beautiful couple. Continue to love one another. It's your life you don't need other people's approval. You're both above the age of consent.

[@sheilataylor7497]

I love these two. I came here today to see what the hate comments were about on Facebook. Unbelievable.

[@marjorjorietillman856]

They’re a beautiful couple! They look only about 10 years apart, but if they’re 20 years apart, who cares!!😂. I love these two also! I don’t know why BW would be angry because I don’t know any BW that hates interracial relationships, and I’m Black.

[@rongomes308]

The HELL WITH THE HATERS THEY HAVE NOTHING BETTER TO DO SO MAKING YOU LOOK BAD MAKES THEM FEEL BETTER ABOUT THEMSELVES PERIOD!!!!!!!!!😡😡😡😡😡😡 LOVE TO YOU GUYS ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@korda5471]

Your either 5 or 60 since you just used all caps and 50 emojis

[@rongomes308]

@@korda5471 yeah I’m 68 yrs. young and I have experience HATERS and I am PROUD TO BE A PERSON OF COLOR SO I KNOW FIRSTHAND!!!!!!!!!!

[@korda5471]

@@rongomes308 so why use 50 capitals and emojis?

[@rongomes308]

@@korda5471 cause I want to why is it a issue??

[@polishpsych]

I had no idea that there is any age difference between you two, maybe because you both look young. I thought that you met in college or something. Looking at you two I can say that you are both happy and you don’t do anything against the law. It’s all that matters. Btw, I love her Polish! It takes some courage and dedication to learn Polish. It’s dope so keep on going, please. You are doing a great job❤️

[@Jill_251]

Love has no color, love has no numbers . Who cares what haters say they’re just jealous because you two are both beautiful and happy and they’re not. Periodttttt . See y’all in your next vid 😘😘❤️❤️💯💯💯💯💯🙏🏻🙏🏻🤗🤗

[@mariettawhitt7875]

Love knows no boundaries, go for it, the haters are gonna hate

[@lindahubert2787]

I am so thankful you all finally decided to address some of these hate messages. After reading some of them I am like wild. Who in there right mind would think to say some of these terrible things about anyone. I ❤️❤️the videos and I look forward to seeing more. I miss you guys when I don’t see them. I’m like please post something. You have to realize that people have such hateful and disrespectful minds. I feel as if they are just miserable with themselves and want to drag other people into their little miserable world. Iyah , I am a tad bit jealous of you and Rafael’s relationship , wish I could experience one like it but I’m patient and I’m waiting. Please disregard the negative comments because more of us love you than hate you. Tell your beautiful daughter I say hello and I pray for her speedy recovery. Again ❤️❤️❤️ you guys

[@dont375]

@@korda5471 She’s a grown woman, she can make her own decisions. Wtf is wrong with you? Weirdo.

[@shivonehosein3309]

I love you two !!!! Don’t pay attention to others … live your best life 🙏🏽

[@ashash8545]

Nie zauważylam znaczącej różnicy wieku miedzy wami. Wyglądacie na dopasowanych i szczęśliwych ludzi. Znamienne, że w obecnych czasach nadal ktoś zwraca uwagę, na różnice w kolorze skóry, a już sugerowanie, że Iyah jest jak niewolnica w tym związku mnie zszokowało. Każdy ma wybór z kim chce się związać. Życzę Wam powodzenia i wszystkiego dobrego. Może się kiedyś spotkamy w Polsce :)

[@sunshiinee6755]

The haters don't deserve your energy 💯

[@enid11akadove27]

Incredible about these comments, I am shocked. You both lucky for finding each other. Age is just a number. God wanted it that way!! You both are super good looking, beautiful human beings, age is no matter, is just a number. I am 59 with the energy of Iyah. I am sure she can also teach him good things too as well as he does for her because there is love between them. Learning things with a great partner is a plus in any relationship. My husband is very white Irish man and I am dark Puertorican and we have 22 yrs married happily. skin color is nothing for us, it is not an issue. These haters are mean and they think everyone is like them or think like them. Keep up what you guys are doing it is a beautiful relationship what you have. Where there is LOVE there is nobody else that can brake that love NEVER!! hugs to you and you guys doing great xoxoxo

[@shakiracharriez9811]

Do not let anyone dictate your life, happiness or your love for one another. You are a amazing beautiful loving couple. Continue to be strong and your love will conquered all the negativity you are receiving. I love your channel. 🤗

[@tc98rocks]

love is love im 23 and my man is 36 going on 37 this month. screw the haters love you guys

[@korda5471]

“Love is love” stupid quote. You can buy love, groom, suduce love, etc.

[@purrsandwhispers4521]

You are a gorgeous couple and the true love and respect you have for each other is obvious. I think a lot of people are jealous of what you have so they leave negative comments. I encourage you to keep loving 🥰 and living your best lives. Much love from NC!!!💕

[@busybeez5348]

When it comes to LOVE age don't matter. ALL THAT MATTERS IS THE TWO HEARTS ARE CONNECTED. Keep up. Love you guys so much.😘😘

[@heavenly4048]

I love you two so much. You get a long so well and love eachother and that's all that matters. Haters are people who are jealous because they live miserable lives.

[@tbfly77]

Hi guys. Do NOT worry about the haters. My husband and I have the same age difference. Same set up like you both (which makes no sense still). We actually talk about what would have happened if we met when I was 21 and he was 43. Yup, you guys at great. So many blessings to you!!!! I love the Polish culture. And may karma teach the haters a profound lesson in love.

[@henriettajones9497]

I just started watching you, because I just found your channel. Lovely couple don't listen to the haters they just jealous. I am 70 years old and enjoying you two.

[@craftyscraps7]

I am in a interracial relationship me being brown and husband white and to most people they will think that we shouldn't cross races and people are going to hate. But its not about them it's about your relationship and focusing on each other to make things work and support each other and continuing on your happiness together. I couldn't be more happier! We have two kids and have a healthy relationship. We've been married for 10 years! You two are great! Pay them no mind! They are probably just jealous 😂

[@AAA-ys9jv]

I am white my husband is black our 2 kids are our pride. We have been 20 years together and the longer we are with each other the more we love each other. Some ignorant people have been nasty to us through the years even my members of family. But I honestly don’t care about what world think of my family, who cares it’s our happiness that’s count

[@jasminejones2288]

People are Jealous of your guys beautiful relationship. Keep being a happy loving couple that you are 🔥

[@krystaldaniels7940]

Wait, I just stumbled on this channel..THAT guy is 42??!!!! What the heck have I done wrong?!🤣 (I'm 37 and I LOOK 37) y'all are adorable, don't worry about opinionated people 🥰

[@korda5471]

In other words don’t listen to people who are worried for you

[@ilaisakomse9451]

@@korda54710 L 0

[@korda5471]

@@ilaisakomse9451 ?

[@ilaisakomse9451]

@@korda5471 sorry I wrote it by accident 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@arabiasantigo4870]

Yes. He looks young..

[@myrianstewart2738]

GUYS YOU MAKE A BEAUTIFUL CUPLE!! Please ignore the haters !!! Some of them are very ignorant , some are selfish ! !! I Love you guys!

[@soniasilva7079]

JUST A TIP TO THE HATERS, ABOUT "SLAVE" I KNOW THAT YOU ALL ARE MORE MENTAL SLAVES TO YOUR SELVES THAN THIS SIS IS TO THIS BROTHER.👊

[@myrianstewart2738]

Well said!!!

[@rashidashabazz7319]

When anyONE Hates.....it is evidence of THEIR PAIN............ Hate destroys the vessel that contains it. There's ONLY one 'race".....it's called HUMAN............There are different complexions, different languages, different cultures, different ethnicities, different nationalities.....ONE HUMAN FAMILY/SPIECES..........Blessings upon BLESSINGS upon BEAUTIFUL BLESSINGS IYAH and RAF 🙏🏽💚😇

[@deborahandrews1570]

I am 60 and my husband is 31 and we are doing just fine! He was 28 when we met! It really is frowned upon when a woman has a younger man so I got a lot of flack when we first met and married. And I don't look my age as well. So just be happy and live in love 💕💕😘!

[@adagallardo760]

Am 62 and my SO is 44. We’ve been together for 7 years!

[@joyce52]

When I was about 20, I worked in Philadelphia, PA and of course, there were black people within the big company. I became close with two of the black girls that I worked with and was criticized for hanging out with them and even going to each other's homes. I ignored it. I have been to Bermuda 30 some times and fell in love with it from the start because they do not seem to see color at all and there are many, many mixed marriages. I find that just fine. God made us all and if black and white are your favorite colors 😊 go for it. Life is very short and sometimes we do not take the time to think about that and just move on to be happy. I am older and have a son who is nearly 50 and believe me, I can see and feel the end of my life creeping upon me. My heart says I am 35 and my body tells me the truth.

[@ByMy-SPIRIT-saysTheLord777]

You both are a beautiful couple both inside and out side. Haters are going to hate . You can’t control What other people do only what you do. Keep being your awesome selves and making those amazing videos . I am a black woman who loves you both . God bless🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@korda5471]

For the last time we aren’t haters we’re people with brains

[@maximuszeus73]

@@korda5471 Nobody in his or her right brain will try to shatter any body's happiness.... Keep your stupid brain to urself

[@chilton1975]

Don’t listen to those hateful people. You do what makes you happy. You guys are adorable and I support you! ❤️

[@mickeshafearon7170]

Black have serious identity issues and see everything through the eyes of race. A lot of us need to check ourselves and don’t confuse love with race. Love is unconditional, it doesn’t knows borders or race nor ethnicity. Get over yourself and leave people to love who they want. Some of us really need to check our insecurities and stop pushing them on others. Much love to one of my favorite KZbin couples. You guys keep it real and interesting. Love from🇯🇲

[@tesswonderful4194]

That's a pretty ridiculous blanket statement that blacks have identity issues.

[@Se_190]

OH GOD IN HEAVEN. DID "YOU" HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD OR WHAT!! I'M SENDING A HAND🤝SHAKE, APPLAUSE 👏& A FIST🤜🤛 BUMP TO YOU VIA FACEBOOK, CAUSE MICKESHA, GIRL, ITS LIKE WE ARE SHARING A BRAIN, LIKE WE ARE BIOLOGICAL SISTERS, FROM ANOTHER MISTER, WHO WERE RAISED TOGETHER BY OUR MOM WHO INSTILLED THESE ETHICALLY DECENT & NON PREJUDICIAL AND NON JUDGEMENTAL WAY TO LIVE & LET LIVE. YOU GO GIRL, I LOVE IT!!!!!!! AND, like the late Michael Jackson sang, IT DON'T MATTER IF YA' BLACK OR WHITE, which sadly relates to my point!! ONE DAY, MIKESHA, GIRL, WE CAN ONLY HOPE & PRAY, FOR "THAT" DAY!! MEANWHILE I HAVE & I WILL CONTINUE TO DATE ANYONE WHO TREATS ME LIKE A LADY AND RESPECTS ME, BLACK WHITE & "EVERY COLOR IN BETWEEN, CAUSE I LOVE A REAL MAN FROM "THE INSIDE OUT"

[@Se_190]

@@tesswonderful4194 I didn't interpret MIKESHA COMMENTS AS BEING MEANT AS A BLANKETED STATEMENT, WE ARE ALL individuals, being black white or otherwise what MICKESHA is speaking of, is what we see in the media and what we hear black people saying not black people, as a whole but a plethora of those who feel that way. THE truth IS SO BLATANTLY OBVIOUS, it's not ridiculous it's a fact demonstrated by physical acts, in addition to being verbally espoused! VIOLENT DESTRUCTION, USING THE BLACK K LIVES MANTRA, IN TO JUSTIFY DESTROYING THEIR OWN NEIGHBORHOODS & DISPLAYING VIOLENT OPPOSITION TO ALL WHO TRY TO ALM THE WATERS! Yes many blacks have identity issues and while using those identity issues tend to put down other races which is not fair, every white person does not feel that every black person has a problem, every black person does not feel that every white person has a problem! THE blanket statement is that there are problems all around and the world needs to come together as one , get the fuck over themseleve, those with these particular separatist attitudes and blame and finger pointing & the continuity thereof, i say drop the bullshit! Hence we will then open up the world INTERGRATE, EDUCATE, LIBETATE ,THEN CELEBRATE OUR WORLD AS ONE WITH A WORLDWIDE COLOR BLIND POSITIVITY, WITH THAT, THE WORLD COULD, WOULD & WILL BE AMUCH BIGGER & BETTER PLACE IN WHICH TO LIVE , LOVE AND GROW OUR FAMILIES & BABIES, WHILE TEACHING THEM TO LOVE AND ENJOY EACH OTHER & All OTHERS IN A WORLD OF THE "HUMAN RACE!!!!!"

[@tesswonderful4194]

@@Se_190 the phrase "blacks have serious identity issues " is a blanket statement. It didn't say some blacks. I was just stating my interpretation. No harm done. Thanks.

[@Se_190]

@@tesswonderful4194 NO worries at all, ALL IS COOL, NO PROBLEM!!!!! THANK YOU FOR SHARING I understand cause you hit on some really SOLID TRUTHFUL POINTS IN EVERY WORD YOU WROTE, and that in and of itself speaks to me loud & quite clearly ❣❣❣❣PEACE, BE WELL, BE SAFE & I THANK YOU & I APPRECIATE YOUR TRUTH❣❣❣❣

[@rafaczajkowski6096]

Had no idea there was any age gap between you guys. All I could see was love, mutual respect and lots of fun you have together. I won't even go into this race thing, sad that anybody can have problem with it.

[@gemward1000]

Love has no colour, God bless you guys 🙏

[@deebeetalks8037]

Very good. To love all is to know God. Racism is hatred and hatred will send you to Hell. So, get it right before it is too late. True love overshadows hate.

[@passover321]

​@deebeetalks8037 *Being disobedient to God will send you to Hell as well.* ********:9-10 KJV *[10)Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: NEITHER FORNICATORS, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,* *[10] Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.* *FORNICATOR MEANING - A person who has SEXUAL INTERCOURSE with someone TO WHOM THEY ARE NOT MARRIED.*

[@renee2105]

Iyah, you r a beautiful innocent sweet young lady with a long future ahead of u. please understand that many peoples (older) concerns come from a loving caring place, bc weve been in ur shoes before and it did not turn out well...that age gap leaves a LOT of room for him to control/manipulate u without u even REALIZING until it hits u later in life and realize what he was doing this whole time.

[@vinolabikunda7418]

People hate only because they are not brave enough to fight for what they want. Love ye guys❤️

[@janantoni3604]

People live your own life and don't interfere with not your business. People stay away from hateful comments. Love you guys being happy.

[@whotube7978]

Iyah is gorgeous, I’ve grown to love your relationship.

[@korda5471]

How? Please explain to me how a relationship where the guy was 20 and she wasn’t even born yet is a good relationship, tell me.

[@nwaiwulinda6384]

Excuse u

[@dont375]

@@korda5471 She’s a grown woman, she can make her own decisions. Wtf is wrong with you? Weirdo.

[@korda5471]

@@dont375 ok and I can have my own opinions? What’s your point

[@AD-ry7br]

@@korda5471 That is not "having an opinion". That is being freaking obsessed and hiding behind concern trolling as a way to be as judgmental as you want. There is nothing wrong with being judgmental per se, we all are, about various things. You just become an unhinged asshole when you can't keep it to yourself and start harassing them everyone in this comment section. You have left *83* freaking comments on their channel. You have a serious problem. Check yourself for fuck's sake!

[@esterquiazon1445]

Do not listen to haters. They just envy your love for each other.

[@juliemillz9813]

Some people just have their own problems 🙄so after failing to handle them they start sneaking their nose in other people's businesses. SO GUYS JUST KEEP YOUR LOVE BLOSSOMING EACH DAY TILL GOD SETS YOU APART i love you guys and your content alot 🇺🇬🇺🇬

[@korda5471]

I don’t have personal problems I was just on Shorts and found these two and was creeped out and did more research and was even more creeped out.

[@Celine2024-G]

Hàhaha. You nailed it , nice one!

[@elizabethfitzgibbons2672]

Hey what does it mean when God sets u apart

[@brendagreenidge7717]

I love your channel. Stop responding to haters. You are giving them too much authenticity.

[@silisiwemaphosa2051]

It breaks my heart that you have to even address the hate comments you are receiving. Guys, just do you, be you, vlog for us and ignore the haters. Unfortunately, they will always be there. Just shine your light and hopefully blind them. I'm a black woman and I fully adore your love💞

[@stardustgirl2904]

I feel like we have gone backwards in society, and we have had many generations that have all missed out on being really close in this life. Jim Crow segregation law's kept us apart, and the government did that!

[@sherrywright9139]

If people dont have anything positive to say they need to keep their mouth shut.God bless you guys you are a lovely couple.

[@Blessed2SeeTomorrow]

yall are so cute I pray one day I find a love like this ! People are haters so just ignore it , stay safe and blessed !

[@Danielle-nm5qx]

Same!

[@nancyimbleau1795]

Iya is a very accepting person and ready to accept his Daughter and the rest of his family.

[@SimpleWorld08]

This needs to be said and I WILL SAY IT! --I am jealous of these two.....but the good kind though

[@tatrukt]

I love how you are straightforward to denounce abusive racist comments from Afro American community. Speaking the truth is always good to get rid of problematic behaviour. Cheers to all black and white accepting the reality of love !

[@GoddessMaicaJ]

I’m so happy I came across this channel 🥰 I also just happened to be drawn to older white men and people have all of these stereotypes. Can’t I just like someone for their personality and how he treats me? 🤣

[@vickisanders7120]

Don't have to explain yourself to anyone...live ur life and keep it moving. God bless you!

[@michelelovinglife]

You two are adorbs!! And you will make beautiful siblings for your beautiful daughter💗 Nothing but love, hugs and prayers❤️🥰🙏🏻

[@Juanita-ge6mb]

Look at it like this. If people hate you, you are doing something right. Just started watching. God Bless

[@huynhmao9514]

You guys looks great together and I never thought the age are big deal. As long you both love each other and that's matter. They hate you because they wish they can have the relationship like yours.

[@quietstorm4108]

You guys make a marvelous couple. Stop addressing hate and prejudice people. Content like that drains your positive energy. You guys are too energetic and cute to fall into negative energy. Live, love and enjoy life.

[@michellenoreiga328]

You are a beautiful couple and I love you guys.. People are entitled to their opinions and you don't need to prove anything to anyone...live ur life for you,not them! I love you guys 🥰the people writing these negative comments needs to look in the mirror 🪞I think they're bored with themselves...hate is real and that's so saaaaad

[@DION575757]

Stay strong don’t let the haters bring you down. Keep doing what your doing I love watching you guys. I’m a black man with an asian woman people give us problems all the time.

[@paweljastrzebski635]

Hi guys, I do not see this age gap between you both when I first saw your KZbin videos. You’re perfect matching young couple. Wish you best of luck in this wild world. Love each other and do not have to explain yourself to others. God Blessings

[@tinab8466]

I am so glad that you guys ignore the jealous , bitter people.

[@nancyimbleau1795]

Both of you shouldnt feel like you need to explain why you are in love and choose to be together and make a life for each other!

[@davidfoley726]

You guys are the best! There are some really unhappy people in this world!

[@1stTimerJo]

You guys are cute together and seem to really love each other 🥰… ignore the hate and silly racial comments

[@joycearyee3266]

Don't mind the haters. Live your life. You two are beautiful together. I love you guys. Keep keeping on.

[@mariamay3220]

Dont waste time, answering hate! I think you all are a beautiful and funny couple. Age is just a number as adults! I don't feel the need, to be honest and say I am a African American woman! A mother and grandmother, guess what, I absolutely love you all, don't change who you are, it is why we love you, let the hate stay with the haters!

[@robertgates9914]

Just keep loving each other in a Godly manner !! Ignore the haters !! They are just jealous !! Age , race does not matter !! True love is colorblind !!!!

[@TheMdterp]

Y’all are such a gorgeous couple. Love is all that matters. Age ain’t nothin but a number.

[@korda5471]

Pedometers are on the highest scale, what the fuck are you saying? With that logic a 50 year old with a 8 year old is ok?

[@Itz_Ashley11]

Said R. Kelly

[@dont375]

@@korda5471 She’s a grown woman, she can make her own decisions. Wtf is wrong with you? Weirdo.

[@marthawarrington7748]

I love the positive way that you guys respond to the trashy comments that came from those empty unfulfilled people

[@ginaromero1978]

DONT WORRY ABOUT WHAT PEOPLE THINK, YOU GUYS ARE AWESOME 💕💕

[@lindaB7682]

We are behind you lovebirds. On your way to 100k soon 🤸🏾‍♀️🤸🏾‍♀️💖