Answering Your Juicy Questions About Our Relationship...

Answering Your Juicy Questions About Our Relationship!! Hey FAM I am back with another video :) today my fiance Rafal and I will be Answering your juicy questions about our relationship 😋 juicy juicy questions lol ... I hope you enjoyed this video Answering the most Asked Questions #questions #agegap #thatssoiyah
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[@joycedauzart4764]

He doesn't look old at all

[@AJ-mt9zt]

I agree but 42 isn't old though lol.

[@carly582]

Yeah he's not old just extremely attractive

[@butterflymustfly_1232]

@@AJ-mt9zt I'm 45 and he's far from old. It's just this generation thinks everything past 25 is old.

[@lroundtreepatrick]

He is very handsome and his confidence just puts the icing on the cake. I wish them well

[@tessat.1616]

@Joyce Dauzart, you are so right, he doesn't. But early forties is n o t really old, he's just much older than she is. He handles her just right, as he's supposed to, at least publicly. He doesn't talk down to her, just quietly corrects her. They are fun to watch.

[@sharongraham116]

Let the man talk. Give him time to talk. Please ladies

[@cocobutterchin6768]

She is like a little kid. Very Hyper. Full Of Energy.

[@Viva-Ethio.1016]

U can see here big age diffrence.

[@zohrabechan9721]

Yes let the man talk

[@Angelaaa91]

Stfu 😑

[@malushahinduja1875]

She is learning ..she is exited..she will improve in her next video... Love ❤

[@despoinakalamari2421]

He is a narcissist! He knows how to manipulate you! He applies all tactics! Go away as soon as possible!

[@JL-ei4sc]

She’s so cute she probably makes this man feel young again

[@valenciabernadeau242]

For real

[@gingerjuice4053]

@@valenciabernadeau242 wait how old is he? I'd guess late 20s early 30s😳😳

[@heatsann4456]

@@gingerjuice4053 he’s 40

[@preacherskid428]

@@heatsann4456 43 actually

[@iwontrespond4039]

Well yeah but he's fine as hell!! So I think she feels pretty good too

[@lifeofalisha6115]

You guys are cute. I’m also in an age gap relationship. Wouldn’t trade it for anything. Wishing you both well

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@Se_190]

God bless ya Alisha, girl I never had a relationship with a man my age, OR AS OLDER AS I AM, ALWAYS YOUNGER, I CAN'T ATTRACT AN OLDER TO SAVE MY LIFE... BUT ITS OK, ONCE A MAN ASKKED ME IF HE COULD ASK MY PARENTS IF IT WAS OK IF HE TOOK ME OUT. OH GOD, I THINK I WENT CROSS EYED! WE EXCHANGED #'s and long story short, he really never did believe my REAL AGE, however, he wasn't my type anyway, toodle loo bro...

[@lifeofalisha6115]

@@Se_190 I am sorry to hear that. Hope all is going well. We are getting married next month and I am so excited

[@reshemaewerse4022]

Me too!…same 22yrs age difference. Together 14yrs married 7yrs, no kids together. My husband is the older one, he’s everything to me. Good luck to you guys. People like to chat crap! Ignore them, love is love.

[@z.shari11]

SAME! 🥰🥰

[@liveinspirewithlivemulumba]

It’s beautiful to witness love (couldn’t stop myself from smiling the hole time). God bless you guys.♥️✨

[@BADGYALTIFFY7]

me too boo

[@Kstixx1]

There's nothing wrong with your hair it looks good. White girls wear extensions and wigs too? As long as it looks good men shouldnt worry about women's beauty upkeep

[@sarahm8884]

Girls are getting plastic surgery on there whole face and body. He's pressing her about weave. Nope.. Like just admit you prefer men and go 😲👎

[@altovise14]

It's crazy thinking about moving to another's country too because of our new president too

[@tesswonderful4194]

Of course white girls wear wigs and extensions. Stereotypes - like black people can't grow long hair. 🙂

[@colleenlewis3599]

This is my first

[@colleenlewis3599]

I like both of you

[@paulachin9130]

Your a beautiful couple with loads of personality and seem easy to be around. He seems to adore you the way he looks at you and is affectionate is adorable.

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@coolingwinds]

She is so cute. I get why he says that she surprises him. So adorable they are, and now they’re about to have an adorable baby! So sweet 😊

[@courtnee1060]

I'm in an age gap/long distance/interracial relationship too with an amazing Mexican man. I'm 21 he's 35. This is our 3rd year and It was really difficult coming out to my family and my mom still has issues with it. Out of all the drama, I've learned that life is full of lessons and I have to learn them myself just like I have to live my life. I can only be respectful and hope that if it's meant to be, people will eventually accept it. Life is too short to be unhappy so waste time not being happy. I wish you guys the best!

[@lisaa3636]

It’s your life, your love. Happy to see you aren’t letting people get in the way of that. Love is love. Even if other people can’t accept it, it’s not their relationship to accept!

[@iseeyou2810]

He is looking for a green cared

[@KatGlo]

35?! Chile

[@_fromthedivine_]

I know this is an old comment, but I'm late to discovering their channel. I'm in a 25 year age gap relationship for 6yrs. Now and we are perfect together but he keeps it as a secret from most, out of fear of what others will think and his family not accepting it. To be fair, he battles anxiety and has past trauma in relationship so I think that also plays s part. We've had many ups and downs because of his own worries and fears. We've tried to stay away from eachother but are always led back to eachother. I myself don't care what anyone else thinks! It's my life and he makes me happy like no other. It's a deep, very spiritual connection. I'm to the point though of ending it because I'm tired of keeping it a secret and being hidden! I know I deserve so much more. It's a very difficult situation to be in! I admire Raf and Lyah for authentically loving eachother and not caring about what others think!❤ Best of wishes to you!❤🙏

[@anaalequin5629]

I see though she acts very grown in a way, she is also very young and childish. I hope it lasts, but he is a very nice and easy going person. To me I do not think this love is not going to last. Sorry a child is coming along. He is a father already of a daughter almost as old as her. She does act of childish. I really feel bad for this couple.

[@Winter-xh5im]

This couple has really changed my view about them.. I enjoy watching them and both seem super sweet!

[@shaeekenn6253]

Because you use to seeing toxic bs ughh ppl & they view of things

[@annabellabrown222]

Yikes.. I will be 20 in a month, i am 2 years into my major which is psychology. Y'all are giving very much cringe grooming behaviors. "my girl is growing up" when y'all are discussing who is more active in the bedroom and so many other red flags that she's not mentally mature enough to catch onto apparently. The only reason i have the mental capacity is because my choice of career path. Anyway............ I hope y'all do well but these signs are telling. sorry not sorry

[@robogreek3157]

Do you know what grooming is?

[@NativeEyesNc]

"My little Girls Growing Up?" Am i The only one that can See Whats going on with this dude?!

[@winxclubstellamusa]

Yeah, that line made me nauseous!! He doesn’t respect her as an equal or see her as one at all, and that’s what he likes about her. He is very full of himself, and I’m getting the vibe that he is also manipulative.

[@MG-lj8zg]

What's going on?

[@chigozie9149]

I smiled and giggled all through this video ❤. I'm happy for you guys

[@z.shari11]

I instantly liked you guys when you said you didn't like the current state of affairs in America. Thank you for your honesty ❤️☺️

[@lisafilly464]

It doesn’t matter about the age gap to me. It’s the maturity level difference between them. I sure hope she’s getting an education so she can support herself. Even if they’re together for life she needs to be able to take care of herself.

[@615BlackBarbie]

"I'm a debater." Then, she looks at him like "huh" and proceeds to explain that he's a Debater" 🤭

[@nimblewimble]

"My little girl's growing up?" Bruh.

[@lizgaby9761]

I mean .... he is not wrong... but he is wrong for saying that. There's only one way to deal woth someone so much younger than yoh and that is also treating her her age..no way around that.

[@cassiecoulter1146]

Cute couple. He sounds like he always wants to be right

[@Nikki...]

🚩

[@sancraft1]

Isn't that all men? 😂

[@vivianthompson2204]

True

[@dq8330]

Did he just say " my girl is growing up" I cringed. Respect her she's your girlfriend not your daughter.

[@DeeDee-ww9ve]

That made me cringe too

[@1991jdclark]

The mental age difference is more than 20 years.

[@incognaytopotayto]

Yeah that was gross

[@shantelgoode5069]

Yea as a mother to a little girl I would be mad if her husband ever said that and I found out but maybe that turns her on

[@csuchicka5459]

I cringed too 😂🥲

[@vernellwindon6771]

You’re an adorable couple, he looks much younger, you actually compliment each other.💕

[@dorrishaynes8349]

Love his smile and intelligence.

[@Munaslim]

My too

[@safiyahamisu5874]

The level of maturity is way apart. Both are just being their age. He has experienced her age, she is on her way to experience his age. He’ll probably be more patient and enjoy being her age. Wishing you all the best.

[@atstafford10]

You 2 are sweet! He is very patient with her, which shows maturity and sophistication. She needs that. She is absolutely adorable! She is a natural beauty and doesn't need anything fake. Personally, I don't like ANYTHING fake or unnatural. I have never worn a wig or extensions, no fake eyelashes, no fake nails. I am 61 yrs old and trust me people have never been able to guess my age. And, as far as his being "old", that's rubbish! He is still very young, and looks it - with his fine self! Take good care of each other, share in good health. With lots of love, and respect for one another you will be forever happy!

[@simma9878]

I feel she has a lot of energy, which I'm sure he likes that.also I feel you guys benefit from each other a lot. I'm an older woman and my man is younger than me with the same energy.

[@jaz6789]

Rafal would make a good Lawyer , Iyah looking extra beautiful today

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

Thank you jasmine 💓hah tell me about it I know

[@godsonnzube7988]

My dear you're very pretty 🦋 i admire you, can we get to know?

[@72capital53]

You guys are genuine and hillarious. Love it!!!

[@lindacharles8357]

I know exactly what you're talkin about he doesn't cuz he wants to be right and actually he does he's testing you. Dude stop being so controlling if she likes the small dog that's her feelings your feelings is different let her feel the way she wants to feel.This what his personality is his Narcissistic. Look it up and see what it means.

[@Tiffany-ie3cu]

It’s beautiful to know that he prefers her to be natural. A true sign that he loves “her” just for who she is.

[@catherinewilliams815]

I agree.

[@maritkaa007]

Polish guys don't like fake things - that's what I have experienced when dating Polish men. They don't like hair extensions, plastic surgery, sometimes even wearing make up is a big no. That's just so typical Polish guy behaviour.

[@mariethompson4237]

A sign that he really loves black women. 🙂

[@carly582]

And possibly the fact she's extremely beautiful and has an amazing body...

[@junesammy-robidoux2305]

Yes, he is also so patient with her

[@neshthepisces]

y’all are cute. but the 3 things you liked were so artificial, like, tall, tattoos, blue eyes…were you just joking?? i mean this is your husband to be??!!

[@shaaronego8227]

U guys just make me smile from the beginning to the end of the video Love you guys ❤💜💋

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

Thank you so much🥰🥰🥰🥰😜

[@dq8330]

I can tell He's already not taking her opinions into consideration because she's way younger. She said it herself he will get into an argument with her for not backing her opinions with facts. It's ok to have a personal opinion girly, and as your partner he has to take it into consideration. Don't let him force you into thinking the way he does. It's ok to have different opinions.

[@kabahumaaliya4645]

Are you rafs ex why too much hate

[@Optimus19572]

I disagree! You have a problem clearly

[@iseeyou2810]

I agree with you.she is too young and he is taking advantage of that. He wants to mold her in to something he wants.

[@dq8330]

@@iseeyou2810 he's not necessarily taking advantage of her because she's considered a consenting adult. But he's DEFINITELY discarding her input in the relationship and tossing it aside because she's too young. Healthy relationships aren't built that way. Both partners have to contribute. It should never be one dominant opinion or it will turn into a dictatorship and the one unheard will become resentful of the other.

[@carly582]

@@dq8330 damn your knowledgeable I learnt alot from you

[@sahra4091]

I just like her craziness, I know why he fall in love with her.

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

Thank you love !!!!!!!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@yanahs1st]

By far my favorite couple to watch on social media, no pretentious acts genuine chemistry 💜💜💜love you 🙏🙏

[@kellyhero608]

Girl run for ur life, that man has a long way grow, he doesn't kn how respect people opinion

[@maemae1752]

I agree with him, wear your natural hair, take care of it, nurture it and it will be glorious. I can never understand women who always want what they are not, curly wants straight, skinny wants curves, light wants dark and all vise versa . He is right, the best is to learn to be comfortable in your own skin, own what you have girls! Realise whan you are constantly covering up your natural hair, nails and skin it leads to your hair nails and skin paying the price of all that fake stuff on top and then you are stuck, your natural self looks awful and it costs a fortune to keep up with all the fake. Plus how uncomfortable it must be to wear those wigs and nails all the time. Be free, be natural, especially black girls, you have no idea how much we are in awe of your beauty.

[@nikkig6028]

She’s adorable, but her age def shows her statements, comments, and mannerisms.. hope she blooms into a confident, cultured, n reserved young women some day

[@lizgaby9761]

Probably won't happen till she hits 30 lol

[@ghostwriter5745]

Correct!!!

[@sharnagrayson9649]

Isn’t she like 21

[@crishnaholmes7730]

How

[@Raquel_824]

She's definitely still a child ... I'm gonna give them one more video but I don't see what everybody else sees .. the age difference definitely shows !!!

[@twwoody813]

Some people are just destined to be together 🥰

[@joda1432]

Thank you

[@jolciar6516]

You complement each other every possible way. I am very satisfied and happy seeing you as a couple. It brings a wide, genuine smile on my face seeing and hearing how fantastic couple you are.

[@tomaszpua9758]

"My girl is growing up"? Seriously?

[@irenedarkwah6329]

I am almost the same age as him. I don't feel old. I am more girly than I have ever been. My point is 40 is not old. Great things happen after 40. I guess it's happened in this case.

[@lemurianchick]

He looks much younger, though.

[@evitatruth8755]

This was uncomfortable to see.

[@NICOLE-ge3we]

Why

[@callyn2993]

@@ericasaidit girl how many times have you said this? Are you his ex or something??

[@arielled6631]

Did I hear that you’re not happy about who the current president is? Just asking since it was brought up and sounded unclear.

[@christinecbw]

I heard the same thing ??

[@TerrAnnieSims]

@@christinecbw yup I heard it too. Kind of unsettling if you ask me

[@estherolalere1138]

@@TerrAnnieSims omg ikr. I was just getting into them but ima have to unsubscribe real quick

[@LEAKED1966]

@@estherolalere1138 PLEASE UNSUBCRIBE FOOL WE DONT CARE WHATBU DO BYE

[@LEAKED1966]

@@christinecbw BY IMMIGRANT

[@aprylgem1]

You guys should check out Naka and Dom. Great low key but entertaining couple 👌

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

Will check them out! Thank you so much 💓💗💛💖☺♥💓

[@orangemark127]

I love them .

[@lisamarcelle4416]

@@thatssorafiyah7739 no IKA and Demetrie are a much realistic couple

[@delooaes]

I love them .

[@aprylgem1]

Being Jamaican I love and give Ika and Dem 100% support. Also, there's enough love to for Naka and Dom. Just realized both couples names are similar 😁

[@actuallyNo...]

Damn, idk how I missed this... this def. A great one! Anyway, yall HILARIOUS, so cute, & always funny.♡♡♡♡♡☆☆☆♡♡♡♡♡ The love is so sweet amd genuine. Yall remind me of my husband and I in so many ways. !!!!! As couples, AND as Individuals, we've got so much in common! Our relationship is very close In so many ways to y'all's I love seein other people who live each other so wholly & accept a person fir who they really are. In this case of you 2 and your relationship, I think the difference in age is actually a positive thing, and works put perfectly for you. So lucky to've FOUND each other cause you're def. Soul mates ✌🏽

[@winnmatthews]

Damn, what a Hot Couple!! 🔥

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

🥰🥰🤐thank you

[@saynotothemonarchy]

she's very immature

[@Versiongurl]

He’s one sexy man, accent and all. I’m a black American woman from NYC and I know about my Polish ppl, there’s a whole community out here, several communities. He has the typical Polish look 😍. Anyway, girl you better mature a little. You’re cute, funny and fun but you can carry yourself a little more mature and mysterious. Men do fine it attractive. When you got all giddy over him buying you a new phone, red flags went up in my head 😆. I’m not gonna say what I was thinking. I know you guys are married now and I wish you the best of luck but grow with him. You don’t want him get tired of the immaturity because I think he’s a good catch. I like a man who take a little control, it’s sexy to me and he doesn’t seem excessive but make him respect you by carrying yourself like you know better. ❤️

[@faithainspires]

Ugh. She just a graduated teen and he knew that

[@veecaines6545]

You guys are such a beautiful couple enjoyed the Q&A thx for sharing. Poland now that's a spot to visit

[@josiparoglic2874]

It's not going to last. She is young and naive.

[@ZhaiiYou]

Hopefully he is adaptive

[@leilanirose3274]

She is 21. She is supposed to be. Why isn't the attention on HIM

[@piper-ct2vy]

And he seems very controllomg

[@venice2994]

Love watching you guys. "Yes when a man buys his woman gifts it makes her very happy.

[@tomaszpua9758]

I watched a few videos and I am extremely sorry that they reinforce the stereotype that Polish men are misogynists. In fact the entire material from visit to Poland showed how Iyah is being trained by her future husband and his family. Iyah remember that you have always right to be afraid of mountain lift, riding a horse, insects, and the sandwich you made for someone can be as you made with good intentions (the sentence: 'I've done my homework' was shocking). Please think about whether you want to raise children in the Catholic faith, which announces its saints among the friends of right-wing tyrants and defenders of pedophiles.

[@okgotit4103]

As if there aren't countless left wing pedophiles and corporate bought politicians all for individual profit. Epstein?... how about just basic fundamental values to base a family regardless of where it comes from. You can find disfunction in every establishment if you look for it. They don't really care about your tantrum here.

[@Trippyboho]

I notice that he tries to shut her up a lot by kissing her or trying to charm her. Which I don’t really like only because it’s obvious she doesn’t really like confrontation, so she just accepts it and moves on but I think in a marriage you have to allow the other spouse to speak their minds without automatically ignoring or putting it to the side disregarding their points & perspectives of things. Because when it’s your turn you will make sure you’re heard. Wish yall luck though 💯

[@annabaye8223]

gurlll you just jelly

[@Samahra01]

My husband does this too....but it's not because he doesn't listen or care. They're sharing personal info and allowing us to hear their convo so He's protecting their privacy and setting boundaries. It's okay. He's a man and she's a woman...she even says she likes to talk alot and hes admittedly more private. He's not insulting her...in fact I do the same thing to my hubby but it's more to say, " we have our differences but I love you no matter what". God Bless!:)

[@Humbirdhippo5475]

Yes, I’m noticing something there… But at least she still speaks for herself. I hope she doesn’t start to give in over the years. Seems a little like early stage gas lighting. Stay strong, young lady.

[@mychroniclesoflife4233]

Every relationship has one dominate and a submissive...they balance each other

[@chrestimnisi8509]

I couldn't agree more. I think that is why I stopped watching they videos. I feel like her opinion is always shutdown.

[@vicoor5896]

The girl😅 she's pretty and cute but pretty immature and often cuts off in conversation

[@valerywagner3652]

She's so sweet and adorable. It's nice to see she show's him gratitude. Awesome keep being a grateful wife.💞💞

[@Ella_4888]

I love how excited she gets about things😃😃

[@kellymurphy6667]

Her excitability has a childlike quality that it would probably be a give away of their having an age difference if I didn't know that about them already. I used to live with an a 19 year old and her 45 year old boyfriend so the age gap dynamic isn't unfamiliar to me! Relationships where there are obvious inequalities can feel cringe to me but if he's able to be with her and still encourage her to live out the same sort of 20s she would have had outside of their relationship, that would be super healthy.

[@barbarasmith9042]

Hi guys, love watching your channel but on this video I am just so confused. you guys says that you are personal and don't want to share where you work at and what you do for a living but yet you invite us into your bedroom and tell us about your sex life that I do not understand. Not trying to be mean but it just don't make sense to me. ❤️

[@mjgutierrez]

He was only President for barely a month when this video was published lmao... When he called her bro 😂😂😂

[@cardion411]

Lol, right! I was like they have to be talking about Trump!! Lol

[@LEAKED1966]

@@cardion411 BIDEN DESTROYED THIS COUNTRY HIS FIRST DAY IN OFFICE

[@LEAKED1966]

UR FREE TO GO

[@cardion411]

@@LEAKED1966 Okay. You feel better now my poor baby? What else you need to get off your chest? LOL

[@bigananikagiso6413]

Girl, I totally get it. You make a point and try to put it into detail until someone starts making you look dumb 😂😂😂🙆🏾‍♀️

[@alesiamontgomery7547]

Yeah, I was enjoying listening to you guys, but you lost me when you talked about the current President. We won’t even discuss the last one.....

[@TerrAnnieSims]

Exactly, when this was filmed he was only president for a month. How were things going lol?

[@damaq2889]

Wow! He cuts you off! He minimizes your opinions. Sad he doesn’t value much that you say! Ohhhh he likes his innocent girl! Of course he has to win his arguments he’s the older authority figure! Wow! So material possessions help her open up in daddy’s opinion! 💔

[@mariangaji7212]

Rafael is super funny & smart. I love how you treat Iyah. . I love how you love each other. Great couple!!!!

[@venice2994]

He should love your fake hair. Because it's part of being a black woman. We wear extension not because we don't have hair, we have gorgeous beautiful hair underneath I'm a mixed black woman and my hair is nice. But i were the extension or my wig to give my hair body because i have thin hair... and it also protects our hair from damaging because we braid our hair underneath which helps our hair to grow strong. whether you put on a wigs or extensions he should love your hair... whether you wear extensions or a wig. There is no problem wearing your natural hair I do it all the time. I even wear my natural hair out in public, however when I'm dress up heading out with my girls or my man I love putting on my wig and wear my makeup. I'm sorry not just black women wear wigs or extension now white woman wear them too.

[@AAA-ys9jv]

I am sorry he shouldn’t if he prefers otherwise. Your comment is pointless. For you to say fake hair is a part of being black woman is also wrong. There is plenty of black women who don’t wear wigs.

[@yourskincarestop]

she is helllllaa annoying you guysss!!! dating a sugar daddy?! likee what? yuckkk! that's grosss

[@maxineturner1560]

Is he a virgo because I am the same way, make it make sense, I totally agree

[@Mea_Davis-Sotonade]

Same!!! 9/15 lol

[@EEEDWARDS]

Loved your honesty. Beautiful couple 🥰

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

Thank you🥰🥰

[@Kstixx1]

The quality looks so much better. I noticed as soon as I started the video. Good job hubby. As far as mbti I think youre isfj... ❤

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

Thank you love 💘I'm going to take the test to find out my personality type

[@carolh7309]

This is my first time seeing you guys on KZbin.you are very funny and sweet together I will be coming back.❤

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

@@carolh7309 thank you so much 💓💗💛

[@Ally-hf7sw]

I was in a relationship with the same age gap .. He was too controlling, always wants his way and it was not comfortable at all, i couldn't talk and be my self because he knows everything, i was afraid to make a mistake then he makes me feel I'm stupid. Like we still friends but that's it . I don't encourage this big age gap relationship

[@sjh7624]

Its not about dating with a age gap, but dating a narcissist. Poor girl he is gaslighting the shi out of her...

[@jasmineama916]

Usually when a man that older is dating a girl that young it's because he's a narcissist .. only other reason a man that old is interested in younger women .

[@faithainspires]

Yeah I can see that at work in this relationship too. It'll likely take her 15 years to see it

[@robogreek3157]

​@@jasmineama916 or they're in love... just a thought

[@victoriav_muthoni1257]

My face is smiling so much.. I think I've taken my cheeks on gym😁 haha. You guys are adorable.

[@Beca.prates]

Well they are very nice people but the difference between their age is very visible and I hope in the future, when kids come, this is not going to be a problem in many ways. Just wishing you guys the best.

[@tkewalis9350]

"Your eyelashes were like tiny door knobs"😂😂😂

[@lisamarcelle4416]

What changes.......so you were comfortable with Trump. Damn you complimented him on his physical attributes , which made it seem as if black women were thirsty for a blond hair, blue eye ,white man . But he focus on mostly your flaws. I notice European men can be rude and call it honesty. Girl you are gorgeous. I like your channel but I don’t know if it the climate were in ( and I’m very sensitive now a days). I just feel like black women need to realize what they bring into a relationship........#blackgirlmagic

[@LEAKED1966]

ARE U SERIOUS? DO U PREFER BEING SITTING DUCKS WITH ANYBODY COMING THREW THE BORDER WHAT A NUT U ARE

[@lisamarcelle4416]

@@shellyh3014 you make me laugh cult follower

[@lisamarcelle4416]

@@shellyh3014 I will never dispute with aTrump cult supporters. You guys don’t live on FACTS. So this will be my last response because my brain cells are very important to me........but I needed a laugh 😂

[@leilanirose3274]

Let's just say ...Men are learning which women are desperate and unlearned..

[@kilovesdaisies]

You guys are so cute together, I think every yt couple should have their own secrets & privacy. I love you guys 🥺

[@MB-xq2tp]

UM WHAT IS HAPPENING? GIRL, ARE YOU OK???

[@luvyjaboin8211]

Omg I loved this! I love you guys chemistry 😂 Y’all look so good and you look gorgeous sweets ❤️ I’m an INTJ and my friends are ENTP so I def understand what it is to be around the debaters. I like how even though he feels like he’s always right,he’s sweet with you ❤️ The Witcher is an amazing show! Can’t wait until it comes back. I think kids can wait,especially since marriage is already a big transition. Kids are no easy feat and I think it takes a lot more planning. I’d suggest wait until you guys have fun and enjoy the honeymoon period of your marriage. Then invite the little ones. Also,idk what it is with the comments. People keep calling you childish but you’re 21 and usually age gap relationships are going to be like this. Men love a personality like that of this woman. He doesn’t mind her so called “ Childish and bubbly” mannerisms. She has plenty of time to grow into a beautiful Crone full of wisdom. Like,it’s her personality and it’s fun. ❤️❤️❤️💅🏾

[@sithembilegwebane3245]

What a lovely and sweet comment❤️❤️❤️

[@sarascott2561]

You two are sooooo cute!!!!!! Thank you for being sooo open!!!!!! I LOVE watching your videos!!!!!! You are ALMOST at 3K.......YAY!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

We try our best 🥰🥰🥰 we are glad you love our videos !!!thank you so much 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰 I know girl I am so excited for 3kkkk

[@Jeserie]

I am in a relationship as well with a 20 year gap, got married when I was 18 and now we have 2 boys 11and 5 and been married for 12 years. Age gap is never been an issue to us, I love the fact that I have the person I love helping me grow up and mature, it’s definitely a good balance.

[@hitdaworld2963]

What about 36 year gap

[@tummieflowers2681]

@@hitdaworld2963 . Some people do that, too.

[@ronnieg2961]

How it should be and it’s suppose to be.

[@Jeserie]

@@hitdaworld2963 as long as both person get along well and have a lot of things in common, then thats should not be a problem. Love and respect is really the key to a good relationship.

[@kellyhero608]

This guy should take up.a mature woman so he can't expert all his ego. This girl is young and so naive

[@ceceprincess4758]

His girl?.😆 he thinks you are a little kid

[@kimmyleelee9333]

Such a beautiful personality girl but I think you should relax a bit.. give him time to speak.. slow down boo

[@saragerald6916]

WHY DOES SHE ACT LIKE A 5 YR OLD W THE QUESTIONS???

[@angelicac.8377]

Okay. Is everyone gonna ignore that she said "shut the f*** up"? I mean, did I hear incorrectly? If so, please let me know.

[@amazingbecky4386]

You heard it correctly

[@MsSade-rn3gz]

I caught that too.

[@Lovely_Linda_777]

I just found your Channel and I am absolutely obsessed and binging on your content!!You’re an absolutely adorable couple, and are both super cute and inspiring!!! I love the educational aspect of your content, as well as the tenderness I can see in your relationship. I love your honesty, and even though I am American, my DNA is from central Europe and resonate with wanting to travel there more ASAP. Obviously the pandemic has halted that for me, but I have hope I will get there someday! I am very curious about your astrological signs, as well as the full Myers-Briggs compatibility. I can see the genuine love within your relationship, and it gives me hope that I can still find it for myself! Thank you for sharing your life, and I am glad that you popped up in my recommended! I wish you well on your life’s journey! You will be the most adorable married couple! Much Love from Cali USA! 💞🙏🏻🌹✨🙌🏻🥰

[@sarairivera4006]

Purely lust and he is controlling. Commenting about her hair

[@feliciasiebert2284]

HER WEAVES BE LOOKING GOOD! WHOMEVER PUT THEM IN THEY DO A EXCELLENT JOB!

[@lenayoung1497]

Because she's trying to be adult even for you...lol. You all seem very into each other continue to work on it, it's worth it.

[@tessat.1616]

It takes a lot to render Iyah speechless, but that last question nearly did.

[@sarahcahoot5444]

Beautiful couple.

[@svewein5144]

you are so cute together😊 everybody can see your true love for each other, that‘s everything counts and age is only a number… those people talking bad about you are jealous or even not courageous enough to do the same in their lifes…wish you both endless love for each other

[@deltoriamcclendon8246]

Love and happiness for both of you is all I want for you guys. You are truly my favorite couple of all!!

[@hotchocolate1204]

I think you are the one of the cutest couples. He has good looks and age well hot couple the chemistry is something else . Enough said.

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

Thank you so much 💓💗💛💖

[@bullseye3517]

This will not last longer than 7 years if he don't changes his narcissistic character and stop being such a pain in the ass. If she get's a little older and he stays the same way he is now, she will no longer take his bullshit.

[@const1992]

@@ericasaidit on se calme.

[@chontellefraser1482]

My husband is 7 years older than me and we have been together for 7years now with a beautiful baby girl

[@yourskincarestop]

7 years is totallly normall!

[@indialover5762]

Is your age difference the reason you don't have friends? Or different reasons? There is a age difference between me and my boyfriend too, so I ask.

[@thatssorafiyah7739]

No , even before we met we both didn't have friends we like to keep to ourselves most of the time ! I mean of course rafal has a small group but it's like family ,but other than that we no ! Haha I hope I answered your question alright..

[@indialover5762]

@@thatssorafiyah7739 Nice to hear that😊I've been there too, I know that feeling😍😊. Age difference should not be a problem in friendship relationships.Thanks for your reply💓

[@tampasfinest]

You forget she's still very young you should not be like that with her. It's called being controlled and if she has her own opinions let her without the factss

[@esthergitau777]

The part of what you dont like about him🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@alejandrofernandez4159]

While Poland IS part of the UN that's not what enables her to live, visit and work in the European countries he listed, once she has a polish passport/citizenship. That would be because Poland is part of the EU. I don't know about Japan specifically, but as far as Australia is concerned she would most likely still need a Visa as well as other documents. Then again I'm german so it actually might be different for polish citizens, so don't quote me on that.

[@Mzjuju828]

I am in the same boat as y'all and it's soooooo refreshing to see I'm not the only one with an age gap, naturally in love, and y'all can be yourselves to one another. I love, adore, and respect y'all ✨💯🖤🙌🏽

[@elizabethfitzgibbons2672]

I'm in the same boat to as long as u have chemistry with that person and both of u are in that's what matters

[@tinkerbell8507]

Mmmmm, a little psychologic messing up her mind by him just to be right.

[@shannachambers254]

He is a narcissist lol