The #1 Cure for Your Broken Heart - Matthew Hussey, Get The Guy

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I still remember every heartbreak I’ve ever had.
If I try I can still bring back the agony of those months after a relationship ended, wondering if I was ever going to feel better and get back to my normal self. When you’re feeling that pain of losing someone, food doesn’t taste good. TV shows depress you. Your favourite places feel cursed because they bring back bittersweet memories. Life feels like white noise, and your every waking moment goes back to that feeling of loss and pain.
We’ve all been there, right? But there is a secret to emotionally recovering from a breakup, one that is shockingly simple but so crucial that if you forget to do it, you will inadvertently DOUBLE the amount of time it takes to get over your ex. See, most of us make bad decisions in a breakup. We drink to numb the pain, we have one-night stands with people we don’t care about, or we eat ourselves into oblivion with junk food.
It sucks now, I know. But it will get better, trust me....
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[@henrietta859]

The pain you are all feeling cannot compare to the joy that is coming.

[@lizhay1232]

I can’t see that

[@blakstallion3]

❤️

[@zainabkuluthum1892]

I wish oooh God help thru t my mind z so far failing to 4get him

[@zainajenkins]

Thank you! A lovely reminder I keep telling myself.

[@robertlee8400]

Henrietta Nwokocha that’s bullshit I’ve been waiting 17 years & bad shit keeps happening to me .

[@itsjustyana6323]

The worst kind of heartbreak is when you’re in love with the person to the fullest.

[@heatherdenise4022]

Hello friend

[@heatherdenise4022]

Do you need help to get your soulmate back?

[@heatherdenise4022]

I recommend you to a powerful relationship restorer who helped me get my soulmate back when he broke up with me

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[@shreeshchhabbi]

I agree man.

[@gabbygsh]

Whoever is reading this, lets fight okay?;) we can get thru this painful heartbreak! We can do this. And we deserve better!

[@michelleward1991]

gabbygsh you are right. We deserve better.

[@b063]

Thank you

[@lukegravity3911]

Yes we can

[@dorisbota8941]

gabbygsh thank you for the psyche..we in this together

[@yohanan3821]

Oh gosh mate, thank you so much! You made my morning with your comment! Love to all of you, keep going strong

[@minelabsryan4485]

I just discovered my ex is already dating after a month of our break up, we dated for over a year and it makes me feel unwanted or useless when she just forgot about me like that. This truly is one of the most intense pains I have felt in my life, I will pray for everybody who got their hearts broken and felt useless because of it. Stay strong and keep moving, even though I feel like crap now, I know someday I’ll be with someone who loves me for me.

[@veronica587]

When things happen like this it just puts you in the position to know what is not for you. Honestly fake people move on real fast. They have no remorse whatsoever for their actions and you just wonder how you fell in love in the first place! Take heart. Sending you lots of love!

[@latchkeykidd1415]

Same thing happened to me. Within a month someone from her past happened to come back. They were talking about kids and everything. We were together for 6 yes. I feel your pain 1,000,000,000%. Hope you're doing better my friend 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@badlander6369]

My Ex Wife rebounded with someone else while I decided to be alone until I felt better. Stay strong.

[@Matalinoako90914]

that's rebound don't panic, love yourself first don't think that you are shit because of you think that she moved that easily. Go to the GYM and we will make it bruh.

[@caesarsun82]

same here mate, 5 months was getting into it, with the normal unsecurities at first, but then, she dumped me and 3 weeks after when I asked if she could feel again the same, she just replied things have changed, I am.with someone else. God, feel most useless thing alive, unable to enjoy company, family or friends focus at work just take some drugs to sleep and hope another day goes on ...

[@ehiem]

Who else is heartbroken in April 2020, right during the Corona crisis 😢

[@avitalakerman5370]

Me today... It's hard but we Will be ok

[@dahianmarie8032]

Me ik it’s hard and painful we’ll get better. And we have so much time to think bc of quarantine 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@avitalakerman5370]

@@dahianmarie8032 yeah it's the hard part. I hope you're ok

[@dahianmarie8032]

Avital Akerman I’m hanging in there

[@carmen8685]

Yep, working hard on snapping back to myself.

[@jennifer8929]

The hardest part is loving someone who you know deep down inside isn’t meant for you. I think our ego takes control.

[@sophiamick1145]

My dear I can recommend to the powerful man who once help me get back my love in 3days

[@sophiamick1145]

He is really powerful and he can help you

[@sophiamick1145]

Text him on WhatsApp now for hwlp

[@lexizhu3407]

What if deep down knowing he is meant for you

[@diegogarcia8863]

My ego took control Jennifer , it was the best fairy tale it was the best love and yes both sides want it the same but when there is family that comes between and one have to choose between me and her family everything changed and I wasn’t going to fight for the 6 time all I want is her to be happy.....

[@brobs0463]

One day you’ll get up, brush your teeth, eat breakfast and go about your day. Then you’ll realise you haven’t thought about them once. Then you know you can start to forget

[@khimmybee322]

Yes.. eventually... Time heals everything.

[@sagivijayaramaraju1153]

Then you Better Call Saul

[@brobs0463]

@@sagivijayaramaraju1153 🙂

[@sharkglizzy]

💔💔💔💔💔

[@SMILY5200]

I am so broken 💔 😞 😢

[@raymondbaariu5697]

Its hard to forget someone you thought (and planned) you would spend the rest of lives together.

[@AmiraMira-ku8yv]

Agree

[@cliann2453]

That’s true.

[@daniella1439]

So hard and they told you that they loved you and want to spend the rest of their life with you, it really hurts so bad

[@francesmayfulay99]

Enjoy being single

[@janelbelarmino2784]

😔

[@Clo95]

it hurts when you both still love each other, but we know it's best to go our separate ways. it just hurts so much

[@camerondaniels598]

happened to me two months ago, still hurts. praying for you ❤️

[@circusbunnies3959]

it hurts when only one of you love the other and the other literally hasn’t felt upset since the day it happened. it’s been 3 months since it happened and he’s doing great but I’ve been feeling awful since

[@SimoneBogus]

I am exactly there Carmen! We love each other but are from different planets! And we cannot find a midlle way....

[@mariaruning4919]

carmen lara it would have been better if he was a dick - then it would be easy and you could just leave him .. but because you love each other and get each other... it’s like the hurt is in the skin :( it hurts so fucking bad

[@shanemarizparedes8084]

i feel you :(

[@Ropeadopeya]

Time. You will not care eventually. Trust me.

[@maloufrancisco2744]

Ben Alexander i hope so

[@darylrenceramil6626]

Ben Alexander i hope so.

[@sarahquijano1063]

Ben Alexander I wish I could finally say those words.

[@Ropeadopeya]

How long has it been?

[@sarahquijano1063]

Ben Alexander 1 year and counting

[@kathymaxted6151]

It's this sorrow of not being able to be with someone you had such deep feelings for

[@nuckle5525]

It is I know exactly how you feel it's hard to let go !

[@dennisshredda]

Heart break is so intense, when you only want to be with that person..

[@holywhitelie5545]

Fucking right

[@Keahualanix3]

:’(

[@ruthweeks4796]

Amen

[@mikajendreas]

Make you drop to your knees

[@nunya257]

And for me, it's not like it goes away quickly. I'm 50 and this is the fourth time in my life I've been seriously heartbroken. I'm at four months and still crying daily. Even though I know without question that he is not right for me, I still truly love him and the suffering continues. I'm just not willing to let the thoughts go yet...it's all I have left of him. Ridiculous waste of my precious time on Earth. It's an addiction.

[@ProjectCDRFIT]

We're all gonna make it

[@MiDesertLife]

Yes we are, sooner or later!!!

[@bassma852]

yes we're gonna make it!

[@daisytiny421]

I hope I make it through this

[@xcuite5493]

ProjectCDRFIT we're all gonna make it

[@Onlylovecanwait]

ProjectCDRFIT no we not wtf i cant sleep im gon die

[@yanaybolbachan]

The hardest part is not moving on, it's that you don't want to move on.

[@mikerobert2127]

Yanay Bolbachan, Don't worry ok there is a solution to every problem, I know of a man that can help you bring your ex back to you

[@mikerobert2127]

The man helped me get my ex back when I was in a problem like this before, he will bring your ex back to you as soon as possible

[@mikerobert2127]

Contact the man on WhatsApp to get your ex back

[@mikerobert2127]

[phone]

[@programmingkitten1326]

Yeah....

[@skeleton599]

Honestly, when i was going through heart break, i genuinely believed it was never going to get better and that i’ll always miss them, turns out that wasn’t true, time truly does heal

[@lilianajohn4173]

❤true

[@Helenvalo]

The pain is truly real. But we're so strong, every single one of us, and we'll get through it babes!

[@bhagyashreemali9348]

Helen Valo thank youb

[@oldstyledrinker100]

Helen Valo thanks

[@arsalaniftikhar5920]

Thank you

[@sarahonifade9606]

Am going through hell now,everything is seeming like am dreaming,it’s 2 days now

[@daynabasnight5654]

I’m going through my 2nd breakup with the same person after about 10 years together. So devastated and sad. Terrified that I’ll be alone forever and unable to heal from this pain. I’m grateful to have found this video.

[@manisha_156]

I just hope you get over it ...More power to you and you are strong enough to deal with this ...But trust me it will get better

[@latchkeykidd1415]

Just did the same this. Its soul crushing. Hope you stay strong🙏🏾

[@Rere-O]

Me too. This time, he left in the worst way imaginable. A month to our wedding. He is treating me like an enemy including his family. Which surprises and confuses me.

[@amandavictoriasewell7393]

I've been through all of this. Zero contact is vital. You at least get your power back. Resist contacting them. Walk away. Teach them a lesson.

[@maestrodon175]

@dayna ..did u happen to get over that person?

[@travisprater1709]

Any one else heartbroken in July 2019?

[@Headniz]

Me, so bad :(

[@travisprater1709]

@@Headniz I feel you man it suck I feel like I can't even keep going on it is so hard and she she doesn't even give a crap about me?

[@rjalvlkw]

My boyfriend just left me, when my dad is in hospital and I become a bit “too emotional” for him. He never truly cared for me

[@ett2]

Torn into a million pieces bro...

[@travisprater1709]

I'm sorry too all of you!! I have been going through it since the 4th of July and she did me that crap hasn't said anything to me I still wake up everyday hurting over her and the kids that isn't even mine but according to her I don't love her and now I see I deserve better than that and I'll get by this pain there is someone for me I hope...

[@fmagana27]

hardest part is knowing that she moved on so quick and you’re laying in bed not knowing how to move on

[@harshithvarma7637]

That sucks so bad! Like it really does. You just can't process how the other person has moved while you're a total mess. But the truth is we never know if they've actually moved on. If they're with someone else, they've probably made a mistake because they've rushed into it to escape the pain which is definitely not a healthy sign.

[@mrmarco259]

I will introduce you to someone who help me restore my relationship with my love and now we are happy together again

[@mrmarco259]

He will surely help you

[@melissagreene6960]

This shit hits in all other level

[@anthonygonzales3523]

Ugh that’s really hits deep to the core :(

[@mitzilou9560]

when you have a brokenhearted with this pandemic going on.. worse

[@Microbiome101]

Agreed. 😞

[@mitzilou9560]

@@Microbiome101 all i do is cry and im SO tired

[@Microbiome101]

@@mitzilou9560 Do you want to describe what happend?

[@TinaKai25]

Agreed I'm alone with my thought

[@Microbiome101]

@@TinaKai25 Well alone besides the millions of people that feel the same way right now

[@saumymaxwell4611]

If you've been cheated on, LEAVE. Once a cheater, always a cheater. This is something I've learned after a horrible HORRIBLE heartbreak. No matter how much YOU believe they'll change. They won't. They'll just get better at hiding it. Then one fine day they'll dump you and then your entire world comes crashing down. Cry. Scream. Face it. Don't suppress your feelings. Never do that. Never agree to being friends with them. Just leave. Love yourself because no one else will. Help someone else that you might think is going through a similar situation. Share your feelings. Take ALL the time you need. You can do it. Remember you're not alone❤

[@spinone-d2]

Saumy Maxwell i was the person who broke up with them and then just days later it turned out they had someone on the side while they were with me and I’m really hung up over it idk why

[@saumymaxwell4611]

@@spinone-d2 What was the reason you broke up? Because a lot of times when you find out there was a third person involved already, chances are they must have some part in you two breaking up. Take your time. Healing takes time. Good luck.

[@BEmmanuel1]

So much wisdom in this comment..👌👌👌@Saummy maxwell..

[@dorisbota8941]

Saumy Maxwell thank you

[@deebarchee6837]

You are absolutely right.... I'm also facing the same situation now........ 😢😢

[@craftinggoodvibes4182]

Just watched this and I think I'll rewatch it again. My husband of 16yrs just left me and our girls and I'm still in love with him and we are broken. I'm struggling to function. So I'm going to give this a try. Thank you

[@joannapatlan8837]

How do you feel today?

[@luzallegriaShaw82]

I am so sorry for your recent loss.

[@babaib3513]

Pls pray God will help

[@danielleyva3353]

I can relate … it’s so difficult ,,But I believe time has to heal

[@SandraFernandes621]

hang in there, going through it too.

[@fareedmatjila6350]

First love is the sweetest but that first cut is the deepest

[@noumanaslam4533]

Yeah.

[@myahannan4778]

i understand this , love scars but time will heal i hope

[@joelalcain1452]

Fr.

[@lamaqueen1833]

My first love and first kiss just told me that he never had feelings...

[@brettlorenzo60]

@Lama Queen If you still love you ex and want to keep him or her, I can show you the part to restore your relationship [phone] 📨📨 Inbox me on WhatsApp now

[@faizalamir9335]

"My heart is at ease, knowing that, what missed me, was never meant for me, and what meant for me, will never miss me."

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[@elizabethsimpson111]

I needed that so bad! Thank you

[@x.mhuang631]

you cant focus when you go through extreme heart break

[@BrunoLucenadesign]

+Xiaoming Huang So true

[@AnnaKhKem]

+Xiaoming Huang You cannot concentrate on an exercise?

[@mickeymedhat5053]

that's write we were together since 2001 and he broke my heart before yesterday till now i didn't get out of my bedroom I'm actually crying right now

[@x.mhuang631]

+Mickey Medhat its been 4 months since my break up and i am over it. i can tell you right now... you're blind from reality. trust me when i say in a few months time the chemical elements in the emotional side of your brain will normalize and you will be like "oh wtf was i Thinking allowing myself to feel so sorry for myself over the break up, out you go!" Let him go, don't force yourself to move on if you're not ready. address your sadness, not be the so called "focus on yourself and keep busy stuff" but by being good to yourself, allow yourself to do nice things for yourself that you wouldn't normally do like buying that dress youve always wanted, or eating that cake youve always wanted. but please please please promise yourself one thing DO NOT CHASE AFTER HIM. NO CONTACT!!!!!! trust me!

[@mickeymedhat5053]

+Xiaoming Huang yeah your right i could delete his number as i always wanted your words really helped me but is it ok to stop texting him once to the end of my life because we were soooooooo good couple alot of people wanted him but i kept him tight so i have to let him go of my face

[@chrysanthemum3464]

I've been hurt so deeply after putting for so much effort......I don't think I'll ever be able to be with anyone again. I've tried moving on, but so many men are such liars. All I want is to be loved and give love. Its truly that simple for me, but it's like that's too much to ask nowadays. I don't think I can trust anymore. I'm just going focus on building my empire alone.

[@ehzade]

Just focus on yourself. I have the exact same problem, broke up with my gf 1 month ago. Love is not enough for some people, plus she was a bipolar so yeah she loved me the most and then just hated the most. Just don't forget that there are lots of men outside who just want to love and feel loved. Until you find one, make some progress in your life for YOUR OWN good, not someone elses. Good luck :)

[@chrysanthemum3464]

Thanks for your positive words. I've since met someone and he is great and I don't want to waste his time...but it is talking me a bit to really open to him. He does not pressure me to and he is patient and very understanding, but I just didn't think I was going to be so closed. I think I just feel like I don't trust men in general. I've come to this conclusion based on my personal experiences and observations. For example, even when I know a guy is with someone, he will still flirt with me or try to get my phone number. I don't want a man like that, but I also know men light up when they see a woman they are attracted to and they can't really help that. I don't know, maybe I'm just hyper sensitive and just don't need to be with anyone. I just don't feel like it if this is how things are supposed to be.

[@ehzade]

+Just Found I think it is just an unlucky situation for you, you've just seen lots of disrespectful men who does not have dignity and trust in their own relationship. Don't hurry up to open yourself completely to someone. It's not easy to find that kind of person but when you do, don't hesitate. Believe, trust and have a happy life :)

[@chrysanthemum3464]

I'm a sensitive and very loving person and I often feel like a walking neon target. I also know I am strong, intelligent and have a heart worth sharing. I guess I just have to hang in there and try to stay positive. I also need to make up my mind about what I want. Your words are kind. I hope things work out well for you and you find the women of your heart's desire. Take care and thanks for the chat :)

[@DianaRoseYanni]

I feel you.... I don't think I can trust anyone again.... The guy who used to love me a lot...cheated on me and became a heartless man... He moved on so easily and now flirting with many girls on fb... how can he throw away everything we had so easily... I've never felt this betrayed.... after trusting him and loving him so much.... I don't think I deserve eveything he made me went through... because of him... I also have a low self esteem right now and very depressed but I'm trying to be okay... I know I will be okay soon... waiting for that to happen.... but trusting any man again? Not sure if that will ever happen.

[@micahsilvestre9236]

Lord, heal us.

[@PaulRobeyHockleyTx]

Amen!

[@ajferri8978]

Amen!

[@Mirzadon007]

Mich Silvestre Ameen

[@08Jay22]

Mich Silvestre what lord?...

[@willm3027]

Who would break your heart😞 its the worst feeling

[@GioVargasMachuca]

Four years ago I saved this video because it helped me. Now after a difficult breakup I came upon it again and I understand why I saved it in the first place. Thank you very much for giving us hope and making us feel understood.

[@yasirsiddig2605]

dying is not an option but living while dying is worse :(((

[@jasminkelly9493]

Yasir Siddig so fucking good quote

[@oneshadowdragon]

dying is easy living is not.

[@GoofyVortex]

I think I've thought but I haven't tried

[@fleursdesel]

I loved him with every inch of my heart, and he just dumped me like an old toy after 6 years. He was like, are you gonna be okay ? okay bye.... uhm ok?

[@angkana.w8193]

FleurDeSel same here . I'm sad

[@prettygirl_me4699]

FleurDeSel I know right. I got dumped too 😥

[@SashOg]

FleurDeSel but you be okay. All is well

[@Dwest01]

FleurDeSel hmm I feel for you

[@terry1524]

May I ask what did you do to ease your pain? Because I'm in the exact situation right now.

[@Rala000]

First, thank you Matthew for this wonderful advice. You are a gift from heaven. Im writing this at 8/27/2022 . I have been in No Contact rule for 5 days now. Sometimes I feel confident. Sometimes it hurts like hell. Tears are flowing like shits and it doest care even if Im on something. While Im eating, before I sleep, when Im listening to music and I feel real shit, I wanna hug myself. Unrequited love really sucks. It makes you feel pitiful. It makes you feel unworthy of love. And it makes you question about everything. Am I not good enough? Why cant he love me? When you know you were in your best version and still you were not chosen. But I realized that self respect should be always louder than your love to other person. Your worth shouldnt base upon on if he would love you or not. We are worthy before we try to love them and still worthy after they broke our hearts. Right now Im on my self healing journey. Im gathering myself again after it shattered into pieces. Realizing the world will never give a shit whether I feel shit or not. So theres no other way but to keep going. The next time I visit this video, I hope the reason is not because I’m broken hearted again. I hope that the next time I watch it, I will see my comment here and I’ll just smile coz I have moved on and glad I chose to be strong. Let’s heal ourselves folks. Everything will be brighter soon💛

[@OutlawedCreationss]

Damn! This encapsulates how I’m feeling and I hope I can do this cuz ..

[@vminmymuse]

so proud of you !!!

[@constance6761]

Well said. We are always worthy, that feeling is just blurred for a while.

[@derekdiltz5978]

Your worth was never on trial here - so to speak. Love is not something you earn by being worthy. It's not Thor's hammer. It's a feeling. Your worth as a human was never in play. What was at play was a chaotic, illogical emotion. What was at play were the psyche of the two involved persons, and all the traumas that they both carry. He could have an avoidant attachment style. He could have a fear of intimacy. There are so many possibilities that only involve you because you were there. I'm 6 months into a breakup, and I've never loved like that before. I'm still not over her. I cannot imagine a time that I will be. But something I've learned is that we are like sculptures emerging from marble. We are not destroyed by what is lost. We are defined by what remains. There are always possibilities, and the universe will unfold as it should.

[@imissme8313]

Update

[@KarluxASMR]

*My heart is more than broken.* I wish I have never met that person.

[@dynastyj1152]

Me too

[@holywhitelie5545]

I feel you bro like dead ass

[@kimberlygipson7856]

Me too

[@jamaladem9945]

Omg iam dying

[@rafiashraf2769]

Thank god we did. Coz now we know what we don’t want. Now we know the red flags. And now we can help others going through the same thing. They were a mistake, but your breakup was a blessing. Never forget that. Don’t get me wrong. It hurts so much, yes. But the more it hurts you, the happier you should be. Coz that means you loved them. You’re loyal at heart. And if they’re not here for you anymore, that just means they don’t deserve that. Period. So don’t worry. This just means one day you’ll meet someone who’ll match your love and dedication. Chins up 💪🏽

[@fredadamo7540]

this is so true! I was writing my bachelor thesis the last time me and my ex broke up. However, we got back together after a while. However, we broke up again this fall and it was heartbreaking. But now I am writing my master thesis and I am about to finish my studies, which really means something to me. I am really feeling that I am doing progress, and although there are times when I get sad and feel lonely because of the break up, I still feel that I am going in the right direction. So, I totally support this advice.

[@tanjakapunkt4641]

Suffered over months. Then started to set a goal, a lot of people told me, I could never reach. Worked hard for it. Became stronger (physically and mentally), enjoyed the results, became proud of myself, heard comments from others about my process and how impressed they were... and one time I realized: My life is so beautiful. And I am so over him. Was the best feeling, because I finally was free from suffering.... :)

[@EmpressofChrist]

Tanja Kapunkt wow

[@bragas85]

Tanja Kapunkt that's beautiful. Congratulations

[@charinamoreno6012]

This is so inspiring girl, congrats!! 👌

[@p.baptiste5310]

Happy for you...

[@smp6565]

Wow well done! I hope I’ll feel like that one day xx

[@laichan5527]

He's out making progress , and in here crying over him 😞 I should stop messaging him and start making a progress too 😕

[@deepthiprakash715]

totally know how you feel :/

[@laichan5527]

cheryl ianae I am trying

[@pranavinissan]

Even I can't get over him. But he just walked away...

[@laichan5527]

Pranavi Nissan that sucks :(

[@sineadorr397]

I know how you feel too... it really hurts

[@satarupaganguly3731]

I was lying numb till now. After watching this video, I slowly rose up from my bed and opening my notebook. Small progress. Yet a progress. Thanks Matthew.

[@mrpikylo]

you can do it!

[@ladennayoung2939]

I pray that you are still doing better in Jesus name.

[@shellyking857]

I'm going through it now too. Husband after 18 yrs left me and my daughter who is 15, yesterday. He left 4 weeks ago and came back home. Hooked up with someone at his work staying in a hotel. Stayed home for 10 days, and I knew something wasnt right. I think hes drinking again. Hes back with that same woman who is on methadone. I met her HUSBAND. She has a teen as well, and keeps leaving her family. Sad part is, our daughters went to school together. Watching this video, I started crying, especially at the end. Why cant all men be like this. Open, Honest, Loyal, And trustworthy? I'm 49 yrs old, been through a real tough marriage with my 1st husband who was a physical and mental abuser since I was 17. We have a son together who is now 21. I left him when our son was born. Then I met Chris. My son was 3. We married 1 yr later, and then 1 yr after that we got pregnant with our now 15 yr old daughter. It's been a really rough road with him cheating throughout the yrs. I kept taking him back. It's been over 5 yrs ago since his motorcycle accident, and hes been a good boy....I think anyways. Well, he fiannaly went back to work, and met this lady Tammy. Went right back to his old ways. I'm so hurt and devastated. This video woke me up some. I have to focus on me and Christa now. Mabie we will join a gym! Or something! Thank you Matthew. I'm still crying after watching this.

[@samboriboun2213]

I feel happy when i break up because if that person loved you they would not leave. I just feel relieved to know that person was not for me.

[@khimmybee322]

Yep. That's looking on the other side of it. If they left us, it means there's someone out there for us, who we truly deserve (better to be in our hearts)

[@DuskOpbr]

When you fall in love. Just give them 10%. Keep the 90% to yourself

[@TheLandonion]

Niko Senase that’s not love, when you love someone your gonna give them 90% and yourself 10%..... she was my world and she left me and started talking shit about me being depressed and stuff

[@jesusfavor1543]

Tru story

[@Wen00.4]

This is it! Haven't thought about that ever.. But it makes sense. They can never break you down.. 👍👌

[@dear.mibebe]

this is like impossible

[@dragonfly1955]

Great advice

[@Yoditah]

3 yrs later & I'm back here watching this video again..& I feel so dumb & used. Why does it seem like some people just search out those with the sensitive pure heart to only open it & crush it. Thank you for this video..& I know in little time I'll have my happiness in my heart & it'll feel whole again.

[@qarenlee254]

You will overcome

[@nzbirdsong]

Yeah I know, it's like a broken record of a heart. I'm a serial failure when it comes to picking good partners. I swear there are heart predators out there. I hate to say it, but some people are just dark - meaning lacking light - people. Our intuition is supposed to protect us from them, but if you're vulnerable economically, or some other way, these folk can easily take advantage because we are willing to give them a chance even if we have doubts.

[@qarenlee254]

You are right about heart predictors. Never ever say your a serial failure at relationships. Your ex's are the ones who lost coz deep down you are pretty amazing. Just keep on doing you, the world will adjust and know there's someone out there for all of us.

[@nzbirdsong]

@@qarenlee254 yes you're right, well said, I will rephrase that, I WAS a serial failure at relationships.

[@normadiaz9726]

Same here

[@chucklos391]

I'm halfway through the video and I can confirm what he says is very helpful. I had this important goal for a few years that I procrastinated on. I finally finished the first big step of this particular goal. It was extremely difficult, but it was huge. I started a couple of weeks after the heartbreak. I was in serious, unbearable, seemingly forever pain. Normally I sleep or date others to cope with things, but it was completely futile. I couldn't even bare to date anyone new because in my mind no one compared. Filling my days with work or activities would not have helped either. Friends and family? Nope. It was this huge personal goal I had set a few years back that I needed to start. Completing the first step was critical in this goal. Now I'm on the path towards this life goal. The heartbreak thrusted me into that. I felt good about myself again. It gave me a huge confidence boost and it made me feel I achieved something. I shared this with everyone and I got positive feedback. I felt great again. This didn't make my heartbreak disappear, but damn it made me feel I could survive. You need to feel as if you could survive in order to give time to heal those wounds. Otherwise you do stupid desperate crap and compromise your self worth. A very serious heartbreak ruins your confidence. Defeats you. I found a way to lift my confidence. This is my story. About almost 3 months after the heartbreak, I'm feeling close to myself again.

[@samuelstinneford8889]

It just hurts when somebody you love moves on to another girl.

[@memenono4081]

Me too ! I am Sorry !

[@memenono4081]

But know you desrive better ! Someone will come .pray about it ! Self improve !ALWAYS!

[@TheLightWithoutHeat]

Katherine Nance Stinneford or in my case... multiple guys... and girls..

[@maryemlahrour1915]

Katherine Nance Stinneford i feel you:( worst feeling ever

[@yt-it1ow]

Katherine Nance Stinneford

[@41dalex]

20 years old, never had a relationship at all, but I found this wonderful woman and it was the best 2 months and a half. It took 1 week for us to say I love you cause it felt so right. She had intense feelings and so did I. We broke up today because she couldn’t take it no more, she is going through a lot mentally and it honestly hurts like crazy. I’ve never felt this and I feel stupid. Help

[@bb-od9ku]

I'm sorry you are not alone we have to focus on other things. It will pass.

[@lancebaclayo5903]

If your broken hearted like me,Cheer up! It's not the end for a new and better one! You always deserve better. Its there loss,not yours! Cheer up bud!

[@chynablu11]

'Cheer up' ??? do you think the people commenting here can suddenly just 'cheer up' what a ridiculous, insensitive comment

[@laurarimke8468]

How long does it take forget someone.. I'm just so fed up. I want to forget everything

[@lennyblanton4189]

Laura Bbz me too 😢

[@ovidiucojocarita6019]

You have to heal not to forget. Forgive first, love yourself again. And all will be better and better.

[@hardwell430]

Laura bbz I don't want to forget her but also want to forget her I m stuck😞

[@moisesayala014]

Ovidiu Cojocarita another comment I found from you which is literally what my ex told me. That she needed to heal before she could come back with me. I appreciate your comments thank you.

[@n0thanku]

Laura Rimkė it’s up to you.

[@masato8503]

I so prefer this approach over hearing more sad stories that only bring me down more. I’m trying to see the good in the bad. And despite this being #3 of the worst week in my life… it’s equipped me with so many tools to move forward Ty for your advice, it was what I’m missing

[@AdvicerTube]

When You Realize Nothing Can Cure - But Time

[@ethanriley2978]

AdvicerTube when you realize time can’t pass fast enough to get over the heart break

[@priyalizajohn92]

AdvicerTube no

[@annyeong4216]

AdvicerTube what does that little thing do? It just passes.. Acceptance is the key.

[@zliyn]

No, it has been almost 5 years & i still feel the same

[@gaze7278]

Lord, I hope I get over this very soon....it killing me softly. I hate to admit this, but it's the truth.

[@anewloveofficial9137]

You can never forced yourself to automatically heal your broken heart because it needs to undergo different process and that will not happen overnight. You just have to feel the pain and cry your heart out until your eyes run dry but always make your self stand after the storm.

[@adenkang9287]

Anyone else still really really love that person

[@m.m.574]

Me too I miss him so deeply it hurts so bad. How can so many people just leave their partner without caring at all and getting a new partner right away. I feel so bad I actually need help

[@bnb_daddy]

Hola hola seek help, talking to someone & writing your feelings down helps. ill be here too

[@oeu3669]

Yes and we weren’t even together that long

[@HH-gv8mx]

My boyfriend, and went to work one morning last month never came home. There was no argument, there was no discussion, in fact he was intimate with me in the morning that he left to go to work. I found out that he quit his job that day, and moved to another state. I was completely blindsided and devastated. He was my best friend. And now I am left with this apartment where we just signed a lease together that I cannot afford on my own. If I don’t get a roommate in here soon, I will be evicted as I can’t afford the rent on my own. But I have no energy or desire to meet with random strangers and try and rent my spare room out. I’m just so sad and the pain is so deep. Everything reminds me of him. So I’m not only suffering a heartbreak, but I’ve got to do something fast before my situation spirals out of control.

[@marskingdoms]

I will pray for you 🥺

[@sweetcandies1788]

please make this pain go away...please... please...😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@mousamsaikia7616]

How long

[@nur723]

Time will heal it ... have been there ... god bless

[@NesrineKada]

This genuinely made me smile. I am going through a hard time but while trying to get over it, I watched a video of Iyanla Vanzant saying you should only expect others to give you what you can already give yourself : love, compassion, forgiveness.. Anything. And I realised it wasn't fair to wait for others to give me the love I should already be giving to myself. So I started this exercise where I write down how I can show love to myself and why I deserve my own self love before any other person's love and THIS is my kind of progress I feel like you talked about in this video because I can feel myself improving already, along with getting help for my depression a week ago and starting the gym this week. I'm just sharing this if anybody needs a sense of hope because sometimes comments do that for me and what I've been through I can't wish it on my worst enemy (although I don't hate anyone lol) THANK YOU MATT I LOVE YOU !

[@Carolechichi]

What you're saying is so true and beautiful ! And i totally agree with you .

[@amaald9038]

Thanks for sharing. stay strong!

[@deborahdavis640]

rs a TX

[@NesrineKada]

Chabichoo Amaal Daar thank you

[@lindalemoni5428]

+NissKMakeup wow you took some huge steps in a very short time! that's awesome!

[@jackbravo2172]

The ex pulls the power move on you and dumps you, leaving you heart broken and shattered inside but do you think they care about the tears you shed over them? Hell no, they leaving you with the mess to clean up, this is what's so selfish about ex's.

[@Orrinton]

True :(

[@rochelledowie931]

Jack Bravo wrong

[@deborahassingboe2345]

so true! not wrong

[@karinaputridjanuwarso3375]

Jack Bravo SO TRUE

[@maryannmachate]

True :((

[@casspower]

I’m so heartbroken I feel better and then I’m right back where I started. I feel lost and empty. I just want to live fully again. I need help I’m so broken.

[@Admin-zc6zb]

Hello Cass Ann I was in a worst situation than this, I tried several means non worked. My colleague introduced me to a great spiritualist who helped me

[@avuyilecakwebe6880]

As long as you cut off all communication with them, ALL, don't visit their Facebook, WhatsApp chats. Work on a goal to better yourself. And you'll find healing.

[@zaink7037]

I believe this is normal. I get this too where I feel amazing and happy with myself that I feel I'm moving on but then a few days later I just start feeling terrible after overthinking about that person. I think for me is I just need to get over this heartbreak feeling. I don't think I have that love towards her

[@dcrne9904]

Thats how i been feeling. Im good in the morning but when the evening comes i feel lost and empty. Very sad situation

[@shaniceluke7570]

I hope you're doing better now 😫

[@MrSarmaftw]

9 months together. I even moved to other town for her and kept us financially going for 2 months since she lost her job. And one day she coldly says she's not interested anymore and just moves on. I realized if it was real love, it wouldn't just stop. Also now I can move on and find other people who might fit me 10 times better than she ever would. Always keep your head high.

[@Apachedownunder]

You never ever fix broken heart ! Ever! Only one thing you can do to your self is to walk away from people ,, who not value you!!! Have some self respect And become the strongest version your self! We all living in the fantasy world ,, we don't own any one and no one own you!!!! Only we own our self and best thing to fix our self for upcoming relation ship !!! becoming the best version !!!! World is a Mirror ! What you give and what you get ! !!! Love your self guys ! Feel the pain and fall in love again ! Bcz you worthy of Love Cheers !

[@sunnychic7414]

Amen! Great advice Salman. I completely agree and especially about the world being a mirror! Until we have learned (for me through a lot of meditation--personally) to see clearly how we are NEVER a victim to our situation or what anyone else has done to us and to learn to evaluate from an empowered place of creation--since we are creating our experience in each moment, than we will just keep repeating the cycle of illusion. I still do plenty of this myself!!! I can just notice when I'm entering into this victim state more quickly and pull myself out of it more gracefully than I used to . We are so trained to be victims, even to our own emotions.

[@97LovelyBabe]

This video is GOLD . I have used this technique . I did EXACTLY what he said . I still cried but I changed for the better . I’ve done many new things . I went bar hopping something that i’ve never done . I change my hair , something I’ve always wanted to do . I started to lose weight . I have started changing my ways for the better. I did all of this while doing no contact . after 10 whole months , he came back . He realized that there was no one like me . But because I have flipped my life for the better , i’ve realized that I didn’t want him anymore & I’d never thought about rejecting him but i did . He has a family with someone else & he still manages to contact me . But I refuse . Please , you guys I PROMISE YOU LIFE GETS BETTER !!!!!! My little sister went through her first heartbreak last year (16YRS) & she swore she was gonna die … now we literally laugh at that memory . Heartbreak is a blessing in disguise because i believe it brings the best out of you . 🥀

[@whatsapphim4599]

👆👆The main reason we see our love life like this is because we don't fight hard for what we want I was once like you but I took a bold step with the help of Dr Clinton am happy once more try him ###

[@whatsapphim4599]

Message for help ##

[@whatsapphim4599]

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[@amina7596]

My heart is beyond broken... and i don’t think it will ever heal itself ... i miss him more everyday 😩 💔

[@nuffquaa3431]

Amina قطر how’re u doing now?

[@nuansasiti457]

I feel you

[@AnnzzLyfe]

Same here sis. I’m a Muslim young girl like u n I’m in the same position

[@theAplaBetman27]

Thank you Matthew. I’m going through a breakup from last week. Leaving a 2 year relationship at 27 and I’m absolutely devastated. I’m lost and lonely and scared. But thank you for these tips. Pray for me everyone I need it

[@johnnyresto1154]

How you feeling?

[@abeersaleh5923]

As I was watching this video, half way in, I get a call from him..I pray for ease and internal peace for every heartbroken person out there. You will get through this. I promise.

[@shaneg1451]

I’m dealing with heartbreak over a friend who doesn’t share the same feelings. Everything you say about trying to substitute with distractions is spot on. Temporary but not the fix. I need to regain weight that I’ve lost, put time into building confidence and small senses of achievement. Your advice fantastic.

[@veronica587]

Sometimes a heartbreak is a breakthrough, you can see what will not work and not build castles on the air. Truly it hurts when the other person doesn't feel the same but you must understand that what you need is not always what you want. Open your heart a little bit more, there's a miracle around the corner!

[@fariamostafa5319]

you know when u have a toxic on and off relationship and you keep coming back in that same video after every final breakup with the same person!i hope we all can get out of that loop of a toxic relation☺

[@asiankaren9433]

Omg so true

[@emilycollinsworth7321]

Hope you are out of it! You deserve sm more trust me

[@ooliv1]

It has been 3 months of hell for me.. begging..waiting.. hoping.. beating myself for not being enough. But today I began doing one project that makes me feel good about myself. Exercising for me. I feel more optimistic.. although I still hope he will come back even though we were fighting all the time. But just focusing on my fitnessmade me feel a sense of accomplishment. Thank you for your advice. Thank you so much.

[@brittanyb5942]

YOU ARE ENOUGH!!

[@ddwow566]

Did he come back??!

[@mxtorres30]

I’m 23 years old and got heartbroken by a girl who went back to her ex who cheated on her 3 times. She said she loved me and I loved her because she was my first official girlfriend. We did a lot of things together and I can’t even go to the movies or a restaurant because it reminds me of the times we would go there. I can’t watch my favorite movies or listen to my favorite songs because of the same reason. I’m currently on my last semester in college and graduate in December. I realized that she went back to her ex because he is 4 or 5 years older than her and he would buy her stuff that she couldn’t afford. What i don’t understand from her is that after everything he has done to her (cheating on her, making her cry, etc) , why would she leave me and go back to him. It has been almost 5 months and I still miss her. I’ve done many things to try and get over her but nothing works. I started doing drugs and my drinking was heavier, drinking almost everyday and spending my entire paycheck on alcohol. There are some days where I’m doing something I enjoyed before she dumped me and Matthew is right, I always say “I wish she was here with me”. It hurts me emotionally. I always believed the saying that everything happens for a reason, but I really don’t understand why this is happening. I pray to God answers and ask him to help me with my suffering. I will try and update my comment each month with my progress.

[@inututee8846]

Hey, how are things now?

[@laniengidayan3426]

i experienced this yesterday i was so down like hell,i felt alone and emotionally and physically broken ,i cant able to eat and my chest are so heavy can u please pray me bcos this feeling is the worst that I've been through

[@laniengidayan3426]

thats so sweet of u but thank u for the gesture i appreciate it but i think i dont want him back i will just leave them alone and let god do what is right thing to do

[@yoanareyes3805]

I know what you feel right now... it truly really sucks and hopefully we both manage to move on and hope for the best :)

[@Pdot5]

ill keep u in my prayers

[@talatuyahaya876]

I can recommend you to a man who helped me to get my ex back to me 48hours!!!!

[@talatuyahaya876]

Hello it's works I can't believe am with my lover again contact him!!!!

[@ClearlyInPeril]

Getting over my first heartbreak currently. He was the first person I've ever loved, and I love him deeply, deeper than any love I've ever felt in my life. I was so close to him, but he just doesn't love me the way I do him. It really is a deep agony that I have never had to deal with and truly I want nothing more than to hold him to my chest and squeeze him. We still will be friends, and for that I'm thankful, but I just wish I could wake up with him in my arms again, so warm and gentle. I'd trade anything in the world just to hug him again. And maybe someday I can, not as lovers but as friends. And on that day I'll recognize that I need to savor that hug, as it could be the very last I ever give him. I'm sorry I couldn't be the one for you, I know you care about me and it hurts you to feel the way you do, but it's ok. I will love you, always

[@HelloKittyKit7722]

Sorry about this; hugs go out to you who are watching this video ♥️ Your heart feels like someone stomped on it; it feels like your heart is in a million pieces. Fight. Fight. Fight. Stay strong. Cheering for you.

[@dailystriver2727]

It’s been 2 months since she broke up with me and broke my heart, and when I spoke to her about us and our relationship she gave me the silent treatment, ignored me and ghosted me and never ever spoke to me again. I searched up about her abusive, manipulative and hurtful behaviour and learnt that she is a toxic/narcissistic person. I feel a bit better now but I still think about her everyday and all the time. The pain I went through was unbearable I felt like I was gonna die from the emotional pain and still have bad days like today where I’m so hurt and angry and just can’t take the feelings of pain away. To break up with someone for no reason then Ignore them, ghost them and cut them off for no reason after a 3 and a half year relationship is just so cruel. I don’t even think I’ll ever heal from getting my heart broken and ghosted like this and just come to these videos to support myself.

[@mlashann]

Don’t give up. It’s not you. This person was toxic from the beginning. Work on what is broken in you through counseling. It takes time. I know how deep emotionally pain can run. It’s true that it’s a process and it hard, but you will be better emotionally and mentally. Please take care of yourself and start the process of learning to self love and soothe your inner self.

[@dailystriver2727]

@@mlashann I really appreciate your words they mean alot to me, thank you so much. I still have tough days nowadays to be honest like today where I’m thinking about her all the time and it’s constant torture no matter what I’m doing whether I’m exercising, socialising, working she’s just in my head thinking about her despite how she hurt me because I’m a genuine person and I loved. I don’t know when I will be able to start thinking about her less at least only once every few days. It’s so painful when someone you loved who was your everything and you believed loved you back show you that they don’t love you and you don’t mean anything to them. Then by them ignoring you, giving you the silent treatment, ghosting you and discarding you right after they broke up with you for no reason. (All for her own reasons which she’s never communicated to me about truthfully). She didn’t even dump me properly by honestly communicating. She’s put me through one of the most painful experiences of my life and I don’t know how long it will take to get over her and stop thinking about her.

[@mlashann]

@@dailystriver2727 All you can do now is work on your inner child and learn what self-love and true intimacy are while not becoming bitter. Being bitter closes off your heart and mind. I saw some red flags, but I didn't trust myself, really not sure of myself. I decided to take this experience as a lesson and spend some time just working on myself and my dreams. Truly, the best thing you can do is just work on yourself and not let hate or bitterness reside. It's okay to feel what you feel because it's your experience. It will be a while before you heal but do not be afraid to embrace your emotions or mental state of mind. One day at a time. Healing does come. Healing has been a one-day-at-a-time process and journey. I still get angry, I cry, and a laugh, but I am okay with that.

[@jiehuang9289]

Three weeks have passed, I'm still missing him a lot. Sometimes I just feel I may not make it through the pains...

[@mikerobert2127]

Jie Huang, if you want your ex back, I will recommend you to a man that can help you get your ex back

[@mikerobert2127]

Am recommending him to you because, him is very powerful, he can help you get your ex back to you

[@mikerobert2127]

Contact the man on WhatsApp to get your ex back

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[@Sunshine4]

You will get better, a tiny bit each day :)

[@bridgetgullison8848]

The only thing that healed my broken shattered heart was giving it to God. He gave me a new heart filled love.

[@barbararomeo9817]

AMEN!! Only Almighty GOD can cure my heart & heal me..

[@devankurmitra4118]

@@barbararomeo9817 fell in love with a Christian girl and it's because of it, that we had to stop talking

[@austinleap5924]

Im going through a break up right now and i am trying to do the same. 5 years down the drain and i am completely shattered in my spirit. I keep asking and trying to trust god to help me through this but i just keep feeling the same pain in my chest and racing anxiety. PLease pray for me i am really really weak and i dont know how to get through this

[@devankurmitra4118]

@@austinleap5924 force yourself to go to gym

[@austinleap5924]

@@devankurmitra4118 I can but right now I can't even force enough food in my belly. I'm 6'5 already somewhat skinny. After a week of not eating practically anything I have definitely shrunk my stomach and put myself in a even worse situation. I want to eat food but when I try I gag. I'm just going to take it day by day I'm really at a loss of how to take care of myself right now. It's all on me now though and no one will be around to help me out. So I will have to use this pain and time to grow as a man. The pain in my chest is sickening I just wish this wasn't reality right now

[@yunyunhere]

I'm experiencing this heartbreak for months, and the intensity is still there. Thank you Matthew, for the advice that I could do. Thank you for saying that you understood how painful and brutal it is for ppl who are suffering from the heartbreak. I will get over it, I know... And for those who are experiencing it now, we will win the battle sooner or later, we will find our life back, find our smile back and the next best thing is right there waiting for us.

[@laurenchafin2404]

I got a rejection letter this morning from a college I put so much work into applying to. I am heart broken in a different way than what you are feeling, but this video is helping me so much. Thank you Matthew.

[@MegaLadylove2012]

Lauren that's awful! I hope you applied to other schools. No worries. Never be hard on you self. After all, you gave it your all. Find another school where you can get the same benefits :).

[@MegaLadylove2012]

+Nora Noor Thanks Nora :). I'd been there. I get how awful the rejection can feel.

[@JBulsa]

you have been saved from being a student loan debt slave. Many are not so blessed. Pick something on Udemy.com or coursera.org. Jason Bulsa

[@Aglahad]

Trust me, you'll look back and not care in a few years. It's funny how little it matters when it comes to school choice.

[@JBulsa]

exactly.

[@Bittersweetcelebrationz]

Thank you! Needed this. As I cry watching this it breaks my heart because I know what's to come. I was confused but I'm sure now I'm on the right path to get back to ME . God Bless.

[@khimmybee322]

Love that.. getting back to you part. We all needed that. To love ourselves and realize our worth.

[@gaodacheese4691]

This is one of the most important videos I've ever seen in my life. "Being engaged in life, making progress and feeling life." I think this is the true key to happiness. Thanks you Matthew you opened my mind

[@ukulorrichard8956]

Hello dear I know of a powerful man who can make your ex to come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me to get back with my ex and we are living happily together so far.

[@ukulorrichard8956]

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[@friedasommer7756]

'"we're in this togehter and we're a team" - had me crying there. thanks so much Matthew.

[@12OwenBrown]

5 year long relationship ended by the girl I thought I was gonna spend the rest of my life with, totally heartbroken 💔

[@kerinejonnes5833]

Owen Brown, don't worry I will recommend you to a man that will help you bring her back to you

[@kerinejonnes5833]

The man help me get my ex back when I was in a problem like this before, he will help you get your ex back as soon as possible

[@kerinejonnes5833]

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[@kerinejonnes5833]

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[@harpalkaur2168]

@Owen I spent nearly 3 years in a rship and the same thing happened to me. You can get through this.

[@KMediaTVChannel]

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[@elizebethcindy5305]

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[@joahanagarcia1153]

Meee!!! Right Now :'( the Bad Thing is that He Cheated and He is still with her and Tells Me He misses me :((( i have to watch videos like this cuz i want to txt him so bad

[@hectorlorenzo2196]

I'm heartbroken so bad too. We had a 7 years relationship and she left me 2 months ago. I'm feel as shit because she is with someone else and that is killing me

[@joahanagarcia1153]

@@hectorlorenzo2196 i was For 10 Years :'k

[@stanelyking6627]

True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost .

[@SNEAKVS]

Y’all pray for me please I’m really going thru a tuff break up

[@ingridr.269]

Matthew Hussey: Thank you. I could see the sincerity in your eyes, I truly could. I felt it. And I know that when I apply what you said it is going to make a tremendous difference. You said something that I haven't heard anyone else say before... yet, now that I heard you say it, I ask myself "how come I've never heard anyone give this kind of advice before and how come I've never thought of it myself?" -- it just MAKES SENSE. So, thank you. Thank you so much for sharing this. I am positive you are helping a ton of people with this video, and I am one of them. Cheers! 😊

[@rrajput3816]

If you have to watch this, trust me you are not alone❤️

[@MarkyV83]

This is 100% accurate. Nice one

[@saveyourselves5923]

I managed to heal my heartbreak and finally moved on... then got heartbroken again... and again... and again! It's gotten to the point where I dread feeling love for someone.

[@evekeely3050]

God does anyone else feel broken and you just laugh nervously and you can feel your lungs gasp for air and kinda collapse

[@swifty9513]

My head right now is feels messed up, I keep going to my shower sitting in it and crying, I still have feelings for this person, I hope I can get over this. Please pray for me

[@Aphrodite004]

Dear Matthew i was on the floor crying and felt like im done with life when your video popped up on my phone! I just broke up last week with the man i thought was the Love of my life together for 3 years. He cheated on me and its so hard to mend my broken heart when even in my dreams hes still with me happy and full of joy and laughter. I feel like i wont be able to find someone as great as him nor ever be happy as much as he made me happy. This is Pauline i went to your Dallas concert.

[@Eli666Ms]

+Aphrodite Doe ....someone as great as him? he cheated on you, he was not so great..... you deserve a better man darling

[@bbutterfly36]

My husband (who was my best friend and we had been together for 6 married for 3) cheated on me with my best friend. I get what you're going through exactly. First month I cried every day but I knew deep down leaving him was the right thing to do. Fast forward 3.5 months, I am now super healthy, happy and rarely think of him! I don't even hurt when I think of him I just feel sad that things ended up the way they did when we had such potential. But the more men I meet the more I realize that he was so weak and not a MAN. You know? I could do sooo much better and honestly I'm happier now than I have been in years! It gets lonely of course...but learning to be alone and complete...I just feel ready for an actual healthy and good relationship with a man who will treat me so much better. You will be fine sweety. People used to always tell me time will heal and they were right. Talk to your family or friends, cry as much as you need to, journal, see a therapist, and let ur heart mend

[@bbutterfly36]

+Aphrodite Doe I'm sorry I went on about myself but I wanted to show you that there is hope, just know you made the right decision for yourself! If you need someone to talk to, please feel free to message me!!

[@Aphrodite004]

bbutterfly36 Hi! Thank you so much for your great advice and for sharing your inspiring story. It means a lot! It must be so nice to be friends with you since you have a genuine spirit and a caring soul. It's been a few weeks now since the breakup and i'm slowly overcoming my heartbreak. Have you been going out on dates now? Hows your experience with other guys since your long term relationship ended?

[@charlottemaison5754]

+Aphrodite Doe Same over here but he made up a lame excuse to break up then I discovered he was seeing someone else :( we were engaged.

[@dillhan8891]

Getting cheated on fucking sucks, expecly after 6 years😞

[@namiinam1883]

Dillhan wow

[@NguyenAdam1992]

I'm right here with you. 4 years.

[@5bh71]

Dillhan 8 months 😔

[@NguyenAdam1992]

Prince Ehimamiegho Are you me? The exact same thing happened to me.

[@lawrencejuliuslmallari1195]

It does n it hurts like hell

[@zenab8682]

Matthew, I thank God often that I found you on KZbin. I appreciate your brilliance, insights, passion, charisma, attractive good looks, and genuine caring. All your videos have helped me have a more sane and connected approach to relationships with men but this one helped me have a better internal experience of life. I can’t say it enough, thank you and Jamison for stepping out and delivering your gifts to the world 💙💙💙 xo, Z

[@paddypaddy2834]

This 100% explains why I still haven’t gotten over my breakup after TWO years! I have done nothing but DISTRACT myself from the pain: traveling, constantly surrounding myself with friends and family, even sleeping with someone else. Thought these things were helping me forget him but couldn’t figure out why I’ve been making no progress. 😢

[@Mirzadon007]

Someone just started cutting onions in my room. This video touched me and I am still heartbroken.

[@yuliaryn5567]

Mirza Belal same here

[@InfidelisEra]

same

[@mckennabowerss]

We were on a “break” for a week so I finally asked to talk to him 2 days ago and he just didn’t want to be together anymore and the break was just him avoiding the inevitable break up. He’s my first love and I see him every single day at work and the pain is eating me alive. I just want to be happy without him again but everything reminds me of him. Doesn’t help I think he’s moving on… 💔

[@therealkitdiengdohofficial521]

When you aren't focused on the video and reading comments instead

[@arza0932]

Fuck i had to rewind constantly

[@gamingrebeca0918]

Yes and actually throughout most of the video i was doing my comment by that i mean my LONG comment UwU

[@lauraabh362]

Hahah omg, it's me.

[@saging08]

Distractions :o

[@tamasjozsa591]

I have been broken up with a month ago after 7 years. It was a hectic relationship but I loved her very much. The pain is still unbearable sometimes. Another complicating factor is that I moved to another country for her so when we broke up I moved to some people then I went home and had to come back again to quit my job and arrange things. The breakup happened a month ago but there is always new salt in the wound as we needed to communicate about logistics and it feels as if it had happened yesterday. Next Friday I am finally going home and I hope I will recover better there. Because now I am devastated. And she already has someone…

[@athii1085]

The worst feeling in the world is when the person u loved the most is nolonger urs anymore.. when he says he doesnt love you anymore and that he is done with you , your life just literally comes to a halt. All that memories of him and his promises starts hauting you day and night. Thats exactly what i am going through. I cant sleep ..I cant eat anything. I cant even talk to anyone anymore.. I feel like my life is over. how do i get past this feeling? my hurt aches and i cant stop crying. How do I forget him? I feel like im dead inside.. it hurts so bad... help me..

[@kathyoo9559]

Athi im going through the same thing too..it hurts so bad..i cant focus on anytin

[@kuhataparunks]

I had all those symptoms 8 months ago when someone left me, and at about month 6 the clouds will start to clear, I promise you it doesn’t “get better” like others will lie to you, but it does get less worse over time. The biggest struggle is getting to that 6 month then 1 year mark- and remember, time stretches as far forward as it does backward, so it is possible for that much time to pass

[@Caribbeana]

Athi - And if u ever get back with them it doesn't feel good anymore . This personal experience i had should help u*

[@androidenthusiast7930]

I was once in this position.Today, I don't even remember her unless she pops up on my feed on Facebook or I see her in my contacts.How did this happen, I replaced the memories we shared with new ones.You'll be fine, trust me.

[@SuperSilverJay]

Athi it’s the worst feeling. I’m going through that but it’s getting easier.

[@curious_gage]

Think of it this way. They left knowing it could/would break your heart. This doesn’t automatically make them a bad person because they need to be responsible for their own life/happiness at the end of the day. So, why would you still want/miss them if they didn’t value you enough to stay with you?? You must realize that you only miss the version of them you created in your head. He/she probably wasn’t that special, they just made you feel special. If they don’t want you then screw ‘em - it’s their loss 🤙

[@addy8347]

Starting the year with a heartbreak💔😢

[@Jojo-official]

Me too, he broke up with me on NYE, got his stuff left and never messaged me again 😔

[@addy8347]

@@Jojo-official shit😞 I know how it feels💔💔 But we need to be strong....

[@jesstula4]

Same. I’m devastated 😭

[@rei6342]

@@addy8347 hey how are you doing after 3 weeks? I just got on the same boat and man it’s really painful. I just wish I could fast forward to that time when I’m finally okay again.

[@teamnodoyuna8826]

me too..

[@amblewis]

we broke up over two years ago and everytime he selfishly comes back for his gain, not even because he wants to be with me, i let him and my heart breaks all over. i don’t know how to let him go completely. even after everything he did to me i don’t hate him. i just feel scared it’ll never get completely better.

[@scarlettperez5134]

It's been three weeks, and the pain I've felt is inexplicable, it's the hardest thing I've ever been through in my life, my ex-boyfriend broke up with me after 5 years of relationship, I'm out of my country, studying and working, I recently quit my work, because I couldn't concentrate on anything anymore, and I want to take care of myself and the study for now. If there is someone out there with a broken heart, we are the only ones who can heal ourselves, I'm still working on it. I think the worst is over, the tears are starting to end, and the thoughts of recovery are starting to come out. And I begin to remember with happiness the moments I spent with that person and be grateful for the rejection, which has been the most difficult thing to accept. Sending love to people who are going through the same thing, you are not alone. Thank you so much, Matthew! I love your videos and your empathy, thank you for the beautiful advice. Love you! 🥰

[@vh7637]

my solution.. don't get involved in the first place..

[@shilpamv7859]

yes!!! I have closed all m doors!! I know it's nt the best solution!! but at least you are safe from future heart breaks!! coz I don't think it's easy to go through this hell again!!!

[@niamarshall7157]

Valerie Henderson I think heartbreak is a good thing. you see new vulnerabilities in yourself and have the opportunity to address them. If you never get your heart broken how does your heart become stronger?

[@blackangel163]

Valerie Henderson Wasn't that Voldermort's method? Didn't end too well. Dumbledore's way is hard but Worth it.

[@vh7637]

blackangel163 awh

[@vh7637]

Nia Marshall thank you

[@arjunsasilibrary]

Unlucky to have a heart broke in this corona time. .we can't keep ourselves busy😢

[@calicut_to_california]

Saarilla ellaam Sheri aavum...

[@feministiqe]

I really needed these words of comfort. I'm often told that I'm strong and independent 😔, and it's hard for anyone to see that I was hurt, let alone how much I'm still hurting so I've silently been trying to heal through youtube videos and prayer.

[@ajene1906]

💛🙏

[@Jenna-zx3yf]

Thank you, Matthew. I needed to hear this. I have been needing new coping mechanisms so as not to repeat history nor sink from the healthy level that I have been striving to achieve in life. I appreciate your comfort and guidance.