There are various people who are more comfortable in long-distance relationships than in close and indissoluble relationships. Let's say 10%. P.S. If we then count divorces and unhappy unions, 50%. 😜

Family and Friends are priceless

I'm not sure what to think honestly because I'm doing no contact and it's killing wonder who they might be with or doing. I'm doing everything possible to move on and some days are better than others. Once I fully heal, I don't think I'll even want my ex back, but just getting over them is really hard and it hurts.

I think McConaughey just made beauty apps cool again

My toxic relationship was ended for me. He got out of hand, I left, he continued to spiral and is now in jail. I've always been a strong person.. now I'm just stuck

Thank you Matthew. I needed to hear this. My eyes are open wisely now ❤

✨✨✨💛✨✨✨ so true

I Am not here to be trying to be with people who play games....but I do not mind helping people who are hurting and have manipulative behaviors....I am here to teach. Not capture anyone to put in a so called love prison.... Some ttraumas and no discipline start in early childhood and adolescent and goes into adulthood ... Know epigenetics and you will respect where people are on "their" journey.... Learn to be ok being in love with yoursrlf first...and no situation can make you feel rejected😊

Thats my entire life. Cheers!

Know this she died

Why does being taller make you a better person

At what point do you send the letter?

I’m too much but I’m not enough- THIS. This felt so hard, I stopped doing whatever I was doing and I was just thinking about this. It was such a great conversation to listen to!

Thanks so much for your videos. You've helped me soooo much to see things more clearly!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

That was illuminating

My theory. Both parties have low self esteem. "Oh, they'll like me ... they're weak."

Thats really hard to do esp when you were so certain they were the one for you for 8.5 yrs and then poof! Gone. Ghost you by a text for some loser they monkeybranched to.

This is everything I needed to hear, and I believe you care about people's growth and happiness, Matthew. Thank you for sharing a bit of your essence with us :)

This is one of my favorite videos from Matthew. A huge life lesson in 10min. Thank you for this.❤

Mine ghosted me after saying needing time to think. Then I messaged a few days later & my messages was deleted without reading & then blocked. I was left confused & in suspense. Then had another man over the following weekend & every weekend after. Very little closure, confused, lost & hurt beyond repair. We was just talking about the future a few weeks prior.

Great Job Matthew. Thanks So much

What if it’s your wife that isn’t investing much at all now? How do I handle that and work through it?

It is sad to say that it IS rare that I find a man who I am really really into. And after past relationships, I am reluctant to feel close to anyone (even in friendships); because I am so tired of people putting on a mask when they first meet you.

Thank you so much for this wise and intelligent communication. You might as well have spoken about me as this is exactly how I behaved. Interesting point, I am happily married in spite of falling into the anxious fawning category. As you suggested, I’m taking baby steps.

A man has only one big worry that falls into the dangerous category. Its called divorce and family court. Worry about that - its extremely dangerous to lose your house.

I guess I figured out my problem, I would never browse through hundreds of people on a dating app or go out night after night to find a guy. I also don’t scroll through looking for something to watch on TV. I wait until I meet my good-looking guy naturally. And I only watch something on TV if I hear about it in advance and think it sounds interesting. To me, I never even considered searching for someone or something. I think it should come to me.

Fuck she's pretty

This is wrong. Good men are tired of the single mom's who decides that the bad boys are no longer valuable and want a father figure. Maybe women should stop having kids with losers.

You inspire me to try again, because it isn't easy to start a new architecture together.

Chan 100%

Chan?

Only one

Thank you

It’s a people pattern is right ❤❤❤❤❤

3:27 I’m already stressed because recently someone who made it very easy to be open and free then she tells me I was coming on too strong. This wasn’t even a week ago and it’s effecting me badly because I feel like an idiot when I feel I text too much. Did I say something wrong. This almost brings me to tears because all I want is to give my love without reservation but man that experience has really fucked with me.

My wife of 23 yrs sadly passed away 4 yrs ago . All I ever did was go to work and come home to my baby. So I have no friends , I'm in construction and never meet women. No friends or family to introduce me to anyone

The relationship with life ❌ The relationship with Our Lord Allah✅ Cause life is temporary

No long distance relationships works out. I'm proof of it. Not because I had them. Because I made her cheat on her "long distance dude" by being with me. I'm your worst nightmare guys. It's me. I'm the one visiting your girl when you're away.

It might be because it’s a challenge to change them or their minds into being nice or kind! Negative aspects often attract more than the positive- sadly . It’s the naughty child who gets the attention!

Yep , This is so me

This is why you want to get married in your 20’s before the biological clock is ticking and everything is more urgent because it’s easier to come across as desperate.

Fantastic and relatable!

My broken heart really needed to hear this

Gold, pure gold! 💯💯💯

I was married to a narc for 21 years. He lovebombed me as a 20-year-old single mom. He emotionally cheated on me repeatedly with a longtime friend of his (who he had attempted to woo when she was a 16-year-old single mom but was unsuccessful). I missed sooooooo many red flags, or I saw them but didn’t have the self-esteem to believe that I could make it on my own without him. When we finally separated, it was shortly after I had traveled to my mom’s to take care of her after a cancer diagnosis and he “found someone else”. The previous few years I had finally gotten to a place where I could support myself if I needed to and my daughter was grown, so I wasn’t the damsel in distress anymore. Also, the woman he cheated with (now his wife) was ALSO a single mom barely making it on her own. Oh, and while he was on and off with her after our divorce, he dated and pledged his love to ANOTHER younger single mom while also trying AGAIN to get with his longtime friend. I feel like an absolute idiot typing all of that, but I was apparently COMPLETELY blinders on for 21 years. Three years now after the divorce was final, I am in a very healthy relationship with an actual grown man and I know my worth. Two words for anyone in a relationship with a narc: LEAVE NOW!

Grief from loved one dying and from a loved one leaving/rejecting you is a scream inside you that only you can hear

The body keeps the score.

How do I work though my own jealousy of my man’s ex, when they are still friends, but she won’t meet me doesn’t like me and he thinks it’s fine.

I needed this ❤

Thanks this is so so good and helpful