The 12 Steps of Codependency Recovery. Is Al anon/ Nar anon For Me? Codependency Treatment.

[@siin1876]

Im in that sad part right now where i love someone so much and want to see them grow and be happy but the alcohol has completely taken over their personality and the person i love and now im left feeling incomplete and like i should just keep hanging on but my own personal well being is going down with it. And just at a point that i dont see anything changing but this little voice In the back of my head keeps saying to hold on because one day it might stop. And it has but it comes back. Im looking into Al Non and reading up to see what tools i can acquire to get over these obstacles but its always to just let them learn on their own. And thats hard. I know from an outside perspective it sounds easy but i always was the one people gave up on and just threw away to recycle someone new and more exciting so i know what its like to be sick and left for dead. And no one who cares. And i would never want to do that to someone else. God this is so hard

[@RoadRunnergarage8570]

I need to realize what other people think of me is none of by business.... It's not me it's them!!

[@eproberts1]

I was really angry. but I was more angry at the alcoholic for disrupting my peace and serenity. and angry at him drinking also. he was driving me crazy with his drama.

[@Deelitee]

I NEED this hat!!! ❤😅

[@Harmony7771]

Well said

[@tarasierralee]

"mind your own business" - super hard to nurture attachment to another human being without worrying about each other and trying to support each other. You don't know. That's the truth.

[@user-wj3yr7xr2f]

Thats exactly it! At the same moment I cut of with my mom, and others I hade been caring for it feelt like I loost my purpose in life. Like a smal death.

[@jackwilliamatkins5602]

Jesus Christ is in Nunawading

[@karengardinier1474]

What does Jesus have to do with it?