THE 5 FRIENDS SECRETLY SABOTAGING YOUR LIFE! DR. TOYE SOBANDE

[@ValerieRittenhouse-i6j]

You're truly an amazing and remarkable person. A few weeks ago, my boyfriend ended things. He said he needed space, and while it broke my heart, I couldn’t blame him. There were no big arguments just… over. I’m struggling to accept that it’s really the end and that I might never hear from him again. I miss him so much.

[@KristinaLaurent-s5d]

Oh, sweetheart, my heart goes out to you. I’ve been in your shoes, and I know how deeply painful this can be. But I want you to remember there is hope, and healing is possible. Would you be open to speaking with a spiritual counselor, Father Abulu? He helped me so much, and I truly believe he could make a difference for you too.

[@ValerieRittenhouse-i6j]

A spiritual counselor? That’s something I’ve never considered. But if it worked for you, I’m willing to give it a try. Can you tell me more about what to expect and how it helped you?

[@KristinaLaurent-s5d]

I completely understand. I was skeptical at first too, but working with him truly transformed my perspective. His name is Father Abulu, and his approach is incredibly gentle and compassionate. I genuinely recommend him with all my heart.

[@ValerieRittenhouse-i6j]

Thank you so much for connecting me with him. I’m truly grateful, and I’m looking forward to seeing how this can help me.

[@kenigbinedion928]

You will be fine again

[@gabrielabodunrin6203]

My take-out from 2024 was that ‘blood relationship is not a prerequisite for kindness and generosity is not an antidote for wickedness’. This episode has deepened my understanding having experienced at least three of the typologies described and eagerly anticipating the other two with strategic response. ‘Epiphany’ as baba ibeji fondly says is when Dr Toye mentioned Kindness and emotional intelligence as a tool for manipulation! And essentially understanding the difference between discernment and suspicion is the bedrock of dealing with these dynamics in our relationships. This is an absolutely brilliant episode for the books and a hallmark of the TejubabyFace we love🙌🏾

[@ajlaghogho]

This man is deep abeg. Very sound i must confess. I can listen to him all day. This is a product of heavy investment in personal development and quality relationships

[@JeffStephens445]

You can tell that Toye has indeed been with Rev. Sam. He even sounds like him🎉

[@ahunsiadeniran3416]

Exactly! He talks like him, laughs like him. They say you smell like the company you keep. Sound!

[@opeyemifab]

@@JeffStephens445 i almost said this😁 His laugh and voice texture, and facial gesture... E too much

[@Monisolal]

Asineh I had to take another look to check if it was Rev Sam😀 God bless you sirs

[@Zankeypro]

Let me shock you the shirt Dr. Toye wear is by same designer Rev. Sam wears for years now.

[@omotayoodiedi2665]

He even laughs like him.

[@ElizabethBabatunde-c1d]

Hubby shared this with me to watch because im in a situation like this now.... Thank you Dr Toye for this beautiful piece now im at peace with myself and i have decided to let all bi+terness go and forgive myself. I would let God fight for me by making sure i hold my peace. God is already fighting for me because evidences dey. God bless you babyface for all these you do for us. You are an institution and definitely we are learning from your institute.

[@akinyemidaniel1817]

This is by far the most important podcast I have listened to on this platform. The heart of man is deep !

[@adeolaadekoyaogundare5632]

Vision defines you, vision confines you and vision refines you📌📌📌💯💯💯

[@aarontseke1918]

Teju, each time I listen to you, it look as if I am starting all over again because the conversation gives a lot of room for learning ❤❤❤

[@damilolabanjoko4002]

Interesting Discussion, Insightful also. I have experienced this first hand.People with strong EI Emotional Intelligence can mask their true emotions, appearing calm or agreeable and happy with you even when they're desperately wanting the worst for you

[@oyetoniltd]

This guy has become Pastor Sam Adeyemi. His voice, mannerism, voice, nearly everything about him is like Pastor Sam. Great guy.

[@oladelesunday5283]

I believe the views of this particular podcast will soon reach 1 million. Deep and powerful..🎉....

[@Siyaidon7]

The level of wisdom Toye is dishing out can't be bought.....Pure wisdom only God can give this kaiii 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@funmiisijola1224]

Amazing guy!!! It’s as if he knows my story. God will continue to increase your wisdom in Jesus name. Amen 🙏

[@girlie7724]

The most educative program that I have listened to this year so far. Best use of my 1hr 45 minutes.

[@aderonkefaith3701]

Thank you Jesus for the gift of Dr Toye to this generation. Kudos to you baba Ibeji for the amazing work of always bringing value to us.

[@kennyadesanya]

My God!! So insightful and inspiring. Many thanks to both of you for doing this.

[@gabrielabodunrin6203]

I will need popcorn for this episode🕺🏾🕺🏾🕺🏾 well done baba ibeji🙌🏾

[@BabatundeDaniel]

What an awesome perspective to life and relationship. I could picture the relationship between my wife and her friend go through the different stages described by Dr. TOYE. Even my earlier warnings she took this friendship like her life dependent but time as the say reveals alot. Thank you King of talk for bringing Dr. TOYE. A lot of wisdom has been shared. He that has hear let him hear.

[@ElizabethBabatunde-c1d]

Ife ooooooo I'm sorry for not listening to you 😢😢😢😢😢.... Thank you for standing by me in my toughest moment. I love you and thank you for sharing the link

[@iamisaacblocnomics]

Thank you for taking your time to create this podcast

[@egoaninmadu9650]

Thank you bro Teju and Dr Toye. The grace of God will not depart from you both in Jesus name

[@XclusivewithLayemi]

Thank you so much for this enriching interview. 🎉❤

[@OlukayodeBolanle]

Teju’s reasoning has transcended the mundane. This episode, for me, is a proof of your deep knowledge of human behaviour and belief.

[@fredehigie2182]

What an amazing person Dr Toye and a wonderful podcast aswell 👏

[@modinatsolomon7506]

You coming into the world is God 's mercy. I feel you brother.

[@modinatsolomon7506]

Good one. Spiritual attack first person on line. I enjoyed this show. Thanks brother both of you.

[@nzubeohiaeri1361]

Thank you so much for this podcast was soundly blessed by it God bless you

[@ozuluchisom4857]

Such an awesome podcast. Thanks for these words of wisdom

[@daddy-jay8346]

I am a new subscriber and I promise to remain a subscriber to this channel as long as the content remains on and above this standard.

[@modinatsolomon7506]

I truly believed you are a man of God. Almighty has revealed himself to you spiritual and you followed your insticts. Subuhanalai

[@Emmaskotto]

Blessed to listen to you Dr, you are full of wisdom and character. Thank you for taking the time to dissect and pour out all those words.

[@LifeAsOluwaseunPhillips]

Such a blessing, thank you profusely Prof Sobande, God bless you Teju Babyface for always delivering top quality sessions

[@histreasure3189]

"Bi ewe ba pe lara ose, o ma di ose ni" (A leaf transforms to become part of the soap after being attached to the soap for an extended period of time). Dr. Toye talks so much like Rev. Sam Adeyemi. Even down to the way he laughs. God's work is indeed marvelous.

[@kehindeadepitan4398]

Infact,talk so much like him and even have his resemblance. He also has a good heart and he is humble.

[@LifeAsOluwaseunPhillips]

Did you notice the way he adjusts his shirt collar too like Rev. .😊 Amazing

[@lauraorimoloye]

@@LifeAsOluwaseunPhillipsEven the style of his shirt 😅

[@modinatsolomon7506]

This is what i get. My brother you are so intelligent.

[@BukunolaOyegbami-s2e]

Hmmmmm, Thanks for the great insights shared!!!🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤

[@dikkoolumide]

I so much love this discussion

[@lolaowolabi845]

Thank you Teju and Dr Sobande. This is a Master Class.

[@mentoringwithpauliroye]

Amazing conversation! Thank you Teju, thank you, Prof.

[@tajudeenodutayo205]

Mine started just immediately after I celebrated my 40th Birthday 🎂 and I'm just discerning just after I crossed 50 years and hitherto but this episode validated my present stage, as I'm in stage 3 of the process now. Thanks 👍

[@kayshankay2755]

Interesting podcast. Good to see and hear from Dr Toye again over some many years

[@StirUpYourPurpose]

51:39 Well said, it is a cultural thing. Society is simply a reflection of the values, beliefs, and actions of its majority. What we see around us is the collective outcome of what most people choose to stand for or tolerate.

[@exponetial1641]

Great provoking insights!

[@kessfofah7125]

I am only a quarter way through and God is using this to answer my question about my life and the detours I have encountered. God has it all planned out even if we can’t see nor understand it. Even if it looks like stupidity to those around us and normal human reasoning.

[@boskemojo1471]

💯💯

[@zionsville22]

At the end when Prof. Was thanking the host, the host was like: I did? Moma da gan😂 so funny. This was an insightful video, thank you so much TBF and Prof. Toye. I learnt a lot. I’m going to watch it again and again. I went through some friendship betrayals in 2023 and in retrospect I can tell I was severely manipulated. I cut them off, I am not bitter anymore, as I laid it all at the feet of Jesus and allow Him to heal me. I’m a better person now. I’m glad I went through it though. But I pray I don’t meet friends who will later turn to foes again in Jesus name.

[@patsonu774]

So many he said in this interview resonate with me. In my immediate family and friends. A friend whom I had considered a brother is master in emotional intelligence. He could be angry with you and eat with him at the same time.

[@GodwinJames-ze8zn]

I am seeing all shades of pastor Sam Adeyemi on this man. The similarities in smile, body language is too striking.

[@FincarecmsLtd]

Exactly!The nuance is too strong

[@ahunsiadeniran3416]

You can say that again!

[@modinatsolomon7506]

Subuhanalai ogaaa oooo. Hummmmm that whatI said. What a beautiful experience of life in totally different of reasoning in today's world by age group my brother. Intreasting.

[@drolugbengaadetitunTV]

I think we share similar reading background as you stated in 12 minute.... In my case I read books bought by my dad and even read encyclopeadia Americana. The first novel I ever really read was the undesirable element by Mohammed Sule. It was a book owned by my elder sister. When i write essays in secondary school people marvel. What I wrote came from what i read and daily experiences...

[@drolugbengaadetitunTV]

See the way he said yes towards the end, I feel the Sam Adeyemi in that. Thats exactly how Sam Adeyemi will excitedly say it. Weldone sirs

[@sunkki13]

55 minutes 🎉❤ impactful

[@modinatsolomon7506]

Absolutely true. Am glad. We are all in the same page.

[@MatildaOmoAdesina]

Oga Teju, please bring Prof back o!!!!!! We will find and listen to him on other platforms, however there is a way conversations between friends in interviews like this, easily draw out depths and stories that brings it all together. The interview could have easily run for 3hours and one would not even realize it. 😊 Eseun o!

[@tajudeenyahaya5187]

I totally recognize myself in this episode,it took me 18 years of suffer in the hand of a manipulator 😢dr just analyzed my life experience

[@allenemokpae7627]

Dr Toye of Charis

[@Love-my-religion10]

Thank you Dr. Toye for this wonderful conversation. This is very insightful and inspiring. God bless you!

[@chidinjoku5524]

Oshodi to the world. Nice one Toye!!!

[@shokoyaabayomi8463]

Pastor Toye of CHARIS OAU,Ife. Great show

[@bukkykalejaiye6070]

This is by far so deep!!!

[@funmilolaadenekan2635]

Dr. Toye thank you for this discussion with Teju baby face.

[@hakoko4139]

We look for Miracles and signs without seeking the owner of the religious leader be it pastor, prohets in our society.

[@modinatsolomon7506]

They are doing you a favor. It so unfortunate. Absolutely correct. So SAD

[@akintolu]

My Campus fellowship president, Charis, OAU

[@olabodedambola8563]

This episode is so deep real deep dive, how notice Dr Toye talk so much like Rev Sam

[@isaacolatunji2266]

Amazing Prof

[@kehinderapheal9751]

You are deep bro!

[@modinatsolomon7506]

Lord am loving this man already.

[@hycentino]

Very informative 👍

[@coachsolaonbeautyandwellness]

Interesting and educating.

[@Ini4iyanu]

Is everywhere I had them as friend

[@BolajiOladipo-n3m]

It is this part for me-How God uses the schemes of men for good for those who believe in HIM.

[@modinatsolomon7506]

Friendnimies indeed.

[@drey101]

I think everyone should read the law of human nature. U will understand him more.

[@olaajayi6518]

Pastor Toye!

[@drolugbengaadetitunTV]

The way this guest spoke showed clearly he worked closely with Revd Sam Adeyemi.

[@YinusaKazeem-sl8hl]

Everyone is living to learn but never be a victim.

[@folakemiayeni997]

13.36.....this is deep

[@olowoyeyebukola3204]

I'm part of the early bird right😊😊

[@mabelsontan]

Dr Toye 😊❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@opeyemifab]

seriously well done sir i have listened to this over 7 times but still didnt get the tile of the book you said you read. Did you say 'The Deep"by Seth Gorden?

[@blackmanaigbiremolen2143]

Seth Godin The dip

[@Crownofglory09]

Spot on

[@modinatsolomon7506]

That's awesome.

[@kelechiogbuagu6784]

Pastor Patrick Anwuzie Of Zoe Ministries Worldwide That's the pastor he is referring to

[@oluwatobisamuel247]

WOW!! ❤

[@daveademola8832]

Gentility of a Lion is not a sign of timidity." Yi yo ekun bi tojo ko" The proverb you guys are trying to translate.

[@ovieonojeghuo8347]

Make Una See 👀 Interview. Am Dazed...

[@modinatsolomon7506]

Hummmmmm. Is very Deep

[@nzubeohiaeri1361]

Pastor Sam reproduced Weldone sir

[@adedayoadegoke8087]

JuJu used to work on oyinbo too. I learnt that people use JuJu to get a shift in the UK . And before you can say it doesn't work on them, why yahoo guys use traditional remote control (Afose) to collect money or control them. To cap it all, use black ring (Oka elo subusere or ana sare😊😊😊) on them and see if it will work or not .

[@modinatsolomon7506]

Hummmmm. I hear you brother.

[@bolakalekayode1150]

Fact

[@quantumics5298]

You are describing NARCISSISTS

[@macd_advocate]

My life story 🥲🥲🥲

[@roseoghayeju1972]

😂 CONGRATULATIONS 😂 That's perfection.Learning from DIVINITY helping humanity 😂 ONE WITH GOD ALMIGHTY I$ MAJORITY THE BEST WAY TO KNOW ANY AND EVERY ONE IS OBSERVATION EVEN BEFORE BONDING THE BIBLE SAYS LOVE UNCONDITIONALLY YET WATCH AND PRAY WISDOM IS PRINCIPLE SENSITIVITY TO HOLY SPIRIT VERY IMPORTANT BEEN OMNI PRESENCE UNLIKE HUMAN LIMITATIONS CONNECT REMAIN AND KEEP FOCUS ALWAYS READY TO LEARN ONE LOVE KEEP US TOGETHER ♥️😀🌟

[@pgwins1]

You can be a frenemy too😂

[@thesegunalonge]

Exactly! Not everything fake will fade away. Both will often be allowed to grow together. Let everyone be faithful in their calling. Let everyone know God personally. Manipulators can experience expansion too.

[@modinatsolomon7506]

I feel you brother but may be that was not his thing. Politics. Ekuu ai gbagbe. Am sure he has that leadership skill in him.

[@roseoghayeju1972]

Must of them whenever they need you they embrace you as a saint but the moment you need them you become evil place under suspicious assassination and condemnation It all SELFISHNESS and WICKEDNESS that GOD ALMIGHTY already delivered the REDEEMED best bet REMAIN GODS HERITAGES Jn 17 : 10 _20

[@damilolabanjoko4002]

Humm! Ese o. Ija alara kii tan boro.. Ajun won lo..kose wi lejo.. translation in the video o

[@modinatsolomon7506]

FACTS

[@modinatsolomon7506]

Subuhanalai FACTS. Hummmmm

[@yomiolabisi6796]

Oh my God