The 5 Hidden Addictions of an Affair | Couples Academy Show

  Рет қаралды 18,679

Hasani Pettiford - Infidelity Recovery Specialist

Hasani Pettiford - Infidelity Recovery Specialist

Күн бұрын

Пікірлер: 42
@jomariewhitney7614
@jomariewhitney7614 4 жыл бұрын
We can't afford a therapist right now and your videos are helping me so much. My husband of 26yrs had an emotional affair 2 years ago. He left me for 6 weeks and was so cruel (to justify his affair). He's been very patient with me and my questions and moods but the "trickle-truth" thing is just another form of betrayal in my eyes. He is so sorry for hurting me and I do believe him. I just can't move on. I think I have PTSD and I feel like I'm going crazy. You guys are an inspiration and are helping me understand this nightmare. Thank You!!!
@jessyshyne1154
@jessyshyne1154 4 жыл бұрын
Hello to whom may concern I can recomend you to someone that helped me restore back my broken relationship
@jessyshyne1154
@jessyshyne1154 4 жыл бұрын
Text via WhatsApp number 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@WillBlindYouWithLight
@WillBlindYouWithLight 4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@christalhardy8771
@christalhardy8771 4 жыл бұрын
This is so similar to my story as well the trickle truth and I felt like PTSD.he had a sexual affair for 3 years
@jessyshyne1154
@jessyshyne1154 4 жыл бұрын
@@WillBlindYouWithLight hello dr tuda can help you, he helped me restore back my broken relationship and I believe he can also help you just as he did mine too 💓💓💓💓💓
@alvinrector5527
@alvinrector5527 Жыл бұрын
I am so proud of him. U have a real man. U go girl
@gorgeouswales9635
@gorgeouswales9635 4 жыл бұрын
I’m glad to be back with you all, haven’t seen you all in few months.. Thank you😁
@junehoward3923
@junehoward3923 4 жыл бұрын
Dr Doug Weiss has alot of videos, books, dvd’s and counseling services on sex addiction for both partners. He is also a minister.
@EskimoLady870
@EskimoLady870 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful couple 👫
@reginapolo3357
@reginapolo3357 8 ай бұрын
When I get catfished or hit on, on social media, I use profanity therapy (yes there is such thing) For the rest if the world, I use communication skills or just walk away.
@rockokpp
@rockokpp 3 жыл бұрын
❤ thank you!!!
@lorrieholsten2521
@lorrieholsten2521 3 жыл бұрын
Question? I just watched the 19 signs of close call friendship video. Great video highly enlightening. Ok so i am all for self care mental health relationship counseling. My husband. Not so much. I mention these types of videos and that i share them on facebook. He changes the subject. Doesn't even have a response to what i have just said. Lol. So there is a situation bout a opposite sex friend in which since we got together. Been together bout a year n a half. I have from day 1 felt a strange energy with his friend. I have addressed and said that i needed there to be healthy boundaries. I asked him to speak with her cuz she don't call me or anything like that. He waits til last week. And basically tells her. Lorrie doesn't feel like you respect her and you need to take a beat on stooping by. Her reply im not kissin her ### to remain friends with you she is crazy. So i asked did you mention the only 3 healthy boundaries i asked to be respected? Nope he just put me under the bus even tho he agreed with me the night before. So basically he says im just jealous. So here we go. 1 please knock or call before entering our home. 2 if you are going to borrow my clothes please put them in the dirty laundry when u are done. 3 if you're going to dress proactively please place your legs together and don't sit in front of my husband and son like that. That has been my only 3 boundaries. Should i have been the one to talk to her. And was it too much to ask of his friend to respect our home marriage n family.
@terrywade3696
@terrywade3696 3 жыл бұрын
Lorrie Holstein: Whoa, whoa, whoa! That woman is a Jezebel! She’s in full takeover mode! First, you need to establish boundaries with your husband! The first one is, that Ho has to go! She’s no friend to anyone! He needs to respect you! He needs to choose who he wants! Some women don’t really care about the man they’re chasing. They care about taking a man away from another woman to feel powerful! It’s all about the notches on the belt! Plain old feminine competition! Your husband needs to grow a spine and see it for what it is! I’m sure he’s flattered to have two women fighting over him but it’s at your expense! He needs to pick a lane! Either he’s committed to you and your marriage or he’s not! You don’t ask her to respect your marriage, you demand it! You need to demand it of your husband! If he continues to put one foot out the door, give him his other one! Protect your home, family and yourself! Your 3 boundaries are an invitation to be disrespected! No one should be walking into your home uninvited! Wear YOUR CLOTHES or flash anything! You need new boundaries, girl!
@CHUNT-sd1ps
@CHUNT-sd1ps 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so lost. My husband of 29 years had an emotional affair. He also told me I was a cost of his unhappiness and he wants separation. He’s not in love with me and he doesn’t see me as his wife. The woman my husband was having a emotional affair with, was also a married woman.
@TheMickSheahan
@TheMickSheahan 2 жыл бұрын
Accept that you cannot bargain or convince him to choose you. The marriage is broken and your alone in it. Concentrate on taking care of you. Exercise. Eat healthier. Go out with friends. You don't have to answer to someone who abandoned your marriage. It's gone. He's gone but life goes on and it actually gets better
@glendamitchell2758
@glendamitchell2758 2 жыл бұрын
Please have you wife see a medical doctor about her thyroid. It appears she may have problems indicative of a bad thyroid gland.
@christalhardy8771
@christalhardy8771 4 жыл бұрын
Too late for me..we are already on the divorce route wish I watched this months ago
@krisleshiba3390
@krisleshiba3390 4 жыл бұрын
That's so sad😢 Let the Lord be your comfort and with the painful experience that you went through I think it would be best to see a therapist to help you deal with your emotions and help you find your strength in all this. You need to heal from this so that you can move on and do better in life.
@christalhardy8771
@christalhardy8771 4 жыл бұрын
@@krisleshiba3390 I agree I have so many
@christalhardy8771
@christalhardy8771 4 жыл бұрын
I will be starting therapy in November thank God !
@jazzcampbell1653
@jazzcampbell1653 3 жыл бұрын
Nothing is impossible with God. Be careful relationships after divorce is still adultery and adulters cannot enter the kingdom. So reconciliation is the best. God is able.
@christalhardy8771
@christalhardy8771 3 жыл бұрын
@@jazzcampbell1653 thanks for reaching out I will say since December 25th when I saw himwe have tried to work in the marriage. He still talks to his mistress which I have discussed is not truly working on "us" but he is putting forth an effort to regain trust. We live apart and u have kept my duty to God and not cheated as revenge. I honored my vows but working on reconciliation. I have forgiveness him just pray this Jezebel leaves his heart and he severs soul ties
@bquietmedia
@bquietmedia 4 жыл бұрын
WOW Thats real manhood
@krisleshiba3390
@krisleshiba3390 4 жыл бұрын
My partner and I are headed for a separation. I am not happy here😢
@truckingwithtobee
@truckingwithtobee 4 жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry you’re going through that.❤️
@krisleshiba3390
@krisleshiba3390 4 жыл бұрын
@@truckingwithtobee yeah it will be well, I hope. 💞
@christalhardy8771
@christalhardy8771 4 жыл бұрын
Praying for you..this sexual betrayal is so painful and he is arrogant about it
@krisleshiba3390
@krisleshiba3390 4 жыл бұрын
@@christalhardy8771 all will be well let's just keep praying to God that he may direct us on what to do
@christalhardy8771
@christalhardy8771 4 жыл бұрын
@@krisleshiba3390 Amen .. I was struggling with these divorce papers he sent to me via mail...for about 2 weeks because he had the nerve to "pre checked off boxes" to answers and refused to select adultery to protect the AP he worked with who got fired... t don't i honestly want to contest it,but now I just want this to be over so I don't care anymore
@patrickoloughlin3111
@patrickoloughlin3111 4 жыл бұрын
Your channel is awesome. Just read Your Brain on Porn and currently reading Sex at Dawn. It's clear your followers love the content you put out. I just sent you an email and would love to get your advice and expert opinion as a KZbinr on what I'm working on and if it has any merit.
@jessyshyne1154
@jessyshyne1154 4 жыл бұрын
Hello I know of someone great and powerful who helped me restore back my broken relationship I believe he can render you help too
@jessyshyne1154
@jessyshyne1154 4 жыл бұрын
Text him via whtzapp
@jessyshyne1154
@jessyshyne1154 4 жыл бұрын
+1(,8,1,6,3,4,3,8,3,0,7)
@truckingwithtobee
@truckingwithtobee 4 жыл бұрын
Vegas here🙏
6 Lies That Destroy Recovery From An Affair
31:15
Hasani Pettiford - Infidelity Recovery Specialist
Рет қаралды 33 М.
Why People Cheat And How You Can Prevent It
20:56
Hasani Pettiford - Infidelity Recovery Specialist
Рет қаралды 43 М.
МЕНЯ УКУСИЛ ПАУК #shorts
00:23
Паша Осадчий
Рет қаралды 4,5 МЛН
Haunted House 😰😨 LeoNata family #shorts
00:37
LeoNata Family
Рет қаралды 15 МЛН
Random Emoji Beatbox Challenge #beatbox #tiktok
00:47
BeatboxJCOP
Рет қаралды 67 МЛН
Affair Love vs Authentic Love
14:34
Hasani Pettiford - Infidelity Recovery Specialist
Рет қаралды 26 М.
Relationship Patterns That Lead To Infidelity
17:52
Hasani Pettiford - Infidelity Recovery Specialist
Рет қаралды 28 М.
10 Signs Your Partner Will Be Loyal After An Affair
41:37
Hasani Pettiford - Infidelity Recovery Specialist
Рет қаралды 22 М.
How To Keep Communication From Ruining Your Marriage
25:20
Hasani Pettiford - Infidelity Recovery Specialist
Рет қаралды 17 М.
Understand The Pain The Unfaithful Partner Experiences After An Affair
22:16
3 Steps to Getting a Distant Spouse to Talk to You
1:07:09
Marriage Helper
Рет қаралды 66 М.
What Infidelity Does To The Betrayed and How To Recover  Part 1  w Hasani & Danielle Pettiford
1:08:19
Hasani Pettiford - Infidelity Recovery Specialist
Рет қаралды 13 М.
10 Lessons to Transform Your Marriage - with Drs. John & Julie Gottman
29:04
Why I Cheated On My Partner
37:09
Hasani Pettiford - Infidelity Recovery Specialist
Рет қаралды 5 М.