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In this week’s podcast, I sit down with Relationship coach Sadia Khan to discuss the struggles in modern dating. We break down pornography abuse, high & low-value men and women, understanding your triggers, and a whole other array of topics that will help you navigate today's dating landscape.
Drawing upon her years of experience in trauma and relationship therapy, as well as her academic background in Psychology, Sadia has been able to improve all facets of her clients’ dating lives and I hope this episode improves yours.
TIMESTAMPS:
1:50 - Why Sadia started in psychology
4:45 - Why do people fight on social media
11:55 - The truth about high-value men
15:20 - Single-parent trauma
18:25 - What men are most likely to be cheated on
23:00 - Stay single or relationship
25:50 - What women should do about casual sex & their values
30:00 - Men from money date these types of women
33:00 - The biggest lie
35:00 - Why do we need some rules
36:20 - How to identify depression
40:00 - What red flags you should look out for
41:30 - Diagnosing trauma
43:00 - How women test you
44:30 - The shocking truth about how much women cheat on men
48:30 - Why do people post provocative content on social media
51:00 - Cheating
55:00 - Where women go wrong on types
58:30 - Choose a person that chooses you
1:00:30 - How to create peace
1:02:00 - Have a list of deal breakers
1:05:00 - How to get over a misaligned belief
1:07:50 - How do you measure healing
1:09:30 - Relationship skills vs business skills
1:15:20 - 1 piece of advice from Sadia
1:16:30 - Golden wisdom for men
1:18:27 - Golden wisdom for women
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[@chukwunedugeraldonuchukwu2367]

I want her Now!

[@waynesolsberg7365]

Great guest you have had thus far I have had a great life thus far as achievements in my personal life. My regrets thus far are the women I have married three women and all have used me for gains for themselves. Currently I am 75 Years of age, causation, financially secure and have been divorced for 7 years. Definitely not a couch potato, extremely active and always helping and volunteering to help people have better lives. Former military carrier and Law enforcement retired. Positive attitude and always smiling, Christian practices and living a very lonely Life. My attitude is always trying to find that Lady who is looking for a similar life style. How do I find such a positive Women

[@moniquekirkmire9380]

@@waynesolsberg7365 You sound like a sweetheart. I’m sorry you have not been appreciated. Have faith, there are good women out there.

[@dan_under_the_sun]

Subscribed. By all means. A star in the making.

[@anissasanhuezacastro1860]

😊 C P🎉nlo 😊Ulmm no nu

[@sadiapsychology]

Thank you so much for having me. I loved this conversation.

[@FrankieLeePodcast]

Appreciate you coming on and sharing your wisdom. I know I’m biased…. Definitely your best podcast though 😅😂

[@AddictedSoulsMusic]

Are you married?

[@Getdownlifestyle]

I agree with 100% of everything u said especially on when a men has many options but choose wisely to who he picks to be with either for a relationship or just to have fun

[@kumamakanui1514]

Extremely smart woman.

[@yasinozer10]

The eye roll when Frankie mentioned Sam Smith. Exceptional podcast.

[@mbongoyanguba2071]

"A high value woman is determined by how many men she can say no to" this is gold

[@blissghmedia]

If that's all it takes for women then this joke is laughable

[@ReadyOrNot_HereICome]

To do that you need to have a very strong independent mind set and actually be independent financially and emotionally but she said again that type of mind set is the biggest BS. She said all the good and right things but it is really hard to execute all of them at the same time. She being not married itself says all. Even a high value women who can say no to many men can lowever her boundaries etc for an one wrong person. Does that mean she is not a high value woman? I do agree many of her perspectives but she is telling things too easily and make everything so simple making herself sounds "she knows everything," which is not, so people need to listen to her and other things as well with critical thinking. She is not giving THE ANSWER. She is also just one of us searching for love or a great relationship, etc.

[@antc1022]

She said "by how many high value men she can say no to”......

[@MsSantorini]

Man-made 2024 saying...can't wait to hear the new definition next year...lol

[@lunar5674]

She's no expert, she literally has no credentials to claim she's a psychotherapist.

[@elab4187]

I don’t remember the last time I had a female role-model, then Sadia happpened, I’m so happy she decided to be public with her beautiful mind and soul.

[@elab4187]

I actually changed my mind, she’s losing it lately😂

[@MCShvabo]

@@elab4187 What did shw say lately?

[@user-ii2rf8cs8j]

@@elab4187yeah wdym

[@a4286j]

It used to be Taylor Swift 😂 now its Sadia ❤

[@drd.n4695]

What I appreciate about her is not only her wise words but also how she presents herself. No flesh show.

[@ashtynrose1906]

"Pick wisely then spoil them endlessly" I love this! I think so many people get hurt and blame the opposite gender for being trash and they think what they did wrong was being too loving etc when actually they picked the wrong kind of person.

[@zuriwealth]

This is deep.

[@user-rx7uh9mg4f]

As a woman I do the same. I don't spoil the man fully he has to go through a filtering process THEN I spoil him rotten with everything he desires. Of course, I expect the same treatment back. That's what makes a relationship beautiful 🤍

[@shay6688]

HOLY SMOKES!! …hate to admit it, yet I have listened to soooooo many podcasters and experts and been an avid reader for 20 years, and NEVER have I heard one person speak so much SOLID TRUTH as this amazing woman! I nearly never suggest self-help material to my kids, yet THIS is one of the rare ones that speaks in such a correct way and says what really needs to be said to today. AMEN, and AMEN!!

[@Sausi_]

I can’t believe how many times I’ve shared this with my people. Well done.

[@TammyReneeCoaching]

I’m blown away as well….PHENOMENAL INTERVIEW!!

[@theguy3141]

Yeah bro. She speaks the truth so calmly and also on the part of insecurities.its okay to have insecurities of knowing where your wife has been

[@Tippy257]

I love Sadia because she doesn’t pit men against women. It opens your eyes that the actual goal should be to create a loving home, where we feel loved, safe, and a place where we belong and at peace.

[@peterpeter1829]

Yes agreed 100%

[@fillyhart4222]

GOLDEN!! 60yo woman here who lived this. I was respected & loved by my father & mother. Married young & had 2 boys who have gone on to find girls who we respect & love too. Wish everyone had this. Thanks Sadia for speaking out.

[@toddsher2112]

She’s brilliant the same way Jordan B. Peterson is brilliant. Her manner is unadulterated logic and brutal honesty, spoken without malice. The world needs more voices like hers. Thanks for the conversation!

[@alisis5224]

I would love to see the two of them together talking about same things. They both are amazing ❤

[@riasb]

No. Peterson supports the genocide and killing of children in Palestine. She is undoubtedly above him morally and all other aspects follow.

[@RenaRego]

I love her unapologetic, simple truth telling. It is so refreshing.

[@chikitita112]

Goal “True fulfillment comes when you don’t need external validation “

[@caseyriggs5952]

She is building the best new category of psychology called wholesome psychology

[@Burmeseti]

She's correct that being pretty works against a woman in a field that requires brains. I would say the stereotype is worse in engineering than in psychology.

[@ashtynrose1906]

Agree, I like that she clarifies that pretty privilege does exist but mostly for women who want to exploit their appearance for money. There are pros and cons to everything, even good looks.

[@sarayusarayu832]

This is me every day! It’s a struggle and keeps a lot of beautiful and talented women out. We just get burnt out.

[@user-rx7uh9mg4f]

Same with science. I have her look and you have to play down your looks greatly so others will take you seriously

[@Tmo2024]

I hope you really don't do that. Just tell people to buzz off and threaten them with the law.​@@user-rx7uh9mg4f

[@signe1880]

It's bad everywhere. I have to work so much harder for respect.

[@thaboshikwambane]

Sadia’s miles ahead of everybody. She’s so good at what she does that you can’t ignore her. Wow… she’s outperforming tonnes of people (regardless of gender)

[@carrino15]

Much more feminine, articulate and intelligent than Candance Owens.

[@williamtorres4820]

Elegant, moral, and intelligent woman. A fresh breath of air!

[@CamilleSowell]

Dont forget beauttiful

[@JJmikra]

She's brilliant! I played this podcast while my teenage daughter is around. I hope she listened! 😊

[@jerusalem4492]

Don’t be passive. Talk to your children.

[@ModernDayMuse4You]

I’m so glad that you mentioned how people attack your appearance because I’ve been a target for that my entire life & couldn’t understand why. It’s like some people can’t handle a beautiful woman who also has brains. I am so self-deprecating too help people put their guard down to learn!

[@briandillow6767]

It really has nothing to do with your beauty & brains it has everything to do with women understanding men psychologically & vice versa once you see how the other sex ticks the rest falls in place, it’s understanding that person right in front of you once you have greater understanding of that sex & you can learn all aspects of the partner you chose the better you have long lasting love. But whether your smart & beautiful or not I’m still gonna go about it in the same way, those two things are far down the ladder of whether or not I can make a relationship with you last the duration. I look back dating girls 8’s & 9’s & 3’s & 4’s & if beauty was a factor I’d never have dated 3’s & 4’’s & as far as handling beauty no different. Guys feel more pressure in initially landing beautiful but that’s it. How was your appearance attacked? By a male? If it’s a female your talking about then nevermind I can’t learn what I need to learn if that’s the case

[@deemanga324]

And the worst offenders are other women. 🙄

[@ashtynrose1906]

Distance yourself from people who want to humble you like that, if you can.

[@monaissakarim7569]

This happened to me too. I know it's pretty awful

[@ay-tj7pj]

they just can't accept that a woman can be perfect in & out

[@prachigl5563]

This woman is a perfect example of Beauty with Very intelligent brains. Love all her videos and the way she puts her knowledge across ❤ Kudos Sadia .

[@ScottJB]

I'm glad you mention Fresh & Fit. They're 35 yo men trapped in 20 yo frat boy bodies. They're the opposite of what young men need to provide a pattern for healthy manliness.

[@thegraybeard]

So much content in these self help spaces is often centered around the entertainment value. Most content is about creating drama to get views. This was NOT that. The questions very well thought out. Sadia was absolutely on point with the feedback. Many thanks to you both. Fantastic conversation.

[@forevergreat4235]

Sadia’s brilliance and wisdom shone through this podcast. The insights she shared have truly transformed my approach to life and relationships overall .she is a beacon of knowledge 💯💯

[@kaymia396]

Omg!! I can resonate with Sadia, I was a supply teacher and the amount of flack I got off the female students was awful. I left teaching and qualified as a Solicitor. I remember I had to take a photo for the corporate firm I was working for. I was told by the photographer I looked far too glamorous, to take my pearl earrings off as I wouldn’t be taken seriously! I was so surprised to hear that! So what I learnt in the legal field was if your an attractive woman your not taken seriously! Sadia is 100% right!!

[@TheSunshinefee]

were the female students jealous

[@JD-fx1np]

Still single? 😮😅

[@juliallorente2719]

That is a HIGH value woman. She is intelligent, she have studied ( psychology?) And she is very feminine. I high value person knows how to develop both energies, Yin and Yan, and to present a perfect balance

[@simonkrebs6043]

She is spot on. The 3 most valuable characteristics in a good woman are : - Comes from a good family (Values) - She is loyal - She can be trusted She then has to inspire you and make you feel good when you are with her. Looking good does help with these aspects.

[@lafemmesociety7860]

Beauty exposes people insecurities.We do not need to apologize for putting effort in being the best versions of ourselves 💪

[@Russell_Huston]

12:48 What she says here about "pick wisely" is really important. And what she means in this idea, is picking with an eye toward valuing good character. If you value trustworthiness, kindness, and responsibility in others, you can't go far wrong in who you join yourself to in life. You can give most everything to someone like that and not be taken advantage of. Unfortunately, some people grow up in families where they don't see examples to follow in this regard. It looks like perhaps Sadia has had good examples, good for her.

[@briandillow6767]

Most important decision in life is who you marry, but you can find girls with all those assets your speaking of & that don’t mean it’s gonna be good long lasting relationship you really have to understand women that’s the key thing, hell 50% of marriages fail you can have all the trust kindness responsibility you want but really knowing all aspects of women that’s the best preventative thing you can do to stop the divorce

[@mustaphaumar4798]

This is so amazing the way she table things out. I have a friend who is experiencing such trauma, her obsession over men is so negetive because her mum got divorced and her daddy is not there for her over 9 years, now she is finding it so difficult to date always assuming stuff over her nice boy friend.

[@barbarascolaro2013]

Every one of her interviews I learn something new. She is brilliant! You asked great questions! ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

[@Paeoniarosa]

Of all the men who have interviewed Sadia, he has asked the most thoughtful questions.

[@laveeshsharma7218]

One of the BEST podcasts I’ve gained from. FANTASTIC Sadia, keep going… society needs more of the likes of you!

[@ellebelle222]

This woman is so touching. She brought me to tears.

[@Mercy1-]

I swear

[@SamSteeles]

Yeah, me too, except my tears wee caused by the realization I will never be able to do any smooching with her.

[@John.Wilson]

So much of what she talked about resinated with me. One bad decision will definitely have another follow but one good decision and maintained can start a sequence positive outcomes. Killer episode Frankie!

[@FrankieLeePodcast]

Appreciate you listening in brother 💯

[@TammyReneeCoaching]

Frankie, I never knew about you until today when I was binge listening to Sadia’s interviews. You have asked such phenomenal questions that this is by far the best interview I’ve seen of her. You have a new subscriber and I’m blown away. She is so straightforward and almost everything she said hit me right in my soul and resonated. WOW!!

[@vvsbee5694]

I like her... Most of this stuffs common sense but realistically the whole "high value" is getting boring. The highest value is having the basics of integrity and mutual respect 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@katibac1763]

Sadia is a true role model for girls x

[@SusanWinter]

FABULOUS Interview with this lovely lady. I've appreciated her astute commentary for quite some time now, and this was my first chance to earn a little more about her as a person. Keep putting out the great interviews, Frankie!

[@FrankieLeePodcast]

Appreciate your support Susan 🙏🏼

[@bobjohnson3940]

She's sharp. You can tell she has an understanding of what she's saying and she's thought deeply about it because one's impression is these thoughts and opinions are her own. Stumbled on this on accident. Cheers.

[@justcallmebookworm7543]

I don't necessarily agree with everything that Sadia says, but her much more level-headed perspective is a much needed counter-balance to the messaging by the red pill guys.

[@xxzstatixx562]

Thank you for clarifying what a real high-value man is supposed to be for those that don't seem to comprehend what that means. 🎉

[@cgarcia660]

There’s so much judgement on fat or overweight people. But people don’t realize how stressful modern life effects the body and how greedy corporations have a monopoly on the choices we have. People eat and consume for energy and comfort but if they suffer from trauma they cannot be mindful of how their body feels. They just need instant relief and there is desperation produced by stressors. I wish this subject matter was more thoroughly covered especially because fat phobia is such a huge roadblock when it comes to dating. Experts like Sadia should model the kind of empathy that people suffering in the dating market need. This is coming from a fit mother of three who’s been married for over 17 years.

[@bellavita3097]

Amen! Men treat women well. As a single gal, I see married women how they’re more content more soft, more happy because they don’t have to pull the weight of two people pulling the weight of two people even with a wonderful father in childhood is a huge task for one person life is meant for two we need to have more social functions to bring people together.

[@FA6682]

I consider myself high value (my sons first said I was high value and I had to look up what it meant) based on my values and my lifestyle and not because I am selective over men - my value isn’t aligned to men

[@marrencebaraquiel]

yes!!!!!!!!!!! i agree

[@baeconater8]

I’m so sick of these generalizations, each person and story is soooo unique. People are holding onto these generalized stereotypes that are being plastered all over social media and people start making assumptions and acting like psychologists. But the interviewer asked amazing questions!!

[@yasminogbu8929]

Agreed! It’s unbelievable the assumptions are nuts. I’ve seen men saying women are going to be single forever to married women 🙈 the assumptions are crazy. Life & people are highly complexed

[@briandillow6767]

You are so right peoples situations are or can be vastly different

[@maymonaabdi6792]

I am absolutely on your side I am sick and tired of the OUTSIDE perspective looking outside of peoples lives and making passive non reality judgements omg I did not appreciate her fat phobia comment about people who are overweight her comments perpetuate the same BS that is circulating online that is of MAN focused and what has been creating all the divisions I don’t discard her words or anyone’s words because she has a few good things to say but as a society we must be challenging how much we OVER value and UNDER value people once someone can discard a whole human being’s experience without respecting the human experience I stop hearing the message because every persons an individual and it’s so hard for some people then others and everyone is unique and specific and everyone has to learn on their own with help of community but I have such sadness when people can so easily judge another persons pain based on how big they are some people can NOT loose weight their born to be big also science is reevaluating the BMI they are finding out that it’s not the one way for someone to be healthy anyways god help us all many people think they have all this knowledge but their forgotten the one thing that truly matters is LOVE OF HUMANITY!!!!

[@yasminogbu8929]

@mayam , Love what you’ve wrote ! I absolutely agree with you! Love for humanity! Actually value the things that matter in human beings ( their individuality & uniqueness ) Let’s meet people with kindness & understanding - anything else is dysfunctional.

[@yasminogbu8929]

@dy funny enough! You just assumed what I was taking about 😂🤣! I was saying people on the internet mainly men say to random women who they know nothing about - YOUR going to be single with a cat! And yet I’ve seen so many women reply saying “ I’m married “ I saw one guy saying to me that I have no idea what buying a property through auction was and yet I own a property. The assumption people on the internet make about a random peoples comments is CRAzy! And to add yes I have seen that states. But unless men are marrying women a crazy rates in another country - for every women who is single so is a man. I also don’t think it’s the solution to pump babies out of women who don’t want them, just so they can become worker ants for the government. I also don’t think talking about women having kids without talking about a soild great relationship / marriage to bringing them up in shouldn’t be talked about. Some women who have kids are not even good mums, beings. Good mother and dad is more important than actually having them. So it’s a BIG SUBJECT

[@shamalatif3088]

I’m waiting for a conference with both Sadia Khan and Gabor Mate on the panel. 🔥

[@g-man3093]

Tremendous exchange. If you’re the consumer there’s so much wisdom and common sense from Sadia on relationship seeking that this is the first and only one you need to watch on the topic. If you’re a podcaster you’ll learn how to prepare to draw out the best in your guest. Pretty darn amazing!

[@meganpittman0615]

Thank you Sadie for talking about PEACE! As a woman I am so tired of hearing this comment from lazy, chaotic? Toxic, unhealthy, unhealed men who are out here creating chaos through their behaviors with women and then gaslighting women by screaming like toddlers demanding they want peace. Peace comes from within first and radiates out. Peace in a relationship is co-created. Peace is being emotionally available to resolve conflict, be a good listener and validate your partner, resolve conflict and reassure their partner.

[@tshireletsojohnson-basupi1777]

Thank you for inviting, Sadia. Sadia is a wise woman….. God bless her on this journey of teaching the world good ways of living👌👌👌

[@willia_mbrown]

One of the most valuable podcasts I've ever watched. Thanks again Frankie, and Sadia

[@FrankieLeePodcast]

Appreciate you listening brother

[@LeeBradleyArt]

This was one of the most enjoyable and intelligent podcast I've listened to in a longtime.

[@yinzhuli2746]

While it's true that having unrealistic or overly specific criteria for a partner can limit your dating pool and potentially lead to frustration, it's also important to consider the following points: Individual Preferences: People have their own unique preferences when it comes to what they find attractive in a partner. It's okay to have preferences, and it's not necessary to change them simply because you're not getting attention from people who fit those criteria. Attraction is subjective, and there's no one-size-fits-all approach to dating. Compatibility: Attraction is just one aspect of a successful relationship. Compatibility in terms of values, interests, and personality traits is often more important for long-term happiness and relationship satisfaction. It's important to find someone who aligns with you on these deeper levels. Communication: Healthy communication is key in any relationship. It's not just about finding someone who looks a certain way; it's also about being able to connect on an emotional and intellectual level. Two people can be attracted to each other and have a strong connection even if they don't exactly match specific physical criteria. Self-Respect: It's important for individuals to value themselves and have self-respect in the dating process. Changing your preferences solely to gain attention from someone may lead to feeling unauthentic and unfulfilled in the long run. It's better to be true to yourself and seek a partner who appreciates you for who you are.

[@PetarChorbadzhiev-wd5qc]

I'm 20minutes in and I'm loving the conversation. I would really have loved it if the subject of being raised by a single mother went more into detail and not suddenly changed. It really put a new thought into my mind and I wish I couldve understood how we can battle the brainwashing in order to not put women on a pedestal and becoming more balanced in thinking of males and females in life. Continuing now. Can't wait to see where this conversation is going. Sadia has a great way of explaining things. Good work

[@GodWinsInTheEnd]

EVERY SINGLE WORD this woman says resonates with me intuitively as truth, whether I'd thought about it before or not.

[@LoveLabConnection]

Just loved listening to you two ❤ Sadia has helped me in more ways than I could imagine. I've taken accountability for my actions and doing the work to improve in all aspects. Thank you

[@bricelegendnducho]

just recently knew of Sadia and I'm such in love with her believes and standards,amazing mindset,this is what young people should listen too.More grace ma'am

[@mariaheart5883]

Thank you Sadia and Frankie for this great informative video, I loved how you talked about why women go back to toxic relationships and how men with low self esteem behave I am in this women's group and I keep seeing women in toxic relationships post about how they love the man who doesn't value them, I would like to see Sadia talk more about that, and also how to connect emotionally to a man in more detail, thank you ❤

[@user-kv6cw5km8m]

Second this! Great questions!

[@marinaiocca1088]

Such a beautiful and graceful woman. Mostly agree with her, sometimes I don’t, but she always provides food for thought and self-reflection ❤

[@jacobclayton2954]

Agreed. I think its a healthy balance. You take what works and leave the rest for others.🙂

[@rainiminiatures2184]

exactly! i see a lot of people completely discredit her over one statement that they don't agree with like chill peeps! nobody is going to 100% align with another human being. What works for one person might not work for another person. I'd say what she says is generally true, maybe about 70% if I'm to be really skeptical, but most times what she says really makes me think. Love her content.

[@johnsmasterplan]

Interesting Sadia explained being self concious about her looks. I had noticed this coming out in a number of her videos so far. I am glad she is aware of it.

[@jeanannedupratt7075]

She makes a point of marketing herself, for sure.

[@baybaddie7883]

As a woman I truly admire her. Even though I do not have the same education background as her , I grew up and observed allot and learned from other people or through my own experience. I literally speak the same language and its good to know I have the right understanding,on top of refreshing that other women think alike

[@monicagallardo1]

I love how she speaks about the bad effects on pornography!! I’m so happy she is very well known ❤

[@TruthFinder7839]

I really admire her for her knowledge, she it explains modern relationships very clearly. I was married for 23 years to a beautiful Persian woman, and just now I’m looking at possible dating and looking for a new life partner. I’m amazed at the new words being used, the dissecting of men and women and their personalities, and what they typically want and need for a great relationship. I can validate what she describes is a true high value woman, and I was and still am a high value man. How you respect yourself and you respect your body and project to others is essential, and not just an acting game. Neither one of us dated anyone else, and we don’t have time for the whole dating game, we could see quickly if we had compatibility or not in very short order. In our case we talked on the telephone for roughly 4 weeks constantly day and night, and we discussed everything under the sun, and built up trust and friendship first without even seeing each other. When it was time to meet, it was the time to decide if we were to get engaged or not, but not any boy friend or girl friend dating. I agreed to this decision and asked for two weeks to decide, then I agreed to propose to her.

[@TruthFinder7839]

An update now. I’ve still never dated since before my marriage in 1993, divorced 5 years no dating apps not searching for someone for until now I felt the urge to move on. I told a couple of friends who made quick suggestions of personal friends of theirs and behold 2 high value women one older than me by 9 years Lebanese a great personality, and one American also uniquely owns her personality which matches mine perfectly and she is 11 years younger. All three of us haven’t been on the dating scene and use social media limiting. We are 56 to 76 age range, I’m in the middle at 67. This is what high value means to be and maintain this lifestyle within an age that grows and becomes more interesting and rare with time.

[@user-ee2qq4hp3z]

Can I, being a Muslim woman, just congratulate another Muslim woman - Sadia Khan for upholding familial relationships and marriage. Which is what Islam fundamentally preserves. Masha'Allah darling keep soaring!

[@valeriet4175]

So sorry this is also taught in Christianity . tradition and family values are the center of Christ's teachings. With the decline of Christianity in the West, these values slowly eroded and replaced with materialism, consumerism, feminism... all the "isms" that humanity has lost its grounds and lost their most fundamental values. Christianity, however, goes even further than Islam. Because Christ teaches to love one another because of God is love. Whereas in Islam its about subduing and submission. Where's your freedom there ? Kadia's insights are universel and therefore is regardless of religion. Just saying that in today's world when we no longer need God, we lose what is essentially human.

[@AzuraTarot]

marriage and family are the core of pretty much ANY healthy society, regardless of culture or religion.

[@IndigoHazelnut]

Just came across Sadhia Khan.. She seems incredible. It's true.. We do need 2 parents.. Even more important.. 2 emotionally available parents

[@avinashsuhas4070]

What an amazing woman of wisdom! Thank you! May you be happy and free from suffering :)

[@bpassion4fashion581]

Thank you for touching on the subject of “ pretty privilege .” I have experienced that all my life. I had to pay the price of being objectified by men and hate by women when all I want is real connection. It made me a people pleaser and made me work hard to gain love and approval from others . And only if I shrank myself could I sometimes feel I fit in. I have noticed what you mentioned about you not taking yourself too serous ( I personally find it cute ) and I can see that is a smart way to address the elephant in the room from the beginning. Rooting for you and your work, gorgeous !

[@elliesantini1859]

She’s the best. I resonate with everything she’s saying 🙌🏻 not only is she smart she’s gorgeous. Keep shining Sadia.

[@PhoneNHe]

Can listening to her wisdom and scientific perspective all day long. I learned to apply what I can take from it and it improved my marriage. Thank you Frankie for this high profile guest.

[@youxanyou]

Just found this channel, Frankie is such a good interviewer, nice flow, keeps it interesting till last second. Of course, Sadia is such a good source of knowledge and thinking.

[@mahmoudsiralkatim3068]

It would be very interesting if you could invite Nasir Al Amin, he is also a brilliant psychologist, and it would be a male perspective in the same field. thank you for this episode. your questions make it very joyful. And Sadia is presenting values as always.

[@sac856]

Far, very far from hideous are you Miss Khan.. You are Incredibly refreshing and somewhat encouraging from a male perspective that such woman as yourself are openly presenting, high quality values. 💐

[@lanaconstanti-nova6379]

That is so true, I am Russian kiwi while I lived and worked at one German deli in NZ men would often comment how easy 🇷🇺 girls are. I got used to it and just ignored it. Because I am a quarter German then working in this shop was kind of fun. I met some amazing people who went on their private yachts around the world. They influenced me so much so I studied as an ESL teacher and went to teach in Taiwan. So, I learnt at that time to turn something negative into positive.

[@luckywinner4936]

Please listen to this lady. She is full of wisdom. She's so refreshing. Wish I can meet her in person.

[@preetsrivastava7970]

her statement re single moms seperating the father excludes the the situation of the X being dangerous. which is usually the case a woman would separate the kids from his /her father . she is only 30 and unmarried and w no kids . not someone to take advice from . she is full of confidence to find her own highvalue man.

[@PreachTan-gp5gw]

SADIA KHAN, a name to remember, she is so realistic and so spot on about the world, thank you utube for putting this podcast on my choices and thank you, Frankie Lee. The talk is so relatable to us all and every word of it I have to focus on I want to hear her again after a set number of years . She is so real it is nice to see such character do exist even in our new post covid world

[@charlottesarahsmith8634]

Her definition of high value women is just a little absurd… high value men are men that look for beautiful tall women with 8-10/10 appearances and then look at other factors such as moral values …. As high value men have the best options for women due to their status. But for women it is not the case , you could be independent, have a great job, education, respectful and have great morals and all other factors but your appearance “natural appearance “ might not be as great as the some women and therefore never get to chance with high value men. I see this all the time there are women have good jobs, education, that go to the gym, eat well, are well dressed and stylish but don’t have an hour glass figure or might not have big lips or not as tall as the norm and they are single because of that. It is just a fact we can’t say these women are not high value.

[@prettybabessss]

looks like the problem is men have too high standards. who cares if she doesnt have a big butt. if shes pretty and ambitious with a pleasant personality that should be good enough

[@TheSunshinefee]

true. you have it all but lack in pysical beauty and they will ignore you

[@sirgalahad2]

No, her definition is still fine. If they are still single, that means they have said no to the suitors, because there have been suitors. Believe that. Also note, some of the things you said do not translate to attraction triggers for men the same way they translate from men to women. So for example, independence or a great job are not necessarily impressive to men. However, eating well, going to the gym, being stylish, educated, respectful, and with solid morals are. We can still say they are high value. We often conflate high value for the highest value. And when we think of "high-value men" we actually think of the top 1%, when genuinely the top 15% are still high value. Same with women. Just because she isn't in the top 1% of "high-value women" doesn't mean they are not high-value. Like she says in other points in the video, you need to align your expectations and go after the people that are attracted to you. And people tend to be attracted on a deeper level to people similar to them. So a top 10% man can feasibly get with a top 10% woman. But if one goes for a top 1% or a 50% partner, there will be a misalignment. The point is, they are still high value. Once they determine their value level and seek partners within that range, they will have a lot more success.

[@mrdouche9172]

Height for a woman doesn't matter as much. Hourglass figure and fit, obviously if you have those it's a plus. But as long as you have a decent body, what matters the most when it comes to beauty is obviously the face. If the woman is plain looking in the face, she is not high value. That's just reality. But that goes both ways. If a man doesn't look good, he can't be high value either. And while it's theoretically possible for everyone to become a multimillionaire, statistically only a tiny percentage of men will ever be.

[@thaboshikwambane]

It’s the sad truth lol. High value isn’t accurate. I like the term “elite value men/women” There’s this erroneous notion in society that everybody’s elite value. No. The women you described who have everything but looks are NOT elite - that’s the sad truth. The sad truth is that men value appearance more than A LOT of things and we can’t change the truth just because it makes some people upset. It is what it is.

[@Star-dz3ei]

As a single Mom, 50 year old, once happily engaged 💍, had a few great long term relationships, been asked to be married by several boyfriends. Said No to All of them. Focused on college and my career in my 20s, 30s, 40s. So glad I never married. Due to watching My Mom get left by Men. So I told myself I will never let a stupid man do that. Living my best life single and dating here and there. But I see now why I run from being locked 🔒 down in marriage by any man. I saw all men run from my mom in the 70s. So I guess I still have not resolved my childhood trauma of being raised by just one parent. I learned so much from this discussion with Sadia and Frankie Lee. I know I can work thru this and learn to stay with a man. I have a lot of inner work to do. I run from men as my brain only knows all men leave good women. My Mom was a great woman and never deserved what happened to her. 🏡 great thoughtful interview. I learned a lot.

[@Maxkil]

every podcast so far has been really interesting. I'm really enjoying it!

[@FrankieLeePodcast]

Appreciate it and I hope you’re subscribed it helps massively

[@Maxkil]

@@FrankieLeePodcast of course I am buddy.

[@brycekoch7244]

Wow this just blew my mind. How to know if a man of high value, see what level of woman he can get to submit to him. Very well said, thank you!

[@faye_bulous]

Waouh this was an insightful conversation, Sadia's knowledge is one of a kind. She beautifully broke down traumas in a digestible way.

[@roberta8673]

This is a high value women. Beautiful, well spoken, caring, feminine, brave, humble.

[@000Revelation]

Another dope episode literally will be re-watching this again, very insightful and a shout out to Sadia

[@carromboard3451]

She makes great points.Growing up with two parents is only good as their behaviour and interaction with each other

[@Sayoof]

This was a very interesting topic. Clears all the main questions related to dating for men and women. Thank you

[@khankhalifa8555]

A breathe of fresh air ! Loved every bit of this podcast 👌🏻👏🏻

[@user-hm5gv1qt4j]

I love to listen to this psychologist. She is so balance in her presentation, and also very objective

[@susun7771]

This is an absolutely insightful interview ❤

[@dvillafane6477]

Dr. Khan thank you for mentioning the social media thing. Following women liking pictures etc. As it made me upset in a long distance relationship 💔

[@banikavijay5317]

Im so much in love with this woman. Absolute brilliance!

[@cindyashruf8152]

Thank you so much sadia for this podcast.i was also a single mum for 20 year.i am now in a committed relationship with an angel of a man .i refused to marry my sons father.he asked me 3 times.i cant marry a playboy.believe me son has a trauma that his dad was not in. His life.💗💗💗💗

[@gausselim1474]

Great Pod! Sadia is phenomenal. Hope you continue with such high quality... I will be tuning in. Thank you!!

[@sanjeevbains690]

Choose the person that chooses you ❤

[@zimzim1200]

Enjoyed every second of this podcast Hats off to the both of you for making this happen

[@toemas8]

It’s amazing what Sadia says about mothers attitudes towards their exes. My ex wife looks at everything through her eyes and has gone to extreme lengths to keep my daughters from their dad. This in spite of her affair being the cause of the end of our relationship. She calls me a narcissist and and abuser in-spite of that not being true at all.

[@NovaSky986]

Sadia psychology is amazing and thanks for your knowledge

[@popps33]

Amen! It’s not just Peace but also Respect. Peace is created and Respect is earn.

[@vanessaskin]

I love the intro of this conversation. I can 100% relate with struggles of being attacked and simply the struggles for being "attractive". And I have struggled so much with not even accepting myself. it was comforting to hear someone else know what it feels like because I don't see it much. I usually see women who are attractive "know" they are and do fine bc their jobs are perfect fit for it, they attract partners who might value that over other qualities while I on the other hand struggle to find myself attractive as I am often labeled and to not fit in with the type of personality and values I have. Additionally, "attractive" or not doesn't mean i simply also value taking care of myself and fashion but not over the top either. I think you don't have to spend hours and loads of money to accomplish this, simply a little effort. Hope I made sense, rambling lol. Loved this convo!

[@shouahang3038]

Thank you so much for this podcast! I have learned a lot about myself watching this and now I have the confirmation that social media truly distorts concepts, ideas, etc and ruins/damages people. I have forwarded this to my step daughter and hope that she can learn from this too!

[@mustaphaumar4798]

The ending advice was so so awesome. . . Thanks both of you for such a discussion

[@JoyNordenstrom]

Hi Frankie, This is my first time seeing your show. Wonderful conversation with Sadia! One great point was when you were curious about this: "...in these open relationships, what you're saying then is they're just in those relationships not because they're truly, in essence, happy with it but because they're just dealing with wounds that they don't even know they're dealing with. And their pleasure-seeking is some level of internal turmoil." Sadia replied, "And they're thinking pleasure-seeking is going to get rid of that sadness; it's going to get rid of that emptiness; it's going to get rid of that shame. But pleasure-seeking is the opposite of happiness. True happiness comes from a stable healthy peace." Thank you for the interview! I look forward to watching others.

[@TheDoats]

The single mothers who keep children away from their fathers isn't about the father's at all. It's about themselves. They are the true narcissists. They have to be the victim because being the victim means they don't have to accept any responsibility for their own actions.

[@pearl6038]

I didn't grow up with a dad and I am totally aware of how that affects me as a woman.

[@kucingninja7934]

Wow... Great conversation. 👏 This is so meaningful to me. Watching this is like you asking the questions in my mind that I really want to find the answer, Frankie. Thank you so much, Frankie and Sadia. You are great. 👍👍👍