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@sadiapsychology5 ай бұрын
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@sonyabladewins18814 ай бұрын
If I ever get the opportunity to meet you in person, I'll be honoured!
@shrilekha753 ай бұрын
Who is the interviewer?
@HANANEC10 ай бұрын
How To Be more feminine : 1- Start accepting, recieving. 2- Comunicating our needs. Speaking Up. 3- Choising a partner who wants the same Life objectifs (starting a family or not …etc)
@isabellezionchipochaishe71039 ай бұрын
2. is Nurturing and 3 is Boundaries. Communicating our needs was an answer to what mistakes do you think most women make
@draftcomment2comment2329 ай бұрын
difficult to receive when uve had to sleep with someone twice against your will because you were charged with being the house-sitter, without being asked, so thought it your duty to protect the family furniture, fittings etc, but then suffered awful social degradation, including from same ppl who volunteered you to be surrogate parent and 'sitter', and psychological pain, as a result.
@frusia1239 ай бұрын
@@draftcomment2comment232 Sleeping with someone against your will has nothing to do with receiving. It's called rape, and it's a crime. It's absolutely normal to feel psychological pain after such an experience, I hope you can find help, and if possible, report the offender to the police.
@therealkoolaidandkale9 ай бұрын
@draftcomment2comment232 In the most kind way, I hope that you consider talking to the police and a therapist (if you're not already) vs the internet. Someone forcing you to sleep with them against your will is a crime, and there's not much that we here in the internet comments can do. All the best to you and your healing. 💛🙏🏾
@Jblah7 ай бұрын
Thats not being feminine. Those things are common sense regardless of gender. Being feminine is the opposite of being masculine. But a woman that knows how to kick ass can still be very much feminine.
@isabellezionchipochaishe71039 ай бұрын
1. Start receiving 2. Be nurturing 3. Boundaries
@lwendobanda29868 ай бұрын
I have always thought nurturing is a masculine😮
@luciannypacherres3577 ай бұрын
@@lwendobanda2986provide n nurtured are 2 different things
@pepepo4432Ай бұрын
@@lwendobanda2986 You're right. Nurturing and boundaries are both masculine :)
@Himmiefan7 күн бұрын
@@pepepo4432 Feminine too.
@Sexyhamster2493 ай бұрын
I understand on the surviving mode, and being tired. I was with a feminine man before, and he doesn’t like to make decisions and take the lead. I ended up leading on everything. In the end, I got exhausted, and we broke up. Being with a masculine partner now, and I let him lead (He is happy to lead), and I am so peaceful and happy. When I don’t have to think of our next step all the time, I have sometime to think about the next step for myself. ❤️
@youtubeaccount24769 ай бұрын
I love it how she is beautifull and intelligent, but doesn't act arrogant en still comes off as very humble giving great advice.
@AmyMohamed3559 ай бұрын
It’s all a act and I see through it
@helenadiontv85258 ай бұрын
@@AmyMohamed355Maybe,you can act better!!!
@bibinek99507 ай бұрын
@@AmyMohamed355exactly
@mhuntprofessional3 ай бұрын
In some other interviews she has actually openly admitted she has self-confidence issues and is frequently self-deprecating to sort of pre-emptively appease an expected aggression she has experienced most of her professional life. Which to me is quite heart-breaking because she is very intelligent and well spoken. But apparently in her field if you are those things but ALSO choose to express yourself in an attractive and ladylike way, everyone just automatically assumes you're a bimbo or a slut or whatever. And would frequently treat her very disrespectfully. So she developed mechanisms to work around that and make herself more likeable, but I think it came at the cost of some pretty deep internal self esteem. She's not faking being nice. She's faking NOT being insecure. And thats a sad thing for anyone to have to do. And worse when there's literally NOTHING for her to be insecure about but she still feels that way because of years of abusive treatment...
@user-yl1ko7sg6t3 ай бұрын
She is pro sharia law and its beautiful . She is perfect marriage material . Longevity for sure
@nickyb80898 ай бұрын
I like Sadia because she mentions that she has made the same mistakes too. She is relatable and not pretending she gets it right all the time herself ❤
@complexfellow4961Ай бұрын
Sadia truly keeps it 100% real . 👏🏽
@helenaevaherczegh88957 ай бұрын
Yes, at my workplace, people say.. I am too good,too, carrying to kind,too nice.., I can hear people think I am weak because of this....I can't change, and I won't ......maybe I just have to have more boundaries...
@amyj.49929 ай бұрын
Yeap, people have attacked my femininity too and so that's when I realized my femininity is a gift but being kind to others is free
@amyj.49929 ай бұрын
Party girl looking for "love"
@LejlaEnigma91-oy1mj9 ай бұрын
I have both energy ,I am brutally feminine soft woman ,I can go from one extreme to another in a second! I know my power ! Depends on the situation and work I’m doing
@123smarties6 ай бұрын
@Silvanasilva-oy1mj brutal and feminine don't even belong in the same sentence.
@shanamohanty22536 ай бұрын
Den u r a bi
@nanonano.beepbeep5 ай бұрын
@123smarties Have you ever seen a bear protecting her cub? Now, if the Bible warns you that there is no comparison between said bear and a woman scorned, why would feminine and brutal not belong in the same sentence? I can be feminine and still handle myself with grace and hands.
@Ivan_is_still_alive_trust_me5 ай бұрын
@@123smartiesI'm sorry, but in life, a woman's gotta be extreme at times. If she's just soft and feminine in specific situations, lifes gonna eat her up
@sasharemez74597 ай бұрын
If your man is a narcissist, telling him your needs he will us them against you. I always told my ex, but he would exploit it and cause me pain. This tip of communicating a need works with a normal man.
@3RedHearts6 ай бұрын
Receive, Nurture, Boundaries ❤❤❤
@956judith9 ай бұрын
I love Sadia! I’m a teacher too, but sadly even when I was in middle school I saw so many girls talk like men(curse) and physically fight with other females. Femininity is not weakness ❤
@TheQueenIsWithin9 ай бұрын
Femininity is a social construct. Even in nature females fight each other. To say women shouldn't curse or fight just because of biology is foolish. Women have feelings and we're not perfect. I think it's unfair males get to make mistakes and we brand it as boys will be boys, but we act as if girls have to be perfect all the time. Then considering how hard men have made this society not showing assertiveness will place you at a disadvantage. In some cases what femininity has been packaged as has put women at a disadvantage and in some very dangerous situations too.
@denisesmith86578 ай бұрын
You’re right, “femininity is not a weakness”, but society thinks it is. Consider the phrase, “don’t be a p*ssy!” that a lot men use against each other-since that word is used to name a part of the female anatomy, I think that translates to don’t be a female/weak/woman.
@Bbytelle7 ай бұрын
She condones domestic violence. Be careful who you take advice from
@caseylynn59767 ай бұрын
@@Bbytellewhat do you mean? When/where did she condone DV?
@nosponge17 ай бұрын
She supports Hamas and won't condemn beheading babies and burning children alive.
@josepablolunasanchez12834 ай бұрын
My wife is the wholesome type. I love her. I live far away from Dubai.
@emmaritchiewellness9 ай бұрын
Love your encouragment to hold true for what you need and your value. So many people sacrifice and drop their standards because they feel starved of love. Keep reinforcing your own self worth and your own self love and don't accept crumbs !! xx
@SpeakerGregoryDwyer8 ай бұрын
So glad to hear your voice in this world.
@IndigoHazelnut9 ай бұрын
Sadia you seem to be such a beautiful human being, inside and out. Thank you for making this content and for making an emphasis about the importance of bridging the gap between men and women. Much love
@shahishah-fo3po7 ай бұрын
Woww I like the last line"what comes quickly, goes quickly" very right....Good and genuine things takes time to build....✌
@Barbiestardoll7 ай бұрын
Thank you for adding such high value to what a woman/lady should be like.👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@shahinakhan94717 ай бұрын
Wow u definitely good Sadia beta. I am a grandmother and our generation was definitely very different from todays. We were patient loving caring and very considerate and made life changing compromises!!! ❤
@terrisolaroli41697 ай бұрын
Thank you Sadie! So enjoy your grounded sound wisdom!!!🙏💕✨🥰
@fionah34339 ай бұрын
I once saw a quote on FB. It said "Women are not here to do what men can do, we are here to do what men can't do." I thought that was interesting. It seems the concepts of masculinity and femininity have both become very twisted and tied up into a Gordian knot in our culture. It has become very difficult to unravel. This could become a very long post but I will try and be concise. Somewhere along the line women were brainwashed into thinking that nurturing was analogous to being subservient or servile which was somehow seen as "less than." Of course there are many things that men and women can BOTH do, but I think the point of the quote was thought provoking. Men have really been painted into a corner too. Many of the inherently masculine characteristics are now being termed "toxic." Certainly the negative interpretations of this may be true, particularly for men themselves. If you haven't read it, I recommend The Hazards of Being Male. The positive manifestations of masculinity and femininity both should be embraced, encouraged and celebrated. I think the beginning of the problem started with the assumption of gender roles being the ONLY choice for men and women and that they had to be very rigid and were used to force people into molds that were not natural to them but were promoted as being the only acceptable societal choice. Many people are quite happy in embracing traditional gender roles as delineated in Western society. Not everyone is, and we all need to find (or make) our own place in the world. When certain psychological characteristics were determined to be masculine or feminine, it caused a divide. We all have both kinds of characteristics to a greater or lesser degree. I am pretty much a tomboy but loving and nurturing people and animals comes very naturally to me and I embrace it as the best part of myself. I became a caregiver, nursing assistant and mental health therapy tech. I love the part about anticipating needs - very important in both personal and business relationships. Customers like to feel nurtured and cared for too. One comment on the pleasure part mentioned in this video. Pleasure is not the same as happiness. Dr.Robert Lustig's Pleasure vs Happiness videos are wonderful and say it much better than I can- long versions and short versions both available on KZbin.
@janelysantiago32014 ай бұрын
Excellent
@Himmiefan7 күн бұрын
I think conservative religion, any conservative religion, has played a big part in making the roles very rigid with women on the losing end. As for masculine traits, those labeled toxic are the ones that insecure, emotionally troubled, or narcissistic men use such as being domineering and putting down women and wanting to control them.
@almira_elli7 ай бұрын
For me, receiving and speaking up have been transformative steps on my path to true femininity. It's like a sacred dance of self-discovery. 💖
@VeX007868 ай бұрын
There is something unique about Sadia when she speaks. It feels like she is the peoples emotions. She is able to articulate exactly what our needs and emotions try to tell us.
@Bbytelle7 ай бұрын
No she’s not. She told me I should be hit harder. She is not the peoples emotions. She has no credentials. She publicly condoned domestic violence in her very public comments
@chiamakaenansofor46609 ай бұрын
The advice to stay true to who you are and what you desire 🥰
@safirasaiyan77 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your contribution for all of us ❤
@shekar2228 ай бұрын
Femininity has has been a topic of interest and discussion for the past 10 years or so.Many useful guidance out there.
@laura-jovanniekerk17839 ай бұрын
She is spot on. From start to finish. I could identify with so much of what she said. The real HVW❤
@Lucky_Ruby_19727 ай бұрын
Thank you I real needed to hear this ❤
@marialourdesmendoza61876 ай бұрын
As I raised myself and become a strong woman, i forgot to be feminine. And it has a huge impact to my relationships. I didnt realized that until I listened to podcasts about how to be feminine. And it is for us ourselves as a woman, not actually for others/ partners.
@user-mj6qr2ky9d6 ай бұрын
Uh so what are u doing about it?
@dwanjiku154 ай бұрын
Am in this too. Some men think am a strong woman. Circumstances have taught me to up my game coz am the captain of my own ship
@11zen454 ай бұрын
Fantastic! Thank you for sharing your wisdom. X
@CookieCurls3 ай бұрын
She’s amazing. So eloquently spoken
@towandaallen3148 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing the truth, will pass this on, stay blessed and keep shining! Let's go! 👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦👩👩👧👦
@clarevela81817 ай бұрын
I aspire to keep my calm and cool like Sadia around difficult and controversial ppl! Love you mamas!!
@gofrankurdi Жыл бұрын
Thank you fellow feminine goddess for the beautiful reminder ✨🤍✨🦋💫🤍✨
@-jl.6 ай бұрын
I needed this as a young girl becoming more feminine 🤍🤍 Thank you so much ☺️
@kamillabingham7718 Жыл бұрын
She is who a real high value woman is! Ladies learn from the best, Sadia….
@SaraCaspian9 ай бұрын
Please stop telling women what to do.
@alinan43209 ай бұрын
@@SaraCaspianamen
@the8thchurch4619 ай бұрын
As long as you know that like everyone else, you are entitled to your opinion.....
@frusia1239 ай бұрын
What you really meant was this: "I would love to date a woman like her". And that's great. It's normal and healthy. What's not normal and not healthy is telling half of the population of the world that they should try and imitate a woman you fancy.
@msstar74159 ай бұрын
@sara Please stop telling other women what they can and cannot say.
@ayanhas34499 ай бұрын
I love being feminine 💐✨
@OmolemoKhara9 ай бұрын
Saaaaaaaaaaammmme
@cassiejohnson37969 ай бұрын
I’ve been listening to her since forever! She is amazing!
@Tropical1887 ай бұрын
thank you sadia❤ learnt a lot from ya
@lolahalim18 ай бұрын
What a pleasure for my mind to listen to Sadia! ❤❤❤
@raheelaawais7628 ай бұрын
Everyone needs to watch this. She has nailed.❤
@larajohnson73816 ай бұрын
I love listening to her , so so wise and real and beautiful ❤
@orianagarcia81422 ай бұрын
I needed to hear this❤
@lambertiheanacho852910 ай бұрын
You're in perfect alignment with Nature!❤❤❤
@tangeroiseinmunich92336 ай бұрын
ما شاء الله عليك ❤ بالصحة و الراحة
@christinfierro80097 ай бұрын
Not so much codependency as interdependence. Agree with this perspective. It took a lot of life to learn and relax into this.
@tsholotiro45688 ай бұрын
That last part!!! It’s lonely, it’s hard, but I’m staying the course
@ITsoKAY_156 ай бұрын
I'm really glad I stumbled upon thus video.
@aliparker37 ай бұрын
Femininity, to me, is stepping into the fullest expression of yourself. That's subjective. ❤ I think there's some confusion among others as we embrace our natural self and identities because from the outside, it may seem more masculine for some. For me, I'm hyper feminine. For others, their truest self may not.
@No-js8bs8 ай бұрын
I strive to be a traditional woman. I want to be confident and secure in myself enough to just receive like how you are saying. I always feel like a burden and am predominantly unable to receive from others. I'm terrified of hipotheticly, let's say someone I love feeling like I just want to use them. Guys, offer me help all the time, but I fight it. I think it has hurt their feelings. I'm going to try to be more open tword help. It's one of the most difficult things for me. I don't think it's hard because of my pride, I think it's difficult because I'm scared. It's so confusing.
@sandrainabo-bajon85013 ай бұрын
I needed this
@im_nobodysbaby19224 ай бұрын
Communication is key for all relationships to last.. don't expect everyone or anybody to know whats on your mind. It builds you your needs boundaries your worth.
@joanagain0072 ай бұрын
This was helpful thanks
@jasminasinanbegovic62255 ай бұрын
Pay attention to your childhood time, since everything stems from that time. If you were made feel guilty if you can't do something or you are not willing since it doesn't make sense for you, you will have problems with setting boundaries later. If you were rejected or unheard you will have problems with asking for help. Boundaries and help is what I learn now
@Camilliamahal7 ай бұрын
This is the why people are stuck in illusions. Energy is energy and we are whom we are. Even when we are female to be balanced means we also have masculine energy for we came from male and female. In different experiences and times we draw more so on other energies than others and other times we become more of one than the other but we are both. We don’t need to be taught what is “feminine” by society’s ideals nor another person, for we are all unique. Be you, by whom you were meant to be, not whom others tell you or want to box you in as.
@wayneONvolarte5 ай бұрын
🎉Thank Q for The Polishing and Comfort, The World Needs U🎉😊
@valdaniels407810 ай бұрын
Not co-dependency, but inter-dependency.
@happilydivorced32359 ай бұрын
I got that too. Co-dependency is a toxic trait.
@sugarsnap10007 ай бұрын
@@happilydivorced3235codependency isn’t toxic, but is labeled as such in todays world and since the 60/s 70/s. This label is now assigned to people who are together but don’t want to be and who don’t understand their role in a relationship.
@incrediblecruiseoflife75487 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying Inshallah at the end :)
@sneakystef10 ай бұрын
And what about men who reject all of these traits- they dont want to give so you can’t receive , they dont want you to be helpless so you have to help yourself, and they dont even want you to cook or clean because they can do it themselves. A lot of men are setting up women to be more masculine because they are rejecting traditional responsibility over their partner and dont want the stress. We blame female empowerment but there’s a lot of disempowerment from men
@ankitasingh96039 ай бұрын
Leave those men and find the one who provides and protects !! Trust that men like this exist and you just need to level up while choosing !!
@uroojnafees34369 ай бұрын
Find a real men
@minervarose76649 ай бұрын
Why would you want to be with a man who wants you to be helpless?
@happilydivorced32359 ай бұрын
@@minervarose7664Good question. It’s sounds like she had a man who believes in equality and didn’t know what to do with him.
@minervarose76649 ай бұрын
@@happilydivorced3235 i know, such a weird thing for a man to want. And i can't believe that there are people who would actually NOT want an adult man who can fend for themselves, instead actively seek out a man-child 😂😂
@michellevelez89507 ай бұрын
Sadia, I love your advice and videos. Who out there has similar videos for men?? I’m asking out of concern for a friend
@supermodeljaz68297 ай бұрын
So gorgeous and modest which makes her an even rarer jewel🌹
@stephaniegrace89939 ай бұрын
Agree! Sadia is beautiful inside out❤
@naimabourhzal Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your knowledge ❤😊 may Allah bless you more and more
@HafsaBintuAishaRA10 ай бұрын
Is she muslim?
@AmyElizabethFrith6 ай бұрын
I love this .
@heidiclayton87068 ай бұрын
Initiating is creating for yourself . It's self.satisfying. Waiting for others to give to you is a position of vulnerability and disempowerment
@user-rw3ns4ck3l8 ай бұрын
Lovely I really enjoyed your advice dayly I'm loving it ❤❤❤❤❤
@fayet88777 ай бұрын
Well said! 👏
@clauarden75128 ай бұрын
I agree with her so much. I love being feminine. I have never agreed with society telling women so many things I don’t agree with. And I feel like I am very happy with that and see a lot of friends trying to fight against this belief that are not happy at all. So true love this woman. I hope a lot more listen to this. Happy Thursday everyone 🥰💃
@meagon10207 ай бұрын
Masculine energy is giving and feminine energy is receiving. Unfortunately, a lot of women, myself included were/are stuck on the idea we need to learn how to do it all so we do not rely on a man. It is then taken to the extreme and makes you impenetrable when a man tries to give. We are human beings and human connection is crucial for us to thrive so let's stop pushing either other way and live in a better balance of masculine and feminine energy. :)
@tumiclaudine85498 ай бұрын
Fighting with this everyday I just want to love n be loved rightfully
@SprinkleHolyWaterMs5 ай бұрын
Something I struggle with in my femininity is being assertive. I tend to try to keep it classy and not stoop to someones level but I find that after the fact I feel frustrated because it feels like in a way I've allowed someone to step on my character and demean my power. How do you manage to remain graceful but also enforce boundaries?
@emilycorneil45329 ай бұрын
This was very helpful thank you ❤
@prettymind82309 ай бұрын
Instant subscriber 🙏🏽❤
@Trxggerz Жыл бұрын
Amazing. I wish more women would listen to videos like this and learn
@Prodigychild197710 ай бұрын
Good luck with that one 😅
@dreday777649 ай бұрын
They’re all damaged. Too late
@natashadickson48199 ай бұрын
@@dreday77764 Who damaged women? 😂
@dreday777649 ай бұрын
@natashadickson4819 they did themselves due to poor decision’s. Accountability 101
@thatsunfortunate27719 ай бұрын
I wish more men went off to war and never came back
@annetteallen51716 ай бұрын
I've been in survival mode for the last fifteen years kmt. It's how I've guarded my heart. Love listening to Sadia.
@hiraamir26808 ай бұрын
Finally.... someon spoke I totally agree with you
@monicacappetta70179 ай бұрын
Sadia is beautiful, intelligent and a wonderful psychologist.
@Apples2Bananas217 ай бұрын
Is it just me or does justpearlythings seem so masculine compared to Sadia?
@kenziecolby88487 ай бұрын
100%
@Kosiso-by1mc6 ай бұрын
I think they're both feminine, maybe just in their unique ways :)
@meghnachakravarty15806 ай бұрын
@@Kosiso-by1mcpearl ain’t feminine
@barbaramontagner6 ай бұрын
Pearl looks a bit like a man
@mariewestley46736 ай бұрын
I agree. Well I agree with some of the energy that comes from the likes of just pearly, it comes off as being rather misogynistic compared to this energy.
@JouslineSavraКүн бұрын
She is 100% correct in everything she says.
@frusia1239 ай бұрын
FFS who needs advice on how to be feminine? For centuries women have been told what to do and how to be, mainly to fit the expectations of the more dominant part of society. I want to have the right to be me. Whether you like it or not, whether you find it sexually appealing or not. It's not my problem, because I don't exist to please you.
@virginiawoolfe7 ай бұрын
We are all unique and what may work for one person may be destructive for another person. Balance is the key. And be aware of codependency.
@Matthew84734 ай бұрын
Your narrative is intricate; akin to a book that was intricate and compelling. "Your Body Your Temple" by Various Authors
@tumiclaudine85498 ай бұрын
I learned alot People are actually replacing peace with pleasure
@Samicro-zs2uz4 ай бұрын
Sadia you are so smart, beautiful and amazing
@Nataliegggggg7 ай бұрын
Be yourself ❤
@jasmineetienne33617 ай бұрын
Exactly what Sheraseven tell us
@DanielaRosenrot3 ай бұрын
The "prediction" thing (2:50) can also be a programm from childhood - People pleasing or also called fawning. If you do that to the wrong men (narcissists or emotionally crippled/unavailable men) it will make you feel lonely and sad. Not everyone deserves loving gestures and attention- thats where girls and women need healthy mentorship and maybe even trauma therapy.
@kayslay8889 ай бұрын
"unfortunately we are replacing peace with pleasure"
@SG-xb7de8 ай бұрын
Spoken like a true feminine!
@gigig23459 ай бұрын
Did she give an example of how to communicate needs without sounding needy or critical? Men tend to not like being criticized and do the opposite of what told.
@user-zi3vy3nq3r9 ай бұрын
Instead of “You never get me flowers” say “Babe I love flowers, I would love to receive some soon” hope that helps (i always communicate my needs and desires using “I” sentences)
@wyleecoyotee42523 ай бұрын
@@user-zi3vy3nq3r She should just get her own flowers
@MsSweetBrownSugar7 ай бұрын
I totally understand some of these concepts. However in today's world whenever women live by these ways, it's seen as being needy, people judge you because you set boundaries and communication has become an issue.
@lilemukule75108 ай бұрын
Spot on sadia on dating in Dubai. 😃❤🙏🌿
@CR-hq6un10 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤
@ojevweken-erhimu97026 ай бұрын
She's such a queen
@ebonyarne69308 ай бұрын
so to be feminine i gotta accept but when i do that im a gold digger and the reading minds things…. she literally just said being nurturing is knowing what someone needs before they tell me, (ie. without someone communicating to me whatever they need), so of course as women we expect our partner to know what we need without us having to say it… if we have to figure it out for men why shouldn’t or can’t they figure it out for us?
@LucyMorningstarArt7 ай бұрын
I wish I had heard Sadia in my early 20s
@ajohonly372110 ай бұрын
I grow up like her thinking that’s how all women were .
@naseemakhtar31607 ай бұрын
Not only is she is feminine she is also highly educated not because of her degree but she educates you with examples a really high value woman.
@russeldagama2990Ай бұрын
I believe the last bit of Advice you gave to women, applies to Men also!
@mamolewamodiba91596 ай бұрын
Communication is not easy but with practice we can have healthy relationships.