The Absurd INFJ Dark Sense Of Humor

[@PSYCH-O]

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[@infj-tguy6275]

A lack of common sense, the earth is flat, the earth is only 6000 years old, and we wonder even in 2021 why the aliens haven't popped in n started a dialog yet 🤣🤣🤣 Aliens: ok it's the year 2021, let's get this year started off right! Alien 2: hold up grebthax, these creatures STILL whole heartedly believe their own planet is flat, let's try for the year 2050, I mean we do live to be 10,000 years old after all Alien 3: by ozax's spear! They STILL think its actually flat?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 *falls over laughing*

[@Selene_Antonia]

Honestly, I have sensitivity to loud nois3s. Please, lower the intro song. Something more serene and peaceful. I have permanent nerve damage in my ear.

[@marizabarnes]

INFJ here. Preferred way of humor? SARCASM. Just love it. And I rarely regret something I say or do cause I’m always authentic and truthful. I DON’T PLAY GAMES, and what I say I mean, I’m all or nothing.

[@karendurant4981]

You a liar

[@marizabarnes]

@@karendurant4981 ok. I’m supposed to care?

[@vickie6662]

Exactly

[@martiseelye6443]

Same here 👍

[@isaiahcampbell488]

Really?!?!

[@alexandersupertramp6027]

Dark humor is all I know 😈. It's the best way to point out a truth while making people uneasy. 🤔 Maybe that's why I don't have friends.

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha nonsense! 😅

[@MyWatchIsEnded]

No you don't have friends because you're like me and you don't want to be my friend because I don't want to be your friend and the reason I don't want to be your friend is because I feel uneasy that you're pointing out the truth that I feel alone without a friend.

[@alexandersupertramp6027]

@@MyWatchIsEnded "Friends are a burden." "Trust thyself." - Darth Bane

[@michellee7465]

You’re just fine…. I relate! I make dark jokes a lot, laugh at the seemingly unlaughable, it’s the spice of life! 😃😂

[@Killakallie92]

Love it

[@SKy-by8ts]

Dark Humour is just like Food Not everyone gets it ...

[@jensen6600]

Love it 🤣

[@rusty6261]

😂 everyone should read this comment so as to get an idea of what we're talking about in the video 😂

[@Lady_Jewels]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@isaiahcampbell488]

An Irishman walks out of a bar...

[@J_Trask]

Dark humor is just like funding for cancer treatment. Not everyone gets it.

[@sharonjessen]

My jokes are mainly self-deprecating and only sometimes dark, especially about death. The funniest joke I think I've ever heard: my family, which included my two brothers and I, were at the funeral home after the death of my father. The gal from the funeral home was telling us different things we needed to know. She told us that dad's eyes (the cornea?) had been harvested to give to someone else so they could see better. Not more than five minutes later she asked what we wanted done with Dad's glasses. My brother piped up and said maybe they could give them to the person who got his eyes. I got a good laugh out of that. No one else did. The gal from the funeral home gave my brother a death stare! So funny! Was funny too 'cause my dad would have enjoyed the joke as well.

[@Varulvenarts]

Omg that’s hilarious 🤣🤣🤣

[@jessicamorrell4713]

Sorry, not sorry...that's some funny shit 🤣 😂 😆

[@jimmieraper5807]

That's perfect 👌

[@billfarley9167]

I can totally relate to that one. I remember speaking to a roomful of old people one day in a long term care home. As I was about the same age as the audience, I opened the conversation with this one. "What's 30 feet long and smells of urine? Senior citizens line dancing." There was a long awkward moment of silence and only one person laughed. (Probably an INFJ!) Yep, we seem to be the very few who can use dark humour and wonder why other people don't get it.

[@littlet-rex8839]

Somewhere the recipient is asking "these came with glasses,,,, right?"

[@RandyButternubs917]

I had to explain to my mom yesterday that my humor is like red wine. Dark, dry, and bitter. She doesn't think I'm funny at all. Lol

[@NoraTheCreator117]

- How is the child? - We got rid of it. - Why? - The cat was allergic to it...

[@venelprince6889]

Lol

[@martiseelye6443]

😂

[@HarbingerOfPie]

We ended up with 2 extra creatures living in the house and only one of them was on purpose...

[@Joshua-ej8rm]

Lmfao

[@thomasraywood679]

If someone says, "I don't mean to be mean," I quickly add, "So then it just comes natural."

[@karendurant4981]

Now that's funny

[@PSYCH-O]

👏

[@martiseelye6443]

😂😂😂

[@Msangeloflights]

Brilliant!

[@thomasraywood679]

The problem with this is that it's so direct, and many situations don't allow for that. This I handle by saying, no worries but 'it's kinda you' to say that.

[@genevievebelanger903]

I'm usually sorry each time I make a dark joke or when I laugh at one (I'm Canadian, Sorry) and I then feel guilty about it, but I still find it hilarious. I like the fact that dark humour is real, authentic and actually mean something.

[@karendurant4981]

I'm Canadian, I'm sorry, is actually hilarious

[@karendurant4981]

And when I express that it's hilarious I wonder if you've taken it well or not? And there's a good chance that you haven't taken it well at all.

[@maybee...]

Don't be sorry, it fades with age.

[@fredericmartin7148]

Yes, I agree with you 100%. Authentic, really means something. See my long comment under this video.

[@blondwiththewind2598]

Eclectic, ironic, & bitingly sharp intellectual humor is my typical version of "dark" humor. Add to the moment a sprinkling of unusual vocabulary AND the "right" audience: It can go well. Mis-read the audience, and things can go very badly....quickly. As with all things an INFJ considers important: KNOW YOUR AUDIENCE WHEN JOKING AROUND. .

[@vickie6662]

That's most definitely Key!

[@MultiTipsie]

You are absolutely right. Something i'm, sadly, not doing most of the time, with all consequences afterwards...

[@rnedlo9909]

I worked on the night shift, and we got the paper at lunch time, 3am. Not having enough time to read it by one person we split it up and anyone finding an interesting article would read it to the others. I came upon an article about a couple who the night before their wedding got into an argument and the woman ended up stabbing the man through the heart killing him. After the appropriate pause I added, "At least he found out what she was like before he married her."

[@Pabz2030]

Because we have probably the deepest innate understanding of the Human psyche we know exactly where and how hard to verbally and emotionally push someone to elicit any required reaction. As much as a lot of INFJ's would not wish to admit it we have the ability to be the ultimate emotional manipulators. Fortunately we are also extremely unlikely to want to do that for personal gain alone, but rather more than likely to improve harmony in the "tribe". Because ultimately that is our role.

[@jennylumbrera8284]

Truth lol yes we always get to the core

[@kuzaleader3976]

Well put!

[@PSYCH-O]

Wise words of wisdom, my friend! 🙌

[@sonjawalkerreactionscommen3501]

Exactly. People think I'm being selfish when maybe sometimes I am, but rarely. Most times I want what's best for both worlds.

[@jsmoove81519]

I’m glad dark humor is typical for my personality type. For a while I thought it was just me being terrible.

[@aisyahnahril]

Same, at night sometimes I'm thinking "Damn, why did I often make dark jokes like that? Is something wrong with me or something?"

[@ramseyabou-shaqra9527]

Love jimmy carr by any chance? Hes so crude and dark in his jokes..

[@jsmoove81519]

@@ramseyabou-shaqra9527 he’s alright. My favorite comedian is Bill Burr and now it makes complete sense.

[@PSYCH-O]

Hahah phew, you're off the hook! 😂

[@liserene167]

I’m constantly told how dark, twisted and savage my sense of humor is. Glad it’s not just me! LOL

[@reinettesteynberg8432]

Never mean any harm ... just the way we are

[@PSYCH-O]

Yup, exactly!

[@GroovyDean]

LOL. More times then I would like to admit. The sudden drop silence says it all, every time that happens. And the sudden feeling of being ignored and treated as inconsequential to the group always makes me regret of ever opening up my mouth cracking a joke for which I know no one gets.

[@ramseyabou-shaqra9527]

Lol..when my wife is in a mood..i always say ...who lit the fuse on your tampon..instantly makes her smile..

[@PSYCH-O]

Cheers! 😂

[@alexandersupertramp6027]

Bloody devils.

[@karendurant4981]

Man you're lucky it makes her smile!

[@jennylumbrera8284]

That's too much haha 😄

[@ramseyabou-shaqra9527]

@@jennylumbrera8284 i know its a bit over the top.but she goes quiet from how shocked she is from the reply..never use it on your boss tho..i got in shit for that..lol

[@rdactress]

My new boyfriend is an INFJ, and I am an INFP. He definitely has a dark sense of humor, but I love it, so it works. 😊

[@PSYCH-O]

That's awesome, not everyone is able to appreciate it 😅

[@joshy0369]

Sometimes I think I'm funny but I'm not but I think I am and being suddenly aware of that moment is funny in that moment

[@paulmiller4465]

I can spit out some dark wit at times. I also like taking the most serious of subjects and just exaggerating and making it absurd. But I could never be a comedian or if I was, I could never retell a joke in the same way. My constant inner dialogue along with me trying to perfect things - I would end up rewriting the setup constantly. I have this one. I frequently hear from people who make a decision, then a minute later are second-guessing themselves. Ha! If they were INFJ, they would be on their fourth or fifth guess in that amount of time! I have retyped this comment 3 times. You've been great folks, I'll be here most of the next 5 minutes!

[@katara9]

Dang, I really didn't expect this to be basically 90% accurate on how I think. I hadn't realized how much I use dark humor as a social tactic. And the fact that this video mentioned often searching for the irony/humor in what someone says, but withholding cautiously, when I hadn't even fully acknowledged that as a trait of mine.. Learning some things about myself here!

[@ray.deathray]

When I show people my weird, I don’t gradually read the temperature as much as I should. I just dive headfirst and throw out my strange comments. It’s hurtful when I get disapproving looks. It makes me want to go hide in a sewer and ruminate with regret. But I absolutely love it when I find someone who reacts like I’ve just surprised them with a gift. I’m happy to give more to the people who want more. I don’t often find people who I feel that comfortable with, but when I do, it’s the greatest thing. I don’t think I can even be happy if I don’t have that.

[@martiseelye6443]

Exactly!

[@agag6949]

Fortunately or unfortunately, I haven't found my tribe yet. Everyone I met are still on the process of deciphering my words actions intentions and trying to classify me as something from outer space. Small things that I don't even noticed are like a miracle or a catastrophe already to them. I was like hello.... I was really this alone. But hey hey, my mind is a wonderland. Plus added friends from Andromeda, life is never this more exciting. Still, am alone. But not lonely. 💕

[@emansalman6670]

I'm an INFJ from Egypt. The only thing I regret about is telling someone something about my personal life ( which I rarely do) . And actually I found the person I can really trust . He's my English teacher and as you said I don't want to lose him even after I finish high school.

[@craigbarrett2278]

Good feeling when you witness someone's realization of your wit...... And yes, I laugh internally at those who don't get good humor!😊

[@uncletony6210]

People have often told me that when they first met me they could never tell whether I was joking or being serious (it's all in the dry delivery...Heyoooo!)

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha this made me chuckle 😆

[@uncletony6210]

@@PSYCH-O I'm here all week.

[@Joshua-ej8rm]

Same here

[@Ojyh]

I made a joke about a friend's abortion. It was the kind of joke that was supposed to turn a heavy topic into something benign and fun, but it ended up being dark and upsetting for her. At this specific moment it didnt feel wrong to me because I was around close friends and I felt like they would understand. But I quickly realized it was a mistake.

[@luciferblue6503]

I had a really, really good friend that I absolutely loved. She got pregnant by this twerp ass dude and I used to give her a hard time about it. Well, one day as I was leaving I looked at her and tried to say “well I hope you have an abortion!” which was absolutely my sense of humor, I said “I hope you have a miscarriage” which was *not* the same thing, and wasn’t funny at all. It made me look bitter and jealous in the most toxic way possible. She never spoke to me again, 20 years ago, and I can’t even blame her.

[@sspencer4036]

What tipped you off? 😂😂😂 I'm crying I'm laughing so much ❤️

[@lifeinvader2039]

Haha 😂😂😂 that’s quite funny. I know your pain.

[@nancybrownlee6518]

Ha! My (obviously) bad- and I'm married to a Scot! I'm also an editor- and I see/hear enough mispronunciation on the 'tube to send me screaming into the dark. Thank you for your tolerance.

[@PSYCH-O]

🙏

[@micheller6804]

After my father died, an acquaintance asked where he was, meaning which cemetery. She didn't realize he'd been cremated. I told her he was in a dustbuster, because he fell over. 💨☠️

[@martiseelye6443]

LOL

[@anne-louisegoldie]

Oh dear, this is me. Dark, unfiltered humour at the most inopportune of times. Working on it ! 😊xx

[@Yukison22]

When we talk about the weather and it's cold, I love to say, "Just like my heart"

[@rachelgreensmith-annino5735]

I made a joke about microwaving babies to the wrong crowd and they all looked at me like I did the very thing in front of them. Obviously, they didn't know me well enough. If they did, they would know it was a joke and I would never want to hurt anyone. Well, learned my lesson to never tell a dark joke to anyone in Maine.

[@MultiTipsie]

Haha! Jokes about babies are not taken lightly no! Once a colleague of mine was talking about his experiences with different kinds of babyoil. I then told then that chinese babyoil is the best because they derive it from really fresh newborn babies which is not allowed here in the western countries. Here they use only dead born babies to make oil from. That's more sticky to the skin. They really thought i was serious! That i had an ultimate screwed mind and should be taken to a psychiatric hospital ! I even said it in a bit funny way but still they thought i meant it.

[@rodfrancis9160]

Yes, I remember cracking a joke at work about how babies can be an alternative to turkey at Christmas...and there was an uncomfortable silence for a few seconds..😆

[@billfarley9167]

For sure I'm an INFJ cuz I LOL when I read it.

[@lebister]

ok...dark humor is often funny. but that is pure evil

[@editorjeannie2318]

My friends say “Dark side jeannie” to snap me out of it!

[@liss76kat03]

When I say something funny, people either look at me like I’m crazy and They’re in shock or they laugh. It’s either or. Lol

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha! 😂

[@gnarthdarkanen7464]

Never bothered with the personality test... BUT quite often I'll deliver a good punchline and a majority of the people around start laughing, even complete strangers, and there's always that one or two who will smirk and retort, "OH... you're definitely going to Hell for that one." AND I quickly quip right back, "AND I'm taking the whole room with me for laughing... including you." ;o)

[@JoeMotionVideos82]

I've had several jokes told to the wrong person or time, warrant a dirty look more than once. I have made it a daily goal to make at least one person laugh, my day feels more complete when I do.

[@fredericmartin7148]

First of all, Mr. Psych-O, humor consists of one of only two things. Humor is either genuine rejoicing in the calamity of OTHER people, or it is feigned rejoicing in your OWN calamity. When we INFJs 'rejoice' in our own calamity, it is not light-hearted, as you say, but it is a very bitter thing, in the same vein as the writings of Ambrose Bierce, also known as Bitter Bierce, the 19th century author of The Devil's Dictionary, not an occult book, but a savagely satirical dictionary with such definitions as: lawyer -- one skilled at circumventing the law. We INFJs, by virtue of being less than half a percent of the general population, are BORN into lifelong calamity, automatically rejected by the world of 'normal' people, subject to rejection and ridicule and oppression in every area of life: socially, professionally, and financially, so we strike back, as best we can, with our unique brand of 'humor,' and WE MEAN EVERY WORD OF IT!!

[@johnkeller5163]

Anthony Jeselnik is the epitome of dark, ingenious humor! His motto when he finished his television show was "Read a book!". He is most likely INFJ and incredibly funny.

[@juliandixon891]

I relate to this way more than I thought I would.

[@PSYCH-O]

Well we're glad you watched then haha! Thank you for the feedback 🙌

[@meepmeep545]

at my stage in life, i do my best to save the folks around me from my inner thoughts. but sometimes it leaks out, and they say "hey, that was pretty funny, you should joke more often". they always regret it.

[@shelteredsparrow2736]

I am an INFJ. I write Christian humor. I do have to be careful to not let get too dark. I do use my humor in a lot of ways. I have had more than one person say “I don’t know what it is about you but when I am upset about something you get me laughing about it. I used it when my brother in law was wrong about something that he did not see he needed growth on. I do balance this out when I can…not being a nag but finding other ways to confront when I can. Most people believe I am a really quiet person. Others see me as the life of the party. It depends on how comfortable I am with other people seeing my humor. I am the queen of self deprecating humor.

[@cosmicbrambleclawv2]

This is me to a T my self deprecating humor is a big hit or miss xD I've had times where one bunch of friends die laughing and then the next time I'm alone with another group that heard the joke they ask if Im ok cause that was pretty dark

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha thats the worst!

[@aaronmahony3083]

I’m still laughing at they know where and when to drop dark one!!!

[@harryboyes2812]

I tend to ask men if they're pregnant, which usually lightens the mood. Yes, I do fire that at myself as well; for example, last year on Boxing Day I got pretty sick so I said to my sister, "You think maybe I'm pregnant?" She got the joke. Mind you, the really dark side of my gallows banter has scared people. One job I had was so bad the only way I could cope with it was lots of bad jokes about Dexter. And by that I mean they were to the effect that I am Dexter. Some people actually thought I was serious, though one would think that adding I was also an alien mutant vampire to the mix would have made it obvious that I didn't mean to be taken seriously. Fools.

[@infj-tguy6275]

Ruthless, bro if I'm ruthless I'll go from doin my best at avoiding hurting someone's feelings to outright trying to rip out their heart with every word, I'm a nice guy yeah but piss me off enough n my mouth turns into trinoble 2, you think an atomic bomb is radioactive? Try really pissin me off n I'll show ya toxic alright

[@proudmoon3]

"Normal" people don't get my dark sense of humor--they look at me like I have two heads--so because of that and the fact I hate to hurt anyone's feelings I've learned to keep my jokes to myself nine times out of ten...which probably looks strange to anyone who might catch me smiling and chuckling to myself for no apparent reason. When I make a self-deprecating or sarcastic joke, the fact that I joke with a straight face will often cause people to chuckle nervously, unsure whether I am being serious or whether laughing would offend me.

[@johannaknepper411]

I do it a lot. Especially when it gets to seriously. The most people think that I want the conversation to end or open up another topic, but that's not. Sometimes it's the only way for myself to deal with the situation. Some people take that to seriously, and that changes the way they are thinking about me.

[@rosemorris7912]

I've often asked someone who p*ssed in their Cheerios. The only time I've regretted shooting off my smart mouth was when I was undergoing a surgical procedure, during which I was only mildly sedated, and I referred to the surgeon as the mentor of the Marquis de Sade because the sedation didn't work right. He really didn't appreciate it.

[@jazzkat6721]

I'm never serious. Unless I'm being serious.

[@thomasraywood679]

When someone I know sneezes, I say bless you. If they dare have the nerve to sneeze AGAIN after just being blessed, I say, "I said!"

[@gnarthdarkanen7464]

As a youth, I practiced at every opportunity my allergies would give me until I became very proficient at shouting obscenities with a sneeze... Everybody can tell it's a sneeze, but the similarly obvious vocalizations get PRICELESS reactions... ;o)

[@thomasraywood679]

@@gnarthdarkanen7464 LOL, I'm not sure which is darker, that or not telling us which obscenities.

[@gnarthdarkanen7464]

@@thomasraywood679 I've gotten "skilled" enough to be able to shout any of them... haha... I even occasionally make up new ones just to keep people guessing whether or not I actually even shouted something intelligible... It's rather amusing to be able to "hijack" your own sneezing where so many don't seem able to do it. ;o)

[@thomasraywood679]

@@gnarthdarkanen7464 thh-thhh-kue very much

[@gnarthdarkanen7464]

@@thomasraywood679 Always welcome... It's always a pleasure to disturb an internet stranger! ;o)

[@PositiveVibesOnly37]

I'm more of a sarcastic INFJ, although I do enjoy dark humor at times. I just want to know how this channel can describe me so well. Almost always spot on when it comes to my personality.

[@jeanross7430]

Relating truly awful situations with with seeing the funny side of it later is pretty normal for me and mental door slams happen, I previously thought it was only me doing this.

[@jewely9757]

I wondered where it came from! It surprises people (sometimes even me) but can create big laughs. However, never vulgar (poop jokes, etc)

[@EliasGraves]

I’ve had to learn through the years that I can only share my real sense of humor with a few people. What, to me, is a simple observation of irony or juxtaposition, an innocent bystander may perceive as being truly bizarre or taboo. In most cases, the actual subject matter isn’t relevant to my observation of how two apparently dissimilar situations are actually more closely related than you think.

[@kathyclancy551]

There is a cartoon of a kid opening a box for the Kurt Cobain edition of the Rock Band game. Inside the box is a rifle instead of a guitar. No matter how many times I see it, I laugh. The look on the character's face is hysterical.

[@quinni24]

Yep. That’s me. I have told people to go shit in their hats, stuff a sock in it, as well as ask who pissed in their Cheerios….or my favorite that rolled out of my mouth before the brain filters caught it, “what are you going to do, sit on me?”I also use it as a defense mechanism. And my jokes have gone over like a fart in church many times.

[@rodrummel3979]

One time...I acted like I was depressed for days, in order to lead up to the joke/prank. Then, when I knew people were going to be around and passing by where I was on the farm, I strung myself up with rope around my waist and upper body beneath my coat so it looked as though the rope was just around my neck as I dangled from a tree limb. Should have heard the screams. I couldn't stop from laughing after that 🤣🤣🤣

[@justjjd8343]

I always noticed people get offended by my jokes. But many laugh so much😅😁

[@Midnightblue45]

Only thing is that I wouldn’t make any about any tragedy’s that stuff is not funny one bit😢

[@jennyforsberg3661]

Since we know and understand so much about how awful this world can be sometimes, I think humor is one of the gifts to balance us. It would be unbarable to take this knowing without a sense of humor and gratitude, we would probably just sit and panic/cry 24-7 and nothing would get solved or better.

[@emmaransford]

I can relate to all of the above topics mentioned. I'm aware of how toxic I have become over the years. I enjoy 😉 my dark cutting edge 🤪sense of humour. I think 🤔 it's born from my restless 😬incurable curiosity 😅. I have developed quite sadistic humour 😄 through emotional trauma 😢. Because, I over analyse everything and everyone, I tend to read 📚more into a regular conversational topic and then procrastinate for giving off the impression that, I'm more interested than I really am but get some enjoyment from the discomfort of being misconstrued. 👿

[@karendurant4981]

Uh-oh

[@sunflowerpower642]

This behavior is as exhausting as what you claim exhausting from others. You want the ability to go up and down whenever you want and everyone else can stay the same

[@altarwork]

I started laughing so many times during this video. Never really realized how people probably see my humor and I’m still laughing every time I think about it. People must be like “what the heck???” All the time around me haha

[@kim3982]

Omg 😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤦‍♀️💯 turth for most all this like 2 to the last one bro I was dead when u gave the example you got ur period 😂 🤣 💀 I say that alot 😂😂💯 an the last one here for ppl we do be on a better understanding of us turth be told is us for sure at the least me however I do draw line dmfor the dark humor 😂 although I'm not sure what pll consider dark or ceigy humor lmfao but for the nut shell im more sarcastic alot it hard for ppl to get that they think I like being treat bad or rough or an such like ill ish like so yeha we do kind throw ish out this is very amazing to see jn a video cuz relly never seen these as infj personality more my own tho so I enjoyed to see that now 1 I can see im me 🤣😅🤦‍♀️💯🤦‍♀️🤷‍♀️😅😂😂🤣 im dead 🤣😂💯 an 2 ppl can see us like we not so bad 😅🤔😂🤦‍♀️ wait for the most part 😂 thx for sure !

[@remhk6672]

Had this coworker who was a malignant narcissist(infjs are narc magnets) come into work one day complaining he accidentally ingested motor oil while working on his car. I made a reference to another coworker that he attempted suicide but failed and that god refused to allow him to pass those pearly white gates. So hes here with us at work today. The idiot felt offended but had no problem randomly asking me "have you ever been stuffed inside the trunk of a car?"🤦‍♂️🤷‍♂️

[@bobbyhamiltoniii4578]

Took the personality test, found out I have an infj personality type. I absolutely hate how infj videos seem to, "talk-up", the personality. It comes off as if the infj is full of themselves. I'm not walking through life stroking my own ego, I have hard stances on personal beliefs, and certainty in my decision making. But, any bit of outside perspective is a welcomed addition to my limited perception. Everyone has wisdom to share, and the best thing you could do is shut up and listen to it.

[@cognitivedissident4615]

I've often described my sense of humor as absurd. My theory is that INFJs thirst for absurdity in their humor because it gives them a reprieve from their otherwise perpetual vision quest for the meaningful, the profound, the sacred and their need to grasp "the heart of the matter", which they take very seriously. Like an alchemist mixing together multiple free-floating perspectives and distilling them down in order to arrive at the thing in it's quintessential form. The INFJ then seeks to (dis)solve the focus of their attention by interrogating it for answers and extracting out its secrets with the goal of transmuting the object into gold for the benefit of all. Or they could just intentionally say something that makes no sense and is devoid of all context just for their own personal yuks. It doesn't matter if no one else gets it, that's what makes it funny.... there's nothing to get, no connection to be made to reveal the punchline, because there isn't one. In the rare occasion that someone happens to laugh at your solipsistic punctuated disequalibriums of anti-wit then you've probably made a friend for life. An INFJs humor may also have to do with their desire for harmony in their surroundings. They sometimes feel provoked to upset this harmony but only by their own initiative. This allows the INFJ to break up the comfort of complacency and conformity but in a managed and disinterested way, possibly shocking their audience momentarily then quickly maneuvering them back to a state of mutual harmonic resonance.

[@isaiahcampbell488]

You absolutely hit the nail on the head. Sometimes I want to laugh at the absurdity of echidnas or recall some weirdly applicable British humor, maybe I don't want to talk about life events or the millionth theory on how everything in the world is conceptually connected.

[@legendaryclarity]

I like your profile name.

[@bulkathos154]

Anytime something negative happens or someone is upset by something I say “ don’t worry, one day we will all be dead and it won’t be our problem any more” :)

[@epicureaneternity]

dark humor is like a kid with cancer. it never gets old

[@gandfgandf5826]

I love a good awkward silence.

[@jamielake-boyd3600]

I'd beat someone with a selfie stick. Don't. Bring a selfie stick to a party I'm at.

[@RichterScale-oz5pp]

I like how none of the reasons given were about the dark sense of humor being dark, for the sake of being dark. Shown more as a byproduct of other factors. This is a good video. Watch this one

[@AnaAna-vg4ne]

I love this video! Makes me feel less weird. Maybe. Anyways, yes... usually i have to add "it's a joke"... Blank stares all around, but hey,...it's funny to me 🙃

[@braytonhougland8505]

Can't even count how many dead baby jokes I still remember from high-school. Good old dark humor

[@rodfrancis9160]

yes, I love babies, but I couldn't eat a whole one.

[@sabina_ustaz]

Have made thousand times. Have never regretted.

[@davidcook680]

My humor is dark and morbid really. I will always rip on myself alot. I know sometimes make a joke. See the looks on people's face. Like that's to far. I just laugh and say lighten up lol. I know I nitpick too. I will tell somebody their doing something the wrong way. They are like it still gets done. I'm like that isn't the point. Do it properly. Which comes across like a asshole. I try to ignore it. Really difficult.

[@lifeinvader2039]

Oh many times. I made a very dark suicide joke in university class on the day after my close friend died. Couple people laughed and others checked on me.

[@EE-iw3fy]

Have I ever regretted a joke? I regret my whole existance...

[@christinangel69]

Good one..spot on but I know I have a touch of sigma so manage to crack.the jokes that make people laugh and hopefully not cringe.

[@PSYCH-O]

Haha a fine balance 👌

[@sonjawalkerreactionscommen3501]

I have made people laugh, and this is probably quite a common joke among several different personality types, but a guy came to check my radiators, as they were making loud banging noise when starting up. He turns the thermostat up to start up the radiators, gently ticks as normal, almost as if nothing had happened. So, with a heavy heart I said, "Of course now it doesn't do it now that your here." He snickered. and said, "Well let me just take a look to be sure there's nothing wrong inside."

[@sonjawalkerreactionscommen3501]

This didn't really even need a joke behind it, but my fridge was also making weird noises, so I had a different guy come to take a look. He took the whole thing apart, but upon putting everything back together and packing his things up, I search my fridge later for something to eat, only to find the plyers he'd used in my freezer! I died! It made my mom laugh for sure!

[@alenmakcolic3468]

Wow. This is true!

[@KJames442]

Hi, INFJ here - PLEASE DO NOT JUDGE ME lol it was a joke I swear and I didn’t think it was that bad but you could’ve heard a pin drop when I said lmao anywho… here goes So I was at dinner with my husbands cousin and his boyfriend, we were discussing supporting our children through almost anything and someone said short of necrophilia of course and like duh necrophilia was outlandish so in my attempt to take it further in what I thought was a safe space lmao I said “well it depends, did he kill them or not?” Everyone went silent, then my husband side hugged and worryingly shushed me 😭

[@kmac2280]

Omg I love Daniel Tosh!!! 😂

[@ythatesfacts]

I did make a dark joke to my parents and yeah it turned into a judgmental lecture.

[@ericstough6513]

I don't regret my dark humor. If I can face my horrors and still make light of them And it pisses someone off that's on them. It's not that I don't sympathize but I won't be projected at for being a damned survivor...

[@drewford3205]

Great video

[@PSYCH-O]

Thank you! 😊

[@joshyxxp9282]

Knows when and where to drop a dark one!

[@dixbowman3452]

So it's something behind this!!!!

[@tlong2485]

Where would I even be without sarcasm and dark humor? Could I even survive? 🤔🙄😅

[@katieandnick4113]

My six year old has found my weak spot when it comes to humor; fart jokes.

[@tfalbright]

I feel like this was describing the INTP personality

[@CaptainJeanLucPicard]

I have literally asked my ex husband "is it your time of the month?"

[@hugmc]

Best advice for INFJ don’t try humour just keep smiling and don’t tell jokes as a matter off fact just don’t speak 😂🤷‍♂️

[@PSYCH-O]

Lol sometimes they truly are better off going with that route unfortunately 😆

[@gideonmele1556]

Some call it a coping mechanism with the harshities of life I call it growing up on Britcoms and South Park

[@rowan5335]

I may be an infj but my whole family has a dark sense of humor. It has to do with our Native American and Jewish background so we all get the dark jokes. But I do get to mess with my in-laws LOL. One day my fil look at my tall son and said isn't your dad over 6 ft? And I said no he's Six Feet Under. The looks on their faces. I could not stop laughing. And then I said I wish my dad was here because this would kill him and I realized what I said and had to run to my room to laugh for a long time. My family totally got it LOL

[@Msangeloflights]

😂😂😂

[@Hardhatreptiles95]

Regret no I just keep away from them.

[@PSYCH-O]

Touché! 👋

[@Tomken8d2]

...then the three bears came home, ripped Goldilocks to shreds and devoured her. The End

[@sonjawalkerreactionscommen3501]

I can just see the moment when they come up the stairs. I think it would go something like this: The 3 bears then enter the bedroom. When they find her in Baby Bear's bed, Papa Bear says, "You ate our porridge you filthy, disgusting human! Guess what's on the dinner table tonight folks? A wonderful, delightful, tasty human!

[@janiscaswell19]

I am always inevnantly pissing my boss off....or am I ?

[@adonisjags]

My cousin was born...I uploaded a pic of her in my WhatsApp saying" wow a lovely slave has been born" (it's a girl) I really didn't mean it but yeah my aunt and mom wasn't happy about it😅

[@jacobflemings-ib6ei]

i am an IFNJ, and i can tell you that we can have a dark sense of humor.

[@joshuabernardo4305]

Im an INFJ and I listen to Cumtown for laughs. Highly recommend.

[@AudioRevelation144Hz]

Absolutely no regrets not my problem people are uptight 😜🙊😂🤣